Category: Celebrity

  • As Ahmed Onibudo passes on

    The knowledge of death’s inevitability does not lessen its impact. One can only gain consolation in the fact that the life of the departed remains in the memory of the living just as the memory of Asipa Ahmed Onibudo is forever etched in the minds of all those who knew him.

    A few days ago, Nigeria’s high society was thrown into mourning over the death of Onibudo, a veteran socialite and Lagos businessman. Asipa Ahmed Onibudo was the Chairman of Peninsula Resort Limited, Budo Farms and Budo Specialist Hospital.

    Family and friends converged last Wednesday at the 8th day Fidau prayers held at the deceased’s Budo Court residence, Peninsula Resort drive, Ajiwe-Ajah, Lagos. The popular Lagos socialite’s final burial will hold after 40 days. Throughout his life, Onibudo retained his essential humility and a sense of perspective and proportion. He was as gracious as he was polite, and immensely liked.

    Indeed, the Lagos in-crowd has been thrown into deep mourning over his death. Onibudo died at the ripe age of 77. Death may have ended his time with all but it cannot end the relationship all had with him.

  • Peter Obafemi plans big for mum’s 90th birthday

    A mother is the truest friend we have, when trials heavy and sudden fall upon us; when adversity takes the place of prosperity; when friends desert us; when trouble thickens around us, still will she cling to us, and endeavour by her kind precepts and counsels to dissipate the clouds of darkness, and cause peace to return to our hearts, said Washington Irving.

    Dr Peter Obafemi is currently over the moon. The reason is not farfetched, as his beloved mother, Madam Patience Olutayo Obafemi, is 90 and she will be celebrating it tomorrow, Sunday, August 14, 2016.

    The event will start with a Thanksgiving service at CSS Movement Church, Kilometre 4, Apapa Oshodi Expressway, Surulere, Lagos followed by reception at the Eagle Club on Adeniran Ogunsaya. Evangelist Ebenezer Obey and Sir Shina Peters will be on the bandstand to move guests to dance with the celebrant.

    It was gathered that Peter Obafemi, who recoiled into his shell after his marriage of a few months with popular Lagos big girl, Lolad Iruka, hit the rocks some years ago, is leaving no stone unturned to make the event a big one. All the Lagos socialites, businessmen and politicians will come around to celebrate with one of their own.

  • Will Jibrin become NASS hero at 40?

    As the fireworks between Speaker Yakubu Dogara, three other principal officers and former chairman of the House Appropriation Committee continue, the question on the lips of many Nigerians is: will Jibrin become the first anti-corruption hero of the National Assembly?

    Jibrin, regarded as extremely influential in the house, is believed to be the godfather of Dogara, as he was believed to have funded his election and mobilised the necessary support. He raised 20 allegations bordering on corruption against Dogara.

    Dogara countered with allegations of immaturity, betrayal and breach of trust against Jibrin. While Jibrin responded swiftly to all the allegations against him, Speaker Dogara is yet to respond to any of the allegations jibrin raised.

    The interesting thing is the damming disclosure that Jibrin has continued to make via his Twitter handle. He has thrown asymmetric shock into the National Assembly and the country as a whole. Dogara had threatened Jibrin with legal action but Jibrin responded that he stood on his points and would never apologise to a shameless fraud in high office.

    His explosive interview on Channels TV sent shock waves across the country. He has dragged Dogara, the three other principal officers and nine chairmen of standing committees of the House to the anti-graft agencies, accusing them of corruption.

    His party, the APC has intervened, but many believe that the matter has gone out of hand. It looks likely that Dogara is on his way out. Many questioned why Jibrin is opening up after falling out with Dogara.

    He responded that he is a product of the establishment but never felt comfortable with it. He added that for things like this to happen, there must be a trigger, no matter how unattractive it might be.

    Many believe that Hon Jibrin has shown exceptional courage and if he stands his ground without caving in, he might turn the unlikely hero in a country that hinges its hope on the National Assembly. He has called himself ‘the accidental activist’; a befitting cap as he celebrates his 40th birthday on September 9.

