Category: Sunday Interview

  • NIKKI LAOYE SEEKS DONATIONS FOR WORLD REFUGEE DAY Via The Angel Relief Fund by Nikki Laoye, as we provide more food, relief materials, clothing and drugs to these families and also provide education for the children as well,” she wrote. Nikki Laoye is the celebrity voice for Internally Displaced Persons/Refugees – NCFRMI Southwest, Nigeria. NCFRMI is a Federal Government Establishment – stands for National Commission for Refugees, Migrants and Internally Displaced Persons.

    NIKKI LAOYE SEEKS DONATIONS FOR WORLD REFUGEE DAY Via The Angel Relief Fund by Nikki Laoye, as we provide more food, relief materials, clothing and drugs to these families and also provide education for the children as well,” she wrote. Nikki Laoye is the celebrity voice for Internally Displaced Persons/Refugees – NCFRMI Southwest, Nigeria. NCFRMI is a Federal Government Establishment – stands for National Commission for Refugees, Migrants and Internally Displaced Persons.

    GOSPEL artiste and humanitarian, Nikki Laoye who has over the years used her foundation to cater for the internally displaced persons, is once again calling on meaningful Nigerians to help donate items for the World Refugee Day holding on Monday, June 20th.

    “Calling on my kind hearted friends and family once again…donations needed; clothes, shoes, toys, food and monetary donations. June 20th is #WorldRefugeeDay – a day set aside to celebrate the strength and survival of Refugees and Internally Displaced Persons across the world.

    “We daily support and stand by our brothers and sisters from Northern Nigeria who have endured hardship and great loss over the past Via The Angel Relief Fund by Nikki Laoye, as we provide more food, relief materials, clothing and drugs to these families and also provide education for the children as well,” she wrote.

    Nikki Laoye is the celebrity voice for Internally Displaced Persons/Refugees – NCFRMI Southwest, Nigeria. NCFRMI is a Federal Government Establishment – stands for National Commission for Refugees, Migrants and Internally Displaced Persons.

  • NEWTON ADUAKA I got 28  awards  for Ezra

    NEWTON ADUAKA I got 28 awards for Ezra

    He set out to Europe in 1985 to accomplish a dream.  It was the dream of becoming an international film-maker.  Years after, Newton Aduaka has done about four internationally-acclaimed films, with one of them, Ezra, fetching him over twenty-eight awards.  Having been recognised world-wide, including the United Nations Organisation, Aduaka returns home to Nigeria, courtesy of the German Cultural Centre (Goethe) to showcase his works.  He told Edozie Udeze how the journey began, the high and low moments and lots more.

    CAN we share your experiences as a Nigerian film-maker in England? At the moment, I live in Paris, France.  I left England fifteen years ago.  But England was where I went to when I left Nigeria in 1985.  So you’d ask, what are my experiences now in Europe?  But you should know, you’ll have a lot of things to share when you’ve lived in a place for a long time.  I lived in Lagos for a while before I left.  Soon after the civil war in 1970, my parents came over to Lagos from Abagana, my home town in Anambra State.  For me, the experience of being a film-maker, Nigerian film-maker based in Europe, has been a journey of beautiful highs, unique moments, moments of works, achievements to be where I am today.  There have been moments to tell stories, stories you have been so used to; your own stories; stories of my people told from my own sensibilities.  Because of my own culture, my own journey which has been influenced by what I’ve met abroad, I have a lot to share.  It has been this story of where I come from and the influence.  Yes, it has been good.

    Would you then say you’ve been accepted in Europe?

    Yes, I am established in Europe.  Yes I am.  I’ve been well accepted.  I have my space; I have my niche.  I have an audience in France, I have my own audience and followers in the U.K.  Even across Europe, I have been accepted because I have travelled a lot both for researches and for film festivals where I have been able to screen my films.  I have travelled to the US too.  But now it is my opportunity to be in Nigeria to showcase my films.  Like I said, life is a journey.  Now, it takes a German, in collaboration with Goethe, to bring me to Nigeria, to bring me home to show my works to my people.  That is the level of acceptance we are talking about.  The German is a sensible and sensitive man.  He said hey, man how come no one knows so much about your works here in Nigeria?  He then invited me home.  But it is very touching and I think it goes to show the level of love they have for good works; for quality films.  It is good that this show is going on here in this building (Nigerian Film Corporation, Ikoyi, Lagos).  This is an ideal place to show films.  The cinema hall is appropriate.  I only hope they will allow Lagos State Film Society to renovate it for use.  This is an ideal cinema hall with proper acoustics.  It is incredible; it is cozy.  When it is renovated, I hope they will give it out for proper use to showcase cinema and encourage people to come watch films here.  It is for films that are commercial but also have values for the people, for the whole society.

    Let’s go to Ezra.  In it, you explored the life of a Sierra Leonean child soldier.  How did you get to that?

    Ezra is a film that struck me at a point to do.  It was very strange.  I was about to adapt Helon Habila’s Waiting for an Angel into a film.  This was in 2004/2005.  One day, two weeks, a whole year, I was trying to raise the money to do it.  I came to Lagos to meet a lot of people who were interested.  I also went to Europe to look for sponsors, to look for money to do it.  In Europe, I got half a million Euro but the budget was for 1.6 million Euro.  And so it was not enough.  I got home to see what to do.  I couldn’t raise it.  Suddenly, I got in touch with a French who said ‘why don’t you do a film for us?’  I said oh, yes, this is like a gift to me.  So, he said to me, ‘do you have an idea what to do?”  At that time, there was a lot of talk about child soldiers in Liberia, Sierra Leone, Congo, Angola, Sudan, Somalia and so on.  I therefore decided it was a topic to pursue.  For me, it struck.  I was born in 1966 and I experienced the Nigerian civil war a bit.  Then I said I’d do a film on war, but from the eye of a child  a child soldier.  Therefore I wanted to enter the world of a child soldier and show the complexities of it all.  For me, it is phenomenal.  It was to show their lives, their love, their background.  It was to show their lost youthful years and how they have to carry on this trauma for the rest of their lives.  It is the story of how they fought the war, what they did to kill people; how the indoctrination began in the first place. I proposed it to him and he said oh yes, go on with it.   I went to Sierra Leone to do the research for it.  I talked to all kinds of people, psychiatrists, nurses, doctors, members of the diplomatic corps, child soldiers themselves.  In fact, I spoke to over 150 of them.  I had interviews with so many people to find the essence of this story I am about to tell.  So when I came back I had plenty of stories to tell.  I wrote the story based on a lot of information to rely on.  Then we went to shoot the film in Rwanda.

    Why did you choose Rwanda to shoot the film?

    We went there because of their war experience.  We went there because of the story of the genocide.  The scenes were good and they have a lot to showcase about conflicts and wars.  Rwanda had just finished their own conflict and was ready to open up to the world.  They had the infrastructure there to shoot film.  So Rwanda was chosen based on that.

    In One Man’s Show, what were you trying to teach humanity?

    One Man’s Show was me trying to come back to show the other side of life.  In Rage and Ezra, I talked to the young people.  You see, I turned 50 this year.  For me, therefore, it is to show the man in his middle age.  A kind of retrospective show, looking back to take stock.

    Now talking about sacrifice, how much of it does your family make each time you are away from home?

    Luckily, for me, my partner comes from a home where her parents are artists.  She understands my work.  She was born into it.  So, it is easy for her to know and understand what I do.  She is used to it.  So, when I am away on duty she tries to adapt.  It is for me then to take responsibility.  When I am not working, I am at home.  My wife is French.

    How much inspiration do you get from your wife to build your ideas?

