Category: Glamour

  • Ola Orekunrin’s  rising profile

    Ola Orekunrin’s rising profile

    DR Ola Orekunrin, founder of The Flying Doctors – the first air ambulance service in West Africa – born and raised in England, made history at the age of 21 when she became one of the youngest medical doctors in England. She started her medical degree at the University of York and passed with flying colours.

    Still not resting on her oars, Orekunrin and other hard working and worthy Nigerians have made the Young Global Leader’s list at this year’s World Economic Forum.

    With history written and the celebration of these great heroes and contributors to development of the human society, there will always be motivation for the coming generation to strive for greater achievement in life. Therefore, the yearly celebration of the World Economic Forum to bestow honour of Young Global Leader on distinguished individuals below 40 for their roles in charting a new course for the world is laudable.

  • ‘Why I want to return to Nigeria after 47 years in U.K’

    ‘Why I want to return to Nigeria after 47 years in U.K’

    Dotun Adebayo is an accomplished Nigerian media professional who has lived in the United Kingdom for almost fifty years. Honoured by the Queen of England with the prestigious Member of the Order of the British Empire (MBE) award in 2009, Adebayo has published three bestseller novels, has been presenting the award-winning global news magazine programme All Night for BBC Radio 5 Live in the last 12 years and runs his own TV Channel, Colourtelly. In this interview with Editor Online, Lekan Otufodunrin, Adebayo shares his dream to return home to Nigeria

     

    AFTER living in the United Kingdom for about fifty years, at what point did you start thinking of returning home?

    It is incredible to think that I have been living in Britain for 47 years now. It seems like just yesterday that I left the comfort zone of my grandparent’s house on Oke-Ado Market Road in Ibadan to face the harsh winters and the frosty welcome of Britain and the British.

    I have been thinking of returning home for most of that time. Since the first day I arrived. My father beat the desire out of me at the age of six. And before I know it I was 50 years old and time was slipping.

    But when you have family (two daughters in my case) it becomes trickier and trickier to return home. Your desire is further complicated by the passing on of your relatives in Nigeria which makes a homecoming more and more distant, or at least the compulsion to return home becomes less and less imminent.

    In short, I have been thinking of coming home for nearly fifty years.

    What exactly would you say is your motivation for wanting to return to Nigeria?

    My main motivation for returning home is to be part of the explosion of the media and in particular radio and television that is happening in Nigeria. And I want to be part of that. If it continues at this pace, Nigeria could quite easily be the world centre for television, just as we are the most prolific of all film industries, thanks to the enthusiasm and enterprise of our great Nollywood industry.

    What is the right offer that will make you pack your bags and head for Nigeria?

    The right offer has to match what the BBC is paying me, which is a LOT of money. I would consider several parties coming for me at a lower rate as long as it matches my BBC contract. I know what I’m worth and I am not worth a penny less than the BBC pays me. In fact, I’m worth more.

    What have been the reactions to your decision by family, friends and colleagues at work?

    My wife understands. My daughters understand. My brothers understand. No doubt my colleagues will give me their reaction when they read this article.

    How much of the Nigerian media landscape do you know and what is your assessment of the organisations?

    My father started out as features editor of the Daily Times in the 1950s. Then he went on to NBC as a broadcaster in the early 1960s. When I returned to Nigeria in 1977 as a teenager, I wrote several plays for Bendel Playhouse which was the Bendelites big drama production on Bendel State TV in those days.

    I have freelanced for several Nigerian publications in the past and I keep abreast with particularly the newspapers online and the likes of Arise and BEN Television from the UK side on cable TV. I don’t get to hear as much Nigerian radio as I would like to. As far as the newspapers are concerned, Nigeria has one of the most vibrant press cultures in the world. Our columnists are second to none. I can’t wait to cross swords with them all.

    As far as television presenters are concerned, I’ll give them 7/10 – see me after class. They could try harder.

    Do you have any particular big new channel in mind?

    Yes. I have had a couple of offers. One serious one with a channel that is due to launch in the summer. But, like I say, I’m open to offers.

    What are the advantages of the media explosion Nigeria is experiencing and how best can we maximise it?

    The media explosion can only be sustained if the people are lifted up and are able to shore it up with their buying power. The Nigerian explosion has to bypass the politicians and fight for and reflect the aims and aspirations of the Nigerian middle class so that everybody can have a goal to head for.

    I don’t want to see negativity. We can’t afford that. That media explosion can not only make Nigeria great, it can make Nigerians great.

    How did you accomplish so much in the print, book and broadcast industry in U.K?

