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  • Big wigs honour Bisi Olatilo at daughter’s wedding

    Big wigs honour Bisi Olatilo at daughter’s wedding

    Bisi Olatilo, popular broadcaster and host of TV event programme, Bisi Olatilo Show, has not only made megabucks covering A-list events, the huge turnout at his daughter’s wedding recently also showed that he enjoys tremendous goodwill across all facets of life. Last Saturday, it was the turn of high society to beam their social camera on the broadcaster and his family members as he gave her daughter, Adewunmi Eunice’s hand out in marriage to Ayotunde Samuel Funsho.

    It was a gathering of eminent Nigerians, and the visibly elated multi-linguist master of ceremonies got the Lagos social scene vibrating. Soon after the couple was joined in holy matrimony at Christ Living Spring Apostolic Ministry, Omole, Lagos, guests were treated to a superb reception at 10 Degrees Events Centre, Oregun, Ikeja, Lagos.

    In attendance were big names like Oba Adedotun Gbadebo, Aliko Dangote, Olorunnibe Mamora, Mike Igbinedion, Chidi Anyaegbu, Iyiola Omisore, Tunde Akogun, Sonny Odogwu, Reuben Abati, John Momoh, Victor Umeh, Nike Akande, Moji Dokpesi, Joko Oni, Jubril Ayinla, Mike Inegbese, Abbah Folawiyo and Aremo Olusegun Osoba. Others were Otunba Gbenga Daniel, Chief Rasak Okoya and Sade his wife, Dame Abimbola Fashola, Erelu Abiola Dosunmu, Justice Oguntade, Folorunsho Alakija, Chris Ubah, Mrs. Cordelia Agboti and a host of other prominent Nigerians.

  • Why celebrity marriages DON’T LAST

    Why celebrity marriages DON’T LAST

    IT had all the trappings of a fairytale wedding, the type most little girls dream of – a lovely bride and handsome groom both taking their vows in exotic surroundings that could pass for a Hollywood movie set. Indeed, the beaming couple looked so much in love that guests at the star-studded nuptials between American reality star Kim Kardashian and basketball player Kris Humphries in August 2011 thought they were witnessing a Cinderella-type fairytale, and that the couple would ‘live happily ever after.’ How wrong they were! For just 72 days after that ceremony, Kim filed for divorce, citing ‘irreconcilable differences.’

    While many were shocked at how quickly the union unravelled, it was no surprise to keen observers of celebrity marriages. Over the years, a strange phenomenon has been taking place in celebrity land, whereby unions of movie and music stars, top athletes and others in the limelight hardly last. Indeed, there was the notorious case of a celebrity couple who wedded sometime ago in the U.S and on the way to their honeymoon got into a big fight. At that point, they realised they were not compatible and could not live together and quickly filed for divorce. All this before some of their wedding guests had even got back home from the wedding venue!

    It’s a global issue not restricted to the advanced world alone. In Nigeria, we have had our fair share of celebrity break-ups with all the ‘drama’ and screaming headlines that come with it. So, the question is, why do marriages of most celebrities crash frequently? Some marriage cum relationship counsellors and experts, who spoke to The Nation on the phenomenon, gave various reasons for the breakup of celebrity marriages.

    Columnist Bunmi Sofola attributes it to their hectic jobs and lifestyles. “The job they do could affect their marriages,” she noted, stating: “The man who loves you starts disliking you because of the demands of the job that you do. Your husband, for instance, wants you to be home, but you cannot be at home because you are either on location or doing one story or another. Again, as a man, your wife may want you home, but you can’t be home because you are out there socialising as a celebrity. That is because celebrities are expected and known to be extroverts. At least 90% of them are so, and they are either attending parties or going to bars or clubs. Your wife may not like all that. At the end, even when you have kids, all these factors take their toll and it gets to a point when one of the party says that he or she has had enough, then packs his/her bag and leaves.”

    A marriage counsellor and author, Flora Preye, agrees with this view. She stated: “A major issue is work/career commitments. Actors, for instance, are constantly on the move because of their job. Now, if the husband and wife are both artistes who are always on one location or the other, when will they have time to be together? Regular interactions are a key ingredient for a successful marriage and if it’s lacking, it can cause a crack in the marital ‘wall.”

    She lists other factors responsible for celebrity break-ups as large egos, fan adulation, constant media scrutiny, hectic lifestyles, among others.

    While contending that marriage generally is hard work which requires a lot of effort to work, she noted that it’s doubly difficult for celebrities. “Let me state clearly here that marriage generally is hard work. Ask any old couple who have been married for say 30-50 years and they will tell you it’s not a bed of roses like it’s portrayed in movies and pop culture. Those who are sincere will tell you the truth about marriage. It’s easier to get married than to keep that marriage going. It takes a lot of hard work, involving commitments, compromise, sacrifice and other factors to do that.

    “Now, if marriage is tough for the average person on the street, then imagine what it’s like for celebrities who have other issues to contend with the ones I have stated earlier like ego and media scrutiny.”

    “Why will their marriages not crash when they are building it on themselves and not on the initiator of the institution?” so declared Pastor N. C. Amaefula. To him, marriage had a manual which had to be followed if you want a successful marriage.

    “God is the brain child of marriage and there is nothing any man or woman can do to make marriage succeed except they both go back to God. You cannot give what you don’t have, so being in marriage without knowing God, is fake. It is pretending to give what you do not have in you. And again, most of these celebrities do not live by the precepts, ordinances and rules and regulation that God has given as far as marriage is concerned. There is always a rule. Life is about principles. There are principles as far as marriage is concerned and that is how it can work as far as they want it to work,” he said.

    He compared marriage manual to that of a product, stating: “I tell people regularly, that there is no manufacturer that does not have a manual for the use of his product. And anyone who goes to the market to purchase a product, must use it according to the manufacturer’s specification. You must first of all read the manual and when this is done, definitely, that product will serve the consumer more.”

    In his view, Rev. (Dr) Fubara Sam-Obomanu, a marriage counsellor at TREM, attributes the issue to a lack of understanding of what marriage entails as well as people marrying for frivolous reasons.

    “The reason for all these marriage break-ups is that they don’t understand what marriage is about, they see it as a feather to their cap,” he opined. “They gather people together, go to church and stand before the altar to exchange vows. There’s more to marriage than that. Then, people marry for what they see, the physical appearance and not what’s inside the person. It’s the content that should count.”

