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  • A life well spent

    A life well spent

    The remains of Deaconess Alice Ajoke Olanrewaju, mother of Oluwasesan Olanrewaju, former Special Adviser on Environment to Lagos State governor, were interred penultimate Friday at Atan Cemetery in Yaba, after a funeral service at the United African Methodist Church (UAMC), Ebute-Meta. OLATUNDE ODEBIYI reports.

    It was a celebration of life well spent. The funeral of Mrs Alice Ajoke Olanrewaju was celebrated by her children led by Oluwasesan Olanrewaju, former special Adviser on Environment to Lagos State government. Deaconess Olanrewaju died last November 25. She was 98.

    Some of the guests, who came to pay their respects, wore the uniformed Ankara fabric with orange head gear for the occasion, while others looked gorgeous in their choice outfits.

    The funeral service held at the United African Methodist Church (UAMC) in Ebute-Meta, Lagos State and the church auditorium with its gallery were filled to the brim. Many, who came late, sat outside the church.

    The officiating priest, Bishop of Mainland, UAMC, Rt. Rev Matthew Olakitan began the service by asking the congregation to stand while other priests proceeded to the church’s entrance to usher in the remains of the late Deaconess Olanrewaju.

    Doja Funeral Home, Pall bearers, brought in the late Deaconess’remains in a brown casket which was followed by the priests as they went to the altar amid the rendition of ‘For all the saints, who from their labour rest’, hymn. Family members followed the procession.

    The choir later led the hymn ‘God moves in mysterious ways’ and Rt. Rev Joseph Adedayo of UAMC, Oke-Aarin, took the lesson from Book of Psalm, Chapter 90, verses 1-17.

    In his sermon, Rt. Rev Matthew Ayinde of UAMC Ebute-Meta, said the gathering was to celebrate a good soul, which was the reason her children were dancing and rejoicing.

    He prayed that the children will live well as their mother did.

    He said: “Mama served God well and God will give the children the grace to also serve him well.

    He read from 1Kings, Chapter 2, verses 2 to 3.

    He told the congregation that they would also die someday either rich or poor.

    “You must consider where you are going to spend your eternity. If Jesus comes today to take us, where will you go? Change your ways and follow God,” he said.

    After the service, some of the guests moved to Atan Cemetery in Yaba, Lagos where Deaconess Olanrewaju’s remains were interred around 2:22pm.

    The congregation and guests later moved to Federal College of Education, Akoka, Lagos, for the reception.

    The hall and the additional tents were decorated in Orange and White, and they were filled to capacity.

    Virtually all the children and the grand children did not sit down throughout the reception.They were moving round tables attending to guests.

    Oluwasesan, son of the deceased, said his mother was everything to him when she was alive.

    “Mama was caring and loved all her children, grand children and great grand children. She did a lot for us and we really thank God for her. She rallied round everybody even to the detriment of her own well being. She took care of all,” he said.

    He added: “My most memorable moment with her was when I was in school and she will give me lots of food stuff. She even did same for my children when they were going abroad to further their studies.”

    The daughter of the deceased, Mrs Olufunmilayo Labiran, a retired Nurse from the University Teaching Hospital (UCH), Oyo State, described her mother as a disciplinarian.

    Referring to her late mother using the present tense, she said: “She is generous and a good giver. She gives to everybody even at her own detriment. I will miss her prayers. “

    The late Deaconess Olanrewaju’s granddaughter, Yewande Olanrewaju, described her grandmother as wonderful, one in a million woman, who would not discriminate.

    “Grandma has been supportive since my father, Pa Emmanuel Olakunle Olanrewaju died,” she said.

    Obanikoro of Lagos, Oloye Adesiji Ajayi Bembe, who graced the occasion, said the deceased late husband was his uncle. He said the late Deaconess was a good mother who loved all without discrimination.

    The Ojora of Lagos, Oloye Nurudeen Olubiyi Agoro, said the deceased was a nice woman and worthy of emulation. “She served God to her last moment,” he said.

    Special Adviser to Governor Fashola on Education, Otunba Fatai Olukoga, said the deceased loved children and was kind to all. He said she had a good heart and did well for her children and everybody around her.

  • Ex-Lagos Perm Sec dies in London

    Ex-Lagos Perm Sec dies in London

    A retired Permanent Secretary/Tutor-General in the Lagos State Ministry of Education Alhaja Teslimat Mosunmola Akinwade is dead.

    Alhaja Akinwande who passed on in London penultimate Monday was 55.

    At a prayer held for her in her Agege residence same Monday evening, a former member of the Lagos State House of Assembly (LAHA) and LAHA Chief Imam, Hon. Abdulhakeem Abdullateef said the nation has lost a great woman.

    He described her as a committed and devouted Muslim.

    “Alhaja Akinwade,” he said, “had a keen taste for decency, honesty and integrity in following the injunctions of Allah and the traditions of Prophet Muhammad. She was a community developer who brought about peaceful co-existence among members of her community and she always interacted well with the needy. She was also committed to learning more about her religion. She was a role model to a lot of people”

    He prayed Allah to forgive her sins and grant her Jannah (paradise).