    I work very hard. I work harder than anyone else. If I see someone working harder than me, I lose sleep to catch up and overtake them.

    Is it not arguable that you are the most successful Nigerian broadcaster in U.K?

    It is without question. Who else would contend with me?

    How have you coped with racism and prejudice being of Nigerian decent?

    We are born strong. Racism is a weakness. We stand strong and fight it on a daily basis. Institutionalised racism is the trickier beast. For that we have to build our own infrastructure so that we don’t need to rely on anyone else.

    Hence my self-sufficiency in publishing – my own publishing house, in media – my own internet television company and so on.

    What is your background in terms of your family, education and other things Nigerians need to know about you?

    I come from a family of accountants, the exception being my father. My grandparents were very good friends of Fela Kuti’s parents. Fela and my dad and my uncle were great friends. I went to school with the children of Tafawa Balewa (the original Corona School on Victoria Island). I am 100% Nigerian and will always be.

    What do you mean that Nigeria is the future and Britain is the past?

    Britain’s time has come and gone. Nigeria’s time is just head of us if we seize the time and make use of it. Yes, I can see a time in the next fifty years when we are sending aid to Britain.

    Supposing you don’t get the kind of offer you want, will you still be interested in returning home?

    I’m coming home, no matter what. Without that big transfer deal it might take time, but I long for my real pounded yam. I’m tired of the powdered stuff.

    Many Nigerians will do anything to live in U.K. What is your advice for such people?

    Do anything? That’s up to you. I have lived there so I won’t stop you. But don’t kill yourself to get there.

    Are you bothered about the negative reports about life in Nigeria?

    All I’m worried about is armed robbers. Boko Haram doesn’t worry me. Just armed robbers. The only thing that stops expatriates like myself from returning home is the lack of security which the state is supposed to be providing – not just for itself but for the rest of us.

  • Yolanda Jones still making waves

    Yolanda Jones still making waves

    IFY Yolanda Jones, remember her? She is the young girl that won the Nigerian Model Awards by Lexy Mojo-Eyes-led Legendary Gold Limited in 2006, and contested for the Ford Super Model of the World competition in New York that same year. Well, since then, Ify has not rested on her oars. She is currently among the top models outside Nigeria making the country proud. She was spotted by the head booker, Whilemina Models, New York, one of the top 10 agencies in the world, at the Arise Fshion Week. She has been signed on by the agency and has worked with Dolce and Gabana, Lacoste, Vena Cava, among other top designers. The international model has joined the league of big fishes as she launched her own customised wig line, WOW.

  • Nicole Chikwe  gets baby boy

    Nicole Chikwe gets baby boy

    LAST week, we served you gist that Nicole Chukwueke, ex model and wife of Rap sensation, Naeto C, was preparing for the birth of her first child to the Chikwe family. Well, the daughter of Chief Chukwueke, owner of auto company -Germaine Auto Centre, has been delivered of a baby boy in the US. The tiny tot came during the week.

    Naeto C, the son of the former Minister of Aviation, Kema Chikwe, and Nicole tied the knot in July 2012. The couple were secondary school lovers at Atlantic Hall, Epe, Lagos. Naeto C’s wedding was undoubtedly the most expensive wedding ever in the Nigerian music industry, and the reception met up to this feat with the presence of celebrities and assorted drinks served.

  • Jide Subair gives marriage another shot

    JIDE Subair, who was once married to Sherifat, the daughter of billionaire businessman and politician, Buruju Kashamu, is giving marriage another shot. This time, Jide will be getting married to Lagos big babe, Nike Bush, on Saturday, May 4, 2013, at Haven Events Centre, beside Arch Bishop Vinning Memorial Church, Oba Akinjobi Road, GRA, Ikeja, Lagos.

    The wedding is expected to be attended by who-is-who in the Lagos social and political circuits, owing to the fact that Nike is the daughter of respected Lagos political leader, Alhaji Bushura Alebiosu, and younger sister to Hon. Dayo Bush, a member of the Federal House of Representatives representing Kosofe Federal Constituency. About three months ago, Nike gave birth to a baby boy in Canada for the father of two, and the relationship took a notch higher when they got engaged.

  • I did what any young babe  did, but not to the extreme  –Tolani Akintunde

    I did what any young babe did, but not to the extreme –Tolani Akintunde

    Nollywood actress, Tolani Akintunde, hugged stardom in the television soap, Everyday People by Tajudeen Adepetu. Some years later, she relocated abroad to have her baby, and ever since, she has been shuttling between the United Kingdom and Nigeria. She speaks with ADETUTU AUDU on why she is scandal-free and why she can’t dump acting, which she says has brought her fame.