    Oh, we talk a lot.  She is like my first critic.  Once my script is done, she is the first to read it.  She digests it and tells me what it is; how it is.  She is the first to see what the film will be like and so on.  She is there for me, always.

    What of your children?  Does anyone of them show interest in film making?

    Yes, my second son is the one who is close to it.  He blows the flute and he is just eleven years.  It is a fifteen century musical instrument.  So, I keep encouraging him.  He is likely going to go into a musical school very soon to take a proper tutorial.  I was also into music when I was at the Methodist High School, Lagos.  We formed a band then but when I turned 18, I felt I wasn’t really going to be a musician.  I love music but this is the sort of art I have chosen.  But my older child is more into Mathematics.  He is more suited to be creative in the mathematical way.  They are all creative people and you have to be creative in whatever you’ve found yourself.

    You have garnered so many awards.  How has it been like so far?

    Since 1999 the most successful one is Ezra.  It has given me 28 awards all over the world.  With Ezra, it was awards galore and each film festival I attended, I’d always come home with one or two awards.  It is good; it is a part on the back.  It was so thrilling when the United Nations gave me an award because of the way I dealt with the issue of child soldier in Sierra Leone.  Don’t forget that the problem of Sierra Leone also mirrored what happens in other parts of the world.  Rage dealt with the issue of youths trying to find their niche in England.  It was the first underground hip hop film to be shot in England and today it has been so recognised.  And lots more.  The awards are like oh carry on with what you are doing.  It is so encouraging.

  • UNEKU ATAWODI Passionate about shaping  the world with polo

    UNEKU ATAWODI Passionate about shaping the world with polo

    As the first female black professional polo player on the international stage, Uneku Saliu-Atawodi is a global phenomenon. Playing polo, for the native of Benue State, was a passion that started early in life, and today she has risen to become a star in the field as well as an advocate for Equestrian Sports. Last month, she emerged as one of the two Nigerians who made it on the 2016 Forbes, “30 under 30” list. In this interview with Yetunde Oladeinde, the polo queen speaks of her passion.

    WHAT does the acknowledgement from FORBES mean to you? It is an honourable accolade for my unconventional array of skills to be recognised by such a historic business brand.

    What inspired you to go into polo?

    My love for the horses and polo’s ability to let you explore that bond through team work.

    What does it mean to be the only female from Nigeria doing this at the global level?

    It is a positive responsibility to be able to inspire other women to be just as bold regardless of what part of the world they come from. It is important to me to use my voice to inspire strength and the belief that you can do whatever you believe you can. At age 5, I started taking horse-riding lessons and at age 14, started playing polo as a sport, despite protests from family and friends. After saving up to buy my own horse at age 16, I participated in my first tournament. My career in polo began at the Epsom Polo Club in England and I have since played in about 20 different countries.

    I hold an MA International Business with Spanish Degree and also attained a BSc Equine Sports Performance Degree (with Honours).

    My desire is to change the face of polo as an all-male sport for the elite and bring it to the doorstep of the masses. I am also part of the Ride to Shine Initiative, which creates education and sporting exchange opportunities for children.

    Who or what do you consider as the greatest influence in your life?

    My life’s journey and the people who shaped it. I believe in an existentialist shaping of who you become, everyone who you meet along the way and the relationships you have from when you are born to the day you die, influences who you constantly mould into as a person. So, for every experience, good or bad, we must remain thankful for its role in shaping who we become as individuals.

    You are also part of the Clinton Global Initiative. How would you describe the experience?

    The Clinton Global Initiative aims to solve world problems through innovative solutions, their mission strikes a strong cord with my belief in noblesse oblige (nobility obligates you to help those around you). I attended the CGI winter meeting and was inspired by the strong commitments to shaping the future of the world we live in. The belief in their mission strongly resonates through the members you meet.

    I am also a part of the CGI Lead Programme, founded by Chelsea Clinton. It’s a group of inspiring young people passionate about positively shaping the world we live in. I am honoured to be a part of such a great cause.

    What motivated you to start your organisation, Malaik? Who are your targets?

    Malaik is motivated by the lack of access to finance which Small and Medium Enterprises (SME’s) in most parts of Africa face. Sadly, unemployment is an epidemic in sub – Saharan Africa, and yet SMEs being the largest providers of jobs, still face difficulties to scale. It’s a sad irony and that became something that I took interest in. Our organisation therefore aims to channel ‘angel’ investment through the crowd to high impact African SMEs with potential to directly target the UN’s sustainable development goals.

    The orgnisation is also an impact-focused equity crowd investing platform; the first of its kind. Malaik allows accredited investors co-invest in high impact African businesses along with experienced lead investors. Companies listed on the platform would have gone through our four step due diligence process. We usually focus on companies that provide an impact with measurable metrics. To do this well, we make use of IRIS metrics to create measurable goals that entrepreneurs who are successfully funded via the platform can use to report their progress in achieving these goals to their crowd of investors.

    How and why did you start the company?

    Malaik was actually motivated by the struggles I faced trying to access finance for the Beach Polo + bar project. We (my partner and I) internally invested about 70% of the build cost, and wanted to spread risk by taking an SME loan at 29% interest rate! It got me thinking about all the SMEs with brimming potential to help answer some of Africa’s pressing problems that either cannot access a loan, or die out before they even get off the ground at such high interest rates. I had just come off stumbling on a file tracking tech solution, and my sister was heading Uber, so my head was very much in the ‘how can technology answer problems’ space.  I started thinking about the possibilities of buying shares in companies where the crowd pulls together and funds a project, as opposed to just donating money. “Trade not Aid” is Africa’s narrative. And so Malaik was born. The word is from the Hausa, Arabic, and Swahili words for “Angel”, Malachi in the bible also means angel. Our name represents angel investors pulling together to help a company grow, and cuts across most parts of Africa. Our logo represents a young company growing, it is a seedling growing with a halo on top.

    Have you ever been on the verge of quitting, and how did you get out of it?

    All the time. I remember why I am doing it. If you are doing it for reasons you strongly believe in, that will continue to drive you through blood and sweat. I learnt not to quit from being a sports woman. Sports and business have a lot in common. Investing in startup businesses involves risks, including illiquidity, lack of dividends, loss of investment or dilution and it should only be done as part of a diversified portfolio.

     What are some of the other things that occupy your time?

    I enjoy reading. You can travel the world and live so many different lives through the eyes of characters in a book. It’s the best way to live 100 years in a few days.

  • TOKE MAKINWA I’d thought I will  be a dancer

    TOKE MAKINWA I’d thought I will be a dancer

    You are a woman of many parts. Where do you draw your inspiration from?

    God. Prayer has been what has been able to give me balance in this industry.

    When you go on red carpet and all eyes are on you, how do you feel?

    I don’t see every eyes, I just see where I am going. I feel it is humbling that people see a skirt or top on you that they love and want to wear same. I love fashion, I breathe fashion and I eat fashion. If the public see that I am fashionable I would say thank you for that. I’m not the type that shies away from the camera or back down on a challenge and that’s why the Nigerian viewers love me.

    Do you have a stylist who picks out your clothes and accessories for social events?

    I have a couple of stylists actually and I have become friends with a number of Nigerian designers as well. It’s okay to have a stylist but I would advice everyone to have a personal relationship with designers too. I’d have to give it to them, Nigerian designers work really hard but sometimes the stylist who puts clothes together gets more recognition than the designer. I use Tianah’s Place, Lucy Love, Bolaji Animashaun and the designers that over the years I’ve become good friends with- April by Kunbi, I really love her; Phunk Afrique, Moofa.

    It seems you love to always attend events. Why?

