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  • I’m not an  ordinary person —Ara

    I’m not an ordinary person —Ara

     Aralola Olamuyiwa, known as Ara queen of talking drum, has had her share of betrayal in life; a world she thought would end as fairy tale. In this interview with DUPE AYINLA-OLASUKANMI, she reveals her plans for her new project through her NGO which has to do with women, children, and others. Enjoy

    TELL us about the concert you had recently in Osun.

    It went very well. I will describe it as a huge success too.

    What about your tour abroad?

    We are still working on that, and it will take place next year. It is to promote the movie Osun Funke, as well as Ara in Concert. We will be going to places like Copa, and some states in the US.

    Can you explain the reason behind this tour of yours?

    It is within my territory as an entertainer. Most artistes that have been able to do it, have the financial capability and the grace to thrill their audience. For me, Ara has been on stage for the past 25 years, and I don’t have a single CD in the market. So it is only those who have the privilege to come to my concert that have the opportunity to see me perform. And I feel that celebrating my silver jubilee with a movie and collection of video is worth the time.

    Having been in the industry for 25 years without an album, is this deliberate?

    It was not planned that way really, because I have recorded several songs in the studio, hoping to release them. But a lot of factors came in and it had to be put on hold. The most of it, is that Ara is always on the road for one thing or the other. Like my concert, appearances, or my NGO project or family issues. But mainly it is because of my busy schedule. And because of this I somehow find myself sort of different in the box. Because when I am on stage I let loose, but when I am in the cage, I mean studio, I find it difficult to let loose. But I have been able to get over that, and now I have work that I will be releasing, and one is the one I did with Tuface, Olomi remix.

    What does your NGO project?

    The Ara NGO is a project that has to do with what I am passionate about. I am very much passionate about issues that have to do with women and children. Even before I became a mother, I had this concern to reach out to children which I did through different orphanages before I had my child. So after I had my child, I realised that there is more to just buying gifts for children, that there is more, like taking care of them, which has to do with the time they are in the womb and the time they are born. A mother is more or less like a god to them, so taking care of them has to do with education, basic amenities, creating a positive environment for them. The one I am working on right now is on maternal mortality And the reason I am very passionate about this issue is because I have seen, heard and read about how a lot of mothers die for reason next to nothing, and their babies too. Recently, my youngest brother’s wife lost a five-month-old baby. I was the one who drove her to the hospital and she delivered the baby normally and I had the belief that if there had been enough equipments, the baby would have survived. I was the one who buried the baby and everything was already formed. And I asked myself how he died, and I just realised that it was lack of equipments that are inexpensive. And I have heard of nine months pregnancies too. So I went online and Google to find out how much incubator costs and I was shocked, that most of our maternity hospitals do not have incubators, and then risk the lives of mother and child. So I am doing something that will involve Lagos State and other states too, and see how we can work together to provide these equipments needed to save mother and child. As far as I am concerned, I will do my best and leave the rest. I have a voice and a name and one of the purposes I have that is for a purpose to make people happy. There are some deaths that you know you cannot avert, but there are some that you could avoid. My son at one year had malaria, and slumped and they could not resuscitate him at the hospital we took him to, I had to use mouth to mouth. They have oxygen machine, but the doctor on duty did not even know how to use it. He was gone for about 45 minutes; it was God that brought him back. What we are after is to save as many mothers and babies that we can. Another thing I am working on is thyroid glands, a lot of women have this, but I have seen men who have it too. I know about this, because I had it and I know the test, and treatment is expensive. And I know what it does to the body too. This is my second or third project, but right now we are trying to get incubators and monitoring machines for distributions. That is the Ara Passion Project.

    When did you realise that you had passion for acting and writing?

    I have always been in the entertainment, but not in movies. Well in secondary school I did a lot of stage plays and did win a lot of prizes for my school then. I had acted in one movie, where I played a nurse. I did act on stage this year at the Black Image event. I wrote the story and was scripted by Tunde Babalola, and hopefully we will be working with uncle Tunde Kelani. Ara is a total entertainer that involves singing, dancing, and acting. We have Ramsey Noauh on board already; he will be playing the lead act in the movie Osun Funke. We are not on set, because the script is still in process. But for the book, we are done with chapter one and we have eight chaptersin all. The book has everything about me.

    Why did you decide to write an autobiography?

