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  • Adapting to your audience and situation

    Since we began our discussions on public speaking and communication generally, we have tried to avoid unforeseen circumstances. We have even tried to plan for situations that are unexpected. For instance, we agreed that impromptu speeches are speeches that you are given little or no time to prepare for, yet, we still came up with a strategy to beat that. However, can we beat every single situation? Can we come up with strategies for everything? I’m sure you will agree with me that the answer is no! We can’t always predict or anticipate what we may encounter. So, what do we do? We must learn to adapt.

    Sometime in 2011, I joined a team to organize a vocational training for members of a church in Lagos. Of course, I was to train on public speaking. As should be expected, I wanted to know ahead of time the kind of audience I would be encountering; so, I inquired from the leader of our team. He assured me that the programme was organized by the Youths Association. So, I used the information to prepare for the training.

    When we arrived at the venue, I noticed something strange- there were several elderly people there too! Nevertheless, I consoled myself that they probably came to see what the youths were up to and give them moral support. At the opening ceremony, we, the facilitators, were introduced to the participants and vice versa. Guess what I discovered? The Retiree Group decided to collaborate with the youths! In case you don’t understand my dilemma at that time, I will tell you. The age difference was too much! On one hand, I had people who were just starting their lives, with lots of dreams and aspirations, and on the other hand, I had people who had ‘seen it all’ and just needed something to occupy their time.

    As I sat there, unconsciously, my mind raced through all the illustrations I intended to use during the training and I discovered that they would not appeal to the older participants. Quickly, I started to think of new ones. The new challenge I was faced with was finding illustrations and a teaching approach that would be effective for both groups. To make matters worse, an old professor walked up to me and greeted me cordially, saying that he taught communication for over fifty years. And he was supposed to attend my training? God help! Thankfully, he didn’t stay the entire period.

    If a public speaker is too regimented, he or she may find it difficult to adapt to unforeseen circumstances. As much as it is good to plan your presentation to the minutest detail, it is still very important to be flexible both mentally and ‘stylistically.’ So, what did I do to my mixed class? I did the following:

    • Asked them for their past experiences: the first thing I needed to do was to find out how much they already knew about the subject. It particularly helped me to find an average of their knowledge so that I could present a balanced training. Once I was able to establish that they all had elementary knowledge of the subject matter, I knew that they could all be taught from the same curriculum.

    • Asked them for their expectations: I had attended several trainings myself, so, I knew that participants weren’t always satisfied with what they got from trainings. Hence, by finding out what exactly they expected to gain and what they intended to do with the knowledge, I was able to discover that within the same training session, I could accommodate the two groups. Knowing what they wanted also helped me to tailor the training along their requirements so that it met their individual needs. Having discovered their expectations, it wasn’t too difficult for me to surpass it; I would have run into trouble if I didn’t have that information. It also took off me the pressure of trying to read their expressions to determine if I was reaching them or not.

    • Used balanced illustrations: the illustrations used during the training were balanced. Some of them were quite contemporary and applicable to the youths while the others were applicable to the older ones. The main challenge I encountered was building expectations for the course. While the youths could think of several things they could do with public speaking, it wasn’t that easy for the older ones. However, by enlightening them on the positive impact they could have on the youths if they could communicate effectively, they too became motivated.

    • Treated them all as students: I worked by a simple logic- the youths wanted to be treated as adults while the elders didn’t want to feel old fashioned; so, I treated them all as equals. While I raised my level of respect for the youths to the level of the elders, I made sure that the elders had as much practical sessions as the youths. For as long as the class lasted, nobody really cared about age. The excitement of standing before the class to present took care of any reservation anyone of them might have had.

  • Farewell, ‘father in a million’

    The remains of the patriarch of the Ekong family, Edet Udo Ekong, were interred at his country home in Akwa Ibom. JOHN AUSTIN UNACHUKWU writes.

    IT was a celebration of a life well spent as the remains of Elder  Edet Udo Ekong were interred.

    The funeral rites held  at Ikot Nkim Oku Government Primary School Ibesikpo, Asutan Local Government Area of Akwa Ibom State, was very  colourful. It was like a carnival as family members, relations, the congregation of Jehovah’s Witnesses, in-laws, friends and well wishers gathered in large numbers  from all parts of the country and beyond  to celebrate the life of a  great man, a patriot  who touched the lives of many people, contributed immensely to the economic and socio-political development of his community, State and country.

    The late Ekong died on August 13 at 81 years.   The funeral was slated for noon, but before 9am the family house and the primary school field were filled with sympathisers and guests. All sorts of exotic cars, SUVs, heavy security were manifest in the arena causing heavy traffic gridlock around the field.

    It was indeed  a gathering of who is who in Akwa Ibom State and beyond,  an occasion to showcase gorgeous cultural and English apparels. Corporate bodies were not left out in the celebration,  as Airtel built stalls at the venue  and was busy attending to  some of its customers. The downpour that occurred shortly before the programme commenced did not stop any of the burial rites, it rather graced and spiced the event.

    The ceremonies  were ably conducted clergy men from the Jehovah’s Witness, the congregation where Mr.  Ekong worshipped before his death.

    After the interment, guests were well entertained. For Paul Usoro, his wife Mfon and his  family members,  it was indeed a grand occasion as they entertained guests in their family house till mid night. Among them  were lawyers, government functionaries, top company executives, captains of the industries.  The  Akwa Ibom State Governor, Godswill Akpabio, his Commissioners, traditional rulers from the State and political associates from far and near were all part of the celebration.

