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  • Glitz, glamour at Oba of Benin’s birthday

    Glitz, glamour at Oba of Benin’s birthday

    Dignitaries thronged Benin City last Saturday for the birthday of Bini Monarch, Omo N’ Oba N’Edo Uku Akpolokpolo, Oba Erediauwa. OSAGIE OTABOR reports

    The ancient City of the Benin The ancient city of Benin was agog last Saturday when its revered monarch, Omo N’ Oba N’Edo Uku Akpolokpolo, Oba Erediauwa celebrated his birthday.

    The palace walls and some streets in the city were adorned with banners by individuals and corporate organisations wishing the king well.

    As part of the celebration, a children’s party was held. It featured dancing competition and cultural troupes.

    The wives of the Oba were in attendance. They gorgeously dressed and surrounded by maids.

    Entertainment was provided by DJ Darmix and Osaretin Cultural Group.

    There was a re-launch of a book written by the monarch, I Remain Sir, Your Loyal Servant.

    The event was well attended.

    On the D-day, a birthday dinner was organised to celebrate the revered monarch at the palace ground. The venue was decorated with white to signify purity. Beautiful female ushers dressed in Benin attire took dignitaries to their tables.

    Many struggled to gain access into the tent where the reception was held.

    Different cultural troupes performed to add glamour to the event.

    Guests were treated to a three-course meal of Nigerian and foreign cuisine. Assorted wines and drinks were served.

    Oba Erediauwa was not present, but his presence was felt. The cake was white and adorned with beads which symbolise purity of the monarch. The Oba is the only authority to present beads to individuals.

    The Oba was represented by his son, Crown Prince Eheneden Erediauwa, who thanked all for celebrating his dad.

    His queens who are rarely seen in public were led by Olori Esther Erediauwa.

    Governor Adams Oshiomhole, in his toast to the monarch, said the Benin monarch has contributed to the growth of the country by serving in various capacities before retiring as a permanent secretary.

    He described the monarch as a bridge builder.

    Others who gave toast were Chief Judge of Edo State, Justice Cromwell Idahosa, Hon Patrick Obahiagbon, and Chief Eduwu Ekhator.

    The Crown Prince, who was surrounded by the queens during the cutting of the cake, described the cake as special.

    The celebration climaxed with a thanksgiving at the Holy Arosa Church on Akpakpava Street.

    Dignitaries included Aidonogie of South Ibie, Kelvin Danesi, State Secretary of (Action Congress of Nigeria (ACN), the Onojie of Ewatto Chief Osaro Idah; Deputy Governor of Edo State, Dr Pius Odubu; Minority Whip of the House of Representatives, Samson Osagie; Chief Mike Ozekhome (SAN); member representing Oredo Federal Constituency Rasaq Bello Osagie; Speaker, Edo State House of Assembly Hon Uyi Igbe and other members of Edo South in the National Assembly.

    Others are Mr Osarodion Ogie members of the Edo State Executive Council; members of the House of Assembly, traditional rulers from Delta State, Edo North and Central senatorial districts

  • Monarch honours Tambuwal

    Monarch honours Tambuwal

    The first year coronation anniversary of Alawe of Ilawe, Ekiti, Ekiti State, Oba Adebanji Ajibade Alabi, was held last weekend. Some dignitaries, including Hon Aminu Tambuwal, were conferred with chieftaincy titles on the occasion. DADA ALADELOKUN and SULAIMAN SALAWUDEEN were there

    THE rustic Ilawe community in Ekiti State came alive last Saturday for the first coronation anniversary of its monarch, Oba Adebanji Ajibade Alabi. It was a two-in-one event as the community also marked its Unity Day on that day. Legs and vehicles competed for space at the venue of the carnival-like event. The monarch and his wife, Olori Abimbola, looked resplendent in their traditional outfit.

    The sons and daughters of the community from home and abroad bubbled with excitement. The venue, Corpus Christi College, probably had never hosted such a mammoth crowd with some high-profile personalities.

    Tradition was in display. Masquerades were not left out. On their outlandish attires, they saluted all in their customary guttural voices. It was a special day of harvest. Itinerant entertainers drummed and sang guests’ praises. Even before guests’ arrival, an Ekiti traditional musician, Major Femi Ariyo and members of Ekiti Cultural Troupe, gave a good account of themselves. They kept people on their feet dancing. Frontline Ikere-Ekiti born Juju music sensation, Micho Ade, later took his turn amid applause.

