Category: Saturday Magazine

  • Great choice in casual footwear: Men’s sandals

    Great choice in casual footwear: Men’s sandals

    MEN don’t always want to dress in a corporate way at all times. You can still look good wearing slippers or sandals for casual outing, and they will look beautiful and lovely on your feet. Slippers or sandals are of ultimate convenience, comfort and offer a great casual look.

    Men’s sandals can be worn for indoor or outdoor purposes. They work great with native wear and jeans, so you may find it helpful to let the style of your shirt guide you. Polo shirt might work.

    It makes you feel free and look younger than your age. It also has a sexy feel.

    •Try to pick a pair of sandals that contrasts, or that is darker than your pants.

    •If you wear a belt, try to pick the shoes that match it, unless, of course, your belt is multi-coloured.

    •Try to put on casual clothes as much as possible when putting on your sandals.

  • Lara Banjoko lies low

    Long before the subsidy fraud scandal that rocked the oil and gas industry, Lara Banjo, a former top manager at Spog Petroleum, has been one of the most enduring big babes with cult following in the industry. She is one of the few ladies blessed with remarkable brain, beauty and confidence that make her to hold her own in the global oil industry.

    It is no surprise, therefore, that she is one of the most sought-after female experts in the industry. In fact, not a few chief executives believe that she holds the magic wand that can turn the fortunes of any moribund petroleum company around. She was working with Oando Plc before she left for Honeywell Group sometime back. Because of her adventurous nature, she joined Spog Petroleum as a top manager.

    After spending a few months in Spog, she left in a controversial way and have since been out of circulation.

  • Bringing the romance

    1. Understand that little things mean a lot. While big romantic gestures may have their place, it’s the little things that show a woman how much she means to you. Thoughtful acts like bringing her a cup of coffee in the morning or putting air in her car tires are very concrete ways of saying “I love you” without you having to utter a word. Be consistent. Show her in some way each day that you’re thinking of her and trying to make her life a bit easier and happier.

    2. Send a message. Scratch out a quick note, send her a text or fire off an email to let her know you’re thinking of her. If she has a big day coming up—a job interview, a presentation at work—send her a message of encouragement and support.

    3. Give compliments. You may never have to answer the question, “Do these pants make my butt look big?” if you’re quick to compliment your woman on her appearance. Dispel any insecurities by saying nice things about parts of her body she might feel less than great about, and don’t forget to compliment the things you find most attractive about her. Don’t underestimate the impact of a simple “You look beautiful”—that pretty much says it all. If you do get the “Do these pants make my butt look big?” question, the correct answer is always

    “No.” We all like to be recognized for the things that make us special, so compliment your woman for being who she is. Is she creative, fascinating, funny? Do you admire her achievements and her outlook on life? Tell her! And be sure to look her straight in the eye when you do so.

    4. Follow her lead. Initially, let the woman set the pace for your physical relationship. No woman wants to feel pressured to have sex before she’s ready, and everyone has a different timetable for being ready. Let her know how you feel, but back off (without pouting) if she wants to wait before getting intimate.

    5. Embrace foreplay. Physiologically, experts agree that foreplay is an important part of sexual health. In fact, an Australian study found that the majority of women are more aroused by the idea of foreplay than sex itself. Hold, touch and caress your partner, play games or talk dirty. If you’re not sure what your woman likes, ask. Just do it outside the bedroom. It’s easier to have that conversation if you’re not just about to have sex.

  • Sheraton Abuja Hotel adds variety nights

    Sheraton Abuja Hotel has begun her Special Variety Nights among which includes the Indian Night and the African Night.  The Indian Night comes up every Friday with lots of exciting and memorable features which include tasty and affordable cuisines from different towns and cities in India.

    The menu comes at a great discount and is prepared by a world-class Indian chef, Arhtar Mashirwho. It also treats guests to live cooking, assorted Indian cocktails and beverages always available in great supply Plus Beautiful Indian Music and dances to wow you all through the night.

