Category: Sunday magazine

  • History of the  wedding veil

    History of the wedding veil

    There are many stories of the origin of a bride’s veil. Some say that the veil was introduced in ancient Rome. People of that era believed that evil spirits would be attracted to the bride, so they covered her face with a veil in order to conceal her features and confuse them. The definition of veil is to “obscure, shroud, mask or cover, so perhaps that is how the bridal “veil” got its name.

    It’s also said the in medieval times, the veil was used to protect her from “the evil eye” and was a symbol of purity, chastity, and modesty.

    Others say the the origin of the bridal veil was due to the circumstances of an arranged marriage. In days past, men bargained with an eligible young lady’s father for their hand in marriage. AFTER the ceremony, the veil was lifted to reveal the brides features. This was to keep a groom from backing out of the deal if he didn’t like what he saw.

    Some say that the veil was used in days past as a symbol of a bride’s submission and willingness to obey her husband.

    Certain lengths of bridal veils got their names from how or where they were worn. At one time, Cathedral Veils were only worn in wedding that took place in cathedrals.

    Well, times have changed the meaning of the tradition of wearing a bridal veil! Now, wearing a bridal veil: signifies a special event  A Wedding!

    signifies joy highlights the bride’s appearance and features is the final crowning touch! Bridal Gowns are transformed with the addition of a veil.

    The past history of wearing a bridal veil has given way to new traditions. Over the past 20 years, traditions surrounding the bridal veil have changed even more. Veils were worn more frequently over the face (a blusher). Now, you don’t have to wear if over your face all all if you don’t want to.

    Brides of our day are making their own wedding veil history! Star Jones of the popular Television show “The View” wore a 27′ FOOT long Veilthe longest known veil in history. It’s dubbed the “Star Cathedral Veil”. Her veil was two feet longer than Princess Diana’s Bridal Veil.

    It also used to be that brides marrying for the second time were not supposed to wear a veil, especially a white veil. Nowadays, it’s perfectly acceptable to wear a veil (even a white one) for a second marriage if you want to! (Don’t let anyone try to tell you different. It’s YOUR day! If you want to wear it, go ahead!)

    The wearing of a bridal gown and veil is one of the big days in a woman’s lifeChoose what YOU feel comfortable in and enjoy your special day!

  • ‘We don’t joke with details’

    ‘We don’t joke with details’

    Bayo Adio, an engineer by training, joined the services of Optimum Exposures, a frontline outdoor advertising agency and member of Troyka Holdings in September 1995, from where he rose through the ranks to become the Managing Director/Chief Executive recently. In this interview with IBRAHIM APEKHADE YUSUF, he speaks on the company’s investment in digital media, pros and cons of digital marketing and his management style. 

    Your company set up an iconic billboard along the Adeniji Adele axis. Why did you choose that strategic location?

    The iconic billboard on Adeniji Adele is not just an iconic billboard but at an iconic location. Prior to what you have there now, we had a billboard there that was the biggest billboard in Africa. In the last few months, it was upgraded to a digital billboard, so it is an iconic billboard in an iconic location. It’s actually a location that is at the descent of the 3rd mainland bridge.

    So what is the unique selling point of this billboard?

    It is unique because it is a digital billboard with a platform that is very interactive, engaging and flexible and efficient. It provides a lot of social platform; you can tweet on it, have interactive messages and you can also display public information to the audience. You also have the current time and temperature on it. It’s the biggest free-standing billboard in sub-Saharan Africa. We partnered with a leading supplier of digital billboard in the world; Daktronics. Daktronics has 30 percent of LED market in the world; it is the leading manufacturer of LED in the world.

    Besides, this product is equipped with what we call an Intelligent Device Management System that ensures that from a remote location, we can put in each of these adverts the time bound that is needed in that platform. What I am saying to you, in essence, is that as many brands that are on the platform, we ensure that they have equal amount of exposure on the platform. So, there is equity and that is ensured. This is what we stand for. The core values of this company are integrity, innovation and quality service. And that we ensure that we provide to our clients.

    What really informed the installment of this board and what do prospective brands stand to achieve by signing onto it?

    In out-of-home, we are pioneers in the business; we pioneered the biggest billboard, the flexi material, the unfold spectacular, from the single to the double and triple face. So what actually motivated that billboard was that what is the next level to take the business? So we looked at that location and said we wanted to digitalise this billboard. It is the biggest in sub-Sahara today; so it’s something that is really raising the bar of out-of-home in the region.