  • Popular Nollywood actor adopts barbing, hairdressing as a means of livelihood

    Popular Nollywood actor adopts barbing, hairdressing as a means of livelihood

    Owolabi Ibrahim is an actor many lovers of Yoruba movies are never tired of watching. Since his debut movie, Elepo Lo Lere, he has wowed his fans with A-list performances that peaked in Igboya, a film produced by Bimbo Oshin wherein he acted as Oshin’s husband.

    A fact that is lost on many of Owolabi’s admirers is that he doubles as a barber; a vocation he practices till date. As a matter of fact, he would rather have himself addressed as a barber than an actor.

    “Of course, I am a barber, he said proudly in a chat with our correspondent in his exotic office in Ebute-Meta, Lagos. “That is what I was before any other thing.

    “I know that you know me as an actor. The truth, however, is that it was my being a barber that led me to becoming an actor.”

    Hearing him talk about his rise from the nadir of poverty to creating employment for many would evoke the emotions of even the hard-hearted. As the son of a poor tailor, Owolabi started out life on a very rough patch. Even before he wrote his last paper in the secondary school, the young man knew that it would take a miracle to further his education.

    Explaining his predicament, Owolabi said: “It was by the grace of God that I finished secondary school. Even before I finished, I knew there was no way I would further my education.

    “I came from a very poor background. And when I say poor, I mean poor in the crudest sense of the word. We didn’t even know when or where the next meal would come from. I tell people that there is a difference between being poor and being wretched. My dad was not just poor, he was wretched.

    “Believe me, I cannot recollect any day we had three square meals on a particular day. But after secondary school, I realised that I had the talent to make hair. At the time, we used blade and comb to cut hair. People around me would always come to me to help cut their hair, and I kept improving every day.

    “As a teenager, it was a difficult period for anybody to be hungry. But that was what I experienced most times. You know, it would take God’s grace for a hungry man not to eat his enemy’s food. That was what I had.

    “The Yoruba say the child of a cloth seller should not wear rags. But my father was a tailor and we wore rags.”

    Owolabi also realised that he needed to know how to make hair for women. Fortunately for him, an old woman who lived in the same compound where his parents lived was an expert weaver. So, every day, Owolabi would sit and watch the woman.

    “At that time, I was not really cutting hair for money. People just gave me whatever they had and I was happy that I was making something for myself. But at a point, I decided that I needed to also know how to make women’s hair.

    “And luckily for me, there was a woman who lived in the same house with us. I would wake up and sit down beside her as she made hair.

    “One day, after I had watched her very well, I called one of my younger sisters and sat her down. After a few trials, I realised that I have mastered the art of making women’s hair. From that point, I knew I wanted to be a barber.”

    But the young man’s dream was almost truncated even before it took shape. His father wanted him to join him in his tailoring business. Faced with a choice between obeying his father and following his dream to become a barber, Owolabi opted for the latter.

    Recalling the experience, he said: “It was a tough period for me. I had to decide on what I wanted for myself because each time I remembered the economic hardship we were facing at home, I told myself that I didn’t want to be a tailor.

    “I was always confused that my father was a tailor and he could not meet the needs of his family, yet he wanted me to become a tailor too. His life was not inspiring to me each time I looked at him. As a tailor, he could not feed or clothe his family. So, I decided to disobey him and follow my dream.”

    In order to follow his dream, Owolabi had to leave home to fend for himself. Incidentally, a US-based Nigerian came and decided to set up a modern barbing salon. At the time, the salon, Choices Barbing Salon, located a stone’s throw from the popular Yaba Bus Stop, was the best around and truly the choice place to have a hair cut in the whole of Lagos. You were not a big boy if you had not visited Choices.

    But for young Owolabi, the use of modern barbing tools was strange. In place of the modern clippers, Owolabi was only ardent in the use of comb and blade.

    “Let me confess to you,” he said, “my story has really firmed up my belief in destiny. While I was struggling to convince myself that I had to go ahead with my dream, a Nigerian who was based in the US came back home and decided to set up a barbing salon.

    “While he was searching for the people to work for him, somebody mentioned my name and I was invited. When I got there, he said he had been told that I was a good barber and asked if I knew how to use the clipper. Confused about what to say, I simply said yes, though I had never seen an electric clipper, much less handling it at the time. There and then, I was asked to cut hair for a young boy.”

    For him, it was a test of a life time; one that that would make or mar his future. Surprisingly, Owolabi handled the task masterfully and secured his future.