    One of the daughters of the deceased, Afi Akpan,  said her  “Father was a beneficiary of other peoples’ kindness after loosing his father in his teens. Consequently, with the active support of his wife, he accommodated a lot of relations and less privileged people in his house during his life time.

    “Those people grew up with us and invariably became members of our immediate family. He sponsored most of them in schools, helped others to learn vocational skills and many got employed, some become  professionals in different fields of human endeavour and learning. Some learnt business skills from him and consistently acknowledge this fact directly to Papa and Mama or their children. These extended family members, including those who did not live with us, who were not even related to Papa by blood,  traditionally came to Papa for advice on personal or family issues and he happily attended to them  up to his death.

    Another  Daugher of the deceased, Mrs  Mfon Usoro said: “Papa was exceptionally kind and generous, he  provided financial support,  assistance and accommodation to a number of people who were really  in need, those people were  not necessarily related to him by blood. Many young men and women passed through our home, quite a number got married or were given in marriage by Papa, right from his home. A number of parents have named their boys after him. Papa was father to all, without discrimination. His credo was that even if not materially wealthy, he will leave for us his children, “a legacy of friends”.

    Speaking on her father’s marital life, Mrs  Usoro added: “Papa loved his wife deeply and there are no words to describe the magic that existed between Papa and Mama throughout their years together. He was deeply fond of Mama whom he fondly called Nne or Grace.  She in turn fondly called him EU or Ebe Grace. They got married in March, 1957,  so, they enjoyed 57 years of glorious marriage until death abruptly snatched him away from his doting, loyal and devoted wife. Their deep love, romance and devotion stood the test of time as witnessed and testified to by many

    Mrs. Usoro stated  : “Papa was Mama’s best friend and vice versa.  They thoroughly enjoyed each other’s company and loved spending time together, shut away from the rest of the world. The wee prior to Papa’s demise typified that closeness and hunger for each other’s company. On August 6, 2014, mama complained to me  that papa was not spending as much time with her and requested that I  to convey her complaint to Papa. I  promptly called Papa and jokingly relayed mama’s complaint, Papa, while still on the phone, moved from the sitting room to mama’s hearing, responded that “your mother knows I always enjoy her company”  Mfon Usoro stated.

    For Eno Ekong : “ Papa was a good disciplinarian,  firm and strict in  discipline. Papa believed literally in not sparing the rod when any of his children deserved discipline.  The favorite caning spots were the hands or buttocks,  but never all over the body.  He traditionally asked the erring child to suggest the number of strokes of the cane that should be administered for the wrongdoing and they  would negotiate on whether to increase or reduce  the suggested number strokes of the cane, but papa always had the final say.

    Chairman Nigerian Bar Association Uyo branch, Mr. Mfon Doff Uyo said: “ Mr. Edet Ekong was a great man, he touched many lives and had friends from all parts of the country where he worked. We will really miss him”

    Uyo based legal practitioner, Iniabasi Udobong said: “  He was really a good man. I got to know him through his wife who regularly supplied me with the Awake and other Jehova’s Witness publications. He was really very close to his wife, I wonder how she will cope in his absence, she will really miss him”

  • Curtain falls for a media icon

    The remains of the late media icon and former Vice Chairman of The Sun, Igwe Uguru Dimgba Igwe, were interred in his home town, Okafia Igbere in Bende Local Government Area of Abia State, penultimate Saturday. Professionals from all walks of life were there to pay their last respects, reports SUNNY NWANKWO.

    Ndiokeh, Umuikpo Okafia Igbere in Bende Local Government Area of Abia State was in a sorrowful mood on Saturday, October 11, when people from far and near came to pay their last respects to one of its illustrious sons and former vice chairman of The Sun Newspapers, Dimgba Uguru Igwe, who died on September 6. He was 58.

    The funeral service was anchored by the General Overseer of Evangel Pentecostal Church, Maj Gen Paul Toun;  Bishop Humphrey Erumaka of Wordbase Assembly, Ago, Lagos and Pastor Emeka Onyebuchi of Kingdom Fortress Ministry, Enugu.

    The event began at 10:30 am with a lying-in-state.

    The wife and children of the late Igwe, in white attires, sat on the front  seats under a canopy.

    The event, though a sad one, was an opportunity for those who worked closely with Dimgba to share their experiences and give testimonies of his personality.

    His close friend and colleague, Mike Awoyinfa, in a  funeral oration, chronicled his 30 years relationship with his writing partner and a man that saved his life twice.

    Awoyinfa said he would have been happy if, instead of funeral oration, he was reading Dimgba’s citation at a Nobel Prize event or award giving day.

    He stated that  in their 30 years of  friendship, they never quarrelled over money or placed their ethnicity into perspective when relating with each  other or doing business.

    “If this (funeral) had been a Nobel Literature Award I would gladly have stood here to read the profile and achievements of my writing partner. For many times, we had covered the death of many great men like the great Obafemi Awolowo, Nnamdi Azikiwe and Moshood Abiola, among others. It took his death to know he is a great man also.

    “Our story should be the story of Nigeria; let us all come together as one, regardless of our religion or tribe.

