Category: Celebrity

  • Marriage beckons for Jennifer Obayuwana

    Marriage beckons for Jennifer Obayuwana

    When the daughter of Polo Luxury CEO, Jennifer Obayuwana, flashed her engagement ring and announced her planned trip down the aisle with Peter Salah, not a few thought it was not expedient to offer congratulatory messages. Although Salah is the CEO of Tilt Group, some doubting Thomases believe he is only interested in Jennifer because of her immense wealth and position as the Executive Director of Polo Avenue.

    But to Jennifer’s credit, she has turned deaf ears to the negative observations that have trailed her engagement and has been enjoying her relationship. And when she celebrated her birthday a few days ago, her man spared no expense, spoiling her silly and making her feel special on her special day.

    The Polo director even posted a photo of how her man woke her up to wash her legs with a bottle of champagne, launching her into a special day. The duo had a pleasurable time in Dubai and didn’t hesitate to take to the social media to tell the world that they are going steady.

    The big news is that the two will be walking down the aisle  despite all odds  on November 7, 2015.

  • Babajide Coker loses dad

    Wealth, they say, is no shield against death. Hence the rich often experience their own share of grief. This bitter nugget proved to be true as death recently visited the household of popular Lagos businessman and socialite, Babajide Coker.

    Babajide recently lost his father, Chief Henry Theodore Okeade Coker, a Senior Advocate of Nigeria (SAN). Although Babajide has tried to maintain a manly stance by keeping his grief in check, he was overwhelmed by the incident as he shook in grief and struggled in vain to fight back tears.

    Babajide is not just a respected businessman; he is also a crowd puller. We gathered that the second week in June has been tentatively picked for a befitting burial for the man who was an achiever in every sense of the word. No wonder his friends and professional colleagues are warming up for the burial ceremony. They include the likes of Alhaji Aliko Dangote, Femi Otedola, Tunde Folawiyo, Liyel Imoke, Kola Abiola, Dejare Rewane Adegbenro, Gbenga Oyebode and Oba Otudeko, to mention a few.

    Already, the Cokers’ residence has become a beehive of activities as everyone tries to ensure that everything is in place for the D-day.

  • Timipre Wolo adds another feather

    Timipre Wolo adds another feather

    Barrister Timipre Wolo has raised the bar for women across the continent as she is constantly breaking new grounds. Even on the basis of her calling, Wolo is one woman who has distinguished herself from the crowd. That probably explains why the hard working woman has been honoured with the African Woman of Worth Award by the African Women in Leadership Organisation (AWLO).

    Wolo’s latest accomplishment came shortly after she received a ‘Letter of Recognition’ and conferment of the ‘Y-CAEV Ambassador of Nigeria’ on her by the Commonwealth Youth Council.

    Awolo courts courage and has adopted confidence as pet name. Like a fierce warrior charging for victory, she constantly guns for success and seems to achieve her aim at every turn. She is a self-assured character who wants more from life and is willing to give her dreams all the push.

    A long time ago, she shredded the robe of shyness that has held most women down, and wore the garb of bravery in order to make proper use of every opportunity that comes her way.

  • Pastor Odukoya’s wife spreads tentacle

    Pastor Odukoya’s wife spreads tentacle

    When Pastor Taiwo Odukoya of the Fountain of Life Bible Church lost his wife, Bimbo Odukoya, in a plane crash that occurred in 2005, a void was left in his heart and the church. Five years later, the respected clergyman found love again in the arms of South African beauty, Nomthi, and wasted no time in marrying her.

    Pastor Nomthi has bloomed as a virtuous wife. An educationist and life coach, who holds a master’s degree in Global Human Resource Management, she has decided to give back to the society in the best way she can.

    She is set to launch a foundation for Kids. Known as FUNDAWAZI, the non-governmental organisation will be carrying out research on issues affecting children’s social, emotional and physical well being.

    Nomthi, a pastor of The Fountain of Life Church, Lagos, is blessed with the ability to impact her large congregation and women around the world with messages that inspire hope. Her foundation will also publish and disseminate books, materials and tools that will serve as conversation starters for children and adults on difficult topics.