     

    YOU were based in the UK and are working with Avon, do you still have plan to act again? I won’t say I’m based in the UK; I’m just shuttling for now. I do Avon Cosmetics to complement other businesses that l am doing. Yes, I do have plans to act, and even working on a project that has to do with women abuse and violence.

    If you look back, what was the Everyday People experience like for you?

    Everyday People is still an on-going experience. It’s like living my life, except some minor changes. I believe, even though you are acting it, what you say does have an impact on your life. I had done Palace before Everyday People, so the nitty-gritty of the trade started from there.

    Would you say being a mother made you shun the klieglights?

    No, motherhood didn’t stop me at all. Remember l do soaps and we can always work around it if need be. My character in Everyday People left to live abroad so it was not about motherhood at all.

    What do you miss about Nigeria?

    I miss Nigeria like every other person here, so l try to come around as often as l can. I still do my business in Nigeria anyway.

    Being a Nigerian is always a factor abroad, how were you able to surmount this?

    Being a Nigerian is no big deal, we are just part of a multi-racial society, especially if you live in the capital. I don’t see any factor affecting us. We live as any other minority here.

    What has fame robbed you of?

    Fame hasn’t robbed me of anything. Instead, it added to me. I meet wonderful people everyday and most time they make my day. My daughter that was not born here even boasted to her mates that her mum is famous. It’s a plus to me really.

    You have remained one of the few scandal-free actresses, how were you able to achieve this?

    Scandal? I am primarily a journalist, so l know what can happen if l mess up. Not that I’m a saint, I did what any other young babe did but not to the extreme. I wouldn’t want to be a nuisance to myself and my family, so l cautioned myself. The funniest thing is that most of the stories are not true. It’s always fantasies mostly.

    Share one of your memorable or embarrassing moments with your fans?

    I’ve got plenty to even remember but every time I cross borders and l explain what l do, there is this respect and that goes a long way to send tingles all over me. Its like Wow, I did this. Also when you get to a place and people treat you as if they’ve known you all their life, it’s a good thing when you live abroad. Embarrassing moments, I’ve got loads of that as well, especially when l was quite young, but as an adult, it’s very rare. Nothing surprises me really. I just take things as they come. I make fun of myself even before anyone makes an issue out of it.

    What is your life-guiding philosophy?

    He who starts a good thing in my life is able to complete it.

    The best fashion advice ever received?

    Always use red lipstick.

  • Ayiri Emami’s payback time

    Ayiri Emami’s payback time

    THAT multiple award-winning music sensation, Tuface Idibia had his wedding in Dubai is no longer news. The multi-million naira wedding, according to whisperings, has a financial backbone who is no other person than entertainment enthusiast and socialite, Ayiri Emami. The Warri-born oil magnate, apart from finance, also ferried his yacht from the US to Dubai for the wedding.

    Ayiri Emami came into social reckoning in 2011 when his carnival-like wedding was beamed on Bisi Olatilo Show. It was widely reported he spent N150 million in which Tuface was one of his groomsmen. The wedding also had on bandstand Tuface, Dbanj, Yinka Ayefele, Psquare and many other notable Nigerian artists. He is reputed to be a big time businessman in Delta State – he owns the 911 Beach & Resort, Ugborodo and A& E Petroleum.

    Emami was one of the cabinet members of the Emmanuel Uduaghan administration but he was later dropped. Now, the rift between Chief Emami Ayiri and Governor Emmanuel Uduaghan might be over with his appointment as the boss of the reconstituted Delta Waterways Security Agency.

    Chief Ayiri was the head of the security outfit until he fell out with the governor and he was consequently removed and the outfit dissolved. It was reported that Governor Uduaghan observed that the absence of the committee which was dissolved sometime ago had created a vacuum in security information gathering, hence it was reconstituted.

    Emami is a phenomenon: his residence and business offices radiate opulence.

  • Jennifer Atiku  dumps friends

    Jennifer Atiku dumps friends

    JENNIFER Atiku, wife of the former vice-president, Atiku Abubakar, is not a happy woman at the moment. She has been in a bitter mood for some time now. The reason is not unconnected with the fact that her trusted friends have been spreading malicious information about her.

    Informed sources said that Jennifer has vowed to sever her ties with most of her friends. Meanwhile, the Anambra State-born former journalist has been out of circulation since the exit of her husband from politics. While some sources say she shuttles between United Arab Emirates and Nigeria, others say she co-runs ABTI, now American University of Nigeria, with her husband.

