Category: Sunday magazine

  • Bolu Akin-Olugbade  gives mother-in law  rites of passage

    Bolu Akin-Olugbade gives mother-in law rites of passage

    LAGOS business mogul and the Aare Onakakanfo of Owu Kingdom, Prince Bolu Akin-Olugbade, has rolled out the drums for the grand burial of his mother in-law, Mrs Modupe Corsiba Moore, who died last month after a brief illness. The deceased gives mother-in-law rites of passage the mother of the  fashionista and boss of Steppin-Out Boutique on Opebi Road, Ikeja, Chief (Mrs) Oladunni Akin-Olugbade. The event will kick off with a wake keep on Thursday, 27 of November at Darlington Hall, Ilupeju. This will be followed by lying-in-state on Friday 28, at the Thorburn Avenue, off Commercial Avenue, Yaba, before a funeral service takes place at St Paul Catholic Church on Murtala Muhammed Way, Ebute Metta, Lagos. The remains of the late Mrs Moore, will be laid to rest at the Vaults and Garden, Ikoyi.

    The Rolls-Royce legal luminary will move the party train to Harbour Point Event Centre in Victoria Island, Lagos for the entertainment of guests.  Akin-Olugbade is known not to do his things in half measures, he has contracted a popular musician to entertain the invited guests who are already planning to attend the high profile event.

  • DJ Big N’s top 10

    DJ Big N’s top 10

    Dr Sid’s personal disc jockey, DJ Big N, born Nonso Temisan Ajufo, has a B Sc. in Psychology from UNILAG and an MBA from Coventry University, UK. The turntable magician has been rocking the decks for a while. He tells Adetutu Audu his favourite things.

    Favourite fashion designer

    Nigerian-Mai atafo, international-reek Owen

     

    Favourite shoe designer

    Buscemi

     

    Favourite perfume

    Tom ford

     

    Favourite  underwear designer

    Calvin Klein

     

    Favourite belt designer

    Gucci

     

    Favourite food

    Jollof rice and soft plantain with goat meat

     

    Favourite sunglasses

    Louis Vuitton

     

    Favourite wristwatch designer

    Rolex

     

    Favourite holiday spot

    Zanzibar

     

    Favourite book

    Sidney Sheldon (master of the game)

  • My strength is my talent  -Niyola

    My strength is my talent -Niyola

    Eniola Akinbo, popularly known as Niyola, discovered her affinity for music at the age of eight and has nurtured her musical skills over the years. Her unique story started in 2000 when she took part in the AMEN starlet competition and emerged first runner up. Since then, she has had record deals with West Side Records, Trybe Records before joining Banky W’s EME label.  Fondly called the first lady of EME Records, she speaks with Adetutu  Audu  on her musical career and her personality.

    HOW does it feel to be the only female on EME label? I have always grown up amongst more guys than girls. And it feels good to know that I have more guys to call my family. There is of course an added responsibility when you are the only female in a record label, but it is pressure I can handle. I enjoy the sense of family and knowing that there are people looking out for me.

    Many people didn’t know about you before you joined EME. What was the music industry like in the past and which record label were you signed on to?

    The industry certainly wasn’t this commercial or glamorous. It was one that had people who believed in talent and did what they did out of sheer passion because, at the time, you were not respected for being an artiste. It was considered an escape for the nonentities and school drop outs, most especially if you were female. There were only a negligible number of female artistes then like Sasha, Azeezat, Kush, Weird MC and a few others. I thank God this has changed tremendously. I was signed to Westside records alongside Faze Freestyle and Djinee

    Can you give us a rundown of how you met Banky W and eventually signed to EME?

    Banky was my friend for years before we decided to work together. We met at the first Ovation Red Carol rehearsals which took place at the Coliseum. He heard me singing from the rest room and accosted me on my way out, telling me how he loved my voice. We became friends afterwards and five years later we decided to work on a song together. He offered me a record deal and the rest is history.

    There have been a number of splits between artistes and their record labels in recent times. You witnessed one while you were with Trybe Records. Do you have any fears that you might ever be in that situation at EME?