    FUNDAWAZI will also organise fora that will bring stake holders together to address critical issues affecting children.

  • Different strokes for Omosede Igbinedion, Alvan Akenzua

    Different strokes for Omosede Igbinedion, Alvan Akenzua

    It is no longer news that the marriage between Prince Alvan Akenzua, a nephew of the Oba of Benin, and Omosede Igbinedion, one of the daughters of the Esama of Benin, Chief Gabriel Igbinedion, has hit the rocks. The two have gone their separate ways and would wish the memories of their short-lived union evaporate from the minds of those who remember the millions that went into the ceremony.

    Pretty Omosede, who was recently elected a member of the House of Representatives, is currently over the moon. To complement her cheerful mood, she staged an elaborate birthday party where top politicians like Governor Ayo Fayose and Hon. Femi Gbajabiamila honoured her with their presence. She has become regular on the social radar, gracing A-list parties and hanging out with elites.

    Although her estranged husband, Alvan Akenzua, is not totally off the social radar, he has adopted a low profile, allowing Omosede to take all the shine. Akenzua, the son of the Enogie of Obayanto, HRH Uyiekpen Akenzua, studied Microbiology at the Edo State University, while his estranged wife studied in an Ivy League institution abroad.

    It is believed that their wedding crumbled because the ‘ancestors’, as epitomised by the Oba of Benin, never gave their blessings as required by Benin tradition. Their union, however, produced a son.

  • Pastor Wale Adefarasin’s son hooked

    Pastor Wale Adefarasin’s son hooked

    The home of the Adefarasin’s was a haven of joy last Saturday as wedding bells rang and merriment filled the air. Emmanuel Ademola Adefarasin, son of Pastor Wale Adefarasin, elder brother of popular Lagos pastor, Paul Adefarasin, got married to his sweetheart, Yewande Adeosu, over the weekend.

    Emmanuel hails from a family that wields immense social and financial influence while Yewande is the daughter of a former Minister of Transport, Chief Oluwole Adeosun. On May 23, at the Imperial, Lekki, Lagos, the lovebirds got married in the traditional way. It was a colourful and sophisticated occasion that screamed opulence.

    The grand moment witnessed the presence of top celebrities and political bigwigs, including Vice President Yemi Osinbajo, Governor Abiola Ajimobi and Chief Dele Momodu, among others.

  • Why I don’t socialise as much as the average Nigerian woman

    Why I don’t socialise as much as the average Nigerian woman

    Mrs. Boma Ozobia (OON) is a scion of the Nembe Kingdom and one of the leading corporate lawyers in the country. She is a partner in the law firm, Sterling Partnership, and the first black and female president of the Commonwealth Lawyers Association (CLA). Ozobia is also a former president of the Association of Women Solicitors in England and Wales. She has authored books and is engaged in mentoring young ladies aspiring to climb the corporate ladder. She spoke to JOHN AUSTIN UNACHUKWU and OKORIE UGURU on her life, career and growing up. 

    With your background as a former President of the Commonwealth Lawyers Association (CLA), I had a preconceived opinion that I was coming to meet a no-nonsense woman. But you seem to be different from that.

    It is different because I don’t see why you cannot enjoy what you are doing. You can be serious minded and productive in what you are doing without being unfriendly and without doing what I commonly do here because people think they have to fit into a box in order to be in a position. I believe that my works speak for me and my achievements speak for themselves.

    Beyond that, I am not different from the next person. We are all human beings. We breathe the same air and drink the same water. We want the same things, which are security for the family, individual happiness and the right to pursue our dreams.

    I am me, but I have been told that I am easy to get on with. It certainly has its advantages because I make friends easily across the board. It is not just about opening doors. I like people and respect them for who they are, regardless of whether it opens the door or not. It is not based on whether I want something from anybody. It is purely because I am interested in people, I want to know them, I want to help if I can. I think that is what comes first.

    How did your journey start in the legal profession?

