Category: Sunday Interview

  • Portable that  I raised never  drank or smoked  – Sister, Aminat

    Portable that I raised never drank or smoked – Sister, Aminat

    In a bid to unravel the mystery behind maverick musician, Habeeb Okikiola aka Portable, Gboyega Alaka took a trip to his Oke-Osa community, a suburb of Sango-Ota, Ogun State, where he grew up. Just what manner of a kid was he?

    To many, his was sudden stardom. Before December 2021, probably, no-one, except those who knew him, knew him. However, in the short time since he released his hit song, ZaZoo Zeh, in which he collaborated with top singer, Olamide and dancer Poco Lee, controversial hip-hop singer, Mr Portable (real name Habeed Okikiola), has been in everyone’s eyes. Thanks majorly to his unique blonde hairstyle, his funny dances, funny, often lewd lyrics, brazen acts and slipshod talks.

    A lot of his popularity will also go to the power of the internet, which has undoubtedly made everything he says or does, however controversial, go viral. Immediate examples would be his trip to Kenya, where he released some bedroom videos with some pretty girls. On another occasion, he referred to a female Kenyan fan as ‘hook-up,’ angering several Kenyan fans, including a radio personality, Black Cinderella, who called him out and demanded an apology.

    A bit later into the year, he was also quoted as querying the NDLEA, the nation’s agency against illicit drug use and drug trafficking after the agency had invaded the homes of artistes, Zinolensky and MohBad and arrested them over use of drugs. In a video that went viral, he was seen asking: “Can we not smoke weed in our own house again? Are you the ones that built our house or bought land for us? What is it?” As if laws of the nation exempt the ones committed in ones homes. That rant drew a lot of ire and pity from members of the public, who warned him not to over-reach himself in his ignorance.

    Overtime, he has also been seen throwing money in the air for people to pick. While many consider it as his way of appreciating the condition of poor masses, of whom he was one until very recently, many see it as public nuisance. He has further stepped up that act following his N50million endorsement deal for Obi Cubana’s Odogwu Bitters.

    Over a month ago, videos of him the United Kingdom, The United Arab Emirates and Turkey also surfaced on the internet. Not one to miss out on an opportunity to troll, he was seen taunting his former promoter, Kogbagidi, over his refusal to facilitate his trip to the UK, saying he had finally landed in the London he saw as a big deal.

    Days after, another video went viral, where he was asking his team at the airport if he could smoke weed in the Islamic Republic, saying he smoked in London.

    Not one to shy away from controversy for long, he tweeted shortly after, where he asked fans to give him just two years and he’d be bigger than Wiz-Kid, a more illustrious hip-hop singer. This was the same artiste he cited as his inspiration in the music world less than six months before.

    In perhaps his most controversial rant, Portable threatened to kill co-nominees in the two categories – Best Street Hip-Hop Artiste and Rookie of the Year, he was nominated for this year’s edition of the Headies Award. The shirtless artiste was seen announcing his nomination and saying in Yoruba, “All those awards, I own them. Whoever is given the awards apart from me, I’ll ask them to kill the person…” Not a few was outraged by that rant, including organisers of the award , who promptly reported him to the Police. The singer promptly retracted the statement.

    Why we’re excited over his breakthrough – Family

    portable According to Portable’s sister Aminat Okikiola, a petty trader, who runs a groceries store in Oke-Osa area of Iyana Ilogbo, Ado-odo/Otta Local Government Area of Ogun State, where the singer grew up, Habeeb (Portable) started showing traits of his singing talents right from childhood, before their mother died and she took up his upbringing.

    “He started showing his talent for singing from childhood before our mother passed. Right after our mother’s death, he intensified the habit, to the extent that if I sent him on any errand, he would sing throughout the trip. If I gave him a chore, he would sing throughout the chore. I thought it was a joke, like a passing phase. If he was sitting down, he was singing. At a point, I started wondering ‘what kind of thing is this?’ Eventually, I enrolled him with a tailor to learn tailoring. The plan was for him to learn that trade and have a means of livelihood. Funny enough, he learnt sewing, knew the job well and was able to sew well. But he did not ditch his passion, as he kept singing.”

    About his schooling, Aminat said, “Of course he went to school. He attended Iganmode Secondary School in Ota. Primary school was in Iyana-Iba area in Lagos. There was a time he went to stay with our uncle in Obasanjo area of Ota. I can’t remember the school he attended while he was with him. It was after that he went to Iganmode Secondary School. Then my mum had died. I was twenty when mum died. I am ten years older. I took him in and brought him up. So I am like a mother to him.”

    What about their dad? There is a story that their father was nowhere to be found during the boy’s growing days, but has suddenly showed up, enjoying the fruits of the his success, to the extent that he even bought him a car?

    “That’s not true” she said flatly.

    “People like to tell stories they know nothing about. My father played his own part in Habeeb’s growing up, even though the family was separated. There was a time I even took him to stay with my father in Abuja when he started this singing thing. He lived with him in Abuja for about seven years but he was still pursuing his singing career. When he saw that it was his passion, he left him to horn it until fortune smiled on him. So let nobody tell you that my dad did not play his part in his growing up. Of course, married couples separate, but they can still impact one another positively, if they know their responsibilities and duties. Later our father returned to Lagos and he kept being active and supportive in our affairs, particularly Habeeb’s. If I called him that I was having any challenge with Habeeb, he would respond. There were times even came over to see to certain matters. Now he stays in Lagos and he is able to see us more regularly.”

    Could that be the reason Portable bought him a car? Recall that one of the first things the maverick musician did when he hit limelight was to buy his dad a car.

    “Yes of course. Why not? If my mum were to be alive, he would have bought her a car too. I am also praying that God continues to bless him, so that he can buy a car for me too, because I played a great part in his growing up. I suffered bringing him up. It was just the two of us, before dad came into the picture.”

    Even now, Aminat, who runs a provision store in front of her house, said, she is already feeling the impact of Portable’s success. “He is supporting me financially, I cannot deny that. He supports my business as well.”

    Portable’s little home

    This reporter also chose the moment to ask Aminat about a little bungalow under construction a few meters from her own home.

    Earlier in the day, when this reporter landed the Oke-Osa neighbourhood, a sleepy community in Iyana Ilogbo near Sango-Ota, where Portable was brought up, most people spoken to kept directing him to a little bungalow under construction, a few meters from  Aminat’s house. Then of course, the musician’s only direct relative, Aminat, was said to be away at the market.

    “Yes, it’s his house. He is building it for himself.”

    Notably, she revealed that it was their dad who was supervising the construction of Portable’s new home.

    “That should underline the level of rapport and trust between father and son”, she said.

    Asked how she feels about her brother’s sudden success, Aminat’s eyes brightened. “I am happy for him because he suffered. He suffered a lot and I can tell you this be cause I am a living witness. On several occasions, when he seemed down, I would encourage him. And then he would tell me, ‘Sister, don’t worry, I will make it.’ During those moments, he would also say to me, ‘One thing I will tell you is that I will never take what does not belong to me. I will not steal or engage in any shameful act that will bring disgrace to you. But this blow, I must blow.’ And I have said amen to his prayer.

    “He has been singing for at least seven years. In truth, some of his songs are very deep. It just happens that it was this Zazoo song that brought him to limelight. Sometimes he would sing some songs and you will be wondering if such song was coming from this little boy. And I would be praying for him to meet somebody who would sign him, because I saw his potentials.”

    Asked to speak on the viral video that had her brother paraded naked for allegedly stealing a tricycle popularly called ‘Marwa’, Aminat said, “No, he actually did not steal. That incident actually happened a long time ago, long before he broke into limelight. He had a disagreement with his then promoter, Ija Omode Yusuf, which was settled in no time. It was the boys of Ija Omode, who is a strong transport union leader, who falsely accused him of stealing and stripped him naked to embarrass him. But when Ija Omode heard of it, he was very upset and even came here to apologise and beg him.”

    Aminat also vouched for Portable’s cool-headedness as a growing child, leaving one to wonder where the weird lifestyle, marijuana smoking and careless talks came from.

    “In truth, he has always been a tough boy. However, he never stole. Throughout his growing up, nobody ever reported to me that ‘hey, your brother stole this or that. But of course, he has always been full of songs, pranks and all sorts of jokes and funny slangs. Sometimes, he would gather kids and start playing pranks and all sorts of slangs with them. Sometimes he even picks on me too.”

    About his hemp smoking habit, she said, “Funny enough, I cannot tell when he develop this love for marijuana. The Habeeb, the Portable that I know and brought up never smoked hemp. In fact, he didn’t smoke cigarette or drink alcohol. So I am surprised at the development. Even now, I could almost swear that he does not smoke or drink. I guess it comes with the profession and stardom.”

    Does she subscribe to the general belief that marijuana gives artistes inspiration?

    Aminat laughed heartily and said, “I don’t know. I have never smoked marijuana, so I cannot tell.”

  • ‘Why I amassed two PhDs, four Masters degrees’

    ‘Why I amassed two PhDs, four Masters degrees’

    Chris Imumolen is a man of many parts. The president of Global Wealth Systems, armed with 2 PhDs and four Masters degrees he believes that every challenge is an opportunity to rediscover your talents, skills and move to the next phase of life. He lost his father at a very tender age and things turned sour for his family as they struggled to survive the immeasurable hardship, feeding from hand to mouth.
    In this interview with Yetunde Oladeinde, he opens up on how he turned the table around, supporting so many people within and outside the shores of the country through empowerment, entrepreneurship, education and scholarship and more.

    Tell us about early life, losing your father and how you survived against many odds?

    I was born in Mushin, Lagos. I lost my father at the age of 12 and it was very tough losing the breadwinner of our family then. For another

    20 years plus, we lived from hand to mouth until I was able to finish my university.

    It was tough but I made up my mind never to give up. I started working; living as an entrepreneur and gradually broke through poverty. It was very tough losing my father, he died of heart attack. Majorly, he died because of lack of medical care in Nigeria. That is what is making people like us look at fixing the health sector.

    What was the turning point for you?

    For me, this would be discovering my talent in the university through volunteering. I volunteered and discovered that I had some inherent talents in marketing, leadership and that happened because I volunteered to work in some organizations while I was in the university for my first degree. And I also served in my father’s company. So, these leadership roles gave me the knowledge that I had some skills. Again, during my NYSC, I also served as the CLO and there have been a lot of services that I have done through volunteering.

    That opened the revelation to discover what I had in me. That period actually formed the turning point in my life, to know what I can do and I channeled that basically into entrepreneurship, which has made me who I am today.

    Let’s talk about life as an entrepreneur and some of the things that you do?

    I am an entrepreneur to the core. I love starting from the scratch, building from the scratch. I have built a training institute, a university. I have built Real Estate, Oil and Gas Organisations and I also run an NGO, one of the largest NGOs in the world. Through this, I have impacted a lot of people. I believe that entrepreneurship is a skill.  I believe also in risk.