    “My brother Dimgba revived me on the streets of Paris where I was at the point of death. The second occasion was when we were writing the biography of Governor Babatunde Fashola in our hotel rooms. I had a crisis and was bleeding profusely and I called him. He rushed into my room and took me to the hospital and my life was saved.

    “I feel very very sad that I could not save him. I feel sadder that I am being asked to give the oration.”

    Other notable men also sent condolence messages. National Leader of the All Progressives Congress Asiwaju Bola Tinubu described the late Dimgba as a star in the profession; consistent, reliable and committed.

    “His unexpected exit shocks and saddens, but we are comforted that he lived a good life and left a powerful legacy of professionalism and service to humanity. The media profession will miss him. However, his stewardship will light the way for a better country.”

    In his tribute, the publisher of the  Sun and former Governor of Abia State, Dr. Orji Uzor Kalu, described Dimgba’s death as a great loss to the establishment, Abia State and the country.

    Kalu, who recalled how the late Dimgba contributed to the growth of the newspaper, said it was difficult dealing with the vacumn the loss of Dimgba has created.

    Abia State Governor Chief Theodore Orji, represented by one of his special advisers, Ifeanyi Iboko, said the state has lost one of its finest brains and responsible men who deserved to live.

    Governor Obiano was represented by Anambra State Commissioner for Information Tony Onyima. The elder brother of the deceased, Prince Hanson Igwe, described the death of his junior brother as one that occurred at the time the country, his readers and the entire family needed him the most.

    Hanson said they were yet to come to grips with the loss and regretted that he was burying a man that was supposed to bury him.

    For his friends in the media, they will miss a man who, with his wealth of experience, would turn a bad story into an interesting one. For members of the Evangel Pentecostal Church, they will miss a man whose professional career did not affect his service and work in the church. And to the people of Igbere, his home town, they will miss the wealth of knowledge the late media icon would have shared and probably the impetus the community needed to launch the agrarian community into limelight.

    In attendance were President of the Nigerian Guild of Editors Femi Adesina; Pastor Ralph Egbu; former Abia State Secretary to the State Government (SSG) Hon. Okey Ezeanata; former Senior Special Assistant to Abia State Government Deacon Agono Duke and former Internal Auditor, UBN Plc and others.

  • When a governor’s daughter said ‘I do’

    When a governor’s daughter said ‘I do’

    Imo State Governor Rochas Okorocha gave out his daughter, Uju Vanstasia, a pharmacist, in marriage to Uzo Tony, an America-based medical doctor and son of the Secretary to Imo State Government, Prof Anthony Anwuka, at a glamorous ceremony. It attracted the cream of the society. NNEKA NWANERI witnessed it all in Owerri, the Imo State capital.

    It was nothing short of a show of class. The much-talked about union between Uju Vanstasia, the second daughter of the number one citizen of Imo State, Rochas Okorocha, and Uzoma Tony, son of the Secretary to the state government of Imo, Prof Anthony Anwuka, was perfected last weekend.

    The two-legged event began last Thursday. As the ‘eagles’ landed, all roads led to Ogboko Village, Ideato South in Orlu Local Government of Imo State, the home town of the governor.

    Various posh cars dotted the landscape of the rural coommunity. Many sedans and SUVs crisscrossed the roads. The villagers watched in bewilderment as dignitariries from across the country trooped into their village.

    Igbo traditional weddings are usually done in Igboland to promote the culture, values and celebration of the people.

    With cars parked miles away, many had to walk to the compaound of the Okorochas. There were no less than 6,000 guests.

    Most indigenes stood under the scorching sun, stretching their necks to catch a glipmse of the young man who has stolen the heart of their daughter. They disregarded the two large screens in the compound which screened the Igba Nkwu.

    It was the celebration of culture at its best. The ceremony was a carnival of sort.

    The aesthetic design of the compound gave it a completely different look. The setting could not have been more perfect.  By sunset, there was a skyline with street lights illuminating the neighbourhood.

    Many groups were fully represented. Orsu women over 70 years and above performed to portray the patrimony of the local government.

    Anwuka, who is the former Vice-Chancellor of Imo State University, led his delegation from Egbuoma-Oguta Local Government to perform the traditional rites and be integrated into the family of the Okorochas.

    He told the people of the state that he had always wanted his son to have an ideal wife.

    In humility, he said: “Who am I that my governor should give his most priced jewel to a man like me. But I am optimistic that they will bring forth the intellectual phoenix the country needs. Today is a special one for me and the happiest day of my life.” His speech was followed by chants of ‘Olowu’ as the SSG is fondly called.

    The bride was delectable in every sense of the word. She soon became the spotlight as she danced out accompanied by her two sisters and friends. Uju was bright and enthusiastic, utterly self assured and charming like a flower that had just blossomed. She was given a cup of palmwine to present to her chosen man.  She knelt, gave Uzo the cup.  He drank and she led him to her father.

    Okorocha jokingly told his friends around him not to call him a grandfather but simply ‘GF’. Then he asked his told people to be witnesses.

    “My people…my people…” They responded: “Our governor, our governor”.

    He thereafter asked Uju if Uzo was really the man she had chosen to be with. He warned the couple that as tradition demands, there is no coming back to her father’s house. When they had both consented, he gave them double blessings as a father and a governor. He removed his cap and prayed that their marriage be fruitful. He also thanked his wife, Nkechi, and saluted her for being a pillar of support in his life, recalling the days when she carried palm to sell to get money to train the children.