    Interestingly, it has turned full circle because I left Nigeria primarily to go and study in England for Masters in Law but did not return because at that time, we were under a military dictatorship. I could not conceive myself living under such an autocratic rule. As citizens, we had little or no rights. The men in uniform were superior beings and I had had cause to run into them in the university and so on. I know this was not the place I, as a young person, could survive in because I would either have to take the gun from somebody and shoot him or he would have to shoot me. But I refuse to be a lesser Nigerian because you are in uniform. So, that was why my focus was not on coming home to live under that type of condition. Incidentally, we have a former military ruler coming in now as a reformed democrat. So, it has come full circle.

    You stayed back in the UK not only practising law but engaging in activism under the aegis of female lawyers for England and the Wales…

    Indeed, it was that background that made me develop an interest in human rights and rule of law, which is what the Commonwealth Lawyers Association is about. It is a group of lawyers across the 54 countries and territories coming together over 50 years ago. The rule of law is what underpins the civilization that we know as human beings. The absence of rule of law in my own country was the driver in taking decisions about what I got involved in. The absence of human rights, the arbitrariness of living under military dictatorship drove my interest and participation in those activities which didn’t and still does not earn me money. But it gives me an opportunity to make a difference and to give back, because when you impact positively on your society, it is satisfying in itself. So that was what took me along that pathway.

    At a time you became the chairperson of female lawyers in Britain and the Wales…

    As a woman, I face the same challenges that every woman who happens to have a career or a job faces. She leaves her home in order to make ends meet. So it is with the market woman that goes into Balogun Market to sell pepper and tomatoes. So, being in England did not make these challenges any different. I saw that there was an association of women solicitors, looking after the interests of women in the profession and trying to resolve the challenges female solicitors were facing. You will be surprised to hear that people are not all that different from Nigeria in that sense. In fact, in some ways, Nigeria is ahead. So, women were admitted to practice as solicitors in England less than 100 years ago. It took an act of parliament to make that happen. Having got the right to do so, it took a lot of time to get the men in the profession to accept us. Even when they accepted us, we were not given the opportunity to work at the same level, neither were we given the same pay.

    Even in England?

    Yes, up till date. So, at the time I became the chairwoman of the association, remember this is an association that looks after the interest of almost half of the people in the profession, because at that time, women in the profession were over 40,000, nearly 50 per cent. At that point in time, from the statistics that we were able to gather from several very credible sources, because data is kept, it was clear there was a huge disparity in pay between female and male solicitors for doing the same work. Just because you were a woman, you got 27 per cent less. That has improved now. Statistics were released early this year, I think it is about 19 per cent. So, the work we have been doing is progressive. It is making the difference but there is still a lot to be done.

    I remember colleagues in England asked me them: why was there an association of female solicitors when there was none for men? Why do you people think you have to have your own association?’ And I said the association of women solicitors exists in order not to make itself extinct. Once we have achieved equality of the genders, we don’t want to be more than men. We just want to have a level playing field, then there will be no need for an association of women solicitors.

    So, how did you get into the legal profession?

    Law has always been in my family. My grandfather was a magistrate and also the Amayanabo of Nembe Brass, Bayelsa State, which is where the former Minister of Petroleum, Edmund Daukoro, is now. My uncle, the next Amayanabo after him, was a lawyer. The late Chief Justice Ambrose Alagoa was the Chief Justice of the old Rivers State; the first indigenous Chief Justice and a respected lawyer. There are others uncles of mine, including the one that recently retired from the Supreme Court, Justice Stanley Alagoa. He reached the apex. In fact, he in particular, was the one who sparked my interest in Law because one, we had that familiarity in the family. Two, Uncle Stanley was one of my favourite uncles as a child because he was one of those uncles that took time to play with children. Every time he came to the house and invariably he would be coming from the court, he would have his collar and his black suit. He would talk to you, and sometimes he would come along with all those old black and white reel movies. He would set them up for us and we would watch Charlie Chaplin and so on. Not many older people made out that time with little children. Certainly, he was one of my favourite uncles. I wanted to do what he did when I grew up. He was a lawyer.

    So it was really about the family, to begin with. I did have an understanding of what the work involved. My late father always said to me: ‘You will make a good lawyer,’ because I was one who would always speak up. In fact when the others didn’t want to tell him something, I would be the one that would say it. And he couldn’t just tell me to do something; he had to explain it to me because I would ask why. He encouraged that. He didn’t think it was an insult; he didn’t think I was rude as some parents do, because a child deserves to understand the logic behind what he is sent to do. He saw it as an opportunity to teach you. And so your why was not seen as confrontational, insulting question; it was seen as a perfectly logical approach and he took his time to then explain to you why.

