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  • I can be daring —Model/Actress, Jessica Anselm

    Young and industrious model cum actress Jessica Anselm seems not perturbed by the myriad of challenges that she has been faced with on the scene as she seeks to secure her pride of place on the entertainment scene. She tells her story in this interview with AHMED BOULOR.

    HOW do you intend to stand-out in the very tough movie scene in Nigeria?

    I can always do my best, and I believe with a devoted mind I can stand-out in the very tough movie scene here in the Nigeria. I am not scared of challenges as I always ensure that I give my best whenever I am on set.

    What inspired you into modeling and acting?

    Modeling is something I have always loved doing; it is in my genes and besides it brings out the beauty that I feel inside. Acting has always been my long term dream too and I usually feel a flush of fulfillment whenever I am on set.

    Are your parents in support of your career as a model and an actress?

    They are because they know it’s something I have great passion for. They initially had their reservations when I started but they love me and they respect my feelings. They now love what I do; I guess they’ve realized entertainment makes me happy and they’ve been able to accept that fact. They now play a supervisory role; they ensure that I don’t go astray and I don’t get carried away.

    Are you in any relationship at the moment?

    No; I am not in any relationship for now; I am just taking my time until the lucky man comes around.

    What kind of person are you really?

    I am just like an open book; I am down to earth, friendly, trustworthy and responsible.

     

    Are you drawn to other forms of art?

    Aside acting and maybe singing in my bathroom; I don’t really think I am very good at other forms of art. I am not a very good dancer but I can shake my back side (smiles).

    At what point in your life did you actually discover you could attempt being a model and an actress?

    It has been a long time I realized I could do both. It’s been in me and it dawned on me at age 9.

    So what has it been like combining acting and modeling?

    It has been stressful I must say but am loving it; it gets interesting when I am being called up for jobs on both sides. It trills me because it is what I love doing.

    Do you have fond memories of your time growing up as a child?

    I was fond of high shoes and short dresses while growing up as a child. Growing up was really fun! Back then, all I had to worry about was just to come home at the end of each school term with good grades. You dare not come home with bad grades because my folks will really be mad. I was always doing all I could to score good grades in school in order not to incur the wrath of my folks.

    What really made you plunge into modeling and acting; was it for the money or fame?

    Like I said earlier, I derive pleasure from acting and modeling. It is not about the money or fame; it’s about the passion and love for what I do.

    What are the major ingredients required for you to accept or fall in love with a movie script?

    I love a challenging and inspiring script; I really love scripts that are creative with good story lines. I love characters that are challenging and scripts that are different from the usual. It should be different from the last one I did and the story has to make a whole lot of sense to me. My character has to be a strong one too.

    How daring can you get on set?

    I can be as daring as required because I love adventure. It brings out the best in me.

    What does style and fashion mean to you?

    That’s a good one; style to me is an expression and being elegant. You have to be stylish to stand out. Fashion on the other hand is looking as good as possible whenever you emerge in public or at functions.

    How do you handle advances from male admirers?

    Wow, I get a lot I won’t lie about that but my friendliness helps me a lot. I turn them off playfully and it’s easier when it involves a matured and understanding person.

    What is the craziest thing done to you by a male?

    Ah! That’s personal… You know how overzealous guys can get at times but I try to handle every situation with maturity.

    Tell us one naughty thing you have done……

    Ahhhh!!! You bring back old memories with that question. I used to steal meat from my mum’s pot at night but that was when I was a kid.

    What is your biggest dream right now?

    My biggest dream is moving on to greater heights in my field of endeavour. My biggest dream right now is to further make a head way in my modeling and acting career. I know it is not going to be easy but I am ready to make my own mark and I pray God helps my ambition.

    As a young actress in the industry, would you say it has been worth the while venturing into the world of make-believe?

    Yes! It has been worth the while. At least it has positively engaged scores of young actors who are also gradually making a name for themselves. For me it has been worth the while and I look forward to greater things in the near future.

    When eventually you retire, what would you like to be remembered for?

    I would like to be remembered as one who made a mark in the industry. I would also like to be remembered as one who is quite enthusiastic and passionate about what she does.

  • Peculiar Choir launches Ji Ijo Mimo tomorrow

    THE Peculiar Choir of El-Morijah Olubukun Parish Igbogbo, Special District, Headquarter, Ikorodu has just concluded works on its debut album entitled Ji Ijo Mimo.

    The album which was written by the Music Department of the church, Peculiar Choir was produced under the experienced hands and watchful eyes of Evangelist Goke Bola Manner. According to him, the 7 tracker album was inspired by the unification of Celestial Church of Christ. “The songs were conceived solely for the unification of Celestial Church Worldwide and also to promote love and peaceful existence among them. Psalms 33:3 Sing to him a new song; play skillfully, and shout for joy. Since the Lord delights in the praises of His people, the Music Department yield themselves to lead us every time into the presence of the Lord. The Music Department always ministers to the people of God in quality music each time at every service. ”

    Marketer and distributed by Square A Music and Alidan Investment , Ji Ijo Mimo will be launched come Sunday, June 9, 2013 at the church Headquarters in Ikorodu. The event promises to be a feast of song and a uniting bond for the Celestial Church Worldwide who will be gracing the special occasion.