    People are bound by contracts to their labels, and in a situation where they split I am sure both parties will try to ensure that whatever option they choose is the right thing to do legally. My contract is still very valid and I have no plans to breach it.

    Challenges of stardom

    I think sometimes a lot of people think celebrities are super heroes forged out of steel and maybe water. They forget that when all is said and done, we all are humans. Being constantly in front of the spotlight can take its toll. You find yourself constantly having to put on a smile even if you’re having a terrible day.  There is always a price to pay for everything, but sometimes I wish stardom wasn’t so demanding.

    How did you get into music? Did you always know you would do music or is it something you just stumbled into?

    Of all my talents I was blessed with or everything I can do or love to do, music makes me the happiest. I wake up every morning with a desire to make music and if for any reason I could no longer make music, the way I know how to, I know that I would be very unhappy. I knew I wanted to make music, but my professional debut happened unexpectedly and since that point on I have never looked back.

    How would you describe your music?

    I like to call it contemporary R &B/Pop because it’s a fusion of both genres and a little bit of me as a Yoruba girl from Nigeria. We are a product of our experiences and I grew up listening to R&B/Pop acts. So, I make the sort of music I am most familiar with. I can also express myself completely using R&B/POP as a tool. This doesn’t mean I can’t do Soul or Reggae or something else and maybe in future I will, but right now I’m happy with the type of music I make.

    When people see Niyola on their screens and in pictures, they see a sexy lady. What is the relationship between being sexy and succeeding as a female artiste?

    I don’t think you have to be sexy to succeed. I am exactly how I would be even if I wasn’t singing. I just channel who I already am and that’s what I think success requires. You must be true to yourself. Many women who aren’t perceived as sexy make beautiful music and are successful. That said, this is show business.

    Can you share your memorable moments with us?

    Every day is as important as the next; every moment I spend with a loved one or making music or performing is memorable. Many people would give an arm and a leg to have one extra day, not even a memorable one at that. I look at every new day as a chance to make memories.

    What would you say are your regrets?

    I have none so far. I have always believed that my life is not by chance and that everything happens for a reason. In time, even the most painful experiences will bring smiles to our faces, if only to be grateful that we survived the rough patches.

    Share the best and worst decision you have taken with us

    The best decision I have taken is following my dreams. There was a point I wasn’t sure if I wanted to keep making music, thankfully I decided to stick with it. I can’t really think of any bad decisions right now. If I made them, then I am certain that I had valid reasons.

    Who is Niyola outside of music?

    I am an everyday woman doing the things a typical woman does. But I don’t know if it is possible to imagine a Niyola outside music. Being a recording and performing artiste means living and breathing music 24/7.

    Tell us about your unique personality and how it reflects in your music and in your message.

    I am very reserved. I wouldn’t say I’m quiet. A lot of people can mistake that, at times, for cockiness but I’m really just a reserved person. I believe that everybody has something special and I think that my strength is in the talent that I have. With my music, I realise that one of my strong points is being able to reach out to people and make them feel better about themselves, let them know they can be better. I believe God has given me a platform where I can reach out to more than one person at a time. So, with my music, I’m passing across a message.

    How would you describe your style?

    I just like to keep it simple, yet classy. I don’t like extravagance.

    People have dubbed you as sexy. What is your take?

    I have always been self-aware. I am a woman and have always been conscious of my body and the effect it has on the opposite sex. I am me and being sexy is innate. It is not something I do on purpose, it’s like breathing. I don’t know for a fact if it has helped increase my acceptability or made me marketable. I want to believe my music does all that for me.

    How do you revitalise your voice?

    I don’t do anything special to it. I just make sure I sing every day. Practice makes perfect.

    How would you say you fared last year?

    2013 was a very significant year in my career. It was a reintroduction of sorts for me. People received my new singles warmly, and when the video for Toh Bad was released it became even more exciting. So, in a nutshell, I’ll say it was a fair and eventful one

    Are you working on any new songs?