    As I got older, I saw that lawyers made the difference in access to justice, in ensuring that people were treated fairly. And that for me was then my passion, which now takes me here. I am a commercial lawyer in practice.

    One would expect you to do more of civil than corporate law.

    I agree. I love what I do daily, which is dealing with transactions, looking at legal frameworks and looking at how to deal with the risks. So, when the executive arm of government was overreaching for instance, and not respecting the other arms of government or respecting the constitutional provisions we would intervene, even though it is not a Commonwealth country. For instance, in the United States under former President George Bush, when they started the Guantanamo Bay detention centre, we intervened and we took the case as amicus curia. The United States is not, technically speaking, a Commonwealth country, but the United States Supreme Court said yes the Commonwealth lawyers, your intervention has been very useful in guiding us on how to look at this whole issue. So, in that jurisdiction, that was interesting and useful.

    In this jurisdiction, we have challenges with so many things: infrastructure, education and so on. We Nigerians like to think that we are rich, but we are not. This country, in comparison with the number of people we have, is a poor country. If your people’s per capita income is 3,000 dollars a year, please…Singapore is about 40,000 per annum. Malaysia, Indonesia, they are all ahead in per capita income. So think about it. And therefore, government does have very finite resources. Yes, I know about corruption. This means that these finite resources are not being properly applied. If it was being properly applied, your access to justice issues will trickle down the line. Young people and fellow citizens are rotting away in our criminal justice system only because of poverty.

    Maybe that is the more reason you ought to be more involved than staying in the corporate world.

    I am doing both. I am a corporate lawyer, but what we do, in the tradition of our profession, is to have a budget. The state doesn’t have the budget. There is a cost attached to doing this. You’ve got to file processes and there is a cost attached to it. If you are going to appeal, you’ve got to get records; there is a cost attached to it, and so on. Those costs are met from our pro bono budget which we fund from our corporate work. It enables us to make our own little difference within our society by intervening in those cases where you can see that there is a clear miscarriage of justice or where people have been hauled into detention for lengthy period of time without being charged or allowed to go on bail simply because they didn’t have the funding or the legal aid does its best with the little funding available to it but is unable to do it all.

    In 2011, you were the first female lawyer and black to lead the CLA. How did it feel achieving such height?

    2011 in Hyderbad, India was a very special conference. For me, it was an opportunity to continue to serve. You were simply the first amongst equals. It is a council, but you had the opportunity to direct and work with colleagues in the direction you feel you should go.

    It was special in the reaction. I had colleagues from other African countries come and say how wonderful it was to look up there and see someone like them. It had never happened. What had never happened also was that suddenly there was a queue because everyone wanted to come up and shake my hand. It wasn’t just Africans, contemporaries and colleagues, it was across board. I had members of the British House of Lords who were present as keynote speakers lining up and coming up to shake my hands. That was a humbling experience because it really wasn’t something I was expecting.

    With your tight schedule as a partner in a legal firm and head of the organisation, you still go out of your way to author books. However, your books seem to be female inclined?

    The books, yes, I wrote from the perspective of what I know which is all I can do. I cannot write a mentoring book for men (laughs). I don’t know your world; I don’t wear your shoes, so I don’t know where they pinch. I can’t write for young women coming after me because I have walked this part and there are certain experiences that I have had, which I have only had because of my gender. So if I can share this information and say with this information, you can create a level playing field for yourself and ensure that you are not unduly disadvantaged in the profession.

    Despite your background from a privileged home, you still had the drive to succeed in life. What was the push?

    You are right in saying that I was privileged. That is true, and that is what makes me sad when I see the current crop of privileged Nigerians. If you looked closely when the world was commemorating the end of the First World War, then if the people of Great Britain were rationing food, the palace was doing the same. That is the mentality of the generation of Nigerians that brought me up. I was brought up to know that. The first thing my father or mother would tell me was that you are privileged, and privilege comes with responsibility. The privilege is by the grace of God, so you owe it to those who are less privileged to ensure that you do whatever you can to assist. Because it is a privilege you haven’t earned, you started off ahead of somebody else, by accident of birth. Why on earth would you take credit for that?. My drive as a result is to effectively earn the privilege by giving back. That is the way I was brought up and I think that is the right thing to do.