    Jennifer had been in the news for the wrong reasons over alleged money laundering cases in the United States before she was out of circulation.

  • A Nigerian can Succeed anywhere  in the  World —Chris Aire

    A Nigerian can Succeed anywhere in the World —Chris Aire

    His name still probably will not ring a bell among many Nigerians, but in America, in the dizzyingly fast – paced, glitzy world of Hollywood and the bigger fashion scene around the world, he is a superstar. The jeweller and exotic watch maker, artist and designer is friend to the biggest names in American music, film, fashion, entertainment and sports worlds. He is called ‘The Iceman’ on account of his trading in diamonds and other precious stones with which he has bedecked many of his superstar friends.

    In a world where the bold, big, flashy, loud and even outrageous are a fashion statement, this Nigerian kid has created a niche for himself in the risky jewellery business and, in the process, made a fortune for himself.

    The sixth son from a polygamous family, Aire left the shores of Nigeria in pursuit of the proverbial Golden Fleece at just over 17 years old. Today fate has smiled on him and he has, indeed, hit gold.

     

    WHAT does the Aire in your name mean? Is it Nigerian?

    Yes it is Nigerian, a derivative of my Ishan name. The full name, Airemiokhai, is a derivative of two Ishan words, “Aire,” which means “drawing close” and “Okhai,” meaning “greatness.” So it means “drawing close to greatness.” I decided to adopt my middle name and cut of the second half first as a mark of my independence at that time and, since I was going abroad then, to make it easier for people to pronounce.

    Were you born Chris Aire?

    I was born Christopher Airemiokhai Iluobe.

    You were so young and ran such a big company?

    I was, but I was able to run the company efficiently. Our head office was on Sapele Road in Benin and we had haulage trucks all over the country. We had about 100 trucks that transported diesel and petrol all over the country.

    Not many people know the name Iluobe. Can you tell us a little more about your father?

    My father was a very successful businessman. He was into oil and building materials. He had a factory that produced galvanised roofing sheets. He was also into farming, exporting cocoa and palm kernel. He actually gave me my first lessons in business.

    So if you were doing so well, why did you decide to go abroad?

    My father and I were very close growing up and he challenged me several times. But there was this particular time he did that and I decided that it was time to take him up on the challenge which is why I took the decision to be far away from home and his assistance and to use my middle name as my surname.

    What exactly was the challenge?

    The challenge was that I couldn’t make it without him and his name. And looking back if I had remained with him then, I believe that I would not have made it without him.

    So was America what you expected it to be?

    No it wasn’t as I had imagined when I arrived, partly because I went to Memphis in Tennessee.

    So how did you survive?

    It was hard. I started by flipping burgers to put myself through college. One of the things that were ingrained in me back in Nigeria was the need to be educated. So in America, I struggled to get a bachelor’s degree. That was my first goal.

    I met other Nigerians there who told me that the best job a Nigerian could get was to be either a security guard or work in a fast food restaurant. That was how I started working in a fast food restaurant. But I soon decided it was not for me and that I could do better.

    So how did you get into the jewelry business?

    I always had a love for jewelry and knew that jewelry was also a profitable business and wanted to ultimately invest in it. So I had hoped to create a successful career in the entertainment industry in the USA and invest the money I made into the jewelry business.

    How did you start your own company?

    I worked for him for six years and I had been able to save $5,000. That amount in starting a jewelry company is absolutely nothing. But what happened in those six years was that I met a lot of high net worth individuals within the jewelry community. The jewelry business is a very small community. We all go to the same shows, hang out together. So, working for him gave me a platform which catapulted me into the game. Unknown to me, people had watched me for six years and got an insight into my character. They knew I could be trusted and that I was a serious-minded person, this made it easier for them to take a chance on me.

    So how did you start with $5,000?

    The $5,000 was just enough for me to rent a small office space where I was my own secretary, designer, salesman, manufacturer and everything rolled in together. I started in 1996 with that small amount of money but the goodwill I had built was what pushed me over the edge.

    What exactly did you have to do?

    I did all the designs and since I had befriended so many people in the business, I approached somebody with a manufacturing facility that would help me with the gold and other raw materials to extend me credit terms. I then produced the pieces, put them in my bag and hawked them to the people I thought would buy them. I was given about 30 days to sell and pay off my creditor. I would sell the pieces and repeat the process.

    Which was your real break in the business?

