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  • Their day of joy

    The wedding between Mojisola Sarah, daughter of Pastor Moses Abimbola and Olabanji Oluyemi, son of Mr Olabode Ogunrekun, has been held at the Redeemed Christian Church of God, Court of His Majesty in Ipaja, a  Lagos suburb. AMIDU ARIJE was there. 

    Their smiles were infectious as they were joined in holy matrimony at the Redeemed Christian Church of God, Court of His Majesty in Ipaja, a Lagos suburb.

    Family members, friends and colleagues looked resplendent in the chosen uniformed dress (Aso Ebi).

    All were joyous.

    The couple, Mojisola and Olabanji, looked cute.

    Mojisola shone in her white flowing gown. Olabanji decked in a black suit.

    Hand-in-hand, the bride and her father walked into the church to meet the waiting groom.

    The opening hymn “A new thing” was taken to commence the event.

    The church service was supervised by the Zonal head of the church, Pastor Fred Odekhian. The sermon was delivered by Pastor Wale Odeyale.

    Pastor Odeyale urged the couple to be submissive to each other.

    He urged the bride to submit herself to her husband and the husband to love his wife.

    There were signing of marriage register and presentation of certificate shortly after the officiating priest declared them man and wife.

    A processional hymn was taken after the couple had been blessed.

    The reception, held at Estate Festival Hall, was anchored by St. Rhymes.

    The couple arrived the venue in a chocolate brown Land Cruiser.

    The band of So Fine entertained the gathering.

    The reception was chaired by Mr Samuel Oladimeji. It started on a prayerful note.

    The couple’s parents were called to the podium as the ceremony began.  Their entrance into the hall was greeted with ovation and dances.

    The conviviality increased when the couple entered; all stood to welcome them. They were accompanied into the hall by their bridal train.

    Oladimeji thanked God for the success of the occasion.

    He enjoined the couple to take to the words of God as preached in the church.

    Marriage, he said, is for companionship and must be based on love and trust.

    He supervised the cutting of the cake.

    The bride described the day as most joyful.

    “It is my joyous day; he is very loving and understanding,” she said.

    The groom described the day as his happiest.

    “I’m so happy and excited that, at last, I have a wife. She is very loving, caring and intelligent,” he said

    Guests were served choice foods and drinks.

  • Golden cheers for a ‘blind giver’

    The General Manager Business Development Division of Jubilee-Life Savings and Loans Limited and Area Pastor, Province 12, the Redeemed Christian Church of God, Lagos, Pastor Shem Oladiji Oluwagbayi, has marked his 50th birthday at the Radisson Blu Anchorage Hotel and Resort, Victoria Island, Lagos. AMIDU ARIJE was there.

    The Lekki Hall of the Radisson Blue Anchorage Hotel and Resort was decorated with colourful bounties penultimate Wednesday. It played host to captains of industries, technocrats and religious associates, who despite their schedule, came to honour the one they adoringly call Pastor Shem, who marked his 50th birthday with a spectacular dinner.

    But for the elderly among them who chose to wear traditional attire, all came in black suits with shoes to match and accompanied by their spouses, in obedience to the host’s invitation. It was an indication that it was not only a dinner affair; it was an occasion to be lectured by the management guru and Chairman of the occasion, Elder Felix Ohiwerei.

    For them, Pastor Shem is worth celebrating. An Ipokia prince and seasoned banker, Shem is one of those behind the transformation of Jubilee Development Foundation, (which was established to mark RCCG’s 50th anniversary), into a mortgage bank. He was the first member of staff and  the inspiration behind the success of the bank.

    Guests were not only served with continental and local dishes and wines, a life band supplied Christian tunes to their pleasure. A young Christian comedian ‘Godly’ also cracked interesting jokes.

    When the birthday boy was ushered into the hall, he was simply celestial. Dressed in a shimmering white suit with a diamond laden shoes to match, he was accompanied by his wife, Edith, dressed in a black skirt suit, and their two children Ayinoluwa, girl, 14, and Inioluwa, the boy of the house, in tow.

    Elder Ohiwerei gave a good account of himself as a management guru with the talk he gave on the occasion.

    Speaking on “Life, Career and family,” Ohiwerei tasked all guests, especially the men, to pay closer attention to their family. For him, the only way to build a virile home and society is for men to be closer to their families.

    Drawing from personal experience, Ohiwerei urged all those at the event not to leave their children to the care of the maids.

    Ohiwerei, who admitted that career is important as it helped build brighter economic fortunes, added: “Your children need you; career is important; money is important, but your presence at home is more important to bring up the children. If you don’t give your children time they may grow to develop nannies and maids’ mentality.”

    JLSL Managing Director, Mr. Wale Osusanya who moderated the testimonies, described the celebrator as a focused and reliable person.

    “You can misunderstood him when you first meet him, but when you closely observe him, you will understand his passion for success,” he said.

    Pastor Gbenga Mayungbe, JLSL’s General Manager, Mortgage, who was Pastor Shem’s pastor, said: “Over the years, we have become very close family friends and very few people understand me like he does. He is a go getter and highly spiritual,” he said.