    Policemen, Civil Defence officials and members of the Oodua People’s Congress (OPC), provided security. They were complemented by the Senior Special Assistant to the Governor (Security), Ade Adesokan and his aides.

    Many were pleasantly surprised at the calibre of the ushers, all illustrious sons of the town – former General Secretary of the Nigerian Bar Association (NBA), Pastor Dele Adesina and Femi Falana, both Senior Advocates of Nigeria (SAN); renowned Estate surveyor, Chief Kola Akomolede and High Chief Gbenga Agbona, the Elemo of Oke-Emo, Ilawe. They were virtually on their feet throughout the event.

    The celebration took off about 2pm when Speaker of the House of Representatives, Aminu Tambuwal and some of his aides and colleagues, including Dr Ifeoluwa Arowosoge and Babatunde Faparusi came in. Senators Olu Adetumbi and Babafemi Ojudu were there.

    Monarchs in attendance included the Owa Ooye of Okemesi and Chairman, Ekiti State Traditional Council of Obas, Oba Michael Gbadebo; Oluyin of Iyin Ekiti, Oba Adekola Ajakaye; Onisan of Isan-Ekiti, Oba Sunday Ajiboye, and the Deji of Akure, Oba Adebiyi Adesida.

    Bishop Felix Femi-Ajakaiye, the Catholic Bishop of Ekiti Diocese, represented the clergy.

    The Chairman, Ikere Local Government, Hon. Adesoji Michael, was there alongside a prominent member of Ikere Caretaker Committee, Chief Julius Aruleba. It was a special day for accomplished indigenes of the town, including Olusegun Faleye, Managing Director, Swede Control Intertek Limited, Lagos, Kayode Olofinmoyin, and Wing Commander Adeyemi Awe (rtd), former Chairman, Ilawe Improvement Union (IPU).

    Another indigene, retired Lt. Col. Kayode Olugbade, owner of Command, a popular hotel in Ado Ekiti, the state capital, described the outing as “a major breakthrough for this community.”

    Erelu Bisi Fayemi’s arrival excited the crowd. The governor arrived about 40 minutes after his aide, Aderitan said he was on his way.

    Highlights of the event included the conferment of chieftaincy titles on some dignitaries. Tambuwal was made the Bobagunwa of Ilawe; Chief Titi Oluwatuyi, the Eyelua of Ilawe and Otunba Henry Ajomale, Chairman, Action Congress of Nigeria (ACN), Lagos State, the Gbobaniyi.

    Also honoured for their invaluable services to the community were: Mr. John Jegede who became the Bobajiro and his wife, Yeye Bobajiro. Mr. Babatunde Babalola, the Otunba Bobaselu of Ilawe Ekiti.

    Babalola generosity was also hailed by Oba Alabi for his exemplary leadership: “His love for this town and our people is indescribable. He donated N5 million for the planning of this celebration among other contributions. He is a treasure to the community,” he said.

    The occasion witnessed the launch of a N500 million ultra-modern Civic Centre, and the presentation of a N2 million sleek car gift to Mr. James Familoni by Chief Yemi Adaramodu, Fayemi’s chief of staff for his impressive community development efforts. Adaramodu gave cash gifts to Mrs. Victoria Adekunle and Mrs. Toyin Akinniyi for being “committed mothers in the community.”

    Among those who attended the event were the Deputy Governor, Prof Modupe Adelabu and Speaker of the state Assembly, Dr. Wale Omirin, and Hon Funminiyi Afuye, the Commissioner for Integration and Inter-Governmental Affairs. High Chief Jide Awe, who represented Ajomale; former deputy governor, Alhaji Sikiru Tae Lawal and Director-General, Ekiti State Broadcasting Service, Shina Awelewa, a lawyer.

    There was a loud applausee when Tambuwal was invited to take his title. He beamed with smiles in a well-embroidered agbada. His brief address followed. He spoke of the accomplishments of the state under the Fayemi’s administration, saying the progress recorded in the state so far “are too obvious to be denied.”

    The Speaker said: “Development is an open process which everyone would see wherever and whenever it takes place. I have been following developments under Governor Fayemi and I can say that he is one of the few Nigerians whose conducts have been commendable. I admonish you (the governor) to continue the good works and the good Lord will continue to be with you.”

    He spoke on his chieftaincy title: “I accept this honour and shall never discredit it. I want to inform us that I will build my first house in the Southwest part of this country in Ilawe-Ekiti for the great respect I attach to the honour done me here today.”

    Fayemi described Tambuwal as “a leader with whom I am very well pleased.”