    Some people do not like to take risk, for those of us who know how to take risks, it’s a calling. And looking at Nigeria as a calling, it’s very dicey to succeed as an entrepreneur. For us, we thank God for the growth, the skills, wanting to know more and that has helped us thus far. So, those are some of the changes that I would like to see in the sector. I would also like to see more of doing business with ease, support from government like loans. Government should actually force banks to give loans to SMEs, let’s have financial and commercial intervention funds. Also, I advise that double taxation systems should be eliminated to the barest minimum.

    States should also help the Federal government to ensure thatentrepreneurs are not frustrated, there should be provision of adequate facilities for entrepreneurs to work better like power, good roads and policies. Capacity training also, to ensure that we have good skills development because human capacity development is key to ensure that entrepreneurs excel.

    What are some of the changes that you will like to see in the sector?

    Government should be sincere; government should help investors so that they would not be afraid to invest because of lack of amenities to succeed over the years.

    What are the achievements over the years?

    My family comes first. I have a stable home, my family, my wife. I try to be very close to God and my businesses have grown tremendously. But more importantly, is the impact to humanity. We have given out over 500,000 scholarships and tuition waivers to Nigerians. We believe that Nigerians can and should be educated. That, I have also extended to other parts of the world, not just Nigerians. Even online to other parts of the world to apply. Rural electrification is another area where we have helped to provide power to villages that have not seen electricity. These have helped to improve and boost our economy in the region. Also, we have been involved in many Prison release. Over 200,000 Prisoners were released and these are basic achievements that have helped to build life and some of the impact that I have been able to make.

    What inspired you to establish three universities in different continents to support Africans?

    I have so much love for education and I have a desire seeing that people realise their dream affordably. That is why for me, I am heavily educated, having two PhDs and four Masters. It is not really an achievement for me but a quest to know more. Knowledge has given me all this certifications and degrees. To me, knowledge is not just the paper you have but what you have in your head.

    Let’s talk about your scholarships and empowerment programs for the less privileged?

    We have more focus in the university scholarship. I have that platform and, I make it easily accessible for people. Although we have support for those in primary schools here and there, but it is not as much as those in tietery institution. For us, the university scholarship is what we actually have more people come in because of the strength that we have in and out of the country. So, I love to see that Nigerians get this because I understand the importance of education to Nation building. If Nigerians are not educated, then we are building leaders that would not be able to solve our problems. Those who would not be able to compete with global citizens. So, education is very key for us.

    Tell us about your experience as Senior Technical adviser on oil and Gas for Akwa Ibom State?

    Currently, I am also the President Offshore and Gas Professionals. It is a group of oil and Gas professionals that advise, train, retrain, organizes seminars. I also do Technical oil and Gas jobs. That experience has also helped me in the past to work with Akwa Ibom state government where I was able to advise and support debt recovery, standardisation of oil and gas downstream, upstream and mainstream.

    So, it has been a very good one and a great experience.

    What are some of the other things that occupy your time?

    I am involved with activities of job creation as well as political activities now. I want to vie for the presidency as well as spend quality time with my family. Majorly, it is how we solve problems with our responsibilities. We need to ask ourselves questions like, how do we venture into new areas, how do we sustain what we have built, how do we talk to staff, gingering staff to get better reports and how do we support those out there that need support.

    What advice do you have for young people in Nigeria today?

    Young Nigerians should be focused; they should ensure that they proved themselves, that they can do it. There might not be all that they need but you can make it first by believing in ourself. It might be tough but don’t let anyone discourage you. You are the greatest encourager of yourself .Even some of the people that you look up to, may even discourage you and say it might not work. But try it and seek help from those who have succeeded and they would also guide. Then believe in good, do not go into crime. Believe in Nigeria as a country and have a good life, have value, have morale and be of good behavior.

    Tell us about your role models, people you admire in your career or in life?

    I have different role models and this include spiritual, physical and other role models.

    But my biggest role model is my father; he lived a very humble life. He is one of the compass with which I navigate through life. I look at his life, a very simple, sincere lifestyle and he is my biggest role model.

    What are some of the principles that guide what you do?

    The first is civility, do unto others what you want them to do to you. Then don’t do unto others, what you do not want them to do unto you.

    How do you relax?

    Sometimes, at weekends, I swim. Sometimes, I crack jokes with people and take my mind off work as well as do a little exercise.

    What type of books do you like to read?

    I love reading motivational books. I love reading books that challenge my mind; creative thinking books that can make one grow the mind more.

    What lessons has life taught you?

    Life has taught me not to underrate anyone. Life has taught me that every vision is possible to come to mind, every dream can happen. Life has taught me to be good to people but don’t expect them to be good in return. Also, we should not judge others by the experiences that we have from others. Just be humble, do your best. Be prayerful; always remember that there is the spiritual side of life. And there is a power that controls the physical and knows your God. Another lesson is doing do badly to children; they would always grow up to be in charge.

    Everything that you cannot do openly, don’t do secretly. Life has taught me to be good and that is what I currently live on.

  • JENNIFER  THOMAS: I was born to be  a ‘doctor of bags’

    JENNIFER THOMAS: I was born to be a ‘doctor of bags’

    Jennifer Oamhen Thomas is a creative entrepreneur and CEO of Jenlo, a design and manufacturing company. She has great eye for design, using African fabrics to create handcrafted bags and other accessories. In this interview with Yetunde Oladeinde, the Zoology graduate of Ambrose Alli University takes you into her world, acquired the skill, passion for elegance and more.

    Tell us how you got into fashion and making accessories?

    Naturally, I have always loved fashion, creative pieces and items that are unique and classy. Interestingly, I must confess that sometimes, I feel like I  still don’t know how to dress, the way I want .I also  admire people who wear designers and look classy and expensive. Then after my NYSC program, I started seeing myself in dreams. In one of such encounters, I saw a man wearing white apparel and in the conversations, he kept on telling me to go for bag making.

    At first I thought it was mere dreams, until the dreams became frequent and it dawned on me that this was my calling. I was skilled in creativity and I was being shown that bag making is where I should be. That direction helped and I had to create time, passion and this became another phase that I am proud of today.

    What was the experience like at the beginning?

    To be honest, I would say that the experience was not funny when I started. It was tough. There were so many times that I will get orders and I will not have money to purchase the materials required. Sometimes, I will actually plead with the customer to pay in full, so I can get all the materials needed for the project.

    You studied Zoology. Did you practice with this?

    While I was growing up, I actually wanted to become a Medical doctor, a surgeon. At that point in my life, I felt and thought I was born for that.

    When I sat for my first and second JAMB examinations, I scored 200 and 250.

    Also, for my first and second post UTME, I scored 65 and 60.My parents then thought that since I passed the cutoff mark that there was no need to meet anyone for admission but then Nigeria happened to me.

    Long story short, I ended up in Zoology. Unfortunately, I never had passion for it. That was the reason why I couldn’t do well considering the kind of brains I have.

    Most of my course mates can relate to this because I always skipped classes and most times, I hardly took notes. But behind closed doors, you will see me reading medical textbooks. I still do that till date.

    So, that naturally became a unique turning point in my life. And, seeing what I am doing today, all I can say is that Man propose but God does what is best for us. The crux of the matter is that bag designing is my passion and my calling. I was born to be a doctor of bags.

    What inspires your designs?

    I must say that the designs are natural; all my design inspiration comes from God.

    He has and continues to be my source of inspiration

    What are the challenges you encountered?

    Like every other sector, it comes with its challenges but I do not allow that to affect what I do. Some of the challenges encountered include getting the right machines, tools to work with. Personnel are also critical and most times, it is tough getting enough capable hands to work with.

    What are some of the memorable moments in your life and career?

    I must say that I have not attained that memorable moment that I am craving for in my life so far. I am still looking forward to that experience and I am sure to get there someday. However, the memorable moment in my career is my work with pattern drafting. It has been really awesome.

    What are some of the changes you would like to see in the sector?

    To start with, I would say that we all are doing well for ourselves, the society and the nation at large. However, I just wish that we can be having access to materials anytime we want. Sometimes, you buy a material for a particular project and when you go back to the market to buy same materials to complete the project, they tell you it is no longer available. I really hope a time will come when we can have unlimited access to materials.

    What are some of the other things that occupy your time?

    When I am not working on my designs, then I take time off to relax. At such moments, I like surfing the internet or playing my favourite games.

    What are the new areas that you are looking at for expansion?

    There are so many opportunities for the future. One of the new areas that I would love to explore is to empower and train others by running a fashion academy as well as a bag designing academy.

    Tell us about the people you admire?

    I admire Prudent Gabriel of Prudential Fashion Academy; I am inspired by her passion towards what she does for her brand. I am also inspired by the current Minister of Women Affairs, Her Excellency Dame Pauline Tallen OFR, KSG. I so much admire her passion for humanity, helping women to rediscover themselves as well as supporting those who have one challenge or the other.

    Mercy Johnson Okojie is another woman that I admire in terms of creativity, excellence and dedication. She inspires me a lot and I admire how she made combining family, work and career look so easy.

    Who or what do you consider as the greatest influence in your life?

    For me, the greatest influence in my life comes from me and what I do. The passion to be successful in my career is the greatest motivation.

    What is your definition of style?

    For me, style is the uniqueness that picks or separates you from the crowd.

    How would you assess the sector today?

    The fashion sector today is highly competitive. Many people want to dare it. But it takes diligence, focus, determination, consistency and constant hard work to be at the top among others. The competition cannot stop but you must keep pushing your brand ahead of others.

    What message do you have for young people who want to go into the sector?

    There are a lot of young people doing very well in the sector at the moment. The opportunities abound. My advice would therefore be face your fears.

    Life itself is a risk, so is this journey called life; it’s risky not to take any risk.

    You have to start from somewhere, the truth of the matter is that every great designer out there, started from somewhere.

    For you to succeed in this craft, you have to first conquer fear, be determined, be focused. I will also add that consistency is the keyword and don’t forget to be prayerful.

    What dreams did you have as a young girl?

    My dream as a young girl was and still is to excel in my career and be among the top 5 bag designers worldwide.

    Do you have young people that you are mentoring?

    Yes, I have a lot of young people that I mentor at home and abroad. I have young ladies that I train, they learn from what I do and they also run practical’s. I teach them all aspect of bag making respectively and they can boldly testify to this.

    I also mentor young people online (media training) in Nigeria and outside the country. For this, I run a media video camera where we teach them in details, give them practical’s and give remarks to their work.

    I am fully available for any mentoring and ready to be mentored on bag making.

    How did your business survive during the COVID-19 lockdown?  Did you diversity in any way?