  • Returnee beauty queen leads Y! Magazine

    Returnee beauty queen leads Y! Magazine

    ,OMOWUNMI Akinnifesi Most Beautiful Girl in Nigeria 2005, just returned from a two-year public break, armed with a Master’s degree from King’s College, London and is already working on policy for the Lagos government. Announced as possessing beauty and brains, Y! Magazine editors have presented her as their proud alternative to the international people magazine choice for World’s Most Beautiful Woman 2013, Iron Man actress Gwyneth Paltrow.

    “The global pop-culture shock at the decision coupled with an already seething defensiveness about the audacity of deciding on the world’s most beautiful female from the comfort of the United Kingdom inspired us to take the challenge who would we choose as the World’s Most Beautiful Woman? Omowunmi Akinnifesi who, incidentally took the Nigerian version of the title eight years ago, came into the country just right in time” the editor, Chude Jideonwo, said.

  • A Senator’s wife at 50

    A Senator’s wife at 50

    Senator Annie Okonkwo’s wife, Chinyelu, turned 50 on May 26. A thanksgiving service was held at the Church of Assumption Catholic Church, Falomo, Lagos. NNEKA NWANERI writes.

    What was to be a birthday party for the wife of Anambra State Senator Annie Okonkwo, Chinyelu, turned out to be a political gathering of sorts.

    Her husband’s political associates came in large number to share in the joy of her 50th birthday in Lagos.

    She went to the Church of Assumption, Falomo, Lagos, for a thanksgiving.

    The reception was held at the Okonkwo’s Ikoyi home, a stone’s throw from the church.

    A classic tent was aesthetically placed in the large garden behind the house.Fresh white roses and lily lined the walkway.

    A white rug replaced the traditional red carpet. Green silky curtains shielded guests from the sun. Dangling crystal lightings dropped from the roof of the tent. In the middle of every table were flowers, cutlery and glass cups of various sizes and shapes.

    The event planners, Shasha, led by their Chief Executive, Chizoba Omeakachie, and her bevy of beautiful ushers, ensured orderliness.

    It was a gathering of ‘who is who’ among Igbo politicians. Fashion, class, style, beauty, elegance were showcased. Guests didn’t disappoint in their dressing; they were simply stunning.

    Some northern senators were there, too. Many of the men were in suits. Some women, were in native attires and head gears, others wore gowns with matching feathered net hats.

    With exotic choice wines and sumptuous delicacies, guests were treated to a buffet of local and continental dishes.

    Chris Mba and the Bisi Band entertained guests. The repertoire of music comprised oldies and the new school.

    Okonkwo led his wife to the floor for a romantic slow dance. Alone on the dance floor, they moved left and right, holding each other close as they set the tempo with Lionel Richie’s Endless Love. It was like a nuptial dance. Okonkwo shooed away those who came to spray them money. Looking regal in a floor length golden gown, Mrs Okonkwo planted kisses on her husband.

    Soon after, accolades began pouring in for the mother of six. Many spoke glowingly of her. ‘Ugoagwu’, as she is fondly called by her friends and family members, was described as the umbrella that covers her husband.

    Mrs Ruth Iwunze, a close friend of the celebrator, described her as a woman of humble character, whose unassuming nature doesn’t tell of her affluence.

    “She is down to earth and a prayerful person and has kept in touch with even her primary school mates,” she said.

    Dr Maureen Oniya, a university mate of Mrs Oknonwo, said during her days in school, she was studious and God-fearing, compassionate and humble.

    “An inspiring love is what she has and never looks down on anyone,” she said.

    Her elder brother, Nonso Onwamaegbu and younger sister, Nkem Onyekwuluijie, also eulogised their sibling. The nine-year-old son of the celebrator, Somto, spoke of his mother’s favourite soup – Ogbono; favourite colours – black/white; role models – Diana Ross and Oprah Winfrey and best musician Diana Ross.

    Another son, Uche, a spilitting image of his father, praised his mother for being a style icon. Thanking her for all she has done for the family, he hoped she would be around in years to come to witness all the greater things he will do in future.

    Nkemamaka, the Okonkwo’s first child and only daughter, said many good things about her mother.

    “She doesn’t look 50; everyday, she looks younger wearing a long hair and high heels. Though I am 23 years, she is more fashionable than I am. I admire her a lot. She is my role model,” Nkemamaka said.

    At this point, she broke down in tears and someone gave her a handkerchief to wipe her face.