    Managing Director of Fidson Healthcare Plc, Dr Fidelis Ayegbae, described the celebrator as a man of his words.

    Asipa Akinyemi Oladeji, said: “He is an epitome of hard work, a great character and unassuming.”

    Member Federal House of Representatives, Hon Bamidele Faparusi, described him as a blessing.

    “I was on the verge of changing parish when you came and confirmed to me that it’s worthwhile doing business with God. He is a blind giver of no limit, lover of God, frank preacher and an asset to the Kingdom of God,” he said.

    Pastor Fred Odekhian described him as a true man of God who has the interest of the people at heart.

    When the celebrator took the stage, he got a rousing ovation.  He thanked God for his life.

    Pastor Shem said he got his lift in life because he gave up everything.

    “The most important thing to remember is to be ready to give up what we are for what we want to become,” he said.

    His wife, Edith, got a shock when her husband, before the guests, admitted he never really appreciated her and begged her forgiveness.

    He sealed the plea with a big cake, bouquet of rose and a chest of gift; the first, he said, in 17 years of their wedlock. The gifts, he said, were to mark a reunion.

    The couple were joined on stage by their children, Elder Ohiwerei and his wife, Margaret, the Personal Assistant to the RCCG General Overseer among other men of God and the JLSL management and other associates, to cut the birthday cake.

    Evangelist Tope Alabi later climbed the stage and rendered enchanting songs from her repertoire of evergreen songs which got the guests gyrating to the songs.

  • Farewell to a loving mother

    The remains of the wife of the founder of Motailatu Church Cherubim and Seraphim Worldwide, Lady Comfort Febisola Akinadewo, were interred at the St Adekahunsi Motailatu Cathedral in Oke-Imosan, Ondo State. AMIDU ARIJE was there.

    March 23 will be etched in the heart of the Founder and Supreme Head of the Motailatu Organisation Worldwide, Dr Motailatu Akinadewo. His wife, Lady Comfort Febisola died that day. She was 66.

    There was grief in the family, associates and friends were not left out of the mourning.

    A Christian wake-keep was held for her penultimate Friday at the Motailatu Church Cherubim and Seraphim Worldwide, St Adekahunsi Motailatu Cathedral, in Oke Imosan Ondo, Ondo State.

    The seat of the Motailatu Church in Lagos was virtually moved to Ondo for the funeral service.

    The burial ceremony followed on Saturday at the church. All were moody as they marched quietly to the church for the service. They queued behind the hearse en route the church.

    The corpse was placed at the entrance of the church following the tradition of the Motailatu Church that corpse must not be taken into the premises.

    The funeral service began on a prayer note. Apostle Kunle Ojo coordinated the service. Apostle Gabriel Afolayan took the congregation through a bible reading.

    Prof Joseph Otubu gave the sermon. In his sermon entitled: ‘Rest for Faithful Soul,’ Prof Otubu said considering the struggles and tribulations in life, death is a resting place for the true servants of God.

    Reading from Rev 14:13, Prof Otubu said, those who died in the Lord are blessed.

    He reminded the congregation that life is vanity upon vanity hence they should sacrifice all they have for the service of God in return for His mercies.

    Prof Otubu described the deceased as an epitome of simplicity, humility and prayer warrior.

    “Mama was a prayer warrior and very grateful for every little thing she has and people do for her and always grateful to God,” he added.

    After his sermon, the deceased’s children knelt before him for prayer.

    A thanksgiving service followed. The children of the deceased announced a foundation in honour of their late mother.

    The foundation called ‘Mother Comfort Akinadewo Foundation’ is meant to sponsor indigent students on university scholarship throughout their programmes. On the spot two beneficiaries were announced and they were assured of their commitment of sponsoring them to the university of their choice.

    The first born and Supervising Head and General Secretary of the Church, Dr Isreal Akinadewo, made the announcement.

    After the service, the remains were taken to the mission house for burial.

    The body was lowered at 2:30pm.

     

  • 20 years on the throne

    The Oniru of Iruland, Oba Idowu Abiodun Oniru, has celebrated his 20th coronation anniversary at his expansive palace, Iru near Lekki, Lagos. TAJUDEEN ADEBANJO reports

    It was a week to remember in Iru/Victoria Island in the heart of Lagos. The Oniru of Iruland, Oba Idowu Abiodun Oniru, was celebrating his 20th anniversary. For that week, Iru was a beehive of activities. There were huge banners on street corners greeting the monarch.

    The weeklong activities began on Wednesday with traditional rites and prayers

    Princess Moses and Moris Oniru led the Christian prayers at the palace before the congregation moved to the Oniru Central Mosque, few metres from the palace for the Muslim version.

    Traditional appeasement featuring Elegba, Awo Opa, Ogboni and Igunuko followed later in the day.

    Thursday was Family Day. It started with the unveiling of the statue of the late Chief Yesufu Abiodun Oniru at the Junction of Akin Adesola Road/Ahmadu Bello Way on Victoria Island.

    There were visits to orphanages/motherless babies homes, presentation of scholarship to the best pupil of British International School, commissioning of Millennium Homes and novelty match.

    At the grand finale penultimate Friday, Iru played host to the Creme de la creme.

