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  • My biggest mistake—Kollington Ayinla

    My biggest mistake—Kollington Ayinla

    Amidst the widespread rumour that he is currently laid up with a debilitating illness that requires urgent medical attention, you would have thought that he is still supine on his sickbed, while he is being drip-fed. But alas, it is a wicked rumour!  During a recent visit by BABATUNDE SULAIMAN to the Alagbado, Lagos home of Alhaji Abdul-Razaq Kolawole Ilori, a.k.a. Kollington Ayinla, he was in a meeting with two relations within his expansive compound. Interestingly, as if the Fuji music maestro, who has 105 albums to his credit, had been hankering after an opportunity to unburden his heart, he opened up on some of his hitherto kept secrets, among other riveting issues

    RECENTLY, it was rumoured that you were hospitalized and that you wanted to put up your house for sale in order to defray the medical bill. Could you give me the true picture of your state of health?

    I am happy you can see me sitting in my compound today. So, what kind of ailment will you say I am suffering from? I have not contracted HIV/ AIDS and I don’t have cancer either, as it is being speculated. So, why will I want to sell my house so as to raise money for whatever treatment? I am hale and hearty. I was admitted to Amcad Hospital over three months ago and the doctors diagnosed little traces of ulcer and typhoid, and I was treated.

    So, I was surprised when I read that I wanted to sell my house or that I sold my house because I needed money for my treatment. Oh my God! What kind of profession have I chosen? If one farts, people will say it is blue and if one pees, people will say it is green! But honestly, there is no iota of truth in that report. If I was sick, would I be sitting here? I would like to use this medium to express my gratitude to well-meaning Nigerians who have been calling to ask after my wellbeing.

    Did you grant any interview recently, where you mentioned that you were sick?

    Yes, I actually granted a reporter an interview, but I am surprised he misrepresented me and injected false information in his report. Please, look at the house in question (pointing to an uncompleted building within the premises). Can I sell this kind of house? Or will I sell this other one that I live in?

    Many even think you want to sell the only house you have?

    If that is true, will I now be putting up at a motor park or under a bridge? Today, I am most grateful to God for His favour in my life. He has given me fame and I don’t pray for a reversal of fortune. By the special grace of Allah, I have houses and some of my children too have built their own houses. Before now, some people thought I was living in Lekki. Yes, there is a big mansion in Lekki built by one of my daughters, who is a registered nurse in the US. I had a plan for the house from the outset. So, why will I sell my house to raise money in order to treat malaria or ulcer?

    What was your plan?

    I wanted to use it as a hotel. However, I was advised against such a plan on the grounds that I might not be able to maintain it later on. They also advised me that it might be mismanaged by the workers. So, I was confused and didn’t know what to do with the house any more. Consequently, I stopped work on it for a good reason.

    Could you expatiate?

    I don’t want anyone to kill me over my property. That is the main reason I said that I could put it up for sale some day, if I so wish. The Yoruba say, Ara ile e ni, ni ota eni (Your family is your enemy). I alone know the spiritual battle I am fighting within my family. You see, the fall of a yellow leaf is a warning to the green one. All my children are faring well in their respective professions. Most of my children are graduates and they live in different parts of the world. They are not the ones after my property.

    But the enemies within are those that I had mistakenly got married to in the early stage of my career. These are the people plotting my death, so they can take over my property. But I won’t allow such a thing to happen after my death. As far as I am concerned, those people who made me go through hell in life will not have access to my property. Therefore, rather than allow this property or any other one to be inherited by these people, I will sell it off. So, that was what I told the reporter. I never said I sold my house; yet, he reported that I did because of health condition. I am a not a sickler!

    How will you react to the insinuation that you built the house in Lekki, which you claimed is owned by your daughter, after you played Baba Ijebu lotto and won some millions of naira?

    I swear with Allah’s name and that of the holy Prophet, I don’t know how the Baba Ijebu lotto paper looks like and I have never met Baba Ijebu either. It is more than five years since I started hearing the rumour that I won Baba Ijebu lotto. They said I won N400million and that I sued Baba Ijebu to court when he defaulted. They also said Baba Ijebu promised to be paying me N1million monthly. I have refuted all these rumours several times, but nobody seems to believe me.

    Maybe the people saying this have carried out an evaluation of the house and concluded that you couldn’t have built it, if you didn’t make so much money possibly from playing Baba Ijebu lotto.

