IN recent times, I was invited to speak with the teenagers at a Methodist Church in Lagos and a girl asked me why even a teenager could get addicted sex! My response was as follows:
- Lack of intentional parenting.
- Lack of sex education
- Childhood Abuse
- Physical neglect and trauma
- Satanic manipulation
- Spiritual attacks and more!
I joyfully gave each of the girls, a copy of one of my new books- “Wisdom for Girls,” to reset their confused and possibly distorted souls!
A few days later, a music artiste, Temmie Ovwasa whom I had always suspected was reacting to a childhood trauma with her sexual orientation and the mournful spirit she exudes told the world she was abused by her stepfather between the ages of 11-17 and her mother refused to believe her. Asides being a lesbian, she wears a sorrowful look and speaks against God! Her life was stolen from her before her mother’s very eyes and her mother chooses not to believe her! How cruel!!! Barely 48 hours after her story went viral, another story of minors of a prominent school engaging in a sex orgy when they went for a competition in Dubai last month rented the air and the video of the evil act has since gone viral! And as usual, the girl-child is the one bearing the brunt!
Before we blame the school for negligence and irresponsibility- leaving minors alone in a hotel room outside the country, what type of parent allows a 10-year-old go for a competition or excursion outside the country without accompanying the child? How can any mother sleep well knowing her baby is with strangers outside the country??? What type of child would be so daring as to leave her hotel room and go to another room 7 floors away from hers and go and engage in sex? What type of parent raised such a child? What spirit is she possessed with? Which spirit is controlling her life because she’s certainly not herself? I have never in my life heard of any child described contemptuously as the little girl was described on social media! Her picture has since gone viral and people are not sparing her parents especially her mother! A lot of adults i must say with with questionable characters who watched the video said she wasn’t raped as her mother cried that she in fact was the one who was harassing the boy or boys she was engaging in sex with and with different styles. It was later discovered that she has a social media account where she posts erotic dances she records in her home and tells you to download for daily madness and cringe and has gathered over 24,000 likes at that age! Can you imagine how creative and intelligent this girl really is and how best she could have channeled her energy if her parents had intentionally raised her in godliness? But how can a 10-year-old be talking about entertaining you with madness and cringe? Isn’t this also as a result of her exposure on her smartphone? Do some parents think at all? Even if she needs a smart gadget for school work, can’t she be given an iPad or tablet that’s child-friendly?
Believe me, with the permissiveness of today’s parents, we might end up having more “yahoo boys” and porn stars than professors, scientists, lawyers and engineers in future! Yes! This is because those who are to birth the future generation are daily being messed up by those who brought them to the world who can’t ensure they follow the right path! But can they even raise their children in godliness when they have no iota of godliness in them? I’m talking about parents who would watch BBN and idolize the house mates and unconsciously carve a role model out of them for their children who are listening, parents who would wear indecent clothing and dance to crazy, indecent lyrics which turn the female to sexual objects! Or parents who themselves are serial adulterers oozing the spirit of lust and transmitting same to their offsprings…I could go on and on!
The thought that the children could engage in such an act is so heartbreaking and painful because they certainly don’t know what they’ve been doing! I would say the devil stole their souls out of their parents’ negligence!!! My business here at Girls Club is the girl hoping someone else is looking out for the boys and i must say someone perhaps in the family must have abused her at a very young age and set her on the ruinous path that she is. Indeed a lot of parents are responsible for their children’s sexual immorality and pervasiveness and a lot of youth aren’t happy they’re addicted to sex either and have to wear their hearts and body out!
To be continued!
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FINAL WORD
Chastity does not belong to the past. It saves you a lot of trouble, preserves your beautiful destiny and stands you out from the crowd. You are better off not engaging in pre-marital and extra-marital sex. Stay chaste!
Evangelist Temilolu O. Okeowo is the founder and Head girl of The Girls Apostolic Ministry of All Nations, an apostolic ministry for girls in their teens and twenties, and Girls Club of Nigeria, an NGO for Nigerian girls aimed at influencing a positive change. She published her debut-book for girls – THE BEAUTY OF LIFE – as an undergraduate and has other books and publications. She was called to the Nigerian Bar in 2003 and is a Certified Forensics Examiner.