    Three attires were prominent on the occasion. There were orange and purple ankara fabrics and the golden lace wore by the Oniru’s wives.

    The ceremony was held inside a large white canopy erected on the palace ground.

    Itinerant drummers, who gathered close to one of the canopy’s entrances added glamour to the ceremony.

    After the opening prayers by Mufasir of Lagos Sheikh Mujitaba Giwa and Pastor Moris Oniru, one of the monarch’s wives, Olori Aramide, took the gathering to Oba Oniru’s roots through rendition of his panegyric (oriki).

    The Elegushi of Ikateland, Oba Saheed Elegushi and the wife of Ayangburen of Ikorodu, Olori Muhibat Oyefusi, silently, read the oriki along with her.

    She had barely finished before Oba Rilwan Osuolale Akiolu took over to complete it.

    Oba Akiolu went historical on Oba Oniru’s battle for the throne.

    He prayed God to grant the celebrator long life.

    While thanking the Oloris for taking care of the monarch, the Olowo Eko Baba Fuad as Oba Akiolu is fondly called, jokingly told them that the celebrator is not done yet with marriages. The gathering burst into laughter.

    He also thanked the former Lagos State Governor Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu, who was present with his wife, Senator Oluremi for choosing a worthy successor, Governor Babatunde Fashola.

    Oba Oniru’s daughter Justice Ayisat Oniru-Opesanwo delivered a welcome address on behalf of the royal family.

    Asiwaju Tinubu described Oba Oniru as a progressive.

    “We are very proud of you and your achievements,” the Jagaban Borgu said.

    He recalled how the monarch allowed the government to control the ocean surge that nearly chased people out of the Island.

    “Through the Eko Atlantic project, the ocean surge problem was resolved. The Yemoja that has been collecting cows from Kabiyesi is no longer relevant; we told Kabiyesi to stop giving cows to Olokun and allow us to work on the place. If they did it in Holland, Durban and other developed nations, we can do it here as well. Today, we have put Lagos on international map courtesy of the project. Kabiyesi can now save lots of cows and they should be directed to my house having bailed you from Olokun crisis,” he said.

    Dignitaries on the high table roared in laughter as Oba Akiolu hailed the Asoju Oba of Lagos Chief Molade Okoya-Thomas by his Muslim name – “Kareem”- when the industrialist was invited for brief remarks. Thanking the monarch for informing the gathering of his Muslim name, Chief Okoya-Thomas said: “Please address me as AbdulKareem Molade Okoya-Thomas; that is my proper name.”

    The Asoju Oba said he has been relating with the royal house since childhood.

    He prayed that the monarch would live up to 120 years.

    There was a cultural display by some children.

    Chairman, Iru/Victoria Island Local Council Development Area Prince Muideen Daramola proposed the toast.

    Daramola, the Arobadade of Iruland wished the celebrator long life, saying: “Kabiyesi, your father lived for 120 years, I don’t see the reason why you cannot live for 130 years; Iru today is peaceful and secured due to your efforts.”

    Thanking his guests, Oba Oniru said the peace in the community is due to the love among the people.

    He led guests on the dance floor where King Sunny Ade) thrilled the gathering.

     

  • Wedding of a princess

    Aderonke, daughter of Adeniyi Ajakaiye, a prince of Iyin-Ekiti, has tied the nuptial knot with Olukayode Omotilewa at the Light House Christian Outreach Centre in Oregun, Lagos. The reception was held at Matinos Hall in Ikeja last Saturday. TAJUDEEN ADEBANJO reports

    Call it a political gathering, you won’t be wrong. But it was a wedding at which politicians stole the show.

    Hon Abimbola Daramola, a member of the House of Representatives and Director-General of the Kayode Fayemi Campaign Organisation, was quite visible in his all-white dress, a pair of eye glasses and a blue cap.

    Senator Babafemi Ojudu, who represents Ekiti Central, came in white flowing lace agbada, a pair of eye glasses and a befitting cap. His wife, Tola and her friends glittered in their blue lace.

    So also were Hon Oyetunde Ojo, a member of the House of Representatives and son-in-law to Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu, the National Leader of the All Progressives Congress (APC) and Mrs Bunmi Dipo-Salami, Special Adviser to Ekiti State Governor on Millennium Development Goals (MDGS).

    The E-eleven, a socio-political group of Ekiti State professionals, to which the bride’s parents belong, was well represented.

    They all turned the wedding reception for Aderonke, daughter of Adeniyi Ajakaiye, a prince of Iyin-Ekiti and Olukayode Omotilewa, into a mini-carnival.

    The hall erupted in joy when the Taiwo Omotunde-led band mentioned ERO, which stands for Ekiti Rebirth Organisation, Ojudu’s campaign slogan.

    The musician followed it up with O duro so ke, meaning he remains on top – a slogan for the re-election campaign of Governor Fayemi. This further enlivened the hall with the bride’s parents, E-eleven and others raising up their hands.

    The band capped it with Merin merin o to to – four four years of different terms. It was a tribute to Dr Fayemi’s performance. This electrified the hall. Ajakaiye, his wife Toyin, Ojudu, Daramola, Ojo and Mrs Dipo-Salami hit the dance floor, raising four fingers

    These were the sideshows at the wedding that saw the couple, Olukayode and Aderonke, mesmerising the audience with contemporary dance steps.