    Yes, I am. I am always working on new songs. I am constantly recording new materials. I am happiest when I am making music. The difficulty with having a constant supply of new material is deciding what to release and when to release it. My team and I always want to make sure we put our best foot forward.

  • Sophisticated nightgown

    Sophisticated nightgown

    YOUR nightgown shouldn’t just be a dull wear that you sleep in, it could also be used to make a statement to your partner.

    Gone are the days of lengthy roomy robes of cotton fabric. Now, nighties come in a variety of styles, colours, designs and fabrics. From stretchy lacy and velvet materials, polyester to cute cotton trendy designs.

    Today’s nighties give a wonderful feeling of sophistication, stunning feminine and sexy looks. Most of these stylish nighties are easy to slip on and they also look very comfortable and great on the wearer’s skin.

    Also, nighties now come in sequins, embroidered materials and ribbon and lace ruffles designs. However, the lengths of these lovely gowns vary. For the best effect, go for knee-length nighties! Most nighties are light weight and are just right for you.

  • Reasons to invest in leather jacket

    Reasons to invest in leather jacket

    EVERY season you try on a beautiful leather jacket, look at the price tag, and decide you will wait to buy it next year. Then five years pass and you are still putting off the purchase. We get it: A truly great leather jacket can make serious impression in your bank account. But if you are willing and able to invest in one, you won’t regret it, which is why they have rounded up reasons to justify the idea of spending so much on a single item.

    •You can wear it with layering pieces.

    •You can wear it with ladylike silks.
    •You can wear it with stripes.
    •You can wear it with black skinny jeans.
    •You can wear it with chambray tops.
    •You can wear it with casual t-shirts.
    •You can wear it with leather boots.
    •You can wear it with sneakers.
    •You can wear it with any LBD.
    •You can wear it with plaid.
    •You can wear it with printed skirts.
    •You can wear it with all your denim.
    •You can wear it with pencil skirts.
    •You can wear it with statement accessories.
    •You can wear it with lace.
    •You can wear it with distressed denim.
    •You can wear it with knit sweaters.

  • Versatile elegance in Sheer

    Versatile elegance in Sheer

    GUESS what’s back in vogue after a short time off? Sheer fabrics! These cool and chic fabrics have made a sudden and dramatic return to the social scene. As we all know, one of the secrets of a great looking dress is the fabulous design and its distinctive cut.

    Sheer fabric has been introduced into fashion over the centuries and this has been revived and reintroduced according to their suitability for the current mode of dress.

    And as you must have noticed, sheer dress, especially those stylishly mixed with other fabric, is the must-have dress of the moment. And the good thing is that they are great on gown, skirts and trousers. These fabulous and unique fabrics are too fantastic to be ignored.

  • Skin  care

    Skin care

    TAKING care of your skin during a wet weather is a big deal. How healthy one’s skin is, is the first step towards an excellent supple body.

    But how you maintain your skin will determine how healthy it can go this cold period. It is very necessary that you take special care of your skin during this season in order for it to look radiant and beautiful despite the heavy down pour. So, you need to take extra measures to protect your skin against harsh weather, because the rainy season brings about other potential problems for the skin. Colder weather does not mean your skin is not in danger of drying up. In fact, the skin tends to get dry easily during colder weather.

    To keep your skin healthy and protect it against the cold, you must make sure it is supple and full of moisture to avoid cracking and dryness. Here are some tips to keep you pretty when it is raining cats and dogs:

    *Wash your face with plain water, avoid using soap because too much soap can dry up your skin and steal its natural oils.

    *Petroleum jelly is good for this season; it will seal in moisture,

    *For your skin to retain its glow throughout this cold period, you need to look for a body cream that contains some vital vitamins.

    *Also, body creams that contain avocado oil and sunflower oil will make the skin glow and warm.

    *Drink plenty of water, water will detoxify the blood streams and aid the free flow of blood. Drinking at least seven to eight glasses of water every day helps purify the body from within and helps us flush all the harmful bacteria out. Avoid too much intake of soda and other alcoholic drinks since these can lessen our youthful look.