    “You know, while the little boy was being prepared, I watched how others who worked there handled the clippers. The truth is that I am a fast learner. So, within the few minutes that I watched them, I was able to master how to handle the clipper. By the time I finished cutting the boy’s hair, everybody around liked my work and I was employed immediately,” Owolabi said with a sense of fulfillment.

    After years of service at Choices, Owolabi decided it was time for him to move on. Although he was not fully prepared for the move, he made up his mind to leave. He decided to team up with a colleague to start a salon on the balcony of their home.

    “My decision to leave at the time was not one that I wished for, but I had to move on even when I was not sure what the future had in stock for me. Fortunately for me, one of my friends and colleague also decided to join me. We started from the balcony of our home.

    “But the interesting thing was that all the big men who knew us decided to follow us. They decided to forego the comfort of the former place and opted to come to us in the open under the sun. That was the beginning of the story of what you are seeing today.

    “Today, whenever I remember that story, I just marvel and praise God for His mercies over my life.

    “Like I told you, mine is a story that sounds like a fairytale, even to me. It was simply the grace of God that made it possible. Imagine people giving up the comfort of the former salon and coming to us.

    “More confounding was that they would pay me about 10 times what they were supposed to pay.”

    In 1994, Owolabi, having saved enough money, decided to set up a truly modern barbing salon on the old Yaba Road in Lagos. Twenty-two years on, Owolabi’s beauty salon has grown in leaps and bounds and has become something of a brand.

    Although he declined the reporter’s request for the identities of his clients, Owolabi boasted that it is a list of who-is-who in the country. He told our reporter that he often flies from Lagos to Port Harcourt and Abuja to attend to barbing needs of his clients.

    “I value all the people that patronise me. It is not about the amount of money they pay. I travel to Port Harcourt and Abuja by air to barb hair for my clients,” he said.

    With the experience of his father always on his mind and growing up in an improvised room that served as both a shop for the father’s tailoring business and a living room for the family, Owolabi decided to make the old man happy by building a house for him.

    “My joy today is that God has used me to put smiles on the face of my father. I had to make his need for a house a priority over mine. As I speak with you, he lives in a very comfortable house I built for him,” Owolabi said smiling.

    With his wife and children based in the UK and a thriving business, many would see Owolabi as an accomplished individual. But he sees himself differently. “I don’t think I have anything yet. I continue to work hard every day, hoping that the next day would be better.”

    Asked what drives him, the man who fondly describes himself as barber said the fear of being poor drives him to work harder every day.

    He said: “I grew up in a very poor environment. When you are poor, there is the possibility that you may one day become rich. But when you are wretched, it would take the grace of God for you to make it. It is by the grace of God that I have attained this position. So, I simply cannot afford to be poor again. It is that fear that drives me.

    “It would be very foolish of anybody to say that he has arrived. I have not made any money yet. Each time I speak with my staff, I try to use my life story, but I see in their eyes that they don’t believe me. We shared the same room with big rats.”

    Owolabi’s success with barbing laid the foundation for his movie career. He was first invited to appear in a movie as a guest artiste. The late prolific movie producer, Alade Aromire, who at the time was Owolabi’s client, was the first person to feature him in a movie.

    While he has featured in more than 50 movies and earned himself a place on the list of good actors, Owolabi insists he is a barber.

    “My main job is barbing. It was on this job that I was invited as a guest artiste. Most of the actors and actresses are my clients. Most of them made their hair in our salon,” he said.

    Of all the movies he has starred in, he singled out Igboya as his best and most memorable.

    “When I say I believe so much in destiny, this is one of the reasons. I was not originally the person cast for that role. But one way or the other, the person was not available and Bimbo Oshin decided to give me the role.”

    Asked to take a look at his story from where he started and his present position, Owolabi looked up and summed it up in one word: unbelievable.

  • As Cecilia Ibru embraces philanthropy

    Men are born to err. So, what matters most is not that we err but that we benefit from our mistakes and begin to toe the path of genuine contrition. That much was the path toed by former boss of defunct Oceanic Bank, Mrs. Cecilia Ibru.