    Closely followed is the African Night which comes up every Wednesday night where guests are treated to delicious and tasty continental African cuisineswith assorted local drinks like zobo, kunu, furaetc,  as well as regular drinks, fruits / desserts.  The chef also treats guests to live making of pounded yam and isi-ewu (goat-head).

    Next is the Tasty Cuisine ‘Prime Rib Dinner’ every Friday night at the Obudu Grill of Sheraton Abuja Hotel. The dinner consists of a whole roasted prime rib served with Merlot wine gravy, olive oil, rosemary and garlic, roasted potatoes and much more. There is also the Ostrich Meat from South-Africa which comes in two varieties the dubble marinated ostrich and the butter basted ostrich and is readily available from Thursday to Saturday.

    Then finally is the Special Swimmers Package where swimmers get to swim for free after which they are treated to a sumptuous meal at the boat-house a great discount with a complimentary soft drink.

  • Hajiya Bamanga-Tukur hits golden age

    For Hajiya Fatima Bamanga-Tukur, this is a period of celebration and gratitude to God for attaining the landmark age of 50. The youngest wife of PDP National Chairman, Alhaji Bamanga Tukur, attains the golden age this weekend.

    Àlthough she has kept her cards close to her chest as to whether she will be throwing open her doors for people to celebrate with her, family members and friends are waiting earnestly for the day. The fair-complexioned lady, who does not look a day older than 40, has every reason to be thankful to her Maker for her ravishingly youthful looks, if nothing else.

    Ask her the secrets of her good looks, and the modest lady would not hesitate to attribute it to the grace of God and her peaceful lifestyle.

    The envy of a lot of women, Fatima won the heart of the PDP chairman about five years ago. And while her husband might have other wives, Fatima, the youngest of them, seems to hold the centre of the man’s heart. She is hardly seen at social events, but her profile has been on the rise, particularly since her husband became the national chairman of the PDP.

     

  • Yinka Taiga resurfaces

    Just when she seemed to have fizzled out in the minds of many, Yinka Taiga, wife of Oloorogun Moses Taiga, who took a sabbatical leave from the social scene, made a sudden reappearance a few days ago. After a long absence from the radar, Yinka’s looks betray all that had been written about her.

    She had recoiled into her shell after a lady named Mercy was linked to her husband. Yinka, the mother of Oloorogun’s famous quadruplet popularly known as the Taiga Squad, refused to be drawn into the ensuing drama, preferring to concentrate on nurturing her babies and allowing the Oloorogun to permanently extinguish the acrid flames from his past.

  • From vending newspapers to the palace Osun monarch tells his grass-to-grace story

    From vending newspapers to the palace Osun monarch tells his grass-to-grace story

    Long before he was crowned as a monarch, Oba Abeeb Adetoyese Agbaje, the Olu of Ile-Ogbo, knew he would one day rule over his people. He recalled that while growing up in his native community in Osun State, he was told by some unknown persons in his dreams that he would one day be crowned as a king in the town.

    He said: “Right from childhood, I always dreamt that I would one day become a king. I would see people showing me respect. At the beginning, I was usually scared because I never believed that I would become a king. I thought it was deceit because I didn’t see how it would be possible.”

    Oba Agbaje knew that it would take more than his royal blood for his dreams to come true. According to him, the realities of life had shown him that a successful leader must have the wherewithal to lead his people. So, shortly after he graduated from the college of education and worked briefly as a teacher, he left his community and headed for Lagos with his brother to become a newspaper vendor.

    At the beginning, he recalled, his trips to Lagos were made on a weekly basis. He soon realised that he was better off selling newspapers on the streets of Lagos than teaching.

    He said: “While I was in secondary school, I would travel to Lagos with my brother to sell newspapers. It was something like a holiday job for me at the time. After I graduated from the College of Education, Ila-Orangun, Osun State, where I studied Guidance and Counselling, I took up a teaching appointment. But I later moved to Lagos to start newspaper business.

    “What really motivated me to head for Lagos was that I was sure that I would make more money selling newspapers than teaching in a classroom.”