    *Eat lots of fresh fruits; fresh fruits and vegetable plus a good healthy diet can make skin healthy and help us achieve a balanced weight at the same time.

    *After you wash your hands, use hand cream to seal in moisture.

    *African shear butter (ori) is also good for this period, and if you are the type that cannot do without a particular body cream, you can rub ori after you apply your body cream.

    According to Bose Akintoye of Lady B11 beauty salon, “light makeup made with waterproof foundation powder, waterproof mascara, waterproof lipsticks, waterproof liners and waterproof shimmer is more advisable. And wear water-based moisturisers during the rainy season to keep away oily skin, acne and water loss due to perspiration.”b

  • ‘We cannot overlook religion in politics’

    ‘We cannot overlook religion in politics’

    Renowned evangelist, Dr Uma Ukpai, spoke with Sunday Oguntola on 2015 elections and sundry national issues. Excerpts:

    To you think Nigerians can have free and fair elections come 2015?

    When a society that is not of honest people wants to have a fair election, it doesn’t add up. This is a country where the rule of law does not obtain; a country where there is no respect for the sacredness of human being around us. A situation where people don’t have the fear of God in their conscience, they can’t be fair to anybody. God will help us not to allow the 2015 general elections not to destroy Nigeria.

    Is that to say the elections could pose danger to national unity?

    That Nigeria is still one is a puzzle and miracle. If not for the prayers of the saints, this country could have been sacked long ago because the things that make for unity are not there. No corporate sentiment of our nation. Nigerians don’t think like a nation but they think like tribalists.

    If one’s father is not from a given place and even if that person is born in that place, he would be taxed and be treated like a stranger not like one of them. It is difficult to have a united nation because the practices and constitution do not support that unity.

    Unfortunately the most cheated man in life is the most selfish man. We are going to cheat ourselves in 2015 elections because of selfishness and only God’s mercy will keep us together after 2015.

    What are the things to expect?

    Well as usual, we shall witness stealing of voting materials, disorganised elections and killing but God in His infinite mercy would take control that the country would not be overturned. We shall have bruises, people shall be wounded and some of the wounded soldiers would be left behind.

    All these are already on but we could have more as we approach the elections. We are political lepers who don’t feel any pains when hurt; Nigerians don’t feel pains anymore. We have lost the capacity for wonderment and that makes us dangerous and we can do the unimaginable.

    But INEC has promised free and fair elections. Is that achievable?

    History will repeat itself but if we want a change, let all the politicians go to school and learn the rule of politics. As long as we have untrained politicians, they will continue to break the rule of the game. When we have thugs as politicians, we will continue to have the same results. We need a school for politicians urgently. The longer the delay, the more people shall die.

    Look at the ward congresses of the PDP we had, how many people were killed and nobody has been arrested for the killing? Security agencies did not say anything about the killing but the family members of the slain are weeping. A nation that kills her own is not a good nation; we are killing ourselves. It is the sheer mercy of God and miracle that makes Nigeria to still exist.

    But how long do you think this mercy of God will continue to keep us?

    Well, the bible says God’s mercy endureth forever and as long as His mercy endures, Nigeria will continue to exist. As long as God remains merciful, so shall we remain as a nation. What we do does not really add for us to be a nation. Love, care and appreciation for one another which are the basis for unity are not there. Nothing shakes us any longer.

    Do you think there is something that makes us to be so?

    Because we have no respect for God, a man who has no regard for God cannot have regard for his neighbours and this is frightening. I cannot even go near any of the congresses for instance.

    What do you have to say about the Muslim/Muslim ticket, which some allege one of the parties is planning?

    Muslim/Muslim ticket contradicts common sense; it is selfish. Whoever thinks about it is not thinking about its consequences and such is selfish. It is a selfish agenda to field Muslim/Muslim or Christian/Christian.

    Are we not mixing religion with politics here?