    Yes, you are right. But you see, as a father, whatever your child owns is indirectly yours. As I said earlier, it is owned by my daughter who lives in the U.S.

    You said earlier that you made some mistakes in the past. Could you expatiate?

    It is rare to find a musician, especially in this part of the world, who has not fallen into the same pit. In my case, I regret marrying many wives. If I knew things would later turn out like this, I wouldn’t have married so many women. Human beings are unpredictable! Don’t also forget that women are very jealous; they don’t like rivalry in any way. But we were too young and ignorant to know all these at that time.

    In our kind of profession, if you don’t invite them (women), they will come running to you. If you have a relationship with five people, you will find someone who will be acting like Judas among them. I am not pointing finger at anyone. So, once you know that some people are after your life, even if it is a rumour, you must be very wary. So, I am trying to be smarter by wanting to sell my house, so that no one will inherit what is not rightfully hers.

    If you decide to sell all your property because of the fear of attack by some so-called enemies, don’t you consider what will happen to your children?

    Most of my children are graduates, so they can’t be interested in my property. In my case, I am not so educated and I didn’t inherit anything from my parents. It was by God’s grace that I got to this height in life. So, the children too will sort out themselves.

    How true is the report that you have 15 wives?

    No, I am not married to 15 wives! It is a lie! Yes, I have wives and children. This is one of the problems I have with the Nigerian press. They don’t build, but destroy. Well, I won’t really say that it is destructive; after all, they didn’t report that I stole anything. A white man may choose to have a wife or not and he may choose to have children or not. But nobody will make a fuse about it. Sometime ago, I was discussing with my children, in company with a white guy, at a restaurant in Chicago. When I mentioned that my problem is that none of my wives lives with me, the white guy wondered why that should be a problem for me.

    But this is Africa?

    Yes, you are right and I told him so. You see, in my heart, I truly wish I have a woman living with me. I want to live a responsible life. But if you are battling with a spiritual problem, it will be hard to live a responsible life. Also, once the foundation of one’s life is shaky, it will be really tough to actualize one’s dream in life. Once you make a mistake in your choice of woman or even in your affairs with women, it will take the grace of God to make any correction. So, I urge the younger artistes to be very wary of women.

    So, none of your wives lives with you at the moment?

    I won’t lie to you that I have a particular woman living with me at the moment. Well, those of them who have children for me come maybe when their children are getting married and go back afterwards.

    Why do celebrities shy away from disclosing the number of their children and wives while they are alive so as to prevent a situation where unsubstantiated reports are peddled about their families when they pass on?

    All I will say is that I am married and blessed with children. But the tradition doesn’t permit me to disclose the number of my children.

    When specifically were you admitted to the hospital?

    It was about two months ago. After I was discharged, I have gone to perform at Osogbo with Musiliu Isola Haruna.

    Looking back now, would you say you squandered the first millions you made, as most young and budding artistes are wont to do?

    If I did, would I have this kind of house? In 1983, I opened a fish depot at Adua Bus Stop. Unfortunately, I lost it to spiritual attack. At that time, I was sick for 13 years.

    Did you say 13 years?

    It was a spiritual attack and they couldn’t diagnose anything. At that time, former Nigerian military president, Gen. Ibrahim Babangida, directed that I be taken to the1004 Hospital, Lagos. They ran a series of tests on me, but nothing was found. They flushed out typhoid from my system and I thank God for saving my life at that time. When I travelled to America and was admitted to a hospital, they still couldn’t diagnose anything. But I knew something was wrong with my system.

    Later, they suggested that I consult traditional medicine practitioners. We then began to patronise Alfas and traditional medicine practitioners before I got well fully. May Allah grant my friend, Sikiru Ayinde Barrister, eternal rest. Whenever he visited me at Crown Hospital, he would massage my legs because I was on drip. In fact, on some occasions, I would leave the hospital to play and return there. I was in and out of different hospitals. But I spent more time at Crown Hospital. The truth, again, is that it was all due to my affairs with women.

    Certainly, you must be close to IBB for him to have done that for you.

    It was because I was singing mostly about current affairs. I was introduced to the former president by Chief Alex Akinyele, who was then the Minister of Information. Even when my first house was gutted by fire, IBB sent a minister to console me. In his speech, the minister explained why the government’s delegation had visited me. He said it was because I had used my music to promote the government’s policies. He gave me a cheque; the late MKO Abiola, Gen. Sanni Abacha, Col. Raji Rasaki also gave me money. In fact, Col. Raji Rasaki gave me a house in Ogudu. I spent six months at the Gateway Hotel and I didn’t pay a dime. So, I beg these people to allow me enjoy my remaining years on earth. Come to think of it, am I not the owner of the house? Can’t I do what I like with it? Don’t kill me as you killed my friend, Barrister.