    “Many celebrities live a false life,” so said Efe Anaughe, a counsellor. He stated that the pressure to live up to certain standards and give a good impression of themselves contribute to marital splits among them. “I think that celebrity marriages are breaking because they put too much pressure on themselves. Also because of their status they try to live up to the standard of others. They tend to live a life that is not theirs. The pressures of wanting to create or give people the impression of having a sense of perfection, that makes many of these marriages to crumble.

    “That is because, there is so much pretence in such marriages. If only they can learn to be themselves in such marriages. People have to learn how to be themselves. People should not allow the pressure of their work get to them,” he said.

    Sam-Obomanu agrees, stating: “Many celebrities have very high tastes and they keep looking at big things like wealth and a flashy lifestyle. And when a time comes and things are no longer working fine, they walk away from the marriage.”

    One common factor that runs through most celebrity break-ups is the issue of infidelity. Some spouses leave the marriage when they can no longer bear the indiscretions of an unfaithful partner. On this, Preye stated: “There is also infidelity but this is not restricted to celebrities only- it’s a major source of marital discord today. But what makes that of celebrities different is the temptations they face regularly. Because of living their life constantly in the spotlight and their fame, they have more opportunities than the ‘average Joe’ to stray. When musicians, for instance, go on shows, girls throw themselves at them. Even a monk can get tempted with all that is offered. If one partner is constantly unfaithful, it can cause discord in the marriage.”

    “Jealousy can also be a problem in a union between two celebrities,” she added. If one, for instance, has more fame, more success than the other, it can cause problems if the other party does not have the strength of character to cope with his or her partner being constantly in the limelight.

    “It takes a very strong man or woman to endure his wife, for instance, being more famous, getting more attention than them. One celebrity union that has been able to cope in that aspect is that of Omotola Ekeinde and the husband. She’s definitely more famous than he is but he doesn’t seem to mind, preferring to stay in the background while the wife laps up all the attention.

    “Their marriage shows that the union has greater chance of success if one partner is an artiste while the other is in another profession? So there won’t be a struggle to be in the limelight if both partners are in the same career.”

    Sofola supports this view, noting: “For instance, you go to a party, and your wife is better known than you, she is being embraced and kissed here and there, jealousy starts getting into the marriage. It doesn’t even matter if both of you are celebrities.”

    Preventing break-ups, saving homes

    So, can celebrity marriage break-ups be prevented in view of the negative effect of divorce on family life, especially on the children?

    “You ask me how the crash of celebrity marriages can be stopped? I ask you, are you sure celebrities really want to stop their marriages from crashing?” retorts Amaefula, who noted that one cannot stop what he does not want to. Speaking philosophically, he said: “If you are going to a place and you are on the wrong road, what you should do is to retrace your steps. Go back to where you are coming from because using a wrong road, cannot take you to the right destination. So if they desire to stop it, then they have to decide and change.

    “The change has to be everyday, mentally, spiritually, intellectually, physically and otherwise. Some of these female celebrities, when they marry, they want the man to be the woman. They want to marry a man who will be cooking for them in the kitchen, while they sit and read magazines in the sitting room. So they have to change their mentality and embrace Jesus as the author and finisher of marriage. Then things will turn around for them and that is how it can work as far as they want it to work.”

    “It cannot be stopped, it’s a global thing,” noted Sofola, adding: “One minute celebrities are in love, they are happy, it doesn’t really matter how rich they are, because it has nothing to do with money.”

    “My advice for celebrity couples? They need to put God first,” said Sam-Obomanu. “Unless you get God’s manual for marriage, it won’t work. Marriage is a union of two forgivers. From the beginning, you must make up your mind to forgive- you should understand that your husband will step on your toes and you will also step on his. They also need to go for counselling before marriage.

    “Then, besides the vows in church, I believe strongly that people should make individual vows saying ‘For me, I will do everything within my power to make sure this marriage works.”

    “I will not say that I see the end of celebrity marriage crashes. There could be limited marriage crashes if they could only learn to take some steps. Some of the steps are those that I have mentioned above. Celebrities should not put pressure on themselves. They should not kill themselves just to make an impression. Celebrities need to work on their fame and family. I am hoping that it will go a long way to help them in keeping their marriages from collapsing,” Anaughe advised.

    Sofola stressed on the importance of long courtship, stating: “When people are getting married, they should decide on long courtship, for instance, to know if they are compatible and the chemistry is right. But as a celebrity, you are already a public figure. And then the dilemma is there because you do not know whether the person that has approached you likes you because of you, or because of your popularity. Only to discover that the person married the name and not the personality involved. After marriage, they then find out that they are not compatible.”

  • Femi Otedola roots for daughter

    Femi Otedola roots for daughter

    This month enjoys the unique feature of ushering quite a number of bigwigs into the league of the golden age. Leading the pack is Senator Teslim Folarin who will clock age 50 on October 30. Information at the disposal of Celeb Watch indicates that some of his friends are planning to make the day a memorable one.

    It is said that Senator Folarin’s celebration will be two-pronged; a low-profile get together in Abuja where many of his senator friends and political associates will be on hand to celebrate with him. The party train will then stop in Ibadan, the land of his birth, specifically at Casa Lucio Hall, for the grand celebration on November 2. The wife of the former lawmaker and Oyo State political juggernaut, Angela, is coordinating the celebration.

    In the same vein, a former governorship aspirant, Femi Babalola, will clock the golden age on October 19, and the event will be marked at his Hall of Grace, Jogor Centre, where he will be assisted by guests to cut his 50th birthday cake.

    Hon. Babatunde Oduyoye is also billed to mark his 50th birthday during the month, even though the exact nature of the celebration remains yet under wrap.

  • Where is Amos Adamu?

    Where is Amos Adamu?

    How funny life can be. It is hard to believe that former FIFA executive member, Dr. Amos Adamu, could become so scarce on the social scene. Until he fell out with the world football body after he was accused of demanding bribe, Adamu oozed with power, influence and fame.

    The Ogbomosho-born sports administrator was an institution of some sorts. His words were virtually laws as far as sport administration in Nigeria was concerned. And as would be expected of a man of such immense stature, he enjoyed a large followership. His presence at any social function simply added substance and colour.

    But Adamu, the owner of Balmora, a popular event centre in Lagos, has since become a shadow of his former self on the social firmament. Not even his 60th birthday months ago could pull any comeback magic for him. His son now runs the family business.

  • Babatunde Okewale’s new gift to childless couples

    Couples who are at a loss on the rules that guide fruitful marital union now have a guide in How to Get Pregnant, a book written by the Chief Medical Director of St. Ives Hospital, Lagos, Dr. Babatunde Okewale. Billed for launch in Lagos on in the next few weeks, it is a product of decades of Okewale’s experience as a gynaecologist and obstetrician.

