Category: Saturday Magazine

  • VICTOR  NDUKAUBA: ‘I work  best at  night’

    VICTOR NDUKAUBA: ‘I work best at night’

    VICTOR Ndukauba is Deputy Managing Director at Afrinvest West Africa, a leading independent investment banking firm with a focus on West Africa. Fondly called Viktor Kubowski by friends, he graduated in 2003 with a B.Sc. honours degree in Metallurgical and Materials Engineering from the University of Lagos and holds an MBA (Executive) from IE Business School, Madrid, Spain (2016). After a brief stint at PricewaterhouseCoopers in 2005, he subsequently moved to Afrinvest where he joined the Financial Advisory practice in the Investment Banking Division in 2008. He served as the head of Afrinvest Investment Research between 2009 and 2011, and led the asset management division as the pioneer Managing Director, following its spin off as a wholly owned subsidiary. In this interview with IBRAHIM APEKHADE YUSUF, the native of Imo state in southeastern Nigeria, shares his perspectives on work life balance. Excerpts:

     

    When does your typical day begin?

    I’m not conventional. My day doesn’t starts and ends the same way because I’m naturally a nocturnal person. For example, last night I slept at 4.am and was up by 7.30am. I sleep late and tend to wake up early. I prefer working at night. Generally, I hate having 8am meetings. My day starts around 10.00am.

    What’s your management style?

    If by management style you’re looking at how I like to get work done, then for me, I would say it starts with making the hiring decision. I prefer to work with people I trust around me, who may be replica of myself. I’m a naturally lazy person; as such I look for the easiest or quickest way to get things done. As a rule, I don’t like being micromanaged and I don’t micromanage people either. I would rather we discuss the deliverables and targets. Once we agree on those targets, then we’re fine. For me, if you can beat deadlines and deliver a task meant for one week’s work in just two days, I don’t care. I’m not one to go snooping around and breathe down on people’s neck just to get them to work. No. I believe it’s a feeling being insecure if you have to do that as a manager. I believe that once you have taken time to choose the right staff then you necessarily don’t need to worry how they do the work. All you need to do is to show direction.

    What’s your management philosophy?

    I don’t have any. (laughs)

    Do you delegate responsibility?

    Of course, that is part of what is required in our line of business. In my second year at work, I learnt the 4Ds of decision-making and that helped me in understanding the nature of the workplace. When I draw out my to-do-list for the day, I look at what is practical and can be delivered within a particular timeframe. Sometimes, if I have to draft a letter for instance, and I know someone else can do it for me, I pass it on and subsequently look through it for correction. That way, I’m able to do other things. The thing about delegating roles and responsibilities is that you can only succeed to the extent that you are able to understand the strengths and weaknesses of people with you.

    Are you a team player?

    That’s intrinsic. It’s impossible to succeed or get anything done in the kind of industry I operate to get anything done without team work. If you’re going to succeed as a manager you obviously have to lean on the team to be able to achieve the desired objectives.

    What are your other areas of interest besides business?

    Because I have a background in engineering, I tend to follow technology. I enjoy space travel, molecular biology, advance materials, synthetic arts, knowledge-skill science and all. I also like music. In fact, I grew up in a music family so to speak. My father was a choirmaster while my mum was a musician. My sister, (Ada Ogochukwu Ehi) is a recording gospel artist. I play the guitar and piano as well. I love football. I grew up at a time when my parents didn’t believe any serious young man could make a living out of football; as such my parents whipped me into line in order not to allow the ambition to play active football get into my head. But since I couldn’t play football, I follow football quite actively. I watch the English Premier League, Spanish football league system or La Liga. At some point in time, I have had the opportunity of watching live matches of Real Madrid in Spain since I also schooled in Madrid.  I follow Tennis. I’m a great fan of Serena Williams, I also watch Formula One.

    What’s your choice holiday destination?

    To be honest, it was only in the last three years that I have had to deliberately plan my holiday. For me, my idea of a holiday is not to travel. I don’t usually like the inconvenience that comes with travels. I think it was during my honeymoon over 10 years ago that I travelled a few places for a holiday per se. I have been to Dubai, Ghana. But I prefer Europe as a holiday destination because it is very difficult connecting Africa. But I have been to Nairobi. I plan to go to Mombasa. I have been to the UK a couple of times but not for holidays but mainly on official assignments. For me, generally speaking, a holiday doesn’t have to be about travelling out of the country. A holiday for me is not going abroad but staying anywhere close to nature.

    What motivates you?

    It varies. I think you’re your own intrinsic motivator. For me, it’s what you’re able to do for your family by virtue of the work you do and creating a future for them. What you enjoy doing. At a certain level, it may mean been able to achieve the desired objectives for your organisation or even been able to close a deal for a client. That makes you feel good about yourself. Of course, sometimes life happens and you look at the world around you and may not feel the urge to carry on. I lost my younger brother last year and lost my mum around this time three years ago.

    How do you motivate your staff?

    For me, staff motivation may sometimes be just paying attention and just been able to strike a balance at the workplace. The form of motivation you provide may vary depending on the stage of the employee in their career. For those in the early stage of their development cycle, it may be to try out new things. Sometimes, it could just be been able to play the role of a role model to them. You can give them responsibility but if they don’t believe you have the capacity to do the same work you have thrust upon their shoulders. They may assume of course that you’re just trying to use them or present them a difficult task just for the fun of it. Sometimes, it’s just providing coaching session and checking on them beyond the work. You can ask about their career development and have them tell you their goals. Sometimes, it could just sharing your personal experiences or just giving them verbal acknowledgement. Such recognition, I believe reinforces the culture of excellence and enables you to be able to benchmark remuneration and place the right value on staff. Ultimately, this is how to make the most of people’s career to get them to be productive. It’s a mix of several things. I believe it’s possible to work with people and be friends with them. When you’re friends, it helps. Of course, if friendship is not possible, there must be mutual cooperation at least.

    How do you reprimand your staff? Do you apply the stick?

    I believe in striking a balance. You see we work in an industry where emphasis is about meeting targets and all; it’s easier to apply the carrot. Some people will misbehave alright and try to co-create a culture of bad behaviour in the workplace. The sensible to do would be to address those guilty of such misdemeanor.

    What is the best decision you have taken as the DMD?

    As the Deputy Managing Director, I work largely as the Chief Operating Officer (COO). In addition to the role I play with regards to investment research, capital raising, financial advisory and asset management, I also provide oversight on the Group’s Information Technology (IT), as well as the Finance, Risk and Control functions. I remember some few years ago, the IT team came up with a proposal on disaster recovery and stuff. We invested in a system that allowed to easily transiting the business to the digital space using cloud computing and all. At the second week of March last year we also experimented with remote working from home trial. So by the time COVID-19 happened we were more than prepared. Even with our four locations shutdown, we were still able to service our clients and deliver optimally. When we sat back to reflect, wit turned out that four years of work paid off at the end. As I recall, that was one of the best decisions we took at the time.

     What’s the worst decision you have taken?

    I remember some years ago, an uncle of mine did ask me to join him in one of these Scandinavian countries, Norway to be precise. I didn’t go at the time. But if I look back in retrospect, I think it wasn’t a good decision at the time because sadly, nothing has changed for good about Nigeria.

    What was the last book you read and when?

    I bought many books during the COVID-19 period but sadly couldn’t read any of them because one practically had to work almost 24 hours. But thankfully, during the Christmas and new year break in January I tried to read a few of these books. The last one I read was A Long Night in Paris by Dov Alfon. It’s a fictional story about espionage and spies. It was written in four different perspectives. It had a part about Israeli commanders, another one on French police, yet another one on the Chinese. The different stories ran parallel but were connected at the end. For me, the takeaway from the book just about reinforced another book I read, Startup Nation by Dan Senor and Saul Singer. The story is a chronology of how Israel was able to remake its world and what it takes to build a nation. Upon reflection, I just said to myself, if Israel can do this, I believe Nigeria as a country can turn the tide in many areas. Let’s hope this dream is achieved anytime soon.

    What’s your favourite Nigerian meal?

    Food is one thing I don’t sweat. So I’m not a foodie. But I tend to like soup and swallows. If I have to eat bitter leave soup, I prefer it with pounded yam or eba. I love Afang, Amala. I also like some of the local cuisine like boli (roasted plantain) eaten with fish or goat meat pepper soup. Some days, I could just settle for akara (bean cake) and bread or just pour garri in a cup and I’m munching away.

    Do you cook?

    I can cook but I haven’t done that in a long while. For me, I believe food is fuel for my body to survive. I remember one certain time; I met my wife in the kitchen trying hard to joggle her time in-between cooking two meals at the same time. She was already trying to prepare a pot of stew and was struggling with making the egusi soup. So I told her, look, since we have extra two burners here, why not I cook the egusi? I asked her to move to one side minding her own soup while I prepare the egusi soup.  She was just staring at me. She actually watched me prepare the soup and shortly after I heard speaking with her mum on phone saying, I thought this guy was joking when he said he can cook. (laughs). I’m not ordinarily a fan of cooking but I grew up under a mother who said, look you’ll not kill my girl with work. She had three boys and one girl. She ensured that she prepared a roster for all of us and taught us all how to cook different kinds of food whether egusi, ogbono, onugbu, etc.

    So that means growing up must have been a lot of fun?

    It wasn’t a lot of fun but it was a close-knit family alright. My mum had more time for us because she was a teacher.

    How do you unwind?

    I like to watch movies or simply relax with a cool music.

  • Widows in double jeopardy

    Widows in double jeopardy

    With the untimely death of their husbands, they were left with no shoulders to cry on. Yet they were determined not to constitute a burden on the society. Consequently, they took to farming to ensure that they put food on the table and see their children through school. But their woes have been compounded lately with the setbacks suffered by their investments, which have made it difficult for them to cater for their needs and those of their children. INNOCENT DURU wonders where the hapless widows would go from here.

    • Lose investments in farming

    • Robbed single mother laments ugly experience with police investigators

    I have three children and it has not been easy paying their school fees. They are often sent away from school for not paying their fees, and each time that happens, I cry and cry because that was never my build for the family suffered a setback last year. Like the biblical Job, Blessing soon began to witness the collapse of one business after the other.

    She said: “I farm on 20 acres of land in Edo State. The 10 acres of cassava I had were burnt when some people set the bush on fire because they were searching for rabbit. About seven of the 10 acres were affected, so I couldn’t realise the sum of money I had projected. Rather, I recorded losses.

    “I could not make money from the maize I planted on the other 10 acres too because customers could not travel to buy them during the lockdown period. Everything I harvested rotted away. We only ate the little we could,” she said.

    With that experience, it is expected that people would empathise with her and even move to assist her.  That, however, has not been the case. Rather than help her, some criminal elements saw it as an opportunity to further plunder what she had left.

    She added: “During the first wave of COVID-19, my business suffered a massive setback. The shop with which I augmented what I needed to take care of the family was robbed. The case is still with the police. I don’t want to think about it now because it is like it is driving me insane. Let me not lie to you. I hardly sleep these days.”

    From the circumstantial evidence she had, Blessing suspected that it was the agent that helped her to get the shop that masterminded the robbery. She had gone to report the incident to the police with the hope of getting justice, but she was shocked at the events that followed.

    She said: “The police are just after the money they would get. I have given them some money already. The first time they said I had to mobilize their van, so I gave them N7,000.  The second time they said for them to go and get the landlady for questioning, should give them some money; I gave them N5,000. On another occasion, they said they wanted to go and arrest the suspect and I had to give them N2,000 for transportation.

    “I lost close to N1 million in 2020. I am living in a rented apartment. My landlord and I are having issues as I speak to you because I owe him. Business is not so good now because prices of many things like fertilizer, chemicals, feeds and cost of hiring labour have gone up.

    “Life was rosy before I lost my husband. I had to go into farming because a single stream of income was not enough. I started with dealing in perishable goods. When I bought food items in the bush, before I got to the market, they would have perished.

    view of Ajulo’s farm

    “During the first wave of the (Coronavirus) pandemic, there was no way I could get things from the bush to the market, so I had to think of investing more in farming. Friends and family members have been helping in taking care of my children because right now, I don’t think I can boast of anything to take care of them. As a widow, it is not easy to manage the family all alone.”

    Investment in agriculture, especially during the lockdown period last year, was also not a cheering experience for Pastor (Mrs) Mojisola Ajulo, a sexagenarian and a widow. Like every business person, she had undertaken some massive investments and was waiting to reap the fruits of her labour. Her expectations did not come through.

    She said: “I am into fish farming, poultry and vegetable. The farm was doing well before the coronavirus pandemic started. The ugwu (a species of vegetable) that I planted was eaten up by insects. It had never been like that. I was surprised.