    Did anyone kill Barrister?

    Didn’t they kill him? Are you saying it wasn’t a spiritual attack? Imagine someone who was bedridden for that long. At the outset, they carried all sorts of rumour about him until he eventually died. So, people should allow me enjoy the fruit of my labour. I can do whatever I like with my property.

    But people say you and the late Barrister were not the best of friends.

    It is all business gimmicks! We were not enemies as such. This is a friendship that developed in 1963 when we didn’t know we would be famous at all.

    What do you miss most about him?

    Oh! I miss him a lot. Whenever he visited me, we would joke, play and recount old memories. Sometimes, he would just deliberately say, “Let me poke Kola” and I would say, “Go ahead and see the result.” He once came here and while we were eating, he said, “Do you know that as we sit here, some people are out there fighting one another over us?” and I said, “Yes”. One day, he came here with his son, Barry Showkey, who had just produced an album. He told me he had blessed it, but he wanted me, as Barry Showkey’s second father, to do the same. That day, he also said, “Kola, let’s put an end to this rivalry” and I said, “Who is fighting you? Are you not the one who always insults me with proverbs?” And we all laughed over it.

    Recently, Queen Salawa Abeni was ill and your name was never mentioned among the people who visited her while she was on sickbed. This, to me, further shows that you have not resolved your issues.

    I still spoke with her three days ago, when my daughter came to inform me that she was going to London. I speak regularly with her. I read about her illness in the newspapers and I felt that I should be the first person to know about it. I am her husband in the whole wide world; after all, she can’t be thinking of getting married to any man at her age now. We don’t have any issue. But I later visited her at home..

    You claim to be her husband when you are not legally married to each other.

    She has three children for me and you are still asking me if we are legally married or not.

    Maybe that is why she feels she is not obliged to tell you certain things.

    She was just being funny then. Now, she knows I am her husband and I know she is my wife.

    Is it not possible for both of you to live as husband and wife, under the same roof since you said there is no woman living with you at the moment?

    The reason we can’t live together is that I don’t want to endanger her life. If she moves in with me, don’t you think her seniors will kick against it? I am happy at the way she is. Besides, she takes care of my children. In the same way, I can’t bring in any of the other women. So, I only need to reorganize myself.

    Is this the biggest mistake you have made in life?

    It is because of it that I have not been more successful than I am. If not for their problem, the fish depot would still have been in existence. I made the mistake of entrusting it under the care of a woman. So, at the height of the spiritual attack, I had to sell it to raise money to treat myself, in addition to all the money I got from the government and individuals.

    How many albums have you produced?

    105 albums.

  • Top acts  thrill at OGU  Festival

    Top acts thrill at OGU Festival

    HAVING enjoyed unbroken peace since 2009, the people of Ogu-Bolo, which is the largest community in Rivers State, marked the 5th anniversary of Ogu Festival last recently.

    A number of leading stand-up comedians, including AY, I Go Dye, Seyi Law, Prince Hezekiah, Pencil and Whale Mouth, thrilled the hitherto contending brothers on the occasion.

    After the comic show, Sean Tizzle, who won the Revelation of the Year award at the last edition of The Headies, thrilled the gathering with some of hit songs like Sho Le and Mama E.

    Thereafter, Burna Boy mounted the stage and put up an electrifying performance.

    Before the event ended, AY also brought on the stage waving-making singer, Kcee who also mesmerized the audience with his powerful stagecraft.

    Speaking after the concert, Dick Willy, president of Ogu Focus Group, said, “For five years, we have mastered the art of warranting sustainable peace in Ogu-Bolo. We know our people are absolute merry- makers. Having fun is, for us, a second skin. So, above hate, malice, violent and hurt, we threw up one of the many great things that unify us. The result is half a decade of lasting peace within the communities. Of course, we dedicate this peace-achievement to the great fun-loving people of Ogu-Bolo community.”

  • Julius Agwu  welcomes  wife, son

    Julius Agwu welcomes wife, son

    AS you are reading this, Julius Agwu’s wife, Ibiere, and son, Zadok Chibuike Julius Agwu, are already settling down in their new environment.