    “The essence of today’s celebration is to show us a leader in whom the people are well pleased. The monarch has just spent one year on the throne. We can only imagine what the town will become when he marks the tenth year on the throne.”

    Oba Alabi said the event would have come up on April 21 but was postponed as a mark of honour for the departed former deputy governor of the state, Mrs. Funmilayo Olayinka.

    He said: “I thank God Almighty for His blessings on me and the entire Ilawe Kingdom since I ascended the Alawe throne last year. My unanimous choice by the kingmakers to the Alawe stool, a year ago, has marked unprecedented era of unity, cooperation, and an progress in the town. We have enjoyed peace and prosperity within the constraints of the realities of our society.

    “In terms of physical development, we thank the state government for the construction of Ilawe roads and other projects it started in the community, including the renovation of all the secondary schools in Ilawe-Ekiti as well as Agbajeola Hall.”

    Adaramodu said the event ensured the coming together of indigenes for the town’s development, adding that it equally fostered unity and progress of the town.

    During the donation, Falana and Adesina enjoined their kinsmen to sustain peaceful co-existence and join hands with their monarch to lift the community.

  • Hope rises for community

    It was time to relax and recognise some dear ones when Ekiti indigenes converged on Baptist Academy Hall, Obanikoro, Lagos where Igede Progressive Association (IPA), Lagos branch, gave awards to some of its members, OLATUNDE ODEBIYI was there.

    IT was home away from home in Lagos last Saturday for indigenes of Igede-Ekiti, headquarters of Irepodun/Ifelodun Local Government Area of Ekiti State. They converged on the city to strategise on how to move their community forward and reward those had, in the past contributed to the development of the town.

    The forum, organised by the Lagos chapter of Igede Progressive Association (IPA), afforded, and served as a reunion for kinsmen who had not met for a very long time. It was the Annual General Meeting (AGM) of the IPA in Lagos.

    Indigenes were all smiles as they sighted loved ones on approaching the Baptist Academy Hall, Baptist Conference Centre, Obanikoro, venue of the get-together.

    The awards given to deserving members of the community spiced up the gathering where indigenes had frank talks. There was an appraisal of events in the one year and a way forward was charted.

    In all, 13 indigenes were honoured – 10 called out and given awards of excellence for their selfless services in the past to IPA and up-coming Igede youths and three posthumously honoured.

    The hall was decorated with brown and off-white. The chairs were set round tables and decorated with orange fabric.

    The weather was cool and fair and, cars were packed orderly in the parks.

    The guests decked in different traditional attires.

    The arrival of the Onigede of Igede, Oba James Adelusi Aladesuru, was greeted with jubilation. Indigenes and guests stood up and yelled Kabieysioooo – the traditional way of greeting a monarch.

    Some of the indigenes blocked his way, greetings and hailing followed. Others chatted as the monarch acknowledged cheers, waving the horse tail as he was ushered into the hall, straight to the high table.

    The event started with an opening prayer which was said by Rev Oluwamotemi Philip.

    Oba Aladesuru congratulated the awardees for the success achieved and encouraged them to continue in their service to humanity with passion.

    He said: “There is joy when people of the same land have the opportunity to meet together and that’s why we are here today to share in the joy of the day and to proffer the way forward. I am so excited to see many people who I have not seen in recent time and I am sure that they are also happy because of the way they are all coming around to greet and chat with me.”

    The monarch called on the awardees and other indigenes to give it all it takes to move the association forward, urging all to give back to their community. He reminded indigenes who have not invested in the town as debtors to their cradle.

    His words: “Live and unite together in love because this is the only way we can be useful to one another for the development of our town.”

    Apparently throwing a carrot at willing investors, the monarch promised to use his office for the allocation of plots of lands without stress to indigenes.

    In his opening remarks, IPA Chairman (Lagos chapter) Pastor Olufemi Alabi, urged members to be of one mind. He described the event as wonderful, saying that the grace of God has kept the association moving.

    The cleric urged members, especially the younger ones, to remain focused, determined and hardworking.

    Also speaking, the National President, Chief Olusola Omowaye, said the association aspires to take good care of its members, bring the youths together and develop them in such a way that they will be useful to themselves and the community at large.

    Omowaye congratulated the awardees and advised them not to relent.

    The guest speaker, Mr Bosun Ajayi, urged members to incorporate co-ordination, integration and coordination if the association must move forward and take its rightful place.

    Ajayi spoke of the need for collective responsibility, change in orientation, rejection of evil covenant and returning to God.