    “The whole vegetable farm was like a mere ground. I used to have seeds from the farm but this time, the insects also ate the seeds together with the leaves. I had to go to the market to buy seeds. The seeds we were buying for N4,000 became N13,000 immediately after the first wave of COVID-19.

    “I am supposed to be harvesting now but, unfortunately, there is no see d to plant. I have to go and buy another one.  That is for vegetable.

    “What affected vegetables also affected poultry. I stocked 300 layers and also broilers and noilers. My brother, when it was December 23, I had to go and buy chicken to sell. The ones I stocked died. It was very unusual. Because of the need to satisfy my customers, I had to go and buy, but it wasn’t a good story.

    “Only about 120 of my 300 layers are remaining. In monetary terms, I lost about N500,000 when you combine the losses from the vegetables, fish farm and the poultry in particular, because I kept  buying feeds for all the chickens and turkeys.

    “I bought 15 foreign turkeys but I was able to sell only one. The foreign turkeys were very costly but they died before I could sell them.  The same fate befell many poultry farmers last year in the manner pig farmers suffered massive loss. I kept burying the chickens I had planned to sell and recoup my investment.

    “For the fish farm, I stocked some fish, but after the first wave of the pandemic, there were no more feeds.  The little that was available was very costly.  The feeds we were buying for N5,000 jumped to N8, 000.  The ones we were buying for N6,000 rose to between N10,000 and  N11,000. That is the trouble we have found ourselves in as regards the prices of feeds.”

    As a business person, she said, “I took a loan to enhance my business. It is not easy to repay such loans, especially when what I invested it on did not yield any profit. As a child of God, I am paying back the loan because I don’t want to bring the name of the Lord into reproach.”

    With the myriad of challenges bedeviling the sector, another sexagenarian, Madam Christiana Akoro, lamented that life has not been easy for farmers, especially widows like her who have no support from anywhere.

    She said: “We have not been able to feed well not to talk of feeding the fish.  We have been struggling all along but things are not working out fine.

    “I started fish farming in 2015 after I lost my husband. I have four children. There was a time I was going to Oko-Oba, where they are killing cows to buy some cow blood to feed my fish. We usually boil it, and after boiling it, it will become like liver. I was feeding the fish with it because I didn’t have sufficient money to buy feeds, but that experiment resulted in serious loss and I stopped doing it.

    “Subsequently, the World Bank subsidised the cost of the plastics we use for our association. We paid 40 per cent while they paid 60 per cent.  That was in 2012. No assistance has come from anywhere since then. “

    Asked how she would pay back if she was on loan, she said: “I don’t take loans because we don’t sell fish monthly. I don’t even sell four months old fish. I always sell my fish when they are six months and above so that whoever buys them can come back to buy next time. The cost of feeds is too much and it is seriously affecting the business.

    “To make matters worse, the traders are the ones that determine the price at which we sell. The business environment in the country is not friendly. If care is not taken, one would eat up the capital being used to do the business. I lost 500 pieces of fish to the incident I told you about earlier.  Each of them was weighing about 700 grammes. I lost about N350,000 in monetary terms.

    “Power supply has been a great challenge too. I have bought several generators that parked up. At a point, I dug a well, and when that didn’t work out well, I dug a bore hole. Along the line, they brought pre-paid meters to our area and we started by paying N1,000 for 43.6 units. And now it has seriously gone up. We now buy 17.2 units for N1,000.

    When I heard recently that they wanted to increase the unit cost, I quickly ran to buy the one of N21,000.

    Tackling poverty, idleness with small scale farming in communities

    In spite of the numerous challenges they have been facing, the widows also told good stories of how their venture into agriculture helped them to take care of their families in the absence of their breadwinners.

    Madam Ajulo said: “My husband died when I was 40 years old and he left five children behind. The eldest was in Junior Secondary School 2 and the youngest was in Primary 1. But by the grace of God, they all graduated with this farming and the support of God.

    “Before my husband passed on, I was laid off from the Nigerian Ports Authority. I went into agriculture thereafter in 1996, using an empty government acquired land very close to a river around us. I started planting ugwu there and the proceeds were part of the money I used to train my five children.  All of them are married. Some of them are master’s degree holders.”

    Checks also revealed that the small scale farmers have in their little way been using agriculture to tackle poverty and discourage idleness at the grassroots. A visit to Madam Ajulo’s farm and several others revealed that many idle women and youths are being encouraged to take to farming following  the activities of the small scale farmers in the neighbourhoods.

    “We train youths and women on fish farming and vegetable planting.  If you go over there, you will see a lady with two boys preparing the fishes. On Monday we will be having five women coming here to train on how to process fish.

    “I don’t take anything from some of them. When I see that some of them don’t have any means of livelihood, especially the youths who have gone to school but have nothing doing, I call them to come and acquire skills in agriculture.

    “Like the lady there, I called her when I saw her hawking slippers. She is an undergraduate and had been at home since January last year. She heeded my call and today, she can do many things without assistance.

    “There are some women who have nothing doing. They like asking for assistance all the time. I used to tell them that since they have hands, they can work and earn a living. Some of them would always give the excuse that they don’t have money. But I always tell them that it is not always about money.

    “This is why I am always advising people to be productive instead of sitting down and waiting for manna to fall from heaven.

    “Then, government had not come in to offer any assistance. But now they have come in. They bought machines for us and saved us the stress of carrying water up and down to wet the farm.

    “The Lagos State Government also supported us by buying pumping machines for us. I was farming on many acres of land then, but the government has taken over the land.”

    One of her apprentices, Mercy, who is an undergraduate, said she was happy acquiring the skills.

    Mercy said: “I have acquired skills on how to rear fish from juvenile up to table size and how to process it. I can go and buy fish from farmers and then process and sell as dry fish. I have also acquired skills in poultry here too. I can rear from a day old till when I will sell.

    “I am studying Microbiology in the university. If I have the means, I will go into agriculture in future. Some of my friends have been telling me that they cannot do what I am doing. But from the experience I have now, I can say that agriculture is good and rewarding. “

    Government officials visiting without helping

    Laudable as the activities of the small scale farmers in the communities are, findings revealed that many of them are not getting the basic assistance that would enable them to do better.

    Checks with some of the farmers revealed that their farms are often visited by different government officials from the Federal Capital Territory, Abuja, who take their pictures and promise to assist but never lived up to their words.

    “Some government officials came to my farm. They took the picture but nothing has come out of it. I don’t have any means of following up on that visit. What power does a poor widow have to follow up the government on any issue?” Madam Ajulo asked.

    Madam Christiana, also lamented the fruitlessness of similar visits to her farm.

    She said: “On February 21, 2019, there was a programme called Appeal on radio. A delegation of the Federal Ministry of Fishery came to my farm. They took the picture of the farm and mine but nothing came out of it. Thereafter, another group came from Abuja but nothing also came out of the visit.”

  • Sexual expression central in marriage

    Sexual expression central in marriage

    By Funmi Akinigbe

    A couple relocated from England to Nigeria to take up a family business and few days ago they were in my office for a deep, soul-searching session. From all appearances, their sex life had hit the rocks a few months following their arrival due to the nature of Nigerian lifestyle. Things are not just as they used to be.

    While the wife was of the opinion that they can make their sex life at least close to what they had way back, the husband was very uncomfortable with the demand.  After all said and done he blurted out: “Madam, how can my wife expect the best sex and still have it regularly? To be honest with you, where we come from there is a working system unlike where we are now and my wife is not just ready to face reality.

    “How can I face Lagos’ terrible traffic while going to work and while coming back and still come home and pretend all is well and deliver charming, nice sex. A famished husband doesn’t have energy for sex. Most times I get back from work and my wife never seems to understand the fact that I can’t have sex with her like I use to; I am just too busy.”

    Although married couples struggle to agree on a variety of issues, it seems that regular sex is one area in which they often give up trying to find a solution. To help protect the marriage union couples should approach the sexual aspect of their marriage in the context of their entire relationship. This is by making sure they recognize some predominant truths about sexual intimacy in marriage. Sex and all its pleasures is an inbuilt desire that needs expression from time to time; orgasm is needed to get bonded.  So, sex should be exceptionally enjoyable by deliberately creating time for it.

    Secondly, couples must agree to keep talking about sex in the relationship even when they are not enjoying it to the fullest; by so doing it will be easy to give it priority.  Great sex begins with talking together in an open, trusting, accepting manner, and it is the only path to resolving the “how often is enough” question. Thirdly, you should agree not to assume anything about your mate. Many factors lie behind each person’s desire for more sex or less.

    Do not assume that it is simply a male versus female inconsistency in desire or that you know what your spouse’s “problem” is, or the unhealthy system you both found yourselves. Also, do not insist that your spouse must conform to your libido and timetable. On the flipside, do not assume your mate knows why you feel the way you do. You have to express your own feelings, preferences and concerns in a selfless manner.

    Instead of assuming, commit yourself to understanding your spouse and to helping him or her understand you. That is part of your lifelong commitment to care for and treasure each other. Fourth, agree to consider possible outside barriers. If past or present experiences are affecting your sexual relationship, do not hesitate to adjust your lifestyle. Great sex depends on factors, such as in-depth communication, a sense of sharing your lives together, emotional intimacy and, especially, a solid commitment to your relationship.

    If you want improvements in the bedroom, put the rest of your house in order. If you are concerned about having more or better sex, you need first to invest care and attention in building your entire marriage. At the same time, do not underestimate the value of the worktable. Passionate intercourse is not to be reserved only for times when everything else in your place of work or your relationship is perfect in your own way, if not you may never experience the real connection of a marital union. Sexual expression is central and important. Do not trivialize it

    It important to pay very close attention to every unforeseen ‘sex-stealers’, such as unrealistic dogmatic schedules, unending work load, physical exhaustion and so on. Whenever you always feel ‘too tired” for lovemaking you might be sending a different message to the other party. Instead establish an integrated front against busyness and reclaim the time you both need to be alone together and also the time you need to have sex.

    Whenever you can tell by the vibes your spouse is emitting that sex is on his or her mind, do all you can to allow sensitivity and understanding to take over the part of you that is out-rightly ignoring him or her. Sometimes it may pay you both if you stay on schedule. Whether you are running a business or running a household, fatigue is inevitable.

    A word of caution: While scheduled intimacy may work well in reducing tension where your love life is concerned, it can sometimes cause lovemaking to become too predictable. So it must not become the rule of the game. It is advisable to sandwich schedule sex with spontaneous sex, because spontaneity is and can be very refreshing. This will eventually minimize marital tension and maximize intimacy.

    I love to conclude by asking if you are worried about your sexual health. If you are experiencing a non-existing libido, or mid-life sexual crisis, loss of erection, premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, weak erection, or you just can’t stay long in sex as desired, or you are experiencing problems with sperm cell, shrinking penis or general penis issues, you are not far from total freedom. Just email or give me a call.

    QUESTION ONE

    What’s the normal age for a first erection? Is it normal for one to constantly have an erection that lasts longer than normal and it hurts at the same time?

    Age 1 or under, this is because some boys are born with erections. Ultrasounds show that babies can have them in the womb. A baby’s erections aren’t sexual. Sometime mere stimulation can also cause them; this is common during diaper changes. If you have an erection that lasts over four hours, hurts and doesn’t result from being turned on, you could have a rare condition called priapism. It needs treatment fast. Sometimes some erectile dysfunction (ED) drugs can cause it. But priapism can also result from injuries, medications, diseases, drug use, and even ordinary spider, or giant ant bites.  A cold shower or ice packs can help. Light exercise like climbing stairs can help draw blood away from the penis into the rest of the body. But it’s important to see a doctor or sex therapist quickly, though. Untreated, priapism can cause scarring and erection problems that don’t go away.

    QUESTION TWO

    Is it normal to have erections while you sleep?

    Yes. It’s natural to wake up with “morning wood, morning glory, rainfall or morning erection; they all mean the same thing.” Men usually have three to five erections each night, often while they dream. Medical researchers do not know why that happens, but many researchers say such erections help keep the penis healthy. Besides this morning erection is one of the things sex therapists check for whenever a man complains of penis problem, erectile dysfunction, prostrate inflammation, urination infection or sexually transmitted diseases.

    QUESTION THREE

    I am 20 years old and I do not want to start having sex, but to ease myself off sexually by constant masturbating. Is masturbation as healthy as having sex? Also, will it enhance my total wellbeing?

    Not at all! Sex, on the other hand, seems to have lots of health benefits for married guys, married women even against pain – especially for the heart, and also for the prostate in men. Masturbation doesn’t offer any of these. Experts aren’t even so sure of the difference between having sex and doing the job yourself but your body seems to know better, and the body behaves differently under the two conditions. While healthy sex produces wellbeing, masturbation kills good sperm cells. When you have sex within the boundary of marriage, your semen has more and healthier sperm than when you masturbate.