    The lovebirds were led by the bridal’s train, amid songs from the band.

    Ojudu said the opening prayer.

    Royalserve Group Managing Director/Chief Executive Officer Mr Olusola Alabi, described by his friends as “shy” and “restrained”, chaired the ceremony.

    He danced with his wife, Aderonke when called by the emcee for his remarks.

    Alabi, a businessman who has been married for 22 years, described marriage as a school from which couples never graduate.

    He enjoined the couple to be each other’s helper.

    “Both of you are not perfect, so try to complement each other. I pray by next year, we will come and celebrate twins – a boy and a girl- with you,” he said and the gathering responded with a loud Amen!

    Mrs Dipo-Salami supervised the cutting of the cake. The bride’s and her father’s dance enthralled the gathering.

    Adeleye Adewale proposed the toast before the bride threw the bouquet.

    The lucky girl, Kikelomo Popoola, who picked the bouquet, quickly let the guests know that she was not searching when she introduced her fiancée, Olumuyiwa Afolabi, to the gathering.

    The groom, Olukayode, a Presales consultant with Dimension Data, described his wife as a good friend.

    “She is cute, God-fearing, has good manners and right attitude; I’m happy she is my wife now and I am looking forward to a great time with her,” he said.

    He promised the Ajakaiyes to take care of their daughter.

    Aderonke, a System Engineer with the same company, described her husband as humble, loveable and God fearing.

     

  • A golden moment

    Jama’atu Nasril Islam (JNI), the umbrella body of Muslims in the North, is 50. It celebrated the golden jubilee at Lugard Hall, Kaduna in grand style, writes TONY AKOWE.

    At 50, the Jama’atu Nasril Islam (JNI), the umbrella body of Muslims in the North, has come a long way. Its 50th anniversary was marked with fanfare on April 13 at the Lugard Hall in Kaduna. Dignitaries came from far and wide for the celebration.

    Meaning “Society for the support of Islam”, the JNI has been involved in several activities since it was established and its voice heard on national and international issues.

    Founded by the revered Sardauna of Sokoto and Premier of the defunct Northern Region, the late sir Ahmadu Bello, the JNI with the Nigerian Supreme Council for Islamic Affairs (NSCIA), has been propagating Islam. It was founded on January 5, 1961, but was formally inaugurated in 1963. Its golden jubilee celebration attracted among others Vice President Namadi Sambo and House of Representatives Speaker Aminu Tambuwal.

    The ceremony featured a special lecture titled: Nigerian Muslims and the JNI: Strength, Achievements, Prospects and Challenges by the former Nigerian Ambassador to Saudi Arabia, Prof Shehu Ahmad Sa’ad Galadanci.

    Noting some of the challenges facing Muslims, Galadanci said JNI should merge with NSCIA and Muslims Ummah of South Western Nigeria (MUSWEN) to form a body that would be a rallying point of all Nigerian Muslims.

    In his address, JNI President-General and Sultan of Sokoto Alhaji Muhammad Sa’ad Abubakar III, said the organisation went for a lecture to know its challenges and prospects. He described JNI as a reputable organisation.

    “It is, indeed, appropriate for us to commend JNI as it has become the umbrella that brings all Muslims together on occasions like this. Muslims are united in Nigeria and will continue to be united, Insha Allah. And for those who think the only problem of Nigerian Muslims is unity, today we have proved them wrong because we are united,” the Sultan said.

    JNI, he said, would continue to say the truth when things go wrong as it stands for the unity.

    Alhaji Abubakar, who chaired the occasion, said Islam and Christianity should not be seen as an accident of history but God’s design which cannot be changed by anyone.

    According to him, insecurity is the major problem confronting muslims and christians in the country.

    “Every day, he said, hundreds of lives are being lost, particularly in the Northeast. We are worried about the number of Christians, Muslims, Fulanis and innocent people that are killed every time and, therefore, we condemn such cruel acts. I urge Christians to partner with Muslims to find a solution to the security challenges facing the country. We are not out to fight for religion or fight anybody, we are out to practise our religion as we are taught by the Qur’an and the Hadith. As Muslims, we should engage in good conduct that will bring non-Muslims closer to us in order to foster mutual understanding and, thus, mutual love.

    “Please, let Christians understand that nobody can Islamise Nigeria. There are no plans by Muslims to convert non-Muslims to Islam just as nobody can Christianise Muslims or the country as a whole. So, why are we fighting? Let us live together as God has created us to be Muslims and Christians. We should go about our religion peacefully and let God judge who is right and who is wrong. I encourage non-Muslims to bear with us because we are not out to challenge anybody.”

    Sambo urged JNI to continue to be steadfast in its obligations by promoting unity, oneness, brotherhood and inter-religious harmony among Nigerians.

    He paid tributes to Sir Ahamdu Bello for conceptualising the organisation.

    “We must not forget to honour the founding fathers of this organisation, most of whom are not here with us today. The late Premier of Northern Region Sir Ahmadu Bello, the Sardauna of Sokoto, deserves honour today for his great wisdom and deep foresight in bringing to existence this great body that would promote the deep moral teachings of Islam and protect the interest of the Muslim Ummah.