    In some countries, firms are dragged to the court for erecting distractive structures in form of billboards. Don’t you think the iconic billboard might be open to such?

    Thank you for that question. We affiliate with agencies outside this country; like the outdoor Advertising Association of America. Studies were conducted but the fifth study found out those digital billboards do not cause road accidents. I can give you a reference. A recent story on state and local roads shows that it’s not a cause for road accidents. There is an ambience that the digital billboard gives to the environment. This is one of those things we are also working on. I am also a chairman of a committee in OAAN saddled with the responsibility of formulating a practice manual for out-of-home ads in Nigeria. Let me say to you that there is always a good and a bad side of everything. I have said to my team and other practitioners of out-of- home that there are things you need to do to ensure that the environment is not impacted negatively on this platform, and this is what we need in this country. And I believe that we must practice in a way that it enhances the environment and when we do that, the benefit will be to the practitioners, advertisers and the environment as a whole.

    The industry has been in turbulence in the last few years due to stringent policies from regulators. Many agencies have closed shop, can you share your experience regarding the regulations and regulators?

    The regulator of outdoor adverts in Lagos is LASSA. I can say to us that the advent of LASSA has brought sanity into out-of-home practice. Be that as it may, it has also affected a lot of practitioners due to the removal of billboards in Lagos. We also suffered from it but the truth is that it brought sanity and we can practice with the confidence that you are doing it professionally.  Before LASSA came in, you can wake up on a morning and see a billboard blocking your billboard. That cannot happen now. I think that the good side of LASSA has brought in strict regulation and it has been replicated in all the states of the federation. Then coming into regulation is the issue of fees and taxes from the regulatory agencies. The taxes are still high and we are engaging them to ensure that they are reduced. And I must also say that LASSA has been very approachable and are also practitioners.  There was a signage conference organised recently and we were part of it. That shows that they are approachable. The issue of regulation is good for the business but the issue of taxes and rates is what we are negotiating on and they are open to it.

    You mentioned earlier that the digital marketing structure is still emerging in Nigeria. As an insider, can you tell us the level of business we can harness from this sector going forward?

    You know that the media fact reported that in 2012, digital out-of-home was about 18billion that was lower than 2011 which was about 28billion. You can see that the 18billion is huge but I am saying to us that it would increase. The way to also explain that decrease in 2012 is what is the scenario playing out in our airports. In the airports, the advertising concession there was reviewed and there was no practice in the airport during that period, that I am sure lowered the spending.  But in the next few months, who knows what will happen in the airports? So I am sure that with the advent of the digital out-of-home which is more flexible, time sensitive and targeted towards consumers, more spending is going to come in. When we brought in that our iconic billboard, it was not the first in that industry, but a lot of brands want to play on it. You can see that brands we have on it; Mastercard, Nigerian Breweries, Glo and MTN, they are all big brands. And more of that is still going to come. We are opening up the opportunities as we have done in the past. Lagos is a mega city and mega signs are coming in, of which this iconic billboard shows that this can be done here.

    As the Managing Director/Chief Executive, you lead a team of experts. So would you let us in on what your management style is?

    Our emphasis is on results. We set our targets and we ensure we meet up with the targets. With the crop of experts we have, we know what we want to do; we go into the depth of it and ensure that whatever we are putting out there will stand the test of time. So we are professionals who deal with details and also relate with all the stakeholders in ensuring that when these products are there, there is no fear of attack from regulatory agencies, the environment and even the consumers. So we ensure that our consumers, advertisers and the environment are all satisfied. We are driven by results, have penchant for innovation and innovation drives us.

    Do you micromanage or you allow your team to hit the ground up and running?

    When you say micromanage, we have professionals here in all fields and when you see our products out there, it is a complement of professionals. We have project managers, accountants, engineers, information technologists and other services within the company. And if there are additional resources needed to complete a project, we go outside to source those. So we engage the best in order to achieve the best.

    Still talking about management, can you let us into how you motivate your staff? Do you make use of the stick and carrot approach?