    The awardees were presented after their citations had been read. They stepped out one after another with applauds from the hall.

    After short remarks, the awardees thanked the community for the honour and made fresh pledges to support the community.

    Among them was a former Chairman of the Appropriation and Finance Committees of Ondo State House of Assembly, Hon Olu Obaweya, who thanked the association for appreciating them for the works done in their life time.

    “We give God the glory for today. It is a unique thing for people to appreciate good gesture. I am grateful to God for the impact he has enabled me to make in my community. It is a pleasant thing and I am proud of it,” he said.

    Obaweya appealed to the youth of the association to contribute meaning fully to its development.

    Also, the Olureri of Igede Ekiti, High Chief Oluwole Fakunle said: “I am very happy and exited for this honour, this is what we all want and it is a thing of joy.”

    He urged the youth not to be in a hurry to get to the top, rather wait on the Lord, be hard working, rely and focus on God because it is only the wisdom of God that can save a man.

    Former legal adviser of First Bank Plc, Chief Andrew Ajibade, described the award as pleasant.

    “It is a good thing to appreciate the effort of other people. The award is not to make me relaxed, rather it is a challenge to make me to do more,” he said.

  • ‘She is your helper’

    ‘She is your helper’

    Prof Olasunkanmi Emiola and his wife Tinuola have given out their daughter Temitope in marriage to Olufesobi, son of Olutayo and Adebisi Bright at a colourful ceremony in Lagos. NNEKA NWANERI was there

    “God has given you a helper as a wife. She will satisfy you with every good thing. The helper is there for you to fulfill God’s purpose of subduing the earth together because two are better than one.”

    With those words, Pastor Wale Adeduro of the Milk and Honey Chapter of the Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG) in Maryland, Lagos, pronounced former Miss Temitope Emiola and Olufesobi Bright as man and wife.

    For the families of the lovebirds, it was a joy seeing them take their first step into marital life last Saturday. Two days earlier, they held the traditional wedding. It was a new experience for the couple, who beamed with joy.

    Guests were resplendent in their dresses. Yellow and silver were the colours of the day. The church was filled to capacity. All seats were occupied. More chairs were brought in for the guests.

    The bride, in her white fitted gown, was led into the church by her father, who wore an agbada of many colours. They walked straight on to the front aisle, where the groom, in a blue suit and white inner shirt waited for them.

    The Bible reading was taken from Genesis 18-25. Pastor Adeduro urged that their union is like that between Christ and the church; they both should fulfill God’s purpose on earth by living holy lives and fulfilling God’s word.

    The couple was admonished to make mistakes till they learn from those mistakes, he urged family members let their marriage grow.

    Soon after signing the marriage register, Temitope took the microphone and joined her choir members and led them in rendering a special number for her husband.

    Everyone moved to The Haven Events Centre, Ikeja, for the reception. Just outside it, large banners with pictures of the couple were everywhere in celebration of their love. The hall was breathtaking. The decor was a spectacle. It was large and expansive with all the trappings of a society wedding.

    On entry, guests paused and swayed their necks to know if to go left, where the bride’s family dominated with their silver head gears or right, where the groom’s people were stylish in yellow. All the tables were labelled with a nuclear and extended family name. There were about 100 tables which 10 guests each.

    The stage was set for the couple alone. The white couch was in the middle. The floor of the stage was rugged with white rug. Guests had a fulfilled day either watching the multi-coloured lightening blinks, or the pictures of the couple, or the bright coloured yellow and silver cloth decoration. The centre walkway was busy with ladies in their high heels and men in their agbada moving up and down in search of their table.

    The Lifted Band entertained with good music before the arrival of the event coordinator, MC First Born. There was also an array of comedians: Exclusive and MCs Weird and Cali Bird Ejiro.

    With DJ Wolex dishing out indigenous hit songs, the bride Temitope and her beau, danced into the hall. She proved a better dancer than her partner. Then, she stole the show when she, in the midst of her bridesmaids, all kitted in yellow, performed a chorography to the admiration of guests. The groom and his men in ash coloured suits stood and watched agape.

    Olufeso provoked laughter when he ran some metres just to get water for his wife. On returning to the stage, he was perspiring and had to take some sips first before giving his wife some and planting a long deep kiss on her lips. The hall erupted in laughter.

    The Chairman of the event and Minister for Trade and Investment, Dr Olusegun Aganga, who said to the couple that marriage to the foolish, is a soil for growing weeds and to the wise, a soil rich for roses.