    Besides specialising in taking delivery of babies through in vitro fertilization (IVF), the UK-trained medical expert is also reputed for his intellectual capacity. The book is thus seen by many as another effort on the part of Okewale to help address the fertility challenges faced by many couples.

    Only a few weeks ago, he announced a 50-per cent cut in the cost of in vitro fertilisation (IVF) treatment. The promo, which is ongoing, was designed to significantly reduce the economic burden of couples who may desire the treatment as a result of one fertility challenge or the other.

    The annual gesture from Okewale is in its fourth year.

  • Modupe Ozolua turns 40

    If you find the Chief Executive Officer of Body Enhancement Limited, Modupe Ozolua, in a gay mood, don’t wonder why. The beautiful princess of the Benin Kingdom has just joined the league of 40-year-olds.

    The lady, who is in the business of enhancing body shapes, has resurfaced after a long absence from the social scene. Her face has been everywhere in the print and social media in relation with her 40th birthday.

    Since she relocated from Lagos to Abuja, she has been struggling to bring back the glorious days of her body enhancement business. The graduate of Southwestern College, San Diego and Devery International University, Los Angeles, Califonia, blazed the trail in cosmetic surgery years ago and recorded instant success.

  • For Akinsola Akinfemiwa, life  continues

    For Akinsola Akinfemiwa, life continues

    Until he emerged like a bolt from the blue a few months ago, not a few people had written off Akinsola Akinfemiwa from the social scene. The former Managing Director of Skye Bank Plc, who bowed out from the banking industry as a result of a policy initiated by the Central Bank of Nigeria, had stayed off the social radar for long.

    His absence from the social scene had sparked speculations, with some claiming that he had fallen on bad times, while others said he had returned to one of the Ivy League institutions in the US to further enhance his academic status.

    While neither of these speculations can be confirmed, it is a fact that he is back in the saddle of another fast-rising bank. He is the Chairman of Heritage Bank.

    Certainly, things are still looking up for the banker. He was sighted at the official opening of Intercontinental Hotels on Kofo Abayomi Street, Victoria Island, Lagos, recently.

  • …those whose marriages crashed

    …those whose marriages crashed

    HERE are a few of high profile Nigerians whose marriages have failed to meet the test of time:

    Pastor Kris Okotie

    The General Overseer of Household of God Ministry, Rev. Chris Okotie, tops the list of celebrities who have experienced the bitter side of marriage twice. The flamboyant preacher and three times presidential candidate of Fresh Democratic Party, whose marriage to first wife, Tina, lasted for 14 years before it broke down, surprised many when he came out to announce that his second marriage to Stephanie had also broken down.

    In his usual charismatic manner, the pastor chose the pulpit to announce the breakdown of his marriage to Stephanie, by simply saying, “Stephanie and I are separated.” His marriage to Stephanie, a mother of three from a previous marriage, generated a lot of controversy, with opinions divided over the propriety or otherwise of the decision, considering the biblical injunction on marriage. But trust him, the man of God quickly doused the tension when he came out to say that his critics do not understand the words of God. The marriage lasted for three years.

    Kate Henshaw

    Kate Henshaw is no doubt a good actress. Her ability to interpret has largely been commended by experts and movie aficionados. And for a long time, she remained one of the most respected women in the industry, with her marriage to a British man, Rodrick Nuttal, lasting 12 years before the two divorced in November 2011. The union produced a daughter named Ella. The main reason for the split, according to rumour mills, was Kate’s ever busy schedule, which often kept her from home. Unfortunately, Mr. Nuttal too was a busy man, as MD of Ledrop Nigeria Limited which is the sole distributor of Jack Daniel’s and Huedsiech Champagne.

    Fathia Balogun and Saidi Balogun

    They were dubbed the movie couple by Yoruba movie watchers. And to many, the marriage of Saidi Balogun and Fathia Balogun was a ‘marriage made in heaven’. Together, the couple starred in so many block buster movies that turned them into household stars. Unfortunately, Fathia’s screen success has not been replicated in her married life, having gone through the pains of two failed marriages. Her first marriage was to Tunde Anchor, a union that produced a son. Not one to be put down, Fathia gathered herself and moved on. She soon found comfort in the arms of fellow actor, Saidi Balogun, with whom she formed a seeming formidable union. But the marriage also hit the rocks some years later, despite several attempts by friends and family members to avoid a break up.

    Femi Kuti and Funke

    Femi Kuti’s marriage to pretty Funke was dubbed as a dream marriage by many. Soon after that, the union produced a son, Made, raising the hope of their admirers and fans that the two would make good role models. But it turned out that the optimism came too early, as the two parted ways after only a child. For a long time, the two remained separated on mutual consent, remaining as ‘good friends’. However, Femi finally came out to announce a formal dissolution of the marriage.

    Giving reasons for his actions, Femi said: “I am divorcing her to protect my side of my inheritance because I have five children. I have to protect the interest of my children. Since we are still legally married, what if I die today? The law will favour my wife. If I don’t divorce her, my children may suffer. What if I die and we have not divorced and then she comes and claims everything? The other children will not get anything and there will be a big war in my family.”

    Shan George

    This tall, light-skinned, beautiful and outspoken actress has seen it all- the sweet and bitter sides of marriage. Twice, she has tried her hands on marriage, but twice, it has failed to work out. Her first marriage, which produced two lovely boys, was contracted which was barely 15 years old. She once told the story of how her second husband walked out on her and went with another woman. But despite these heartbreaks, strong-hearted Shan is willing to try her hands on yet another marriage if the right man comes along.

    Bukky Wright

    Sultry actress, Bukky Wright, once confessed that she had not been lucky with love. Hardworking and highly industrious, Bukky Wright has tried her hands on marriage twice, failing with both. But rather than be put down, she has girded her loins each time, coming out stronger than before. The graduate of Economics believes that her failed marriages have been a lesson, which she claimed have taught her life experiences that she cannot forget even in a hurry.

    Monalisa Chinda

    Pretty and somehow daring, Monalisa is sure a dream girl for any man. The two were said to have met when Monalisa was a Theatre Arts graduate at the University of Port Harcourt. They later got married and their love seemed to be waxing stronger every day. Monalisa granted several interviews attesting to the fact that Dejo was her world. Unfortunately, that world soon came down crashing, as stories of ‘irreconcilable differences’ filtered in. Soon after that, Monalisa moved out of the house, marking the end of a marriage that had so much promise at the beginning.