    Attending events is part of work as well. I do get paid to attend some events. When you grow a brand and it becomes a solid brand, people will want to associate with that and if they have some products or services that they have that would align with your brand; they invite you to be part of it. Just like people feel like your been at certain events might also add some glamour to it. I see it as work as well. I really don’t go out like that, in terms of having fun or chilling at home. I think I enjoy the fact that it’s a job and I am getting paid for it. I am the life of a party and that hasn’t changed. I love talking, I love to go out to listen to music and have a good time.

    How do you define style?

    Comfort and chic. What is chic to you may be different from mine. But comfort I will say. I like what I feel comfortable in, what makes me feel young, what interprets who I am.

    Share your beauty secrets with us?

    I don’t sleep with my make-up. I exfoliate my skin once in three weeks. No matter how busy you are, try and take a lot of water. I stopped taking frizzy drinks. I have been taking water.

    How and when did you get on to radio?

    In 1999. Cool Fm had just opened and there was this teenage program that showcased the life of teenagers and topics that interest them like sex education, being good at home, being good in school and it was broadcast every saturday morning. It was short lived because my parents didn’t think it was a career then, they didn’t even think it was cool being on radio. I got the job and I didn’t tell anyone at home. My mum was driving in the car one day, and she heard my voice on radio, and that was it. She didn’t even let me resign formally, because she didn’t allow me go back there. I just stopped. Sometimes ,I wonder how I was on the radio for four months without my mum hearing of it. But, one fateful day, she heard and that was the last time, I ever went into the studio of Cool FM. So, how has the journey been?

    It has been a great journey, and many doors have opened. I pray it does not end here.

    Would you say you are fulfilled in your career?

    Absolutely, to think about the gains or what it has to offer. The first thing is you must love what you do. You must see it as something you cannot live without. The fulfillment has to come from you chasing that dream.

    If not a broadcaster, what would you have been?

    I would have been a dancer. I thought I was going to dance for Shina Peters. It was one of my childhood dreams, while growing up. So, when we were in primary school and they asked what you want to be, I would then say a dancer.

    Who influenced you while growing up and what lessons life taught you?

    Growing up was fun-tastic as I like to say .I can remember all that I have been through in life. Moments that changed one’s life and wonderful moments with my family. And the main lesson is that there is no impossibility with God.

    How do you feel being the ambassador of Payporte.com?

    It feels really good. I shot the TVC commercial last year before the brand ambassador thing came up. I usually like to work with new brands. If it is a big brand that is already known, one may not know what one is cut out to do. After I shot the TVC, I went online to shop on Payporte.com because that was the first time I will be hearing about it.  I bought a skirt and a perfume which was delivered. Many people have reached out to me after the TVC on Twitter. So for me the relationship started when I shot the commercial. A lot of brands shot TVC with someone and they get another person for brand ambassador.  I like the fact that people saw me as the link between the customers and the brand, that does not necessarily needs to be in the face of the public.

    What are your roles as the brand ambassador?

    We have to drive awareness for the brand. Like an ear on the ground if anybody has any problem. Toke is not just paid to represent the brand. Toke is interested in the brand. We are to show how people can have a lasting shopping experience in the comfort of their home.

    Share with us the other side of your life?

    I love my own company most times. People think I’m very loud and always out there. But on some days I can be very into myself. I am very open to adoption. I find it very weird when people talk about having kids and they say, your kids must be your kids and I think it’s such a selfish way to live because there are a thousand children out there who could do with some shelter. Even when I have my own kids, I’ll still adopt.

  • FUNKE MOORE I waited 32 years to get  to where I am today

    FUNKE MOORE I waited 32 years to get to where I am today

    Funke Moore is one of the finest faces in the Nigerian media industry with vast experience in radio and television. Her hard work and diligence in the industry was crowned last year when she was appointed general manager of Radio Lagos/Eko FM by Mr Akinwumi Ambode, the governor of Lagos State. In this interview with Daniel Adeleye, she speaks on her achievements, challenges, her dreams for the organization, issues affecting women and girl-child in Nigeria, amongst others.

    WOMEN substantially outnumber men in journalism schools and enroll in greater number, but they tend not to rise up the ranks as fast as men do; what do you think is responsible for this?

    In African culture, we see male children superior to the female children. Even mothers, at times pay much attention to our male children than female. For you to make impression as a woman in today’s world, not only in the world of journalism, you have to work very hard. For a woman to get there, she needs to equip herself with quality education even more than men because it’s more easier for a man to pick up his life even with little education that he has.

    Women have many forces to battle against. As a woman, you have to do much in bringing up your children which in most cases, some men don’t really get involve with. But as a woman you can’t run away from that and it counts against you in your place of work. When my children were younger, somehow I managed not to neglect them too much and faced my job.

    When it was time for them to go to secondary school, I sent them to boarding school so that I could pay more attention to my job. In journalism, nobody looks at you that you are a woman, although they don’t give the same chance as they would give the men. They want you to work weekends, nights and do everything a man does. When it’s time for compensation, they remember that you’re a woman. I think the employers of labour should realize that women play very vital roles in the society.

    Raising children in more civilized societies are being compensated. They make it easier for women to have children. They give you time, they allow you to go on maternity leave which will not in any way affect your development. As a woman, I am not going to sacrifice my gender on the altar of professionalism. And that is how most women think. Men have a way of compensating themselves. If you’re a woman calling your superior at work, they would read meaning to it  and say that you’re looking for something else. Ours is a society where women are being treated with suspicion. Even when you’re only trying to be friendly, they will read meaning to it.

    Despite modernity, campaigns and liberation laws against women oppression in Nigeria, challenges like rape, gender-base violence and marginalization continue to be on daily increase; what do you think is the way forward?

    The way forward is for women to be empowered, to know what their rights are and stand for those rights. Education as I pointed earlier is the key. Not every woman knows that their husband should not  raise a finger against them. They think it’s the right of a man to do so as a head of the family because the religious books say you must succumb to your husband. You’re not his child but a partner. A man is the head of family, no doubt about that and as a woman you have to accord him that respect; and he too should see and treat you as his partner. But it’s quite unfortunate that most of the women don’t know this. You have your right as a woman, nobody should raise a finger against you or force you to have canal knowledge. It’s violation that we have to rise against.

    Tell us about your passion for broadcasting. How did it begin and what were the motivations for you?

    I never did anything else all through my life. Over the past three decades I have been around the broadcast industry. For me, broadcasting is not a job, it’s what am being passionate about. When you enjoy your job, it’s no longer a job. I enjoy broadcasting even when I was a reporter, a presenter as well as a newscaster. It’s was so challenging, exciting and so beautiful. It’s a profession that builds one and it makes one stronger. It’s an excellent profession.

    Do you think the broadcast industry has yet attained its desired height in Nigeria?

    No, I don’t think so. Where we’re going is still far, but we’ll get there. Digitization has been postponing over the years, but we’re going there. With digitization, more people will be able to have stations. The issue of license, no frequency would be a thing of the past, especially when as it concerns television. Things are really changing. You don’t really need license to broadcast anymore. For instance, in an accident, while you as a journalist is still going through the stress of gathering information, editing and all that, somebody else has used his phone to capture it and post on social media. So it’s very more dynamic and it’ll be so as technology improves.

    How would you describe the role that your husband played in your life and career?

    I don’t think am qualified to talk about that, because my husband is late. But when he was around, he encouraged me especially with the children. I used to work shift then. But later he decided that he didn’t like Nigeria anymore. He was a Jamaican and he left for his country and he would come from time to time to visit the children before he passed on. My daughter was 19 when he passed on and she’s now 32. When he was around he supported me.