    “It is an institution where you know the full meaning of love and humility. It is in learning that you make mistakes, disagree to agree; but learn from each other,” Aganga said.

    He admonished them to be grounded in faith, so that they can move mountains and succumb to challenges and urged guests to pray for the couple.

    Prof Emiola had a very emotional slow dance with her daughter before handing her over to her beau. The song beat immediately change to Old school music of Cool and the Gang’s Get Down on it.

    Among other side attractions was a special performance by the bride’s younger brother Funbi.

    In attendance were: Mrs Funke Adekoya (SAN); former Lagos commissioner for Finance Mr Wale Edun; Mr Jimi Agbaje; former Justice of the Supreme Court, George Oguntade; the Owa Obokun of Ijeshaland Oba Adebisi Aromolaran; Oba Adedokun Thomas, among others.

  • Bouquet for Mama Choir

    Bouquet for Mama Choir

    The remains of Madam Felicia Olubola Aderibigbe, mother of Yinka Aderibigbe of The Nation, have been buried in Modakeke, Osun State. JUDE ISIGUZO reports

    As a teacher, the late Madam Felicia Olubola Aderibigbe was loved by many, especially her former pupils. At her funeral, they all came to pay their last respects. The late Mrs Aderibigbe was chorister in her local church till she was 75.

    Her journey to the world beyond began about noon that fateful Thursday. The motorcade bearing her body stormed the sleepy town of Modakeke through Mayfair, via Ondo road to Iraye junction. It made a detour into town and moved slowly through Oke-Amola, Kule Street, down to Amuda Oba Street back to Iraye road.

    From there, the motorcade moved to Gbogbo Lane home of the deceased’s surviving sister and now matriarch of the family Mrs Felicia Folashade Afolabi. A band of undertakers gaily dressed in brown Ankara took over, carrying the casket from the hearse, amid dancing to the 5, Osun Lane home of the deceased and the relations, who had been gathering since the previous day.

    The casket was finally carried into the living room which was tastefully decorated in brown and gold for the lying-in state. The casket was opened for people to catch a last glimpse. Tears flowed freely as people beheld her remains.

    Even the cleric couldn’t help being emotional. Though none wept, all the six officiating clerics at the wake service spoke glowingly of the deceased’s virtues, humility and commitment to the faith.

    The Dean of the Cathedral of St Stephen, Ven. Prof. Akin Ige, whose wife was one of Mama Aderibigbe’s pupils at St Stephen’s B, Modakeke in the early 60s said: “Despite being my wife’s former teacher, (she taught my wife in Primary Three), Mama was very humble, calling her mummy, and always ready to help move the work of God forward. She was not pushy, always very caring, and willing even to part with the little she had if only to make someone else happy. She was so devoted to her husband (also of blessed memory), and always ready to counsel women especially those facing challenges in their marriage to work through such with prayers,” Ige said.

    For Revd Wale Adeleke, the Cathedral Chaplain, Mama Aderibigbe was a lesson in commitment. “As the vicar of one of our branches close to her house, for many years, I tried to convert her to start attending the church, but she would make me realise she and her husband had vowed not to change from attending the Cathedral. I was always visiting them, and each time, I marvel at the kind of love that existed between the two of them that has defied age,” he said.

    The next day, the two sons of the late Madam Aderibigbe, Funso Adewale, an Assistant Director in the Ministry of Education, Abuja and Adeyinka Olumide Aderibigbe, led other relations among who were Prof. Anthony Dele Afolabi, of the Department of General Studies and a former Dean of Students Affairs, Ladoke Akintola University of Technology (LAUTECH), Ogbomoso, the Chairman Ayedaade Local Government Area, Gbongan, Osun State, Evangelist Nathaniel Olusoji Arabambi, Mrs Olubanke Olubunmi Olaleye, a retired Apex Nursing Officer of the Mushin Local Government Area, Lagos, Dr. Modupeola Oyesiji, of the Federal Ministry of Health, Abuja, Mr Olayiwola Adejumo, Mr Seye Adesigbin, Mrs Ronke Omotosho, a Vice-Principal and Mr Patrick Kayode Afolabi, a businessman, among several others, to the entrance of the church.

    Also on hand at the main entrance, were the Adesigbin led by Mama’s direct sibling Pa Abel Oluboye Adesigbin, Mr Banwo Adesigbin, a retired principal, Mr Lawrence Olarewaju, and others family members from the Oloje compound of Ode-Omu, as well as their children and associates who accompanied the remains of their sister.