    “She is the pillar and strength of the family and I admire her humility and devotion to us and dad. She is truly my inspiration and I am so proud to call her my mum,” Nkemamaka added. When she finished her speech, she got a resounding applause

    The cutting of the cake was delayed for the day to get dark. Fireworks were lit by the cake and 100 more colourfully erupted in the skies. Intermittently, they exploded, leaving many to wonder at the beauty of the scenery.

    At the event were Imo State Governor Rochas Okorocha; Senator Chris Ngige; Chairman of Zinox Computer Leo Stan Ekeh; Group Chairman of Chisco Transport Chief Chidi Anyaegbu; Senator Mike Ajaegbu; Dr Tunde Sholeye; Lagos State Commissioner for Budget and Planning Ben Akabueze; General Officer Command 81 Division, Maj.-Gen Obi Omahi; Fidelis Oditah (SAN); former Managing Director of United Bank of Africa (UBA) Tony Elumelu and his wife Awele; Enterprise Bank Managing Director Mr Richard Main; Nollywood acts Chidi Muokeme and Osita Iheme; wife of the former military governor of Lagos Ndubisi Kanu Gladys, and Ausbeth Ajagu.

  • For the love of culture

    For the love of culture

    The people of Orsumoghu Community in Ihiala Local Government Area of Anambra State in Lagos have held their cultural day. Some members were honoured on the occasion. CHINAKA OKORO reports.

    As people got to the gate of the Nigerian Air Force Officers’ Base, Victoria Island, Lagos, they heard sounds of lively cultural rhythms.

    In front of the expansive hall, members of the Ofuobi Cultural Dance and Akunechenyi Dance Group from Orsumoghu Community in Ihiala Local Government Area of Anambra State were busy beating their drums and other instruments. The gathering responded with measured dance steps. It was the balm they needed to get rid of the cold caused by that day’s downpour.

    At another corner, the Mmanwu Masquerade Group was performing in an exhilarating manner to the admiration of guests. One of them, literally as tall as the Iroko tree, jumped up and bent in a manner to suggest that it would break into two.

    As people approached the roomy hall, they found difficult to walk freely because it was filled to its capacity. Members, friends and well-wishers of Orsumoghu Development Union (O.D.U.), Lagos branch, had gathered for their cultural day.

    The event was also a platform for the award of excellence to some members.

    The people, dressed in beautifully-branded uniform on which Igwebuike (unity is strength) is emblazoned, looked splendid.

    The walls of hall were painted in cream, decorated with light green velvety clothing materials.

    The arrival of Lady Ucheoma Chukwudum, Senior Special Assistant to Anambra State Governor on Liaison Matters, threw the people into a frenzy. She represented Governor Peter Obi.

    Pastor Humphrey Uzokwe said the opening prayer.

    In his welcome address, the chairman of the union, Nze Innocent Obiakwala, said the union was formed to enhance rapid development of the community.

    He said the union is a socio-cultural association formed with the aim of promoting developmental projects and culture of Orsumoghu Town as well as fostering unity and progress among her indigenes.

    He also disclosed that the union had embarked on the construction of a Magistrate’s Court at Afozara and will build a N250 million civic centre that will boast a multi-purpose hall, health and fitness centre and a shopping mall.

    Chairman on the occasion Prof Alphonso Ikeotuonye of the School of Education, National Open University of Nigeria (NOUN), praised the organisers for recognising the importance of culture in the life of a people.

    He noted that a community without a culture is dead, even as he called for cultural integration as panacea for national unity.

    Ikeotuonye, who wore long-flowing Igbo traditional chieftaincy regalia with white collar round neck, red cap and a pair of eye glasses, said cultural integration was one important ingredient for unity.

    He urged Ndigbo in Lagos to sustain their harmonious co-existence with fellow Nigerians.

    Lady Chukwudum praised the people for organising such a carnival-like event.

    She urged them to take seriously the issues of culture; tradition and values which shape the future of a people.

    She dressed in a lace fabric, eye glasses, multi-colour headgear; silvery bangles, earrings and necklace, and golden wrist watch.

    Lady Chukwudum enjoined parents to teach their children their mother tongue to avoid raising future generations that are rootless. Oon the importance of culture in the life of a people, the National President, Orsumoghu Development Union Prince Hyginus Ezefunamba, said: ”Orsumoghu has two major cultural festivals. One is Odi festival which is celebrated in June every year. The other is the great Asala festival which is celebrated once in 20 years.”

    Lamenting the negative impact of Western culture, Ezefunamba regretted that their cultures and those of other lands were fast dying, including local languages. He regretted that parents force their children and wards to speak English at home instead of their native languages.