    It wasn’t easy during the pandemic 2019/2020. It was surely a rough and difficult time. But I was still producing bags, strictly on order. And it was but a few customers’ request.

    Moreso, I have never diversified since I started my handwork. It has always been bag making, good and in bad times. However, I must say that Souvenir bags were also a good support during the COVID-19 period. Customers requested for it more during that period and that really sustained the business.

    Have you sent your bags for export or is it just for the local clients?

    I have most times exported my bags without limit. I have customers abroad who when they request for my bags, also refer one or two friends of theirs because of the quality they see in it. That’s how I got customers abroad from time to time and God has been faithful. I have customers in Germany, Italy, France, Turkey, etc. and they have never had any reason to complain about my products because of its high quality and standard.

    I can export to wherever and whenever around the world. Just make an order and you will get it. I am also open to partnership deals.

    How has being in the sector influenced your entrepreneurial skills?

    All my designs are inspired by God. I always think and foresee myself creating something different from other products. Most times, I sketch out designs that are rare and uncommon, even without knowing what prompted me to sketch them. God has been helping me to see things a new and different from other designs.

    Moreso, I get inspired when I see great women evolving in economic growth and stability like Prudent Gabriel of Prudential Fashion Academy. I get motivated by her to do more and have a great impact in the sector.

    Let’s compare when you started and now?

    I started sewing bags with one sewing, unstandardized machine that always gave me problems and caused delay in work. God helped me with some jobs and I have been able to get some machines to work. Though, I still need more machines because I am with God getting bigger every day. So, more sewing machines are needed for stability and consistency in my bag making.

    Also, there were times I had less workers in the shop. The burden was too much and I settled for some apprentices. Thank God that area has been covered, though I still need more workers to make the work easier for me.

  • FEMI GBEDE: Life taught me not to give up on dreams

    Femi Gbede is an attorney listed in 2021 among Top 40 Black Lawyers under 40. In this interview with Yetunde Oladeinde, he talks about his passion for the less privileged, mentoring young lawyers, running an arbitration academy, memorable moments in the sector and more.

    ELL us about your memorable moments as a Lawyer?

    I’ve always dreamt of becoming a lawyer, but while pursuing that dream I ventured into journalism having earlier studied Mass Communication. In my mind, I knew that was a detour. So, when I ultimately got admitted to the Nigerian bar as a lawyer, it was such a beautiful moment for me. You know it’s always joyful to the heart when you achieve your dream, but I think being admitted to the New York bar some years back aroused a different kind of feeling; a feeling of profound ecstasy and ineffable joy. Growing up, I never thought about the possibility of being able to practice law in New York. It was a big moment in the annals of my professional history.

    What does making the Top 40 black Lawyers under 40 mean to you?

    It means a lot to me. It’s an indication that I’m doing something right. It’s a call on me to continue to punch above my weight. Accolades like this, are catalysts that push one to attain greater heights, and reach for the stars. I’m definitely not relenting.

    What inspired you to sponsor Law graduates and how has this influenced you personally?

    I recall that sometime in 2017/2018 or thereabout, a young man that I didn’t know before, reached out to me on LinkedIn for assistance with his law school tuition. I didn’t think twice with my decision to support him. As a matter of fact, I was already thinking of starting a scholarship scheme at the time. So, it was as if he read my mind and knew that if he reached out to me, he would get the support he needed. He was right! His request was timely. I’m sure it must have felt like a jackpot for the young man as I didn’t stop with that initial support. I also decided to send a token to his bank account every other month while he was studying at the law school so that he could focus and wouldn’t be distracted too much by money issues. That’s something that I do for all my scholars. I have eight (8) of them currently studying at different campuses of the Nigerian Law School. That young man turned out to be my very first scholar. To be honest, I have been fortunate as a student myself, to study on scholarship, based on academic merit. So, what I’m doing now is a way for me to give back to the society, especially when one thinks of the economic travails that Nigeria is going through. Success for me isn’t about what you have done for yourself alone. It consists in what you are able to do for others, the impact you are making in people’s lives. My scholarship program is also a way for me to say thank you to God for what He has done in my life.

    Tell us about the African Arbitration Academy and some of the achievements?

    We started the Africa Arbitration Academy (AAA) to give young lawyers in Africa the much needed exposure and training in the field of international arbitration. Since we launched it in 2018, it has grown by leaps and bounds. Successful candidates get to travel to London at no cost to them, to receive trainings from reputable arbitration practitioners in top law firms in the world. The maiden edition which was held in June 2019 had close to 30 participants, drawn from different African countries, in attendance, for three (3) weeks. All that the participants need to do is to make themselves available, as their flight and accommodation expenses are all taken care of. The Academy enjoys the support of several big international law firms, the World Bank and arbitral institutions world-wide. It has become such a global success now that we receive applications from top government functionaries, including the Deputy Minister of Justice of a country. We also receive applications every year from Partners of big law firms in Africa. Our annual lecture, which is the highlight of the program, has featured prominent global figures and for this year, we will have the Deputy Prime Minister of the United Kingdom, and the Chief Justice of Sierra Leone in attendance. The Academy is just another way to give back. The Academy is at the forefront of innovation. In response to the disruption in arbitration proceedings caused by the corona virus pandemic, the Academy came up with a Protocol on Virtual Hearings in Africa, which provides guidelines and best practices for arbitrations within Africa, where a physical hearing is impracticable due to health, safety and other considerations. Some arbitral institutions in Africa have already reached out to the Academy with a view to adopting the Protocol.

    You also have an investment company, what inspired you to set it up and what are some of the achievements?

    I’m excited about my collaboration with the Africa Health Holdings because it’s going to add tremendous value to my scholarship scheme. So, going forward, some of my scholars will have the benefit of doing summer internship and NYSC with the investment management company. In fact, it was because of this collaboration that I decided to have two application cycles since the internship opportunity will happen in the summer every year. Application for the early cycle will close sometime around the end of April every year to allow for review and selection in time for the summer internship. The regular cycle application opens around August/September.

    What are the other things that you are working on at the moment?

    The scholarship scheme is just one of the many things that I am doing. I have a foundation through which I reach out to the less privileged in Nigeria from time to time to help with basic things to live life. My foundation doesn’t solicit fund from anyone. It’s 100% funded with my personal money. So, I only work with the little that I have. There are many people in Nigeria who live on less than $1 a day, who don’t know where their next meal will come from. Those are my targets. I derive joy in lending a helping hand to those that need it. It’s a natural part of me and I believe that’s just basic humanity. It’s Humanity 101. I know when other people like me, especially those of us in Diaspora help in this way, many lives will be positively touched. Let me tell you one thing about giving. When you give, God just blesses you in a way that even you will not comprehend. May God continue to bless us!

    What are some of the challenges encountered?

    You know when God has put you in a comfortable position; the moral expectation is for you to help others. At the same time, there’s a limit to what you can do as an individual. The demands from people can sometimes be overwhelming. I cannot begin to tell you the number of requests I wake up to on various platforms every day, from friends, families. Those I know and those I don’t know, on whatsapp, LinkedIn, instagram etc. As you settle one person’s financial request, another one hops in to your phone. The requests never stop. I’ve also started seeing many requests for support from young lawyers who secure admission to top universities in Europe and America, but who weren’t granted scholarships. It’s a tough situation to be in because it’s a very huge amount in dollars and pounds that we are talking about here. Tuition can be in excess of $70,000 dollars in many of these schools. Whilst the focus of my scholarship is on law graduates in Nigeria proceeding to the Nigerian Law School, I’ve been able to assist some of these Europe and America bound graduate law students to the best of my ability. It can really be overwhelming, to be honest. You can’t help everybody.

    What advice do you have for young people who want to come into the sector?

    I’ll tell them to not feel pressured about the area of practice they want to specialize in. That will sort itself by the time they join a law firm, if that is the path they choose to toe. In fact, these days, many law firms will give them the opportunity to rotate practice groups at the beginning. That way, they can appreciate which one appeals more to them. For example, I wanted to be a litigator, but I ended up becoming a corporate attorney because I tried it out and I liked it. Again, for those who plan to ride it out in law firms, I’ll advise that they develop their people skills. Law is a business. So, a time will come when their technical expertise will not mean much.  At that point, a lawyer’s rain-making prowess assumes ascendancy. As a partner in a law firm, your business-generation strength is key. They should forge friendships with their colleagues in business schools and in other fields. They will turn out to be their clients’ years later.

    What lessons has life taught you?

    Life has taught me to never give up on my dreams. Winners don’t quit; and quitters don’t win, the saying goes and in fact, one who doesn’t throw the dice, will never score a six. I’ve learnt to always pursue my dreams even if heaven falls. I’ve also learnt that the way to actualize my dreams is by taking action. It’s fine to envision and talk about them, but it’s a complete waste of time if one doesn’t act. Make a conscious effort to actualize your dreams. There’s no harm in trying. The worst that will happen is that you will fail and when you do, you learn. Don’t believe anything is impossible. The only thing standing in the way between you and your dream is you.

  • Tinubu is God’s choice for 2023  presidency – Bishop Kayode Williams

    Tinubu is God’s choice for 2023 presidency – Bishop Kayode Williams

    The telephone conversation was brief and direct. “Mr. Yusuf, you have to help me deliver this message from God to Nigerians: my secret for 2023 presidential election is Bola Ahmed Tinubu sayeth the Lord,” Bishop Kayode Williams said when he called The Nation recently. Williams, who is better known for evangelism in prisons having spent time in prison himself for armed robbery where he met Christ, said thrice did he receive the message from heaven. An appointment for interview was thus agreed. He spoke exclusively to IBRAHIM APEKHADE YUSUF and FUNKE COLE. Excerpts:

    Can you shed more light on the message from God about Asiwaju Bola Tinubu winning the 2023 presidential elections?