    QUESTION FOUR

    I am 29 years old and recently I noticed that whenever I go to urinate after the whole act, after say five to seven minutes, my boxers get wet from drops of urine. Growing up this has never happened to me as it only started like three months or so. No matter how hard I shake my penis, it still drops later. Please, I am confused. Imagine getting wet in a public place, and it’s always obvious because it’s not just a drop (it’s always in drops). Please, what can be done? May I also add that I practice Kegel exercise when peeing sometimes and also masturbate frequently; could any or both of these things be the problem?

    You have to stop masturbation immediately and see the doctor as fast as you can. There is likely a problem with the end part of your bladder called the pyloric sphincter or the urethra (that is the pipe that take urine from the bladder out whenever you are peeing). If you delay you may be endangering your reproductive health.

  • Herdsmen/farmer crisis: Soldiers storm Ogun villages again!

    Herdsmen/farmer crisis: Soldiers storm Ogun villages again!

    Barely two weeks after The Nation published an exclusive report about soldiers from 35 Artillery Brigade, Alamala, Abeokuta escorting some herdsmen to Ketu-Yewa speaking villages in Yewa North Area of Ogun State, where they flogged villagers for rejecting the herders, soldiers again invaded the villages and made frantic attempt to force the victims to recant torture allegation against them, as Force Headquarters, Abuja, invite villagers for questioning following alleged petition by herdsmen, reports KUNLE AKINRINADE.

    • Tell residents to deny media reports that they were flogged

    • Threaten to arrest villagers whose names appear in The Nation’s story

    • Vow to shun future distress calls from communities

    • Force headquarters invite residents for questioning in Abuja

    • Lawmaker, group, monarch seek probe of Army’s complicity

    For the second time, soldiers from 35 Artillery Brigade, Alamala, Abeokuta, Ogun State, have visited some villages in Yewa North Local Government Area, Ogun State, where they had earlier brutalised residents at the instance of some herdsmen.

    In a report exclusively published by The Nation penultimate Saturday, the soldiers had reportedly escorted some herdsmen to some of the villages on December 19, 2020 and flogged many of the residents for refusing to allow the herdsmen to graze their cattle on their farmlands.

    About 29 villages in the area had been attacked in recent times by terror herdsmen who were said to have camped at Eggua, a neighbouring town, from where they led their cattle to destroy farmlands within the Ketu-Yewa communities, which share borders with the Republic of Benin.

    The affected villages include Ateru, Moro, Ologun, Agbon, Igbota, Ogunba-Aiyetoro, Oke-Odo, Ibore, Gbokoto, Iselu, Ijale, Ohunbe, Igbeme, Ijoun, Owode-Ketu, Igan-Alade, Lashilo, Oja Odan, Moro, Ologun, Iyana Meta, Igbooro, Egbeda, and Kuse.

    The story has not been refuted by the Nigerian Army or the federal authorities many days after it was published.

    Worried by the development, some traditional rulers in the area had written a petition against the soldiers, the state government, and the police in the state.

    In a bid to silence the victims of the brutality, about six soldiers led by one Captain John Onyebuchi, visited some of the villages in the Yewa North Local Government Area of the state again at about 2 pm on Friday, January 29, 2021.

    At Ubeku, in the presence of the Baale (village head) Chief Olaleye Adigun, a youth leader Peter Koposhu and other villagers, the soldiers asked one of their victims, Seye Mulero to recant his statement published in the petition and reported by The Nation. According to a four-minute audio recording of the event that transpired during the visit and obtained by our correspondent, Captain Onyebuchi revealed that the Army headquarters was worried by the petition it received and news report over the allegation that men of 35 Artillery Brigade, Alamala, Abeokuta escorted herdsmen to the affected communities where they brutalised some villagers for refusing herdsmen to graze their cattle on their farmlands.

    In the said audio recording, Onyebuchi was heard frantically asking Mulero to make a video recording of the retraction to save the Army from embarrassment. The victim, however, refused to retract his statement, insisting that he was flogged and badly wounded.

    Disturbed by Mulero’s stance, Onyebuchi said: “The story says ‘Soldiers escort herdsmen to Ogun villages… At that point, the soldiers seized him and beat him mercilessly…’

    “See, this is a big allegation and we will not take it for granted.

    ‘’The (Nigeria) Army got in touch with Alamala (35 Artillery Brigade), which in turn sent me here. I have to write a report on the investigation because I must report back to the person who sent me here.

    “…I want you (youth leader) to video him (Seye) because your name is what we have in the petition. Your name is what we have, so you (youth leader) will record him now, he will call his name and say that nobody touched him.”

    Onyebuchi then asked that Mulero be filmed while refuting the story that he was beaten by soldiers who escorted herders to the village.

    “He will call his name as you are recording him and say that all these are false. Nobody touched him and whatever he said, nobody forced him to say; he said it out of his freewill in the presence of the Baale and the youth leader and, of course, members of the community.

    “Are you getting me? Go ahead…if that is done, I think I am okay with it.’’

    The soldier however warned that the failure of the victim to make the retraction might force the Army to return to arrest him as well as shun any distress call from the community.

    He said: “Let me tell you what this thing means. There’s a need to clear this air. If you don’t clear it, next time when they call, the Army will not respond because you people have alleged and penned the name of the Army in a bad light (sic) and the Army will not respond when there is an emergency in this place.

    “If they don’t respond, you can’t blame them. So, the need to clear this is very important. If I were you, I would come out clear because your name is everywhere in the petition they wrote; that you were beaten mercilessly, and look at you here.

    “Say it that whoever is doing it is doing it on his own; that you didn’t send anybody.

    “If you like, pretend to feign lack of understanding by saying ‘mi o gbo, mio gbo (I don’t understand)’, that is your problem… If tomorrow they come here and pick you up that you were using the name of the Army anyhow, you will go in for it. So, the earlier you clear the air, the better for you.”

    Mulero, however, refused to be intimidated, saying: “…I was flogged. You can see the wounds on my back and I am still feeling pains. The soldiers beat me up, kicked me, and dealt blows on me. Even parts of my body swelled up.’’

    Mulero’s younger brother, Gabriel, who was also flogged by the soldiers, said the second coming of the soldiers had heightened fears among the villagers.

    He said: “The soldiers wore red berets, which suggested that they were military police. They left around 4 pm. They met with the Baale, the youth leader Peter Koposhu and other villagers.

    “They came in a military van and left disappointed after my brother refused to do what they wanted of him.’’

    Tension as residents flee communities over harassment by soldiers

    The second visit of soldiers to the communities has created tension and panic in the area as residents are beginning to relocate for fear of being apprehended by the minions.

    The villagers see continued harassment by military men as an indication of more trouble on the horizon. They fear that soldiers could resort to arrest and further intimidation of those perceived to be opposed to them and the herdsmen they are backing.

    A villager, Daramola Adekola, said he was one of the people contemplating relocating from his village. He condemned what he termed as orchestrated oppression by soldiers following the rejection of herders in the community.

    Adekola said: “I am an indigene of this community, but life has become miserable for us, especially those of us who are farmers, following the destruction of our crops and farmlands by herdsmen.

    “Since we have been crying out to security forces for protection from the herders who have been killing our people, including children, and raping our women, the military did not for once respond to our cries.

    “But look at the way they escorted herdsmen to forcibly graze in our villages and beat some of our people mercilessly for rejecting the herders.

    “Now, they returned after our plight which was published by The Nation went viral and resorted to forcing the victims to recant following what they termed the embarrassment the report caused the Army.

    “I am one of those considering leaving the community, because many of us fear that they may come back again to further deal with us, going by the countenance of the officer who led the soldiers after the victims refused to recant what was published in the petition and the newspaper.’’

    Reacting, the spokesperson for 35 Artillery Brigade, Major Osoba, confirmed that Captain Onyebuchi went to the villages on the said date and therefore was in the best position to explain what transpired.

    He said: “Captain John Onyebuchi is one of our officers here, and he is the officer in charge of legal services.

    “But since Captain Onyebuchi is the one who went to the villages, I want to advise you to demand his phone contact from the villagers so you can call him because he is in the best position to explain to you what happened there.’’

    Twist as police invite villagers for interrogation

    In a twist to the issue, the police had also served invitations on residents, asking them to come to the Force Headquarters in Abuja for interrogation.

    The letter was signed by Mr. Kolo Yusuf, a Deputy Commissioner of Police (DCP) of FIB Special Tactical Squad, Force Headquarters in Abuja.

    According to a copy of the letter sighted by The Nation, the villagers are expected to be questioned by operatives on February 8.

    The letter dated January 26, 2021, reads in part: “This office is investigating a case of criminal conspiracy, unlawful possession of prohibited firearms, causing grievous hurt and mischief that your name featured in.

    “You are kindly requested to interview (sic) the undersigned officer on 8th February 2021 by 1000hrs through Assistant Superintendent of Police, ASP Sunday Ibrahim…”

    The invitation has since created tension in the villagers as residents feared they could be detained by the police.

    Some residents who spoke with our correspondent said the police invitation was at the instance of the embattled herders who they said were hell-bent on intimidating the villagers to submission after their plot to use soldiers to achieve their aim failed.

    The residents noted that senior officers from the Ogun State Police Command had earlier visited the affected villages barely one month ago on a fact-finding mission and did not find them wanting.

    A resident of Asa village, Akanbi Afolabi, said: “The police invitation is another brazen attempt by the unrelenting herdsmen to silence us just so they can continue to unlawfully graze on our farmlands and by extension further their raping and killing of our women and daughters.

    “They said we are being investigated for unlawful possession of firearms whereas the herders who had been attacking us with guns and machetes were never for once investigated let alone prosecuted for opening fire on our people and killing many residents.’’

    A farmer in Agbon-Ojodu, Lamidi Adeola, said the police were only trying to achieve what the soldiers could not do for the herders.

    He said: “The police invitation is laughable. It is another ploy by the herdsmen to achieve their mission, which is to take over our farmlands and chase us away from our homes.

    “The state police command had earlier in January visited here and confirmed that we have been calm in the face of provocation by fiendish herders. Hence, the latest invitation from Force Headquarters, Abuja is worrisome.

    “We learnt that the plan was to invite us to Abuja where we would be detained for several months while the herders would have destroyed whatever is left of our ravaged farms by the time we are released.

    “The irony of it all is that the herders who have been terrorising us with rifles and machetes are not being accused of bearing unlawful firearms while innocent villagers are now being hunted by the police for spurious allegations.

    ‘’Believe me, if our people had firearms, there would have been a balance of terror. But we are law abiding citizens, hence, we did not retaliate the attacks carried out against us lately.

    “The only thing we have done is to resist herders from grazing in our villages, and that is why we are being unduly harassed by soldiers and policemen.’’

    The spokesman for Ogun State Police Command, Mr. Abimbola Oyeyemi, said the Command had no knowledge of the invitation served on the villagers from the Force Headquarters in Abuja.

    Oyeyemi said: “We have no idea that the villagers have been served with an invitation by the Force Headquarters, Abuja. We shall find out the veracity of the invitation.

    ‘’However, we had visited the communities on January 3rd, where we held meetings with the community leaders and the leadership of the herdsmen to ensure that peace reigns between the host communities and herdsmen.’’

    ASP Ibrahim however confirmed that the police had actually invited the villagers for interrogation in Abuja.

    Ibrahim said: “It is true that we served the invitation on some villagers in Yewa area of Ogun State.

    “There’s a petition from the office of the Inspector-General of Police (IGP) that was sent to our office, and I was detailed to investigate it.

    “We served the invitation letters on the people (the herders) they were complaining against and a date (February 8) has been fixed for the people mentioned to come around to our Abuja office, SARS premises near the old abattoir just before CBN Junction.

    ‘’I will attend to them first before taking them to the officer who signed the invitation letters, DCP Kolo Yusuf.’’

    Lawmaker, group, monarch demand probe of Army, police involvement

    In its reaction after the story was published, the Ogun State government had pledged to probe the flogging of the villagers by soldiers at the prompting of herdsmen.

    In a statement issued on January 24, 2021, the Chief Press Secretary to the Ogun State Governor, Kunle Somorin, said in Abeokuta, the state capital, that government was investigating the matter.

    He said anyone found culpable would be dealt with according to the law.

    The probe promised by the state government was yet to commence when soldiers went back to the communities to force victims to recant on their statements.

    Reacting through a statement issued by his media office, the Senator representing Ogun West, Tolu Odebiyi, also demanded action from the federal and state governments as well as the military and police authorities on the matter.

    Odebiyi asked the Federal Government, the military, and the police authorities to probe the alleged harassment of his constituents by soldiers.