    The turning point for me was when I met Gary Paton. He used to play for the Seattle Supersonics. That year they were playing the Los Angeles Lakers in the playoffs. I knew Gary was going to be staying at the Ritz Carlton Hotel, Marina Del Rey, so I went early and waited for him to show up. I waited for a few hours and when he finally showed up, I walked up and talked to him in the middle of press frenzy. I will never forget how gracious he was. I had never met him before. I just walked up to him and introduced myself and my business. He put his arms around me and pointed to his body guard and asked me to talk to him and exchange addresses and phone numbers. I stayed in touch with them after the playoffs. In the summer they were in Miami and invited me over to show them the stuff I had and I went over. When I got there he gave me an order for $50,000.

    What exactly did you sell to him?

    A bunch of gold and diamond basketball pendants. He bought for himself and his friends. It was a big order at the time. The interesting thing is that I had maxed out my credit card making that trip and if he hadn’t bought anything it would have been difficult for me to go back home. But it was worth the risk. Apart from him, I met a number of other people on the trip with whom I later did business.

    We read about you and so many Hollywood stars. Who would you say are your biggest customers ever?

    I try to respect people’s privacy because most of my clients are private people. So I can only talk about the ones we are allowed to talk about. But our clientele cuts across business, entertainment, sports and so on. When I first started it was mostly entertainers.

    How does it feel? Do you ever get carried away being a small boy from Nigeria making it big and hobnobbing with superstars?

    Sometimes I still pinch myself because I have been very fortunate. I consider myself lucky. Everything I have done I can only say is by the grace of the Almighty God.

    You were away from Nigeria for a long time. What made you come back?

    When I left Nigeria the idea was to go and study, better myself and then come back, but the people who came back returned and told us how horrible it was. So coming back home was the last thing on my mind at the time. Also, the pieces I was getting lots of notoriety for in the USA were not your standard run-of-the-mill designs. They were cutting edge and a lot of people did not understand it. They used to say who would wear a clock. I could never have come home at that time with the pieces I was making. When I left, Nigeria was a conservative place. We were used to small flat wrist watches. So I never thought there would be a market for what I was doing in Nigeria. As I got older, I started rethinking because most of the raw materials I use come from the African continent and most Africans are exploited and never really given the opportunity to add value to our raw materials. I decided it would be good to come back and set up something that would start to change that. So I started thinking of coming to set up here and contribute in my own way and share the knowledge I have accumulated in the United States. But I didn’t come to Nigeria right away. I went to Sierra Leone and Guinea Conakry and then gradually started coming to Nigeria. We were then invited by Nduka Obaigbena to participate in the Thisday Arise show. After the show many people showed interest in our products which inspired me to set up the jewelry shop at Transcorp Hilton.

    Where and how do you source you raw materials from, particularly diamonds?

    From all over the world. Some we get through our diamond network but we deal only in blood -free diamonds. Some of the raw materials like semi – precious stones and precious stones we get in Nigeria. We have investment interest in some mines outside Nigeria and we get some of our gold and others materials from there.

    There has been a great outcry against blood diamonds from Sierra Leone and other places. How do you ensure that you do not deal in them?

    Blood diamonds are diamonds that fund wars and conflicts. Sierra Leone has been peaceful for quite some time, but there are diamonds in Canada, and there is no war in Canada. There are beautiful diamonds in Australia and there is no war there. Most of the yellow diamonds are from Australia. Some of the best diamonds are from Africa; South Africa, Botswana, Angola, Sierra Leone and many other places.

    Apart from jewelry you also went into wrist watches and other products. Can you tell us more about your businesses?

    When I started I didn’t have much money so I started with what I felt most comfortable with which was bridals designing bridal rings and accessories and expanded into other areas later. But I felt restricted and I couldn’t express myself much. I wanted to serve a clientele of artists, actors, celebrities and people like that who had a different taste, certainly not conservative. So I started creating these pieces my peers called “crazy designs”. But I always went out and sold them. By the time I had built up a big clientele I realised that they were looking up to me for direction in terms of the design of their jewelry and so I started recommending other brands to them. One day I woke up and said I was going to create something that was mine and present it to them. I created my own brand of watches and put it out and it sold out within two weeks and people were sending me their Rolex watches to trade it in for the Chris Aire brand.

    How much was it?

    When we first came out with the watch, the Aire Traveller, the basic model was $4,600. Then we had the diamond model that was $6,000 to $7,500. Some were $22,000 each and the most expensive one at the time $50,000. But today we have watches go sell in million dollar range.

    Looking at some of the stuff you have done, it takes an utterly crazy person to do them

    You call me crazy? (Laughs). Yeah, I get called that sometimes.