    This story started in 2014 when God spoke and sincerely directed me to inform all the leaders of the All Progressives Congress (APC). That was before the primaries. And I wrote to all of them, starting from the then Chairman of the party, Chief John Odigie Oyegun; and Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu, the national leader of the party. They were all struggling then. They didn’t know whether they should vote for Muhammadu Buhari or not. God said, no, Buhari was His choice; that I should tell the nation so. So, I wrote a letter to all of them that were in that contest including Alhaji Rabiu Kwankwanso, Owelle Rochas Okorocha. Everything is there: their names, the dates and copies of the letter. I hope they’re not going to deny me. Even God did not ask me to go and deliver the letters myself. He (God) asked me to connect Oba Adedapo Adewale Tejuoso to give out those letters to all of them. Oba Tejuoso now decided to send the letters by DHL. All of them received their copies. Some of them stepped down for Buhari. I think one or two refused. But the result is history now. Later God told me that Buhari would defeat the incumbent president, the person there. It was a bit controversial because so many people who heard about it said the incumbent could not be easily defeated. And for the first time in the history of this country, the incumbent, Dr. Goodluck Jonathan was defeated. Shortly after that phase, there was something that happened in Ondo State; it was during the primaries for who would be the governor of the state; so everywhere was tensed. And God asked me to write Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu and the traditional rulers in Nigeria, particularly obas in the Southwest specifically for them to intervene and allow Rotimi Akeredolu to contest because that was what God said to me; that he (Akeredolu) would win the election. God specifically instructed the obas and Asiwaju Tinubu to support Akeredolu because God has a bigger assignment in the future for him (Tinubu); that all Yoruba must unite and respect Tinubu. That was what God told me. He (God) said Tinubu should be humble. I specifically took a copy to Akeredolu. God said that Akeredolu should humble himself before Tinubu because He (God) had chosen him (Tinubu) for the upliftment of the Yorubas and the Nigerian nation. When I took the letter to Akeredolu I didn’t see him after enduring some long hours of waiting. So, I said to myself, I have been in prison and since God brought me out I thought to myself that why should I be going to give messages to people. Thankfully, before Akeredolu became governor I had known him, so I called his phone number and delivered the message. Akeredolu was once my lawyer when I was in prison. Mind you, he wasn’t the one that handled my criminal case. No. The case he handled for me was another case entirely. They (authorities) said there was a riot in the prison and that I didn’t support them to silent the inmates because their action was capable of breaching peace in the prison. That was the case. So, Akeredolu heard about the case and came to assist. So, when I came out of prison, we became friends. Akeredolu won the primaries and also won the election and the rest as they say is history. Again, in 2018 and 2019, when the electioneering campaigns began, some group of pastors came together. Let me say this. All pastors in Nigeria are divided into three bodies. We have the bigger body, Christians Association of Nigeria (CAN), which is the umbrella body of all Christians in Nigeria. We have founders of churches; some of them are not against CAN neither are they regular members of CAN, but they are kings in their different cathedrals. We also have independent ministers of God, who have nobody to help them up there or even down below. So, they remain there but they are working according to God’s directives in their small way. They may not have a large congregation, but when aggregated they are more in numbers than the Anglicans, the Catholics, all other big churches put together. These set of churches by independent ministers are in large numbers and these are the people that really vote. Majority of our leaders don’t vote; it is not even convenient for some leaders in the church. Even if they receive messages they want to announce to the church that God Has spoken, you must follow this man or that man, it is not possible because church members don’t belong to only one party. But as for independent pastors, when God speaks to them, they can direct their members on what to do because the message is a mandate from God, which is different because there are pastors called hirelings, who are recruited and paid by some masters. As a hireling, you cannot go beyond what your masters say. I’m not using this to put down anybody. God sees my mind. I’m only trying to analyse things. The majority of people that will vote are within our organisation, the Integrity Ministers International Ministry Incorporated (IMIM). We have members across the different 774 local government areas in the federation. We’re seriously in control of the grassroots. And that is why my message must be general considering the respect that I have for all our leaders in big churches. I’m giving them the message of God. I’m not forcing anybody. I’m only saying the truth that they should look at it and consider whether it is from the Lord or not, because the Bible says they have the right to go into prophetical message and analyse.

    The letters you sent to the APC top shots you mentioned earlier, do you still have copies?

    Yes, I will let you have them.

    Most people know you as a minister of God involved in prison ministry, so at what point in time did you delve into receiving prophetic political messages?

    I have been receiving it but I didn’t want to go and be exposing things about governance and people would say someone who just came out of prison. Right from prison, immediately I gave my life to Christ, I have been receiving revelations about Nigeria. I was in prison during the regime of Shehu Sagari and I saw a vision that he was ousted in a coup. When I told my fellow inmates they mocked me. They said, “haha, Joseph alala. (Joseph the dreamer) what are you saying? Take it easy o. You just received Jesus o.” So I had to go back into my shell.  What most Nigerians don’t know is that they play politics in the prisons. Serious politics goes on in the prisons. There is APC, PDP, and all kinds of parties in the prison community. During electioneering campaigns, even prisoners mount the rostrum to canvass votes for their favorite candidates and parties. In the prisons, politics there is very serious because they can beat you to a pulp and you can’t escape the wrath if you say something stupid. I also remember I dreamt about Bola Ige’s murder. I shared the vision with a few pastors and they said how do you prove this? They said that’s not just possible. He is the Minister of Justice and Attorney General of the Federation with all security apparatus at his beck and call. Coincidentally, the day they killed Bola Ige, I was in Ibadan; my house is not far from Bodija. But now, boldness came particularly when Muhammadu Buhari wanted to contest in 2015. Buhari had been struggling to become president. He never achieved that aim; he had been failing. Most prophets prophesied at that time that Goodluck Jonathan would retain power. I was the only person, the lone ranger who said otherwise. Newspapers refused to publicise it. I don’t want to mention names of the papers. In fact, somebody told me when they were interviewing me that, “a o le ko eleyi jade” (We cannot publish this.) I was able to come out boldly at that time because I felt I was now in the shoes of leaders. So, I prophesied and said, “Thus sayeth the Lord. Buhari will win.” The argument then was that how would it be possible. According to what God has been telling me Tinubu will bring back the glory of Nigeria. That was why I sent all those letters. When I prophesied that time nobody believed me. But God that sent me made it a reality. Buhari won the primaries and the general elections in 2014-2015. In 2018, I came out again to say Buhari would retain power. But people were shouting, “ebi n pa wa o. Nigeria o da mo.” (People are hungry, things are worsening in Nigeria).You know all the noise. I came out at the time, even went on the radio, Lagos Radio to be precise. I was even interviewed by some newspapers including The Nation. I said Buhari was going to win the election. Even my own people started fighting me. Buhari won in 2019. Now 2023 is right at the corner. God spoke to me not just once but thrice.

    You said earlier that some clergymen congregate on the mountain to receive prophetic messages. Tell us how these things happen. Are they in form of trance or dream or the thought just drops on your mind?

    Since the last election, we have been holding our prayers every Friday on a mountain in Osun State. Some people curse the president and the nation, but we pray against such curses that bring condemnation to the nation. God knows what is happening because whosoever that is on the throne as a leader, God wants us to pray for him. So, there is nothing that you want to tell God that He doesn’t know. If you remember the Bible where the Israelites murmumed against Moses in the wilderness. They started cursing him, and God started reacting, fighting and killing the followers. And the Israelites were dying. Moses had to plead on their behalf and God instructed Moses to lift up a serpent because it was the serpent that was biting them, killing them with a poisonous serpent. And God gave Moses instruction that whosoever that had been bitten by the snake should raise his eyes above and watch the serpent He will forgive and heal them and it happened. This dispensation, there is no Moses; Jesus is in total control because as Moses lifted up the snake in the wilderness. It is not for a pastor to sit down in the corner of his room and say thus sayeth the Lord, God revealed or I saw. But when you hear thus sayeth the Lord, there will be a voice under the inspiration and impartation of God through one of the prophets. After he might have spoken which will be written down by the secretary of the organisation, another person will speak. Because so many people might have been slain in the spirit so we would wait for a second person. Everybody will be quiet. There will be no more praying; prayers will stop either by ringing of the bell. But again, we don’t normally ring the bell otherwise other speakers will not speak again.

    There must be no break in transmission. So the prophetic message will come out. Thus sayeth the Lord. I’m trying to clarify your question. Then the third one will be heard. After the third one, we will stop because the witness must be from two to three then we will establish the truth.

    In 2020, God spoke to me to tell Nigerians to stop cursing but people did not stop. In 2021, God reminded me again. We would not have suffered greatly the way the COVID-19 pandemic devastated Nigeria. Before that time, we were saying we didn’t have money and in fact, were borrowing money to implement all manners of projects but when the pandemic broke out, we were all imprisoned in our houses, everyone was under lockdown. This happened because we had cursed the country with our mouths. God is not a joker. As I told you earlier, God told us in 2016 that He was going to raise Bola Ahmed Tinubu for Nigeria; you will all see. And the message was sent to obas and God mentioned specifically the name of the oba that must be given the letters through Oba Adedapo Adewale Tejuoso. He is my best evangelistic pastor. He is the Chairman and President of the Christians Traditional Rulers of Nigeria. He was the one who gave letters to Buhari. The good thing is that we were able to pass the message across. When this one came out, three times, I called Oba Tejuoso and said, “It’s Bola Ahmed Tinubu.”

    You said you received the messages thrice on how Tinubu will emerge victorious in the 2023 presidential elections. Can you mention these dates and times the messages came to you?

    I will need to check all those dates to be able to give you specific answers. But I remember sometime last year, 2021, I shared the message with Cardinal James Omolaja Odunmbaku, also known as the Baba Etoo. He is the Visioner/President of Christ Ambassador Soul Winners, because I believe he is closer to Tinubu. I went to his house. So when this message came, God told me to take it to Odumbaku. But he was not around. When he came back, he called me and said, ‘Bishop I saw your message for Tinubu.” I said, “e ma je ko tutu o, ogbonna oo. Tinubu ma wole.’ (It’s hot, let it not get cold. Tinubu will win).That time even the shenanigans we’re all seeing today was happening because nobody was even thinking about elections. Then, at another programme, I asked him last year, ‘have you given this message to Tinubu?’ And when I went back to Baba Tejuoso and said God Has spoken, he agreed with me, but said that we should go back and listen to God again. I’m quoting him verbally. He told me that last year. He said you have only confirmed it once, I want God to confirm it again. Then I went back and he (Oba Tejuoso) asked, “ki lOluwa tunso?” Se Tinubu yi naa si ni?  (What has God said this time? Is it Tinubu still?).Then I said, “Kabiyesi oun ni, Tinubu ni Oluwa tun so oo.” (Yes kabiyesi, he’s the one God confirmed).The third time was last month or two months ago. Elder Fajemisin was with me. We were writing and updating the notes and preparing the letters together. Because we could not just bring out a piece of paper and pass to Tinubu and say this is the message. We had to sit down. Fajemisin is a journalist of high repute. He retired as a Director of Programmes in NTA, Abuja. He knows my integrity and hence decided to join this ministry. He knows what I’m saying. He was the one writing. So, the third message now came. That was the last one and we were preparing how to take the message to Baba Akande because God mandated us to go and give Baba Akande. But they said Baba Akande was in Abuja. I don’t want to go to the gate of Tinubu and be lurking around like a nuisance. Even some pastors have been troubling me to lead people to Bourdillion Road saying that way I can gain access to Tinubu but I told them to wait for God’s direction. When Tinubu returned from London after his medical trip, they forced me and I had to dance to their tune, so we took my car and some others. Justice Shogbola, the president of this organisation; mama doesn’t believe in “nigbati ngbati woli kan so pe” (when a prophet said). But because of the integrity and trust she has found in me, she decided to accept the leadership because she has been seeing the consistency and the follow-up of all my prophetic messages. And I said Mama because you know all these things you’re a judge of the Federal Republic of Nigeria, you retired from the National Industrial Court, you are part of us. This is just to confirm to the whole world that it is not an imagination because if a judge is part of this set up, any reasonable person will know we’re not joking here. This is a woman, not a frivolous person. You can go and check her antecedents. So, she accepted. So when I now informed Oba Tejuoso that Kabiyesi, this letter must be submitted, he said glory be to God. That is what is gearing us up to speak out now. The copies for Tinubu, we wanted to go through his daughter, Sade, because the Iyaloja lives in the same place with my wife. But my fear is that if I go anyhow, people will say it is manipulation. But I know Sade as my daughter but this is God’s message. But I told myself I cannot use that familiarity to say, Sade go and give your father because God said.