    He said: “It is morally wrong to allow herders to graze on people’s farms unchecked, to the point that law-abiding citizens are rendered hapless.

    “This sends a dangerous signal in addition to undermining the credibility of the government.”

    He asked the Brigade Commander of the 35 Artillery Brigade, Alamala, Abeokuta, and the Commissioner of Police, Ogun State Command, to urgently look into the matter.

    “We call on the Army authorities, the Presidency and the National Assembly to, as a matter of urgency, investigate this incident and publish their findings,’’ the statement added.

    Also, a think tank group of professionals, the Yoruba Leadership and Peace Initiative (TYLPI), condemned the reports that armed soldiers allegedly molested indigenes of communities in the Ketu area of Ogun State, as they escorted herders previously rejected by the people because of their criminal activities in the communities.

    In a statement jointly signed by its President and General Secretary, Messrs. Olusegun Ahmadu and Olufemi Adefemiwa, the group urged the Ogun State Government to constitute a public judicial inquiry into the incident, noting that it would amount to treason that troops, wearing army uniforms “and bearing arms procured with taxpayers’ money, openly took sides against a group of law-abiding Nigerians on their ancestral land.’’

    Speaking with The Nation, a monarch whose jurisdiction covers some of the villages, the Eselu of Iseluland, Oba Akintunde Akinyemi, urged the federal government to rein in the Army and the police in order that peace might reign.

    He also called for the establishment of a judicial panel of inquiry to, among others, investigate the brutalizing of residents by soldiers while siding with herders, killings and destruction of farmlands by herdsmen as well as the complicity of policemen from Abuja in the alleged plot to invite residents for interrogation in a bid to silence them.

    Oba Akinyemi said: “The federal government must as a matter of urgency restrain the Army and operatives of Force Headquarters, Abuja from being used by herders to brutalise and intimidate my people. Enough is enough.

    “But more importantly, we want the state government to commission a judicial panel of inquiry to investigate the complicity of the military and police in the heinous attacks on our people by herdsmen, especially the recent police invitation served on hapless villagers, whose crops and farmlands have been destroyed by herders who also killed several women and men in these communities.

    He added: “The police invitation of villagers who are mostly farmers is funny in the sense that the villagers’ means of livelihood have been destroyed by herders; so where will they get thousands of naira to transport themselves to and from Abuja, where intelligence gathered has revealed that they might likely be detained for several weeks?

    “Recently, with the assistance of a local vigilance group, three herdsmen with one Ak47 rifle, machetes, and assorted live ammunition and cartridges were apprehended after they killed one Olabisi Afolabi and attacked some women at Moro and Eegelu villages.

    “The suspects, namely Mohammed Bello, Muhammed Momoh and Yisau Umoru, were detained at the state police command, Eleweran, Abeokuta, but were released without being prosecuted.

    “Therefore, it is funny that those who are victims of herders’ attacks are the ones being invited for interrogation in Abuja while herdsmen who are the tormentors have not been questioned even once.’’

  • OLALEKAN  FADOLAPO: Growing up in  Mushin made  me street smart

    OLALEKAN FADOLAPO: Growing up in Mushin made me street smart

    Dr. Olalekan Fadolapo grew up on the backstreet of Akala neighbourhood in Mushin, the infamous haven for notorious street urchins. But thanks to providence, he was able to follow a less-troubled path and literally remake his world. Today, he is a multi-disciplinarian with degrees in Economics, Business Administration, Marketing, Accountancy, Legal Studies which he capped with a PhD in Marketing Communications from Babcock University, Ilisan, Ogun State. In this interview with IBRAHIM APEKHADE YUSUF, Fadolapo who is the current Registrar/CEO at the Advertising Practitioners Council of Nigeria (APCON), the umbrella body for the regulation of advertising practice and affiliate businesses in the country, speaks on his management style. Excerpts:

     

    When does your typical day begins?

    Sometimes, my day starts as early as 4am. When I wake up in the morning, the first thing I want to do is my to-do list and I keep improving on the list as the day moves. Immediately after the family prayer, my day starts. In this era of COVID-19, I work 24hours. That’s the new reality imposed by the global pandemic. For people who know me, I don’t I don’t joke with my work. If you give me an assignment, I’ll not even eat until I’m able to get the assignment off my desk. If you ask me, I just want to do my work. That’s my nature.

    As the Registrar/CEO of APCON, what is your management style?

    Well, my management style is participatory. Participatory in the sense that I believe that there is nobody that is an island of knowledge. I believe that a leader should be ready to learn. So for me, I’m not a boss. I see myself as a team leader and I’m blessed with the people that I have had the privilege of working with before I became the Registrar. So for me, it’s been more like let us come together. How do we take this industry to the next level both for the stakeholders, for staff and for everybody? It’s more like an engagement approach per se. All of us will come together and get things done. And we can’t be autocratic; it’s not going to take you far. Most especially, you should understand that you’re regulating an informal sector that moves and is in sympathy with the economy. So because of that we also need to understand that there are some variables along the line we need to plug into.

    What’s your management philosophy?

    I believe together we will win. That’s why I can’t say I. What we have achieved so far is as a result of our collective efforts; it’s not about me. It’s about having an industry that we will all be proud of. You see the statement that we’re not regulating to strangulate speaks volume and shows that it’s a new era. Nobody can sit down and say I’ll get it done. But we look onto God and we look up to the support of everybody and the stakeholders. Nobody is a junior person in this whole conversation; everybody is on the same page.

    Do you delegate?

    One of the things we did when we came on board was to review our operations. We created a regional structure and kept a zonal structure outside the current liaison office. Let me take you down the biblical times. In the Bible, Moses left Egypt and was going to Canaan. There is the spiritual level to this. God called Moses and God told Moses you’ll take my people to Canaan, which is the Promised Land. However, Moses who was the team leader will sit down from morning all through judging people. So his in-law came and told him that look if you continue judging people like this, you’ll just die. So he advised him (Moses) that why not set up a village or family or community and put somebody to man such places? If you do this, it’ll afford you the opportunity to tackle serious issues and not bother about housekeeping issues, his in-law advised. So what we also did was to review our total operations along that line. We have Liaison Offices that are reporting to Zonal Heads, just as we have Regional Heads reporting to Regional Director. So I just have the Regional Directors and the Directorate to liaise with and it makes things easy. I don’t get involved in operational issues. We operate on three levels: the Strategic, the Tactical and the Operational. If the Operational level does their job and issues emerge and it’s bigger than them they escalate it out and get to the Tactical team and if it’s something that is bigger than the Tactical team, they can escalate it to the Strategic team. So, I concentrate on strategic matters focused on the industry as such, I don’t want to get myself involved in the day-to-day running of the operations. For instance, issues like finding out if there is diesel in the generating plant for Abuja or who is the cleaner coming in from Abia and stuff? I don’t get myself involved in such trivialities. With that, we ensured that we embraced the strategic management approach where everybody gets his hands on the deck at their own level and that gives us a better opportunity to look at other things.

    I’m sure that coming from the industry background and the private sector where emphasis is on key performance index and deliverables may have impacted your work ethics?

    I absolutely agree.

    So how do you motivate your staff?

    There is a perception before I came and which is that for every industry, the regulator is supposed to be a step ahead of the regulated. But in this case, we had that deficiency and we’re still working on it. Now, we’re still working on some, improving on some and we have improved on so many things as well. For example, several years ago, the Central Bank of Nigeria (CBN) was not what a CBN should be. The bankers were always a step ahead of the regulator. But it took one governor of the CBN to say, no, we will not allow the regulated to outshine the regulator. So, they (CBN) developed a new system, a new culture, a new structure, a new brand identity that placed CBN ahead of the regulated. So that’s the model we’re following. We’re looking at the industry where a staff of APCON would be seen in terms of knowledge, in terms of position, in terms of look and feel, in terms of presentation where people will be able to stand up and say, yes, this is my regulator. This is what we’re targeting as our takeoff point. Looking at our current structure, within our budget, we’re trying to motivate staff and decide what can we do in the immediate? The ideal factor is to look at what we can provide in the immediate within our structure as the law permits us to, and also add innovations. For now, what we try to do is to ensure that our allowances are paid as and when due. We’re giving people target, setting key result areas (KPAs) for them, setting key performance index (KPIs) as well as improving the morale. We’re looking at new areas in terms of capacity building. We’re bringing people from the industry to come speak to us and we also ensure that we improve the attitude of people. Besides, we’re also looking at what to do in terms of non-monetary that can entrench motivation inside these people and can make them feel motivated and feel proud of their job and wake up every morning happy to go to APCON. We had a management meeting recently and we’re taking these issues one at a time to see how we can improve in so many areas.

    For staff whose performance falls below par, how do you reprimand them?

    There is a principle in management which is the theory of X and Y. Theory X will tell you the staff will not work except you apply force, while theory Y tells you that staff wants to work but they need motivation.  So you will find those two elements in the workplace. So what we have been trying to do is to identify everybody and see what the skills requirements are and the knowledge gap that exist. As at today, I’m not sure if we have used any stick. Don’t forget that the latter part of last year and so far has been played down by COVID-19 so we have not really been able to have a full force operation, as such, most people have been asked to work out of office. So we have not really done much in terms of what we’re expected to do. Most of these templates are being put together believing that we will come out of this COVID-19 in the first quarter of this year and when we go into the second quarter everybody will be able to put in their best.

    I’m sure in this midst of this work tight schedules you’ll experience some burnout at some point. So how do you unwind?

    My job requires a lot of travelling, especially at short notices, as such, any little time I have I want to spend it with my family. I’m not a party person per se. You see some of us, who wrote the exam of the Institute of Chartered Accountants of Nigeria (ICAN) to become Chartered Accountants; we had our destiny altered in some way. Our social life was really hampered. When we were writing ICAN the only thing we wanted to do was to sit and pass the exam and nothing else. Luckily, some people were able to escape and some were unable to do so. Unfortunately, I belong to the people that were unable to escape it. (laughs). So when I leave the office, I just go straight home and once I get home, there is always something to work on. And you know, these days, telephones have made it so bad that even if you sit down, you’ll have something you can be checking up on your phones like trying to find out what is the practice of advertising in other climes and stuffs like that and doing one form of research or the other.

    Talking about research, you should be a bookworm naturally?

    Ha no, I no know book o. (laughs).

    Ok, what was the last book you read and when?

    I can’t remember. (laughs). I’m not a bookworm. You see some us are dull; we just managed to struggle through school. Olohun gbogo fun ole (God just assisted the unexpected winner).

    So what are your hobbies really?

    I do cartoon with my kids watching orente. I also follow the social media to see what’s trending and see if there’s anything I can take away in terms of ideas and new innovations. I actually stopped reading when I finished my postdoctoral presentation; I decided that I don’t want to do any serious academic work anymore. Although most of these things are good for the body because for instance, playing golf is good for both your health as well as for networking too. But my current schedule like having to travel at short notices may not afford me such luxuries right now. Maybe if I’m able to put APCON on autopilot, things can change along that line. For now, it’s all about putting so many things in place in APCON.

    What’s your choice holiday destination whether locally or internationally?

    Well, in fact, I have travelled more since I became APCON Registrar than I ever travelled in my life. For me, even when I travel, instead of me sleeping in the hotel I’ll leave for my home no matter how late it is. If I have option not to travel, I won’t travel. I’m really not your average owambe person that loves to party. But funny enough, I grew up in Mushin. I was at the Talent Hunt for Mushin Odi-Olowo few days ago. I was there with Hon. Yemi Alli, who was the former Chairman of Odiolowo/Ojuwoye Local Council Development Area and now a member House of Representatives, Mushin Constituency 1. So Mushin remains my hood.

    Tell us about your days in Mushin.

    I grew up at Adeyemi Street along with the Alado’s children. I was still at Mushin when the present Oba Fatai was still at Agan before he became king. I was there when Fatai Dudu, Olowo osi was in town. I was on the tarmac (euphemism for street-smart kids in Lagos). Those were the days when boys were boys. I can recall the days of Fatai Irawo, even during those days of wetie; we were all at the tarmac. That was when the Zone D was Zone D, and the police need to move boys around. But I’m a changed person now. (Laughs). I’m always very proud of Mushin.

    Looking back to your days in Mushin, how do you feel now?

    It’s really funny how I left Mushin. I was involved in a street fight then an uncle came and saw me and said, ha, the way this guy is going, he is going to spoil our family name. The uncle now said I should leave Mushin. Fortunately shortly after that, I got sick. When I recovered from my illness, the uncle said, no, you’re not going back to Mushin again. So that’s how I left Mushin. Ordinarily, maybe I should be one of the gangsters there now. (laughs). I remember I was arrested by a LASTMA official way back. I looked at the fellow and I said, ‘Look, I grew up in Mushin o, if not that I went to school I would have been putting on this uniform around your neck so you can’t just come and harass me because I knew when Dr. Muiz Banire came to Mushin and was recruiting people into LASTMA and naturally, I would have been on the list.’ He just laughed and I moved on.