    Some of the big stars in entertainment and sports you do business with and who wear your jewelry at concerts, in musical videos, how do you relate with them?

    Most of my clients are my friends now. When you are in the public eye you become extremely suspicious of people. Most celebrities are guarded. I misread this when I was starting out. I didn’t know it was a protective shield. I thought they were just being jerks because I would walk up to some of them and they would look down on me like I was a thief or something. As a Nigerian, I have an innate sense of pride but I had to swallow that pride because I had to eat. And that is why I say I was lucky. Imagine if the first 100 people I walked up to had told me to go to hell. It would have been a different story today. But with time they saw I was somebody they could trust. In hanging out with celebrities, going to their homes and so on you become privy to a lot of things but you cannot talk about them elsewhere. What they want to know first is can they trust you and do you care about them? The business comes later.

    Has being a Nigerian ever worked against you abroad?

    My belief is that if you do not feel comfortable or confident in your own skin, everything will work against you no matter where you are from. Yes I am a Nigerian, a black man and I am proud of it. What my story has shown is that a Nigerian can make it anywhere in the world. Nigerians are great people. We are hardworking and immensely blessed by God that is why Nigerians excel wherever they go.

    It is a high risk business. And you have been in the US for a long time. Have you ever been scammed? And have you also ever had any problems with the law?

    I have been in America for 30 years now. And I have been in a business of trust. But I have never had any run in with the law and I have not had any problem with anybody. You know the jewelry industry is replete with stories about quack jewelers. We have been very fortunate and have not been involved in any controversies, thank God. I would prevaricate if I tell you that I am not aware of the International community’s perception of the Nigerian brand. I know most people think that a lot of use cannot be trusted and there is a strong argument in favor of that. My take on that is that you cannot indict a whole group of people based on the actions of a select few. This is why I always let people know that I am a Nigerian, because even though some people have given us a bad name not every Nigerian is a conman. As far as being scammed, I wouldn’t say I have been scammed in the US but I have lost money in Sierra Leone and Guinea. I have not had any problems in Nigeria.

    Having made it outside this shores, there are many young Nigerians who would look up to you as a role model. In what way are you giving back to society, in building up our youths, for example?

    I think it is a privilege to be in my position and I do not take the responsibility of giving back lightly. But on a serious note, that is one aspect of my life that I do not make too much noise about. But what I can talk about is I have tried to do is give some of our young ones the kind of opportunity and exposure that I have enjoyed. I was the one who introduced D’banj to Snoop Dogg and orchestrated the collaboration. I have also worked with Duncan Mighty and a host of other guys helping to strengthen the Nigerian entertainment community. And none of it was business. I never got a dime from helping any of them.

    You said you had invested in mines in Sierra Leone. Do you have similar investments in Nigeria?

    Yes we have some investments in Nigeria as well. We support small scale miners in the country from whom we source some of our raw materials used in some of our products in our Transcorp Hilton Hotel Boutique.

    Do you have a factory here?

    No not yet. We are working on it but we need to get our electricity and other things sorted out first.

    That is a disincentive to investing in Nigeria isn’t it?

    I think it is a very important one. I am told that the government is working around the clock to fix it. There are other discouraging factors. I have been extremely encouraged by the support that we have received from majority of Nigerians in our efforts here, but there are a few people who are grounded in negativity that they believe the only way to excel is by bringing others down.

    If you are talking about the allegations that trailed your foray into oil business, it was simply alleged that you won a major oil lifting license with a briefcase company which had no address, no staff. And that you got the license because you had a relationship with the oil minister. Why won’t you address that?

    The truth is whatever you give attention grows bigger. I did not feel the need to address any of those gutter articles because I did not want to give them credence. But I will say this; you are sitting in my Abuja office today and conducting this interview. Are you sitting in a briefcase? We had this office before the publication of the lies. I am a public figure and therefore entitled to certain precautionary measures as a result of my exposure. Did anybody I do business with tell you they couldn’t find me? Did NNPC tell you that we needed to pay a bill and they didn’t know where to find my company? We are in Africa and specifically Nigeria to do business. We have interest in various parastatals. As a Nigerian, It is my birth right and as a businessman it is my challenge to continue to expand our business interest wherever they may lie just like any other successful business person.

    So what is your relationship with the oil minister? How did you meet her and do you have any business relationship?

    I am a very good friends with her and her entire family. I am extremely proud of all her accomplishments and how I have seen her represent the country both at home and abroad.