    Funke Akindele

    Funke Akindele first captured the attention of television enthusiasts when she featured in popular television drama, I need to know. From that point, the University of Lagos law graduate has gone ahead to wow the world with her rare talent. And so it was fanfare that her fans received the news that she was finally getting married. Her husband-to-be, Kehinde Almaroof Oloyede, son of a Lagos popular market leader, is himself a socialite and politician. The wedding was the talk of the town for a long time, with photographs splashed in national dailies and social media.

    Unfortunately, the marriage went the way of several others before it when her husband came out to announce on his Facebook page that the marriage had packed up. After the confirmation that the marriage has indeed broken down, Funke quickly removed her husband’s last name from her social network IDs.

    Chika Ike

    This actress sure got a body that can make a man take a second look. And to her credit, she has been able to combine her beauty with talent to make a huge success of her acting career. However, the beauty has not been able to replicate this in her marriage. Chika’s marriage to Tony Eberiri hit the rocks with the actress filing for divorce. In a recent interview, the award-winning actress said there are some things in marriage that a person might not be able to stand.

    Kingsley Ogoro and Esse Agesse

    The two were music icons who later became movie icons. For Kingsley, he was a successful music producer. He met and married the then up and coming musician, Esse Agesse. Together, they formed what many believed was a marriage that would stand the test of time. To their credit, they both dedicated so much to building their careers. But with success came another thing. Esse had to relocate to Ireland, as part of the efforts to further boost her burgeoning movie career. But shortly after that move, the union ran into trouble. Esse was said to have fought tooth and nail to save her marriage. But the marriage had gone beyond redemption at the time, and finally came down crashing.

    Soul E & Queen Ure

    They were both young and dashing. And they went round telling whoever cared to listen to them that their union was made in heaven. But one man seemed to have noticed what these two young love birds could not see. Their pastor, Pastor Chris Okotie of The Household of God, expelled them from his church in 2006, after they announced plans to get married. The man of God insisted that the union was founded on fantasy. Don’t forget that Soul E was only 24, while his wife was 38. However, the age difference seemed inconsequential to the two, who later went on to found their own church, Da Luv Villa, at Omole Estate. The marriage appeared lovely to many until Soul E packed his bags and ran away from home.

    Eucharia Anunobi and Mr. Ekwu

    Eucharia has severally been described as an actresses’ actress. Her forte is acting bitchy roles in movies, roles she clinically delivered to the letter. While she made huge success of her acting career, same could not be said of her marriage to Mr. Ekwu. Rumours had it that the husband dumped his matrimonial home, abandoning his wife and child.

    Steph Nora Okereke and Mr. Falana

    Cross-over actress, Steph-Nora and her fellow Nollywood practitioner, Falana, seemed had it all wrapped up to make a success of their union. And to this day, it is not clear what happened to the marriage, as husband and wife publicly professed so much love for each other. Many prayed for the success of the marriage, because they believed it would go a long way to cement the relationship between two major tribes in Nigeria. But wishes were not enough to save the marriage, as it soon packed up even before it was properly consummated.

    Alec Godwin & Kefee

    They hooked up when Branama girl, Keffe, was just 16 at Alec’s dad’s church in Sapele. But the age difference did not stop Alec from toasting the girl who would later become Kefee, one of Nigeria’s most successful gospel acts. Theirs too seemed a perfect match. While Keffe did the singing, Alec did the production and management. And before you could say Jack, Keffe had been transformed into a household name. However, cracks soon appeared on the wall of the marriage, and they separated on a very acrimonious note.

  • Guardians of style who clothe the rich

    Guardians of style who clothe the rich

    Deola Sagoe The creator of House of Deola Sagoe brand is one of the pioneers of contemporary fashion in Nigeria. She is a fashion revolutionary brought to national prominence when she designed her mum’s label, Odua, for about 10 years. The Ondo State-born daughter of Elizade Motors boss, Chief Michael Adeojo, is an haute couture fashion designer with specialisation in women dresses and menswear like jeans and polo.

    Deola studied at the University of Miami and University of Lagos, with a Master’s degree in Finance and Management. She describes her style as “globally appealing” with a mix of traditional African fabrics and hand-crafted details with Western contemporary style. She is regarded as one designer who sources all of her raw materials from Africa and uses local people for the intricate details.

    “I always incorporate indigenous fabrics. I love the look of Aso Oke and have developed a unique system where the fabric actually looks like it has been embroidered, but it is all done by hand on looms. I also love to teach innovation and employ people to develop new ways of working. My customers like attention to detail and the craftsmanship in my pieces,” she said.

    Sagoe is influenced by her parents whose fashion style rubbed off on her. She has found success dressing the rich. “My regular ladies who do the party scene love to dress up,” she explains. “Some of them even say to me: ‘I want to look the best and be the centre of attention’. So, I hope that I achieve that for them.

    “I try to fuse African cultural style with a modern approach to design. I love the dynamism of creating modernity out of something that is steeped in history. I think it is what gives my collection such a cultural mix.”

    Prominent among Sagoe’s customers are Nigerian beauty queen-turned-business woman Nike Oshinowo; Aisha Babangida; Agbani Darego and others in the high society. Interestingly, her three daughters, Teni, Aba and Tiwa, have followed in her footsteps as they recently launched their own label called CLAN.

    Her career highlights include a notable presence at the New York Fashion Week when Kofi Annan’s wife, Nana, wore her designs. She has been acknowledged by André Leon Tally of US Vogue as the African designer most likely to be successful in this millennium.

    Deola Sagoe has several laurels to show for her achievements in fashion. They include the “Africa Designs” and the MNET/Anglo Gold African Designs 2000 awards. She has famous fans such as Oprah Winfrey and Will Smith.

     

    Clement Mudiaga Enajemo (MUDI)

    Clement Mudiaga Enajemo’s story aptly captures the ‘grass to grace’ phrase. From apprenticeship under a roadside tailor, Mudi, as he is now famously known, has invested more than 18 years in the fashion industry to surpass the expectations of his clients by providing them with outstanding and world class designs.

    He founded MUDI AFRICA LTD with a vision to become the most sought after brand name in fashion. “At MUDI, we believe that every fabric has its unique language and that the ability to understand the language of the fabric makes a designer, resulting in the creation of a masterpiece. It is, therefore, only fitting that our designs are a limited collection with only four pieces of each in production to guarantee Exclusivity. A major focus at MUDI AFRICA is customer satisfaction, which we achieve based on the powerful and unique designs that our clothes represent,” his profile reads.