    Some of those who received awards were Obi; Ikeotuonye; Hon. Chinedu Ukachukwu; Chief Dennis Ezenyimulu; Val Africa Ezenyimulu; Chief Simbo Onyeabor; Hon Ozama Okpalaeke and Mr. Anthony Ozor.

    Dignitaries who attended the event included Professor John Izuchukwu of Missouri University of Science and Technology, United States; Mr Nwabu’ Okoye, Principal Counsel, Nwabu’ Okoye and Co. Lagos; Prince Remi Chizoba Ozuba President Emeritus, O.D.U. and Taskforce Chairman Lagos State Medicine Dealers’ Association; Hon. Chinedu Ukachukwu Chairman Ihiala Local Government Area, Anambra State; Sir Ausca Ezenyimulu; Chief Chris Ezenyimulu Chairman/CEO Fortress Healthcare Limited Lagos; Lady Jumai Ezenyimulu; Dr Chioma Ezenyimulu Managing Director Fortress Healthcare Limited Lagos; Mr Allen Ifechukwu Onyema National Chairman Foundation for Ethnic Harmony in Nigeria; Mr Anthony Chika Ozor MD/CEO Tony Ganger Investment Company Nigeria Limited Lagos; Sir Philip Ezenwata and others.

    Others were Eze Nwabueze Ohazulike; Eze Ndigbo Lagos and National Chairman Traditional Council of Ndieze Ndigbo N’uzo Ije; Chief Sir Simeon Ezewusi Chairman/CEO Chisoro Hospitals Lagos; Mr Victor Ezetoha President-General Emeritus; and Mrs Paulina Anyagaligbo Chairperson ODU Women’s Wing, Lagos.

  • Promoting religious unity

    Captains of industry, eminent politicians and Muslim leaders graced the 50th anniversary of the C & S Salem Evangelical Church of Christ (Model Parish) in Ilupeju, Lagos. DADA ALADELOKUN writes

    IT was incredible, but it happened. Islamic clerics and their Christian counterparts gathered inside a church to worship together. It was at the C&S Salem Evangelical Church of Christ (Model Parish) in Ilupeju, Lagos, which celebrated its 50th anniversary. Popular Muslim songs interspersed with Christian numbers and members of both faiths danced to their hearts’ content.

    The atmosphere was electric.

    The Shepherd-in-Charge, Superintendent Apostle Abraham Babatunde Odele, former Chairman of Mushin Local Government, described the occasion as a day the Lord specially made.

    What appeared the highpoint of the occasion was the frenetic “dance contest” between Alhaji Sulaimon Opeyemi, Chief Imam Jamiu of Mushin Central Mosque; his Ilupeju counterpart, Alhaji Gafar Shittu – both Spiritual Guests of the day – and Odele (aka PawPaw)ww.

    The congregants rose in delight when both Islamic giants took turns to render some Christian songs. Odele followed suit, and the dancing spree began full-scale. The church choir added spice to it all with the rhythm of their drums.

    Many ascribed the inter-faith rapport to Apostle Odele’s relationship with both faiths before, during and after his tenure council chair in Mushin and later, Ifako-Ijaiye areas of the state. Some others recalled that his Ikorodu-born parents were Muslims.

    “He (Odele) is an outstanding advocate of robust Christian-Muslim rapport to cement the unity of Nigeria,” the Church Secretary, Special Apostle Noah Sipebi said.

    “Thank you, Lord, this tradition of tolerance is still alive today,” obviously delighted, 84-year-old Baba Aladura John Olufemi Philips seemed to say to himself. Roundly adjudged a man with awesome spiritual anointing, he is said to be the first male child to be christened by the late Saint Moses Orimolade Tunolase, the founder of Cherubim and Seraphim Church, at its birth.

    He was said to have stood solidly behind the Salem parish in times of its tribulations.

    Apostle Odele, who echoed the admonition of Arch Bishop Magnus Atilade, the preacher, in his sermon, reiterated the need for religious leaders to emulate his church and embrace tolerance to put the nation on the path of oneness, unity and genuine progress.

    The church service was not the only programme line up for the celebration. Earlier on Thursday, same week, Apostle Odele had, with his brethren, taken the church’s trademark philanthropy to the SOS Village and the Old People’s Home.

    What could be described as “lavish” reception for guests took place at the premises of Odi-Olowo Ojuwoye Local Council Development Area (LCDA), Town Planning Way, Ilupeju, after the service. It turned out a gathering of loyal friends of Apostle Odele and, indeed, the church.

    Officials of Lagos State Traffic Management Authority (LASTMA) were on hand to ensure sanity in the neighbourhood. It was said to be at the instance of Commissioner for Transport, Comrade Kayode Opeifa.

    A 15-man musical band welcomed guests into the arena with sonorous tunes. Ably in charge was Princess Folake Adebayo Dada. She doubles as Vice President, Association of Juju Musician of Nigeria (AJUMN) and notable member, Dorcas Band, in the church. Her performance was enthralling. And she was paid back with good dance, words of commendation and of course, wads of naira notes!