    The Honourable Minister approached my company a few years ago, having followed up on our success in America and wanting to increase the awareness of Nigerian’s vast wealth of Solid Minerals to the world. We brainstormed and decided that Hollywood would be the best place to put on such an exhibition. But since the ministry could not afford to finance the event, our company offered to provide fifty per cent of the funding while the other fifty per cent were acquired from sponsorships from four major Nigerian banks. The event was first of its kind by any ministry in Nigeria. It was an amazing success. It was broadcast to over three billion viewers world- wide and massively covered by domestic and international news agencies. This one event has since transformed the perception of Nigeria’s Ministry of Mines and Steel and the type of investment that it is currently attracting. But instead of giving her credit for her vision, dedication and fortitude, some mischief makers decided to bastardise the experience and twist into something that it wasn’t. Ironically, this story can also be pulled up by any one curious enough or remotely interested in the truth. All they needed to do was “Google”

    There were also allegations that you front for the minister and that you gave her loads of diamonds in return for an oil lifting license

    (Bursts out laughing) It is false. The funny thing is that the event that they wrote about (Hollywood Glamour Collection featuring Nigerian Gold and Gemstones) was a very public event put on for the good of all Nigerians.), it was strictly for publicity. It was broadcast on AIT, Channels and NTA and Thisday, Leadership, The Nation, Punch all wrote about it.

    The event where you partnered with her in America?

    Yes. It was not a personal partnership with her, but a partnership between our company and the Nigerian government. It was an official event, this is where they said I paid her in diamonds. I think they should applaud her for having the vision to partner with a successful Nigerian abroad to showcase Nigerian’s solid minerals and attract international investment into Nigeria. I thought it was ingenious and that most other parastatals could benefit from similar creative gestures. This kind of mentality discourages creativity, enterprise and investment.

    Just for the records, do you have an oil-lifting license? Or what type of oil business do you do?

    I am a Nigerian and a businessman and just like every other Nigerian we have various interests and investments in Nigeria and other countries across the relevant parastatals. We compete and bid like every other businessman.

  • People insisting on monogamy are selfish –Siti Biobaku-Abiola

    People insisting on monogamy are selfish –Siti Biobaku-Abiola

    Siti Biobaku-Abiola is one of the wives of the late billionare businessman and acclaimed winner of the June 12 1993 presidential election, MKO Abiola. The mother of four whose father was a cousin to the late MKO shared with ADETUTU AUDU on her days with the late business mogul, why she may not remarry and why people claiming monogamy are selfish. She also debunked the ‘one million naira per child’ claim and the rumour that the late MKO married two Biobaku’s daughters.

     

    SINCE 1998 that the late MKO Abiola died, how have you been coping, as you have not remarried?

    He left home in 1994 and died in 1998.I did not remarry and I don’t even have a plan to. When he died my kids were very young and I had a lot of issues then, like would I go and raise them in another man’s house? The only thing I wanted was to devote my time to raising them and getting them educated.

    Was it because of the love you had for your late husband?

    Loving him is different from taking care of the children. My father had so many wives, and my mother was the first wife. As far as my mother was concerned, she was not into what my father was doing; she concentrated more on raising her children. She used to say no matter the wealth you amass, it is the success of your children that will determine whether you lived a good life.

    There is this rumour that once you had a child for MKO, he put N1m in a bank account for the child. How true is this?

    There is absolutely nothing like that. I heard it when I had my second child. Someone told me now that you have a child and are expecting another, that means N1m for you. I was in England then, he came over and I asked him: how come I have not received my own? And he said if I give N1m per child, the remaining money who owns it; that it was just an imagination. And I know I never collected. I doubt if it happened.

    How did you meet him?

    How? I did not meet him anywhere, I grew up knowing him. He was my father’s cousin.

    The late MKO Abiola was someone who had businesses while he was alive. Since his demise, all his business interests seem to have gone under. Is it that after the will was read, none of these was shared or what happened?

    All he said in his will was that the kids should go through DNA test and those who passed should share his things equally. Most of his kids were young as at the time he died. I think what happened was that the wives were not bothered on these things, majority concentrated on their children. When they come of age, they can now decide on what to do with them. Kola can not do it alone. Let’s get rid of sentiments. I used to tell him I don’t envy him, because no matter what he becomes, people will still say it is because of what he inherited from his father. But I tell you, Kola works a lot. I do not envy him because of the position he is occupying. I am also a mother, and I don’t want anybody to be at daggers drawn with my son. What I can’t wish for others, I can not do.