    You see as stars, there is more to us than you see. We are just like every regular human being, but with special talents. We are more or less the chosen ones and our life should be role models to people. Our life is not always perfect, but people see a perfect us on TV. We cry, we curse, we bless, we fight, we yab, we fart, we shit, we make babies, we make love, some of us cook, we make friends, we make enemies, we do everything. But we have the extra responsibility of making your world a better place for living with our talents. So I believe that you should know that part of us that is like you and learn from it. In that regard, I respect two people a lot. Oprah Winphrey went from rape to miscarriage, and still came out successful, and Nelson Mandela, from prison to all sort of things. So I want to share the story of my positivity, my first kiss, my first boyfriend, and all those things.

    You used to be a tom boy while in school. Do you still smoke and drink?

    No, I have stopped smoking way back. But I still drink occasionally. But I am still a tom boy in a way. An example is the one I mentioned earlier that the dead baby of my brother’s wife was placed in my hands, I removed the baby from the pack, wore a glove and looked at all the parts and I prayed for him and buried him. And my mother was like iwo, omo yi sha. A woman naturally will not do such things. And after doing those things, I sometimes ask myself where I get the strength. Like when I do all those things I do on stage and sit down to replay, I ask myself if I was the one that did all that. And for me I don’t see obstacles because I am a woman. If I want to get something, I go for it.

    Has it ever occurred to you that, there might be something unusual about you?

    I know a lot is unusual about me, that is the spiritual angle. I know I am not an ordinary person and that is the reason I chose my friends. I cannot even say I have friends, but I have people that I work with. And because I have a very strong spirit I can see with my third eye. So I am not fooled by certain things. But people like me; our weakness is attached to the people that we give our heart to. They are the people that can mess with us. No matter how powerful we are, our weakness is with the people we love, they are the only ones that can break us. Somebody like Samson gave his heart and secret to Delilah and he was captured. Don’t forget that a prophecy had gone ahead of him. So that explains a lot of things about me. I am a very spiritual person and my mother knows, so there are some certain things that she won’t tell about me. Like when she was pregnant with me, the things she saw and after I was born. Over-spiritual people will start terming it to mean different things, so I rather keep that part of me and use it, as long as I don’t over step my boundaries with God, my creator. I don’t runaway or deny it anymore. Even my secondary days, they knew that something was wrong with me.

    What is it like to be a single mother?

    For me I have come to a conclusion that life is how you take it. If you want it to be hard, it will be. If you want it soft, it will be. I am blessed, so I can take care of my needs, I do not need to wait for any man to do anything for me. To that, I praise God that He is putting food on my table and clothes on my back. Because I was an up and doing person, everybody was surprised that I became submissive to my ex when we got married. I won’t take any decision or step without consulting him. I don’t advise it being a single mother; I still will get married again and have more children. I am not pushing it or rushing it, I am waiting for that time. I know it will happen, because I have suitors. It is just a matter of choosing who I want and a matter of time too. I am not committed to anybody.

    How do you create time for your son, being on the road always?

    I work my schedule round my son, because I am his mother and father. So I create a balance. But single parent is not the best, because there are times that you will want just a hug, a kiss on the forehead, not forgetting that I am a very sensitive and emotional person. There are times that I just need somebody to hold my hands. I am not the type of person that will just go with any type of person, if I am not into you. Like kissing, because this has to do with my spirituality. I cannot share myself with two people. It will affect me and that is why I have to be extremely careful. But I thank God because he has been faithful.

  • Kudos as Methodist Church clocks 170

    Kudos as Methodist Church clocks 170

    Lagos State governor, Mr. Raji Fashola and his Ogun counterpart, Senator Ibikunle Amosun, have hailed the contributions of the church to nation-building.

    The church, they said, has done so much to elevate the nation’s spiritual and moral standards.

    The governors spoke last week during the formal opening of a 3-day Sports Festival and other activities organised to celebrate the 170 years of Methodism in Nigeria and 50 years of autonomy.

    Fashola, who was represented by the Special Adviser on Religious Matters, Rev. Sam Ogedengbe, said: “Methodist Church Nigeria has been a reliable partner in the building of a prosperous and spiritually healthy Nigeria.

    “As the first Church to come into Nigeria, Methodism has impacted the lives of many through socially responsible programmes, policies and actions.