    You cannot separate religion from politics. The issue of M.K.O Abiola and Kingibe added to our sins. Did they rule after the elections? It is because God is not in support of that and that issue would have killed Nigeria if they had successfully ruled.

    You cannot overlook religion in politics; it is like committing suicide in a broad day light and that has made Nigeria like an accident that is about to happen. Politics is what we do every day. Politics is what we all practice every day. When some people go to church and not a mosque and vice versa, it is politics. So, we are already playing that politics. When the church bells and you head to the mosques instead of the church, you are declaring your position.

    Your home church, the Assemblies of God has been undergoing a leadership crisis. What is your take on it?

    I think we have done well in that in 80 years, we have only had our major crisis. Even Jesus had a Judas. So, to that extent, I will say we have done very well. It is not easy to manage a church. The hardest thing under the sun is to be a leader of men. This is the first major crisis we have had. I won’t go into who is right or wrong.

    Rev. Paul Emeka believes you belong to the other camp…

    …No, let us not go into what he said and did not say.

    …But you sent a goodwill message to the last General Council meeting where you congratulated the new leadership. Is that an endorsement of a sort for Rev. Chidi Okoroafor?

    Yes because that is where my heart is. I am old enough to know what I want. It is an endorsement for the new leadership. Before then, I had called the two to Benin and made efforts to reconcile them but it failed woefully.

    What were their contentions?

    I will not go into that. But that was a big sacrifice on my part. Since I failed, the next thing was to look at what to do to save the church. So, everything we did was in order. The day we called Paul Emeka, he should have been there because I was the speaker but he didn’t. If he had been there, things wouldn’t have gone this bad. When I asked him why he did not come, he said he felt the people would have mobbed him. You cannot say that because it means your members are thugs.

    Many believe that Christian leaders like you are working for the PDP. How do you react to this?

    What is wrong with that? Since the APC has Islam practitioners, it is only natural that the PDP will attract Christians.

    Isn’t that dangerous politics?

    We shouldn’t be afraid of that because I told you that when you wouldn’t go to church but go to mosque, you are already playing politics.

  • The covenant of rewards! (3)

    Welcome to your regular column. I started this teaching a fortnight ago. In the first week, I explained what a covenant is. By way of refreshing your memory, I said a covenant is like a contract, involving two or more people.

    In this case, it involves just you and God. God is the Covenantor and you are the covenantee — you are the beneficiary of the deal. All you need then is a good understanding of what the covenant entails, and you’ll be a beneficiary of God’s rewards for your stewardship to Him. Also, I considered faithfulness, as a vital requirement of the covenant of rewards.

    At the second week, I taught on diligence, continuity and consistency as requirements of the covenant of rewards. On diligence, I said God is a Rewarder of all those who diligently seek and serve Him (Hebrews 11:6). When you serve God diligently, you will be rewarded openly.

    On continuity, I cautioned that you should never mind your mockers! Stay On! Continuity is a vital rule in your quest for full rewards (Luke 22:29). As long as you are not tired of rendering your continuous stewardship, in spite of temptations, God won’t be tired of dazing you with unstoppable rewards.

    Finally, on consistency, I said you should never get to a point where God becomes untrue to you! I know for long that God does not need me; it is me that need Him! So, remain steadfast (1 Corinthians 15:58). That is the rule that entitles you to the rewards. I am too sure of God’s reward system; no devil can confuse me of this reality in my life. So, receive grace for steadfastness, in the name of Jesus!

    In continuation of that teaching this week, I will consider other requirements of the covenant of rewards –

    Rendering service cheerfully: Recognize that our rewards are reserved for us, until we are properly positioned. The Word of God says: Because thou servedst not the Lord thy God with joyfulness, and with gladness of heart, for the abundance of all things; Therefore shalt thou serve thine enemies which the Lord shall send against thee, in hunger, and in thirst, and in nakedness, and in want of all things: and he shall put a yoke of iron upon thy neck, until he have destroyed thee (Deuteronomy 28:47-48).