    One thing I know is that Kola has tried a lot. MKO is different from Kola and we don’t expect him to be like that. He is not a loud person. I know he cares about his younger ones.

    For instance, when my third child graduated from the University of Agriculture, Abeokuta, she wanted to go for NYSC and they posted her to Ebonyi. Because of the rate of kidnapping, I wanted her to change. So, I told her to call him, and he assisted and she served in Platinum Habib.They even wanted to retain her, but she declined. If there is money from the estate on ground, without us asking, he called and shared the money among the children. I don’t expect him to shoulder responsibilities that are not his.

    And I tell my children, if you limit yourselves to the Abiola’s shadow, you will never be successful as Abiola. If you come out of that shadow you can even be more successful than your late father. Even the late Abiola started from nothing, he did not inherit anything.

    I also told them that after I finished training them, whatever houses I have, I will sell and spend the money because it is my money. I have told them that they should not expect me to give them houses. One thing about me is that I have no ambition. I don’t want to become the richest woman or anything. I just know that I believe in what will be will be.

    When you got the news of the death of your late husband, how did you feel?

    I was in Abuja when it happened. It is not a chapter I really want to go over. At that time, I was not into NADECO or Afenifere thing. I felt the whole issue was not well managed. But people misconstrued me. I became a target. I was called all sorts of names. My father’s house was burnt and my kids were in that house. The rumour was that I was in Switzerland with the kids. But I was in Abuja to look for a way to talk with the late MKO that whatever condition they gave him, he should take and come out. One can’t fight when he is still locked up.

    At that time, people were hoodwinked by the propaganda. I was not into politics, but I felt the whole thing was not properly handled and a lot people were trying to leverage on it for their own political gains. I thought the late MKO was being used at the expense of his own family. The presidency thing is not a do-or-die affair, he can jettison it and go back and contest.

    At that time I was very young, and catering for four kids was scary. I never planned to be a widow at a very tender age. I was not even 30 years then. You can imagine a young girl, when some of my mates were still planning to get married. I am not blaming all of them that are involved in the struggle. One man I really I admire is General Alani Akinrinade (rtd). He had a lot to lose by being on the side of the people. You will realise that there are lots of inconsistencies in the struggle.

    Talk about Asiwaju Bola Tinubu. I can understand his stand that he believed in the late MKO and stood by him, even former governor Osoba too. Those were the people we saw around him before these Awolowo people hijacked the process. And immediately the election was annulled and people were aggrieved, they realised they needed to be relevant. And they hijacked it, and behaved as if they were on the side of the people. They were the ones that insisted that the late MKO should not take any condition given by the late Sani Abacha, but his mandate. They needed to keep fighting for something. I tell you when the whole thing went wrong was when the Afenifere hijacked the whole process because June 12 was not about Yoruba or South-West; it was about the whole country.

    What is your view on the renaming of University of Lagos after your late husband?

    I don’t understand the basis for that. When President Jonathan wanted to contest for presidency, he came to the family house in Ikeja. But let’s ask ourselves, while he was the governor of Bayelsa, did he ever declare or celebrate June 12? Where was Jonathan when MKO was alive, so why would he think he would use my husband as a mileage? For instance, Mama HID Awolowo, though she is old, she still holds the name and reputation of her husband in high honour. She does not allow anybody to rubbish her late husband. Assuming the late Simbiat Abiola was alive, all these would not have happened.

    You were brought up in a polygamous family; you have also experienced it, what is your view on it?

    You know what, all these people claiming monogamy are selfish. When you say a man should marry only one wife, who will marry the other women? Do you want them to live their lives as mistresses, and then we are condoning adultery or is it fornication? Somebody has to marry them now. Let us be frank, all of them claiming ‘one man, one wife’ have chains of mistresses outside their matrimonial homes. I don’t like hypocrisy. If you know that you can’t adhere strictly to your wife, then don’t say anything against polygamy. Having extra-marital affairs or fathering kids outside your marriage is an act of hypocrisy. If you want to practice monogamy, then control yourself. If you can’t marry a woman, then don’t go near them. Polygamy to me is no big deal; it is part of our tradition. I still respect polygamist than the so-called monogamist, except you are honest with it and have no time for extra-marital affair. That is why we have alarming rate of divorce.

    There is this rumour that the late Abiola married two sisters from the Biobaku’s family. How true is this?

    It was not true. My parents never named me Titi, my name is Sitirat. Though in school, people called me Sade. Many people are confused about the name. My father can not allow such. Go and check the will, he named all his wives. So you will see the name of the sisters there. It can’t happen in my family.