    “The Church is a pioneer in providing quality healthcare services, good, sound and quality education and community-friendly welfare projects which have in many ways transformed the lives of many across the country.”

    Amosun, who was represented by his deputy, Prince Segun Adesegun, said: “there is no denying the fact that the Church has played a great role to play in the moral rebirth, value re-orientation and character modification which we so much desire in Nigeria today.”

    The Prelate of MCN, His Eminence Dr. Sunday Makinde, noted the church boasts of 95 nursery and primary schools and 72 secondary schools contributing to educational development in different parts of the nation.

    He said the Wesley University of Science and Technology (WUSTO) Ondo State, is also making a mark in the sector.

    In health, he said there are hundreds of hospitals in Nigeria, helping to safeguard well-being of Nigerians.

    He said the church will not relent in making Nigeria a better nation in every way possible

  • ‘Nigerian constitution must  resolve indigene, settler issue’

    ‘Nigerian constitution must resolve indigene, settler issue’

    Chairman of the Northan Governors Forum, Babangida Aliyu of Niger State, in this interview with Adetutu Audu in Lagos speaks on critical issues that should be tackled at the on-going review of the constitution, the problem with Nigeria as a nation and other, topical matters.

    At 52, Nigeria is still crawling. What is the problem?

    In the past we had answers like the problem with Nigeria is leadership, some people said it was economic development, some have queried if Nigeria was a nation. Is it a geographical expression? But I think we have gone beyond that. You take the adage that people get the type of leadership they deserve, so if we have problem with leadership or economic development, problem of whether we are a nation or not, it is because we have not been discussing enough.? I have always lamented the fragmentation of the elite because every country that is united, it is the elite who have been able to do this. Once they have been able to understand an issue and take a decision, it permeates the society.

    I will give you an example. At the local level, people really don’t care where you come from, all they care about is what kind of contribution are you making for the development of that community. It is your behaviour or attitude to them that matters. But the elite, we have made it so much because we are the ones competing with this and that and with our primordial loyalty to our community first. Even that loyalty is not for the development of the community, but exploitative nature.

    We gave another example of planning, at the initial stage, we have called development plan, which at least you have input –output that you will be able to measure and say yes we have put certain amount of money here and this is the result.

    Even the population, we are still not too sure. What is our actual population, are we still estimating. Every region, state and local government had complained about the last census that they have been under counted. And if that is the case, then it means we have the problem of planning.

    Not to mention now our budgetary system, it is not at par with the development plan we are expecting. So if you say we are crawling, or walking, limping or whatever, this should be seen in the context of the way we do things. Many countries after 52, even a human being is no more a young man, he is in fact going beyond the middle age. So what do we do? We need to be very frank. Some people may accuse you, I remember when I talked about some few things some people said that I was talking too much, they wanted to silence me. But that is the price I have to pay for leadership position I got through God from the people of Niger State.

    What would you say are the major issues we should be tackling in the on-going review of the constitution?

    This issue of indigene /settler, the constitution must say something about it. So that we don’t have this dichotomy of who is an indigene, who is a settler? When somebody has stayed in a place for this long, he should be able to enjoy the privileges and the right of that particular community. It is not nice when a person who has been born in a place and his parents have stayed there for so long to be regarded as a non-indigene, that creates its own security problem, not to mention the psychological trauma that such a family maybe suffering. Therefore, we need to talk about that.

    Some people are talking of creation of states, which may be fine. But I think we need another super structure. Maybe not zones like we have now, but look at the zone properly so that we can reconstitute the whole aspect of zones. To make them real development areas and concept that people will be able to identify. The way we are now is just a description, but we can look at that as an issue, maybe not for the immediate one, but I think we should begin to discuss such matters.

    Revenue allocation formula, this federalism that we have is a problem. How can you have a federal system having 52percent of the revenue? With so many states, so many employees and many without the capacity to really do what they are supposed to do. Then you have a recipe for wastage and corruption. And most of the beneficiaries are in the state. I talked about education; the Federal Ministry of Education can be only concerned with the quality of tertiary institutions but should not be involved in the secondary education.

    Agriculture-the actual beneficiaries and the farmers are all in the states. That also should be a supervisory thing. Nobody can tell now the actual thing that is being produced by the farmers in a particular state, at local, state or federal level. What is the actual product? And even the estimated actual product, what revenue does it generate?