    At 52, you really look great; what’s your beauty routine?

    I don’t really have any beauty routine. Thank you for saying I look great. But I have heard people saying that to people who are not really looking good, so I hope you’re telling me the truth. I said it earlier that I had an injury in October last year. Before the injury, I used to go to the gym and do a lot of exercise, but these days I work slowly, and I have added a lot of weight as I couldn’t do enough exercise again.

    What lessons has life taught you?

    Life has taught me to be patient in all things and above all to be patient with people.

    Let’s talk about some memorable experience in broadcasting?

    I will say the day I was appointed as general manager. I won’t lie about this. I sat down and I couldn’t believe it. After many years of  hardwork and waiting, I was like ‘God, I made it’. But for some people, it’s nothing because they don’t have to wait that long. I waited 32years to get to where I am today. So it’s memorable for me and I’m so happy. I thank God and I thank our governor, His Excellency, Mr Akinwumi Ambode, for giving me the opportunity to serve.

    And so also the many coups that I witnessed were memorable as well. In those days, soldiers would just storm the FRCN and our station. Radio Lagos and Lagos television used to be where Arts and Culture is now situated. Soldiers will come, and you won’t be able to come in or go out, because they were ready to do anything. I was caught in the office once or twice while the coup was going on in those many coups that we experienced in the 80s.

    What is your dream for radio Lagos/Eko FM and what would you like to be remembered for after your tenure?

    Yes, my dream for radio Lagos 107.5 FM would be the best radio station people would think of when they want to listen to Yoruba programmes. And Eko 89.7 FM would be the station first to think of when people want to listen to qualitative, educative and entertaining programmes on radio. Both stations would be the best choice. And that would mean we have good consent of having quality signal and widest reach. That is my goal and I believe that is also the goal of the current administration of Lagos State and our governor is going to do everything humanly possible to ensure that we achieve that goal.

    How and where do you like to relax?

    I read. But these days I hang out with my friends on Sundays. I mean my female friends who are in executive positions in their various companies, private and public sectors. We chat, we exchange ideas and all that.

    What advice  do you have for women and youths coming into the industry?

    As I said earlier, education is very essential. As a woman, you have to do everything possible to arm yourself with quality education. It’s not enough for one to have Diploma or HND. Even though the products are the best in the media, especially in broadcast industry because they know the practical aspect of it, but this is a society that attaches much importance to paper qualification. So, just make sure that you get it because that is what you are going to fight with. No matter how good you are, if you don’t have paper qualification, it would be difficult to get to the top. So arm yourself with that and be hard working. Don’t use your gender as an excuse to be lazy.

  • FUNKE MOORE I waited 32 years to get to where I am today

    Funke Moore is one of the finest faces in the Nigerian media industry with vast experience in radio and television. Her hard work and diligence in the industry was crowned last year when she was appointed general manager of Radio Lagos/Eko FM by Mr Akinwumi Ambode, the governor of Lagos State. In this interview with Daniel Adeleye, she speaks on her achievements, challenges, her dreams for the organization, issues affecting women and girl-child in Nigeria, amongst others.

    WOMEN substantially outnumber men in journalism schools and enroll in greater number, but they tend not to rise up the ranks as fast as men do; what do you think is responsible for this?

    In African culture, we see male children superior to the female children. Even mothers, at times pay much attention to our male children than female. For you to make impression as a woman in today’s world, not only in the world of journalism, you have to work very hard. For a woman to get there, she needs to equip herself with quality education even more than men because it’s more easier for a man to pick up his life even with little education that he has.

    Women have many forces to battle against. As a woman, you have to do much in bringing up your children which in most cases, some men don’t really get involve with. But as a woman you can’t run away from that and it counts against you in your place of work. When my children were younger, somehow I managed not to neglect them too much and faced my job.

    When it was time for them to go to secondary school, I sent them to boarding school so that I could pay more attention to my job. In journalism, nobody looks at you that you are a woman, although they don’t give the same chance as they would give the men. They want you to work weekends, nights and do everything a man does. When it’s time for compensation, they remember that you’re a woman. I think the employers of labour should realize that women play very vital roles in the society.

    Raising children in more civilized societies are being compensated. They make it easier for women to have children. They give you time, they allow you to go on maternity leave which will not in any way affect your development. As a woman, I am not going to sacrifice my gender on the altar of professionalism. And that is how most women think. Men have a way of compensating themselves. If you’re a woman calling your superior at work, they would read meaning to it  and say that you’re looking for something else. Ours is a society where women are being treated with suspicion. Even when you’re only trying to be friendly, they will read meaning to it.

    Despite modernity, campaigns and liberation laws against women oppression in Nigeria, challenges like rape, gender-base violence and marginalization continue to be on daily increase; what do you think is the way forward?

    The way forward is for women to be empowered, to know what their rights are and stand for those rights. Education as I pointed earlier is the key. Not every woman knows that their husband should not  raise a finger against them. They think it’s the right of a man to do so as a head of the family because the religious books say you must succumb to your husband. You’re not his child but a partner. A man is the head of family, no doubt about that and as a woman you have to accord him that respect; and he too should see and treat you as his partner. But it’s quite unfortunate that most of the women don’t know this. You have your right as a woman, nobody should raise a finger against you or force you to have canal knowledge. It’s violation that we have to rise against.

    Tell us about your passion for broadcasting. How did it begin and what were the motivations for you?

    I never did anything else all through my life. Over the past three decades I have been around the broadcast industry. For me, broadcasting is not a job, it’s what am being passionate about. When you enjoy your job, it’s no longer a job. I enjoy broadcasting even when I was a reporter, a presenter as well as a newscaster. It’s was so challenging, exciting and so beautiful. It’s a profession that builds one and it makes one stronger. It’s an excellent profession.

    Do you think the broadcast industry has yet attained its desired height in Nigeria?

    No, I don’t think so. Where we’re going is still far, but we’ll get there. Digitization has been postponing over the years, but we’re going there. With digitization, more people will be able to have stations. The issue of license, no frequency would be a thing of the past, especially when as it concerns television. Things are really changing. You don’t really need license to broadcast anymore. For instance, in an accident, while you as a journalist is still going through the stress of gathering information, editing and all that, somebody else has used his phone to capture it and post on social media. So it’s very more dynamic and it’ll be so as technology improves.

    How would you describe the role that your husband played in your life and career?

    I don’t think am qualified to talk about that, because my husband is late. But when he was around, he encouraged me especially with the children. I used to work shift then. But later he decided that he didn’t like Nigeria anymore. He was a Jamaican and he left for his country and he would come from time to time to visit the children before he passed on. My daughter was 19 when he passed on and she’s now 32. When he was around he supported me.

    At 52, you really look great; what’s your beauty routine?

    I don’t really have any beauty routine. Thank you for saying I look great. But I have heard people saying that to people who are not really looking good, so I hope you’re telling me the truth. I said it earlier that I had an injury in October last year. Before the injury, I used to go to the gym and do a lot of exercise, but these days I work slowly, and I have added a lot of weight as I couldn’t do enough exercise again.

    What lessons has life taught you?

    Life has taught me to be patient in all things and above all to be patient with people.

    Let’s talk about some memorable experience in broadcasting?

    I will say the day I was appointed as general manager. I won’t lie about this. I sat down and I couldn’t believe it. After many years of  hardwork and waiting, I was like ‘God, I made it’. But for some people, it’s nothing because they don’t have to wait that long. I waited 32years to get to where I am today. So it’s memorable for me and I’m so happy. I thank God and I thank our governor, His Excellency, Mr Akinwumi Ambode, for giving me the opportunity to serve.