    Politics is big business which requires funding. You have mentioned that your group hopes to mobilise support for him. Who is going to be bankrolling this project?

    In the 774 local governments in Nigeria, we have members. God has decided in His infinite mercy to grant us the opportunity of the mandate in the six geo-political zones in Nigeria that we must mobilise people to be praying for the success of the election and success particularly of Tinubu in every area. Our mandate also is that because we are sure of what God hath said that it will come to pass, that immediately he starts his campaign, all our members in the city, we must mobilise to go and be praying and make sure that there’s no calamity. Kí ṣe wípé Olúwa jẹ ó wọ lé, ó ti wọle. (The prayer point is not that he should win; he has won already). This is not a prediction neither is it a forecast, permutation or guesswork. God said Bola Ahmed Tinubu is His choice for Nigeria come 2023. In fact, our members are no longer praying for Tinubu to win the elections because we know his victory has already been sealed in heaven above. We’re only praying that God protects him from all forms of evil machinations ahead of his inauguration in 2023. Note this down.

    You are a leader in the Christendom. Interestingly Asiwaju Tinubu is a Muslim. How do you marry this? Couldn’t the Lord have shown you a Christian, as against a Muslim?

    God does not see things the way we do. If God wants to send rain, He sends rain for both Christians and Muslims. God does not see anybody as a Christian or Muslim, He sees us as the work of His Hands. We have made a choice in the world to follow. That’s the way God is seeing us. It was when I came out of the prison that I went to the university to do diploma in Human Resource Management to increase my knowledge. God does not look at the people He created as Chinese or Russians. God sees them as human beings and that’s what the Bible says that in the beginning God created them male and female. Did He mention Muslim? When God speaks, I cannot go and query the integrity of God. Galatians 3:28 says that ‘there is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither bond nor free, there is neither male nor female, for ye are all one in Christ Jesus.’

  • ZUSI BOLODEOKU: Banking was not my calling

    ZUSI BOLODEOKU: Banking was not my calling

    Osezusi Bolodeoku is the creative director of FOS Studio. She started her career in International relations, moved to the financial sector as electronic banking expert and she is currently an Autism specialist equipping children with skills and resources to thrive. In this interview with Yetunde Oladeinde, she talks about her working with children with special needs, entrepreneur, why she quit banking, turning point in her career, challenges during the COVID-19 lockdown and breaking stigma as a specialist.

    Tell us about life as Founder of FOS Creative Arts Studio for Children.

    I am a certified Special Educational Needs Expert and an Advanced Certified Autism Specialist. FOS is an inclusive Creative Space and ABA Centre that caters to Neurotypical and Neurodivergent children. We help to nurture creativity, social skills, emotional intelligence, and other practical skills that all children need to succeed and thrive in the world. The facility is also a SENCO (Special Education Needs Coordinator) Centre, providing support for children and families with SEN (Special Education Needs) including Autism, ADHD, Dyspraxia, and other neurodiverse needs.

    Life as a founder of FOS Creative Arts Studio is a busy-yet-fulfilling one. I feel so blessed to be able to do what I love as a career.

    In addition to being an entrepreneur, I have the additional responsibility of being a wife and mom. Sometimes, 24 hours seem not to be enough for me to accomplish my daily goals! But still, I do the best I can, and I’m also blessed to have a great support system.

    What inspired you to go into the sector?

    What inspired me is a combination of a variety of factors, but the most influential factor that inspired me, can be traced back to my journey as a teacher. I realized that children have different abilities to learn. When I started working with children in Standard-Bearers school in Lekki, a few years ago, I came across different children, the neurotypical and the neurodivergent. That was where I first had a feel and an experience about special needs. I am an empath by nature and a motivator. I realized that I could naturally work with these children at school. However, I had my set of twins who were anxious to come into this world, so they came earlier than expected. The doctor told me to keep an eye on my son. So, the journey from just being a teacher helping other children progressed to being a mother to be on the lookout for my child. I started work on my son immediately.

    Some years down the line, there was a calling that I should help and encourage and motivate other parents to start interventions for their children. Furthermore, due to my temperament, it pains me to see parents suffer because they have children with additional needs. That is how my journey into this sector started.

    What was the experience like working with children with Special Education Needs at the beginning?

    My first-hand experience was awareness. I was not really aware that there were children like that. When I first joined the school and saw children who have autism and ADHD, my default response was, “how do I help this child to learn?” I remember meeting a child who could not sit. I would go around with him, carefully showing and demonstrating things to him, and he would learn that way. My initial experience was a good experience, and I learnt a lot – knowledge that still helps me at the FOS Creative Arts Studio for Children, till this day.

    You worked in the financial sector for five years before. What was the experience like and how would you compare with what you do now?

    I worked as a banker, and I loved my salary. Although I am from a big family and the youngest of the family, my salary made me more financially independent of my family. This gave me joy. Kudos to the bank! However, I do not miss the banking sector for anything. It was not my calling, it was just a job. I am glad I found my calling as a Special Education Needs expert and practitioner.

    How would describe the present state of breaking stigma as a specialist in the sector?

    It is heartbreaking that there is a huge culture of silence surrounding Special Education Needs in Nigeria. Though I will say we have come so far, one will ask why it is that the rate of neurodevelopmental disorders has increased. For instance, why do we have more people with Autism? The fact is that we are more aware. I remember we had a child of a family friend that has Down syndrome. She was described with different derogatory words like “imbecile”. That doesn’t happen so much now because people are more aware. It is good that we are collectively becoming more aware. However, the important question to ask is: Is there acceptance? No. Is the government making accommodations for children with developmental abilities? No. Have they made adequate provision for individuals living with physical disabilities? No. If there is no adequate provision made for individuals with physical disabilities, how much more is the case of people living with hidden disabilities, like Autism? These instances simply show that although we might be aware, we still have a long road to acceptance.  I wonder when we will move from the point of awareness to the point of acceptance.

    Even though awareness has increased, we still have a lot of work to do, because people living in rural areas need to be as aware as people living in the city, about children with special educational needs.  Awareness and acceptance will reduce the level of stigmatization.  Until there is awareness and acceptance, parents will not think they are the reason why their child has autism or ADHD. There is so many stigmas when there is no awareness and acceptance. So, we have to deal with both (awareness and acceptance) first before we can record a reduced significant level of stigmatization in our society.

    What was the turning point in your career?

    The major turning point for me in my career, was finding my true calling. I am still experiencing turning points. For me, I am describing turning points as highlights.  One of the highlights is seeing that intervention is working and children are making measurable progress.

    What were the challenges you encountered during the lockdown last year and with the COVID-19 pandemic?

    The COVID-19 pandemic was a challenge to us because children had to stay at home for a long time, and it disrupted the treatment plan we had for our clients.

    What are some of the memorable moments in your life and career?

    Giving birth to my twins is a memorable moment for me. In my career, daily memories of kids achieving important milestones are priceless experiences for me. Recently, after a tough therapy session with a child who doubted his ability and was resisting intervention; with encouragement, he eventually did the presented task. While he was leaving the therapy room, he came back to say, “I love you Ladylight.” For me, this is very memorable. This made me feel that the child understands and cherish the expression of love during the therapy session.

    What are some of the other things that occupy your time? I spend my time working with children who are neurodivergent and neurotypical as well as on the creative aspect. I also try to balance things up by creating time for my family. I am a reflection of the philosophical doubt, which is an attitude in science. Also, for best practices in my field, I always make good use of my time by studying.

    Who or what do you consider as the greatest influence in your life?

    The greatest influence in my life is Christ. I ask myself what Christ will do in this situation. And I find myself hearing the voices of my parents on a daily basis. My parents raised us with many proverbs. I can remember some: “Whatever is worth doing is worth doing well,” and my mummy says, “… if you want to eat a toad choose fat and juicy one.”  My parents and Christ are the greatest influences in my life.

    What advice do you have for young people who want to go into the sector?

    Young people should please come along. We want more hands in this sector. I would emphasize true passion for the field, the right certifications, and the right mindset. When you are passionate and you empower yourself with the right education, then you are good to go.

    How would you assess Nigerian youths today?

    Nigerian youths are smart people. It’s not surprising how Nigerian youths are successful outside the country. We are used to being resilient and persistent. Fortunately, these are good character traits. Unfortunately, the system is not helping. We cannot utilize the best in the youth where the system has failed us. I will not say anything derogatory about the youth. We need to provide opportunities for the youth. I see a lot of youth being discouraged, I see a lot of potential wasted, a lot of struggles, and a lot of people giving up because of the system. It breaks my heart to see Nigerian youth with so much potentials being discouraged by the system.

    Tell us about the people you admire?

    I admire different people for a few reasons. I am drawn to academicians. People who have gone ahead of me in the search of knowledge. Knowledge is a quality I admire in people. And for public figures, one of the people I admire is the owner of Standard Bearers School, Mrs. Oni. I admire her heart and the passion she puts in the way she works with children. She taught me that every child is intelligent in their own unique ways. I admire Mrs. Nwokolo, the only Board Certified Behaviour Analyst in Nigeria. She is the owner of Shades of Life, an A.B.A centre. She is a woman who has fought to do it right in Nigeria.  I also admire Michelle Obama.

  • How we’ve been fulfilling our mandate in Oyo  – Makinde

    How we’ve been fulfilling our mandate in Oyo – Makinde

    Oyo State Governor, ‘Seyi Makinde, speaks on efforts of his administration to expand the economy of the state through quality infrastructure building and the connection between the ongoing infrastructure revolution in the state and the vision to reposition other critical sectors. Our Correspondent Bisi Oladele was there. Excerpts:

    In less than two months, your administration will be three years in office. How will you rate your performance in office so far?

    Naturally, I would have expected that you ask members of the public to do the rating, because a lamp cannot adequately illuminate its own base. However, there is always a place of self-evaluation.

    As you said, by May, we will be counting three years in office, and we will be presenting our scorecard on what we have been able to do so far. The good thing is that our scorecard is not hidden. In road construction alone, we have over 550 kilometres of roads, both completed and ongoing. I can say that we have successfully laid the proper foundation for engineering a modern Oyo State.