  • Kiki Okewale: There is a goldmine  in every problem

    Kiki Okewale: There is a goldmine in every problem

    Kiki Okewale is a designer, entrepreneur, philantropist and the CEO of Kiki Okewale Empire. In this interview with Yetunde Oladeinde, she opens up on her passion for designing, inspiration, grooming younger designers through her academy and garment factory, representing Nigeria in Thailand for a Fashion show, touching lives and discovering new opportunities during COVID-19 lockdown last year.

    Tell us about life as a designer. How did you start and what are the things that inspire you?

    The Kiki Okewale Empire comprises of Hope by Kiki Okewale which is where we sell our exclusive beautiful fabrics and do aso ebi. Then we have our arm of shoe and bag brand. Basically, we cater for every woman from head to toe. It includes jewelry and we have Brazilian jewelry. IT is a one stop store for everyone. Then we have our K O Couture brand where we do party owambe styles and we do evening wears, ready to do dresses. So, you can come into our building and get everything you want for fashion and about fashion.

    I have always loved fashion, even as a child. I have always loved to style people and make them beautiful. When we have family gatherings, I would make sure I match colours. So, growing up I have always loved fashion and I have always done fashion. But starting the fashion business itself started when I was planning my wedding and everything was so hard and difficult. We didn’t have Instagram and social media like we have now. I had to go somewhere else for fabrics, go somewhere else to make it. I had to go and look for someone to do my aso-oke. Then now start looking for shoes, purses and jewelry and it was such an overwhelming experience. It was exhausting and I said to myself, I am planning a wedding I should enjoy the process. I should enjoy everything up to the day but it wasn’t like that, it was exhausting for me. So, I told myself that I was going to fill in the gap and help the bride or any other events like birthdays. Whatever it is that you are planning; the process has to be smooth and enjoyable. That was how we started. I started by selling fabrics, then we started making the fabrics for them and of course, we match it with shoes, purses and aso oke. We made the process very seamless where you can enter into our store and get everything you need for your big day. That was where the inspiration started from.

    How did you survive COVID-19 and its impact last year?

    This are unprecedented times and COVID -19 taught me to look inwards and then be very proactive , think of things that I can do at this time. For me to be honest our business was on lockdown and I looked at ways to proffer solutions because there is always going to be problems. So, I went back to my drawing board and I looked at ways to help people in the fashion industry. I also realized that during this period a lot of people who would travel to places like China or Turkey were stuck. So, the idea came that why am I not producing for this people. So, even in the problem, I found a solution. The truth of the matter is that people would always pay you for solutions. That gave birth to the idea of having a garment factory. It is about time people stop taking our money outside the country. Let us help Nigerian brands, let us support each other. If the government supports Nigerian businesses we would really go far. Nigerians are hard working, we are not lazy.

    Kiki Okewale
    Kiki Okewale

    That was how we started with the Garment factory. It’s been really amazing and this period opened my eyes to better ways of doing things. Most important is being ahead in your field. be proactive and finding solutions to people’s problem. We thank God that things are getting better and we have been able to carve a niche for ourselves.

    What are some of the memorable moments in the sector?

    For me, it was the moment I met with Jimmy Chill. It was such humbling and fulfilling period. Also when I went to represent Nigeria in Thailand in 2019 for a fashion show. They had one person from each country and I represented Nigeria. We showcased our adire, African print and Ankara too. Jimmy Chill was there at the final stage, meeting him and he said that my designs were phenomenal, beautiful and that Nigeria was going places, if only our government give us the support that we really need. Meeting the owner of Fashion TV, being covered by Fashion TV and meeting Jimmy Chill. I believe that the sky is just the starting point for us. We would keep pushing and doing our best. Showing that there is more to Nigeria part from all the negativity that is shown out there.

    Tell us about grooming young designers through the academy and the factory?

    Grooming the younger ones is a very important part of my business. I am doing empowerment classes and even before we started the Kiki Okewale Fashion Academy, we have had regular empowerment programs on how to start their own business making fabric bags, slippers. Some teaching them how to embellish, some teaching them how to sew. We have always done that and then we started our dash ion school. It’s been really good, there is nothing as fulfilling as seeing people you groom doing great and mighty things. We have had students who have started and grown big. After the school, we mentor them, put them on internship before going into the world to make sure they excel. I also take it upon myself to train them personally.

    What are the challenges?

    There are lots of challenges; there is no business that doesn’t go through different phases of challenges and setbacks. We are in a country where there are so many bills that is killing businesses. A lot of businesses have closed down because of overheads, exorbitant electricity bills. Getting committed good staff is also a challenge in this industry. Some come in and just want to reap from everything, not knowing that it has to do with hard work. A lot of people look down on Nigerian designers, brands but the truth is we do phenomenal work. We hope that government would help put us on the platform, make people see what we can do.

    How has working in the sector influenced your personality?

    I want people to know that in every problem there is a goldmine. I have heard people who started business during the pandemic and they are really thriving. Think of things that can be solutions to people. People would pay anything to live a comfortable life.

    There is a lot of confusion in the economy at the moment. What advice do you have for Nigerian Youths?

    My advice to Nigerian youths is to encourage them to be focused. They should be committed to whatever they want to do. I see a lot of young people who want me to mentor them but they get easily distracted by social media and all the negative trends going on in the world. I encourage them to stay firm, stay strong. Be committed to what you are doing. There is no purpose without pain. So, you are going to go through hard times. Nobody got to where they are today by finding it easy. Every successful, rich person has had to go through different phases of setbacks or challenges. So, the most important thing is to be focused and determined. Be proactive, take steps ahead.

    What are some of the other things that occupy your time?

    I have a fashion mall where we cater for outfits. The garment factory where we do ready to wear, tee-shirts, uniforms and the fashion school. Asides from all this my family is one thing that I do not joke with. I make sure that I create time for family. My weekends are strictly for my family. I play with my kids, impacting knowledge, sharing ideas and spending time with my husband. Creating family time is important because in the long run that is what really matters. When the children grow up what would they remember? I love to travel a lot. I am also very religious, prayerful and take time out to be in tune with God and have proper communication with HIM. I also create a ME time for ME.

    You are a philanthropist. What inspired this?

    I have had to go through tough times in my life. It is not like I have plenty but I know what it feels like to have nothing. I have been in situations where I have absolutely nothing. That is why I made it a point to give as much as I can give. We have empowerment with children. We teach them how to start business. We support schools, children with uniform, schoolbooks and it brings us so much joy to bring smiles to the faces of children. Encouraging them to go to school, helping them with shoes, clothes and schoolbags and every way we can. We go to orphanage homes, take food to people on the streets. We just try to do the little that we can; the truth of the matter is that there is so much to be done. I encourage everyone to touch the lives of people around them.

    What are you looking forward to in the next few years?

    I want to own the biggest garment company in Nigeria. To have the equipment, machines which are not cheap? So, we want to have a factory where people do not have to travel out to get the things that we can do here. I want my fashion brand to be known and recognized all over the world. I want to style the who is who in the world. I also want to take Nigeria as a Nation to international and global frontiers. We have a lot of amazing designers in Nigeria.

    Two years ago we had people come from America to take classes with us. We want people to come from all over the world to take classes with us. Then there is my fashion brand and I would like to be the biggest fabric merchant in Nigeria.

    Who or what do you consider as the greatest influence in your life?

    First, I want to thank God almighty. HE deserves all the glory because no one would come to you except God makes it possible .I want to acknowledge my mum, her hard work, commitment, selflessness. My mum would give her eye to anyone. This is one of the things that have helped me to be who I am now. My dad was known as a philanthropist before he died. I learnt a lot from him and then there is my Godmother who helped me fulfill my potentials, growing up in my formative years. Also there is my brother who became my father, because I am an only child. My brothers became my father and they made sure that they gave me the best that they could. They were struggling with surviving with themselves but they took care of me and protected me. There is my husband who has been my best support system. He has influenced me in more ways than I can ever mention. He has taught me about sympathy and empathy. Dealing with people, understanding people and where they are coming from. He is my number one cheerleader and supporter. My children, they always encouraged me. God has placed so many amazing people in my path.

  • Untold story of Ogun Almajiri colony

    Untold story of Ogun Almajiri colony

    Taiwo Alimi visits Alimajiri colonies in Ogun State to report the daily struggles of child beggars and their parents to survive against all odds under the jackboot of molestation, abuse and deprivation.

    • Molested and abused child beggars, women relive ugly experiences

    • Experts warn of future security problems in Southwest

    ALMAJIRA

    Abiba, 6, was born on the street. Her delivery was taken by two elderly women in the colony of beggars. Though not trained midwives, they are considered old enough to offer delivery tips and have become experts at taking delivery of new born babies. In between them, Rukayat and Atikah have cut the umbilical cords of more than a dozen newborns.

    Before becoming ‘In-house midwives,’ they had given birth to 17 children of their own.  Rukayat migrated to the Southwest from Jigawa State six years ago while her assistant, Atikah, joined the migration to berth in Ogun State, eight years ago.

    Like Abiba, some of their children are among the scores of almajiria or child beggars that have taken over the rugged spaces on and under the bridges of Arepo/Magboro along the fast-growing Lagos-Ibadan Expressway.

    Abiba runs riot with two other girls around the dusty and busy highway between Magboro and Arepo on a daily basis. From sunrise to sundown, they scamper after hundreds of motorists, begging for everything from food to money, water and clothing.

    To show that she was born in the Southwest, Abiba has picked up some ‘broken English’, more or less the lingua franca spoken by the literates, semi-literates and illiterates in Nigeria.

    Abiba thus communicates better than her mother, who sits with a group of women beggars at a vantage point close to the bridge top about half a kilometer away.

    This reporter’s chance meeting with Abiba and friends happened on a sunny midday on his way to work. They were busy at work – scavenging whatever they could from motorists connecting the expressway through the dirt road. The group had chosen a vantage point, where vehicles have to queue up to access the main road. At that point they move in for the ‘kill.’

    ‘Give me money,’ Abiba’s strong voice came from nowhere. In tow came other members of the three-girl group, who quickly echoed Abiba’s words. Abiba came bold and prepared, providing answers to all of this reporter’s queries. When told that there was no loose change, she was not deterred and promptly came up with the line, ‘Give me water,’ pointing at a table water bottle in the car. When this reporter showed her the near empty bottle, thinking that would send her away, adamant Abiba pursued another line: ‘Give me money…. eat…..I never chop …….yesterday’. The others took a cue from her to chorus ‘God bless you’ like a priest would tell his congregation.

    Even at age six, Abiba is already streetwise. She is not afraid and has assumed leadership of the team. She runs the show and ensures that they have something to show at the end of their daily struggle. She was willing to talk when I further engaged her on the whereabouts of her parents. “My mama dey there,” she said pointing at a group of beggars by the bridge. “She go use money give food, I beg you in the name of God.”

    •Some of the children beggars

    The location she pointed out is adjacent to the popular ‘Arepo Under Bridge’ bus stop, where over 100 beggars of Northern Nigeria extraction gather daily to entreat for alms from passersby and motorists. They are mainly women, children and toddlers. Sometimes people go there specifically to donate raw and cooked food, clothing materials, salt and sugar to them.

    Abiba was not done. ‘They born me here, I beg here,’ she boasted.

    Abiba and friends are micro samples of thousands of almajira or girl beggars littering parts of Ogun and Lagos states.

    ALMAJIRI   

    In operation, the almajiri (boy beggars) are separated from the girls. Their ages range from five to 10 years and they roam the streets for survival. They are seldom seen in company of girl beggars but flock together in fours and fives.

    Sometimes, it is not impossible to find toddlers of not more than two years in their midst. They move in groups, maintaining some distances from each other and are always present in high vehicular traffic, at bus stops to crowd around motorists and passengers. Motorcyclists and their passengers are not spared of their aggressive style of begging too.

    With the aid of a Hausa interpreter, this reporter visited their colony some days later and spoke with Abiba’s mother and some of their leaders.

    According to Abiba’s mother, Laraba, she has been begging since age two.  She started with a group of older children to learn the rope. As soon as she turned six, she was put in charge of her group, with a brief to scout for money, food, water, clothing and gift items. Nothing is small. Not even a sachet of water.

    PROTECTION

    There is no form of protection for Abiba and hundreds of other children in the colony. In hot and cold weather alike, they are clad in local buba and iro (top and wrapper) or loose gown and wrapper, which are usually rough and dirty from walking the filthy road day after day. Change of clothing is a luxury they cannot afford because they depend on handouts.