    And so also the many coups that I witnessed were memorable as well. In those days, soldiers would just storm the FRCN and our station. Radio Lagos and Lagos television used to be where Arts and Culture is now situated. Soldiers will come, and you won’t be able to come in or go out, because they were ready to do anything. I was caught in the office once or twice while the coup was going on in those many coups that we experienced in the 80s.

    What is your dream for radio Lagos/Eko FM and what would you like to be remembered for after your tenure?

    Yes, my dream for radio Lagos 107.5 FM would be the best radio station people would think of when they want to listen to Yoruba programmes. And Eko 89.7 FM would be the station first to think of when people want to listen to qualitative, educative and entertaining programmes on radio. Both stations would be the best choice. And that would mean we have good consent of having quality signal and widest reach. That is my goal and I believe that is also the goal of the current administration of Lagos State and our governor is going to do everything humanly possible to ensure that we achieve that goal.

    How and where do you like to relax?

    I read. But these days I hang out with my friends on Sundays. I mean my female friends who are in executive positions in their various companies, private and public sectors. We chat, we exchange ideas and all that.

    What advice  do you have for women and youths coming into the industry?

    As I said earlier, education is very essential. As a woman, you have to do everything possible to arm yourself with quality education. It’s not enough for one to have Diploma or HND. Even though the products are the best in the media, especially in broadcast industry because they know the practical aspect of it, but this is a society that attaches much importance to paper qualification. So, just make sure that you get it because that is what you are going to fight with. No matter how good you are, if you don’t have paper qualification, it would be difficult to get to the top. So arm yourself with that and be hard working. Don’t use your gender as an excuse to be lazy.

  • SOLA FAJOBI How I survived 10 years  waiting for my child

    SOLA FAJOBI How I survived 10 years waiting for my child

    Sola Fajobi, is the CEO of Digital Interactive Media, the producers of Next Movie Star, other reality TV shows and soaps across the country. The young man, who is also a major player in the entertainment distribution sector shared his success story with ADETUTU AUDU as well as how he survived his 10 years of waiting for a child.

    HOW does it feel to be championing Nigeria’s Next Movie Star for these years? It feels great. But it is also part of the challenges that we have to face all the time. At the moment, it feels good that a baby you gave birth to is still out there doing well. But on the other hand, very challenging, making sure that we can survive all the challenges of business in this part of the world. There is power issue, finance issues; there are also the people issues; the people you have to work with and all that. Interestingly, there are years that we get rewarded for all our efforts and the years that we will make a whole lot of effort and we do not get a commercial reward for it. But because our focus is not commercial, we easily rise above these challenges. It has been tough putting together a production which involves more than 60 cast and crew. It has been tough putting all the equipment in the house. It has been tough broadcasting the show. Getting airtimes without sponsors is not easy.

    Owning a television station is not an easy feat, how has it been running both stations?

    It is always the dream of any content producer to have his own platform where he will air his own productions. Thank God for digitalisation and Startimes. There were 74 bidders for just eight licences. We, instead of bidding for one, bided for two. Eventually, we were given the two licences. This is because we were able to convince them that we have the contents. That is one of the things that Next Movie Star has achieved for us. It has opened up the possibility of having a lot of contents. It is through Next Movie Star that we were able to commence Dormitory 8. You know, to own a station, you should at least consider having your own contents; your content should be 40 per cent of what you broadcast. So when we summed everything up, we found out that our own content alone could sustain 70 per cent of our station. I am bold to say that there are not more than one or two other outfits that produce as much content as we do at the moment in Nigeria.

    What will you call the high and low points of your business?

    The high point is when we get sponsors, finish the audition across all the countries and we select the final housemates and when the show eventually starts and you see it on TV and people are excited. When the winner eventually emerges is also a high point. And the climax is when I present the winners’ prizes to them. The low point is when you are doing production in an environment where you can’t work with well.  And you say look, this is my account, these are the things I have done and I need N60 million to pay for TV stations or to handle this production. It’s also a low point when you have to start running around, looking for money everywhere during the production to pay for TV stations because everything is pre-paid in Nigeria. You prepay for equipment, you prepay TV stations and a whole lot of things to make your desired thing happen. But we don’t usually have sponsors who are pre-paying. So, it’s very tasking and challenging.

    What lessons have you learnt from doing all these things since six years?

    Really, I won’t say it has taught me entirely anything new, but it gives fulfillment to get these people to achieve their objectives. One other lesson it taught me is that for you to achieve success, you are on your own. Any other reality shows that have done in this country and I stand to be corrected, must have been driven by brands. GUS is by Gulder, Amstel Malta Box Office byAmstel Malta, Family Dance is Maltina, Street Dance is Malta Guinness, Project Fame is MTN, just name it.

    What excites you most about what you are doing?

    Fulfillment. I am fulfilled. Like now that I own a TV station and a good programme just finishes showing and I see joy on the faces of people, I rejoice. The first edition of Next Movie Star; I had done a couple of things on my own before that time. I have been an entrepreneur for so long, but doing a show that the whole of Nigeria was watching and somebody emerged as the winner, everybody was happy. I burst into tears; I started crying. Why? Because oh my God, I discovered someone or some people  that’s the set of Tonto Dikeh, Annie Macaulay. So, these people can become true stars? I asked. Nigerians were excited, and it gave me fulfillment. That’s what I enjoy most. Anytime I do a show; the power to convert what’s on paper into reality gives me some form of heartfelt happiness.

    The interest in business, what aroused it?

    I worked with P & G, I worked with Metro TV in Ghana and I became an entrepreneur at the age of 22. I set up a company with my mentor then. We launched World Space in Ghana, we launched World Space in Senegal and that exposed me to entrepreneurship. But aside from that, I came back after that to go and learn more. When I came back to Nigeria I worked at Cellulant as County Manager for Nigeria and Ghana  that is Cellulant Africa. Then, I joined Tevia Technologies from Cellulant, owned by Ayo Olaseju. They are into web development and parallel services for mobile operators. So, it was also a content business. I started with them as the Content Manager and I became Head of Business Development and I said to myself I’m gonna work here for 6 months, because I wanted to learn the Nigerian terrain. So, in between that, I worked for one year. Then, from there, as an entrepreneur, I also didn’t go straight to set up my business. I partnered with an existing agency. That’s the first media independent agency in Nigeria  Media Supermart, being run by Sola Odejo then and I also worked with them for a year, understudying and learning the media environment in Nigeria. So, like I always say, young people will come out today and they want to be what you are in one day and they do not understand all the processes that you’ve gone through to achieve what you are. What I know about myself is that when I have a vision, I set goals toward that vision and I identify all the key things I need to do to achieve them and I start doing them one after the other.

    A lot of people didn’t know that it took you 10 years to have your first child. How did you cope?

    It’s a thing of the mind, and like I always say, I was born by some people; so definitely, I will also have my own children. Over the years, we’ve done almost every test that can be done and we know we are alright; that it’s going to come. Challenges came here and there, but I have this spirit  just be happy! Just take life as it comes. If you ask what my most cherished property in this world is, there is nothing. There’s nothing you cannot take away from me, there’s nothing that if I have will make my head blow. I am me, I want to remain me and I enjoy being me.

    How did you cope in those 10 years?

    My wife, first and foremost, is my friend. We started out as friends, so it was easier for us to relate with our challenges. As a woman, it seemed the challenge was more on her, but I kept backing her up, I kept supporting her and I have this free spirit. You can’t offend me. If you offend me, I will tell you now, now, now or else I cannot sleep carrying it in my mind. So, I must solve it there and then. I’m a free-spirited person and I think it rubbed off on her also, because along the line, I gave her all the support that she required, that she desired and I think God just saw all of that and said look, I have to reward these people. Because then people will say go to so, so church, go to so, so person, and I said me o, I believe I have a fantastic relationship with God, I pray to Him, He answers my prayers and I know He’s going to answer this one. It’s only a matter of time. He’s going to do it at His time and He did it by giving me what I desired  a beautiful girl!