    Abdullateef urged Muslims to always do good deeds bearing in mind that death is certain.

    The former lawmaker told the congregation that the purpose of creation is to worship Allah.

    “We are all going to become history one day and after a while, people would stop talking about us. Always seek repentance no matter how much your sins are. Allah always forgives for His mercy prevails over His wrath,” he said.

    The deceased former Personal Assistant, Mr Sulaiman Ogunmuyiwa described her as an extraordinarily good person.

    “I worked with her from 2005 to 2009 and I cannot think of any fault in her actions. She was always ready to assist people and touched lives of many. Her humility in discharging her duties was unequalled,” Ogunmuyiwa said.

    The Muslim Students’ Society of Nigeria (MSSN) Lagos State Area Unit in a condolence message also prayed Allah forgive her, shower His mercy on her and place her among the righteous.

    A statement by the Amir (President) Kaamil Kalejaiye said:“Alhaja Akinwande is no more but her righteousness and doggedness for Islam and Muslim remain and will be remembered; what do you want to be your remain after your demise? My brethren, let fear Allah and be righteous both in the open and secret.”

    Kalejaiye called on people in governance to emulate the deceased’s simple lifestyle and accountability.

  • Pomp as LASUTH CMD’s daughter quits spinsterhood

    Pomp as LASUTH CMD’s daughter quits spinsterhood

    Lola, daughter of the Chief Medical Director (CMD), Lagos State University Teaching Hospital (LASUTH), Prof Adewale Oke, has tied the knot with her beau, Adedayo Aluko, writes PRECIOUS IGBONWELUNDU.

    It had all the trappings of a society wedding. Exotic cars, classy venues and ‘A’ list guests. Last Saturday, the high and mighty turned up at the wedding of Lola, daughter of Chief Medical Director (CMD) Lagos State University Teaching Hospital (LASUTH) Prof Adewale Oke and her beau Adedayo Aluko at the Catholic Church of Presentation on Oba Akinjobi Way, GRA Ikeja.

    The reception was held at  The Haven Events Centre also on the same street.

    The church’s parking lot was full before the mass started.

    Dressed in an immaculate white flowing gown with silver accessories, the bride was all smiles as she clung to her husband throughout the event, which had guests such as Oba Rilwan Akiolu of Lagos; Chairman, Zenith Bank Chief Steve Omojafor, Governor Babatunde Fashola’s mother, Mrs Omolara Fashola and Madam Olabisi Jolaosho.

    The ensembles in the marquee had a touch of glamour. The décor was a blend of class and royalty with the beautifully lit hall divided into two sections for the comfort of guests of each family.

    While Oke’s guests were ushered to take their seat on the right side of the hall, those who honoured Aluko family with their presence were seated on the left side.

    Neatly dressed and delectable ushers stood beside each table in the about a thousand capacity hall, attending to requests from the guests while awaiting the commencement of the reception.

    Food and drinks were inexhaustible and guests were served as many times as they requested. The live Band and the Master of Ceremony (MC) delivered on their contracts as beautiful renditions and rib-cracking jokes kept everyone present busy while waiting for the couple to arrive the hall.

    As the crowd anxiously waited for the newlywed to mount their thrown-like seats, ushers on instruction, walked through the aisle to appeal to bystanders to give way for the couple and the bridal train to dance and walk through.

    The love-birds still clinging to each other, danced to D’Banj’s hit song, “You don make me fall in love”, and other contemporary Nigerian music, occasionally waving at those who came to celebrate them.

    The reception eventually commenced with an opening prayer led by a Catholic Priest, Rev. Edmond Akpala, after the parents of the bride and groom had danced, separately, to the high table accompanied by their friends and the couple received royal blessings from the monarch.

    Omojafor, who chaired the occasion, described the union as a celebration of love.

    He admonished the couple to take the advice given by the Priest seriously, adding that they must commit themselves to making their marriage work.

    “He who finds a good wife has his days longer. The couple did their home work well to discover each other. I pray God will guide, protect and provide for them so they live a good life.

    He warned them that a time will come when a little problem will ensue, noting that they must solve it on their own and find a solution.

    “Not even your parents will help. Pray all the time because it will give you all you need to live a happy life. Marriage is not all about money. Leave your friends out of your intimate life,” said Omojafor.

    After the chairman’s remark, the couple cut their wedding cake and had their first dance, with the bride out-shining the groom with her dance moves.

    There was also dance time for the bride and her father, after which the bridal train struggled for the bouquet and all present toasted towards a beautiful and fulfilling union for the couple.

    During an interview after the mass, the bride’s father, Prof Oke said he was happy his daughter has found happiness, though he would miss her.

    “For me, it is a day of mixed feelings. I am very happy as a father that my daughter has found happiness. I will miss her presence in the house, but I know that is how God wants it. From what I have seen between them, they are going to be living fine,” he said.