    “The late Sheikh Abubakar Mahmoud Gumi, the erstwhile Grand Khadi of Northern Nigeria, must be remembered for his role in sustaining the great legacy bequeathed to us up till the time of his death. May Allah reward their good deeds with Aljannat Firdausi,” he said.

    Kaduna State Governor Mukhtar Ramalan Yero said JNI should begin to identify ways of engaging in inter-faith dialogue, especially with Christian organisations across the country. The governor said the objective of such interaction is to devise means of promoting peaceful co-existence in the country. Yero argued that without peace and stability, there can be no meaningful development, adding that the country will economically stagnate while majority of the people, irrespective of faith, would wallow in abject poverty.

    He said: “It is, therefore, a collective responsibility, especially on the part of the JNI and similar bodies in the country, to galvanise the people towards achieving lasting peace and security. At this historic stage, I wish to urge JNI, especially as we enter the golden age of its formation, to begin to take necessary steps in addressing internal misunderstandings within the religion. It is imperative for Muslims to uphold the bond of faith in sustaining our brotherhood as servants of Allah.”

    The event climaxed, with the launch of the JNI golden jubilee almanac by Sambo.

    In attendance were Shehu of Borno Alhaji Abubakar Umar Ibn Garbai el-Kanemi, Emir of Zazzau Alhaji Shehu Idris; Emir of Gwandu Alhaji Bashir Iliyasu; and Kano State Deputy Governor Abdullahi Ganduje, among others.

  • ‘Don’t mock an old man’

    A thanksgiving service was held at the First Baptist Church in Ajegunle-Apapa, Lagos for Pa Remi Williams, a lawyer and grassroots politician, who clocked 85. JOSEPH ESHANOKPE reports

    AT 85, Pa Remi Williams has cause to celebrate. He remains happily married and is in good health. Penultimate Sunday, he went to the First Baptist Church, Ajegunle-Apapa, Lagos to give thanks to God for His infinite mercies.

    At 11 am, the service kicked off. But it was a two-part English service – the Sunday service,which included a child dedication and the thanksgiving. The dedication of baby Victoria Ogunniyi lasted less than an hour. This over, Pa Williams who had all along sat in the front pew, took over.

    A man of many parts, Pa Williams was accompanied to the church by his amiable wife Yemi, children and friends. Also with him were members of the All Progressives Congress (APC), of which he is a stalwart. They included the Chairman, Ifelodun Local Development Council Area (LCDA), Alhaji Fatai Ajidagba; his deputy, Alhaji Lateef Ojora-Adejiyan; Majority Leader Lamidi Kareem; Leader of the House, Muyideen Are; former House of Representatives member, Hon Olusegun Ogunbanjo, former Chairman, of the LCDA, Dr Abiola Ajijola and ex-Secretary, Education Board, Adewale Adeogun.

    The Choir opened the day with some special songs prepared to suit the occasion. These were interspersed by songs raised by the celebrator and his people who were given room to sing. This over, opening Hymn 159 titled: Fu’mghin lowuro, Irugbe iinure was taken.

    The Minister in charge of the church, Rev Joshua Adetunji Ojuwoni, who described the service as unique, said Pa Williams had cause to thank God. He noted that the octogenarian is an epitome of good character, humility, forgiveness and ‘a politician to the core’. He recalled that as a member of his church, any time Pa Williams met him, he would bow to greet. But when the cleric corrected him, saying it should be the other way round, Pa Williams insisted, adding that he (Rev Ojuwoni) is a man of God.

    The cleric, who spoke on Managing our time, said there was need to manage one’s time because life belongs to God. “This age is the grace of God. It is not by might or power. Only God can set back the time. To waste time is to miss opportunities. You can borrow money, but you can’t borrow time, “ he said. He warned the young not to laugh at an old man or a bald person, adding that it was risky.

    Earlier, Pa Williams, who wore aso oke, and a pair of glasses, stood. When many thought he would tell the story of his life, he did not. Rather, he counselled. He cited about five verses for reading. They included Galatians 6: 7 – 8; II Corinthians 9: 6 – 9; and Deut 15: 10. He urged the congregation to give cheerfully, saying there is blessing in giving. He added: “Anywhere you may be, try to do good. Continue to give to God’s work. I have something to contribute that is why I am alive today. I pray that God will bless all of you.”

    This was followed by a thanksgiving and praises. The ceremony later shifted to the Bola Tinubu Multipurpose Hall on Ojo Road for reception.

  • Their day of joy

    It was a three-in-one celebration for the family of Prince Semiu Oluwa, of the Ecological Office at the Presidency. Last Saturday, Oluwa turned 55 and his wife Folashade, 50. Besides, it was their 33rd wedding anniversary. The event was held at the Federal Civil Service Club in Ikoyi, Lagos. OLATUNDE ODEBIYI reports.