    From the way you talk, it seems your father had greater influence on you as a child?

    You are absolutely right. You see, you must read the book even though it is written for female lawyers. It will serve as a lesson to every parent. One common thread that runs through the interviews with female lawyers, successful in their own right, is that there was a father who I would say was a feminist. Feminist in the definition of Chimamanada Adichie, is a person who believes in the equality of the sexes and that earned reinforcement from the man in your life who you adore, because a father, for a little child, is next to God. He makes you understand that this is what you are capable of, and nobody can tell you anything different.

    So, for parents, fathers are so important in the nurturing of their male and female children that stands them in good stead. By the time they go out and the society begins to knock them, that you are less capable because you are not a man, you don’t believe a word of it because the person who you know and value his opinion has already said a different thing to you. So, you are out there and find out that they are not correct, he is. You are not disabled by your gender, you are equally capable.

    It seems being a product of two societies, Nigeria and Britain, has made you to be reticent social wise. You are not loud like the average Nigerian.

    I don’t know about being loud or not. I agree with you that in terms of socialising, I may not socialise the way the average Nigerian does. So, you won’t see me at a lot of society functions. There are two reasons for that. One, I actually work very long hours. That means I have limited time for social engagements, and it is by choice because I really like what I do. It is a more useful way of spending my time. If I really go to a social function, it is because that person is really near and dear to me. Time, for me, is extremely valuable and I really have to manage it properly.

    How do you unwind then?

    Now, that is a different thing entirely. I like activity-based leisure. I sail.

  • Celebration times for Bode Emmanuel

    If the need ever arises to compile the names of the movers and shakers of the social and corporate scenes in Nigeria, it would be no job done without a mention of Dr. Bode Emmanuel. Recently, the accomplished accountant clocked 80 and, as was expected, a glamourous party was thrown in honour of the man whose attainments are simply awesome.

    The Banquet Hall of Intercontinental Hotel, Victoria Island, Lagos, came alive as celebrities of varying pedigrees turned up to celebrate with the new member of the league of octogenarians. Ace broadcaster turned Master of Ceremonies, Bisi Olatilo, did not mince words as he reeled out Emmanuel’s accomplishments.

    Among the guests were Pa Akintola Williams, Chief Ernest Shonekan, Chief Chris Ogunbanjo, Oba Rilwan Akiolu, Gen. Theophilus Danjuma and his wife Senator Daisy Danjuma, among other eminent personalities.

    Not many are aware that Emmanuel is now married to Anana Okwes, a native of Ossomari, Rivers State. The elegant Anana is a principal partner at Anana Okwesa & Co Legal Consultants, a Lagos-based law firm. She is a law graduate of the University of Ife. She later attended the London School of Economics and political Science for her Master’s degree in Law, specialising in Corporate & Commercial Law.

  • Charles Ahize off from social radar

    Charles Ahize off from social radar

    For many years, Charles Ahize was one of the most talked about Igbo socialites in the country. So influential was he among the Igbo that he was appointed the leader of pan-Igbo organisation, Obigbo. The millionaire businessman was constantly the talk of the town for his lavish lifestyle. His popularity skyrocketed when he married Maureen Emanalom, who was rumoured to be at least 20 years younger than him. Ahize, a top auto dealer, was a seasoned night crawler and seized every opportunity to loosen up and have fun.

    Shockingly, Charles has withdrawn from the social scene for reasons known only to him. Even his wife is no longer visible, prompting speculations about his finances.

  • The women in my life-Tourism expert Egbeyemi

    The women in my life-Tourism expert Egbeyemi

    Aare Olaseni Egbeyemi is the Managing Director of Golden Legacy Hotel and Leisure Services Limited. He is among those clamouring for the proper repositioning of the Nigerian tourism sector.  In this interview with PAUL UKPABIO, he gives ideas that will bring about the transformation of the hospitality industry in the country, among other issues.