    Just about three months ago, we were in Oyo to officially flag off the 34.85km Oyo-Iseyin Road. Today, everyone can see that the work is going on well in terms of quality and value for the people of Oyo State; the road is already around Fashola Farms and that is more than midway to completion.

    The Gedu-Oroki-Sabo-Asipa Road that was commissioned by my brother-governor, His Excellency, Governor Bala Mohammed, is 5.25 kilometres. Though I am sure that when people hear the length of the road, they might say, oh, it is a small road. But when you look at how important it is to Oyo people, then you will realise what we have been able to do. The road links two local government areas of Oyo- Oyo West and Atiba LGAs and it also links the North-South Federal A1 Road, route 2, connecting Oyo-Iseyin and Ogbomoso-Iseyin Roads.

    As a government, we are determined to continue to fulfil our mandate to our people both in small and big ways. In less than three years, we have delivered the 65 kilometres Moniya-Iseyin Road, the 9.7 kilometres Saki Township Road, the 3 kilometres Stadium-LAUTECH-2nd Gate (Under G) Road and we have also embarked on rehabilitations of major and minor roads within Ibadan metropolis and in other towns of the state. So, in both big and small ways, we have stayed true to that commitment to fulfil our mandate and part of that mandate is to stem rural-urban migration by ensuring good road network and interconnectivity outside of Ibadan Zone.

    As I have said repeatedly, we believe that anywhere roads go, development follows. And so, when we promised that we would move the good people of Oyo State from poverty to prosperity, we knew that a lot of our plans would be hinged on creating a viable road network through rehabilitations, reconstructions, and constructions. So far, we have done a lot of work around the Oke-Ogun-Oyo-Ibadan axis. And we are seeing how much this development has brought in less than three years. Development means that more businesses are seeing Oyo State open up, and they are coming to site their companies here. When these companies come here, they pay taxes and that is why we have been able to raise our Internally Generated Revenue (IGR) by a record N15 billion in two years.

    More recently, we are expanding the road network and linking Oke-Ogun to Ogbomoso through the Iseyin-Fapote-Ogbomoso Road. This 76.7-kilometre road will serve the same purpose as the Moniya-Ijaiye-Iseyin Road by providing a vital link between two zones. Now, we have successfully linked four zones of the state: Ibadan, Oyo, Ogbomoso and Oke-Ogun zones. I am sure you would want to ask what about the fifth zone…

    Exactly, because there is the view that your administration has neglected Ibarapa Zone in your programmes?

    As I have always said, our administration has been developing Oyo State at a pace that leaves no zone behind. In our bid to engineer a modern Oyo State, the people of Ibarapa will not be left out.

    We have re-awarded the contract for the reconstruction of the 58 kilometres Omi Adio-Ido-Eruwa Road. Also, we have approved the limited rehabilitation of the Igboora-Igangan-Iganna Road while the reconstruction of the Isaba-Ogundoyin Road, Eruwa is currently ongoing.

    Someone once told me that we are supposed to concentrate development in Ibadan, and I told the person that our concept is to spread development to all the zones in the state and that is what we will continue to do. That is why it will now only take 45 minutes to move from Iseyin to Ibadan. If you are conversant with Oyo State, you will notice that we have created a ‘Development Triangle; Ibadan to Iseyin, Iseyin to Oyo and Oyo to Ibadan. So, you see the triangular concept is for development and, in between that, you have the rail corridor as well, which means with the Circular Road, rail corridor and Airport Road dualisation, a solid plan has been put in place for the speedy expansion of our economy.

    My belief is that if we are looking at real development and creating opportunities, one thing we must pay attention to is our road network and connectivity. Ibadan, the state capital, grew out of being a nodal city because those travelling to North and other states pass through Ibadan. So, that was how Ibadan grew and we have paid attention to that as an administration.

    Those of you who often go to the Ibadan Airport and pass through Iwo Road, you would have observed that there is an ongoing work around the axis up to Old Ife Road and Onipepeye, which has made some parts to be blocked but let me assure you it is just for a short time. We are attending to them because we want to free Ibadan from the same problem Lagos State is having. Our idea is to create an economy where businesses can move to Oyo State and Ibadan, and we are succeeding.

    What exactly is the plan of your government, especially with the dwindling revenues from the Federation Account?

    Thank you. As a government, when we came in, we promised to rest the administration on four major pillars, which are health, education, security, agriculture and economic expansion through agribusiness and infrastructural development. I have also added two more legs after we came in, which are solid minerals development and tourism, due to the comparative advantage we have in those areas.

    Now, if you look at these pillars, you will realise that all the first three pillars and the two I just added can only be effectively achieved if and when there are financial resources, which means that the expansion of the state’s economy is central to the other pillars. So, with the road infrastructure that we have been building, where we are going is that since we have an economy that is competitive, then we must harness the opportunities to achieve our administration’s vision of moving the state from poverty to prosperity.

    As I said earlier, we have been able to increase the IGR of the state by N15 billion in two years. When we came in, the IGR was N1.7b monthly but now, it is well over N3b on a monthly basis. So, whenever people raise eyebrows about where we are getting money to do projects, we will always confront them with facts and figures of our increasing IGR.

    Recently, your government reintroduced the School Governing Board (SGB), a policy initiative of your predecessor in office, to secondary schools, with many holding the view that you should not have cancelled the policy in the first place, how do you react to this?

    For us as an administration, we have professed our commitment to using science, logic, and data to solve problems and we have remained true to that profession. At the time that we dissolved the SGBs, it was clearly stated that the decision to dissolve the SGBs was taken to reposition them.

    Late in January, when we inaugurated the members of the Oyo State Schools Governing Boards for all the 643 secondary schools, I also heard and read many things about how our administration should not have dissolved the boards and all that. The simple take is; if a policy is introduced by a previous administration and it has challenges or bottlenecks, do you continue to implement it because you are afraid of the backlash or criticisms from people or you retool it to serve the purpose of the state? For us in Oyo State, we have never been afraid to take the bold decisions and that, I think, is why we have been getting all these positive results. I am happy to inform you that all policies we have instituted to improve access to quality education have been yielding great dividends.

    You will recall that at the inception of this administration in 2019, we expressed our desire to improve the quality of education available in the state and to make it easily accessible to all, irrespective of social background. Today, there is an enrolment explosion in our public schools and there are improved learning outcomes, as confidence has been restored in public education.

    So, after a carefully-thought-out process, we have decided to reintroduce the SGBs to reinforce the benefits of our reform policies, because we know that there is the need to ensure that the management of our public schools is sufficiently conditioned to administer the delivery of even more accessible quality education for the development of the state.

    What we did with the reintroduction of the policy was to put in place a broad-based participatory management structure for our secondary schools, not only as a means of attracting alternative funding sources for education in the state but also as a means of ensuring a more prudent and transparent utilisation of available resources for maximum impact.

    So, the institution of the SGB is our quest to further the achievements already recorded by this Administration in the education sector.

    A major point of that keeps coming up about Oyo State is about how you have been able to get resources and manage them to achieve so much within a short while?

    There is no magic. What we have simply done was to preside over a most focused, prudent, and responsible management of available resources for the maximum benefits to our people. We ensured that underpinning every step we have taken has been a desire to deliver quality dividends with the available resources and if you look around the state, you will see enough evidence of this with regards to the provision of infrastructural facilities and policies, across all sectors, which are designed to last. Just as Education and Health, for instances, have benefited from our pragmatic approach so also has Sports and other sectors.

    Now our schools are adequately staffed with contented teachers who are remunerated as and when due every month without fail, access to medical care in our hospitals continue to improve and everyone is aware of the new status of Adamasingba Sporting Complex as a sporting monument befitting the status of Oyo State as the Pacesetter. Only recently, I was in the stadium to watch a match that was played under the floodlights and apart from that Stadium, we are embarking on an aggressive sport development across the state, with six mini stadia being constructed in different locations across the five zones of the state.

    The secret of our success as an administration is that we did not come into government without a plan. As you may be aware, when we were going round the state to canvass votes, we had consultations with different segments of the society and we came up with a policy document known as the Oyo State Roadmap for Accelerated Development, 2019-2023. So, we knew what we wanted to accomplish. I am happy that you are all seeing a modern Oyo State develop before your very eyes; an Oyo State where no zone is left behind in our development plan; an Oyo State that we can all be proud of.

    Look at what we have been able to do in Oke-Ogun, for instance, we have successfully linked the zone, which is the food basket and agricultural arbiter for the state, to the state capital and other city centres. Roads that can be useful for transporting agricultural products from the zone to Oyo and Ibadan and from there to the Port for export are being attended to.

    We have also established the Oyo State Agribusiness Development Agency (OYSADA) in Saki Township and what we did there was simply to return the Oyo State Agricultural Development Programme, which was moved from Oke-Ogun. So, linking Oke-Ogun up to the rest of the zones means we can easily move our clothing for export either by air through our airport or by sea through the dry port at Moniya when it is completed. Since we fixed the Moniya-Iseyin road, we have been able to cut the travel time from Saki to Ibadan to almost two and a half hours as against the former five hours.

    But what is informing this drive to extend development to the hinterlands as against the usual tradition of government concentrating attention on the state capital?

    As I said earlier, we decided to stem the tides of rural-urban migration and we also realised that we have to take development beyond the state capital, as we cannot afford to continue in the trajectory where one part of the state is generating the revenues that all the other parts of the state benefit from. If we continue in that trajectory, it will only create another Nigerian situation in Oyo State. So, it is time to diversify, and a proper good linkage is the first step in the diversification process.

    Also, when we say we are engineering a new Oyo State, this is exactly what we mean. Indeed, we are building and designing a new Oyo State and the foundation of the design is a proper road network. This is why we did not ignore viable projects started by our predecessor. As

    I have said in the past, we will finish all uncompleted projects, which are strategic to the development of our dear state.

    As I said earlier, we had a plan before coming into government and we have continued to stick to that plan, to make Oyo State the proof that good governance is possible in Nigeria. We have embarked on an infrastructural revolution across the state; that will make people say, once again, that they are proud of our state.

    Penultimate Friday, you presented the staff of office to the 42nd Olubadan of Ibadanland, finally putting an end to the crisis that engulfed the Olubadan Chieftaincy System since around 2017. How were you able to settle the crisis amicably?

    From the outset, I realised and said it that the crisis rocking the Ibadan Traditional System was needless and that it shouldn’t have arisen if political office holders in the past had allowed themselves to be guided by the reality that political whims should not be introduced to the Olubadan Chieftaincy System.

    That said, we thank God that we have put that challenge behind us with the coronation of His Imperial Majesty, Oba (Dr) Mohood Olalekan Ishola Balogun, Alli Okunmade II, as the 42nd Olubadan of Ibadanland.