    I can say that the staff of this company are the envy of competitors because when I go into meetings of associations and I see old staff of Optimum Exposure in other companies, I know that it’s a way to say that this company has affected all the practice. As regards motivation, our staff are highly motivated. We motivate them by ensuring that we train them internally and externally. You know that there is no university of out-of-home anywhere that I know of, but we train our staff because we know what knowledge is required. And when we see that the knowledge available is not up to par, we bridge the gap and send them for training. And there are also other motivational things apart from training such as salary increase, performance; we have key performance indices which are reviewed yearly.

    Talking about challenges, what has been the toughest decision you have made so far as the Chief Executive?

    When you are bringing in an innovative product that you have seen outside the shores of the country and you have that challenge of ensuring that the industry here can actually ascribe to it. It has been a hard sell to sell a product that the industry has not seen, but really, it should not be so.

  • Cleric seeks unity against terror

    The General Overseer of Shiloh Word Chapel (aka Faith Nations), Prophet Ikechukwu Samuel, has urged Nigerians to unite against the Boko Haram terror ravaging the nation.

    Samuel, who spoke with reporters in Abuja ahead of the forthcoming third anniversary of the church, appealed to members of the Boko Haram sect to have a change of heart and stop bloodshed to avoid the wrath of God.

    He said: “If members of Boko Haram want to release the Chibok girls, it is a change of heart that will make them do so.

    “Let Nigerians pray because this country is a nation with faith. Every citizen of Nigeria has faith; let us use our own faith, irrespective of our religious beliefs to ask our God to change their hearts.”

    He added: “Boko Haram insurgents are still in the dark because they will still do more and we will keep exchanging. Yet, it will not solve the problem.

    “Let our leaders and every citizen show love. Releasing people in places of evil will in turn increase the problem. It is not the solution; we should kneel down and pray for a change of heart.”

    The church, he assured, has been raising a generation that will change the nation.

  • An HIV-free generation

      It begins with you

    Worldwide, Nigeria has the second highest number of new infections reported each year, and an estimated 3.7 percent of the population are living with human Immune Deficiency Virus (HIV). The number of people living with HIV is 3, 400,000 in Nigeria.

    Young people are the mostly affected by the AIDS epidemic.  According to UNAIDS, every day an estimated 2 500 people aged 15-24 are infected with HIV and this accounts for more than 40 percent of new infections of all people aged 15 and over.

    HIV (human Immune Deficiency Virus ) is the virus that causes AIDS (acquired immune deficiency syndrome). The virus damages or destroys the cells of the immune system, leaving them unable to fight infections and certain cancers.

     

    Causes of HIV in children

    Most HIV infections in children are passed from mother to child during pregnancy, labour and delivery, or breastfeeding. However, thanks to preventive treatment regimens, the incidence of mother-to-child HIV transmission is decreasing. In 2009, an estimated 370,000 children contracted HIV during the prenatal and breastfeeding period, down from 500,000 in 2001, according to UNAIDS report.

     

    Other causes of child HIV include:

    •Blood transfusions.

    •Illicit drug use.

    •Sexual transmission.

     

    Symptoms of HIV among children

    •Failure to thrive, which is the failure to gain weight or grow according to standardised growth charts used by pediatricians.

    •Failure to reach developmental milestones during the expected time frame.

    •Brain or nervous system problems, characterised by seizures; difficulty with walking, or poor performance in school.

    •Frequent childhood illnesses such as ear infections, colds, upset stomach, and diarrhea.

    How to lead the change

    1)      Live a positive life

    2)      Create awareness in your school, home, market places about HIV and how children can protect themselves from the virus.

    3)      Volunteer your time, skills with a community based organisation, children and youth friendly initiatives that address behavioural change among children and teens.

    4)      Lead the change with your ideas, voice, and demand for a more pragmatic intervention programmes from government and other stakeholders on HIV and AIDS prevention and treatment among young people.

    Remember that the future belongs to you and the only way you can make a change is to stand up and be counted for what is right.

  • Ex- commissioner vows to draw closer to God

    The former Rivers Commissioner for Budget and Economic Affair during the Peter Odili-led administration, Sir Ejims Ewukwe, has pledged to improve his relationship with God.

    He made the declaration at the weekend in Port Harcourt, Rivers State capital, shortly after his installation as the Knight of Saint Christopher at the Diocese of Evo Anglican Communion Woji Community.

    Ejims noted that the investiture of the knighthood is “for selected members of the church who have been singled out for their outstanding performances in the vineyard of God.”

    The honour, he said, has humbled him to put the best of him in serving humanity and God.