    Once reputed as the ‘First Lady’ of banking in Nigeria, she suffered a reversal of fate when she was hit by the Sanusi Lamido Sanusi-led Central Bank of Nigeria’s tsunami, following allegations of financial recklessness levelled against her. Consequently, the influential banker was forced to abandon the social scene and crawl back into her shell.

    But Cecilia has since turned a new leaf and embraced the path of righteousness. Not only does she now live an easy life with a resolute desire to stay clear of scandals, she has chosen to better the lives of so many others. She is now notable for her benevolent and philanthropic disposition.

    Before her new found redemption, Cecilia was instrumental to the rise of many men and women to the esteemed circle of the upper class in contemporary Nigeria; a gesture that eventually landed her in trouble and rubbished her reputation and position at the bank. Unfortunately, many of the people for whom she staked her reputation abandoned her in the time of trouble.

    She has no doubt learnt from her mistakes as sources close to her revealed that she now prefers to live a life of near anonymity. With a perfect understanding of the transient nature of life, power and affluence, she has renewed her passion for philanthropy with unparalleled vigour. She currently helps the needy through her brainchild, the Michael and Cecilia Ibru Foundation.

    She turned 70 this year in abundant joy regardless of her ugly experiences. And in spite of all that she has been through, she remains strong and ageless.

  • Akpabio’s wife escapes death in Germany

    There is but a thin line between life and death. For Unoma Akpabio, life almost gave in to death after a major surgery in a German hospital. Unoma was said to have slipped into coma after the surgery, prompting friends and family members to launch into serious prayers for her to regain consciousness.

    While the nature Unoma’s surgery remains yet under wraps, it was said to have been a major one. Unoma is a major player in the politics of Akwa Ibom. So influential is she that the emergence of the current governor of Akwa Ibom State as the candidate of the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) is credited to her. As Akpabio himself would later confess during the PDP governorship campaign inauguration in Uyo in the build-up to the last general election, Udom was nowhere in the picture until he was recommended by his wife and then first lady of the state.

    Akpabio, who on the occasion described Unoma as ‘Mother Theresa’, spared no adjective as he showered praises on her for spotting for him, a worthy successor in Udom.

  • Mairo Mustapha expecting Tambuwal’s baby?

    Mairo Mustapha is relishing the ambience of blissful matrimony, savouring every minute of her garden-fresh union and basking in the glory of being an elegant consort of Aminu Tambuwal, the governor of Sokoto State and former Speaker of House of Representatives. Mairo is strutting with a contagious glow found only in new and content brides. It comes as no surprise that she seems to be walking on cloud nine. After all, the euphoric feeling that usually accompanies marriage leaves its beneficiaries in giddy moods.

    Mario got married to Tambuwal early this year in a private wedding ceremony in Sokoto. Mairo is still intoxicated with the ecstatic feeling that characterizes a new marriage and she savours her good fortune like a cat does a bowl of milk. Having married a man of influence and affluence, Mairo lives like a princess with little or no care in the world.

    Good times have a way of making people forget their unhappy past and Mairo is not an exemption. Her new found happiness in marriage, the rumour mill says, is being accentuated by expectation of a new baby, although some sources say her rumoured pregnancy is still in early stage.

  • Why I abandoned acting to become a nurse -Ex-beauty queen Regina Askia-Williams

    Former showbiz impresario, Regina Askia-Williams (formerly Regina Askia) came into national and international reckoning as an actress, particularly in the soap opera, Fortunes, on the Nigerian Television Authority (NTA). She had previously emerged the Miss Campus of the University of Lagos and later became a super model. Now a practising nurse in the United States of America, she tells SEGUN AJIBOYE in an online conversation why she abandoned her first love for nursing and how she has managed to sustain her status as a married woman in an age that marriages are crashing at the speed of light.

    We learnt you are now a practising nurse in the US. Why did you quit acting and modeling for nursing?

    There comes a point in everybody’s life when you begin to wonder what meaning you have made of your life. We have all been put in this world to make a difference to humanity and leave this world a little better than we met it. The way we choose to do this leaves us fulfilled or unfulfilled. Caring for someone as a nurse gives me the experience and skills to make a practical difference, and I love that.