    According to him, the newspaper business turned out to be more lucrative than life as a teacher. But he actually got his breakthrough when the now-rested National Concord newspaper appointed him a distributor for its newspapers in parts of Lagos, comprising the airport, Oshodi, Ikeja and other strategic areas.

    He said: “I sold newspapers on the streets at the time. But it got to a point when National Concord needed distributors. I put in an application, and I was lucky to be appointed a distributor.

    “I became the first distributor for Ikeja and its environs. I was responsible for supplying the paper to Lagos Airport, Ikeja and Oshodi, among other lucrative areas in Lagos. I later got the distributorship of The Guardian newspaper as well”

    He later crowned his status as a newspaper agent with his emergence as the chairman of the National Association of Newspaper Distributors, Ikeja Branch. For a man who started as a vendor, this was no doubt a huge success.

    With both feet strongly rooted in newspaper business, the young Agbaje began to see more business opportunities in other ventures. He tried his hands on petroleum and cement businesses, and within a short period, he became successful in both. With this began a conglomerate that later put him in good stead to become the popular choice of his kinsmen when the time came to appoint a monarch for his town.

    His success in life, he says, has surpassed his expectations. “If I must confess, I would say I have been very lucky. God has really been kind to me in all my ways. I think my success has really gone beyond my imagination.”

    A little over one year after assuming the leadership of his community, Oba Adetoyese has learnt to balance his private life with his new status as a king. And like most monarchs, he is not in short supply of ‘gifts’ from his subjects who want their daughters to be the king’s wives. But he has also learnt to politely reject such ‘gifts’, insisting that he would make the move to take a second wife when the time is ripe.

    “It is normal for royal fathers to have many wives. It is also normal for the people to present their daughters as ‘gifts’ to the king. Many fathers have approached me, asking me to take their daughters as wives. I told them that I would take a wife when I am ready. And that was exactly what I did. I took a wife when I was ready.”

    Aside from this, he has also learnt to balance the running of his businesses in Lagos with playing the role of a traditional ruler and father to his people. “You really need to exercise patience as a king. With your businesses, you can sack any erring staff and do away with his or her service. But as a king, you cannot say because a subject had done something, that such subject should leave town. So you must devise a way to deal with your people and make sure that they are all happy.”

    Though a Christian, Oba Adetoyese says his new role as the leader of his people has ensured that he attends to the needs of the religions in his kingdom without prejudice. “I am a Christian. But my role as the king has put on my shoulders another responsibility that I must attend to the needs of everybody. For me, it no longer matters whether you are a Christian, Muslim or a traditional religion believer. If there is need for me to attend a programme at the mosque, I would be there. The same for the traditional people. The palace is open for them to come and see me any time.”

    On his dream for his people, the monarch said he wishes to see his kingdom develop and assume the status of a city during his reign. Towards this end, he has taken the bull by the horns by constructing a new ultra-modern palace, which he said will mark the beginning of new things in the town.

    The monarch also hailed the performance of the governor of Osun State, Rauf Aregbesola, in bringing development to the people in the grassroots. “The governor is doing a great job all over the state. He has really done well with all the projects he embarked on since he became the governor. Look at the number of roads he has constructed, look at the education sector. The truth is that the man has done very well.”

    Asked what his daily prayers are since becoming a traditional ruler, Oba Adetoyese smiled and said: “What better prayer would a king say to God if not long life and wisdom to lead his people? Sincerely, these are the things that I ask for every day.”

    The king is no doubt enjoying his new status as a traditional ruler. But he is also missing some aspects of his old life. “There were several things I could do those days without anybody raising an eyebrow. But my life is no longer the same. For instance, I can no longer wear non-native attires in the public. I can no longer drink or eat in public. In fact, there were many things I could those days, which have become taboos for me today.”

  • Showing respect

    1. Behave like a gentleman. Kiss her at the door and hug if possible.

    Some of these behaviors might be labeled “old fashioned” or even be frowned on in the workplace, but if your woman feels comfortable with it, engage in some extra courtesies to make things a little easier and more comfortable for her.