    When we talk about poverty of less than $1, like one of my colleagues was saying in his village, people have yams, so don’t talk about dollar to them because there is nothing they would do with the dollar. But that they should have food to eat. Now let us enhance that, so that the issue of hunger is taken away and then we go back to ensure we give them good school, good hospital. Naturally when you provide such things, the people will begin to look at themselves from higher level. The issue of being Nigerian, indigene or settler will go away because there is competition for economic benefits and other things.

    Devolving of powers to the local government and the state, we complain of the quality we get at the local government or the state and the main competition for political office is more at the centre, so people are competing to be there. In most cases by the time it finishes you realised that the real qualitative people that should be there are not there because they don’t have the wherewithal to be there. And then the local level which is the foundation for development would have been left to people who cannot really take it to higher standard.

    Many people are saying make the local government autonomous. Which is fine, but who do they report to, what do they need and who is going to supervise them? In many countries which operate the federal system, local government is a matter for the state. Now, we have 776 local governments. Lagos State from 20 to 57, are they right in doing what they did? Where you have a large population, you have to find a way to deliver services. In Niger State what I did instead of creating more local governments, I created what I called ward development, every ward is constituted into a group because you needed to do that to really get down to the people and they are the ones who know what they want.

    We also need to be discussing security. Governors may be called chief security officers, are they really? Do they have the wherewithal? Some are saying state police, some said no, make the federal police work, make them more efficient, give them equipment and employ more people. We have 371,000 police officers. 100, 00 or one third really do menial jobs of protecting some rich people and some political office holders. We are left with about 200,000 to do the job of policing about 160million people. We need to articulate properly, if we have state police, what is it they would be doing? We must know the limitation and the delineation of the role they should play, so that we don’t end up with the same problem we had one time where regionally we had police who were to protect the regime of the time.

    If a governor controls state police without proper articulation of role, he can use them for any other thing. So we need to sit down and articulate the role. Is it to combat local crime, rape and other issues? Then what is the role of the federal police? How do we supervise to make sure one is not going to the other extreme, what do we do to make sure we don’t create another problem through that? Already, I know many states have vigilante groups, even neighbourhood watch, you find that one street is being blocked and if you are late you cannot enter. But they are only protecting their lives and properties, which are the functions of a state and leadership.

    What are the northern governors doing to repair the damage done to the image and economy of the north by Boko Haram?

    The image that Boko Haram has damaged is not only to the north but to the whole country. When you go out of this country and you begin to discuss Nigeria, the perception out there is that we have problem. In fact many nations tell their citizens not to come, to them they think Nigeria is just one village that has the problem. They don’t know that this place may not have problem. So the image issue is not only for the north but Nigeria. I remember whenever we have image issue, we even constitute committee to go and discuss with other people because of the channel of communication, many people out there get information from TV channels like CNN, Al-Jazeera.

    For example I was told that many international pilots don’t sleep in Abuja, especially British Airways, when they drop people in Abuja they move to Lagos. Though they are coming to Lagos, but it is the same Nigeria.

    That also shows how we handle matters, for instance, the flood thing. Many of us were aware of the issue three months before it happened. What did we do at both the local, state and the federal level? Now we are sending national emergency, what about the number of lives lost to the flooding? It is a collective thing. At the level of Northern Governors’ Forum we are going out to discuss with other people to enlighten them more that Nigeria is not the way and manner they perceive it. That to a larger extent you can come and do your business in any of the state without any fear. We need more sense of security because that is what people are used to. We have been talking with other states in the west to come and farm directly for things they need like tomatoes. I know we have been talking with the Governor of Lagos State, Babatunde Fashola to come to Niger, Kastina and other places to bring investors. Things you take for granted sometimes become more important, for some of us tomatoes have been taking for granted and now that it happened we realise how important it is.

    And that is why we tell some people no matter what happened, Nigeria will not break the way you think. And that is why we must all come together and patch it up, discuss and make corrections, restructure where we need to, but let us do it with respect and some decorum so that nobody feels he is being alienated or being accused for past issues. No matter the vocabulary we use to make some groups look like, we are the best and other groups are worst. The moment you describe me as the worst, I won’t even listen to what you are saying, even if you are right. We also established a committee of 41 members to look at all security reports either from state or federal government from Maitasine period in Kano, the white paper that has not been implemented, let them bring it out which one are still relevant, which one should the federal government now take, which should the state and the local government take and even the private sector do.