    IT was a day to thank God by the family of Prince Semiu Oluwa of the Ecological Office of the Presidency. Oluwa was celebrating his 55th birthday, his wife, Folashade’s 50th and their 33rd wedding anniversary. All roads led to the Federal Civil Service Club in Ikoyi, Lagos for the three-in-one event.

    uests filled the Executive Chairman Events Hall of the club and the tents in the compound.

    The couple sat on a bridal chair; their children – Yinka, Moni, Zainab, Fehintola and Funmilayo-were on another table.

    The hall was decorated in yellow and blue. Guests exchanged pleasantries and took photographs before the ceremony began.

    Many of the guests wore blue native attires with yellow head gear/cap.

    The event started, with prayer led by Alhaji Abdu Fatai Ajagbe. He also read some portions of the Holy Quran.

    Alhaji Fatai Ajitokun Oluwa anchored the event.

    Chief Imam of Oja-Oba Mosque Jamiu Naja, who delivered a short sermon, said the Oluwas were a grateful couple who recognised God’s wonder in their lives.

    After the sermon, people prayed for the family.

    Reception followed in the same venue.

    Femi Ayeni-led Perpetual Music Band electrified the hall.

    Abiodun Ololomus assisted by Bodunrin Okoya were the Masters of Ceremony (MC).

    The couple entered the hall with their children, family members and friends, dancing to music by the band.

    Chairman on the occasion and the Obanikoro of Lagos, Chief Adesoji Ajayi-Bembe, prayed God to bless and keep the Oluwas.

    A family friend, Alhaja Ismat Adenike Busari, described Oluwa’s wife as a wonderful and hardworking sister and friend.

    Alhaji Segun Tijani described Oluwa as a good person.

    The couple then cut the three-step blue and white cake. Families and friends joined them in taking pictures.

    Princess Folashade described her husband as gentle, loving and kind hearted.

    “He just wants me to be happy and he is ready to do anything for me, I give glory to God for the kind of man He has given me,” she said.

    “Thirty-three years of marriage, it has not been easy but I thank God for keeping us up to this time. My wife is everything to me,” Prince Oluwa said.

    Fehintola wished her parents many more years together in prosperity and sound health.

    Semiu’s mother, Alhaja Airat Ashabi Oluwa, who urged the celebrators to keep doing everything together, prayed that they would eat the fruit of their labour.

    Present were Minister of State for Defence Senator Musiliu Obanikoro; Erelu of Lagos Abiola Dosunmu, among others.

     

  • A conjugal bliss

    Ibiyemi, daughter of The Nation General Manager (Corporate Services) Mr Soji Omotunde, wedded her beau, John Ikechukwu, at The Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG) Praise Palace, New Oko-Oba in Lagos last Saturday. TAJUDEEN ADEBANJO writes.

    The hall of La Royale Events Centre at New Oko-Oba in Lagos went up in celebration. Occupants of the front seats to those at the back, were all on their foot, dancing.

    Sister Bukola Bekes, a songstress at The Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG) and The Paradise Minstrels thrilled the gathering.

    The hall was electrified with irresistible soul-inspiring songs, and the guests responded with beautiful dance steps.

    Make no mistake, the gathering was not for Holy Ghost camp, Congress or Convention, rather a wedding reception between Ibiyemi Omoyeme, daughter of The Nation General Manager (Training and development), Mr Soji Omotunde and her beau John Ifeanyi Ikechukwu.

    The hall was tastefully decorated. The colour blended well with the colour of the uniformed attire, chosen for the ceremony.

    The bridal’s seat was awesome, backing a stylish satin clothes used to decorate the stage.

    The couple thrilled the gathering with good dance style while coming into the hall. They were led in by the bridal’s train.

    The groom, John, looked resplendent in an ash suit, a pink shirt and tie and matching pair of shoes.

    Delectable Ibiyemi, the bride shone in a white flowing gown, silver wrist watch and ear rings with beautiful shoes. The lovebird was the cynosure of all eyes.

    The groom’s men equally decked in same type of attire with the groom while the bride’s maids turned out in pink Ankara fabrics.

    Guests stood to catch a glimpse of the couple’s grand entry. It was preceded by their parents’ entry who danced through the hall to the seats reserved for them on the front row.

    The couple barely seated before the Masters of Ceremony led by a comedian, JC Victor called on Pastor Fred Thomas for the opening prayer.

    Chairman on the occasion, Mr Lekan Kareem, took the microphone after the prayer.

    Kareem congratulated the couple and their parents.

    He wished them successful marriage and long life in good health.

    He enjoined John and Ibiyemi to always be each other’s friend.

    “Always resolve your differences quietly and avoid third party’s intervention except God,” he said.

    Kareem urged the lovebird to always take decision together.

    The cutting of the four-layered cake was supervised by the emcee.

    Before feeding each other, the emcee asked the couple to show their love for the gathering and the couple kissed.

    This drew laughter from the hall.

    After feeding each other, one of the groom’s men, Oluwamuyiwa Akinmejiwa proposed the toast.

    Miss Damilola Sadiq, a banker and one of the bride’s maids beat other contestants to pick the bouquet thrown by Ibiyemi.

    The couple later returned to the dance floor with family members, guests and other well-wishers joining them.

    Earlier on at The Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG) Praise Palace, (Lagos Province 17 Headquarters), New Oko-Oba, the couple was declared man and wife having fulfilled the rites of marriage.