    As I said at the event, the coronation of Kabiyesi was a victory for the sons and daughters of Ibadanland and the restoration of our traditional systems, which is one of the best succession lines in Yoruba history. I have always taken a stand for the integrity of this system, and I am especially delighted that the sanctity of the century-old dynasty has been restored.

    I am equally delighted, and I made this clear at the event, that Kabiyesi, having seen the challenges that political office holders could pose to the chieftaincy system, when they decide to take decisions based on their whims and caprice, is in a great position to defend the traditions of our people and ensure that we do not have this kind of crisis again.

    I am sure everyone must have learnt a lesson or two in the scenario created by the needless chieftaincy review, which we have, of course, revoked. But the custodians of our culture, in this case the Olubadan and his chiefs, must always take a stand against politicians tinkering with age-old traditional systems. They must work to ensure that the laws having to do with the ascension to the throne of Olubadan remain sacrosanct and if there are to be any amendments, they should be self-conceived.

    The Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) has released its schedules that would lead to the emergence of candidates for the 2023 election, when do we expect you to launch your re-election campaign?

    Well, you would recall that I have always told anyone that asked me about 2023 that whatever will happen is in the hands of God. In 2019, when I was seeking the office, I said it everywhere that let God’s will be done. I will not deviate from handling myself and the affairs of the state to God.

    During the last campaign, part of the agreement we reached was to run this government together and I am happy that we are all running it together. Also, I can remember that I told everybody that worked for my emergence as governor that I may not be able to satisfy them at a go, but I will keep trying my best and doing the needful wherever we need to, as the administration progresses.

    As party members and politicians, we will always follow the processes and guidelines released by our party, and so, you will hear from me in line with the released guidelines.

    You hosted the extended South-West Zonal Caucus of the PDP last week, where you emphasised the need for unity in the zone. At a period that the discourse on zoning is rampant, what direction is the South-West zone taking?

    As you said earlier, the time-table is out and candidates for various positions will emerge within the next eight to nine weeks. So, I have posed the question to the leaders of the PDP in South-West zone, what exactly are we looking for?

    I had to emphasise the need for us to unite, put aside our individual differences because we have been through this path before, where we allowed individual differences to rob our zone and eventually we lost the Presidency, because as you know, if the South-West and Yorubaland is not peaceful, things would not also be settled nationally. As a result of our disunity in the past, we were left out in the scheme of things.

    When the founding fathers of the PDP came together, they spoke about fairness, equity, justice and they decided that the six major positions nationally must be shared among the six geopolitical zones of Nigeria. That has always been the case until 2011. But because of the in-fighting, disunity, South-West did not have a single position out of the six national positions: President, Vice-President, Senate President, Speaker of the House of Representatives, Secretary to the Government of the Federation and National Chairman of the PDP. The South-West lost out completely and we don’t want to walk through that path again. It has happened to us before and we don’t want it to happen again and we know that the only way it won’t happen again is for us to unite and de-emphasise whatever issues we have with ourselves individually.

    So, you asked which direction we want to go. It is clear- we want to unite and collectively ask for what is due to the South-West Zone.

  • IFEOMA MONYE: Women don’t need bills, we have the power

    IFEOMA MONYE: Women don’t need bills, we have the power

    Ifeoma Monye is co-founder of Ciuci Consulting, a strategist, management consultant, author of the Pretty Balancing Act, 65th President of the International Women Society (IWS) and daughter of Senator Mike Ajegbo. In this interview with Yetunde Oladeinde, she opens up on her passion, why she studied Economics and politics, inspiration from her mother, mentorship from Funke Osibodu and more.

    WHAT drives the things that you do?

    I am a strategist and management counsultant. I am a partner at Ciuci consulting, a management consulting firm. I moved back to Nigeria 20 years ago. I studied Economics and politics in the UK.I moved back to Nigeria thinking I would do the same thing, wanted to work with the United Nations, come up with policies that affect businesses. But, I came back and realized that it is slightly different here. So, I went into management consulting, worked in a management consulting firm. I also worked at Vigeo with Mrs. Funke Osibodu, where I learnt tremendously from her. And then I moved over to MINAJ where I was the head of strategy and for the Conglomerate, which was involved in Media, Real estate, printing and others. From there, I moved in 2011 to Ciuci Consulting where I am. My background has been in strategy, Management consulting and operations management.

    You studied Economics and politics and you are into strategy, how can the women in Nigeria make a difference?

    I start with the home. Women are respected in the homes, how are their husbands, brothers, sons treating the women. If they have respect for their wives, mothers and daughters, that translates in every other sphere. It is important that we start having these conversations in our families, homes. I have been in many conversations and men talk to me anyhow. Of course, if you can talk to me like that it means that you do not have respect for your wives. So, we have to have those conversations in our families and our homes, get the men on our sides, not to be threatened. Not necessarily to take over from them because they have a role to play. Women also have a part to play and until we play our part, the economy would not move forward.

    Let’s talk about the female Bills rejected by the Assembly recently. What should government do?

    Again, it comes back to us having these conversations and them seeing our importance. It is important that we keep emphasizing our importance and show it in different ways, whether it is in the conversation, rallies or protest. At the same time, it doesn’t stop us from putting women in power. We need to realise that whether they rejected the bills or not, we can still put as many women as we want into this positions. The power lies with us.

    Tell us about your leadership style?

    When I come in, I try to survey and see how things are being done first. I want to understand why people are doing the things that they are doing and the way they have gone about it. I have been here for a while and I try to understand why this President did this, why did somebody else change it. So, I like to understand the environment that I am in and try to understand the people before I come in. I am also someone who is a stickler for excellence. I don’t like excuses. When I understand issues, explain it to you, and then I am looking out to see if there is a problem, we can work it out together. Once we have all come up with an agreement, that this is the way to go, then we go. I like to be professional, I like people to bring in their best and I like excellence in the thought process.

    What does it feel like being the 65th President of IWS?

    It is an honour. I feel great gratitude. Something that I don’t take for granted and I don’t take lightly. I am stepping into the shoes of powerful women who came before me. So, I see it as an honour.

    How did you get into the organisation?

    I joined IWS 20 years ago. My mother, Mrs. Julie Ajegbo was a member then. I just moved back to Nigeria and I used to see her go for meetings and I wanted to know more. And when I found out that it was about helping the less privileged, wanted to know more and I attended meetings. From there, I got involved.

    Tell us about your mum, what type of woman was she?

    My mum is a lawyer by training. I grew up with my mum working with women and she is a kind hearted person. She is someone that gives without thinking and growing up I used to actually get upset. But now, I realise it. She is quiet, unassuming and she just likes to help people. Of course, there are some women that are powerful but they do not necessarily have to speak and that is how I would describe my mum. She is a rock for the family and also an inspiration and role model for me. She just likes to help people, she came on board on the exco and she was first the Legal adviser and also the treasurer.

    What are some of the things that you share in common with your mum?

    I realise that I also have a soft spot for helping people. I don’t like seeing people upset. I am also much organised, she is and I got that from her. She still has papers from maybe 30 years ago. Anything that is being planned, she takes her time and does it well. I also got that skill from her as well. She is a planner and organizer.

    How has being in IWS impacted on your life personally? What are some of the lesson learnt?

    I met with women from all walks of life; I have gotten a family, aunties, sisters and more. It’s a family for me, I have learnt from them, the different things that they have done, why they did it, how they did it.

    Tell us some of the programs that you have for your tenure?

    We have 6 projects; we have a day Nursery which was started in 1957 in Yaba for the market women to ensure that their children have the right foundation. We still have that and it is still going on in Yaba. We have the skills acquisition center in Lekki where we teach ladies catering and events planning, they do sewing, fashion and designing.

    We have adult education; IT and we also have a home for abandoned children in Ijebu Ode and our scholarship program. We also0 have our widows Trust Fund and those are the six programs. For my tenure, what I would be focusing on are three main things which are STEM, CHESS and Mentorship.

    The game chess is very important and people don’t realize the skill set that you have. So, chess is almost a strategy, and you are tensed up ahead of your opponent. You are thinking of what they are going to do and their next steps. So, these are lifelong skills that they are going to use in different areas of their life. So that the cognitive skills that we are teaching this children and they are able to adapt in other areas of their lives.

    Like I mentioned earlier , mentorship, not just to give them the obligation but to understand the issues they have , how are they thinking , how do you show them that women also go through certain issues and this is the way they would be able to overcome it. So, these are my three main flagship programs for the year.

    We can’t do it alone, we are partnering with organizations like Chess to slums. They are the ones helping us with programs; they are already in Oshodi, Makoko and other places. Spreading to other states has to do with the resources available. We have been to IDP camps in the North but it is important to have people on ground to drive the programs.

    There is a study that the girl child wired differently?

    I agree that it is a societal thing. But when you look at it, you would see that a girl is naturally as curious as the boy. Again, it is how the society has shaped the mind of this girl. I have two daughters and I am bringing them up, the way my father brought me up, to be anything they want to be. There are no limits. Growing up, I never thought I am a boy or I am a girl. I was given all the opportunities; I was able to expand my mind and to see things beyond where they were. I am hoping that a girl can be what she wants to be. It is not for society or even her family to decide for her. What are her natural talents, how do we ensure that she is able to try different things to see what she is good at. That is what we are trying to do through mentorship.

    Tell us about your father and how he has inspired you?

    My father is Senator Mike Ajegbo. I am the first child and I never for one day felt that I should have been a boy. We have conversations and when there is decision to be made, he would ask for my opinion. So, I grew up not knowing that a girl should be treated in a certain way. I got the best education, he sent me to different places and I do have a brother, he I the last. When he came nothing changed, and everything still went through me. That is different from a lot of Nigerian homes and I appreciate that and till today, he still lets me be who I want to be.

    Are you interested in politics someday?

    No, I don’t think it’s for me. My husband has gone into politics. But, I think we all have a part to play. It is also important that we hold our political office holders accountable, that they do what they say they would do.

    Let’s talk about the theme for this year’s international Women’s Day.  What does it mean to you?

    Breaking the Bias, means what is it that we are doing, that we do not consider a woman to be part of. Where are women being excluded from and how do we ensure that women come into that conversation.

    What we are doing at IWS is showing that we have more Girls equipped with STEM. We are therefore spending money and time, giving girls scholarships to ensure that they have the skills to be able to go into science and technology.  We need more Girls and women in there.

  • FUNKE BUCKNOR OBRUTHE: I don’t regret studying Law

    FUNKE BUCKNOR OBRUTHE: I don’t regret studying Law

    Funke Bucknor Obruthe is the CEO of Zapphaire events. In this interview with Yetunde Oladeinde, she opens up on her experience working in events planning sector for 20 years, achievements, initial challenges and why she abandoned Law.

