To be frank, there is no big deal to sex, except that it is governed by certain natural rules and regulations. Like food, sleep, water, sunshine, drink, rest and exercise, sex is a natural requirement of a healthy human body! It even affords man and woman the opportunity to exchange radiations which one party has but the other lacks. However, in their sexual relationships, many partners do not realise that they are sexual incompatibles. This means that their radiations may be injurious to their partner or that their partner’s can harm them in various ramifications.
This can post a serious and, sometimes, devastating life long problem for the parties, because one may pass psychically toxic radiations to the other. In a two-part column titled…Radiations, Health, Bill Gates and Diseases and published on this page on September 26, and October 3, 2024, and posted on my Face Book account( at John Olufemi Kusa), I suggested that everything which exists radiates. Many persons are familiar with only radiations from nuclear plants and atomic and hydrogen bombs. Surprisingly, they are unaware that they, too, radiate. How their radiations on the young ones of animals make the mother animals to reject their babies was explained in those two posts. So were the effects of plant radiations on human health when these plants are taken as food or medicine. Radiations exchanged through sex are very important for sex, too. That is why an exchange may make one party to be weakened or devitalised, or physically stronger and psychically all-conquering or, in a healthy mutual exchange, both parties feel as though they can move mountains or are on the mountain top.
I have heard some persons complain that their business activities tumbled when they were married to certain persons, and became revived and lushful when they married others. There are stories, also, of couples who married for more than 10 years but had no child. When they went their different ways, however, both wives and husbands made babies with their new spouses from just about one year after. Thus, men and women appear not only ignorant to me but stupid who sleep with just about any person. The Yorubas are wise in this regard. They say OoGun Kan Ara Won (sweat touch each other) during a sexual exchange. I believe all cultures express the same knowledge in their different ways. What “touches each other” is not the “sweat” however. The sweat is only an outward form of an unseen potent force or power. In Yoruba culture, new wives are brought into the family fold on the night of her wedding only after wives in the family had washed her legs and feets “clean” at the entrance door of the receiving homestead. Symbolically, this is a casting of negative vibrations or radiations which they believe may have accompanied the bride from her home to theirs.
Sex is scenting or smelling almost everywhere outside “the other room” or the bedroom, courtesy of former President Muhammadu Buhari in one of his hilarious moments as Nigeria’s President. Buhari told his wife, the beautiful and intelligent Aisha, she had no business being in politics or with politics. He showed her not the way to the kitchen, as many men do, but to the room where babies are made! He called that place” the other room”, pronouncing the word other as “athar or “arder”. That ought to be the citadel of sex, and whatever transpires there ought to be to the knowledge of only partakers of it. However, we all are hearing, scenting and smelling what we ought not to hear nowadays because more men, encouraged by more women, are now on the loose. I am no longer shocked by news that a father is expecting a baby by his daughter, or that a man of 70 has carnal experience of a girl of four years. I pinched myself, however, to be sure I was day conscious, when the news came about two weeks ago that Jigawa State Commissioner for Special Duties was found almost 297 kilometres away in Kano, capital of another state, sleeping with another man’s wife in an uncompleted building!
One of the most disgusting narrations is that of a man aged 50 who defiled a child aged four years! I admit that this sort of thing is not new… it is the multiplicity of it lately which urged, like a burst dam of sex energy unleashed on our psyche, which encouraged me to discuss my understanding of the rampaging sexual questions. Please, permit me to bore you a little with some of the tales in recent Nigerian newspapers headlines, and news reviews on FM radio stations in Lagos.
One
In a Southwestern village, a motor-cyclist runs a transport service to a community market a few kilometres away. One of his regular customers was a pregnant woman. One day, he took her to the market. In the evening, he went to transport her back home. On the way home, he made the motor cycle engine to feign failure, veered into a thicket and pretended to be sorting out the engine trouble. Suddenly, he pounced on his unsuspecting pregnant passenger and forced her. Then, he abandoned her in the bush and rode away! What I did not understand from the event was whether he was a thinking person. For a thinking person should think about the implications of his or her actions for himself or herself. Did he forget in that split minute of pressure that his passenger was well acquainted to him, and that she could spill the beans? Of course, he is now in jail for his misbehaviour, and she is lucky he did not kill her to cover his tracks.