    You need to be joyful while rendering your services to God. Joel 1:11-12 says: Be ye ashamed, O ye husbandmen; howl, O ye vinedressers, for the wheat and for the barley; because the harvest of the field is perished. The vine is dried up, and the fig tree languisheth; the pomegranate tree, the palm tree also, and the apple tree, even all the trees of the field, are withered: because joy is withered away from the sons of men. There are many whose rewards are just wasting, simply because their joy level is nothing to reckon with.

    God’s Word says: And the burden of the Lord shall ye mention no more: for every man’s word shall be his burden; for ye have perverted the words of the living God, of the Lord of hosts our God (Jeremiah 23:36). If you see stewardship as a burden, you have lost the rewards and blessings from God.

    There is nothing of real value that will not require patience. After you have patiently waited, you will eventually have the reward. So, endeavour to be cheerful at all times, if you must be entitled to your rewards. May the oil of joy come afresh upon your life today, in the name of Jesus Christ! Remember, it is never late to be right!

    Your stewardship must be love-motivated: If you must qualify for God’s rewards, your stewardship must be love-motivated. The Bible says: And though I have the gift of prophecy, and understand all mysteries…and have not charity, I am nothing. And though I bestow all my goods to feed the poor… and have not charity, it profiteth me nothing (1 Corinthians 13:2-3).

    Your love for God must be the livewire of your stewardship. Love is a facilitator of all the vital forces required. Whatever service you are rendering, let your love for God be your primary motivator. Love should be the motivation for your stewardship. Please let your stewardship be love-motivated, if you must be entitled to God’s rewards without hindrance.

    Friend, the grace to key into the above, is for those who are born again. You become born again, by confessing your sins and accepting Jesus as your Lord and Saviour. Say this prayer in faith: “Lord Jesus, I come to You today. I am a sinner. Forgive me of my sins. Today, I accept You as my Lord and Saviour. Thank You, for saving me! Now, I know I am born again!” I will continue this teaching next week.

    Every exploit in life is a product of knowledge. For further reading, please get my books: Born To Win and Understanding Your Covenant Rights.

    From December 9-13, the story of many lives will be re-written at SHILOH 2014 tagged, Heaven On Earth. Shiloh is a historic and prophetic gathering of the Winners’ family, coming up at Faith Tabernacle, Canaan Land, Idiroko Road, Ota. Come for a change of status! Jesus Is Lord!

    I know this teaching has blessed you. Write and share your testimony with me through: Faith Tabernacle, Canaan Land, Ota, P.M.B. 21688, Ikeja, Lagos, Nigeria; or call 7747546-8; or E-mail: feedback@lfcww.org

  • ‘Personal interests, conflicts banes of Christianity’

    Personal interests and inability to manage crises are responsible for the setbacks of the body of Christ.

    This was the consensus at a seminar organised by Excellence Glory Theological College, Ajegunle Lagos with the theme: A soldier with sword.

    Apostle Felix Okwubunne, who spoke on the theme, lamented that today’s ministers have used the pulpit to launder personal, as against collective interests.

    He noted that many have accumulated wealth and influence for themselves through the pulpits instead of working to change lives.

    According to him: “Lack of concentration on individual responsibility causes hindrance to the growth of the church.

    “A soldier with a sword doesn’t go after material things. Money will come, success will come but working together as Christians will make the gold and silver work in our path.”

    Dr. Paul Ndubuisi, who spoke on ‘managing conflicts’, said conflicts are not the problems but the inability to manage it.

    “Conflicts have become part of our daily experience. If the disagreement is not within the pastorate, it’s between the pastor and the church committee.

    “Everybody wants to satisfy himself and the church will not move forward until we eliminate the word ‘I and Me’.”

    On how to handle conflicts, he said: “Communication is so vital. Some marriage today collapse when the people involved lack the knowledge of marriage.”

    Ndubuisi called on pastors and churches to adopt creative conflict resolution, which focuses on problem and give a new beginning.

    Rector of the College, Rev. Dr. Ngozi Out, said the college was founded to prepare, equip and educate men and women to discover their spiritual gift.