    The brown casket bearing the remains of Mama Choir was received by the college of clergy, who after some pronouncements accepted it into the church, signalling the commencement of the funeral service.

    Led by the dean, each cleric prayed for the repose of the deceased and the church’s choir took turn to render a special anthem in memory of their late member, whose tenor voice they admitted they would sorely miss.

    But the church shook and everyone was left with wet eyes when members of the Young Women Progressive Society. (YWPS), a group she co-founded with other young women in the 60s, took the microphone to render their special number in memory of their departed heroine.

    They, thereafter, had a replacement for mama in the group, as Mrs Aderonke Aderibigbe was announced and warmly received by the association’s leadership.

    During the funeral service, Revd Adeleke, said there is hope in resurrection because Christ had died and risen. He added that all those who died in Christ did not die, but slept and there is hope that they all shall be woken up at the last day to partake in the glories of beholding the father.

    Adeleke urged everyone to prepare for the end journey as procrastination might be costly.

    He said though Mama was a devoted Christian, she became more committed to God when she had a personal encounter with God, over two decades ago, adding that this encounter was responsible for the recommitment she made all through her life.

    Adeleke charged the congregation, particularly the family and children of the deceased to take heart, knowing that their matriarch and one of the pillars of faith in the church had gone to rest in the bosom of her maker.

    The family had a thanksgiving service shortly thereafter and the clergymen led the closing procession out of the church for the interment which took place at Alabameta, the church’s cemetery in the outskirts of the town.

    Modakeke’s typical hospitality was on high display at the reception which took place much later in the day on the playground of St Francis Catholic Primary School, Iraye, where a musical group manned the band stand.

    The town emptied itself unto the field as they took their seat under the presidential canopy that provided a shelter from the sweltering sun and many had a feel of the hospitality of the grassroots people of Modakeke in the assorted foods and drinks to wet throat of the famished.

  • Persuasive Speech (4) Methods of Persuasion

    It’s great having you on this column again. I believe you have been putting what we have discussed so far to good use. Remember, public speaking is not only about reading or learning about speaking; it is mainly about “doing” speaking. Have you made a public presentation lately? In public speaking, you learn a lot from doing. So, find every opportunity to practice. Last week, we examined some methods of persuasion. We looked at persuading using: facts, statistical credibility, speaker’s credibility and appeals to basic human needs, wants and desires. This week, we shall be considering some of the challenges you are likely to face when persuading your audience.

    Persuasion can be a lot of work, particularly when your audience does not want to be persuaded. I attended a business seminar recently and I listened to a speaker try to persuade me (as part of the audience) to make a business decision. To start with, I had no idea that the business meeting was about network marketing or I most definitely would not have showed up. I don’t consider myself a good marketer, so, I avoid any business that requires direct sales. So, there was I, sitting there and wondering why I attended. The speaker started with general information about people needing other sources of income other than from their full-time jobs. Then we were gradually led to the main course for the day. As interested as I was about the general direction of the speech, which was financial independence, I was absolutely disinterested in the business proposition. Suddenly, I heard the speaker mention that the business was not about selling products- you don’t even have to sell a single one! Now, that caught my attention, and from that point on, I listened with rapt attention. Whether or not I eventually decided to sign on is not even the issue; the main issue is that the speaker was able to break through my strong disinterest to get me interested. That was one talented speaker!

    Anytime you have to deliver a persuasive speech, you are faced with three major categories of people: a) Those who are strongly against your idea b) Those who are in support of your idea and c) Those who are indifferent. Therefore, proper attention must be given to each of these groups. Your greatest asset is the group in support of your idea and your greatest challenge is the group against your idea. How you manage these two groups may go a long way in determining where the “indifferent group” will belong. Remember that even if those for you and those against you are equal in number (which is most unlikely), the third group will be the tie-breaker. A mass movement towards any side will determine your success or failure.

    Now, let’s consider specific challenges you may encounter while presenting a persuasive speech:

    •Making the audience listen: how do you make a person listen to you when the person already knows that your motive is to “change” him or her? It is particularly difficult when your listeners already know the topic you intend to speak on. Imagine how you react when you walk past a group of shops and each of the sales persons is calling you and grabbing at you to come and buy something you don’t even need? Naturally, you turn the other way. That’s what it is like to speak to disinterested people. To deal with this, I suggest that your topic does not entirely betray your intention. Be creative in fashioning your topics. After that, identify with their positions before you present yours.