    All eyes were on her for about two hours after the session rolled off the ground. Another music star, Mentor Kay, later hit the band stand. Everyone rose to dance, except perhaps, former people’s governor of the state, Alhaji Lateef Jakande, who for his age, sat and watched in delight.

    Governor Babatunde Raji Fashola, was represented by Opeifa; Senior Special Adviser (SSA) on Religious Matters, Princess Akintoye Braimoh and SSA on Christian Matters, Pastor Sam Ogedengbe.

    The First Military Governor of the state, Brig-Gen Mobolaji Johnson (rtd), with his wife, Olufunmilayo, and Senator Anthony Adefuye, the Olugbon of Lagos, who chaired the reception, attended the ceremony. Members of the Action Congress of Nigeria (ACN) were also there.

    Well represented at the event were: Senator Ganiyu Olanrewaju Solomon, Hon Abayomi Dauda Kako-Are of the House of Representatives; Lagos State Commissioner for Justice, Ade Ipaye and the Chairman, Odi-Olowo-Ojuwoye LCDA, Aremo Adeyemi Ali.“They have over the years, proved to be reliable pillars of the church,” Apostle Odele told The Nation.

    Prince Bayo Osiyemi, who succeeded Odele as Chairman of Mushin Council, graced the occasion with the chair, Olatunde Adepitan. Oba Fatai Irawo Odunsi of Odi-Olowo was also present. Other eminent politicians, including Mrs Awodogan, popularly addressed as Iya Oniyan, made it there. Women in the church, in customised Ankara fabric, under the aegis of Esther Band, gave an impressive showing.

    Celebrity lady, Joko Oni, President/Chief Executive Officer, Gold Rush Ltd, was the Spiritual Mother of the day. There were other influential Nigerians from across all spheres of life, including the Etal Hotel & Events Centre boss, Olufunke Olowe, who handled part of the catering services at the event. Earlier in the church, she has stunned many pleasantly as the eloquent interpreter for the Guest Preacher. Fashion and Style buff, Adebayo Harstrup. Harstrup, one of Nigeria’s Fashion and Style Ambassadors, with his wife, Lara, who owns the popular catering outfit, Roving Pepper Ltd, humbly served guests with rice, pounded yam and other comestibles.They remained on their toes while the segment lasted.

    The anniversary cake, designed by Biola Adebayo, cut the image of the church’s cathedral. It was said to have been sponsored by Apostle Odele, a builder, who, The Nation learnt, designed the church’s structure at its inception.

    In turns, the guests joined Apostle Odele for photographs after the cake-cutting session under Adefuye’s supervision. As the merriment continued as the curtain appeared being drawn on the outing, for Apostle Odele, it was a final moment for warm embrace and hand-pumping with guests who, in turn, joined him in appreciating God for a God-ordained journey in the Lord’s Vineyard.

  • Persuasive Speech

    Have you ever noticed that from the moment you get off your bed in the morning till the time you lay to sleep at night, one person or the other is trying to “sell” something to you? Of course, it may or may not be literal selling, but someone is trying to make you think, speak or act in a certain way. For instance, if you live in a populated place like Lagos and you have the traffic to contend with on your way to work in the morning, you may find bus conductors trying to persuade you to board their vehicles. While one is trying to convince you that the bus is just waiting for you to move, another is trying to make you see that his fare is cheaper. After finally making your choice and you are seated for the ride, you suddenly see a passenger (at least so you thought until now) stand up to tell you about this “all powerful,” “hyperactive” and “multi-functional” drug. At the beginning of his speech, you look around and find that most people are like you- uninterested. But the man starts with prayers that people feel compelled to say “amen” to, since no one wants the reverse version of those words. Before you know it, people are trying out the free samples, buying the drug or penning down the number of the salesman for future contacts.

    Do we have to mention all the billboards and other advertisements you see on your way? Every advertiser is trying to make you see that one product is better than the other. How about your friends at work? They too try to influence your decisions on things like where to take lunch, what to do during the weekend, brands of products that befit your status, etc. Face it; your day is practically full of persuasion!

    What then is persuasion? Michael and Suzanne Osborn define persuasion as “the art of gaining fair and favourable consideration for our points of view.” Let’s do a little breakdown of this definition. The first thing we must know about persuasion is that it is an art. It is a creative process that depends on its creator. No two people can persuade the same way. Also like art, it must be developed. I have no doubt that some people are naturally persuasive, but just like talent is refined by knowledge, so is persuasion. Persuasion should be fair. If we want people to see things from our point of view, it is only fair that we respect their own points of view too. False information should not be presented as true just for the sake of swaying people to our side. Favourable consideration means that we attempt to make people appreciate our views and preferably adopt them. Please note that the word “consideration” is as important as the word “favourable.” Consideration suggests that we aim at making our audience pay attention to our points to the extent that they consider them worthy of their time and attention.