    The groom said he was captivated by his bride’s beautiful smile the first time they met.

    “I met my wife in Bowen University in 2003. I was attracted by her smile and beauty. I proposed to her in my room, just the two of us. It was just a romantic time in the house. I am happy our relationship has blossomed into marriage and I am grateful to her for accepting to make me the happiest man,” he said.

    Lola was also full of praises for her husband, describing him as “a wonderful person”.

  • Lending a helping hand

    Lending a helping hand

    Hug For the Needy Foundation, a non-governmental organisation (NGO), that caters for widows and orphans, was born last Saturday at Neca Event Hub in Alausa, Ikeja, Lagos State. SAFIYYAH ABDUR-RAZAQ writes.

    For the President of Hug For the Needy Foundation, Pastor Felix Olorundamilola, it was a day of fulfilment. It was the official launch of the foundation and the celebration of his 50th birthday.

    The NECA Event Hub in Alausa, Ikeja, Lagos State was tastefully decorated in blue and white for the twin event.

    The celebrator was dressed in black suit, his wife, Oluwafunmilayo, dazzled in black dress and blue jewelry, with matching shoes.

    The Chairman on the occasion, Pastor Peter Oludipe, urged the guests to do good.

    He said: “What you do in life is what people would say about you when you die.”

    The celebrator’s wife assisted him to cut his 50th birthday cake.

    It was followed by the inauguration of the four-member board of trustees for the foundation.

    Inaugurating the board, Pastor Oludipe said: “The poor would never cease to exist in the land. It is part and parcel of this day. I pray that God should use you to be a blessing to people around you.”

    The celebrator appreciated his guests for coming and said he was using the opportunity of his birthday to make the foundation public and to raise funds.

    He said: “The foundation was founded in October 2009 and has been running on private funding. I am using the occasion of the birthday to make it as public as it can be and to inaugurate the members of the board of trustees.

    He said he feels great, good and happy that he is able to make 50.

    “I have always thought of 50 as too far. Now that I have made it, I am grateful,” he said.

    He said he is not completely fulfilled because his foundation has not been thriving as much as he would like.

    He said the NGO has been using private funds in the past five years, noting that it needs to attract public funds and philanthropic organisations to help it.

    He urged Nigerian youths not to lose hope easily.

    “Nigerian youths should not lose hope. They should not give up. There are public-spirited people out there that are ready to assist,” he said.

    The board of trustees Chairman, Pastor Simeon Afolabi  said the foundation was established to assist the widows, helpless and the needy in the society.

    “The foundation is there to lend them a helping hand and provide for their basic needs”

    He described the celebrator as a man that has passion for the poor and needy in the society.

  • ‘A generous soul departs’

    ‘A generous soul departs’

    The remains of Pa Elkanah Olatunji Kobnah Williams, father of Mrs Olanike Disu, director in the Lagos State Board of Internal Revenue (LSBIR), have been buried after a funeral service at the St. David’s Anglican Church, Lafiaji, Lagos. JOSEPH JIBUEZE, was there.

    The late Pa Elkanah Olatunji Kobnah Williams was many things to many people. He was a loving father to his children, a dependable ally to his friends and a supportive grandfather to his grand-children, who found him approachable. His death was a shock to those who knew him.

    Though sad, the family is consoled that he lived a fulfilled life.

    Born to a Ghanaian mother and a Nigerian father on February 6, 1928, the late Williams began his career in maritime at Elder Dempster Shipping Lines. He also worked at Transcot, before joining the Nigerian Ports Authority (NPA) in 1957.

    He was a staunch member of the St David’s Anglican Church in Lafiaji on Lagos Island. He was a chorister for 42 years, and a member of the parish council.

    The late Williams is survived by Margaret, his wife of 62 years; children, grand-children, brothers, sisters, nephews and nieces.

    He was interred at the Ikoyi Cemetery in Lagos after the funeral service. Reception follwed at the City Hall on Catholic Mission Street, Lagos Island.

    The setting oozed class. The glittering expansive hall was decorated with white drapes, hanging round the walls and across the hall.

    The tables had an assortment of grey, red and white linen overlays; gold-coloured stands  added beauty to the setting.

    The day’s colour was royal blue, white and tomato red. Many men and women turned out in eye-catching attires.

    At the service, a moment of silence was observed, while hymns were sung, including the late Williams’ favourite (I.O.M 309), which was rendered by the children.

    Venerable Jide Adebayo, who gave the sermon titled: ‘Two sides of the gospel”, said the late Williams was the “father of the church cathedral”.

    He said the family could take comfort in the knowledge that their father knew Christ while alive. The preacher urged the mourners to repent. “Repentance is key. Without it there can be no forgiveness,” Adebayo said.

    According to him, death is a sign of God’s sovereignty. Man, he said, may be rich and wise, but “the Joker of life is in God’s hands.”

    He said death comes to both the young and the old, but everyone would answer to God on how they lived.