    “If a child does not resemble his father, he will be like the mother. Now, people will think I am losing a daughter, but they don’t know I have just gained a son,” Okorocha said.

    Last Saturday, the union was solemnised at the St Joseph’s Catholic Chaplaincy, Imo State University, Owerri, by Bishop of Okigwe Diocese Rt Rev Solomon Amazu.

    The church was filled. The gallery was jam-packed.

    It was a special day for the town and the Okorochas couldn’t have had it any better.

    All men removed their caps and hats and women covered their hair on entering into the church. There were quite a number of politicians and socialites. Owerri virtually hosted the entire country.

    The Nation learnt that those who could not make it to the venue were glued to their television sets where the event was aired live.

    In a vote of thanks, Okorocha was full of appreciation. He described himself as a proud father and his daughter a lovely intellectual.

    “Uju is very precious to me. After many years of training her everywhere, I collected only N10,000 as bride price. Even when I married my wife, I used a tipper to carry her bride price to her father’s house. Who then am I that all these people are here to honour us and be with me on this happy day.”

    The reception was held at the International Conference Centre in the state capital.

    The duo of Who Wants to Be a Millionaire TV game show host, Frank Edoho and comedian Emeka Smith were the hosts.

    Senator Chris Ngige of Anambra State gave the opening prayer.

    Akwa Ibom State Governor Goodswill Akpabio chaired the occasion. He urged Nigerians to love one another and stay in peace so that the peace of God will dwell in the country.

    Mother of the bride presented her daughter with items, such as a mortar, pestle and broom, among other items to see her off.

    Okorocha and the entire members of his family mounted the stage to amuse guests with their dance steps. The groom’s family followed suit and thrilled with their steps.

    The gathering was later entertained by Sekem master Innocent Udofot with the stage name MC Galaxy, and Panshak Zamani with the stage name Ice Prince also performed, electrifying the gathering with music and dance.

    The roll of attendees was endless. They included former Military Head of State Gen Muhamadu Buhari; former Vice President Atiku Abubakar; National Leader of the All Progressives Congress Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu; Deputy Governor of Imo Prince Eze Madumere; former Governor of Bayelsa Timipreye Sylva; Catholic Bishop of Owerri Rt Rev Cyril Okorocha; National Chairman of APC Chief John Odigie-Oyegun and his predecessor Chief Bisi Akande; the party National Publicity Secretary, Alhaji Lai Mohammed; State governors: Umaru Tanko Al-Makura (Nassarawa); AbdulFatai Ahmed (Kwara); Theodore Orji (Abia); Abiola Ajimobi (Oyo) and Rabiu Kwankwaso (Kano).

    Deputy Governor of Niger State;  Speaker of the Imo State House of Assembly Chief Benjamin Uwajumogu; former Ministers Chief Audu Ogbe and Chief Olu Falae; Traditional rulers too numerous to count; Publisher of the Leadership Newspapers Sam Nda-Isaiah; former Kwara State Governor Senator Bukola Saraki and former Abia Governor Dr Ogbonnaya Onu; National Organising Secretary of APC Senator Osita Izunaso and former Super Eagles star Tijani Babangida, among others, were there.

  • A memorable farewell

    It was a mixture of celebration and politics as Lagos State governorship aspirant Akinwunmi Ambode buried his mother-in-law in Epe, Lagos outskirt.

    Although, it was supposed to be a celebration of life and times of the late Madam Comfort Oluwafunmilayo Odukomaiya,  it turned out to be that and more – a gathering of frontline politicians.

    Indeed, the sleepy town had to literally bend backwards to contain the surge of crowd that besieged the First African Church Mission at Poka, a suburb in the ancient town.

    Mama Olufunmilayo Oluyisola Odukomaiya was born on of August 6, 1924 to the family of the late Pa Thomas Onabanjo, she started her primary education in 1937 at Saint Paul’s School Omu and later kicked off a brilliant teaching career at Pobo Community Primary School, Poka in 1947, the same year she got married to Late Pa M.S Odukomaiya.

    Ambode, the amiable former accountant-general of Lagos State, alongside his wife Bolanle hosted the cream of politicians at the funeral.

    Politicians jostled to catch the attention of Ambode, in what appeared a clear signal that he is the man to beat to the ticket of the All Progressive Congress (APC) at the Centre of Excellence. All smile, Ambode moved round to greet those who came to honour him and his wife.

    Without doubt, Ambode, who left the service three years ago after 27 years of meritorious service, has successfully transmuted from a passive retired civil servant to an astute politician.

    At the ceremony were APC Lagos Vice-Chairman (West), Chief Funso Ologunde; APC Lagos Deputy Chairman Cardinal James Odunbaku; Hon James Faleke; Mr Paul Kalejaiye;   Oba Kamoru Akinlaja; Oba Adelaja; former Special Adviser to Governor Fashola and Alhaji Abdul Hakeem Abdul Lateef. Also there were Chief Lanre Razak; Hon Yomi Ogunnusi, leader of APC Lagos East Senatorial District  Alhaji Busura Alebiosu and actor, Desmond Elliot, among others.

  • Twin celebration

    Lagos State Commissioner for Establishment, Training and Pension Mrs Florence Oguntuase celebrated her 60th birthday and 34th wedding anniversary last Saturday at Freedom Park, Broad Street, Lagos. OLATUNDE ODEBIYI reports.