Two
In Lagos, the gateman of a government healthcare centre asked a nurse to be his lover. She declined. He waited for an auspicious opportunity to show her he desired to have her. One day, he and the nurse were alone on night duty. As the evening dragged on and the neighborhood became silent, he knocked on the door of the nurses bay to complain that he had a terrible headache. She let him in and went to fetch some pain killers and water. Suddenly, he was upon her. The nurse was a thinking woman, as a magistrate later heard. She did not struggle but co-operated, to make him assume that she had accepted him as a lover. For he could kill her and cover his tracks. He is now in jail.
Three
A father always took his own daughter by his first wife. She was about 18. He monitored her period. Whenever it seemed to fail to come, he gave her drugs to induce abortion. Then, one day, the safety valve failed to catch. She was forced out of her final year in secondary school. She declined to tell on him even after the baby arrived. She said if he went to jail, she would look after the baby alone, and her four half-siblings by second marriage would have no father to look after them. There are many girls in her shoes.
Four
Women who brought daughters from their first marriages into new marriages tell heart-rending stories of how their new husbands defile their daughters. Many men are in jail now on account of such acts.
Five
Now, it is dangerous for children to be left alone when masons or repairs men come home to fix problems. They are quick on the game and threaten to kill the young ones if they spill the beans.
Six
Surprisingly, men in their seventies and eighties are not left out of the sexual assault on underaged girls. There are stories of septuagenarian landlords and young wives of their tenants or even of daughters of tenants.
What’s Happening?
That is the question everyone is asking. Some women believe more men are becoming insane. Some others believe money makes them unreasonable, preferring to not blame the sexual irrationality on a misfiring brain alone. Some others say the brains of men are now on the tips of their organs. Others want offending men castrated. Few persons are blaming women. A few years ago, many women canvassed signatures against me when I dared to say it takes “two to tango”. They misunderstood this imagery. I will never support rape or defilement of a minor. However, I would strive to be as reasonable as Lord Denning (1899-1999), formally Alfred Thompson, a controversial but perceptive and intuitive English judge. When a group of boys were accused of gang raping a teenage girl in their midst, he asked a number of questions the answers to which led him to free the accused to the digust of British women who almost brought the roof down. The boys were hosting a “pyjamas party” and were drunken, not just berry. Uninvited, the girl came in, in fittings too tight for the boys to ignore, and all-revealing for comfort that currents charged, temperature rose and nerves agitated. What was she doing in a lion’s den, and daringly, too? Some persons would argue that all persons should strive for “purity” that if the boys were “pure”, they would not “see” the negative presentation of the girl, and would be themselves. Where is that human who can be” pure” in anything? It is given to the species to be “chaste”, the equivalent standard of purity at the human level. Only the Almighty Creator is Holy, Pure!
What we observe everywhere in Nigeria today is women going about their daily routines today at home, in the streets, in buses, half-naked, pubic hairs sometimes revealed, nipples threatening to jot out of blouses and the belly button or navel having no hidden place under a skirt. Even the buttocks may show tights climbing three-quarter way up the thigh or more. There is probably no law against indecent dressing. Men are supposed to see something, say nothing and do nothing. Men who are not disgusted and are daring chat up the advertisers of sex and agree time contracts with them. Other men also go under, without realising it. Sexual images are stored in their subliminal aspects, to be worked up and fired some day, unfortunately not at the purveyors. I will limit this argument here for want of space, but note that if various women’s groups had been outspoken against sexual indecency of their species, this problem would not tend to be swallowing our society today.
The Sexual Formula
Everything is governed by law. Even sexual arousal and action. The sexual activiy has four steps…
• Sexual Instinct
Our bodies are derived from bodies of the most developed animal at the time of the first human incarnation on earth. The human spirit dwelling in that animal body has nothing to do with the sex storms, although it is expected to control and to even ennoble them lest they enslave it. This instinct is fired by the thought of sex, and the firing produces sexual feelings. Seeing half-naked women everywhere generates thought of sex which fires the sex instinct to produce sexual feelings. Some perfumes, words and even touch do likewise.
• The feeling
This may be aborted at its level. If it is not, and is reacted upon by thought, their product will be Imagination.
• Imagination
At the level of imagination, the process can still be aborted if trouble is to be averted. However, most men are sexually weak and have not developed abortifacient skills from regular practice. The skills come from exercise of Free Will, the steering power of the spirit, breath of life of the body which, as in feeling, can divert the energy for imagination to nobler activities. Keeping the ”Heart of the Thought Pure” should abort the next step. Anything short of this will lead to the final pedestal…Opportunity.