    •Dealing with Attitudes towards Commitment: earlier on in our discussion on persuasive speech, we mentioned that it goes beyond making people sit passively and be informed, to encouraging them to commit to a course. This is a very sensitive part of the whole deal. I can listen to you talk about the number of children who die of malaria every day, and I can agree with you that your foundation needs a lot of money, but, must I part with my money? That’s the big question! You have to learn to bring your listeners to the point where they are willing to act.

    •Dealing with Ethical Challenges: in a bid to convince the audience, several people get desperate and include some false information. Some people present half-truth just to make the audience buy an idea. This is not right. Ok, I agree that your job may depend on it, but you may be setting a trap for yourself. Don’t forget that last week we talked about the credibility of the speaker. If I ever discover that you lied to me once in your speech, I won’t trust you again. If you sell a bad product, you may have sold that first time, but you will never sell the same thing to the same person twice.

    There are some strategic ways of getting your audience to listen to you, even if they don’t like your subject matter. We will deal with those strategies next week; make sure you don’t miss them.

  • Seeking the best for their alma mater

    Old students of Anwar-Ul-Islam College formerly Ahmaddiya College in Agege, a Lagos suburb, held a reunion dinner at the Sheraton Hotels, Ikeja, last Friday in commemoration of the 65th anniversary of the school. NNEKA NWANERI writes.

    IT is a yearly tradition. Every year, old students of Anwar-ul Islam College in Agege, Lagos gather for their reunion. This year’s coincided with the celebration of their alma mater’s 65th anniversary. The two-in-one celebration was held at the Lagos Sheraton Hotel and Towers, Ikeja last Friday. As the night wore on, the old boys and their guests kept bubbling inside the hotel’s hall. The gathering was not only for merrymaking, it was also to raise fund for the school, formerly known as Ahmadiyya College.

    Many of the old boys were dressed in either white or blue native attires with caps to match. The caps were in the school colours of blue and gold. Their wives and other female guests used ipele and gele of the same colours. The hall was decorated in white, with a large banner welcoming guests, hanging on the wall over the dais where some dignitaries sat.

    President of Anwaru-Ul Islam College, Agege Old Students Association (ACAOSA), Alhaji Lawal Pedro (SAN), said the school gave them an opportunity to acquire western education.

    The chairman of the occasion and a former judge of the World Court, Prince Bola Ajibola, (SAN) said his love for the college reminds him of a part in Shakespeare’s Macbeth which says: “The love that follows us is our problem”.

    He also spoke of his hero and a one time student of the college the late Justice Olawale Elias.

    “All through his life, he was instrumental to making the young ones to study law in the United Kingdom.

    “He was a great contribution to Nigeria from the great Anwar-Ul Islam College, Agege. I also recall those days when we used to sit at his feet in Britain, where he will urge us to move on with our legal pursuit,” he said.

    In a lecture, a university teacher, Prof Sherif Adetoro, also an old boy relieved the school’s yesteryear.

    On a large projector slide, guests were shown the present state of the school and how the old boys want it to look like in no distant time.

    Dr Abiodun Afolabi Tajudeen was given the task of raising funds.

    Everyone present had something to say about the school.

    Lagos State Governor Babatunde Fashola, who was represented by the Secretary to the State Government, Dr Idiat Adebule, said the government is happy that the old boys are concerned about their school.

    “School days are the best days of our lives because it was fun,” said former Nigerian Ambassador to Ghana, Senator Musiliu Obanikoro, an old boy.

    “I am who I am today because of the college. Those formative years were so strong and that is why we honour the name of the school. We are either the best or nothing,” he said.

    Mr Lateef Babalola bagged the president’s award for Best Old Student; Mukaila Bashua (SAN), got the Distinguished Life award.

    In attendance were Prof Saheedat Mabadeje; Senator Muniru Muse; Bolaji Ajimotokan; Lagos State Commissioner for Home Affairs and Culture, Hon Oyinlomo Danmole; President, Anwar-Ul Islam Mission, Alhaji Mustapha Oshodi; Commissioner for Special Duties, Dr Wale Ahmed; Commissioner for Justice and Attorney General of Lagos, Mr Ade Ipaye; Justice Fatai Adeyinka(rtd); Mr Rahman Alarape; Muftau Ottun; Hameed Rasaq; Hameed Ogunnaike, Mukadas Akinwande; Hakeem Ogunniran; Tunde Olubando; Secretaries from different Ministries and members of the Lagos Executive Council.