    What would you say is the secret of your success?

    Determination, perseverance, creative imagination and focus. Our guiding motto is to make hay while the sun shines. We are basically a young outfit. But we know that a time will come when we may not be able to achieve all we want to achieve. So we work very hard here. We have the energy, the drive and creative edge to make it. Personally I don’t believe in tomorrow; I believe in achieving all I want today. Anything I can do tomorrow, I prefer to do it today so that I will enjoy myself tomorrow.

    How do you juggle all your businesses?

    I am young now and this is time to do all this work now. I still have over 70 television show ideas which I am yet to exploit. So, the work is still much for me to do and this is the time in my life to do it. There will be a time that it would be tougher for me to do all the work. When I was young, my dad would tell me that anything that I would enjoy in excess in the future, I should not peek into it now. Meaning that I have a lot of time in the future to relax and enjoy the fruit of my labour. But for now, it is work time.

    In all these, would you say you are fulfilled?

    I am fulfilled. When you look back and see how many people you have helped to achieve their dreams and the impact you have made in such lives, you will definitely want to do more. I have been an entrepreneur for so long, but doing a show that the whole of Nigeria was watching and somebody emerged as the winner, everybody was happy. So, these people can become true stars? I asked. Nigerians were excited, and it gave me fulfillment. That’s what I enjoy most. Anytime I do.

  • OLUWAGBENGA DADA Young people want  to be stars overnight

    OLUWAGBENGA DADA Young people want to be stars overnight

    Oluwagbenga Dada is the CEO of Artsmith collection, an outfit that handles bespoke jewelry for female celebrities in Nigeria as well as export to different parts of the African continent and Europe. Interestingly, the inspiration came when he found it difficult to secure admission about twelve years ago. In this interview with Yetunde Oladeinde, he takes you through the humble beginnings and how he conquered.

    HOW did it all start? The passion started about 12 years ago. I dabbled it, then I was still in teen’s church and there was this training at RCCG, Overcomers Assembly. Then we had the career week and young people had to be guided in how to discover and rediscover themselves in spite of the economic challenges. During the career, a lot of vocational skills was taught and one of it was bead making. I guess, I fiddled with it because at that time, I was already playing with textile designs.

    I was good with tie and dye, and I remember making a lot of things for friends and family members. I also happen to attend a secondary school, Doregos Private Academy that was well grounded in the arts. They believed in the overall development of the child not just the academic development. So, we had a lot of those activities, we had choreography classes, we had music, Fine Art and everything that would help the young ones develop and discover themselves. It was during that time that I dabbled into textile designing and an interesting experience was when I went into bead making. Here, I found that it was very rigorous. Interestingly, I have not mentioned this aspect of my story before that I found it very difficult but I didn’t give up. I kept trying and I would say that I was self taught at that time. I didn’t really catch up with the class and that went that way.

    When I was seeking for admission and it was very frustrating when you have good grades but you just didn’t get the admission, just because you don’t have connections and all that. I am the very restless type, I hate to laze around and I really hate to have nothing to do. It was during this period that I was with my sister; she just got married and had a baby. I was helping out and I told myself, ‘Are you going to be a nanny, all your life”.

     My sister was a designer and she was already making clothes, full time. So, I decided to learn embellishments like you have with Jewel by Lisa who was making headlines at that point with their embellished Ankara outfits and the rest. So, I said okay, let me go into this with my sister and I became an unemployed creative icon for her. We always brainstorm rubbed minds together and it was very interesting. It was during that period that we started working on Ankara jersey tops with embellishments. There was also a lady in the church who was into bead making and I asked her to teach me, how to do it. I went there, I was learning embellishments and along the line, I feel in love with jewelry. When I started making jewelry, I found it very interesting. I just found that my creative juice was on over drive, like never before, like no other thing that I had experimented with before this.

    You talked about trying to get admission, what course did you want to study then?

    I wanted to study English at that point but because of my Father who had reservations about it, he told me that it was going to narrow me down. He said my choice was very limited and that I could only be a teacher or a broadcaster. He wanted me to study Psychology but I said no to that. He also wanted me to go to private university like my older siblings but I said no. This is because with private university, I had to wait till the four months break before I can do anything for myself.

     My plan was that if I go to a public university, I have my liberty, I can go out any time I want to; pursue my dream without the constraints of having to take permission here and there. So, he gave me the option that I can only study Psychology at Ife. Luckily, I had 298 for post UTME at Ife and it was enough reason for me to gain admission but for a very flimsy reason, they didn’t give me admission. They said my subject combination for JAMB included Commerce which they do not reckon with. I dropped commerce and replaced it with Government for my UME and I got 75 over 100, it wasn’t as if I was afraid of any of this subjects but it didn’t just work out. Eventually, I got admission into the University of Ado-Ekiti where I studied Philosophy.

    What did you do with Philosophy?

    I used to say that I didn’t do anything with it but I would say that I am wrong. Just because I do not work with it, does not mean that it did not profit me, in any way. It broadened my horizon and I begun to see things differently. I was able to take on different characters, I was able to see how different people reason, their culture, why they are the way they are. They call it the mother of all discipline and I learnt about other things like Sociology too.

    Shortly before we graduated, I went into Journalism and I did PR as well as write. Just before this, I think my passion had narrowed to arts and the things that interest me but with philosophy, it got bigger and I showed interests in other things like science. I became more intelligent and my mind was sharpened. We also studied ethics and that has helped me , to conduct my business , in a more ethical manner. I have also been able to imbibe the culture of excellence in the way, I do my things.

    How did your parents influence you?

    I am from a family that is very artistic. Mum and dad met in the choir and I think that explains it. My father was one of the founding members of Ayewa singing group, he was the one who played the instrument for the track, amono tete wa, he was also the background vocalist for the song. If my father wasn’t a banking executive then, he would have been a musician. He became a pastor and even as a pastor , he was in charge of music.

    Having parents who were artistic, I fell in love with the arts. It just made it easy for them to accept their children experimenting with things related to the arts, unlike some parents who want their children to do esoteric disciplines like Medicine or Engineering.

    In 2014, I got a recognition from FADAN and for me that was a great moment for me. I also got another one from GLAM which is also a great source of inspiration for me. It was exciting because I was being recognizes amongst people like Nike Okundaye and Ejiro Amos Tafiri. The awards  says it’s for my contributions to fashion and arts in Nigeria.

    What are the challenges?

    One of the major challenge for me is people especially the staff you work with. You can’t do this alone, you need people , sales reps and more. What I have discovered is that a lot of young people are in a hurry, they do not want to wait or persevere. You find them being enthusiastic at one point and the next minute they are drop out because it is taking too long for the money to come. Many young people no, just want to be stars overnight. I tried it for a few times, I didn’t give up , went over and over again until I became successful.

    Many of them are not ready to learn under the tutelage of someone who has conquered. Over the years, you have to train and retrain people who carry your standards and trade secrets away. So, the problem really is not money but people. It is because of this get rich quick syndrome. Sadly, there are lots of motivational speakers around telling them you can make it but takes more than that, you need mentorship. It is important to learn the ethics of the profession , learn the trade ,the modus operandi and go through the right  process. It’s like a cookie, if it does not go through the right process, it would be half baked. If you are not fully baked, you would crumble easily.