    “One day we’ll say bye-bye to this world. Death is inevitable; the only thing that is uncertain is when it will come. My prayer is that God will give you enough years in your life to make amends,” the venerable said.

    He described the late Williams as a forthright man who fought passionately for any cause he believed in.

    “He was a proper ‘Omo Eko’, but he had listening ears. He was always at the Elders’ Bible study. He was a man known for honesty and was so well-respected and celebrated,” Adebayo added.

    His first son, Tunde, said his father cared for his family till death.

    “He is a mother in a father’s image (like a foul to her chicks). He was a defender of the weak, and fought other people’s fight when cheated,” he said.

    The late Williams’ daughters, Mrs Ronke Adewale and Mrs Olanike Disu, in their tributes, described their father as very caring.

    “He loved to a fault. He lived a life of sacrifice. He was kind hearted, humble, a good and loving husband to his wife and a caring father to his children,” Mrs Adewale said.

    For Mrs Disu, who is a director in the Lagos Board of Internal Revenue, her father’s life was full of loving deeds.

    “I remember days he went to work even when he didn’t feel well just to make some extra money for his family.

    “Education meant so much to him such that he used his land at Ijeshatedo (Lagos) as collateral for a loan to pay my fees while I studied in the university in the United States,” she recalled.

    The late Williams’ grandchildren also had fond memories of him. His grand-daughter, Omoyeni Disu wrote: “My ice cream partner as I always call him, always readily available to have ice cream and cake with me while we sit and talk about the most random things from clothes to women and politics, it was never a dull moment with grand-pa.”

    The late Williams studied at the St Saviour High School and St Gregory’s College, Obalende, where he sat for and obtained his Cambridge certificate. He retired from NPA in 1988 after 31 years of service.

  • A governor’s last seasonal act

    A governor’s last seasonal act

    Lagos State Governor, Babatunde Raji Fashola (SAN) last Sunday hosted the yearly Thanksgiving Service at the Open Grounds of the Lagos House at Alausa, Ikeja. It is the last time he will be doing so as governor as his eight-year tenure ends on May 29. The event attracted A list personalities, writes MIRIAM EKENE-OKORO

    It was his valedictory yearly Thanksgiving Service as governor of Lagos State. Last Sunday, Governor Babatunde Raji Fashola (SAN) was in his element as he hosted the colourful event on the open grounds of the Lagos House at Alausa, Ikeja. The event attracted Politicians, Christian leaders and captains of industry.

    Among those in attendance  were the All Progressives Congress (APC)  presidential candidate, Muhammadu Buhari, his running mate, Prof Yemi Osinbajo (SAN), and APC governorship candidate Akinwunmi Ambode.

    Guests began to file into the large field at 3pm.

    The background decorations, showcasing the predominant colours of the state caught guests’ attention, as they walked in.

    The entrance of Governor,  Fashola, his deputy, Princess Adejoke Orelope-Adefulire, Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG) General Overseer, Pastor Enoch Adeboye, his wife, Folu and other top dignitaries about 4.30pm signalled the start of the service.

    It began with an opening prayer by Rev Ephriam Ademowo; it was followed by praise and worship by one of the invited artistes.

    The 15-minute praise and worship ignited the atmosphere as guests danced and gave thanks to God.

    Governor Fashola flowed with the mood. In his welcome address, he tested his vocal skills as he sang a song in “Yoruba titled Oye ka dupe meaning ‘we must give thanks, to the admiration of guests.

    He also noted the excitement of some dignitaries, particularly former Commissioner for Women Affairs and APC Women Leader Mrs Kemi Nelson, who danced to her heart’s content.

    Fashola was nostalgic, recalling when the first service was held during the administration of his predecessor.

    “I can see some of the people here  today who were with us then when the first thanksgiving service under the administration of my predecessor was held. And it gives me joy to see that we have continued with this trend.

    “It was just like yesterday that we all gathered here on January 5, 2014 to give thanks in an annual tradition that has now survived one and a half decades.

    “Today, 364 days after, when girls have disappeared without trace, bombs have exploded in mindless orgies of violence. Nigerian towns and villages have been sacked. Our brothers and sisters have been displaced from their homes. Young children have died in stampedes while looking for jobs.

    “Some of our brothers and sisters in the military have lost their lives while trying to defend you and I and the Fatherland.

    “I ask you all what else we can do than to give thanks, express our gratitude and praise God for surviving.

    “We are alive not because we are better, we are alive because of grace and mercy, and we must never take it for granted.”

    He said there were many things to be thankful to God for in 2014, adding that our appreciation must be reflected in our gratitude.

    Governor Fashola said while some parts of West Africa today, are battling the deadly Ebola Virus disease, God gave the state victory over the disease.

    “These countries are smaller than Lagos, Lagos is in fact bigger than many of them combined.

    “Yet the same virus afflicted us, we sadly lost 13 lives, but today we are not under lock down.

    “We can sit side-by-side, we can shake hands and we can move freely.

    “Again there was grace, there was a coming together across ethnic, religious and government levels to address a common problem.

    “This lesson is important for all of us to remember in 2015.”