    An highly excited Julius Agwu, one of the top Nigerian stand-up comedians, wrote on his Instagramme page: “ ‘Yiiiippeeeeeeee, they r back #family #mylove #myPrince #myBaby”.

    He showed a photo of his wife and son as they arrived at the Muritala Mohammed International Airport in Lagos over the week.

    Zadok, the first son and second child of the popular comedian, was born in October, 2013, in Houston, Texas.

    The couple, who got married over five years ago, is also blessed with a daughter, Zahra.

  • My biggest  mistake—Kollingtaon Ayinla

    My biggest mistake—Kollingtaon Ayinla

    Amidst the widespread rumour that he is currently laid up with a debilitating illness that requires urgent medical attention, you would have thought that he is still supine on his sickbed, while he is being drip-fed. But alas, it is a wicked rumour! During a recent visit by BABATUNDE SULAIMAN to the Alagbado, Lagos home of Alhaji Abdul-Razaq Kolawole Ilori, a.k.a. Kollington Ayinla, he was in a meeting with two relations within his expansive compound. Interestingly, as if the Fuji music maestro, who has 105 albums to his credit, had been hankering after an opportunity to unburden his heart, he opened up on some of his hitherto kept secrets, among other riveting issues

    RECENTLY, it was rumoured that you were hospitalized and that you wanted to put up your house for sale in order to defray the medical bill. Could you give me the true picture of your state of health?

    I am happy you can see me sitting in my compound today. So, what kind of ailment will you say I am suffering from? I have not contracted HIV/ AIDS and I don’t have cancer either, as it is being speculated. So, why will I want to sell my house so as to raise money for whatever treatment? I am hale and hearty. I was admitted to Amcad Hospital over three months ago and the doctors diagnosed little traces of ulcer and typhoid, and I was treated.

    So, I was surprised when I read that I wanted to sell my house or that I sold my house because I needed money for my treatment. Oh my God! What kind of profession have I chosen? If one farts, people will say it is blue and if one pees, people will say it is green! But honestly, there is no iota of truth in that report. If I was sick, would I be sitting here? I would like to use this medium to express my gratitude to well-meaning Nigerians who have been calling to ask after my wellbeing.

    Did you grant any interview recently, where you mentioned that you were sick?

    Yes, I actually granted a reporter an interview, but I am surprised he misrepresented me and injected false information in his report. Please, look at the house in question (pointing to an uncompleted building within the premises). Can I sell this kind of house? Or will I sell this other one that I live in?

    Many even think you want to sell the only house you have?

    If that is true, will I now be putting up at a motor park or under a bridge? Today, I am most grateful to God for His favour in my life. He has given me fame and I don’t pray for a reversal of fortune. By the special grace of Allah, I have houses and some of my children too have built their own houses. Before now, some people thought I was living in Lekki. Yes, there is a big mansion in Lekki built by one of my daughters, who is a registered nurse in the US. I had a plan for the house from the outset. So, why will I sell my house to raise money in order to treat malaria or ulcer?

    What was your plan?

    I wanted to use it as a hotel. However, I was advised against such a plan on the grounds that I might not be able to maintain it later on. They also advised me that it might be mismanaged by the workers. So, I was confused and didn’t know what to do with the house any more. Consequently, I stopped work on it for a good reason.

    Could you expatiate?

    I don’t want anyone to kill me over my property. That is the main reason I said that I could put it up for sale some day, if I so wish. The Yoruba say, Ara ile e ni, ni ota eni (Your family is your enemy). I alone know the spiritual battle I am fighting within my family. You see, the fall of a yellow leaf is a warning to the green one. All my children are faring well in their respective professions. Most of my children are graduates and they live in different parts of the world. They are not the ones after my property.

    But the enemies within are those that I had mistakenly got married to in the early stage of my career. These are the people plotting my death, so they can take over my property. But I won’t allow such a thing to happen after my death. As far as I am concerned, those people who made me go through hell in life will not have access to my property. Therefore, rather than allow this property or any other one to be inherited by these people, I will sell it off. So, that was what I told the reporter. I never said I sold my house; yet, he reported that I did because of health condition. I am a not a sickler!

    How will you react to the insinuation that you built the house in Lekki, which you claimed is owned by your daughter, after you played Baba Ijebu lotto and won some millions of naira?