  • Film on Olympic  hero debuts July

    Film on Olympic hero debuts July

    Indian Olympic  hero, Milkha Singh, is set to achieve an extraordinary feat once again when his incredible life story is given the silver screen treatment in’ Bhaag Milkha Bhaag.’The movie is set to hit the screens internationally and across all Silverbird cinemas nationwide on July 12, 2013.

    Singh’s life is a portrait of professional triumph over personal tragedy. The film attempts to understand a catastrophic loss that was deemed a sure victory and explores through the darkness of disgrace Milkha Singh’s redemption and catharsis that came when he confronted his past.

    This iridescent tale winds through the plagues of a bloody civil war where Singh’s family were brutally killed during the violent and tumultuous India-Pakistan Partition era resulting in a lost childhood, homelessness, to a life of petty crime and victories hard won and easily lost.

    The young Singh’s builds his character by enlisting in the Indian Army, and through his Ustaad (teacher) learns some of life’s most precious lessons, that being to build his human spirit with perseverance, hard work and discipline. From his Army days, Milkha becomes a formidable runner with an awe-inspiring 96.5 percent winning ratio. Globally recognised as the ‘Flying Sikh’ and India’s original sports hero, Singh’s life is a colourful portrait of professional triumph over personal tragedy.

    The film stars India’s most versatile multi-star, the critically acclaimed actor, producer, singer, writer, director and musician Farhan Akhtar (Zindagi Na Milegi Dobara, Luck By Chance) who essays the role of Milkha Singh for what is described as Farhan’s most demanding performance to date.

    He is joined by Sonam Kapoor (Saawariya, I Hate Luv Storys, Aisha (Indian version of Jane Austen’s classic Emma)], Art Malik [BBC1’s Holby City], Rebecca Breeds [Home and Away] and is directed by Rakeysh Omprakash Mehra (director of the Bafta nominated film Rang De Basanti, Delhi-6).

    The inspirational story is penned by Prasoon Joshi and the soundtrack is composed by the award-winning trio Shankar–Ehsaan–Loy.

  • Don Jazzy, Ruggedman donate to ‘save OJB’ campaign

    Don Jazzy, Ruggedman donate to ‘save OJB’ campaign

    …Vector prays

    Top producer, Michael Collins Ajereh, popularly known as Don Jazzy and ace artiste, Michael Stepens, also known as Ruggedman have led the donation train for the fifteen million naira needed for kidney transplant of notable producer, Babatunde Jezreel Okungbowa a.k.a. OJB Jezreel.

    A reliable source disclosed that they made a donation of one million naira each to the ace producer. Foremost rapper, Olanrewaju Ogunmefun (Vector) also paid a visit to OJB and prayed with him.

    Meanwhile, the Association of Sound Engineers and Producers of Nigeria (ASEMPN) which OJB is the vice president has expressed gratitude to Don Jazzy, Ruggedman and other Nigerians for the donation and support shown to the ailing producer.

    ASEMPN berated individuals, which it referred to as “internet opportunists” for circulating falsehood.

    “We categorically state that OJB is fine and not dead contrary to insinuation on his death. He is going through his various dialyses which cost a lot of money,” the association said.

    The Chief Executive Officer of K.Solo Music Incorporated and Media representative of ASEMPN, Solomon Oyeniyi (K.Solo), also debunked claims that the exercise is a scam and that more than the needed money has been raised.

    Donations could still be made to OJB’s UBA Account: Babatunde Okungbowa, Acct. No: 1015075120.

  • Yvonne Nelson finally opens up on Iyanya

    Yvonne Nelson finally opens up on Iyanya

    Out-going actress Yvonne Nelson has finally come clean about her relationship with Iyanya.

    In an interview, the actress said:  “I think it’s time my fans get to know the whole truth so I’m going to let it all out. I dated one person here, he’s in the industry. There were too many lies in the relationship. I found out a whole lot of things and I just felt like he took advantage of me.”

    On why she went on Twitter about the relationship, Ms Nelson said: “I’m human; I’m not like a robot or anything. I just wanted the whole world to know what I was going through and I just wanted them to know that I was done with the relationship. I didn’t break up on Twitter. I just tweeted how I was feeling that very moment.”

    The actress also added that she has moved on. And has since been working hard, producing movies. Though she still listens to his music, and loves his album. Hear her:  “I love the Track 1 with MI and I love ‘I Got It’. He is a very talented guy; I always have goose bumps on my body when he sings.

    “You can’t really explain when you love somebody. It’s everything. It was just something that I felt and I can’t explain. It was love, I really really loved him and he knows that,” she added.