    How long have you been in the tourism industry?

    I have been in the tourism industry since my adulthood. From television, I moved into entertainment and later on went into my passion which is tourism. Currently, I promote tourism, environment and entertainment. I run a company that manages hotels and recreation centres.

    What attracted you to tourism?

    I love travelling and meeting people. I am a product of a caterer. So hospitality came naturally to me. I love to take care of people and  make people feel at home and at ease. Over time, having seen the world through working in television, I decided to put my talent into good use.

    How many hotels are you managing currently?

    We have five of them in Lagos. There are also a few others that we are consultants to. We go there from time to time, see how they are doing and ensure that standard is being maintained. Unfortunately, over here, we have laws and regulations, but enforcement is not there. So consultants like me are invited to hotels to put things in their proper perspective, especially on issues of staffing, departmental standardisation and so on. The culture of hotel management is thus looked at from proper management perspective. Some hotels call us when they want to start and that is usually the best time anyway, so that they can start properly.

    Unfortunately again in this country, everybody wants to be a hotelier because they feel it is lucrative. But when you do not do it right, there will be problems. But wise businessmen invite professionals to get it right from the onset.  As tourism consultants, we invite other core professionals to join us in the team work. There are specialists in catering, food and beverage department and even people who can do a lot with wine. There are people who are gifted or trained in the area of service delivery. These are the things we put together and come up with standards in the hotel that we manage.

    Are you enjoying your work?

    Yes, it gives me great joy. I love doing this because it gives me joy to see people. I love to welcome people,especially people who have not been to where I am. And you know after the end of their stay, they come and say thank you for this or that. It gives me immense joy to see that happen. It may interest you to know that I work in each of the hotel departments. Sometimes I find myself in the kitchen, sometimes you can find me tendering an animal in the little zoo that we have in one of our hotels. The only thing that I do not do is maintenance, and that is because I do not have engineering knowledge. I thank God for the team I work with.

    Do you have anything doing outside Lagos?

    Yes, right now, our company has secured a 50-acre land along Lagos-Ibadan Expressway where we intend to build an interesting tourism site. We have a mini zoo now where we have some interesting animals.  We want to do that on a larger scale. I was in Uganda where I saw some beautiful mini zoos. I also saw some things that will interest all. In this country, for instance, we are not used to going on holidays.

    We need to encourage people to go on holidays to relax their bodies and avoid sudden deaths and diseases. Nigerians work round the clock. We do no find time to recreate. So we are creating a relaxing spot outside Lagos, a big one where people can drive in, see animals, swim in a natural ecotourism atmosphere, sleep in decent chalets and  eat fresh food. That is the project on the burner for now.

    How far is this from Lagos?

    Immediately after Ogere, there is a town called Ogunmakin. That is where the location is. We have started the project already.

    When are you completing it?

    Of course, it is our wish to complete it in record time, but we have constraints in the availability of funds. A project like this will certainly take a long time. Sourcing for loans through the banks, I must confess, is a task. You meet with embargoes here and there. The vision will soon materialise.We have a Spanish company that is interested in an aspect of what we are doing. They intend to have a milk industry. There will be a ranch there, and this will complement the tourism project that we are putting together there.

    That means you are looking at an eco-tourism centre.

    Yes, I am an environmentalist which is another part of me. I love to see greenery around me. That is why anywhere I live I plant trees. I mark my birthday by planting a new tree for that day. Those that I have lived with in my life know that I plant trees at church,house and everywhere possible. When each of my children was born, I planted  trees to celebrate their births. Sometimes I call them and show them the trees I planted the days they were born. When people who are close to me celebrate their birthdays, I plant  trees for them. When I receive a special guest at home, when the person leaves, I plant a tree in his honour.

    One of the hotels you are managing has a zoo. What brought about the inclusion of a zoo in that particular hotel?

    Mokland Hotel where the mini zoo is located was leased by us from the owner. When we got there, we saw a corner that was like a dumping ground. It occurred to me to make use of it. At first, we started by greening the particular area since the hotel is big and spacious but no greenery. At the swimming pool, we have a sitting area there where we have planted coconut trees.