    It was like a gathering for civil servants in Lagos State. Different personalities across ministries including, commissioners, permanent secretaries, senior special assistants, special advisers and directors stood to be counted. Friends, family members and church members were also there. Most of the guests arrived in exotic cars. Many of them were dressed in casual but smart and classic outfits. Others wore native outfits.

    They converged on Freedom Park on Lagos Island for the 60th birthday and 34th wedding anniversary of Lagos State Commissioner for Establishment, Training and Pension, Mrs Florence Oguntuase.

    Ladies on orange satin tops with blue jeans welcomed guests and led them to labelled seats.

    The little drizzle that day was no hindrance to the turnout as the venue was filled to capacity. The drizzle rather kept the environment cool and calm.

    Freedom Park was decorated in ash and orange colours. Gold chairs were set around tables covered with gold fabric. There were about 10 small tents all over. Personalities sat under the tent where the cake was.

    The cake stand was beautiful to behold. It had three cakes on it. Two were one step each, while the third was a-three-step cake in orange colour and ‘60’ was written in front of it with white.

    Mrs Oguntuase was the cynosure of eyes. She looked stunning in an ash glittering dress and orange shoes. The cream beads on her neck and hands complemented her beauty.

    She sat under the tent where the personalities from various ministries sat. At intervals, she moved from one tent to another to greet her guests and ensured that they were all comfortable.

    Her husband, the Chairman/Chief Executive Officer, BOFOM Limited, Mr Ben Oguntuase sat under another tent in the company of his friends. He also went round to greet other guests.

    Their children hardly sat throughout the event. They went round attending to guests needs and ensuring that all were at ease.

    The ceremony began with an opening prayer from Mrs Abimbola Wale-Idowu.

    Ray Bee Brown DJ led by Bola Brown entertained guests with music to which many responded by shaking their heads, hands and body on their seats.

    Guests dine, wined and spoke glowingly about the celebrator.

    The Master of Ceremony, who is also the son of the celebrator, Mr Banji Oguntuase supervised the cutting of the cake. Her husband and children assisted her to cut the cake after the spell of LOVE.

    Other guests were called from each table to snap with the celebrator.

    Speaking about the celebrator, Lagos State Commissioner for the Environment, Mr Tunji Bello, said that she was someone he enjoyed working with since he knew her in 2003 as a Permanent Secretary.

    “She is a wonderful woman with good human relations. She is receptive to ideas and I want her to remain calm, maintain her stature and the way she has always related with people,” he said.

    Commissioner for Justise and Lagos State Attorney-General, Mr Ade Ipaye described her as an engaging personality he had known for a while.

    “She is diligent, a principled person; she is not shy to stand by whatever she believes in; she deals with matters, objectively and promptly and she is a good person to know,” he said.

    Immediate past state director, National Orientation Agency (NOA), Ekiti State Mr Dele Morakinyo, said the celebrator is a down –to- earth woman, serious at work and knows how to balance life.

    He said she is ageing gracefully and has done well for herself at 60.

    “Remember that you are now 60, continue to laugh but do less of serious work because that is the secret of longevity,” he said.

    Commissioner for Housing, Mr Bosun Jeje described her as a jolly good fellow, a woman that is always ready to assist and somebody that takes everybody as of her age mate.

    Special Adviser to the Governor on Works and Infrastructure, Ganiyu Johnson described Mrs Oguntuase as a hardworking, energetic and a loving woman.

    “At 60, she looks like an 18 –year- old, she is too radiant and I want her to get ready to be a grandmother, great grandmother as I wish her all the best,” he said.

    The celebrator’s husband, Mr Oguntuase congratulated her.

    “At 60, it is like when I first met her years back. She is very honest, humble and hard working, dedicated, loyal and I have no regret marrying her; I am proud of her for all she has done for the family,” he said.

    The celebrator said she feels fulfilled.

    “I started my career and I ended up at a top position. For me, life at 60 is full of reflection and it is an opportunity to see the areas where you can still improve on. I am lucky that a number of my dreams have been fulfilled. 60 is a time to plan what you want to do with the rest of your life. All I want is to give more time to the service of God and to humanity,” she said.

    Among those present at the event were; Secretary to the State Government, Dr Idiat Oluranti Adebule; Lagos State Commissioners for Tourism, Alowe Disu; Finance -Ayo Gbeleya; Commerce and Agriculture – Gbolahan Lawal; Commerce and Industry – Sola Oworu; Economy, Planning and Budget – Mr Ben Akabueze; Special Adviser on Primary Health, Dr Yewande Adesina, among others.

  • A banker-author

    A banker, Mr Sunday Olowoyobiojo, has presented a book at The Chartered Institute of Bankers of Nigeria, Victoria Island, Lagos, reports OLATUNDE ODEBIYI.

    The title of the book provokes a deep reflection on the happenings in the country.

    “Cash-less Nigeria: Benefits, opportunities and challenges” has been presented to the public at the Ijewere Hall of the Chartered Institute of Bankers of Nigeria on Victoria Island, Lagos.

    For the author, Mr Sunday Olowoyobiojo, a banker, it was a dream come true.  It took him three years to write the book, which is his first.

    Chairman, Standard Bank Limited, Sir Remi Omotosho, chaired the event, which could have been mistaken for a banker’s forum.

    Guests came in quality and fitted corporate outfits. They looked smart and gorgeous.

    They could not hide their joy as they congratulated the author for the master piece, which many described as the first of its kind. Many shook hands with him, praising him for the great job done.