    Mudi’s clientele consists of high profile individuals ranging from musicians and actors to business men and politicians. Notable among them are John Fashanu, Ramsey Noah, Desmond Elliot, Olu Jacobs, Salif Keita, Youssou N’dour and John Kufuor (former president of Ghana), to name a few. The dynamism in African culture, affluence and bold personality of the African man is expressed through Mudi designs. With offices around the continent and branches in Abuja, Accra, Dakar, Johannesburg and Nairobi, Mudi Africa is living a timeless dream with multiple awards to his credit.

     

    Lanre Da-Silva Ajayi

    Lanre is not only a household name in the fashion industry in Nigeria, her brand, LDA, is filled with collections most of which are worn by Nigerian celebrities. Founded in 2005 with iconic 1940’s couture signature designs – a result of what has evolved into a much more modern and cutting-edge brand and a full-blown fashion house, the label’s collection includes couture, prêt a porter, and accessories such as hairpieces and statement jewellery.

    Regardless of the label’s strong historical design roots, LDA’s creatively combines pattern, print, exquisite and even traditional fabrics to produce day wear, evening wear, gowns and cocktail dresses that bridge time and make the label successful within and outside Nigeria.

    Lanre Da Silva is arguably one of Nigeria’s biggest ambassadors. Much into modern silhouettes in relatable designs, LDA is the favourite of the media, celebrities and fashion lovers.

    An LDA woman is seen as the personification of sophistication, femininity, brilliance and boldness, which are the inspiration for each of her collections. Lanre says: “Couture, colour and boldness with an edgy twist are the signature of my designs.”

    LDA was one of the designers selected from Nigeria to present her Autumn/Winter 2012 collections to buyers across Europe. The brand has also been featured in L’Uomo Vogue, May-June 2012- “Rebranding Africa” issue dedicated to Africa to show how the continent is moving and developing while trying to get out of a difficult situation of poverty and illness.

    Lanre had showcased a capsule collection during the Mercedes Benz New York Fashion Week Fall 2012/13 at the initiative “Fashion 4 Development” that supports the United Nations Millennium Development Goals and the unprecedented global effort: “Every Woman Every Child “. The brand is also stocked at the flagship boutique and at Temple Muse both in Lagos.

    LDA has also created four different collections for international Dutch wax print giant, Vlisco-Urban Beat, Gallery of Poems, Reflet de Lumie`re, Tresor Brillant and Delicate Shades.

     

    Waheed Shonibare

    As Waheed Shonibare underwent all the pains and rigours of getting himself trained in Pharmacy, it would not have crossed the imagination of anyone that this Ogun State University graduate would jettison the business of drugs for the fashion world. Twice As Nice (TAN), founded by Waheed, took off around Year 2000 with a mini shop at KOLEX Hotels in Fola Agora Area of Lagos. Now it is running up to 27 serviceable outlets in Nigeria and beyond.

    TAN deals in British formal and casual shirts like the Tom & Keith London Shirts, Fred Thomas Shirts, Richard Spencer, T.M Lewin Shirts, Hawes & Curtis, Hanz, Bell & Dave, and High View, among others. It is also involved in Ties, shoes, belts, cufflinks, boxers, pocket squares, silk knots, socks, collar bones, T-Bars and so on. Most of TAN products are consumed by the middle and the upper class income earners. Top executives at top echelon of multi-national companies, banks and other institutions are ready customers of TAN.

    According to Waheed, TAN is perceived as a frontliner in the retail sector, having received recommendations and awards from entertainment magazines and private organisations.

    He said: “To mention a few, there are the City People Elegance & Style Award for Best Clothier 2011; Encomium Award for Best Clothier 2013; VConnectGlobal Services Award of Excellence for the Best Business of the Month (in Cloth & Accessories Category) and Most Outstanding Fashion Boutique of the year in Fashion & Style Digest Award 2010. Our growth index indicates that our products are well received, considering the quality of our product brands, the style and how affordable our products were,” Waheed said.

     

    Folake Folarin-Coker

    It has been argued in many quarters that ‘Tiffany Amber’ is not Nigerian. Many are of the opinion that this highly successful fashion power house is of foreign extraction. But it was Folake Folarin-Coker, a Nigerian-born in Lagos, who founded this world famous brand in 1998.

    Folake’s entry into the fashion world was as dramatic as her rise to the pinnacle of her vocation. Here was a young woman who was full of dreams and aspirations on account of which she dedicated a lot of her youthful life to studying Law in Switzerland and even bagged a Master’s degree in Petroleum Law.

    As she relocated to Nigeria to pursue her professional dream, fate played a fast one on her before she could settle down to take up a job perhaps in the legal department of a Nigerian upstream or downstream company. Her passion for fashion reigned supreme and the next thing was that she became a household name on the lips of the people who constitute the members of beau monde.

    Having spent most of her childhood in Europe exploring different cultures, she successfully translated her passion into one of the foremost fashion brands in Africa with outstanding global recognition. The brand’s success comes from striking the balance between local flavour and international appeal. She has since become one of the many fashion and design brands giving Africa global accolades.

    The year 2008 saw Folake extend her creative borders by adding two more lines under Tiffany Amber Nigeria (TAN) by Tiffany Amber (Diffusion Line) and Folake Folarin (Couture Line). In the same year, she showcased at the Mercedez-Benz Fashion Week in New York.

    The collection was heralded by such rave review that Folake was invited to showcase for the second time, making her the first African-based designer to showcase for two consecutive seasons at the New York Fashion Week. Folake Folarin-Coker won designer of the year at the African Fashion International (AFI) in 2009 in Johannesburg. The AW 2011 Fearless Luxury collection won “Fashion Brand of the Year” at the Arise Magazine Fashion Week. Thirteen years after launching her label, Folake has become a mainstay in the fashion industry as she continues to develop a strong design philosophy by staying true to her vision of a true woman.

     

    Korede Roberts

    Korede is the fashion aficionado behind the much-talked about FUSION, an upscale men’s fashion store in Ikoyi, Lagos. This graduate of Industrial Relations and Personnel Management from the University of Lagos has established himself as a clothier to be reckoned with, to the pleasure of Nigeria’s high society.

    He chose fashion ahead of working in banks and oil companies after graduation. This son of a retired army officer could have been sorting out human resources issues in the four walls of some corporate outfits, but he chose to proffer solutions to the clothing needs of humans with his creativity and enterprise. The business of making even the meanest looking men model has not only earned Korede fame, fortune has equally smiled on the young man whose bourgeoning fashion empire annually turns over millions.

    Korede Roberts’ love of clean cuts and intricate lines is clear in his range of bespoke designs and apparels. He flaunts an enviable understanding of clothing. This much he depicts when he explained the secret of the success witnessed by him so far: “To stay ahead of competition, I buy from every part of the world as far as my brand/quality standard is met and my clients, who are the most important people in the supply chain, are happy with it. We do London, Paris, Italy, New York, Copenhagen, Japan, Spain, Korea, and so on.