    Tell us about some of the shows , you have participated in?

    My first show was a collaboration with my sister at the African Fashion show , London. There are others like the  Nigeria Televison Fashion week and more recently, Senator Florence Ita Giwa’s 70th birthday. Some of my clients include chief Mrs Oprah Benson, Chief Mrs Nike Okundaye, Betty Irabor, Nkechi Alli Balogun , Ireti Doyle , Annie Idibia, Waje and quiet a number of others.

  • ANITA UWAGBALE-ISEGHOHI My family is  my focus

    ANITA UWAGBALE-ISEGHOHI My family is my focus

    ANITA Uwagbale-Iseghohi is the Most Beautiful Girl in Nigeria 2004 Many years after her reign the mother of three and wife of financial consultant and businessman, Tom Iseghohi has managed to stay beautiful and in shape. She speaks with Adetutu Audu on her life after the crown, her family and current project.

    After three kids, you are still maintaining your figure. Is it that you don’t want fat?
    I work out a lot. I am in the gym four to five days a week. I run 11km four days a week. That’s like marathon a week. It is a personal choice, this is what I want to keep and maintain. When I had my last daughter, I gained 42kg and I am not comfortable with that. I like being slim, and being that heavy was not my comfort zone. Besides, exercise is good for your heart.
    Are you particular about what you eat?
    Not at all. I eat everything including pounded yam. No restrictions but I eat in the right proportion.
    You have been able to stay away from scandal over the years . How have you been to achieve this?
    I let you see what I want you to see. Every other thing is private. That is how you can control it. I also stay away because the more you are out there, they more they have things to say or write about you. Some level of privacy is good. I think its balance. Even though I’m on Instagram, for example, my husband, my marriage, and my kids cannot be on Instagram. Those things are private.
    My husband is a very private person, while I like to be in and out of the spotlight. If I attend an event, you will probably not see me in another for months. I attend a maximum of five events in a year. I can be on Instagram from now till forever, but you will only see what I want you to see.
    What would you attribute to your success in marriage?
    It is not easy to be married. Taking two people from different background, upbringing and put them together in one house day-in-day-out and you want them to live together for the rest of their lives. With all the pressure around, financial stress, emotional stress it is just by God’s grace.
    Marriage is hard but you just have to find a way to balance it. You are married for a reason; you need to keep reminding each other of that and keep the communication open.
    Just two months ago,you lost your mother. What will you miss about her?
    I keep saying is instead of was for her. I still feel she is still around. I miss her a lot. I am her only daughter, she is my fighting partner, my gist partner, friend and everything. It is a huge loss.
    How were you able to successfully evolve from being a beauty queen, to being a wife and mom?
    You just go with the flow, because nobody tells you how motherhood really is. It’s the same thing with marriage. People hear you are getting married and their reaction is, “Oh yeah, its a big party, . No one really tells you the truth, the work that it requires. For me, marriage is huge sacrifice. You have to be able to move things around for your partner. Sometimes, one person moves more than the other person. It takes lots of sacrifice. It’s like childbirth. Nobody one tells you how hard it really is. No one tells you anything. You learn from experience.
    What lessons did you learn, growing up, that have helped you in your motherhood journey so far?
    I learnt a whole lot from my mom; her patience, her unconditional love. She would always tell you, life is what it is, take it one step at a time, and that not all things would work as you expect. Just take it one day at a time. These lessons have really helped me.
    You married early,taking back the hand of the clock,would you still do the same?
    I have no regret . My first child is 9. That sounds like oh my God that won’t have happened overnight if I was not married it has been a blessing. Then, a lot of people were complaining that why do I want to marry early when I could still have fun. I like stability. I am not one of those that want to bounce around. I found a man who loves me and I love too. What else could I ask of. If I didn’t take that decision I won’t be where I am today. It takes me away from distractions around. I need to focus on my family .
    The rate of domestic violence now is alarming. What is your view?
    It’s disturbing. Marriage is not a do0r die affair. If you can stand to live with each other, you divorce. It is that easy. Why take a life that you can give. Your happiness come first, if you can live together in peace,then divorce. I don’t believe in being sorrowful. I think the pressure is coming from the fact that everyone wants to stay in marriage to keep a good face. When you lose your life, that is the end.
    Most beauty queens have pet projects. Are you involved in any one now?
    My pet project now is raising my kids. I have young children and I need to focus on them. Although I still do my charity work. I can’t do any pet project for now because I won’t be able to give my 100 percent attention.
    But during your birthday, you always visit orphanages?
    I won’t call that a pet project. Pet project is something that my name is attached to. The orphanage thing, we do regularly in my family. That is who I am. I am a giver. Giving makes me happy. My husband use to tell me just do go and give your eyes. My mummy will always say you can’t change the world but you can change the little around you.
    What are your guiding principles, what are some of the things that shaped your life?
    I am someone that is really concerned about the future. I think this is something I grew with. Anytime I embark on something, I will ask myself if it is something I will look back and be proud of myself. I always want to do things and be proud that I actually did it. I try not to do things that I will regret. I give things a 1001 of me, if it doesn’t work out eventually; it is still fine by me. Give it your best, if it works out, thank God. If not, try again.
    Apart from being a beauty queen,what do you do?
    I am a business woman. I run baby store and I am an executive producer of a TV show I am currently working on titled, Mommy Fabulous. It is a family oriented show and together with my co-host, we will treat topics that concern the family, marriages and women. Each week we will have also invite special guests to discuss some of the issues being discussed. We will also treat some topics that concern the menfolk and hold regular workout routines on set. A chef will also be on hand to prepare healthy meals and smoothies live in the studio.
    It has been 12 years that you were crowned. Being a product of beauty pageant what is your view because new ones keep coming up?
    There need to be a change in the industry but whichever way you look at it,beauty is still beauty. Being the right girl and being at the right place at the right time also getting good sponsorship for the girls also goes a long way during international pageant.
    After Agbani Darego,none of our girls are no longer making huge impact in the international scene.
    I won’t agree with you. I made top 15 in Miss World and I was the Africa queen Miss World during my time.
    Would you now agree that some of the girls now cannot comport themselves and even speak good English?
    I don’t know about that. I have met a lot of intelligent ones . I think it depends on the pageant. The ones from Silverbird are queit intelligent and beautiful. Beauty comes in different shapes and sizes. I thjink Silverbird is still doing a great job. It’s Silverbird and other pageants.
    While growing up,what prepared you for the throne?
    My first name is queen and it has always been part of me. I can not escape anything without my brothers t reminding me that queen don’t do that.I grew up in the midst of five boys. I am the only girl. A lot of people expected me to be a tomboy but I am not. I am a girly girl. I love all the pinks and peach and all the lovely colours. I grew up amidst very protective boys, they were also very loving as well. I can remember my mom used to hit my back for me to straighten my posture. When I try to curve in, she would hit my back to straighten up. I remembered when I won the MBGN ,my mom’s friends said we have seen what you use your shakara for.
    I believe your girly nature influenced the desire to go into pageantry?
    I don’t know where the idea came from. But I have always had this carriage about me. I can remember my friends used to tell me that I catwalk on the road. When Agbani won Miss World, it was a big encouragement for me. People started calling me Miss World, it just stuck from there. I can also remember that I used to tell my junior students in school not to put water inside my bucket. I never wanted mosquito bite because I am the next Miss Nigeria. I used to say that. Agbani was a push really for me.
    Describe your personality and style
    I am a bridge betweenbeing friendly and going into my shell and want to be alone. It is easy for me to manage. When the friendly side comes out,I am like we want to go and have fun. And sometimes I just want to be alone . My style is classic,easy clean look. Things that you can wear for ten or twenty years from now and it will still look good. I like to look simple; put on a good jacket, a pair of jeans.
    Many people have argued that once a beauty queen always one,do you agree?
    It is forever a queen. I was reminded that by Mrs. Betty Irabor,I met her a couple of years ago and she said you are so pretty ,why are you not in one of these beauty pageants. I said I have two kids and an ex-beauty queen. She said you are not ex. Once a queen is always a queen. And I said I will live with that.
    What has being a beauty queen rob you?
    Nothimg I am still myself. I can stop and buy things if I see and like.
    Do you still keep your old friends?
    People always ask that question and it is tricky. Not everybody can grow with you. I went from a second year student of Madonna University to win MBGN. Travelling around the world, meeting different people, governors, celebrities, all that will put one on a different level compare to your friends. Some will grow with you, while others will fall. For me who are able to understand this is me, are still