    I’m happy, they have gone very far, they are getting co-operation from the federal government.

    Why is the north trying to revisit the on-shore/off-shore dichotomy issue which has been resolved by the Supreme Court?

    It is not the Supreme Court that settled it. What is the judgement? It is to understand that it was an international thing. What happened is that the National Assembly at one time passed a law that if you really read the Supreme Court judgement; it is for the maintenance of the dichotomy. This is an international thing in every country, certain things out there belong to everybody. There were a lot of problems, the cumulative problems that have happened in Niger Delta and there is a need to do some corrective measure but was not part of the corrective measure. You have a Ministry of Niger-Delta, you have NDDC, derivation, then this little one that other people as part of the citizenship of a country that they should be enjoying, they have not been enjoying.

    So if someone says there is no political issue, no decision we say it has been settled. If it had been settled, why are some people talking about it? Sometime people can make something out of nothing, so that you can come back to negotiate. That is the argument. If the federal government says it is a settled matter, but we are discussing it so that people can understand it was a sacrifice that was made then to solve some problems. But there is still room for discussions.

    It was recently announced that oil has been found in the Chad Basin. Do you support those who accuse the federal government of not making serious effort to prospect for oil in the north?

    Oil has always been there. There is oil in Bida and Sokoto Basin. For now the federal government is making attempt but it is not as cheap since the Chad Basin is a desert area. You might have to go deeper than you would have done in the riverine area. Most of the companies that would do the exploration may find out that instead of spending $2 in the Chad Basin, there they can spend 70cent. They have oil now in Kogi State, although I hear a lot of issues with Anambra State. I think the issue has more to do with the fact that Anambra is more proactive. But my understanding and the geographical location of Kogi, local governments have built schools in that place, how come nobody stopped Kogi from building schools and owning the place until now? The two parties should be able to sit down, discuss investment and what is coming out. I wish all Nigerians will know how much oil we produce, how much comes to Nigeria and how such money are being expended.

    You dwell much on foreign policies in your presentation. What do you think is wrong with Nigeria’s foreign policies?

    At first, we were more like Father Christmas trying to help others. Yes, Africa we must help ourselves, but in terms of foreign policies whatever you have you are expecting some things back even in terms of relationship. Virtually all the countries we have helped are the ones competing with us or blocking our chances. Even smaller countries because of our size that should have been a plus for us, they use it to fight us; they don’t want us to be everywhere to make sure we don’t get what we are looking for. For instance, Saudi-Arabia is deporting Nigerians, I don’t know if Saudi Arabia has changed her policies because for Hajj we know there is no discussion on guide, but Ummrah we are aware that any lady going must have a guide. But if Saudi Arabia wanted to do that for Hajj they needed to let us know. The same embassy gave the people the visa they should have insisted that any lady without guide, we are not giving visa.

    Your vision three 2020 for Niger State seemes to have been abandoned in your second term. Why is this so?

    No. The issue is that we have laid foundation and we are building on it. And the most important part is that people are sharing the vision. People may say it has been abandoned because we have lessened the discussion because people have imbibed it. In primary schools, you hear the students talking about vision three 2020; at least we have achieved that part of sharing the vision. And now it is the translation which in any way you cannot see until you see the results.

    Your name keeps coming up in the 2015 speculations. Are you running for higher office after now?

    I am hearing the rumour too. But you see you can’t stop people from doing analysis. I have told people severally that when I was approached to come and go for the House of Representatives in 1983, I was a student then, I would go and write my exams and come back for campaign and I won. This time I was praying to be appointed head of service in 2007,but I was drafted to go and run for the governor, so it would be foolhardy of me to say I want to be this or that. But I prepare my mind and myself with enough knowledge to be able to say if it comes to me, I will not be caught unawares. But I have not spoken to anybody that I have any ambition. I am very elated to find that some people feel I am qualified to run for whatever office.

  • Akiniyi chairs laity council

    Prince Clement Akiniyi has emerged unopposed as chairman of St. Patrick’s Catholic Church, Ipaja, Lagos.

    He will lead an 18-man executive committee for another two years.

    Akiniyi was elected during an exercise conducted under the auspices of the officials from the Agege Deanery Laity council of the Catholic Archdiocese of Lagos.