    According to Aesop, “persuasion is often more effectual than force.” While you may force a horse to the steam, making it drink will be another matter entirely. Henry David Thoreau, an author, poet, development critic and also a notable activist in the abolition of slave trade, also rated persuasion highly. He said, “Thaw with her gentle persuasion is more powerful than Thor with his hammer. The one melts, the other breaks into pieces.” His point here is that when you melt a thing, you can mould it again, but when you break it into pieces, chances are that all the parts will never be complete again. The person you win through persuasion will most likely respect or admire you, while the one you win through force will most definitely resent you.

    Persuasion makes use of a lot of techniques to convince the audience, but if you ask me, persuasion thrives predominantly on emotional appeal. In the continuation of this article, we shall examine elements of effective persuasive speeches such as facts, figures, illustrations, etc. Nevertheless, we must establish at this point that most of the decisions you make after listening to a persuasive speech are emotional. Why would a youth decide to abstain from sex after listening to a talk on HIV/AIDS? It’s because he/she is afraid of death; fear is an emotion. Why would you decide to part with your hard earned money after listening to a speech on motherless babies? It’s because of pity or compassion; pity and compassion are emotions. Everett Dirksen said that “the mind is no match with the heart in persuasion; constitutionality is no match with compassion.”

    Learning the art of persuasion is one of the most important investments you can make into your life. Every day of your life, you are either persuading or you are being persuaded. Both ways are cool; just don’t be ignorant of the process. I observed in my e-book titled ‘How to turn information into money’ that information provides you with the platform for creativity. If you are not aware of what others have done, you may spend your entire life creating an invention that is already selling in the market. Also, information is most effective when you adapt it to your specific situation. Hence, the knowledge of persuasion will give you an edge in your career and other areas of your life. As we explore existing information about this invaluable speech together, prepare to ‘customize’ it for your personal use, and you’ll be surprised at the results. Do have a blessed weekend.

  • ‘Her passion for God got me attracted’

    ‘Her passion for God got me attracted’

    The Nation man Aloiye John Oyarekua has tied the nuptial knot with former Miss Violet Iwanehi Omotuenmhen at the Church of God Mission International, Okokomaiko, on the outskirts of Lagos. AMIDU ARIJE report. 

    It was the day they had been waiting for. For The Nation man, Aloiye John Oyarekua and his better half, Violet Iwanehi Omotuenmhen, the day will forever remain indelible.

    The lovebirds tied the nuptial knot. The Church of God Mission International, Okokomaiko, Lagos was the venue.

    Their family members, relatives and friends came en mass to share in their joy.

    The groom, Aloiye, wore a fine suit with lemon inner to match, while the bride appeared in a white flowing gown.

    The couple’s early arrival, despite the monthly environmental sanitation which held on that day and which restricted movement till 10 am, paved way for the early kick off of the August ceremony.

    The Agape Choir of the church sang the processional hymn, My hope is built on nothing less than Jesus and righteousness I dare not trust the sweetest frame but wholly lean on Jesus, as the couple was led into the church by a retinue of bride’s maids and groom’s men.

    They were followed by their friends.

    Expectedly, the congregation stood. They joined in the singing of the processional hymn.

    The church service was anchored by Elder Steven Ogbole, who welcomed them.

    He requested the officiating minister to pray for the couple.

    In his sermon, Senior Pastor, Convenanters’ Vintage Church (CVC), Dr Mike Ohiorenoya, enjoined the couple to love each other and continue to trust in God.

    The cleric, whose 36th wedding anniversary coincided with Aloiye’s wedding, advised the couple to look up to Jesus and build their life around Him, adding that the Almighty God has been a pillar of support in his marriage.

    “You should look up to Jesus, when you look unto Him, no matter the storm, adversity, you will scale through,” he said.

    He prayed for long life and successful marriage life for the couple.

    After his speech, the marriage certificate was signed. This was done in the presence of select family members and friends.

    The Agape Choir of the church made the day livelier as they entertained the congregation. Rev Benson German presented the marriage certificate to the newest couple in town.

    The service, which ended with a closing hymn Great is thy faithfulness was also taken by the choir.

    The reception followed immediately at the same venue. Before then, there was a session for group photographs in front of the church.

    The reception, chaired by Elder Ogbole, started with a prayer. Elder Ogbole thanked God for the success of the wedding and for those who came to grace the occasion, praying that God should bless them.

    He enjoined the couple to trust in God for their needs, saying it was only God that can provide them with their needs.

    Afterwards, the Agape Choir once again delivered some melodious tunes.

    The wedding featured the cutting of the cake. This was after its producer had explained its make and content. The feeding of each other by the couple followed.