    The beautiful and fully air-conditioned hall was the place to be. Some copies of the book were placed in the middle of the high table. The high table was covered with green and white fabrics, which matched the colour of the book.

    Commencing the event, the emcee, Mr Tolu Adeyemi, led the gathering to sing the National Anthem. After, some guests were introduced.

    Omotosho in his opening remarks hailed the author for occupying  himself with a result-driven exercise.

    He said the book would be useful to all. He urged the young ones to emulate him.

    His words: “The book is unique in that it is the first book where we have enlightenment in a consolidated manner for Nigerians on the issue of cash-less economy.

    “The days of carrying bags of cowry, loads of naira would come to an end if we embrace the whole process of cash-less economy which was introduced to help us embrace the new phenomenon of transactions.

    “Mr Olowoyobiojo has put together the history of money transactions, money spent over time and the advantages and disadvantages of various ways we have been handling our money transactions,” he said.

    He lamented the declining reading culture but urged the author to get his book across to the public through proper distribution channels.

    Dr Andy Titus Okwu, a lecturer in the Department of Economics, Banking and Finance, Babcock University, Ilishan Remo, Ogun State, reviewed the book. He was represented by Mr Kayode Ibrahim.

    Director of Corporate Communications, Central Bank of Nigeria, Alhaji Ibrahim Muazu, represented by Mr Innocent Edozie, said the author has contributed to knowledge and shed more light on the cash-less economy.

    This, he said, will help to achieve a secured nation that will be free of robbery attacks on the highways, homes and banks, among other places, because people will no longer carry money around.

    Managing Director/Chief Executive Officer, Nigeria Deposit Insurance Corporation (NDIC), Alhaji Umaru Ibrahim, presented the book and set the pace for its purchase. He was represented by Mrs Nurat Kikelomo. Some other guests bought copies.

    The author said the book was borne out of his decision to promote a united, prosperous and peaceful Nigeria and also to educate and enlighten Nigerians and foreigners on the importance of a cash-less society.

    Olowoyobiojo said the cash-less society will increase the financial inclusion in Nigeria because the book is written in a way that when people read it, they will have a deeper understanding of what cash-less society is all about and it will also facilitate their adoption and usage of various banking channels.

    “Since the commencement of the cash-less policy in Nigeria, the rate at which people use ATM, PoS machines and mobile money has increased tremendously; we are moving gradually and we will achieve the cash-less Nigeria of our dreams which the book has shed more light on.”

    He noted that going cash-less in the country has some challenges which the book has addressed.

    “When people buy and read the book, it will spur them into action and those challenges will be curtailed.

    “The book was written to further complement efforts of the Federal Government and Central Bank of Nigeria in the promotion of cash-less society,” he said.

    He said the book is unique in every sense; it is portable, easy to read and understand.

  • Women with a difference

    The National Headquarters of the Nasrullahi-li-Fathi Society of Nigeria (NASFAT) in Mowe, Ogun State was agog as the Women Wing of the society celebrated the grand finale of their 15th annual Women’s Week. AMIDU ARIJE was there.

    They exchanged pleasantries on meeting one another.

    Excitement was in the air as they were all filled with joy. They looked resplendent in their white and blue dress attire with gold shoes to match.

    It was their day, so they were there in number.  The venue was beautifully adored in blue and white satin colours.

    Many of them from far places got to the venue even earlier than some who came  from nearby towns. Those from nearby expressed surprise to meet people from  already seated.

    It was the 15th annual Women’s Week of the women wing of the Nasrullahi-li-Fathi Society of Nigeria (NASFAT) in Mowe, Ogun State.

    Alhaja Fadhilat Adebisi and Alhaji Mustapha Bello anchored the programme.

    The Dhikr (praises) made by Alhaja Adebisi enlivened the gathering as all stood to recite after her.

    This was followed by the address of the National Women Affairs Secretary, Alhaja Nofisat Arogundade.

    Alhaja Arogundade thanked the members for their support during her tenure. She said she was addressing them for the last time as the Secretary of the organisation having spent two terms consecutively.

    Giving account of her stewardship, Arogundade said, the group was able to empower women in different vocational skills and improve their spiritual level through various programmes.

    “At our 4th biennial conference, we took the bold step with the theme ‘Muslimah! It’s time to move’ which was intended to inspire, motivate and empower people from all walks of life to see this challenging moment in history as an opportunity to come together and transform ourselves and our communities as agents of change,” she said.

    She recieved a standing ovation as she spoke on her achievements in office.

    The NASFAT women leader urged the women to continue to make the difference in all they do to make life better for themselves, their children and the nation at large.

    “Let us begin by performing our traditional roles with a difference and do better in what brings us together. We have integrity, making a difference is a big business, a Muslimah (Muslim woman) must make a difference wherever she finds herself,” she said.

    Wife of Vice President, Hajia Amina Namadi Sambo, represented by Hajia Aishat Bello Tukur, eulogized the Women Wing of the society for their commitment towards the development of women capacities in the country.

    Over the years, NASFAT, Hajia Sambo said, has shown commitment and dedication to the cause of women through its various programmes of which the annual Women’s Week crowns them.

    “The Women Week,” she stated, “offers us an opportunity to discuss, aggregate and exhibit the virtuous roles that Muslim women keep playing and should play as major stakeholders in this globalised world to make a difference.”