    I am a people’s person, a social person, and a nurse is socially oriented. Acting is also a way to make a difference but it was not enough, especially the way it is set up in Nigeria. No royalties, no job security, no investment tools for health plans and retirement. With acting, there is the necessity to maintain a front; a sort of image which you could use for endorsements, and so on. A level of “fakeness” is required. Now, where does that stop? It gets difficult to be true to who you really are as a person and having to tow the line of being politically correct, or keeping up appearances, or saying what you think will make everybody happy just to be liked. I cannot live like that.

    I have always been an army of one. Like me or hate me, I am who I am. I love the freedom to be true to self. That does not mean that I will completely stop acting. However, you will now know me as a nurse; a skilled health care provider.

    You started enjoying the Klieg light as a student when you won the Miss UNILAG pageant. What was the feeling like winning your first pageant?

    Lol!! I was 19 going on 20, I think. It was not my first contest though. I was a very shy girl back in the day and my background was a “top government official kid”. You know drivers, cooks, househelps and the whole nine. It was a thrill to go on stage (very much out of my comfort zone) and stand before a whole crowd of folks and state my case.

    Back in the day, if you could face a UNILAG auditorium, you could face anything. Because if the crowd didn’t like you, tomatoes, shoes, eggs and whatever would come flying. I remember having to keep an umbrella nearby as a compere. This experience prepped me for public speaking; it honed my confidence, trained my voice projection. I still feel palpitations before giving a public speech, but the trick is to really have something to say and say it. Some people say to imagine everyone naked would help. That, my dear, would be a terrifying experience, and that’s what will leave you speechless. The lesson is challenge yourself, step out of your comfort zone. We all have a voice, a gift, a message  get heard.

    As a model, you appeared in several television commercials. Which is your most memorable?

    You are really taking on a throwback ride. I don’t remember. They were all exciting experiences. What is more, they paid the bills. That is what I remember. I did love pretty dresses and glamming up to have my pictures taken. Seeing me on billboards was a good feeling, I must confess. Do we have such opportunities for young people today?

    I was some kind of rich girl you know. I had skills and I had jobs. I hope that with The RANE project, I will be able to create such opportunities for the young people of Nigeria, beginning with the nurses. In line with our Campaign for Nursing Excellence, I am working on a soap that seeks to project the practice of nursing in a better light in Nigeria. For more info on the RANE project, please visit our website at reginaaskia.com or our Facebook site at Campaign for Nursing Excellence. If interested, please register. We will soon be casting for roles and inviting interested candidates for training.

    As an actress in 1993, you played the role of Tokunbo Johnson, a beautiful gold digger in Fortunes, a popular NTA soap. How much of that role is in your person?

    Lol!! None. You know when I look back at my projects from yesteryears, I say to myself, damn!! That was a brave chic. She was sassy, stylish, full of ideas and constantly working hard on them. Good or bad, she kept going. That energy, passion and strength I always thank God for. The only difference now is that I’m no way near as “hot-headed” as I used to be and I have learned empathy. I just keep going and the years keep rolling. Get on board the positivity train, let’s make things happen.

    You have participated in several projects across Africa, especially in the area of medicals. What is the motivation?

    Making a difference. The Renaissance Network Africa project where we believe that linking the motherland and its diaspora is a strong ticket out of poverty for Africa. Also African Health dialogues where we discuss on an internet radio forum the health problems among several African communities and submit a blueprint to agencies directly involved. We have callers from all over the world. Our recent project is the Campaign for Excellence in Nursing in Nigeria, and I recently participated in a media tour to create awareness for the plight of nurses in Nigeria and how we could turn things around, thereby making it better for the health industry.

    The story of your narrow escape in the 9/11 attack on the World Trade Centre in the US is described as miraculous. What exactly comes to your mind each time you remember your escape?

    I was getting ready for work and was running late because I had stayed up to print all these flyers to promote the visit of the Conference of Mayors to Nigeria. This was an event that was a brain child of Renaissance Network Africa, a group in which I played a prominent role. RNA sold it to the Lagos State Water Front Development Project and LSWD contracted Mr Wanle Akinboboye to execute it on the international front, and I ended working with Mr Wanle Akinboboye (who was my boss at that time) on this project at the International Office suites on the 79th floor of the WTC North Tower.