    We, therefore, came up with a mini zoo for that fallow ground and now, schools are coming.  We have crocodiles, donkeys, peacocks, rabbits, geese and other animals that children see only on television. But here, they see them physically. Sometimes they ask if they can touch my horse and I allow them to ride. And when they are going, we give them handouts on all they had seen at the zoo. That is why we are expanding, hoping to move to the site I told you about.

    You talked about your mum being a caterer. Was that what attracted you to hospitality industry?

    I am the first child of my mum. Naturally when mummy was not around, I had to take charge. There was an incident when we were living in Kaduna. She wasn’t at home. Someone brought an order for a cake. We didn’t tell the woman that mummy had travelled. We charged her for the cake and between my sibling and I, we did the cake and collected the money. When the woman came to collect the cake, she was pleased. She said we should thank mum. From then, I kept on studying my mum and whenever she was not around, I entered the kitchen and did everything that she used to do. So that was how I turned myself into a good cook.

    And in my home, hospitality is part of us.

    What do you think of tourism regulatory bodies in the country?

    The Nigerian Tourism Development Corporation (NTDC) ought to be a good regulatory body for the hotels in the country, so that our tourism can grow. You know tourism for incoming visitors starts from the arrival point to the taxi driver at the airport who must have  Nigerian culture to be readily showcased to the visitor. They must sell Nigeria to you through the services they are offering. This is the kind of things that the NTDC should be promoting. That is the orientation of the Nigerian mind towards tourism. And it should extend even to the conductors and drivers and all contact points that visitors are likely to be in touch with. We should sell a positive image to visitors.  In some countries, there is a synergy between all the people along the route where visitors are likely to get in contact with. All of them will be selling their country through positive image. Your car breaks down at some point in some countries and the next thing is that as the mechanic is repairing the car for you, he is telling you about possible historic sites that you can stop by to see before you depart.

    The NTDC should do reorientation for the average Nigerian in this direction. We even have different names for hotels in this country. Some hotels are not even qualified to be called a restaurant, but somehow, they call themselves hotels.

    But the NTDC started a classification exercise at a time?

    Yes, they did, but then, the political will must be there to enforce and clamp down on hotels that do not comply with regulations.

    But do think that hotels in Nigeria are really up to standard?

    We have wonderful, good hotels in this country. Indeed, Nigerians are investing heavily in the hotel industry. I was in a hotel in Ibadan.I saw the extent of the investment in the different aspects of the hotel, but something was missing: proper staffing orientation. The hotel is being  managed by the people with no knowledge to manage a business. I entered one hotel with a lovely edifice, but inside I felt like vomiting. There was no maintenance culture, and above all things, the power system was not helping matters. We must have a proper plan for the tourism industry for the next decade. There must be a projection for it. The change we clamoured for must take effect. Nigeria is a wonderful country, but we should do things in the right way.

     

    Would you say that room rates are expensive?

    I do not think so because there are still places where one can find as low as N10,000 which is not up to hundred dollars. Charges must be in agreement with service. It is wrong when that is not in place. I slept at a hotel recently, but did not get what I wanted there. So I made my comments known when I was leaving the place through the comment box. When I went back, I saw that what I complained about had been taken care of.

    How do you recreate?

    I do workout every day.I climb the stairs of our hotels as a form of exercise. I sit with friends at recreation centres and visit hotels. I drive out some nights to check into other hotels to check the competition. There, I see things myself and correct some things too in my outlets. Currently, I am also writing a book on hotel management in Nigeria. Also because I am also a script writer, we have a series on hotel life coming up soon. Life in hotel is large; it is a hospitality business, a place to care for people. People who go to hotels need care.

    As a tourism consultant, what is your style?

    I love wearing shorts and T-shirts. I like walking around easily,  especially when I am at work. Recently, somebody came up with a design for me which my friends are now calling my logo. It is a simple African dress. I love it. I love sandals. They make me free. I wear shoes when it is a formal event.  I love to wear sandals and be free. I do not wear caps because they make me feel headache.

    How about family?

    I am a married man with a beautiful wife and children. Mind you, I have beautiful daughters too. These are the women in my life.