    He thanked the councillors and delegates for giving him the opportunity to serve the church again.

    He expressed determination to foster peace, unity, love and inter-relationship among all societies and associations in the parish, promising to also give a resounding support to the clergies.

    Inaugurating the new executives, the parish priest, Very Rev. Fr Daniel Adayi, who doubled as the Episcopal Vicar for the Religious of the Catholic Archdiocese of Lagos, urged them to consolidate on the gains of the past administration.

    Other officers elected include: Carol Ehiogue, Vice Chairman; Tony Akinbolaji, Secretary; Emmanuel Ntewo Treasurer and Moses Uvietevsimi Financial Secretary. Others were Clementina Akiniyi, Social Secretary; Agatha Osinde, PRO and a one- time Vice Chairman, Mrs. M.K Bamidele as ex-officio.

  • Abina marks 50 years in full-time ministry

    •As GOFAMINT commissions micro-finance bank

    It was double celebrations for members and well-wishers of the Gospel Faith Mission International (GOFAMINT) last week.

    The church commissioned Chronicles Micro-Finance Bank conceived to improve the financial status of members and stakeholders at its camp ground on Lagos-Ibadan Expressway.

    The commissioning took place on the same day the General Overseer of the church, Pastor Elijah Abina, celebrated his 50th anniversary in full-time ministry.

    Abina said the bank is a dream come true, acknowledging the church has been nursing the idea for some time.

    He expressed optimism that the bank will soon operate branches and empower the church financially.

    The cleric called for the support of members to make the project a success by operating accounts with the institution.

    The church’s senior accountant, Pastor (Dr) Johnnie Udofia, said the institution is affiliated to Zenith Bank and urged members not to consider Chronicles’ assets ‘national cake’ to be shared.

    Abina attributed his 50th anniversary in full-time ministry to the grace of God.

    He said the anniversary was not about him but God’s faithfulness, stressing he couldn’t have ministered for so long without Him.

    He chronicled the numerous challenges he faced as a minister, saying he took faith to step out in faith 50 years ago when it was not fashionable to be a full-time pastor.

    He advised up-coming ministers to depend on God, saying “if God could be so faithful to me, He can do the same to anybody who will be faithful and dedicated to Him.”

  • Cherish the teaching of his word

    As your words are taught, they give light; even the simple can understand them (Psalm 119:130, NLT).

    There is nothing in this world that is as precious as the word of the Lord. It is the light to our path and the lamp to our feet. It is by the word of the Lord that we walk in the light. It is the food that nourishes our souls; it is the water of life that refreshes our spirit. Job declared that he esteemed the words that came out of the mouth of God more than his necessary food. Jeremiah summed up what should be the attitude of every believer in Christ to the word of the Lord, when he said “thy words were found, and I did eat them, and thy word was the joy and rejoicing of my heart, for I am called by thy name, O Lord God of hosts” (Jeremiah 15:16).

    We are to search out the word of God until we find, or discover or get to know, and understand it. When we do, we will find the strength we need to run the race set before us, victoriously. When the word of the Lord is revealed to us, the joy of the Lord will fill our hearts.

    This is why it is important for you to locate yourself in a Church where the word of God is being faithfully expounded and taught everyday. A Church like that will do you a wealth of good and help you to connect a glorious destiny in Christ.

    Whenever you sit under the teaching of the word of God, you should open up your heart to absorb the light that the word is bringing. You should open up your Bible to follow through with what is being taught, and you should open up your notes to write down whatever insight, understanding, direction, or instruction that is coming to you from the word of the Lord.

    Never should you be casual in your approach to the word of God. It is the food by which you live. The teachings of the word that you are receiving is not a vain thing, it is your life (Deut. 32:46-47). By them, you discover the precious promises of God by which you connect with your inheritance in Christ.

    Child of God, your regular attendance in the house of God where you are fed with God’s word should be a top priority in your agenda. Make sure you are consistent and regular, receiving daily the word of the Lord. Make sure you rejoice to receive God’s word and to apply them in your daily life. And make sure you support that Church where you are fed with the word of God with your prayers, your service, your tithe, your offerings and your goodwill.

    If you exalt the word of the Lord in your life and walk in the light it brings, you will prosper in all your ways.