    I swear with Allah’s name and that of the holy Prophet, I don’t know how the Baba Ijebu lotto paper looks like and I have never met Baba Ijebu either. It is more than five years since I started hearing the rumour that I won Baba Ijebu lotto. They said I won N400million and that I sued Baba Ijebu to court when he defaulted. They also said Baba Ijebu promised to be paying me N1million monthly. I have refuted all these rumours several times, but nobody seems to believe me.

    Maybe the people saying this have carried out an evaluation of the house and concluded that you couldn’t have built it, if you didn’t make so much money possibly from playing Baba Ijebu lotto.

    Yes, you are right. But you see, as a father, whatever your child owns is indirectly yours. As I said earlier, it is owned by my daughter who lives in the U.S.

    You said earlier that you made some mistakes in the past. Could you expatiate?

    It is rare to find a musician, especially in this part of the world, who has not fallen into the same pit. In my case, I regret marrying many wives. If I knew things would later turn out like this, I wouldn’t have married so many women. Human beings are unpredictable! Don’t also forget that women are very jealous; they don’t like rivalry in any way. But we were too young and ignorant to know all these at that time.

    In our kind of profession, if you don’t invite them (women), they will come running to you. If you have a relationship with five people, you will find someone who will be acting like Judas among them. I am not pointing finger at anyone. So, once you know that some people are after your life, even if it is a rumour, you must be very wary. So, I am trying to be smarter by wanting to sell my house, so that no one will inherit what is not rightfully hers.

    If you decide to sell all your property because of the fear of attack by some so-called enemies, don’t you consider what will happen to your children?

    Most of my children are graduates, so they can’t be interested in my property. In my case, I am not so educated and I didn’t inherit anything from my parents. It was by God’s grace that I got to this height in life. So, the children too will sort out themselves.

    How true is the report that you have 15 wives?

    No, I am not married to 15 wives! It is a lie! Yes, I have wives and children. This is one of the problems I have with the Nigerian press. They don’t build, but destroy. Well, I won’t really say that it is destructive; after all, they didn’t report that I stole anything. A white man may choose to have a wife or not and he may choose to have children or not. But nobody will make a fuse about it. Sometime ago, I was discussing with my children, in company with a white guy, at a restaurant in Chicago. When I mentioned that my problem is that none of my wives lives with me, the white guy wondered why that should be a problem for me.

    But this is Africa?

    Yes, you are right and I told him so. You see, in my heart, I truly wish I have a woman living with me. I want to live a responsible life. But if you are battling with a spiritual problem, it will be hard to live a responsible life. Also, once the foundation of one’s life is shaky, it will be really tough to actualize one’s dream in life. Once you make a mistake in your choice of woman or even in your affairs with women, it will take the grace of God to make any correction. So, I urge the younger artistes to be very wary of women.

    So, none of your wives lives with you at the moment?

    I won’t lie to you that I have a particular woman living with me at the moment. Well, those of them who have children for me come maybe when their children are getting married and go back afterwards.

    Why do celebrities shy away from disclosing the number of their children and wives while they are alive so as to prevent a situation where unsubstantiated reports are peddled about their families when they pass on?

    All I will say is that I am married and blessed with children. But the tradition doesn’t permit me to disclose the number of my children.

    When specifically were you admitted to the hospital?

    It was about two months ago. After I was discharged, I have gone to perform at Osogbo with Musiliu Isola Haruna.

    Looking back now, would you say you squandered the first millions you made, as most young and budding artistes are wont to do?

    If I did, would I have this kind of house? In 1983, I opened a fish depot at Adua Bus Stop. Unfortunately, I lost it to spiritual attack. At that time, I was sick for 13 years.

    Did you say 13 years?

    It was a spiritual attack and they couldn’t diagnose anything. At that time, former Nigerian military president, Gen. Ibrahim Babangida, directed that I be taken to the1004 Hospital, Lagos. They ran a series of tests on me, but nothing was found. They flushed out typhoid from my system and I thank God for saving my life at that time. When I travelled to America and was admitted to a hospital, they still couldn’t diagnose anything. But I knew something was wrong with my system.

    Later, they suggested that I consult traditional medicine practitioners. We then began to patronise Alfas and traditional medicine practitioners before I got well fully. May Allah grant my friend, Sikiru Ayinde Barrister, eternal rest. Whenever he visited me at Crown Hospital, he would massage my legs because I was on drip. In fact, on some occasions, I would leave the hospital to play and return there. I was in and out of different hospitals. But I spent more time at Crown Hospital. The truth, again, is that it was all due to my affairs with women.