    Just when I was ready to go, my husband said: ‘Regina, your office is on fire. A plane crashed into it.’ I was annoyed by what seemed like a careless talk and I talked back smack. But he said: ‘For real, it’s on television. I put my bags down and sat to watch the most memorable event in American history. I remember Mr Akinboboye calling and being so relieved I hadn’t gone in yet. Such a sad day that was. May all my co-workers and all whom we lost continue to rest in perfect peace. So, you see, I was spared for a reason. I got work to do. Please, God, heal the world. Teach us to love each other and let there be peace.

    You have won several awards. Which of them is the most precious to you?

    ‘Mum-in-Chief.’ My children’s success is the one award that tells me I have done a great job. I mean I am honoured to be recognised and commended for my efforts. But by far the most meaningful to me is being Mum-in-Chief. I am thankful to God for such great kids. Every time I look at them, I am so very proud. Thank you, God.

    You were recently in Nigeria. What was the trip about?

    Like I said, our recent project is the Campaign for Excellence in Nursing in Nigeria, and I recently participated in a media tour to create awareness for the plight of nurses in Nigeria and how we could turn things around thereby making it better for the health industry. This trip birthed the RANE (Regina Askia for Nursing Excellence) project. We have a website and a huge agenda to turn things around in the nursing industry.

    You are no doubt a very beautiful woman. How do you ward off male admirers who may want to act funny?

    Thanks for the compliments. I don’t have people trying to be funny. I appreciate they respect me enough not to go there, understanding that I am with someone on whatever terms we both have agreed on.

    You are now 48 but still very beautiful. What is the secret?

    Inner beauty will always replenish the outward looks. Be at peace with yourself and with the universe. Be positive. Let your God-self come through. Let go and let God.

    Do you have any particular beauty routine?

    My beauty routine is on my website reginaaskia.com. It has information on managing high blood pressure, diabetes, thyroid issues, diet and exercise, and so on.

    How would you describe your fashion sense?

    Again, check this out at reginaaskia.com. For me, it’s comfortable with a hint of “sexy”  gotta keep things spicy for your beau.

    At a time when young women are hardly able to keep their marriages, what is the secret of keeping yours?

    Lol!! There is no silver bullet. Give it your best shot. Stay if it makes happy, and walk if it does not. Most importantly though, give careful consideration to the effects and consequences of your actions, especially on your children, and choose your battles.

    What tips do you have for younger women on this?

    Love yourself.

  • Seyi Tinubu set for low-key wedding

    In a social event involving the popular Tinubu family whose scion is the National Leader of the All Progressives Congress, Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu, you would expect nothing short of class and panache..Hence as Asiwaju’s lawyer son, Seyi, gets ready to wed his heartthrob, one would expect nothing short of an elaborate celebration attended by the movers and shakers of the society. But if feelers from the camp of the inimitable politician are anything to go by, he will be keeping the celebration as private as possible.

    Seyi will be getting married to his long time Lebanese fiancee, Layal Jade Holm on, August 9 and 10 in far away Como Lake, Italy. Everything about the wedding, according to impeccable family sources, will be low key. In fact, according to the source, there are no open invitations for the wedding to avoid a situation where some politicians would hijack the event and turn it to some sort of campaign rally.

    The couple are, however, said to have sent mails to some close allies and associates of the APC National Leader to remind them of the date. The traditional wedding of the couple which held in Accra, Ghana, on November 6, 2015, was also a very private affair.

    Seyi and Layal, it was gathered, have been lovers for years.

  • Aina Okoya grooves anew

    Aina Okoya ‘s life is an adventurous one. Each day seems to herald a fresh thrill and animated excitement. Her life is as enchanting as like the coming together of lovelorn soul mates in a whirlpool of passion. The well known daughter of multi-millionaire businessman, Alhjai Rasaq Okoya, sees life more as an adventure.

    Chubby and cheerful, Aina, who is in her 30s, is blessed with a gleeful personality that causes everyone who comes across her to hang on to her every word. Interestingly, she seems to be toeing the path of her siblings, including Biola Okoya who has suddenly disappeared from the limelight. Until recently, Aina, who operates a Chinese restaurant on Lagos Island, was very visible in the social arena.

    Regarded as one of the most extroverted of the Okoya children, she seems to find joy in jollification while keeping up the search for Mr Right after her romance with the son of a now deceased High Court judge turned sour.