    Laraba explained; “We don’t have money to buy cloth. It is from clothes that people give us that we look for fitting ones for the children. We use the little money we get to buy food.”

    No wonder the three girls were in different shades of oversize dresses. Abiba’s cloth is worst, leaving a huge gap in the neck area and exposing her whenever she bends to look into any car. In-fact, she has another job of forever scooping the oversize buba and iro behind her.

    “Sometimes people give us cooked food which we share and raw ones too which we cook under the bridge where we live, Laraba said.”

    Their abode is an improvised shed under Arepo Bridge, where they retire every night after a hard day’s work.

    Abubakir Musa, 71, who claimed to be a ‘big man’ from Kebbi State before flood washed away his farm, pointed to nylon covered sheds which were no more than 8 square meters- about the size of a standard room in Nigeria. “We allow our women with babies and toddlers to sleep in the shed while the rest of us find empty spaces under the bridge.”

    Mustafa Sanusi, 35, who speaks passable English, is the colony’s spokesman. He put a conservative figure of their population at 300. “We are about 300 in this area. There are more women than men and the number of children is more than a 100.”

    •Some of the children beggars

    This means that Abiba and friends cannot get into any of the sheds and will have to spend their nights same way they spend their days; in open space.

    “Men and teenage boys sleep in the open mosque under the bridge,” Sanusi added.

    CORONAVIRUS

    In-spite of the havoc and deaths that the COVID-19 pandemic has wrecked on the world, Coronavirus is an alien word to the child beggars and their parents. Not one of them had a nose mask in place despite their daily routine with strangers in their line of duty. Neither do the adult beggars. They do not care about sanitizer or the hand watching culture. “We don’t have money to buy these things. Sometimes, people give us, but it is not enough and since we live in the open we have no means of keeping such items,” Sanusi explained.

    ALMAJIRANCI SYSTEM

    A system of Almajiranci has been established in the colony, whereby the children, especially the boys, learn the Quran.

    A Mallam is available in the mosque to teach the boys Islamic knowledge. The Mallam is seen as the spiritual head of the colony. The colony leaders ensure that he’s well taken care of in return.

    Sanusi pointed out that the Mallam is saddled with the responsibility of teaching their children Islamic education. “He teaches them how to pray five times daily and how to recite the Quran.”

    Sadly, the Arepo Bridge is home to scores of other society dregs; miscreants known as ‘Area Boys’ in local parlance, petty thieves, drug addicts and motor park thugs. Abiba and friends and scores of other girls in the colony are not immune to sexual molestation and rape from their neighbours.

    SEXUAL MOLESTATION

    About security measures to keep their children, especially the girls, safe from harassment and abuse, Laraba confessed there is none. “There is nothing we can do. We tell them to be careful. They are not to go beyond a point, so that I can keep an eye on them from this place that I’m sitting. Whenever I cannot see them I send out the older boys to look for them.”

    Sanusi said there have been instances when the teenage girls and women in the colony have been molested and abused by miscreants in the area.

    “We are at God’s mercy. We send out our children daily and we cannot follow them out. We stay here while they go out to beg. Though we tell them not to go beyond a certain point and try to keep an eye on them, there is no guarantee that they are safe. Some of our women and girls have been attacked by ‘Area Boys.’

    Laraba, in between tendering to her baby and talking, reliably informed that the women find solace in the hands of men beggars to ‘buy’ security. “I met Abiba’s father when I came here. He takes care of us and ensures that we are not molested by other men in the colony.”

    Equally, it is not out of place for a man in the colony to be husband to two or more women and bear children through them.

    Laraba is carrying her second child since arriving in ‘her Lagos’ seven years ago. She does not know about contraceptives and has not used one before. “There are other women here that have three, four children; I have two.”

    Laraba has never been to a hospital. The colony’s midwives birth their babies and give them local concoction to get through the rigour of childbirth.

    It is not unusual, though, to loss some babies at birth. “The condition here is bad. We don’t have money to go to hospital and some of our children have died during childbirth,” another woman with a skinny baby with brownish hair strapped to her back, said.

    Arepo/Magboro Beggars Colony is one of the many that is daily springing up in Ogun State.

    OUT-OF-SCHOOL CHILDREN 

    In the colony, formal education is a mirage.

    For Abiba and other child beggars, going to school is not part of the options available. Laraba has banished any hope of sending any of her children to school. “School?” she asked, unable to complete the sentence.

    “There is nothing like that.” Sanusi cut in. “We are at the mercy of kind-hearted people. How can we send our children to school? Maybe someday government will take pity on us and help our children acquire good education. We don’t have money. We have to beg to eat. We cannot afford good shelter or buy good clothes. We make barely enough to eat and send home to our family for their upkeep.”

    Musa Sakiru, another male beggar, who hails from Katsina State, intoned that the only form of education they get is from the Mallam who teaches them the Quran in the make shift mosque.

    He berated governors of northern states for not doing enough to cater for its citizens. “They are not doing anything for their people. We are suffering. That is why we leave our homes to come here. Our leaders are not taking care of us and our children. They can do better in the area of welfare.”

    According to the United Nations Children Fund (UNICEF) 2015 survey, Nigeria accounts for one out of the world’s five out-of-school-children. “Even though primary education is officially free and compulsory, about 10.5 million of the country’s children aged 5-14 years are not in school. Only 61 percent of 6-11 years-old regularly attend primary school and only 35.6 percent of children aged 36-59 months receive early childhood education.

    A review of the 2015 survey as carried out by Demographic Health Survey in conjunction with UNICEF in 2018, however, showed a massive jump of Nigeria out-of-school children from 10.5 million to 13.million.

    According to the Executive Secretary of Universal Basic Education (UBEC) Hammid Bobboyi, “If you add the number of children that have been displaced and the increasing number of birth, you find out that our source in DHS conducted by UNICEF published in 2015 reveals the number of out-of-school children increased to 13.2 million. The survey is unpublished.

    Former Nigeria president, Olusegun Obasanjo, upwardly reviewed the figure in November 2020 during the virtual 2020 graduation ceremony of Chrisland University Abeokuta. He put the figures of out-of-school children in Nigeria at 14million.

    He said. “We have 14 million children that should be in school and are not in school. That’s more than the population of many African countries.”

    Though the figure is unconfirmed, the massive job loss, insecurity, staggering inflation statistics and recession that bedeviled the country since 2020 support this assertion.

    The Nigerian government through a survey carried out in 2020 by a joint force of Universal Basic Education commission (UBEC), National Education Commission (NPC), National Population Commission (NPC) and National Bureau of Statistics (NBS) place the figure of out-of-school children at 10million.

    CIRCLE OF POVERTY

    Abiba and friends are products of deprivation and poverty, and with unprotected sex taking place daily in the colony, Abiba may continue to rot in this hell, even having her own babies as soon as she enters puberty. And the circle of poverty continues.

    There are other colonies in Warewa, Mowe, Ibafo, Oju Ore, Sango Ota, and other flourishing areas with bridges and quick access to Lagos. Their numbers are daily growing.

    For example, Musa said he joined the colony in November of last year after he lost his farmland to flood at home. “I was a big farmer in Kebbi State. I lost everything; my farm, my houses and belongings. I left my family in Kebbi to come here to beg.”

    Sanusi came to Magboro on the invitation of a childhood friend and started working as a labourer. “I am from Kano where I left my wife and children to make ends meet in Lagos. I stopped in Magboro and for about a year I was working as a labourer. I made some money and was thinking of going back home when I was struck by stroke.”

    The illness affected his left leg and arm and in his search for cure, he used up the savings he intended to use in paying his way back home. “I was in Kano for three months but things got worse for my family and me.”

    With Sanusi’s fortune all gone and his medical condition worsened, he hiked a crowded truck back to Magboro. This time around, he could no longer work, so he joined the colony. “It’s tough but I can send little money home now to cater for my family.”

    With partial stroke and no form of edifying skill safe a claim to a Primary School Leaving Certificate, Sanusi was condemned to a life of begging. He became a spokesman to the colony and was of help when this reporter visited. “I never knew I could beg for food, but here I am. It is not my wish.”

    RISING NUMBER OF ALMAJIRAI

    The Nation’s findings showed that migration of Almajirai more than tripled in 2020 and three reasons were advanced for it.

    One, in the middle of the widespread Coronavirus pandemic last year, 19 northern states forcefully evacuated thousands of almajirai from their streets as a way of fighting the scourge and also destroying the Almajiranci system.

    Child beggars basically became ‘enemies of state.’ Under the lockdown, they became easy targets and were romped into jam-packed trucks back to their non-existing homes.

    According to the BBC, “It was probably the biggest ever state organised mass movements of minors in Africa’s most-populous state, whose population of around 200 million, is divided roughly between Muslims and Christians.

    From April, 2020, Kaduna and Kano launched the campaign declaring Almajiranci system dead in their states before other northern states joined in.

    Kaduna State governor, Nasir el-Rufai spearheading the campaign said he took the opportunity to scrap the almajirai-based Quranic schools in his state.

    The biggest heist of children totaling 35,000 was carried out by Kaduna State, according to Hajiya Hafsat Baba, Commissioner for Human Services and Social Development on April 22, 2020. The evacuation affected 17 states.

    In retaliation, the Kano State government announced the evacuation of 524 almajiri children to neighbouring Jigawa on April 22, 2020. At about the same time, another 419 were moved to Katsina State and 195 to Kaduna. Other states affected carried out their own purgation, flushing out vulnerable children in their hundreds. On arriving at their states, some of them were quarantined and tested for COVID-19. The results were alarming as hundreds of them reportedly tested positive.

    When mass testing of returning children commenced, of the 169 tested in Kaduna, 65 came out positive, while 91 confirmed cases came out of the 168 tested in Jigawa.  In Gombe, eight of the 48 children tested had COVID-19 while in Bauchi, the number was seven out of 38.

    Unable to match the drive for evacuation with catering and reuniting the children to their parents, the street-wise kids escaped from the camps and returned to the streets for a while. As soon as they made enough to book their passage out of the North, they headed West and that accounted for the mass arrival of almajirai children that has been recorded since May 2020.

    •Beggars take-over a bridge

    In May 2020, the Ogun State Traffic Compliance and Enforcement Agency (TRACE) said its operatives intercepted a truck loaded with about 30 almajirai at Joju area of Ado Odo Local Government Area of the state. The IVECO truck with Kano registration number was loaded with people, among them 30 children-alleged to be almajirai from Kano State.

    That was but one of the many trucks that landed in the West of Nigeria with scores of women and children throughout the lockdown. Most of them came in at night, beating the porous Ogun State borders but unable to cross to Lagos manned by vigilant security officers, decided to stay in the bordering towns between Ogun and Lagos states.

    Security expert, Musiliu Ayeni explained that “this accounted for the huge number of child-beggars you see in Magboro, Arepo, Wawa, Mowe, Sango, Ota and other border towns of Lagos and Ogun states.

    “When they found that they could not cross to Lagos, they stayed in these towns and made their abode there. In-fact if you ask them, they will tell you they are living in Lagos.”

    The other notion for this mass migration was muted by Musa.

    The economic downturn eclipsed by the pandemic in 2020 made a pauper of many business people, farmers and breadwinners in Northern Nigeria. “I was doing well in my business until the pandemic came and I lost everything. I sold my houses after losing my farms to flood. I migrated to beg here temporarily. When the condition improves at home I will go back.”

    There are many like Musa who made the long journey to make ends meet. And some came with their wives and children.

    Insecurity occasioned by Boko Haram insurgency activities in Northwest Nigeria also forced many of them to join the bandwagon to drift down west. Laraba falls into that category. She said she was forced to relocate to the West when Boko Haram sacked her village in Izghe-Borno State in 2014. “I ran for my life.”

    The reality is that there are millions of child beggars living on the streets and under bridges in Nigeria’s metropolitans, cities and towns all over the Southwest region.

    Residents and experts warn that the consequences are many and terrifying.

    TIME BOMB

    Ope Feyitimi, a Magboro resident, decried the social malaise and general condition of child beggars in the environment. “They are so many now. They are dirty and unkempt. They are nuisance to motorists and passersby. There is no where you go to in Magboro that you don’t see them. I’m scared of what bad elements can use them to perpetrate in the community. Most of them will grow up to be criminals and ‘Area Boys.’”

    Late Balarabe Musa, second republic governor of Kaduna State, called it a time-bomb. “You would recall that the Boko Haram started this way, most were young except for their commanders who were above 25 years.

    “Let the government institute free and compulsory education from primary to secondary level, and the Almajiri system would end.”

    Idayat Hassan, Director, Centre for Democracy and Development (CDD), said addressing the social and security problems associated with Almajiri system requires a holistic approach. “We need a long-term plan and not our fire brigade approach to doing things.”