    Certainly, you must be close to IBB for him to have done that for you.

    It was because I was singing mostly about current affairs. I was introduced to the former president by Chief Alex Akinyele, who was then the Minister of Information. Even when my first house was gutted by fire, IBB sent a minister to console me. In his speech, the minister explained why the government’s delegation had visited me. He said it was because I had used my music to promote the government’s policies. He gave me a cheque; the late MKO Abiola, Gen. Sanni Abacha, Col. Raji Rasaki also gave me money. In fact, Col. Raji Rasaki gave me a house in Ogudu. I spent six months at the Gateway Hotel and I didn’t pay a dime. So, I beg these people to allow me enjoy my remaining years on earth. Come to think of it, am I not the owner of the house? Can’t I do what I like with it? Don’t kill me as you killed my friend, Barrister.

    Did anyone kill Barrister?

    Didn’t they kill him? Are you saying it wasn’t a spiritual attack? Imagine someone who was bedridden for that long. At the outset, they carried all sorts of rumour about him until he eventually died. So, people should allow me enjoy the fruit of my labour. I can do whatever I like with my property.

    But people say you and the late Barrister were not the best of friends.

    It is all business gimmicks! We were not enemies as such. This is a friendship that developed in 1963 when we didn’t know we would be famous at all.

    What do you miss most about him?

    Oh! I miss him a lot. Whenever he visited me, we would joke, play and recount old memories. Sometimes, he would just deliberately say, “Let me poke Kola” and I would say, “Go ahead and see the result.” He once came here and while we were eating, he said, “Do you know that as we sit here, some people are out there fighting one another over us?” and I said, “Yes”. One day, he came here with his son, Barry Showkey, who had just produced an album. He told me he had blessed it, but he wanted me, as Barry Showkey’s second father, to do the same. That day, he also said, “Kola, let’s put an end to this rivalry” and I said, “Who is fighting you? Are you not the one who always insults me with proverbs?” And we all laughed over it.

    Recently, Queen Salawa Abeni was ill and your name was never mentioned among the people who visited her while she was on sickbed. This, to me, further shows that you have not resolved your issues.

    I still spoke with her three days ago, when my daughter came to inform me that she was going to London. I speak regularly with her. I read about her illness in the newspapers and I felt that I should be the first person to know about it. I am her husband in the whole wide world; after all, she can’t be thinking of getting married to any man at her age now. We don’t have any issue. But I later visited her at home..

    You claim to be her husband when you are not legally married to each other.

    She has three children for me and you are still asking me if we are legally married or not.

    Maybe that is why she feels she is not obliged to tell you certain things.

    She was just being funny then. Now, she knows I am her husband and I know she is my wife.

    Is it not possible for both of you to live as husband and wife, under the same roof since you said there is no woman living with you at the moment?

    The reason we can’t live together is that I don’t want to endanger her life. If she moves in with me, don’t you think her seniors will kick against it? I am happy at the way she is. Besides, she takes care of my children. In the same way, I can’t bring in any of the other women. So, I only need to reorganize myself.

    Is this the biggest mistake you have made in life?

    It is because of it that I have not been more successful than I am. If not for their problem, the fish depot would still have been in existence. I made the mistake of entrusting it under the care of a woman. So, at the height of the spiritual attack, I had to sell it to raise money to treat myself, in addition to all the money I got from the government and individuals.

    How many albums have you produced?

    105 albums.

  • Mind your language

    Mind your language

    WONDER why some celebs make careless utterances, when the social media affords them the opportunity to think them over in their heads before spilling. It only goes to show that not many are schooled in the role model tradition. But I think that the function of responsibility (social or otherwise) is to the extent that one understands that whatever is said or done has immediate or remote effect on one’s neighbours.

    You don’t have to be a celebrity to be conscious of your environment. And this is not about the trash of abstaining from buying ‘boli’ and groundnut by the roadside. This is the limit to the self-esteem that most of our stars know, including living a pseudo-ranking lifestyle that has pushed many into drugs.

    Perhaps, the neighbours of the celebrity are so plenteous and diverse such that in a moment they forget and make input on the social media, as though they were in a chat-group of close friends.

    When controversial actress, Tonto Dikeh, recently showed off a gun, threatening to shoot rumour mongers if they do not mind their business in the new year, her post did not attract much reaction from fans probably because the actress is known for crazy stunts. Her case has long been decided and closed by discerning minds and not all “The Future’ awards in this world will make any difference.