• Opportunity
At the level of an imagination to actualise itself, the process can still be averted if a man and a woman do not permit that they be alone, for anything can happen if they are.
The Sex Scourge
Sexual activity nowadays has become a scourge because we do not suspect existence of another source of what is going on. It has to do with increased pressure from the Cosmos for what religions have taught would be the purification of the earth for the Millennium or 1,000 years of peace, and of the Final Judgement. We are not paying attention. Aljezera reported this month a heavy rain, the heaviest in 50 years, in the Sahara Desert where Nostradamus said a big lake will surface in fullness of time. (I will address this question at another time). After his prediction, scientists discovered the second biggest underground lake underneath the Sahara Desert. Regarding the relationship of this time to the epidemic of sexual misbehaviour in Nigeria, we may wish to return to the subject of The Great Comet sometimes discussed on this page. As a reminder, its origin, laid in Paradise as the Origin of the Star of Bethlehem, a herald of the birth and Mission of The Son of God, a greeting from the Father. On the other hand, The Great Comet is to close the cycle of that event and open the cycle of The Kingdom of the Holy Spirit in which the Final Judgement will take place. The Lord Jesus had forwarned that neither He nor The Father had any business with the harvest, that the Holy Spirit will not forgive sins. We have had predictions or prophesies about the Great Comet, the Star released to pressure the world beneath Paradise for the judgement. Nostradamus reported it his own way. So did some prophets in the Bible and Tom Kay, an American journalist, in his When the Comet run! I came across The Great Comet prophesy in 1977 through The Grail Message, by Abdu-ru-Shin.
The Grail Message says many weaknesses dormant or active in varying degrees in the human soul would be activated and invigorated to burn them out and, thereby, pass judgement on the spirit kernel which still habours or tolerates them. The Spirit is clean and cannot be soiled, but its comic bodies, including the earth body, can be darkened and made heavy by these faults or propensities. The Spirit cannot ascend homeward to Paradise with these faults or propensities. They have to be cast off before it can. As The Great Comet approaches the earth on its Mission, we learn it would change the planet in diverse ways. There would be Climatic Changes for which, right now, the far lesser possible cases are the focus of mankind. The waters of the earth would be sucked high and up. Could this be why the Sahara Desert would grow a lake and why the heaviest rain in 50 years is falling there? Could this be why Nostradamus said an island would arise in the Alantic Ocean, displaying such huge amounts of water that would submerge coastal cities and nations? We are told whatever had been false, that is not in tandem with God’s Holy Will would be destroyed at this time. This would include the economy, so-called scientific break-throughs, human institutions and societies, the educational systems which do not educate the human spirit but only its earth body through the brain. Agriculture, Medicines and even the diet, name the rest.
As for our weaknesses and propensities, even when they lay dormant and we do not know we bear them, radiations of the Great Comet would awaken them from Slumber and Energise them so that, invigorated, they will express themselves without our being able to stop them, so that we may, with our own hands, pass judgement upon ourselves. In The Grail Message, this is addressed in the lecture Titled… All that is dead will be awaken to pass judgement on themselves. All that is “dead”does not refer to human who have died but to propensities in the souls which lay dormant or seemly dead. Among them are Hate, Envy, Murder, Thieving, Carelessness, Coquetry, Covetousness, Greed, Debauchery, Cunning, Distrust, Violence, Impatience e.t.c. As this conversation is on sexual recklessness among men and women, we should easily appreciate the storms and the vicissitude from this perspective. When they brought offenders before magistrate, they said they did not know why and when they did what they did. Space does not permit me to explain that those of us who loudly condemn them may be worse criminals than these fellows. How many persons do not generate sexual thoughts? Thoughts are not free, however. They become Thought Forms and will travel about in the Universe either alone or as kindered thought forms or, if heavily nourished, as Demons. We encounter Phantom thought forms and Demons in our dreams. Do we know where they came from? A thought you generated 10 years ago may be what caused the sexual abuse of a four years old girl yesterday. Let us all check our eyes for the beams in them before we accuse other persons of bearing motes in theirs.
Finally, let us heed the words of the Wise One. Keep the heart of your thought pure and you will bring peace and be happy.