    Most Rev. Nicholas Okoh, Primate of All Nigeria (Anglican Communion), however, said, “What people are asking is for the government to improve the lives of these boys, send them to school, and integrate them into the society. As they are now they are not helpful to the society.”

    Until that happens, Abiba and other child beggars will continue to live under a harsh reality on the streets, vulnerable to molestation and deprived.

  • ‘Most Nigerians are transactional followers’

    ‘Most Nigerians are transactional followers’

    Dr John Ekundayo is an engineer turned civil servant and Monitoring & Evaluation practitioner with the Lagos State Civil Service, where he is director, Monitoring & Evaluation Department. Ekundayo, also a senior pastor of The Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG), speaks on turning 60, his experience as an ‘accidental civil servant’ and why he thinks followership is a major hamper in the nation’s quest towards stability and progress. He spoke with Gboyega Alaka.

    It’s a diamond celebration for you. How does it feel to be 60?

    It feels good. And when one looks back at the vicissitude of life, one can only give thanks to God, especially knowing my background. I feel good and gladdened to have clocked 60 years on the face of the earth.

    You are a director with the Monitoring & Evaluation department under the Lagos State Ministry of Economic Planning and Budget, how would assess your years in the service so far?

    It was Governor Nasir El-rufai who wrote a book and titled it ‘Accidental Public Servant. I would also like to write such book and title it, ‘Accidental Civil Servant,’ because I came into the civil service in 2012 by ‘accident’ after completing my PhD in Management in Malaysia. I was given a scholarship by the former Lagos State governor, Mr Babatunde Raji Fashola SAN; and the scholarship came with a one-year bond to serve in the state’s civil service. So I came to serve one year, and as God would have it, I was retained.

    Literally, you never planned to work in the civil service

    Yes. My thinking was that after my bond service, the governor would offer me a political appointment, which I so much desired, having spent seven years in South East Asia – four years in Singapore, three years in Malaysia. I studied Organisational Leadership, while my PhD was in Management; so, I wasn’t thinking of working in a regimental and hierarchical structure like the civil service. However, I must say coming to work in the civil service has been a route that God has used to train me on how government works.

    So what do you now think of the old perception that the civil service is a moribund place to work?

    That is the perception of people outside, but let me make it clear that the Lagos State Civil Service, which I’ll be exiting soon, is a prestigious establishment to serve in because the same way things work in Shell and Chevron is the way things work here. A lot has changed from the days of Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu and Babatunde Raji Fashola. So, it’s either you chip in or you’re chipped out.

    You are an Ekiti boy, born and bred; what qualified you for scholarship in Lagos State?

    I was doing a research study for my PhD in Malaysia; I started in 2009 and completed in 2012. So, I was always reading, especially news about Nigeria online (I did my Masters in Singapore) and I discovered that the then Governor Babatunde Fashola was making a lot of waves, even as a governor in the opposition. So I got curious. I tried to contact a few people that could connect me with him, but it didn’t work. One day it occurred to me to search Google for his email details, and that was how it all started.

    You wrote him for scholarship?

    No, I had already started my PhD then but I had not gotten my topic. My supervisor didn’t quite like the topic I chose, so he asked me to read wide and come up with another. Finally, I said to him, ‘I want to major in Followership.’ I said I wanted to study a governor in Nigeria who is in the opposition but creating a lot of waves. He said, ‘John, would you be able to get access to him?’ I said I would. That was how I wrote BRF the email and he replied; first, through automatic response. But in less than one week, I got an email from the Senior Special Assistant to the Governor on Admin. He said the governor wanted to know what I actually needed. I found out that when I sent an email to this lady in the morning, by evening or almost immediately, I was getting a response. That was how we went until I met and interviewed the governor in his office on the 1st of November 2010. I can never forget that date. I saw leadership at a glance. I saw that we could actually have access to our leaders. And that’s why I dedicated the book that I co-wrote (Monitoring Evaluation and learning Processes in the Public Sector with Spotlight on Lagos) to him.

    You haven’t answered the question about the scholarship

    After the interview, I said, ‘Sir, I want to make a request.’ He said, ‘Say it.’ So I thought, ‘should I ask this man for money? No. Should I ask him for scholarship? No. A voice said, ‘Ask him for opportunity to serve,’ which I did. In fact he thought I wanted to start immediately, because he said, ‘Take him to Mr so so. But I told him I wanted to complete my studies in Malaysia first. That was what led to his offering me a scholarship of N4million to complete my studies. It was a lot of money at that time. I came into the service in 2012.

    You could have opted out after the one year; what kept you in?

    I actually wanted to quit and to go into the universities – I love research studies and writing about leadership. I love interviewing leaders. But as I was about to finish the one year bond; I had even written my ‘thank you’ letter; some people, whom I’d served under – not two, not three,  and whom I respected so much called me and said, ‘Where are you going?’ I even told them that I preferred a political appointment, but they said ‘Why not remain in the service?’ I thought that if I turned down their offer, I would be making out that I knew too much. That was how I became a civil servant, which I have come to see as a training ground. In fact, that was what my wife told me after sometime.

    You co-wrote the book, ‘Monitoring Evaluation and learning Processes in the Public Sector with Spotlight on Lagos; tell us about it?

    Yes, along with Afusat Omorinde Lawal, Joel Olabode Subuloye and Olumide Olugbenga Oladipupo. The book chronicles what we do in Lagos State. It epitomises my experience since 2012 when I first came into the Monitoring & Evaluation Department – we call it MED, to when I came back to head the department from July 31st 2014 till date, even criss-crossing Nigeria and beyond. The essence of MED is that it is more about how money put in the budget is expended. Do we have value for money spent? Let’s assume the Lagos-Ibadan Expressway is completed this year. If I used to travel the road to the Redeemed camp in one and half hours and I can now go it in 30 minutes, then it means travel time has reduced. That is the value of Monitoring and Evaluation. But if after its completion, I am still spending three hours, there is no value for the money spent. It means the outcome in Monitoring and Evaluation is zero and there is no positive impact. That is what Monitoring Evaluation and Learning is about. Usually, impact is the last stage or Level-5. That is when, for instance, you start seeing industrial/residential estates, commercial activities, springing up as a result of the completed road.

    In advanced countries, it is now called MEL (Monitoring, Evaluation and Learning) with the Learning focusing on feedback. Learning from a previous project will feed into our policy going forward, and then into our budgeting.

    How would you assess governance from Governor Fashola’s perspective?

    He has had a great impact on me. I’m a Christian and a pastor, whereas he is a Muslim; I was just an ordinary Nigerian and he didn’t know me from anywhere, but he didn’t consider these. He said something on the day of public presentation of the book. He said: ‘This is the first public presentation of a book written on my administration that I’d be attending.’ And then he said ‘John Ekundayo has shown the Nigerian dream;’ that you can believe in something, just like the Americans love to say, and make it happen. But how many leaders will avail such an access?

    You said you opted to study Followership. Why followership?

    I once participated in the TV debate, The Big Issue on TVC; and I said Nigeria’s problem is followership. Even though Chinua Achebe once wrote that leadership is Nigeria’s problem, I want to say that was in the past. The problem with Nigeria now is followership. We have our permanent voter’s card that we can use to influence the choice of leaders. But if a politician comes to me with five thousand naira, a bag of rice and I decide to vote for him; if such candidate wins and doesn’t remember me, I am my own Achilles heels. So followership is talking about you having to be an exemplary follower to have an exemplary leader. Most Nigerian followers are transactional followers rather than transformational followers. We are more about, ‘What can I get now?’ Somebody wrote an article titled, ‘Do followers get the kind of leaders they deserve?’ I will say, in the case of Nigeria, yes.

    You schooled in places like Singapore, Malaysia; why not the conventional Nigerian destinations like UK, USA or Canada?

    That’s part of the leadership conundrum we run in Nigeria. I studied civil engineering in Ife; I love that profession very much and was registered with COREN as far back as 1992. I should have a prosperous career. But it was not so. It got to a point that I was frustrated.  If you didn’t have the right connection, you couldn’t get a job in any of the high profile companies. Although I worked with DTB, Sakamori, but once the contract finished, they would lay off staff. I was in such a situation, when I decided to go for further studies abroad. I also decided to change my line and do my masters in Organisational Leadership.

    As an Ekiti boy who came into the civil service in Lagos and rose to the position of director, what does that tell you about the state?

    Yes, I’m an Ekiti boy; I finished Grade One (Distinction) from Oyemekun Grammar school, Akure. But I see Lagos State as very gracious and a miniature Nigeria. For me as a spiritual man, I could say that is why Lagos is prospering more than any other state in Nigeria. Lagos State has been blessed with leaders, many of whom were not born and bred in Lagos. But Lagos took them in and they have contributed their cerebral endowment and competence to building the state. How I wish somebody from Ekiti can also work in same manner in Imo State or Kebbi State and vice versa.

    Looking back, how would you assess what God has done for you?

    I give all the glory to God. First of all, I’m a husband; I love my wife, Mary Anike Ekundayo so much. God has blessed me with four kids and another adopted, making five. I also have three grandchildren for now. God has also taken me to nations. Presently, I have two of my children staying abroad. One of them is a senior lecturer now in a higher institution in New Zealand. So I have seen the sure mercies of God. You could refer to me as a late starter, but God has made it up for me, especially in family. Two of my children have first class in their degree courses; I didn’t have; one is a PhD holder; so it gladdens my heart and I am fulfilled.

  • Girls, use your chastity to get the best this year! (II)

    Girls, use your chastity to get the best this year! (II)

    By Okeowo Temilolu

    Dear Ma, I’m a great lover of your articles. May God reward you! I just read your article on “Sexual Purity” and I would like to appreciate you for letting me know that I can still become a Secondary Virgin. After reading your article, I have promised God that I will never go back to such acts till my wedding night. Please pray for me ma! May God continue to give you the strength to guide us to the right path? Once again, thanks ma and keep the good work going!

    Anonymous

     

    Mummy Temilolu,

    My wonderful mummy, my mentor and teacher, while wishing you a happy new year, I must let you know, you are an amazing gift from God to the world and this generation of youth is really blessed to have you! Thank you for teaching us the truth. Thank you for teaching us how to be sexually-pure, thank you for teaching us how to abstain from every form of sexual immorality! You are a blessing to this century! You’ve been a light to the darkness part of many lives which I’m one of them. May God continue to help and strengthen you mummy. I welcome you to your year of fulfilment in Jesus name!

    Oyeniyi Omolara

    My darling, precious, glorious, dignified, world-famous and heavenly celebrated Nigerian daughters.

    I pray for you this shall be your very best year ever in your life’s history- one which would announce you to the world and move you from glory to glory and strength to strength in Jesus name! However, it would be most tragic if you’re engaging in ungodly sex and sharing your life with strangers! Lord has mercy! Because your pastor doesn’t emphasise on it or your parents don’t drum it into your ears constantly doesn’t mean its okay and an ordinary sin that will always be forgiven! Of course, God will always forgive you but may you not lose what God has deposited to make you shine in life! May you not experience “hell on earth” and may you not become an ugly shadow of God’s wonderful plan. May your flower not wither before it blooms! This is a very serious matter! I pray God touches your heart as you read more of my chastity nuggets from 2020.

    Verily I say to you, if you are chaste in this depraved world, God can rend the heavens for your sake! I KNOW! May God surprise you!

    Ladies, if you knew the type of power you carry, you’d not run after fake pastors who would sleep with you and steal your glory! May you discover yourself in Jesus name!

    God says to tell someone whose marriage is delayed because she refuses to be “sampled” in bed- YOUR STORY WILL SHOCK THE WORLD! It’s your turn to shine!

    If he’s not your husband, let him go! The more he sleeps with you, the more he steals from you! May you not be completely emptied in Jesus name!

    Girls, there’s a wonder in you waiting to manifest! No man is worth losing it for! Say NO to ungodly sex! May your glory shock the world in Jesus name!

    Girls, if you can subdue your flesh and resist ungodly sex, you’d easily conquer 90% of life’s battles! May God crown you with world’s best husband!

    Abstinence from sex till marriage will not kill you, it would fill your life with power and glory! May God restart your life this year!

    Girls, if you want to grow tall in life, stay away from ungodly friends, they’re devil’s tools of limitation! May your glory manifest speedily!

    Don’t sleep with him so he can sponsor you! Believe me, the glory awaiting you can buy him 10 times over! May God over-satisfy you this year and forever!

    Girls, guys, DON’T taste sex now else you’ll start sleeping around and become spiritually-toxic! May your destiny not become porous to evil!

    Did you know God has a record of your tears whenever you refuse a man who won’t help except you sleep with him? Get ready for OVER-SURPLUS in Jesus name!