    The bride, with a smile, knelt to feed her husband; she sealed it with kisses. The groom also fed his wife and followed with kisses.

    To the surprise and admiration of all, the groom and his wife danced their hearts out when it was dancing time. With stylish dance steps and modern dances, they entertained their families and guests. A guest who knows Aloiye said his reticence had disappeared.

    The elated groom described the day as “wonderful and fantastic”.

    “It has been a victorious day, very wonderful; we give all the glory to God,” he said.

    The groom, who said he met his wife through his cousin, described her as a very virtuous woman.

    He said her passion for serving God attracted him to her.

    “Her passion for serving God drew me to her; she has a deep passion to serve God. She is a virtuous woman,” he said.

    The bride was also full of joy for the success of the day.

    “It is a glorious day, we give thanks to God for His help,” Violet said.

    She described her better half as a Godly and nice man.

    The groom’s mother, Deaconess Titilope Adegoroye, said: “It is a day of victory and praises; it is a day that I saw the fruitfulness of God; He has been faithful I am happy and joyful,.

    She urged them to live with the fear of God and love each other.

    The groom’s brother, Pastor Aimanesi Oyarekua, prayed that the union should be blessed in all areas.

    The bride’s uncle, Mr Marcus Omotuenmhen,wished the couple a very successful and fruitful marraige.

    The National Director,Agape Force of the church, Rev Humphrey Arheghan, urged the couple to live their life in God’s way; the way they started their life.

    “They should appreciate that life is not full of roses, I urge them to believe in God, with Him every challenge of their life will be surmounted,” he said.

    He promised the couple that their union will be celebrated at the church’s annual camp later in the year.

    “We have agreed to celebrate her at our national conference this year, she is the deputy national camp director for the church,” he said.

  • ‘I am fulfilled’

    Former Editor of The Punch Pa Ekundayo Alabi Wright marked his 75th birthday last Saturday. Family and friends joined him at the Cathedral Church of Christ, Marina, Lagos for a thanksgiving, reports TAJUDEEN ADEBANJO

    His interaction with friends belied his age. He shared jokes with them as if they are still in their youth days. Even when any of them said something he did not agree with, he interjected and explained his side of the story to the gathering.

    These and many more elicited laughter from the small group that gathered at the Molade Okoya-Thomas Tennis Club, Onikan, Lagos.

    The gathering was the celebration of the 75th birthday of a former Editor of The Punch Pa Ekundayo Alabi Wright last Saturday.

    The celebration began with a church service at the Cathedral Church of Christ, Marina. As early as 7:45am, the upper left side of the expansive church bubbled with praise songs.

    The ‘birthday boy,’ clad in blue lace Agbada, stood in the front row with his daughter Lola Wright-Odusoga and her friend.

    The one hour and 20 minutes service featured offering, Holy Communion, sermon and recessional hymn.

    The officiating minister, Revd Williams Mehinsan, congratulated Pa Wright, wishing him many more years.

    In his sermon, the cleric made the audience realised the brevity of life with different instances.

    According to him, no matter number of years man spends on earth, he will die one day.

    Revd Mehinsan lamented that normal things are becoming abnormal while abnormal are seen as normal these days.

    He said most of things Nigerians qualified for, they do not get them rather they make use of the things that get to them.

    “Our infrastructure is nothing to write home about; water is nowhere to be found except digging of borehole while electricity is in comatose. All these factors cut life short. So, if one reaches 50 or 60 years, such a person should be congratulated not to talk of 75,” he said.

    He urged the gathering to live their lives well because of sudden death.

    After his sermon, the pianist, Samuel Kutojo entertained the congregation.

    Special prayers were offered for the celebrator, his family, friends and well-wishers.

    The guests took turn to congratulate Pa Wright while exiting the church.

    There was a photograph session in the church’s compound before the guests moved to the Tennis Club for reception.

    There, Pa Wright’s old friends and ex-professional colleagues turned out in various dresses.

    They exchanged banters and jokes about their youth days.

    Chairman of the occasion, Group Capt Ita David Ikpeme, welcomed the celebrator to the club of the 75 and above.

    Seventy-five is a good age to be celebrated because when you wake up, it is not easy to leave the bed. If you read obituaries in the newspapers and their age, one will appreciate reaching 75,” he said.

    Capt Ikpeme said Pa Wright is never afraid of speaking out his mind.

    He said he developed a relationship with the celebrator during his incarceration under General Ibrahim Babangida regime.

    Also eulogising the celebrator, Mr Owolabi Martins, who is two years older than him, said their friendship dated back to their childhood days.

    “We have known each other from childhood. We went to St. Gregory College, Obalende, from there to England; I went to Oxford, and he went to former Regent Street Polytechnic. He was a good sportsman and still plays squash, very dedicated. I pray he continues to grow in wealth and health,” Mr Martins said.