    In his sermon titled: ‘Jesus the Truth’, Pastor Adeboye charged the congregation to recognise that God is greater than any challenge that might confront them in the year.

    He enjoined Nigerians to embrace God and ask for His mercies, adding that it is the only way to ensure continued peace and harmony in the face of societal ills.

    He prayed for the continued peace and unity of Nigeria particularly the conduct of next month’s elections Pastor Adeboye urged the Almighty God to grant the nation the grace to conduct peaceful elections that would produce credible leaders.  Wife of the governor Dame Emmanuella Abimbola Fashola, Mrs Orelope-Adefulire, the Chief Judge, Justice Olufunmilayo Atilade and wife of the House of Assembly Speaker, Mrs Mayowa Ikuforiji read some Bible passages.

    Special prayers were said for the Governor and his family, Lagos State Government, civil servants, local governments and legislature, security services, children and youths and for peace to reign during the elections.

    Musical performance by the RCCG and DayStar Christian Centre mass choirs added colour to the service.

    Others present were some members of the State Executive Council, including the Commissioner for Budget and Economic Planning, Mr. Ben Akabueze; former governors of the State, Brig. Gen. Mobolaji Johnson; Alhaji Lateef Jakande and Rear Admiral Ndubuisi Kanu, Rivers State Governor Rotimi Amaechi, APC Chairman, John Odigie-Oyegun, APC National Publicity Secretary, Lai Mohamed.

    General Overseer of The Redeemed Evangelical Mission  (TREM), Bishop Mike Okonkwo; Most Reverend Samuel Chukwuemeka Kalu; Mrs Mercy Ezekiel.

  • ‘Fanciful’ Fassy at 60

    ‘Fanciful’ Fassy at 60

    Dr Fassy Adetokunboh Yusuf, the Baagbimo of Ijebu and a lecturer at the University of Lagos, marked his 60th birthday last Saturday at the Grand Inn and Suites in Ijebu-Ode, Ogun State. AMIDU ARIJE and SAFIYYAH ABDUR-RAZAQ were there.

    The auditorium of the Grand Inn and Suites in Ijebu-Ode, Ogun State was tastefully decorated in blue and butter colours last Saturday. The high table was set against a backdrop of glittering white and gold colours. The chairs were adorned in blue and white; the tables in blue and butter colours, with white lace covers.

    Gorgeously dressed guests came in exotic automobiles.

    It was all for Dr Fassy Adetokunboh Yusuf, the Baagbimo of Ijebu and a lecturer at the University of Lagos (UNILAG) as he joined the sexagenarians club.

    January 3 will remain memorable for him and members of his family.

    Anchored by the trio of Alhaji Tunde Emilola-Gazal, Alhaji Adebayo Agbabiaka and Alhaji Gbenga Oladunni, the birthday bash began with a special prayer and recitation of the Qur’an by a team of Alfas led by the Chief Imam of Ijebuland, Alhaji AbdulRasak Salaudeen. It was followed by lectures by the Dean, College of Humanities, Tai Solarin University of Education, Prof Ibrahim Alani Seriki and Catholic Bishop of Ijebu Diocese, Bishop Albert Ayinde Fasina.

    Prof Seriki, in his paper, titled: The essence of life, explained that the essence of human creation is to worship God according to the Qur’an.

    “The purpose for which mankind was created is to worship God. To achieve this purpose, man must constantly maintain absolute faith in God and depend on Him in all his affairs,” he said.

    Bishop Fasina who spoke on Life is a Gift from God, said humans must be forever grateful.

    “Life is a gift from a benevolent God to whom we must show appreciation for such graciousness. The deliberate or unintended failure to show appreciation for such gift only shows the depth of man’s ingratitude. Our gratitude to God for the wonder of our being is determined by the quality of life we live,” the clergy said.

    After the lecture, the celebrator left the auditorium to change his clothes.

    Dancers from Itsekiri kept the hall lively with sterling performance. At the end of the interlude, the celebrator, Dr Yusuf, returned to the hall looking elegant in a striking cream coloured buba, agbada and sokoto. He donned a matching cream-coloured cap and red chieftaincy beads.

    The reception began in earnest.

    The event was chaired by a retired Chief Judge of Ogun State, Demola Bakre, who extolled the virtues of the celebrator.

    He said: “As a commissioner in Ogun State, Fassy was humble. He is versatile. He is an example of a good Ogun man. He mixes with the Yewas, Remos, Egbas and Ijebus. I am not old enough to be his father but he calls me Daddy.”

    After the chairman’s speech came the toast to the celebrator. The toast was led by the Giwa of Bobagbimo Akile Ijebuland, Otunba Deji Oshibogun. Before he gave the toast, he invited all members of the Bobagbimo Akile to recite the anthem of the group. They trooped out in their deep blue agbadas and matching caps.

    After reciting the anthem, Otunba Oshibogun gave the toast.