    A chaste life attracts angelic attention! Just one visitation can change your life forever! May the angel of dramatic transformation visit you this weekend in Jesus name!

    No amount of money can buy what Sexual Purity can avail you in life! May you not discover this at the end of your life!

    Stop sharing your life with filthy strangers! Stop scattering your life! Say NO to premarital sex! May you end up with the right person in Jesus name!

    Dearest virgin-in-great lack, God has your continuous assessment and would reward you 10 times what you refused to pay with sex plus unquantifiable spiritual power! Your unusual glory is loading!

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  • ‘How I braved life’s odds to become lawyer after losing my sight’

    ‘How I braved life’s odds to become lawyer after losing my sight’

    Hers is a lesson in determination and endurance. Barrister Blessing Ujunwa set out with an ambition to become a scientist but fate threw her a curve ball while she was yet in secondary school: she lost her sight. But not one to throw her arms in the air in surrender after all the efforts she made to regain her sight had failed she decided to pursue a career in Law and is today an accomplished lawyer. The native of Anara in Isiala Mbano Local Government Area, Imo State tells motivating story in this interview with SUNNY NWANKWO.

    How did your journey to study Law begin as someone with impaired vision?

    I was a student of the School for the Blind in Afara, Umuahia North Local Government Area of Abia State. My studentship in the school only lasted one session between 2008 and 2009.  The programme does not have any mandatory duration; it depends on one’s ability to learn all that he or she is supposed to learn. There are others who graduate after two or three years, but in my own case, I finished all that I should learn and graduated within the space of one year. So, it depends on the person’s capacity.

    What were the programmes that you did there?

    It was a rehab programme where I was taught how to type, mobility and using the grail. It is a programme for those that lost their sight along the way. They also run other programmes for those who haven’t been to primary school. After learning how to read grail, typewriter and mobility, they can now enroll in the primary session. But for us that were through with our primary and secondary schools, we were just there to acquire the skills of typewriting, grail reading and general knowledge as it relates rehabilitation and other things that come with it.

    That means you attended primary and secondary schools elsewhere?

    Yes, I did my primary and secondary schools before I lost my sight.

    Can you recall how you lost your sight?

    It didn’t just happen in a flash. It was a process. It started with glaucoma. We went for treatment but the situation kept deteriorating. After some years, it became very bad that it could no longer be managed.

    Does it mean that your parents didn’t have the money to give you adequate treatment?

    No, it wasn’t the money. We were treating it for years. A lot of money was involved. I was using glasses and was taking medications as well. We went to the ECWA hospital in Kano. We went to Akwa Ibom and so many other places in search of a solution before what happened, happened. So, it wasn’t because of lack of care.

    Could it be that you didn’t meet the right people who would have taken good care of the situation?

    It is not about meeting the right people. They were very good doctors. I was once sent to an Indian doctor in Kano.

    Where were you when the incident happened?

    We started the treatment in Port Harcourt because that was and is still where my parents live. Any other place that we visited was based on referrals, and on each visit, they would prescribe drugs which I took. And when the medication was not working, we would go back to them and they would refer us to another place.

    Like I said, it didn’t just happen overnight; it was going down gradually.

    At what age did you start to notice that you were having issues with your sight?

    That was around 2005. At that time, I noticed that I was unable to walk on my own very well. Images started becoming faint. I could barely recognise colours. It finally went off in early 2006. I stopped seeing light in January 2006.

    How did you feel when you eventually lost your sight?

    One of the dicey things about all these is that at first, I was still seeing. I just felt that everything was going to be alright. I was hopeful of going back to school. But when I later realised that I was no longer seeing, I felt bad. My mum didn’t give up. But after about three years of seeking for solutions without any positive response, my dad decided that I should go back to school. It was at that point that the decision to go to the School for the Blind, Afara was reached.

    I was a science student in school. But because of the peculiarity of the course that I want to study, I was advised to go for an arts course which would be suitable for me. After one year at the School of the Blind Afara, I had to go back to secondary school, though I was advised to just sit for JAMB and attend extramural classes for one year but I said no. I said that since I wasn’t an art student ab initio, I felt that there was so much that I needed to learn. I had to go back to SS1, and this time as an arts student.

    I sat the WAEC and NECO exams, and as God would have it, I passed. I also wrote JAMB and I passed as well. I later gained admission into Nnamdi Azikiwe University (NAU), Awka to study Law. I wanted to do Mass Communication earlier, but I guess God had other plans for me. The first JAMB exam I did was for Mass Communication, but I didn’t pass NECO, which was my first attempt in SS2. In SS3, I took WAEC and by then, I thought about it (studying Mass Communication). With prayers and talking to friends and family members, we opted for Law, and by God’s grace, I passed and here I am.

    What was life like at the School for the Blind, Afara?

    They gave us accommodation. It wasn’t a very terrible place. It was a place that helped to mould me to become who I am today. It helped me emotionally. I met people who shared their experience. I equally met older persons who had passed the path I was and as well met people who despite their challenges have made it in life.

    Barrister Blessing Ujunwa
    Barrister Blessing Ujunwa

    The facility there like every other place needs to be improved on. I haven’t been there for some years now, so I wouldn’t know if some have actually been improved on, so that I don’t give the wrong impression about the place. But as at the time I was there, the dining wasn’t so good; it needed to be improved on. The windows and the doors too were in bad conditions. The kitchen at that time wasn’t that good. They might have improved on them now. The place (kitchen) was strategically placed to enable the students’ mobility skills. It is also possible that the hostel facility has been improved.

    What was it like adjusting your life from the former to the present person that you are today?

    It was a process. It was just like moving on and not like an acceptance of the whole thing. I just wanted to move on. I don’t like being stagnant or being stuck somewhere. I told myself that rather than just sit down and feel distressed, I needed to be doing something with myself. One thing about me, even as a child, is that I always want to be useful to myself. I don’t like to be somewhere I don’t have anything to contribute.

    That I don’t have my sight again does not mean that I should just lie down at a place. I made up my mind that I was going to go to the school (of the Blind) to see if I could understand what really happened and how those that had been through such a situation managed to move on with their life. I believe that I will still make use of my sight. But before then, I really need to get busy with myself. I needed to have a better me; I needed to have a better life even without any sight. That was what kept me going.

    My mum initially didn’t want me to go to the kitchen. She didn’t want me to go close to the fire. She was scared that I would be wounding myself if I did. But because I want to continue to push against all odds, I had to learn how to do things without any or less assistance. That actually helped my adjustment.

    Were there things that losing your sight denied you?

    Losing my sight comes with its challenges and its peculiarity. There are things that you would ordinarily want to do, but because of the situation you find yourself, you have to let go. There are things that ordinarily you would not want to do, but you have to do them just to move on with the situation.

    In the aspect of meeting with people, there are some people that are around you as friends and acquaintances. There are things that they will do which ordinarily you will not tolerate, but to an extent, you could let it go in order not to appear to be unnecessarily aggressive or intolerant.

    There are people that would want you to feel that they are helping you too much and for that reason, you should take whatever they throw at you. But then, it depends on the kind of person that you are. You either stand your ground or you swallow it.

    Mobility is the major challenge, no doubt. There are some events that you would want to go to, but you just cannot go there because of the (visual) constraint.

    There are numerous things, but the major thing is for one to move on. You don’t need to start thinking or imagining how your life

    would have been, what kind of relationship you would have been in if you had your sight. Like I said, you need to understand that you have to move on.

    What was life like at Nnamdi Azikiwe University (NAU), Awka?

    NAU was where I wanted to study and I was happy when I finally got admitted. It was very good, but very challenging. The exposure and challenges there helped in building me into whom I am today. When the admission lists came out about three weeks to the end of that semester, it was hectic for me. I was lucky to have met a Good Samaritan that helped me in recording notes and books. The pressure was there during the first semester of the first year, but then it became better in the second semester because I was able to get a laptop which enhanced my reading. But power supply was another challenge, because without power supply, I cannot scan books, I can’t charge my laptop.

    Transportation to school was another challenge. We were however, given reprieve as the Students Union Government exempted people with challenges from paying for fares inside the school campus. That helped to reduce the cost of transportation for us.

    My classmates were there for me, really and that made things easier for me. The only thing is that what I was supposed to do ordinarily in 10 minutes would take longer. Another thing is that if someone who isn’t fluent in reading records for you, it will take you extra work to go through the recording over time for you to be able to grasp what the person recorded. That means that you have to spend some good time that you were supposed to have used for another thing trying to understand what the person recorded. But when I started using my laptop, it helped me so much. I was able to scan my textbooks. The use of a laptop made the scanning and reading of my textbooks less tedious.

    For exams, I used a typewriter for years because of interrupted power supply. But in my fourth year, when I spoke to the dean of my faculty about using my laptop to write exams and begged that they (faculty) should help me print it out, after typing, even if there was no power from the public power supply, they would switch on their generator to help me print them out.

    For timing, they do give us (physically challenged) extra time because typing and writing are not the same. That depends on the volume of work. Sometimes, they give us 30 minutes to 1hour extra time. So, they (lecturers) were helpful.

    What magic did you do to perform even better than some people with their sights intact?

    (Laughs) The magic is God’s grace. There are times I look back and all I see is the grace of God. I won’t say that there is a special thing that I did to earn it, except the grace of God.

    Why did you choose the Abuja Campus for Law School?

    I chose Abuja Campus because I considered it more favourable in terms of accommodation and access to water. The crowd, hustling and bustling in other campuses like Lagos is something else. There was adequate power supply. The accommodation there was convenient. You know that I read more with my laptop. You can imagine if I was in a place where there was no power supply. That affected me terribly in my university days where there could be no light for a whole day. Studying in that situation when the exam is getting close can be a very big challenge. So, I chose the Abuja campus for convenience.

    How emotional were you on the day that you were called to the Bar?

    (Laughs) I was grateful to God. I was happy. I just felt wow!!! At first, I was so afraid of taking that path (studying Law), but I summoned courage and on the day I was called to the Bar, it was just a day I had waited for long to come, although I wasn’t pleased when I saw my result. I felt that I should have done better. Maybe there was something that I couldn’t do or maybe I didn’t study hard enough. I know that I got what I gave, but I was like, I didn’t do enough to get to where I was aiming at. But then, my family and my friends were happy that I made it and was called to the Bar.

    What is your future plan?

    (Laughs) Don’t worry. You will know as we roll. I don’t really have a rigid plan at the moment. Before now, I had planned and planned even before I lost my sight. So, I am just taking my steps to God.

    What area of law would you want to pay attention to?

    For now, I want to go into the corporate world. One thing about being a lawyer is that the profession is a versatile one. I have ambitions and plans and with time, I hope to begin to unveil them by the special grace of God.

    Apart from legal practice, I hope to set up a foundation that will be into so many things, but with special interest in not only empowering people with visual impairment, but helping them make career choice, acquisition of skills, rehabilitation, among other things. It is going to a broad NGO.

    Any plans for marriage now that you are done with your studies?

    (Laughs) I don’t want to talk about it now. In due time, we shall discuss about it. It might be next week, next month or next year.

    What do you think that the government should do to better the lives of the visually impaired or the physically challenged in the country?

    They should improve on the level of enlightenment. The government, parastatals, organisations should really be enlightened about people with visual impairment. You know that when you understand better, it helps or gives you a better knowledge on how to do something. With proper enlightenment, they will know how to construct buildings. They will know how to construct roads as done in other climes.

    Both banks, shops, shopping malls should be made accessible to all including people with disability. Federal and State governments should also make laws that will better the lots of the impaired and other people with disabilities. They should also create employment and provide facilities that will aid their mobility.

    What advice do you have for people who are using their disability for alms and parents who are confused on how to manage their child/ward with any form of challenge?

    For parents who are finding it hard to manage their ward with any form of challenge, they should look for any special school around them and enroll such a child. They should also provide help to their children when necessary. It is really baffling when you find some family being inconsiderate to their own who is physically challenged. Some families expect such a child to go out and start begging for alms and bring it back to them so that they can use the proceeds to feed him or her. Such a thing is wrong because sending the child out to go and beg for alms means that you are not thinking about the future of that child.

    Training a person with visual impairment doesn’t come cheap. The things that others can choose to do, trekking, the person with any form of impairment may find it hard to trek. They shouldn’t treat them as if they are outcasts but should know that they are members of their families and should be loved like other members.

    Agreed, there are people that come from a poor background; people whose parents do not have the money to train them which made them resort to begging, but it is not enough for them to take to street begging.

    I want to use this opportunity to reiterate the calls for the government to pay more attention to people with impairment. Any assistance from both public and private individuals will go a long way to give relief not only to persons with impairments and their families but the general public.