    “We are authorised re-sellers for GLOBETROTTER suitcases from the UK, Giuseppe Zanotti Homme shoes From Italy, Givenchy From Paris, Wooyoungmi from Korea, Dita Eyewear From Los Angeles, Cutler &Gross Eyewear from United Kingdom, Alfredo Beretta Luggage Company from Milan, Christian Westphal from Copenhagen, among many others from all over the world.”

    Fusion’s stocks are lined up with very expensive fashion apparels and accessories that cater exclusively for high net worth individuals.

     

    Lisa Folawiyo

    Invention and re-invention are two words that aptly define Jewel by Lisa. Its Creative Director, Lisa Folawiyo, is one of Nigeria’s hottest designers the fashion world cannot ignore at the moment. With no formal training in fashion, this Law graduate has built designs that have captured the high society. Lisa has perfected the art of wearing the ankara fabric through the use of ornate embellishment.

    Jewel by Lisa has succeeded in creating a global print and turning the label into a coveted luxury brand. Incorporating texture with this culturally established tradition has been the key to Jewel by Lisaʼs success, creating a conceptual and global design hybrid. Jewel by Lisa is a multi-faceted global women’s wear and accessories collection. Each Jewel by Lisa garment boasts a handcrafted and unique history from inception to construction.

    Lisa Folawiyo, founder and creative director of Jewel by Lisa, studied Law at the University of Nigeria. Jewel by Lisa has shown its collections on international platforms – from Johannesburg, London and Paris, to New York at New York Fashion Week (SS10 & SS12) as part of the Arise Magazine collectives at the Mercedez Benz New York Fashion Week Spring Summer ‘10 & ’12 collections, and Lagos at the celebrated Lagos Fashion and Design Week (LFDW).

    Additionally, the label presented its AW ‘12/Resort ‘13 collection at the prestigious Pitti W Tradeshow in Florence via Lagos Fashion and Design Week, with Nigeria as guest nation. Most recently, the label showcased its Spring Summer 2013 collection in Milan at the Vogue Talent Exhibition in collaboration with Vogue Italia. The brand has also been well received and worn by the likes of British Actress, Thandie Newton and singer Solange Knowles, Tasha Smith, Kelis, Eve and many others.

     

    Adeolu Adeboye

    Deolu, as he is fondly called by friends and admirers, had already registered his arrival on the highly competitive London fashion industry with his Wisemen Apparel before he looked homewards. The son of the respected General Overseer of the Redeemed Christians Church of God, Pastor Ezekiel Adejare Adeboye, his idea was borne out of frustration from excessive distribution of poor quality formal and casual menswear collections in Nigeria. This gap created an inspiration and desire to launch a high quality fashion and affordable men’s boutique.

    No top executive in Nigeria could be said to have a complete wardrobe without pieces from Wisement Apparel. As a leading men’s boutique in Nigeria with high quality branded formal and casual collections, ranging from Italian to British designs at affordable prices, Wisemen Apparel retails suits, shoes and other accessories for the upper class.

    Its brands include Without Prejudice, William Hunt, Circle of Gentlemen, Profuomo, Churches Shoes, Rodrigo, Prada, Rodolfo Zenganrini, Moreschi, Moschino, Stemar, Messori, Cesare Paciotti, Dolce and Gabbana, Baldinini, Pollini, Vanni, Etro, Armani, Florentino, Versace, Gucci, Zampiere, Lagerfield and Wisemen.

    “At Wisemen Apparel, we just don’t clothe men but distinguished Individuals and confident gentlemen,” he said.

     

    Yemi Osunkoya

    Yemi Osunkoya is the award-winning designer behind the Kosibah label. Kosibah was established in London in 1991. It specialises in contemporary and elegant couture bridal, evening and formal day wear, using luxurious fabrics and sumptuous embellishments.

    Yemi’s signature use of corsetry and boned bodices cleverly recreates the classical and elegant hourglass figure, producing gowns that curve, shape and flatter the wearer. All gowns are made to measure and made to order. Celebrated clients include Louise Rose, leading actress of Universal film Life & Lyrics; Alesha Harvey; Sheila Ferguson formerly of the Three Degrees; Hollywood actress Indra Ové; former Miss World, Agbani Darego and singer Stephanie Benson.

    Kosibah’s clientele is truly worldwide, though particularly represented in the UK, Nigeria and USA. Among the awards that Kosibah and Yemi have won are International Designer of the Year, City People, Feb 2012; 100+ Black Achievers, July 2010; Fashion Diversity, Nov 2009; Excellence Award, Gathering of Africa’s Best; Diamond Recognition from National Weddings UK, Sep 2005; Bridal Designer of the Year, 2002 and 2004, Mahogany Bridal Awards; Highly Commended, National Wedding Show, March 2002. Yemi has been featured as one of the top designers in Britain.

  • ‘Unique things which drew me to my husband’

    ‘Unique things which drew me to my husband’

    Early last year, Isang Awah had her debut in Nollywood, with a well acclaimed movie titled Bent Arrows. The star studded movie which paraded the likes of Stella Damasus, Omoni Oboli, Desmond Elliot, Olu Jacobs, Joke Silva, Ngozi Ezeonu and late Enebeli Enebuwa was premiered at Silverbird Cinema in Lagos and also at a similar venue in Abuja. For Isang, that was a major accomplishment, as her movie received great reviews. But Isang Awah is more popular as a writer than any other thing. Harvard-trained Isang said she has been writing since her early years, and today remains a trail blazer in the area of publishing customised books for children in Nigeria. Isang sees writing as her lifestyle. It dominates all that she is presently doing and dictated to her the strategic location of her office in high brow ‘urban shelter estate’ in Katampe, Abuja, few minutes’ walk from her home. So involved is she with children that her four children too play significant roles in her writing and publishing world. She spoke to PAUL UKPABIO, who was in Abuja recently.

    AS a child, did you have a dream that you would one day be fulfilled earning a living as an accomplished writer?

    To tell you the honest truth, yes, I did at some point. I have always had this vivid memory of when I was about seven years old playing in a garden, reading a book about a little girl who grew up to become a writer. And in that moment, something connected in my spirit and I wanted to grow up to be a writer. But somehow as I grew up, I developed other interests because when I was in secondary school, I was good in both arts and science subjects. Everybody encouraged me to go into the study of the sciences.