    “Fassy,” he said “is a very honest individual. Back in the days, he was always fighting for the oppressed. He is a Dangote of academics. The God that brought you forth would preserve your life. A toast to you at 60; may all your five senses never fail you.”

    After this came comments from other guests present. The first comment came from Senator Femi Lanlehin, who said the celebrator has always been fascinated by law. “He is always there for his friends and a very hardworking lawyer,” Senator Lanlehin said.

    Head of Mass Communication Department, University of Lagos, Prof Ralph Akinfeleye described Chief Yusuf as a humble person.

    “He is not only a fanciful person,” Akinfeleye said; “he is very humble, very friendly, fantastic, fabulous and a fellow of so many organisations; he is also a fighter for justice. He is a celebrated finisher who is highly dedicated to academic excellence.”

    Dr Yusuf’s wife, Princess Moriamo, described him as her everything.

    “He is my brother and mentor. He is a very restless man academically and community wise. He is very nice and lovely husband,” she said.

    Justice Bakre later supervised the cutting of the cake. The cake had four tiers of law books on top of which a lawyer’s wig was designed. The front of the cake depicted the scale of justice. The celebrator cut the cake with his wife, children, friends and members of Bobagbimo Akile.

    After cutting the cake, the celebrator opened the dance floor with his wife. After the first two songs, others joined in.

    Speaking with The Nation, Dr Yusuf, who was recently decorated as Baba Adinni of Obanikoro Central Mosque, expressed his gratitude to the Almighty.

    He said: “I feel great and thank God for the little I have been able to achieve. For His benevolence, blessings for all He has done for me. I have not passed through any turbulence. An adage says, “May your road be rough”. It was rough for Jesus Christ. It was rough for the Holy Prophet Muhammad. If you ask the President, he would tell you it is rough; if you ask our governor, Ibikunle Amosun, he would tell you the same. As an ordinary citizen, I did not expect life to be a bed of roses. There are challenges in life. I have learnt to face them in good faith.”

    The sexagenarian urged Nigerian to be prayerful, persistent and to always pray to God for guidance.

    “My wish for Nigeria is that Nigeria should return to the path of development, excellence, and a nation that is ready to hold itself among the comity of nations so that we would all have a fulfilled life,” he said.

    Dignitaries at the birthday include: Awujale of Ijebu, Oba Sikiru Adetona; his senior wife, Olori Iyabo; Senator AbdulRahman Olalekan Mustafa; Vice Chancellor, University of Lagos, Prof Rahamon Bello;  Prince Tola Oyegbemi; Ogun State Accountant General, Mr Seye Shefiu; Otunba Abdulfatai Arowolo; Otunba Busurah Alebiosu; Alhaji Umar Saro and Chief Imam Obanikoro Central Mosque, Alhaji Mukaila Eyiowuawi.

  • Start right in 2015

    Happy New Year to you and your wonderful family. I believe last year was a fulfilling year for you. May you change level positively and progress speedily this year. Year 2014 was a delightful year for us on this column. We examined several topics on the need to communicate effectively. We focused on types of speeches, making the audience our priority and making ourselves acceptable to our listeners.

    This New Year, I believe it is very important for us to have a solid start with specific objectives in mind. Communication is very important; you communicate whether you want to or not. Just as you make major plans at the beginning of the year, which some refer to as New Year resolution, you should also have major plans for your communication and interaction with other people. By now, I’m sure you will agree with me that there is nothing casual about communication. We cannot continue to do the same thing and expect a different result. If indeed we want this year to be far better than last year, we have to deliberately aim at effective and contribution-oriented communication.  Today, therefore, I want to suggest a few areas in your life in which you should try to start right in 2015.

    •Personal Life: I dare to say that this is one of the most important areas in which you need to deliberately manage your communication. This area represents your comfort zone. It represents your life when you think no one is watching. It is your life when you let down your guard. It is your life when you think you are not being scrutinized or judged. The strange thing is that, it is also your life, which you don’t want the public to know about.

    There are several people who become something else when they are with “outsiders!” They change so drastically that their families don’t recognize them anymore. Some people are nicer to none family members because they want to put their best foot forward. Usually, loved ones are the victims of this kind of communication or failed communication. This kind of communication is selfish, however. Yes, it is selfish because they believe there is nothing their families can give them that they don’t have already, so, they focus on outsiders who can be of “benefit” to them. Whereas, a lot of times, they have their families and loved ones to thank for whatever they become in life.

    On the other extreme, we have people who entirely focus on their families. Any benefit that should go to other people is diverted “home.” Well, there are more people outside their families than inside, so, sooner or later, they will need help from others. So, what do I advocate? Be good to everybody. Be yourself inside and outside. Know that whatever you do or say communicates something to everyone around you. They either believe that you are a responsible and reliable person to deal with, or they feel that you are better avoided. Remember, if you don’t have people’s respect and trust, they will never listen to you as a public speaker. As a speaker, your first agenda must be to develop your character, and then you can focus on contributing to other people.