    Blessed is the man that walketh not in the counsel of the ungodly, nor standeth in the way of sinners, nor sitteth in the seat of the scornful. But his delight is in the law of the LORD; and in his law doth he meditate day and night (Ps. 1:1-2).

     

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  • ‘Vested interests behind Jos crisis’

    ‘Vested interests behind Jos crisis’

    The International Fellowship of Evangelical Students in English and Portuguese Speaking Africa (IFES-EPSA) and Lausanne International Deputy Director for the EPSA Region, Rev. Gideon Para-Mallam, works with millions of students in Africa. He spoke with Sunday Oguntola on how to save the future of Africa and why the Jos crisis remains intractable. Excerpts:

    Experience working with younger generation

    One of the things that give me motivation is the passion that the younger generation holds for the future if they are well mentored. Some of the things that we try to promote is leadership. We help students to develop the right attitude towards leadership in life. So, we are into training to help them realise that they represent a new thinking for the liberation of Africa. If you look at the African nations making waves like Ghana and Botswana, you will realise these change agents came from the campus. I believe Africa can change if we get it right with the young people.

    Many of the Christian students are burdened and angry with what is happening in Africa. For me, that is the right attitude and the way to start. But when they graduate and become confronted with situations in the real world, they become frustrated and disillusioned. Many of them give up and compromise and we keep telling them never to give up.

    That is why we need Christians making a difference in Nigeria and Africa. We need to hold them up and connect them with these students for mentorship. They need to encourage the younger generation not to give up. However, some of those students who are not Christians are waiting to take over from corrupt older Africans.

    I will tell you two stories. There is a 25-year-old daughter of a Christian leader in this country. She decided to go into politics but when she saw the rot there, she was shocked. She realised her contemporaries are waiting in the wings to outdo our current corrupt officials.

    The second person happens to be my son. He studied in the UK with some children of the rich and powerful Nigerians. He said they way they talk is disturbing. He said ‘I fear for this country the way these guys are talking’. Those are things we need to work deliberately to change. That is why we are doing mentoring for transformation project across the continent.

    Schism among campus fellowships

    Yes, we have proliferation of church-based student ministries and groups on campuses. It mirrors the fragmentation going on in the church and the larger society. It is sad that our campuses are becoming more loyal to churches than God. It is all about the drive for money and crowd. Churches reason that when these students graduate, they will swell their ranks with finances. So, it is really a sad chapter in campus ministry. Many churches feel they cannot entrust their members to the Navigators, Scripture Union (SU), Christian Union (CU), NIFES and other tested campus fellowships. That influences why they start their own and break the unity in the body.

    So, we are taking steps to reverse this trend. I started talking with the former African Primate, Most Rev. Jasper Akinola and we are looking into it. I can confirm that. Beyond that, we are planning a conference by CU, SU, Campus Crusade for Christ (CFC), The Navigators and others. It is called the Congress 2012. It is holding at the NIFES Conference Centre, Lokoja.

    Parlous state of the church

    I honestly would have thought that the church should offer an alternative of change in the country. But I am not exactly sure that is happening. The church is eager to talk about numbers and mass growth as well as thousands attending meetings. We talk about millions attending prayer meetings but the truth is how many of them are genuinely saved? What is the impact of this huge attendance on the society, on Nigeria?

    My understanding is that the church should play a prophetic role in the life of a nation. I am not sure the Nigerian church is doing that. What we are just doing is more chasing of the naira than anything. That cannot be denied. The liberation of the nation is dependant on the liberation of the church. The emphasis of making money through the church is a cancer that is destroying the nation.

    The church is basically toothless and powerless. We see miracles and proclaim that is power, but if you study the Bible, you will notice power is essentially about change of attitude and nature. It is not just about miracles and healing. What I see more is people talking about the miracles in the church without considering how much change is not happening.

    Why Jos crisis is protracted

    I believe it has remained protracted because there are vested interests internally and externally. It is up to our security forces to find out these vested interests. Two, I believe some people are benefiting from the crisis. They are people who thrive only when there are crises. The more crises we have, the richer and more relevant they are. These people will never want the Jos crisis to end. They are fuelling it and instigating people to fester the situation. The consistent attacks on Christians are worrisome and as long as the crisis is on, it will be protracted. Christians are at a point why we will not give up the faith. We will not stop proclaiming Christ as the Lord over our lives and the nation. So, I believe the crisis is both religious and political.