    Jude Engees Okoye, elder brother and manager to twin singers, Psquare, was not as lucky. When he attempted to make a statement, two days after, by showing photos of him loading a pistol with two other firearms and live bullets sprawling in his repertoire, fans took him to the cleaners.

    The Instagram social media noted for photo show-reels offers a platform for mute statements. The trend appears to have gone crazier, with celebrities showing off nude photos, weird tattoos and some other bizarre part of their lifestyles.

    Okoye, even without a complementary statement, gave commentators room to speculate. They dismissed him as a bad role model.

    I was inspired to pen this topic, having read comments that followed comedian Basketmouth’s joke on rape.

    His joke was interpreted in some quarters to mean that the African girl is a too-hard-to-get and deceitful gold digger who would leave her suitor with no other option but rape.

    Though Basketmouth’s joke appears to favour the white girl in his joke, the irony of the matter is that the same comedian was, in 2007, accused of being a racist over a joke he cracked in Austria. Even then, what he thought was a harmless joke, I remember, gave him some sleepless nights.

    Basketmouth, in front of a capacity crowd in Austria, reportedly said ‘jokingly’ that he did not like Austrians because they are racists.

    The crowd made up of Nigerians and their Austrian counterparts were said to be aghast with the way he toyed with a sensitive word such as racism in the host country.

    Like his recent joke, the comedian claimed the report was blown out of proportion.

    Perhaps, what Basketmouth didn’t realise was that his comments smirks sexual violence in a continent with high prevalence of abuse against women. Even though he apologised, swearing with his mother, wife, daughter and sisters as reason his joke should not be taken seriously, commentators were already asking for the telecommunications company, Globacom, to relief him of his position as their brand ambassador.

    Yes, it can be as punitive as that, in a clime that understands the effect of questionable public comments on their image.

    Recall also that some years back, a South African PR executive was fired by her company for making a careless statement about AIDS, as it relates to Africa.

    Justine Sacco was on a flight to South Africa, when she tweeted: “Going to Africa. Hope I don’t get AIDS.”

    Her tweet went viral on the Internet, catching the attention of her employers who, in no time, showed her the door.

    Despite Sacco’s plea that she is a South African and would not want to insult her continent; despite her claim that she was tipsy when doing the tweet, all fell on deaf ears.

    The lesson is that of sensitivity. Perhaps, the issue of AIDS in Africa is not less sensitive as rape. The public’s understanding of Sacco’s comment was that she insulted a race of people, a nation and an entire continent. This type of tomfoolery by a PR executive at a media company reflected more than just the ability of those who lack common sense and decency to climb the corporate ladder.

    Do we recall also that singer Madonna was slammed for showing her 13-year-old son with a gin bottle? This is how serious public perception on issues can be.

    Madonna landed herself in hot water, after posting a photo of her son holding a bottle of alcohol. Her son, Rocco Ritchie, was just 13, but was shown holding a full bottle of gin with two friends with the caption: “The party has just begun! Bring it!’”

    After the photo was posted on Madonna’s official Instagram account, the comments exploded with outraged fans who were shocked that she was allowing her son to have alcohol.

    In Switzerland, where Madonna was holidaying at the time, the drinking age is 16.

    Fans think no responsible parent would do that. It robbed on the singer terribly because, according to a commentator, “Would I let my 13-year-old drink? No! I am a responsible parent. My kids will not drink before legal age. It’s just about perception and this gives a bad image /perception on mother and son. It was begging for negative publicity.”

    Madonna was forced to respond to the negative reactions by denying that her son was not drinking any of the alcohol in the picture. But no one cares anymore! “No one was drinking; we were just having fun! Calm down and get a sense of humour! Don’t start the year off with judgment!” she said.

  • Don’t die in a LOVELESS marriage—Ayo Adesanya

    Don’t die in a LOVELESS marriage—Ayo Adesanya

    IT was an exciting moment recently when popular crossover actress, Ayo Adesanya, and BBA Game Show star, Karen Igho,the 2011 winner of Big Brother Africa’s Amplified edition, appeared as guests on Moments with Mo, a popular TV programme.

    But the highlight of the show was when the beautiful actress and mother of one spoke about her crashed marriage with her ex-husband, Hassan Goriola, a top movie producer and actor.