    Way back then too, writing wasn’t really seen as a profession. So it wasn’t there as an option like something you had to go to school and do. That sort of left out for me the dream of becoming a writer. I therefore pursued other interests until a few years ago when I re-considered and decided to go back to school and do a Masters in Literature and Creative Writing. But the truth is even though I went on to pursue other things like going into the university for a degree in Bio-Chemistry, I was always writing through the years. I have always been into writing of poems, songs, stories and scripts. Writing never left me. I have always been writing one thing or another.

    Tell us, what kind of childhood did you have?

    I had a regular childhood; I grew up in a normal home with father, mother and siblings. I am a middle child. We had a lot of fun; we lived in different places, Calabar and Cameroun before returning to Nigeria. My father had a job that took him to Cameroun. I will say I was more attached to my mother. She was a teacher, which gave her more time to be with us at home. She was also a maternal person in nature. She spent time with us. She was very creative; during holidays, we had drama plays at home and we did all kinds of fun things. She was a creative person, baked, cooked and organised all sorts of fun activities for us.

    Naturally, I was more drawn to her. I remember that she taught me how to be myself and why I ought to love the things that I love doing. From both my parents, I learnt that hard work is very important, also discipline, focusing to do what you choose and desire to do and honesty. These were values that they passed unto us.

    I would say that my parents gave me the most wonderful gift any child could have. They made me have and believe that I should be confident. They made me to see that I could achieve anything that I set my eyes to do. I grew up believing that there is nothing that I cannot do. Knowing that gave me the confidence to pursue the dreams that I have been having through the years.

    When you look back, what memories of childhood come readily to your mind?

    We used to do lot of drama sketches from popular books then, most especially when we children were on school holidays, it was fun. Incidentally, none of us was interested in taking up career acting in front of the camera. On my part, I developed the creative aspect of me and love creativity. But at the same time, I love to be behind the scene. Even when I was actively involved in film production, I wanted to be behind the camera and not in front of the camera. You have to believe me, I am a very shy person though people don’t believe me when I say so.

    How about your educational background?

    I have a first degree in Bio-Chemistry and a Master Degree in Literature/Creative Writing. The two are far apart. I got a degree in science because I was good in the sciences; I worked in a savings and loan bank for a while before moving to a community bank in Akwa Ibom State. But when I got married, I decided along with my husband, that I should be a stay-at-home mom to personally raise the children. Through those years, I kept on writing because I cannot think of anytime in my life that I was not writing.

    Much later, I found out that it was not just enough to have a talent. So it dawned on me that I ought to also get training in it. Though I did attend one or two courses along the line on writing, but it got to a point where I decided that I should have a professional training. Initially, I was in a dilemma about which school to go to. There was the option of a film school. But then again, I thought that would limit me to writing scripts. I consider myself to be a broad-based writer; I wanted to be able to write different kinds of thing. I had always had that freedom to write anything, so I finally settled for Literature and Creative Writing. I got accepted at Harvard University to study Literature and Creative Arts. The beautiful thing about that was that I was able to take courses in advanced writing, advanced script writing, shorts stories and writing novels. That met with my needs because I didn’t just want to know how to write scripts alone, I wanted to get training in doing every part of writing. So that was what Harvard did for me.

    Tell us about your stay at Harvard.

    First of all, it is a great, fantastic place to study; a place where you get not just the ideal facilities but also a fantastic place in terms of gathering so many fantastic people to be your professors that is lecturers, the best of them teaches you there. I remember my first semester, I did a course in advanced fiction and I was taught by a man who few months after we finished that course won the Pulitzer Prize. So that is what Harvard is about, the people that teach you are the people winning awards in one field or the other. So it is a great place to be. I didn’t see myself there particularly as just an African, though for most of the courses that I took there, I was the only black, the only African. But then, I didn’t think much of it like that because I was there just like any other person. The truth is I felt privileged to attend those classes because I did learn so much there.

    What did you take out of Harvard?

    I don’t know if this was limited to my field or not, but what I loved about Harvard was, we were taught how to write, for instance, scripts by developing them yourself. The same thing went for novels. At the novel class, I had to work on my own novel. The same thing went for short stories. It wasn’t a theoretical thing; it was very much a practical one, after which we critiqued each other’s works. For me, my first degree was far apart from what I went to Harvard to do, so I didn’t have that background in Nigeria and I wouldn’t know because I didn’t study that here. As a person, I think it is a fantastic way to teach people through practical, instead of just reading and reading. So it was a great experience for me being there, I think going to a place like that to study broadened my view and taught me how to dream big and know that there is nothing you cannot do once you set your mind on it.

    You are married, how did you meet your spouse?

    (Laughs) The first time we met was at a fellowship but I didn’t think much about it. I don’t think we talked at our first meeting. It was much later that he came to my office. I was working at the bank then; he asked to take me out for lunch. We ended up postponing the lunch till a much later time. I later got to visit him in his office, though I was initially reluctant about doing that. Incidentally, where he was working was not far from my home. When I got to visit him, I found out that he is a very interesting person to be with. We ended up talking about a lot of things. We spent about two, three hours just gisting. And that was different for me because I had stereotyped Christian guys as being boring people.

    I used to think one could not have a regular conversation with them except to talk about religious things. Though I am a Christian too, but I had always been a fun person who likes to be myself. Since I met him at a fellowship, I had boxed him into that kind of person. Surprisingly, what I saw when I met him was different. I was surprised because we didn’t talk about church or any of such things. We talked about other things and it was even difficult to remember what we were talking about! I enjoyed talking to him. The friendship developed from there.

    There were many things that influenced my choice of a marriage partner: he is a very fantastic person, wonderful, I honestly do not know anybody like him. He is a great person to be with. He wants the best about me, sweet and loving. Of course, he is very good looking too: Though the most important part was that I prayed about it before I got married to him. I was convinced that this is the person that God wanted me to be with. We enjoy a good friendship. We gisted a lot and I’m shy about the telephone bill that I must have been piling for my father way back then because I was still at home. We gisted into the nights, went out on date and amazingly, it is still that way now, though we have now been married for over 18 years. We still enjoy talking to each other; we enjoy each other’s company tremendously.

    How about your family life?

    We are blessed with four fabulous, wonderful children. They are fun kids, two boys and two girls. They take part in what I am doing, I believe so much in team work. The books that I am writing now for My Rainbow Books are all about children. So when I get a story idea, I know that my first audience is the children. So I tell the story to my children first. I then watch to see their reactions. Not just what they say, but also their facial reactions too. That way I get their feedback. When I do not get the right feedback from them, I drop such story idea. That is because as children, they know what appeals to them. They are in position to know what works for them.