    Mr Toyin Reis, a retired hotelier, described his 40 years relationship with the celebrator as memorable.

    “We started our friendship in Campos Square, Lagos Island before moving to London. Our youth days are fantastic, interesting and enjoyable. He is a jolly good fellow, very religious. I wish him long life and prosperity,” Reis said.

    Pa Wright thanked God for His mercies.

    “I feel great; my father died a month and few days for him to be 75.He died on the 6th October, 1989. He was to be 75 on December 30th. My mother died on October 20, 1978. She was 59-plus. So, at a stage, I nursed that fear that I would just die like my father if the thing is hereditary. But again, I thank God I am alive today,” he said.

    Any regret about his past? “No,” he quickly replied. “But if there is any regret, there is nothing you can do about it. It is like a flowing river. Once it is gone, it is gone; you will just watch that river flowing away. All you need do is ask yourself, where do I go from here. I never set out a special programme for myself. Lagos was swinging and I was swinging along with it until I was sent abroad. Even then, I said to myself, all I want is good life. Here I am. I have no regret. None at all,” he said.

    According to him, attaining 75 is the goodness of God in his life.

    “I am fulfilled. My children are grown up. The girls are in their husbands’s house and the boys are doing well. Fulfillment is something that comes from the inner self. Sometimes you don’t even think about it because I am not materialistic. Whatever I have and I am contented. I have friends older than me and I have others younger than I am. A good number of them are doing very well. Tell me what I am looking for when I always have them around,” he asked rhetorically.

    Pa Wright enjoined the youth to live a good life, saying: “Be honest and good to people around. So that even after your departure from this world, someone will say, he was a good man.”

  • A befitting honour

    The Lagos Television (LTV) Chapel of the Nigeria Union of Journalists (NUJ) last week honoured Senator Oluremi Tinubu and several others at an awards night to commemorate its Press Week. OLATUNDE ODEBIYI reports.

    The Combo Hall of Lagos State Television (LTV) was filled to capacity. Guests looked resplendent in formal and traditional attires.

    It was the award night of the Nigeria Union of Journalists (NUJ), Lagos Television (LTV) Chapel.

    Senator Oluremi Tinubu, representing Lagos Central Senatorial District, and Deputy Speaker, Lagos State House of Assembly, Hon Kolawole Taiwo, led the pack of awardees. Senator Tinubu bagged Heroine of Democracy; Taiwo Agent of change.

    Other awardees included Secretary, Ikorodu Local Government Japhet Odesanya; Mrs Tinu Aina-Badejo; Gabriel Amodu; Hon Fatai Oyesanya; Mrs Anike Adekanye; Hon Olorunkemi Surakat; Comrade Ayodele Adewale; Hon Tajudeen Ajide, and Hon Augustine Arogundade.

    Senator Tinubu wore a simple pink native dress with a silver headgear and bag to match. She was all smiles, as she came forward to receive the plaque.

    The guests applauded her. They also sang her praise.

    A coordinator of the event, while reading her citation, described her as a woman of strength who does not joke with discipline, a heroine and a distinguished senator.

    Then time for the awards. Senator Tinubu received a plaque from LTV Director of Current Affairs Mrs Funke Moore.

    Mrs Moore said the award was given to her for sustaining democratic values in the state.

    The crowd watched as personalities took photographs with Senator Tinubu.

    The awards over; it was time to dance to Juju music supplied by Sir-K-Infinity.

    Mrs Tinubu could hardly find her way out after the event as everyone wanted to greet and take photographs with her. She attended to them.

    The award, according to her, is a reminder of the struggle for democracy.

    “I think if we are talking of democracy, we should be looking at heroines in the likes of the late Kudirat Abiola and all those who paid the ultimate prize for what we are all enjoying today. The prize paid was borne out of their passion for mankind, love and freedom. This award is a big shoe for me to receive.

    “I am not someone, who really likes awards, but I am here today to rejoice with the LTV Chapter of the NUJ. Throughout my journey to become a senator, they stood by me; so I am here to celebrate with them. I wish them well, I know my little support is not enough, but I am glad that they all enjoyed themselves tonight.”

    Senator Tinubu, who on behalf of other awardees, promised not to disappoint the organisers.

    “This is an incentive and it would keep us going. We dedicate our awards to those who fought for democracy,” she said.

    Earlier in his remark, NUJ Lagos State Chairman Comrade Deji Elumoye enjoined the awardees to continue their good work, and to continue to support journalism.

    LTV Chapel Chairman Samuel Dada thanked God for making the event a success.

    He said: “We are grateful for the presence of the senators and for their financial support.”

    In attendance were: Senator Gbenga Ashafa, who represents Lagos East Senatorial District; LTV Director of News Mr Ayo Agbesanwa, represented Permanent Secretary, Mr Lekan Ogunbanwo; Hon Adetoun Adediran.