    2. Be polite. Women like to hear “please” and “thank you.” Even if you’ve been dating a while or married a long time, don’t throw manners out the window. Show her the same thoughtfulness you’d show anyone else. Avoid using profanity. Never use profanity or offensive slang to refer to your woman, even if you’re just kidding. If you hold her in high regard, be sure your language reflects that.

    3. Don’t change or break plans. If it’s an emergency or the change is completely unavoidable, of course you can break a date, but be sure to give as much advance notice as possible and offer a very good explanation and an apology.

    4. Be on time. If you’re running late, call as soon as you can to let her know. Everyone’s time is valuable, and being somewhere when you say you will is just common courtesy. Resist the impulse to put off calling because you fear your woman will be angry. She might be, but chances are she’ll be even angrier if you’re not in touch.

    5. Treat her family well. Even if she says that she’s not close with her family, always be respectful toward them and avoid criticizing them. Family bonds can be strong, and parents and siblings can influence a woman’s decision to date or dump a guy.

    If a woman has children, be friendly toward them and do your best to get to know them. Women are quick to say good-bye to men who do not treat their children with kindness. Don’t ever overstep your bounds and try to parent or discipline her kids; leave that to the woman in your life.

    6. Avoid jealousy. Being jealous of male friends, co-workers and exes without good reason tells a woman that you consider her to be deceitful and of low moral character. Not a message you want to send to someone you care for.

    7. Help around the house. If you two live together, pitch in on chores. Both of you are responsible for the housework. Don’t expect her to constantly pick up after you. One of the surest ways to a woman’s heart is with a vacuum cleaner in one hand and a box of laundry detergent in the other.

  • Kojo Anan turns 40, goes off social radar

    Kojo Anan turns 40, goes off social radar

    Kojo Anan is the only son of the former Secretary-General of the United Nations, Kofi Anan, and his wife, Titi Alakija. Blessed with good looks, charm and wealth, Kojo is a man with almost everything at his disposal.

    The fun-loving dude turns 40 in a few weeks, and the social firmament is waiting for his initiation into the league of 40-year-olds.

    The list of silver-spoon kids would not be complete without a mention of this handsome young man. Having grown up in Ikoyi, Lagos, he maintains thea same standing with other Lagos big boys like the Ladi Baloguns, the Maje Ayidas, the Laolu Sarakis and the Abi Kukus, to mention a few.

    But one thing that makes Kojo different is his refusal to take a plunge into marriage. Although he was rumoured to be waving goodbye to bachelorhood sometime in 2012, the rumour has definitely not seen the light of day.

    With 40 comes great responsibilities, and Kojo seems to share this belief as he seems to have abandoned his penchant for high society parties. As he now turns down virtually every invitation to social events, it could be safe to say that his active days on the social radar are numbered.

    The graduate of Keele University appears to be taking life more seriously. With the look of things, marriage may feature prominently on the calendar of the highly eligible bachelor in the near future.

  • The Page Night Club rebrands

    It might have come as a shock to many fun lovers and patrons of The Page Night Club when they drove past their favourite fun spot situated in Opebi, Ikeja, Lagos only to see a closed sign hanging at the entrance. Contrary to the conclusions many have drawn that this popular club has closed down for good, The Page Night Club is far from leaving the night life business, they are instead re-branding which is essential for any business venture.

    The Page Night Club, owned by Chris Erondu, is arguably one of the most popular night clubs in Lagos Mainland. The night club has operated in Lagos for more than seven years, providing exciting atmosphere for partying and offering authentic drinks. Little wonder it is the favourite of many A-list socialites, celebrities and party lovers in general.

    But the night club is currently undergoing a multi-million naira renovation; a move some of its officials said was aimed at serving customers better. Ardent lovers of the night club may not have to wait for too long as Celeb Watch authoritatively gathered that in three months time, it will once again throw its doors open to fun seekers.

    “We can assure you that our customers are the sole reason for this rebranding effort. They cannot be prepared enough for the transformation The Page is about to bring upon the social scene,” a source at the club boasted.