    She noted that active participation of women in nation development is vital.

    “The world today is convinced that the active participation of women leads to the development of a peaceful and just society,” she said.

    NASFAT President, Alhaji Sheriff Yussuf thanked the Women Wing of the society for the foresight and meaningful programme.

    The guest speaker, Dr Lateef Adetona of the Lagos State University (LASU), said the making of a meaningful society lies on the shoulder of the women, urging women to take care of their home.

    Lagos State Governor Mr Babatunde Fashola was represented by the Secretary to the State Government, Dr Idiat Adebule; Fashola’s deputy Mrs Adejoke Orelope-Adefulire was represented by Alhaja Riskat Akinode. The Ogun State Governor’s wife, Mrs Funso Amosun was represented by Mrs Bolanle Baturiat Oyedele.

  • ‘She is my jewel’

    Last Saturday, family members and friends gathered at the Saint Peters and Paul Catholic Church,Palm Groove, Lagos, for the wedding between Adefunke Omotolani,an Estate Management graduate cum Union Bank staff member and her beau, Taiwo Oluwole Faluade, a Mechanical Engineering graduate of the University of Benin, reports AMIDU ARIJE.

    The early downpour could not deter guests from coming from far and near to rejoice with the couple and their family members at the solemnisation of their wedding.

    As early as 8am, family members had gathered at the Saint Peters and Paul Catholic Church, Palm Groove, Lagos for the first leg of the wedding – the engagement.

    The late Olatoye Faluade family members presented gifts and a letter, the traditional requirements to Mr Michael Adeboye Adebanjo family to seek the hand of their daughter, Adefunke, in marriage.

    With joy, the Adebanjos received the gifts and blessed the union of Omotolani and Taiwo.

    The blessing and acceptance of the union by both families was followed by a dance.

    Thereafter, the couple and a few members of their families proceeded to the Somolu Local Government Marriage Registry for the signing of the dotted lines.

    Having been declared man and wife by the court registrar, the couple proceeded to the Saint Peters and Paul Catholic Church Hall for the reception.

    Before their arrival, guests had filled the expansive hall. There was hardly any space for the late comers to seat.

    More chairs and tables were set outside the hall to accommodate all.

    As guests waited for the couple’s arrival, the hall was thrown into a competition of a sort as the band of Okiki Crown Band dished out melodious songs that left everyone dancing.

    The hall was adorned in beautiful blue and pink satin materials. The couple’s setting was unique. It had white satin with lightings surrounding it; a white umbrella was placed by their side. It was a beauty to behold.

    The bride’s parents were the cynosure of all eyes.  The bride’s father was everywhere, attending to the needs of his guests. Oloye as he is popularly called, wore a blue agbada and buba with a cap. He acknowledged cheers from guests; he shook hands with some who were close while he waved to those far  from him.

    The couple were the centre of attention when they drove into the premises. Those outside the hall welcomed them with enthusiasm.

    The conviviality of the occasion increased when the MC, Babatunde Okunade, called for the entry of the couple.

    All stood still to welcome Adefunke and Taiwo. Their coming in was like a show. They danced into the hall.

    Everyone was amazed. They clapped and laughed as the couple danced to their seats.

    One of the guests offered the opening prayer for the reception to begin.

    Chairman on the occasion Otunba Olumade Olusanya advised the couple to have a forgiving spirit and always consult each other on all matters.

    Olusanya said holding firm to the words of God and applying same in their day-to-day activities was the only way to guarantee a sustainable marital home.

    He urged all not to intervene in the couple’s marital affairs.

    Olusanya also supervised the cutting of the cake. It was done after he spelt the word LOVE.  All clapped.

    Thereafter, the couple fed each other. The bride was the first to feed her husband. She knelt to feed him. The groom reciprocated the gesture.

    They moved to the dance floor immediately after the feeding assignment. They danced alone for some time but were later joined by family members and friends on the stage.

    The groom, Taiwo, a Mechanical Engineering graduate of the University of Benin, described the day as memorable.

    “It is what I have really longed for. I thank God that it came up today. It is the day I will never forget; it is a memorable day in my life because it marks the beginning of another realm of my life,” he said.

    He said his wife was caring, loving and a jewel of inestimable value.

    The bride, a staff of Union bank,  said the day was her happiest ever.

    Adefunke described her husband as God-fearing and loving.

    “He is simply the best,” she said.

  • Clocking 60 in style

    Osun State Governor’s Chief of Staff Alhaji Hammed Adegboyega Oyetola has celebrated his 60th birthday at his Iragbiji, Boripe Local Government Area home. ADESOJI ADENIYI was there.

    Iragbiji, the headquarters of Boripe Local Government Area of Osun State, on last Monday stood still for one of its illustrious sons, Alhaji Hammed Adegboyega Oyetola, the Chief of Staff to Governor Rauf Aregbesola.

    Oyetola hosted friends and associates to a colourful bash to mark his 60th birthday.

    Dignitaries, including traditional rulers, top civil servants and politicians attended the party held at his sprawling Iragbiji country home.

    Oyetola’s amiable wife, Alhaja Kafayat, children: Femi, Yemi, Kemi and Adeola, and grandchildren shone in beautiful clothes.

    A section of the Oyetola’s vast compound was decorated for the event.

    Guests were treated to sumptuous African and foreign dishes.  The Fuji maestro, King Wasiu Ayinde Marshal, a.k.a KWAM 1, entertained the guests.