    •Business:  ok, I agree that I am not your regular business consultant. I may not even have the slightest idea of how to do your kind of business. But I know that they say “customer is king!” Yes, you may tell me how annoying your clients or customers tend to be. In fact, I agree that sometimes, it seems like they actually set out from home to upset you. Nevertheless, that is all part of the ‘fun’ of having a business. Work will be so boring if you meet the same type of people every day.

    What if you decide to make difficult customers or clients a major target in your business? You can determine that you will make every customer smile about one thing or the other while being attended to. This, of course, does not make you a clown; it just means that you are going the extra mile to make your customers like you and what you have to offer.

    •Academics: For students, it is extremely important to develop an effective communication system this year. If you have worked really hard in the past and your results did not justify your efforts, then you need to change your strategy. I believe it is not enough to study a subject, it is perhaps more important to study the teacher. Some teachers don’t like lengthy explanations in exams while some others would not be satisfied until you have used several pages. This crystallizes the fact that no two people are the same. You must learn to communicate with each teacher on his/her own terms. Again, some students are very intelligent in oral discussions but they are just not good enough in written work. If you fall in this category, task yourself to write five times more than you are required to in class and have people read it for you. As they correct you, learn what it takes to communicate your ideas to other people effectively.

    •Career:  the workplace is a very dynamic place. It is very important that you learn to communicate with three valuable categories of people; your superiors, your colleagues and your subordinates. Mutual respect is one of the best ways to communicate friendship. When it comes to your superiors, they read both your verbal and nonverbal cues. They can tell when you don’t like the job, when you don’t like them, when you are being lazy, etc. The best way to impress your superiors this year is to change your attitude to your work; love what you do (even if you have plans to move on soon). Your colleagues are also very important because you work with them on the same team a lot. As for your subordinates, if you underestimate them, it is at your own expense. If you care for and respect them, they will go out of their way to help you if ever you need their help.

  • Honour for the home boy

    Honour for the home boy

    Eighty-two monarchs gathered in Mbosi in Ihiala Local Government Area of Anambra State to confer two chieftaincy titles, Ide of Ihiala and Obata Obie of Mbosi, on an illustrious son, Allen Ifechukwu Onyema, the Chairman of Air Peace Airlines.  KELVIN OSA OKUNBOR writes.

    or three years, he politely turned down the offer. But after due consultations, the Chairman of Air Peace Airlines, Allen Ifechukwu Onyema, accepted the offer. Last December 30, he heeded the call of his community, Mbosi, and the 10 towns in Ihiala  Local Government Area of Anambra State, to receive two chieftaincy titles.

    The event attracted the crème de la crème from the business world, diplomatic corps, politics, entertainment, banking and aviation.

    The event had the trappings of royalty, as the lawyer cum businessman pulled who-is-who in Anambra and beyond to his community, contributions.

    Decked in red attire with other accoutrements of royalty-staff of office, a red cap decorated with feathers to match-Onyema with his wife, Alice, marched to the palace of the traditional ruler of Mbosi to perform the traditional rites.

    They were welcomed by Ozo, title holders and some villagers, who blew flutes and traditional gun shots to herald their decoration as one of the most influential chiefs in the community.

    Amid tight security, guests were welcomed into the Onyema’s expansive country home, which is a study in architecture, as music supplied from various cultural dance bands rent the air.

    To demonstrate the celebrator’s detribalised nature, the chieftaincy awards on Onyema drew the cream of personalities from other parts of the country, including the former president of the Ijaw Youth Council, Dr Chris Ekiyor and the President of Arewa Transformation and Empowerment Initiative, Alhaji Mohammed Danjuma, a long-time friend of the celebrator.

    There was representation from Kogi State, where Onyema’s wife, Alice hails from.

    A battery of elegantly dressed women from Igala decked in white blouses and red wrappers complementing jewellery. Middle aged men were visible at the event to support their son–in-law.

    The monarchs made up of all Igwes in Ihiala Local Government Area of the state gathered at the event, witnessed by over 70 other traditional rulers from the South-East, to decorate Onyema for his sterling contributions to the development of the community.

    Speaking on behalf of the Igwes, The Ezeoha of Isseke, Igwe Emmanuel Nnabuife said Onyema deserved the honour. The Oluoha of Ihiala, Igwe Cosmas Okechukwu, also noted the contributions of Ide Onyema to the peace and stability of the community.

    Special Adviser to the President on Niger Delta Matters, Hon Kingsley Kuku, described the chieftaincy title to noteworthy.

    Waxing proverbially, Kuku said like the prophet, who is not honoured by his people, the Ihiala community had reversed the trend by recognising one of their own.

    Kuku urged Onyema to see the title as a clarion call to do more for his community.

    The Special Assistant on Special Duties to Presidential Amnesty Programme Chairman, Chief Henry Ugbolue, described, Onyema as a distinguished indigene any community would be proud to have and.

    Ugbolue said Onyema is a worthy Nigerian who contributed immensely to the return of peace in the hitherto restive Niger Delta region in the demobilisation and reintegration of ex- agitators in the region.