    HOW has the industry treated you?

    The industry has been very good to me.  I have been surrounded by a lot of colleagues in the industry and we all want to grow together.  A lot of my colleagues have shown me new ways of doing things and taken me to trainings. I have also recommended them for trainings. So, I would say that the industry has treated me well.

    What keeps you going?

    What has kept me going is that I love what I do and I am very passionate about it.  I love to see people excel, I love to see people do well and love to create memories for my clients.  So, that is one passion.  Secondly, is the impact that it brings, where you see people being happy at events, not just one person but many. Thirdly, the people that also worked with me, that have learnt and have actually had been able to impact with knowledge and especially when one wants to give up.

    Of course, you want to give up sometimes, but this are the things that motivate me to want to go on. Also, there is a lot of hard work that goes into this, lots of determination, a lot of sacrifice,  delayed gratification , a lot of just wanting to see the industry do better. So, these are some of the things that keeps pushing me.

    What happened during COVID-19 lockdown period?

    COVID was tough for most of us in the events industry.  We all had to re- invented ourselves; we all had to do things differently.  We all had to look inwards and see what we could do even in our businesses that could transcend the COVID period.  Of course, most of us moved into the virtual space, started doing intimate events and adopted new ways of doing things. That was what we did and we were able to survive.

    You must have had people that mentored you, tell us about them?

    Mentoring is good. I always tell people that it is very important to have people that you look up to. They may not even be in your space but people that can advise you in business,  structures, ways of running things or people that can scold you when you are doing the wrong thing.  Also, they can be people that have gone ahead and you have seen them being successful. I have different mentors for different things.  This is because you cannot have everything in one person.  Some can be a mentor for you family wise, for your business or someone can mentor you on how to grow your network.  Another mentor can show you how she treats her employees.  So, I have different mentors and I have been able to learn from them in different ways.

    When you are not decorating and handling events, what are the other things that occupy your time?

    I love speaking.  I love hanging out with family and friends.  I  love dancing and just love having fun.

    You studied Law before going into events. In what ways has this helped with the things that you are doing now?

    I would say Law is helping me in terms of documentation. Law is about critical thinking as well and so, I learnt to analyses things a lot. So, Law has really helped me and I don’t regret studying Law.

    What do you miss about your late father, Segun Bucknor?

    Oh my Dad! I miss just the gentle conversations and the just. My dad was a gentle, very simple and content man. So, I miss that. I miss being able to hear from him. My dad knew everythi ng about the world, he was so knowledgeable.  So, I miss my dad having conversations with me and just jesting about things, history.  If I asked my dad about any topic, he always had an answer. I really missed that about him.

    What do you miss most of your late sister, Tosyn?

    My father was the knowledge part while my sister was the content guru. She was my confidant and I missed that about her. Not being able to tell her all the new things that is happening  around me,  just the advice that she would  have given me or the way she would have pushed me to do more things is something that I miss. So, I also miss a lot of things about her.

    How can you constantly stay relevant in the sector?

    Interestingly, I get this topic a lot and I always wonder to myself why. And sometimes, when I look inwards, I know why. I would say that you must open your mind because it all begins from the mind. If your mind isn’t ready to be bigger, if your mind isn’t ready to absorb, then you cannot go far. You have to be ready for a mind shift. There has to be a mind set of wanting more, than you have right now.

    There has to be that mindset of this is not what I want to be but there is nothing wrong with starting from where you are, to get to where you want to be. I always like to share my story for someone that is in the industry and is just trying to break boundaries. There is nothing that is not possible. Once you put in the work, all that is required, you can become what you want to be. This is something I have done, seen in the lives of people. It is a general principle that would set the tone for everything that is happening today.

    I started 20 years ago in the event industry with just a dream and an idea. I studied l Law and I thought maybe, I would be a lawyer but even the Law I knew I would never practice. Along the line, I stumbled on planning because I just enjoyed trying to help people. Along, the line my friends told me, that you need to start charging for it. I remember that when we started at that time, there were not many people doing events. Events, was not even something that people wanted to reckon with because they felt it was for those who didn’t know what they wanted, people who were dropouts and there was stigma. People didn’t even understand it. But along the way, value was being added. So for relevance, you must constantly add value. There must be value that you bring to the table every single time. You cannot say that I will not give value here but I will give value there. And value means different things to different people. You cannot be in a place and not make it different, you must do something different. The question here is what is different about you, what is unique about you.

    What sets you apart to stay relevant in the events industry? Why are you doing what you are doing? Are you doing it because everyone is making money?

    It is okay, we all want to make money but there must be a bigger reason and a bigger why for what you are doing. And when you understand the bigger reason and the bigger why, it helps you to identify why you are different. We are different and there are some basic principles that we all know and learn but there is a particular difference that each person ads and we are going to appeal to different kinds of clients. It does not mean that you are not better than the next person. The truth is that everyone wants to plan events for the richest man in Africa but can he use everybody. So, it is about positioning and so how are you constantly rebranding and positioning yourself. You need to be sometimes at the right place, at the right time.

  • I drew a picture of my orphanage at age 10 – Tobore Anne Emorhokpor

    I drew a picture of my orphanage at age 10 – Tobore Anne Emorhokpor

    Tobore Anne Emorhokpor is a Pharmacist, founder of Nigerian Child Protection Trust and the convener of the End Child Sexual Group. In this encounter with Yetunde Oladeinde, she takes you into her world, why she is passionate about getting justice for the oppressed.

    What has been your experience with women and children?

    It has been a very humbling experience. My journey has been an emotional rollercoaster – The good, The Bad and The Ugly.  One thing is I know for sure is that people just want to be loved and their voices heard. We all need to be sympathetic towards people around us, especially the less privileged.  It breaks my heart when I hear about adults both men and women who maltreat children in their care. We all need to do better.

    What are some of the memorable moments in the sector?

    Feeding families during the Pandemic (COVID-19) was awesome. Also, paying the bill for women who have had caesarean section surgeries, and having the opportunity to see their beautiful babies in the end. All the lives we have saved by paying for medicals and surgeries is also a great source of inspiration for me. In addition, helping families to keep a roof over their heads by paying for their rent as well as moving homeless families from the streets into secure accommodation by paying their rent. This has made we shed a tear or two (of joy) as I have been privileged to see the joy on their faces. As we all know it is impossible to change the world, according to Michael Jackson’s song – Man in the mirror – “I’m starting with the man in the mirror, I’m asking him to change his ways, and no message could have been any clearer, if you wanna make the world a better place, take a look at yourself and then make a change”. I have not changed the whole world, as it is impossible to do so, but I have made a big impact in my sphere of contact.

    What dreams did you have while growing up?

    I have always loved children and from the age of 10, I remember drawing my orphanage. I drew what it would look like and hid it in my wardrobe. I knew that whatever I would eventually do, children were going to be at the core of it.

    Tell us about the high points working in the sector and how this has influenced your personality today?

    Having a positive impact on people around me, being the voice of the voiceless, the muted members of society, Women and children, has influenced me  greatly.

    What are some of the lessons learnt working on children and young people?

    We need to educate our children. A lot of parents and guardians don’t teach them about their body parts and about sex and they end up being lied to and abused by family members and outsiders. Parents should not be embarrassed to talk about these things. They should also teach the appropriate information at every age. It’s not a one-off conversation. It should be ongoing and the line of communication should not be broken. Our children are being exposed to more than they should experience at their age. Please be vigilant, keep an eye on what your children are doing on their devices and when they are with their friends.

    A lot of young people are affected by drug addiction.  How can the trend be reduced?

    Parents need to pay more attention to their children, as the saying goes – ‘charity begins at home but should not end there’. Therefore the Government needs to do more to occupy the minds of the younger generation. They need jobs and we need quality education for all.

    Tell us about the thing that drives you?

    I want to live in a safe and happy world. I also want that for my children. Oppression against women and children drives me to do the things I do. Whenever I am tired and feel enough is enough, I remember the children and just continue.

    What are some of the changes that you would like to see in the health sector?

    I would like to see free medical care for everyone. I have had women die because they were unable to pay for an injection or could not leave a deposit for medical treatment. A lady and her 1 year old who were victims of a gas explosion were left in hospital without any care for 3 days while the family tried to find the deposit of 100k naira. I wish as a country we could do better for our citizens.

    Did you have mentors at the beginning of your career? What has been their impact?

    There have been a lot of people I have looked up to and drawn inspiration from. It’s a long list that includes Mrs Josephine Effah-Chukwuma, Betty Abah, Priscilla Usiobaifo, Defunke Adewunmi, Olabisi Ajai, Esther Ijewere, Oluwatoyin Ndidi Ojo, Jennifer Owolabi, Etienette Ajoluje. Just watching how they change humanity is inspiring and they support me with help and advice when needed.

    What advice do you have for young people about the current challenges in the economy?

    Try to think outside the box. If there are no jobs, learn a skill and/or start a trade. Be honest, stay focused and be open to new ideas. My prayer is that my life always be kind to you.

    What are some of the other things that occupy your time?

    I have a family with 3 young children and I also have a full-time job as a Workforce Planning Lead.  I am also the Lead Coordinator for the Young Women Wing Urhobo Progress Union UK. There are a lot of things keeping me busy.

    Who or what do you consider as the greatest influence in your life?

    My mum has been my greatest influencer. I learnt tenacity and hard work from her. She never quits. Never gives up. She is still going strong as a Wife, Mother and Grand-Mother. She always moved from one business to the other, grabbing opportunities, constant studying to unsure she gave us what we needed, which I am very grateful for.  This has had a knock-on effect on me, I am always doing one course or the other to become a better version of myself. I also do not give up easily.

    Let’s compare when you started and now?

    I started my educational journey at Nigerian Navy Secondary School Ojo. After secondary education I relocated to the United Kingdom for my A levels.

    I later attended Cardiff University as well as obtained a Master’s degree in Pharmacy.

    Driven by personal development and self-improvement, I obtained additional qualifications like the CIPD level 5 course in Human Resources. In addition, I also did a virtual Leadership Principles Course at Harvard Business School.

    Determined to change the world, I emerged as a voice armed with a passion for getting justice for the oppressed. In doing all that I do, I usually love to go beyond people’s expectations and delight them.

    Therefore my inspirational leadership, empathy and benevolence make it easy for women and children to have a connection with me.

    I am a woman driven by love, whose vision is that of a world where children are well taken care of. My desire is to have a Nigeria where women are empowered to look after themselves and their children.

    I also look forward to a country where children have good food and quality education. I detest children being used and abused for child labour and want a great reduction in sexual abuse and rape of women and minors.

    Some of the awards and recognitions inspire me to do more. I am the recipient of the Right Livelihood Award for outstanding role in reducing hunger, inequality and improving sustain ability. I also clinched the Drum Majors for Peace award for my contributions to women and child development.