    “Today, the church has honoured me and my wife and others who they think have made enough contribution to the development of the church.

    “I give God all the glory; this means I will intensify my relationship with God as a soldier of Christ,” Ejims stated.

    The Bishop, Rt. Rev Innocent Uchechukwu Ordu, said the knighthood should not be regarded only as a reward for job done but also as a new call for greater responsibility in the church.

  • Nigeria needs prayers, cleric declares

    The District Superintendent of the Apostolic Faith Church in West Africa, Rev. Emmanuel Adeniran, has called for intense prayers to save the nation.

    Nigerians, he stated, need prayers that move the hands of God and flow from pure hearts.

    He spoke at the West and Central (WECA) District Headquarters of the church in Anthony Village Lagos with reporters on the camp meeting that commences today.

    The meeting ends on August 24, according to him.

    Adeniran said: “At the, moment, the stability of our nation is greatly threatened and the future will forever remain lost in oblivion, should we fail to heed the call of our creator.

    “For every fabric of our society to experience true salvation and transformation, we must all resolve to experience the true transformation and cleansing from within through the shed blood of our lord and saviour, Jesus Christ.”

    This year’s meeting, according to Adeniran, commemorates the 70th anniversary of the church.

    On what to expect at the camp, he said: “It is a period of spiritual rejuvenation wherein we converge with great expectation to hear, receive and be blessed of God.

    “It is a time set aside and ordained by God through His divine purpose to bless, heal and deliver both the spiritually and physically oppressed.”

  • Jumpsuits: Celebrities in thing

    Jumpsuits: Celebrities in thing

    Some fashion trend never goes out of the scene, no matter how many new ones emerge. One of such is the jumpsuits fashion; this style is very feminine and it comes in different flashy designs.

     

    How to style a jumpsuit

    Jumpsuits come in a lot of different colours, styles, and lengths; so, it is important that you can get one that will make you feel comfortable. Of course, before you opt for a jumpsuit, keep in mind some styling tips so that the result is perfect and very flattering. According to your height, waist monkey will impact one way or another. Also, avoid tightness at the waist, with pleats at the belly if you want to neutralize the stomach area. Opt for a V-neckline to enhance the bust and prevent strapless model if you have little bulky chest or front. Remember that if the pants are straight, it will bring slenderness. Be mindful of the three ways to wear a jumpsuit according to time, place and situation.

    For official setting, do it with style and good taste. The monkey jacket  can be an alternative to the classic trouser clip. Pair it with a high heel and a handbag briefcase.

    For an afternoon stroll, you could combine it with less-sophisticated accessories.

    The last combo is designed for a night out. A terrace or a cocktail which requires elegance and attention to give an exclusive look. Or, probably, if you are a jumpsuit convert, wearing a jacket on top makes the look more subtle. A jumpsuit is a style that pretty much anyone can get right, but there are some rules you need to follow when thinking about getting a jumpsuit.

    Shapes and sizes: If you are of the big size or have bigger legs, then the jumpsuit you should look into is a baggy or loose-fitting style. This is due to the jumpsuit clinging to your natural body shape. For skinnier women, you can pull off any of the shapes and sizes, whether you want to go loose or you want a tighter jumpsuit.

    Colours: When you are picking a jumpsuit, you should put into consideration the colours that you are best in.

    Most jumpsuits look better when they are in the lighter colours and natural tones rather than the dark tones. If you are unsure of what colour to buy, try a lavender colour or a light pink colour. They also have a lot of very pretty jumpsuits in black, gray, and green colours which can be very attractive if you want to go with something more daring.

    Belt: This is almost a must for wearing a jumpsuit because it gives the look more of a casual fashion. You can get a loose belt or a tighter belt depending on the style of the jumpsuit and your overall shape.

  • Nigeria needs prayers, cleric declares

    The District Superintendent of the Apostolic Faith Church in West Africa, Rev. Emmanuel Adeniran, has called for intense prayers to save the nation.

    Nigerians, he stated, need prayers that move the hands of God and flow from pure hearts.

    He spoke at the West and Central (WECA) District Headquarters of the church in Anthony Village Lagos with reporters on the camp meeting that commences today.

    The meeting ends on August 24, according to him.

    Adeniran said: “At the, moment, the stability of our nation is greatly threatened and the future will forever remain lost in oblivion, should we fail to heed the call of our creator.