    The church choir thrilled the gathering for 15 minutes before the service commenced.

    After this, Mr Omotunde, a Pastor led his daughter in.

    The solemnisation featured processional hymn, praise and worship, bible reading, congregational hymn, joining and blessing, choir ministration, signing of marriage register and recessional hymn.

    A sermon was delivered by Pastor Thomas.

    However, it was Pastor-in-Charge Lagos Province 17 David Omunagbe who anchored the most interesting part of the solemnisation – the joining of the couple as one and their presentation to the gathering.

    Shortly after joining them as man and wife, the latest couple signed marriage certificate with their parents.

    John, a Field Service Engigeer with Schnieder Electric, described his wife as humble, loving, God fearing and intelligent.

    “Immediately she came into my life and today that God has actually confirmed it, I see the completeness in me. The rib that God took out of me to create her is now back to my body. So, I feel complete and I feel so joyous and am so happy about that,” said the Delta State-born groom.

    Ibiyemi, the Samsung Electronics West Africa MDF Analyst, described her husband as loving and kind-hearted.

    “What attracts him to me is his commitment in church, a very loving person who is always ready to render assistants; he has a kind heart and most especially his love for God,” she said.

    Mr Omotunde said: “Today is my day of being blessed, my day of rejoicing, my day of celebration when my daughter is getting married. I see everything happening by the grace of God. I see today as a very wonderful day in my family. So, that is why you can see me smiling and happy.”

    The bride’s father urged the couple to continue allow God to dictate their way of life.

    Representative of the groom’s father,‘ Tony Ikechukwu, an engineer, prayed God to give the couple the wisdom, the understanding, the love and the peace of marriage.

    “Above all, they will live to carry their children’s children and will live a long life and a prosperous one,” he said.

  • The President’s daughter’s wedding

    The President’s daughter’s wedding

    President Goodluck Jonathan’s daughter, Faith Osakwe, has wedded Prince of Osimotu Kingdom, Godswill Osim from Abi, Cross River State. The two-legged carnival-like wedding took place in Otuoke, Bayelsa State home town of Jonathan and Abuja, the Federal Capital Territory. MIKE ODIEGWU reports

    EVER witnessed the wedding of a president’s daughter? It is full of pomp, colour and ceremony. This was what happened when President Goodluck Jonathan’s daughter, Faith Osakwe got married. The whole country virtually descended on his Otuoke, Bayelsa State hometown and Abuja for the two-legged ceremony. The engagement was held on Otuoke and the wedding in Abuja.

    Faith met her beau, Godswill Osim, a prince of Osimotu Kingdom in Cross River State at the University of Calabar. Osim is from the same community with Governor Liyel Imoke, who played a major role at the wedding. He and his wife, Obioma joined the Osim in asking for the President’s daughter’s hand in marriage at Otuoke.

    The engagement, which began on Friday climaxed the next day when the President formally handed over Faith to her in-laws. Bayelsa was agog for the ceremony. The capital, Yenogoa, wore a colourful look as the president and his entourage passed through the town to Otuoke.

    The celebration began at the Port-Harcourt International Airport, Omagwa in Rivers State, where a group of women received the President.

    The negotiations for the bride price lasted till late in the night. Jonathan, after accepting the Osim family’s offer, asked them to return the following day for faith. The Jonathan home was filled with top politicians, captains of industries and other well-meaning Nigerians who came to share in the couple’s joy.

    The ceremony, which had the trappings of Ijaw culture, was chaired by Vice-President Namadi Sambo, who was with his wife, Hajia Amina.

    He said he was honoured to be part of the ceremony, adding that the event was ordained by God.

    Sambo urged the couple to embrace the secret of a successful marriage which he identified as faithfulness, tolerance and honesty.

    “The secret behind a successful marriage, he said, is for both the bride and the bridegroom to be faithful to each other, to be tolerant and honest. When you do this, God will manifest in your life and good luck will be your portion.”

    The congregation thundered Amen.

    Imoke recalled how Jonathan called him some years ago that his daughter had gained admission into the University of Calabar.

    He said nobody envisaged that the admission would snowball into a marital union between Cross River and Bayelsa states. He reeled out the traditional rites satisfied by the groom and the state. He said they paid N51,000 dowry, adding that the President did not collect all the money. The President’s daughter was in ‘good’ hands and would be adequately taken care of.

    He said: “We are honoured. We came with trepidation and went through a tedious exercise. I got the deal of the century. The President ensured that his daughter was given to us with a condition. He asked us to pay the price of N51,000 less N1000. The President took it and asked us to go and come back. Now we are back and fully prepared to take our daughter.”

    The host, Bayelsa State Governor Seriake Dickson, blessed the couple and thanked the guests, for supporting the Jonathans. He said the young man who crossed many creeks to find a wife at Otuoke had done well.

    He hailed Dame Patience for nurturing Faith, saying the first Lady has proved herself a worthy mother and an excellent example for women.

    Concluding the marriage rite after Faith had identified her husband and taken him to her father, Jonathan blessed the couple.

    He said: “With what has happened today, you have now become my son. Congratulations, my son. We pray the marriage will succeed”.