    Overwhelmed by the out-pouring of emotions, Onyema thanked the traditional rulers for the honour. He said it took three years to convince him to accept the chieftaincy.

    “I always like to assist my community in my own way without making noise in appreciation of the blessings God had bestowed on me,” he said.

    He promised to use the Ozo title to uphold justice and truth in his Mbosi community.

    He said: “I am grateful to the entire community for the honour. I am grateful to God for His blessings upon my life and how he has assisted me to give back to my community, which truly appreciates. I will use this opportunity to further strengthen the bond between me and my people as far as it does not infringe on my Christian faith.”

    His wife, Alice, described the chieftaincy title as a call to service.

    Ace comedian, Okey Bakassi and Nollywood Star, Mr Kanayo O.  Kanayo were on hand to compere. Superstar musician, the Limpopo King, KCEE led an array of other musicians who performed at the event.

    Also at the event were representatives of the United States Embassy led by Tom Heines; officials of Air Peace led by the Chief Operating Officer, Mrs Toyin Olajide.

    Others were staff of the Foundation for Ethnic Harmony in Nigeria (FEHN); former managing director, Niger Delta Development Commission (NDDC), Mr Timi Aliabe , was represented. The celebrant’s friend, Chief Obi Kings, the Gburu Gbururu of Ihiala LGA was also present. Besides, members of the religious community were not left out.

  • Honour well deserved

    Last Sunday, the Eko Renaissance Group, held a meritious service/award to wrap up the year. Ten illustrious sons and daughters were honoured, reports NNEKA NWANERI.

    Eko Renaissance Group, an indigenous group, comprising of career young men from Lagos State indigene, was formed to protect the interest of its members in Nigeria and abroad. As depicted from the name – Eko – means only men and women of Lagos origin are qualified to be members.

    For 15 years, the association has waxed strong with membership strength of over 50. Last Sunday at the Campus Mini Stadium on Lagos Island, they stepped out for yet another occasion. It was a day to reward excellence in service delivery to humanity as well as hold a sort of end of the year party.

    Decked in well starched white sokoto and shirt and blue aso oke caps, they gathered to celebrate their partners and those who have done outstandingly well. according to the President of the Eko Renaissance Group, the spectrum of those awarded are people that have distinguished themselves in their career, and have been of tremendous service to those around them.

    Though it wasn’t a large gathering, it comprised people of substance and calibre. well organised and precise, they went straight for the business of the day after an opening prayer led by the Chairman of the Lagos Muslims Pilgrims Board and lecturer at the Lagos State University (LASU), Dr Kabiru Paramole. He led others in reciting the Suratul Fathia from the Quran.

    Dr Paramole wore a double cap; the guest speaker cum representative of Lagos Commissioner for Home Affairs and Culture, Hon Oyinlomo Danmole, the Chairman on the occasion. He urged all to live lives of legacy to find favour before God and men.

    He said: “Let us all impact positively in our neighbour’s lives and be supportive to all humans, because whatever we do today will be history tomorrow. God watches all we do”.

    The group’s president, Mr Babatunde Onigbanjo, in a welcome address said, there is more to the gathering than honouring people. The group seeks to promote the interest of its members in the public and private sectors across the tiers of government.

    “We are here to curtail marginalisation in organisations and to this, a lot of people have benefitted from us. Many people have benefitted from these 10 and it is for this that we are rewarding them, the award will also encourage them not to relent but keep doing more for humanity and be a clarion call for or members and guests to rise to the challenge”.

    The Distinguished Administrator of the year award was bagged by Mr Razaq Amodu, who served as the council manager in Ikoyi-Obalende Local Government and now is Council Manager for Somolu Local Government.

    A post-humous award was given to the late Comrade Joseph Ajasa, who was described as a dogged fighter, who contributed tremendously. Onigbanjo, who spoke on behalf of other members of the club, said not giving him the award will be a great injustice considering the effort and zeal he put in the past.

    “His effort cannot be in vain because he is an aluta man to the core and really deserves this award,” he said.

    While presenting the award to the widow of the late Ajasa, Anthonia, one of the new men of bench in the Lagos State High Court, Justice Abisoye Jubril Bashua, said the event was his first official duty as a Lagos State Judge.

    Others were: Mrs Florence Omotunde-Peters, who is the Oriade LocaL Government Council Manager won the Distinguished Special Administration award; the Permanent Secretary of the Lagos State Teachers Establishment and Pensions Commission, Otunba Nurudeen Ojora-Adejiyan bagged an award in recognition of his leadership role in Lagos State as well as another retiree of the Lagos Civil Service, Mrs Basirat Akinsanya.

    Amodu, who spoke on behalf of the awardees, thanked the organisers for a job well done.

    Secretary to the Lagos Muslim Welfare Pilgrims Board, Mr Kamal Sanusi, in a goodwill message accorded the group for impacting positively to the affairs of the government and all should see the essence of the group as a challenge to help the government be better.

    The musical interlude lasted into the night as members engaged their guests in wining and dining.