    Not just the story alone, even with the illustrations, I call them together to ask what they think of it. For instance, when I was doing ‘the super hero story,’ I called my son and asked him for his idea and illustration of a super hero. From there, I made adjustments. They are greatly involved in my work. And they love what I am doing.

    What is My Rainbow Books about?

    It is an educational publications company that is committed to endearing a reading culture in Nigeria through the publication of well written and properly illustrated story books. We are not a regular publishing house. For instance, you cannot find our books at bookshops because we make customised books. It has to be ordered for weddings, graduation parties, birthday and other celebrations. We do not make books and keep for people to order. Instead, we make books that you order and use immediately. From your order, which comes with details about the child, his or her friends and the pictures, we make personalised books. The book stands out the child as the main character, a hero or heroine as the case may be, while the child’s friends are support characters. The books are also to instill the right values in children. It is also a way of making children to read more and be interested inside of them. It also builds the self-esteem of the child as a hero or heroine. All stories teach values such as team work, honesty, courage and so on. Princess Me, for instance, teaches girls what makes a princess; that being a princess is not just about looking good like the fairy tale princess, but that you have to be kind and have a good heart. Another book The Race is a motivational story and so on.

    Let’s talk about your work environment

    Oh that (laughs cheerfully)? When we were setting up the office at first, we got the regular furniture and furnishing, but I remembered that I am working for children, so it need not be just an office. I wanted it to also be a place that children could come in to read. I therefore had to give out some of the furniture that we had already ordered and got these colourful chairs and table and decided to fix shelves where we could keep different kinds of book for children and where children could walk in and read too.

    At some point, we were running a weekend literary club for children here. But we had to suspend that few months ago because we were so overwhelmed with work. Then we also had the summer camp on our hands. We started a summer camp in 2012 and had another this year. It is not camp for study; it is basically a fun camp for children. We do all kinds of creative activities, the children are taught and given opportunity to make puppets and other creative things like colorful visors, it is a fun camp for art and craft and lasts five weeks. The children always have amazing periods here.

    Obviously, you now have a handful load of things to do with children. What about film production that you have started doing?

    Definitely, I will go back on set sometime in the future. What I am doing right now is very demanding, and I am the type of person that likes giving my best concentration to whatever project that I am handling. I knew that to be able to berth this vision properly, I needed to put a pause on films and other things. But it’s a pause, so sooner or later; I’ll un-pause that button and get back to making films. But this is a very intense project. I do not just write the stories, I also run the company. You know the process of getting a book ready is quite tedious and demanding. When I am through with the story, I have to send to the editor in New York and when that is through, I get in touch with the illustrators and that takes a lot of time. We go back and forth with adjustments until we get it all right. It takes time administering the staff too. So there is no way I could be doing this and making films at the same time. I have to grow this business, have enough hands to run it before I can afford to step back and return to films. I really do love film making though.

    A career as a writer, is it working out for you?

    I will say so far so good, yes it is working out.

    Do you have any memorable holiday?

    I have many memorable holidays. I think my most memorable I can readily think of right now should be the 2008 vacation in the USA. What made it memorable is that we went on a cruise to the Bahamas, and then when we got there, we took another cruise back to the US. It was interesting because that was the first time I was on a cruise and I was there with my husband and children.

    Every vacation has been memorable but I really remember that one. I also remember it because while on the return journey, my second son turned nine and we had a surprise birthday party for him on the cruise. He was very happy, amazed because he didn’t know anything about it. We were all on the dinner table when the cake was brought to him and then everyone was singing happy birthday to him. He was shocked; he didn’t know what to say.

    Your fashion sense…?

    Oh, I’m pretty laid back. I do not think I have much of fashion sense; I am always in jeans. For me, my number one fashion thing is comfort but that doesn’t mean that I do not wear some other things. I love things that fit me and once in a while, I have my real moments when I really dress up for an evening party! My fashion actually depends on my mood. Perhaps I wear more of jeans because I work more with children these days. So I do not feel I have to be in heels or in stilettos and skirt suits. Ha that! I really can’t remember when last I was in something like that.

    Again, right now, my husband and I are involved in a youth church; that encourages much of casual dressing. So I do not feel that I have to be decked up like that.

    Just like my fashion sense, my colour depends on my mood. I love olive green; I think it is a lovely colour. It is everywhere here. For leisure, we go out a lot, sometimes with our children. It depends on what activity we have. I am involved in other things apart from my regular work. For instance, my husband pastors a youth church. Right now, we have a programme called ‘from my closet to your closet.’ Basically it is about people bringing out things that they do not need or have grown out of to give to others. We dry-clean these things and make them available to other people in real need of them.

    I love to spend time with my family, with my husband; we create a lot of fun moment when we are together and we crack jokes and the like. I have a niece staying with us presently, she is a fabulous person. We are all friends, we laugh and clown, and we tease each other a lot. You just have to have a good sense of humour with us. We watch home movies a lot too. We go to the cinema, hang out and do different kinds of stuff. And because the church is a youth church, we are always having all kinds of programme that bring about fun. Sometimes it’s a football match and at other times, we show Christian films. Sometimes too, it’s a dinner.

    What inspires you? Where do you get your motivation from?

    Absolutely, it comes from God. When I get an inspiration, I know it’s Him directing me and showing me what to do. For instance, I had this desire to use writing to influence lives, a desire to get trained on how to write, and at the end of the programme, I had this idea about personalised books. So it’s God that did all that. Interestingly, I used to tell my children bed time stories when they were very young. So it has always been there, but the time was not just right then to birth the dream. God speaks to us in different ways; even when you think that you can’t, God makes a way where there is no way. Once you hold on to God, He gives you a dream.

    I recently had a dream of having a creative competition for children that will lead them to getting published. For a period, I didn’t know how to go about it, but now, I have such tremendous support concerning it. The competition is annually organised by My Rainbow Books Limited to help develop children’s creative thinking and writing skills. It is opened to children aged five to 16 years. Individuals could make an entry or a school could send a group entry. It runs between October and December 31. We would be putting together a compilation of the best entries and publish them. I know it’s God’s favour. I will like to urge everyone to live their lives to the fullest. Everyone is created for a high calling and for a purpose. There’s something you were created to do, when you discover it, it will give meaning to your life. And once you begin to live your life according to the purpose, then you will find fulfillment. To discover purpose, one has to be in line with God.

    Abuja as a place, how does it work for you?

    Though I know I have a bigger market for me in Lagos, which I intend to explore, but what is fantastic about Abuja is that it is central; we can reach to people in the North and other parts of the country easily.