    The second leg of the wedding at the National Ecumenical Centre in Abuja last Saturday was breathtaking.

    The ceremony started at 10.56 a.m when Jonathan and his wife, wearing blue traditional attires, led Faith into the venue. They were accompanied by family members.

    Faith’s wedding gown was exotic.

    It is believed that she made history.

    The wedding was officiated by the Primate of Church of Nigeria (Anglican Communion), Nicholas Okoh, assisted by Bishop of Kubwa Diocese, Church of Nigeria (Anglican Communion), Timothy Akamisoko.

    The couple exchanged vows following which they were pronounced husband and wife.

    The groom, took the first Bible lesson from Genesis 2, the bride took the second from Ephesians 5: 21-33.

    In his sermon, General Overseer of the Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG) Pastor Enoch Adeboye admonished the couple to live in peace and harmony.

    Pastor Adeboye charged Godswill that as the head of the family, he should not criticise his wife but correct her with love.

    Adeboye, who said he has been married for 47years told Godswill: “You are the head of the family; being the head means that you are extremely important. The success or failure of the marriage rests on you. The head contains the eyes; it is the light of the body. So, you decide where the marriage will go. The head also has two ears and one mouth. Be swift to hear but slow to speak. When your wife cooks for you, don’t think it will be like that of your mother; your mother has been on it for long. If there is too much salt in the food, or the meat is tough, don’t blame her but try and use wisdom to tell her.”

    Adeboye enjoined the couple’s parents not to interfere in their affairs, saying: “Those who God has joined, let no man put asunder.”

    Former President Olusegun Obasanjo and Rivers State Governor Rotimi Amaechi stole the show at the church. Dignitaries and others were surprised to see them.

    Clad in a white agbada, Obasanjo arrived at the church about 11:15am after the sermon. Amaechi, who was there earlier, left at 10:30 am before the service ended.

    Prayers were later offered by President of the Christian Association of Nigeria (CAN) Pastor Ayo Oritsejafor, and other clergies at the ceremony.

    After signing the marriage register, the couple was ferried from the church to the International Conference Centre, Abuja, in a beautifully-decorated horse-drawn carriage for the reception.

    Former Head of State Gen Yakubu Gowon, who chaired the reception told the couple that marriage, is give and take.

    “No matter the problem that may come your way, never allow the day to pass without resolving the problem through prayers and love. It is only you that can make it a success. Look at your parents and emulate them,” he said.

    The cutting of the cake was supervised by the wife of the Senate President, Mrs Helen Mark.

    The father-daughter dance by Jonathan and Faith saw many guests standing to catch a glimpse.

    Jonathan described the day as special, saying.

    “We are all smiling and dancing; but also note that there will be periods when the relationship will not work smoothly. That is a part of the life of husband and wife.”

    According to him, there is no couple that will not have some moments when their faces will not be too bright, but it depends on how they reach out and really find time to understand themselves.

    He wished the couple a happy married life saying: “Our duty as parents is to continue to pray for you, to encourage you; and if there are some issues you feel we can solve, you can tell us. But don’t depend on your parents to solve your matrimonial problems. If you have disagreement with your husband…, don’t always run to parents or get advice of your mother or father. Sometimes, they will not give you the best advice because your parents are analogue people while you are digital generation.

    “So, we don’t belong to the same generation and so don’t expect us to give you the advice of the modern way of life. But we will encourage you to succeed,” he said. Security was tight in Otuoke and Abuja for the twin events. Security agents were deployed to ensure things went well.

    Dbanj and Iyanya thrilled the gathering.

    On the roll were Senate President, David Mark and his Deputy, Ike Ekweremadu, led a delegation from the Senate; Speaker of the House of Representatives, Aminu Tambuwal, also led members of the lower chamber; Secretary to the Government of the Federation (SGF), Anyim Pius Anyim; Chairman of the PDP Governors’ Forum and Governor of Akwa Ibom State, Chief Godswill Akpabio, Governor Theodore Orji (Abia); Seriake Dickson (Bayelsa), Martins Elechi (Ebonyi), Dr. Emmanuel Uduaghan (Delta); Gabriel Suswam (Benue); Ibrahim Shema (Katsina); Jonah Jang (Plateau); Idris Wada (Kogi); Willie Obiano (Anambra), Isa Yuguda (Bauchi) as well as former governors of Ogun and Oyo states, Gbenga Daniel and Adebayo Alao-Akala.

    Also were Chairman, Dangote Group of Companies Alhaji Aliko Dangote; Forte Oil Chairman Mr Femi Otedola; Managing Director of Access Bank, Aig- imoukhuede; Chairman of Visafone, Jim Ovia; ministers including Olajumoke Akinjide (FCT State), Emeka Wogu (Labour) and Diezani Alison-Madueke (Petroleum); immediate past Minister of Education, Prof. Ruqayyatu Ahmed Rufai (Jigawa); former Head of Service, Ebele Okeke; People’s Democratic Party (PDP) Chairman Adamu Mua’zu; Chairman of PDP Board of Trustees, Chief Tony Anenih, former PDP Deputy Chairman, South West, Chief Bode George among others.