    “For every fabric of our society to experience true salvation and transformation, we must all resolve to experience the true transformation and cleansing from within through the shed blood of our lord and saviour, Jesus Christ.”

    This year’s meeting, according to Adeniran, commemorates the 70th anniversary of the church.

    On what to expect at the camp, he said: “It is a period of spiritual rejuvenation wherein we converge with great expectation to hear, receive and be blessed of God.

    “It is a time set aside and ordained by God through His divine purpose to bless, heal and deliver both the spiritually and physically oppressed.”

  • Akin-John advises northern churches to close down

    Churches in the troubled northern parts of the country should shut down to avoid the unabated attacks against them, the President of International Church Growth Ministries, Dr Francis Bola Akin-John, has stated.

    He said it is suicidal for churches to continue operating in locations where they are not wanted and subjected to unwarranted attacks.

    According to him, shutting down does not amount to cowardice but simply acting in strict adherence to the Biblical injunction.

    Akin-John spoke last week with reporters ahead of the 20th anniversary of the premier African church growth institute.

    ‘’There is no sense in doing church where you are not wanted. We have suffered too many deaths and destructions already in the north.

    ‘’Churches in that part of the country should just close down. A living dog is better than a dead lion.

    ‘’Even Jesus said when you preach to a community and you are rejected, you should dust your shoes and leave.’’

    He added: ‘’If they kill everyone there, who will remain? Why kill yourself to preach the gospel? I believe the wisest and the most biblical step to take is to leave until there is an opening again.’’

    The church growth consultant pointed out that the blood of a martyr is a seed, noting that in other climes where Christian where killed, the faith experienced leaps in no sooner time.

    To illustrate, he recalled once reading about a community in Algeria where over 400 people saw Jesus in a dream in one night.

    ‘’All of them had the same dream and Jesus appeared to them. They saw him asking them to serve Him. When they woke up, they narrated the same.

    ‘’Without preaching or a missionary, the entire community surrendered to Christ. It was later discovered that one missionary was killed in the same place over 400 years ago.’’

    Churches in the north, he advised, should take a cue from the story and leave to strategise until where there would an opening for mission work.

    He reminded missionaries in the north that the gospel is not by force, saying only God can save people.

    ‘’When an area says they don’t want the gospel, we should leave until God has done His own works for our mission activities.

    ‘’I know we want to save lives but we shouldn’t do it at the expense of our lives. We should leave until calm returns so that Christians are not wiped out,’’ he explained.

  • Akin-John advises northern churches to close down

    Churches in the troubled northern parts of the country should shut down to avoid the unabated attacks against them, the President of International Church Growth Ministries, Dr Francis Bola Akin-John, has stated.

    He said it is suicidal for churches to continue operating in locations where they are not wanted and subjected to unwarranted attacks.

    According to him, shutting down does not amount to cowardice but simply acting in strict adherence to the Biblical injunction.

    Akin-John spoke last week with reporters ahead of the 20th anniversary of the premier African church growth institute.

    ‘’There is no sense in doing church where you are not wanted. We have suffered too many deaths and destructions already in the north.

    ‘’Churches in that part of the country should just close down. A living dog is better than a dead lion.

    ‘’Even Jesus said when you preach to a community and you are rejected, you should dust your shoes and leave.’’

    He added: ‘’If they kill everyone there, who will remain? Why kill yourself to preach the gospel? I believe the wisest and the most biblical step to take is to leave until there is an opening again.’’

    The church growth consultant pointed out that the blood of a martyr is a seed, noting that in other climes where Christian where killed, the faith experienced leaps in no sooner time.

    To illustrate, he recalled once reading about a community in Algeria where over 400 people saw Jesus in a dream in one night.

    ‘’All of them had the same dream and Jesus appeared to them. They saw him asking them to serve Him. When they woke up, they narrated the same.

    ‘’Without preaching or a missionary, the entire community surrendered to Christ. It was later discovered that one missionary was killed in the same place over 400 years ago.’’

    Churches in the north, he advised, should take a cue from the story and leave to strategise until where there would an opening for mission work.

    He reminded missionaries in the north that the gospel is not by force, saying only God can save people.

    ‘’When an area says they don’t want the gospel, we should leave until God has done His own works for our mission activities.

    ‘’I know we want to save lives but we shouldn’t do it at the expense of our lives. We should leave until calm returns so that Christians are not wiped out,’’ he explained.