    Her words: “If a man shows any slightest form of violence, ladies, don’t go in. I thought I was in a loving relationship. I mean it was all fun until the beating started and then got worse…and I just couldn’t let go because I was emotionally confused. This is the same man that touched me lovingly, catered for my needs and called me baby; yet, he beat me up. The loving moments made me think that he would change, but when it got so bad, I had to convince myself that he would never change. Women must watch out for men who shove them here and there..If he is by the littlest chance violent, don’t go in, it only gets worse!” she revealed.

    For Karen Igho, “A man who suddenly hits you for the first time in the fifth year of a relationship means he’s been an abuser all along, one who neatly hid his monster trait from you.”

  • Maheeda tempts dancers on set

    Maheeda tempts dancers on set

    WHAT does Caroline ‘Maheeda’ Sam want? This is the question that many keep asking whenever her name pops up.

    Maheeda, who claims to be a Gospel singer, seems not to be apologetic about her undisciplined life style.

    After assaulting our collective sensibility with her nude pictures, the mother of one recently posted pictures taken during the shoot of one of her forthcoming music videos.

    In the video, she stands half-clothed in the middle of three well-built men in briefs. One of the men in the picture is seen placing his mouth right on her private part.

    Already, people are asking the National Film and Video and Censor Board to drop the hammer on the artiste before the video is pushed out for public consumption.

    She is also quoted to have said that her daughter will start viewing her unclothed photographs from 2015.

    The popular Nigerian female artiste further stated that by that time, when the teenage girl will turn 18, she would have access to the social media, where she might get to see the numerous nude pictures of her mother already on the Internet.

  • Davido excited Over colalabo with D’Banj

    Davido excited Over colalabo with D’Banj

    INDICATIONS have emerged that 2014 will witness a lot of collaborations among leading acts in Nigeria.

    Already, the social media is now awash with the news of notable pop acts, D’Banj and Davido, planning a duet.

    The Omo Baba Olowo 1 of 9ja music shared the above photo of himself, Sina and the Eja Nla, Dbanj, ‘chilling’ in a studio.

    It may not take too long before the two celebrated hip hop stars will unfold their plans, as they were recently spotted in a studio to record what could be termed a big collabo.

    Davido, who is excited over the development, posted a message, saying, “In the studio with the King!! 2014 year of all!!!!! @iambangalee”

    With collaborations with artistes like Naeto C, Shank, Lynxxx and popular UK artiste and Dotstar, Davido is set to prove to the music industry that he has what it takes to succeed.

    He has also performed with international stars like T-Pain, Fabulous, Keith Sweat, Cabo Snoop, D’Banj, Naeto C and more.

  • Uti, others for ‘Abuja’s  Top Celebrities  Orphanage Visitation 2014’

    Uti, others for ‘Abuja’s Top Celebrities Orphanage Visitation 2014’

    COME February 22, a number of celebrities will be going on visitation to some orphanages.

    Tagged Abuja Top Celebrities Orphanage Visitation 2014, it is designed to give hopes to the less privileged and make them feel loved and cared for.

    This year, the event, which is an annual gathering of celebrities from across Nigeria, will involve FRSC officials and media partners.

    Ell Adamz, former Mr. FCT Abuja, and of the coordinators said, “It is also one of the criteria for nomination in Nigeria Goodwill Ambassador Awards 2014.

    “The visitation will be led by Her Excellency, the former First Lady of Kogi State, Amb.( Dr.) Aisha Audu-Emeje. Celebrities such as Uti Nwachukwu, Black Face, Sani Danga, Benson Okonkwo Scouters Modeling Agency, Linda Byron and other notable Nigerians have endorsed and confirmed participation.”

    According to the organizers, there will be no cash donations, as different kinds of gifts will be accepted for the kids.

  • Yvonne Nelson debunks  movie role with Iyanya

    Yvonne Nelson debunks movie role with Iyanya

    ONE of Ghanaian top actresses, Yvonne Nelson, is angry with a popular blogger.

    Her issue with the blogger borders on the alleged report that she starred in a movie, The Ransom, with popular Nigerian pop singer, Iyanya Mbuk.

    She fired back at the blogger with a denial, saying, “A movie I don’t know about? What is this about? Really? Who is the producer? Where is the script? Why don’t I know? Now there you go. It’s a new year. The lies should stop. Thank you. OMG, you changed your previous story right?? I’m sure you feel bad about it. Get it right next time. Good you edited it. Pls be accurate with stories involving my name. Thank you.”