    I want to encourage Christians to demonstrate the love of Christ. We have to continue to demonstrate the true love of Christ no matter how hard it is. We also have to look for ways of promoting deliberate peaceful coexistence among Christians and Muslims. The more we do it, the more those against the move will be exposed.

     

  • Coping with respiratory illnesses (1)

    Respiratory illnesses are the leading causes of unplanned hospitalizations and death for people with developmental disabilities. While many respiratory illnesses can start out as minor illnesses, such as the common cold, they can sometimes develop into much more serious and life-threatening illnesses, including pneumonia. Respiratory illnesses mostly affect the parts of the body used for breathing. For example, respiratory illnesses can affect the: Nose

    Sinuses (air pockets located inside the bones of the skull)

    Throat

    Bronchial tubes (the tubes that bring air to the lungs)

    Lungs

    Many people experience at least one or two minor respiratory illnesses each year. If left untreated, some minor respiratory illnesses can turn into more serious and life-threatening illnesses. Some common respiratory illnesses include:

    The common cold

    Influenza (flu)

    Bronchitis

    Pneumonia

    Asthma

    What are the risk factors for respiratory illnesses?

    Everyone experiences respiratory illnesses periodically. However, some people have a greater chance of experiencing more serious respiratory illnesses more often. These people include:

    Older adults and young children

    People who smoke cigarettes, cigars, or pipes

    People who live in an area with polluted or smoky air

    People with other, ongoing illnesses or conditions

    Respiratory illnesses are contagious (can spread from one person to another). Because of this, people are more likely to develop respiratory illness when:

    They live in homes where they often come in close contact with others who may have respiratory illnesses

    They visit their doctor’s office more often than others; while at these visits they may come in contact with other people who have respiratory illnesses

    They don’t use proper hygiene or come in contact with people who don’t use proper hygiene

    Cold and flu

    The common cold and flu are two of the most common respiratory illnesses. Symptoms include:

    Feeling more tired than usual

    Having a stuffy or runny nose

    Having a sore throat

    Sneezing a lot

    Having a fever of about 101 degrees

    Have a headache, cough, and sore throat

    Feel general aches and pains in their body

    Feel more tired than usual

    Inability to keep fluids down (vomiting after drinking)

    Painful swallowing

    A sore throat that lasts for longer than a week

    A cough that lasts for more than two weeks

    Cold and flu are usually caused by viruses. This means that they cannot be cured by taking antibiotics. Most cold and flu symptoms do not require a doctor’s care and will get better on their own. However, some of the time, and especially among people with other health concerns, cold and the flu can become more serious diseases and lead to unplanned hospitalizations and even death.

    Treatment

    Make time for extra rest and sleep

    Drink plenty of liquids – such as: juice, tea, water, or soup-ginger and honey tea are especially effective for colds and cartarrh.

    Use over-the-counter medications such as pain relievers, decongestants, or sore throat lozenges

  • Yomi Edu’s ex- wife, Fatimah Wali, savours marital bliss

    IT is no longer news that Fatimah Wali, the ex-wife of Chief Yomi Edu, former Minister for Special Duties and close associate of Vice President Atiku Abubakar, has remarried.

    An architect of repute, who got married to her childhood love, Suraj Abdulrahman, in Kano, has been telling who ever cares to listen that she thanks God for the new man in her life. Not only that, her friends could not hide their joy for her as they claim her beauty now radiates even more.

    Fatimah who used to be married to Epe, Lagos State-born politician could not but be fulfilled having battled marital instability for a long time.

  • O’tega Emerhor coughs out $250,000 for anniversary gift

    THE 25th wedding anniversary of former bank Chief, Olorogun O’tega Emerhor and his wife, Rita may have come and gone . But the displayed of love and affection showed by the Group Chairman of Standard Alliance to his wife has continued to sent tongues wagging.

    The Delta State born businessman, we gathered gave his wife brand new Rolls Royce Phantom said to have cost the princely sum of $250,000. The couple no doubt proved to the all and sundry at the octane soiree that they are soul mates for life.

    Trendy, nothing in her trim physique suggests that she is a grandmother. Rita who is also the chief executive officer of Standard Alliance group, and a big player on the party scene in the days of yore until she limits her attendance of social functions after the birth of her twins some years ago after the lost their eldest son in an armed robbery incident in Lagos.