    The emcees, Alhaji Oyesiku Adelu and Alhaji Adeoye Bakare from the Osun State Broadcasting Corporation (OSBC) displayed uncommon talents and professionalism.

    Governor Rauf Aregbesola; his wife, Alhaja Sherifat; deputy governor Otunba Titi Laoye-Tomori, and the Secretary to the Osun State Government, Alhaji Moshood Adeoti, led dignitaries to the event.

    The former Osun State Governor, Prince Olagunsoye Oyinlola, conducted the cutting of the cake and the tribute was rendered to the celebrator.

    Aregbesola and his wife, Sherifat, opened the dance floor with the celebrator and his wife, Kafayat.  He was joined on the dance floor by the former Governor, Alhaji Isiaka Adeleke, Prince Oyinlola and other dignitaries.

    KWAM 1 sang praises of the eminent personalities, particularly the governor, past governors and the celebrator.

    Market women, led by their leader, Alhaja Awawu Asindemade, came in their white uniform (Aso-Ebi). With their traditional dance steps, they too joined Oyetola and Aregbesola to enliven the occasion.

    KWAM 1 dished out various numbers from his old albums to entertain the guests.

    The vast canopy, where the guests were entertained, was tastefully decorated and filled to capacity.

    In a tribute sent to Oyetola, former Lagos State Governor Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu described as trustworthy, astute and having “the ability to accurately assess situations and people and turn them to the advantage of the state.

    “Adegboyega Oyetola embodies the vision of the progressives that leadership is not about spoils of office or ethnic loyalties but about ideas, the prime idea being that democratic governance must be transparently fair and must deliver tangible benefits to the people,” Tinubu said.

    Former Osun State Governor and immediate past All Progressives Congress (APC) National Chairman Chief Bisi Akande described the celebrator as modest and unassuming.

    “I have known Gboyega as a business motivator in Lagos before he was invited to the government of Osun as Chief of Staff to the Governor. And since he came, he has always been modest and unassuming in his dealings with people generally,” Akande said.

    Aregbesola described Oyetola as a very calm person with a cool demeanor and focused vision.

    He said the brilliance Oyetola has brought to his office in was remarkable.

    Alhaja Sherifat said: “Alhaji Gboyega Oyetola is a complete gentleman with a rare human quality which endears him to all. He brings smiles and radiance into people’s lives in a very peculiar and uncommon manner.”

    Mrs Laoye-Tomori said: “Interestingly, at 60, you remain refreshingly vibrant, committed as ever to the ideals and philosophy of selfless service to humanity without being loud about it.”

    For Lagos-based lawyer Femi Falana (SAN), Oyetola is a man of humility.

    The celebrator’s wife, Alhaja Kafayat thanked Allah for the day.

    “Gboyega,” she said, “is a loving, brilliant, inspiring, caring, reliable and passionate husband; a loyal friend and a father to me. He is devoted, dedicated and loving father to my children and a wonderful grandpa. He is a rallying point for the family; selfless and dependable; a giver, who is always willing to help others achieve their ambitions irrespective of age.”

    Oyetola’s daughter Yemisi Alubankudi-Saliu described her father as a man of his words.

    “He and my mum taught me all I know about love, family and honour,” she said.

    Alhaji Oyetola’s brother-in-law Shittu Williams said: “The pivotal role you played (as uncle, father, brother and a good friend) in my life is a testimony of your greatness.”

    Osun State Head of Service Mr Sunday Owoeye said: “In a society highly deficient in availability of men of goodwill, Mr Oyetola stands out as a gem of inestimable value to the downtrodden and the less-privileged.”

    In attendance were the Speaker, Osun State House of Assembly, Hon. Najeem Salaam; his deputy, Hon Adegboye Akintunde; Osun State former deputy governor, Sooko Adewoyin; Senator Sola Adeyeye; Senator Babajide Omoworare; Senator Felix Ogunwale; Senator Ayo Fasanmi; Chief Pius Akinyelure, the industrialist, Chief Amuda Lawal Obelawo; Hon. Ajibola Famurewa; and chairman, MicCom Golf Resort, Prince Tunde Ponle.

    Also, were Vintage Press Limited Executive Director, Finance and Administration, Mr Ade Odunewu; the chairman and secretary of the All Progressives Congress in Osun State, Elder Adebiyi Adelowo, and Prince Gboyega Famodun; Osun State University Vice-Chancellor Prof Bashiru Okesina; his deputy (administration,) Prof. Siyan Oyeweso; Osun State Chief Judge, Justice Gloria Adegoke; APC leader in Osun State, Alhaji Fatai Diekola Oyedel; the state chairman of the Nigeria Labour Congress (NLC), Comrade Saka Adesiyan; OSBC Director General Prince Soji Fadehan; the former DG, OSBC, Pastor Yeye Oyedokun; Deputy Chief of Staff to Osun State governor, Mr Gbenga Adebusuyi, Afenifere chieftain Mr Ayo Afolabi.

    Some of the traditional rulers at the event were the host monarch, Aragbiji of Iragbiji, Oba Abdulrasheed Olabomi; the Ataoja of Osogbo, Oba Jimoh Olanipekun; Timi of Ede, Oba Munirudeen Lawal; the Akirun of Ikirun, Oba Abdulrauf Olawale; ý Olona of Ada, Oba Abimbola Abioye, among others.