  • OLUFUNSO AMOSUN My husband’s in tune with reality

    OLUFUNSO AMOSUN My husband’s in tune with reality

    Mrs. Olufunsho Amosun, the first lady of Ogun State, turned fifty during the week. In this interview with YETUNDE OLADEINDE, she goes down memory lane to recount her many blessings, early life and marriage to Ibikunle Amosun, Governor of Ogun State.

    WHAT is life at 50 like? To be honest with you, the only point I want to stress is the opportunity to actually attain this milestone officially.

    I think I have been fifty in my mind for so many years, using it as an excuse for my children. I have done the fifty thing so many times over but the reality is that truly, officially, I am turning fifty and I am very grateful to God. It is not everybody that actually attains this age.

    Has anything changed about you?

    I pray nothing. Outside the age, when you attain that age, you become more reflective, you realise that it is actually a privilege to be able to attain the golden age. Your perspective to life changes and I guess that things that might have not been so important to you are becoming important. Like the issue of health, you realise that I haven’t started thinking that physical health is failing. I don’t think I am there yet, to be honest. It is the stage where people start to worry about physical strength failing or stuffs like that. You just sort of emotionally become reflective, realising that this is the second half by God’s grace, and in that way, it’s the only aspect that I can think of. Not that I have really processed it or I haven’t attained it. To be honest, I am just thankful to God. Reflecting on where I am, the grace that HE has given me, the opportunities, the privilege of good health and the other things. As I realise that, looking at some peers liken their situation and where I am now, I realise that God has really been kind to me. My husband, lovely children, I mean, I can’t stop counting my blessings.

    What don’t you like about being a governor’s wife?

    I wouldn’t say I don’t like not being able to be myself. But I am myself. I would have said, I don’t like the fact that I always have a light shadow around me, in terms of having people around me. Maybe being in second term, the people around me have come to understand that I am my own person and that they cannot always follow me around, even if it is their duty.

    I think that now, I like being the wife of the governor, especially because to the glory of God, and I say this with all sense of responsibility, my husband has done a good job as a governor. I am proud to raise my head up high as his wife, with the ongoing in Nigeria and without putting anyone down. Sometimes when you are in this privileged position, maybe due to circumstances or whatever, you don’t deliver but the people expect so much from you. I make bold to say that to the best of my husband’s ability, he has performed and it makes me happy to say that I am the wife.

    What are some of the things that you share in common with your husband?

    After twenty five years, I think the question should be what are the things that we don’t share in common? However, I stand at opposite seems to attract. So, while he is a hands-on people person, he wouldn’t mind jumping into a crowd, just taking people on by way of speaking to them. I sort of do it by delegating through lots of my uplift programme, the Spouses of Ogun State Government’s Officials Association. I have come to realise that members of the association might want to bring things to my attention. I might find it a bit reluctant but I have found that they might find it a bit easier to speak to the second in command.

    So, even though I reach out to people and I impact positively upon them. Then, I am in my opinion approachable; I tend to work with people by allowing them to find whatever avenue is comfortable to reach me and for me to reach them back. Instead of me just jumping up, I say my door is open and say you can send me a message, everybody who knows me, knows that I am not very good with phone calls. Recently, we had a meeting and decided on a suggestion box, so that if you want to reach me or send a message to me, you don’t necessarily have to write your name. And I would hold the key of the suggestion box; feel free to write anything because I need to know what is going on in your mind. I understand that they may not be able to tell me to my face but I, however, want to know the true position of what is going on in their minds. That is another way that I kind of reach out to people. I am an open door that you can reach, such that you can be honest to me, without holding back.

    Tell us about your growing up years

    I guess I would flashback to the beginning of my marriage years. I was born 2nd May, 1966 to a humble family of Bishop Michael Ayoade Odesanya and Elder Olusola Odesanya. I had the first half of my primary school education in the United Kingdom and the second half at Ayoade Nursery and Primary School, Iyaganku, Ibadan. Then I went off to Yejide Girls Grammar school and later I attended the Oyo State School of Arts and Sciences. I also went to the University of Ife, now Obafemi Awolowo University, where I studied English/Education and I fell in love. He then owned an accounting firm and I guess the rest is history. We have five wonderful children, who we are very proud of. We’ve come a long way, all glory to God.

    Your husband has openly said that he is a difficult person to work with. With due respect, he is a local boy, which is the opposite of what we see in you. You look feminine, sophisticated and western compared to your husband?

    That is a funny and complex question. However, everyone is entitled to their own opinion. My husband is the most practical, responsible and hands-on husband that anyone can ask for and I think that what transcends is the way he goes about his duty, in loving the people of Ogun State. I don’t want a man that is so sophisticated, that he is tuned out. My husband is in tune with reality. I don’t see him as a local person; I see him as a compassionate hands-on and responsible husband. I don’t see myself as packaging him, I see him as packaging me. As we said a while ago, they do say that opposites attract. Maybe, you can blame it on that, if you see any difference in the disposition.

    However, after 25 years, I don’t even see where the lines are anymore. I believe that we are one and the same, we complement each other. Maybe, we don’t even see eye to eye. However, we always reach a compromise. I would also say that I don’t think we have ever slept on an argument, he won’t let you, anyway. Even if you are annoyed, even if he has upset you, he would say that it just happened, get on with life. So, I take that as a compliment and I would give all the glory to God.

    Are there any sad moments?

    I have been lucky and I know I have been lucky. I know it is the grace of God. I don’t think I can recall any moment like that but I know that I have recalled several times when I look back and say that’s the grace of God. Take for instance, my genotype is AS and my husband is AA. We got married in a time that people don’t really ask or find out their status. So what if my husband was SS? That is a practical example of how God has been kind to us. I walk in God’s perfect role and when I look back, I see that I could have made a mistake but God has spared me. So, I do not recollect any moment of sorrow.

    Again, I give glory to God and then sometimes, I do get to be worried. Everything is so smooth and I have faith that this is God’s plan and wish for me. I pray that it continues like that.

    Let’s talk about some memorable moments together

    Every day is different and my husband is just so real. He would tell you, ‘I don’t believe in flowers, I don’t believe in saying I love you but action speaks louder than words.’

    When was the first time you saw him wearing the cap. Was it in the bedroom?

    It doesn’t have to be the bedroom. The cap, I recall, predates 2003 and I think it came to stay around 2001. It was just a kind of identity which people liked. We joked about it as M.K naira and that is what baba’s cap was known for.

    Asides that, it just became something that he was known for and comfortable with. And if I was to say something about it, I would say, ‘ain’t you fed up with wearing the same cap?’ Even in his buba and trouser, it is the same style and I guess his tailor’s job is very simple. I would always ask ‘ain’t you fed up with wearing the same style?’ That just shows the kind of person he is. He is consistent.