Dear Mummy Temilolu, I always look forward to reading your weekly articles. My dad ensures I don’t miss it as he simply hands over the newspaper to me once he’s done with it. Thank you so much for impacting us. However, I need your help over a certain issue. A particular guy working for my parents, asked me for sex even when we aren’t in a special relationship. I succumbed to his pressure because of his pleas. And now he doesn’t want to stop having sex with me even when I want him to stop! I can’t report him to my mom because I fear she might even die of heart-break. She’s normally observant but recently she has been too occupied with work and has not been a listening type. My attitude still shocks me and I’m yet to forgive myself!
Anonymous, 18
My darling, precious, glorious, dignified, world-famous and heavenly celebrated Nigerian sisters,
Too many of you would love to remain chaste till your wedding night but lack the much-needed power of the Holy Ghost. I know too many of you don’t even know what’s written in Zechariah 4:6 off-hand and would have to check your bible. Sad! I’m shocked to say the least at what my little madam has written above! She’s not only my friend on Face book, she comments on my posts as well thanking me for encouraging her as well as other girls. How then can she fall like a pack of cards into the hands of a stranger? What would happen when she gets to the university and guys begin to give her a hot chase because she’s very pretty? How cheap can anyone get?
My sweet, I know you are reading and must have wondered why I didn’t continue chatting with you on this matter- I find it very strange! Very disheartening! Or could the guy have used voodoo on you? How can you tell me he won’t stop sleeping with you when you willingly submitted yourself to him? Or has he been forcing you? You’ve not told me that! And to worsen matters, this show is going on in your parents’ house! What in the world has come over you? Hmm…
Girls…girls…girls, if the head usher’s lush Brazilian hair is what’s still ringing in your head since Sunday while you can’t even remember the bible passages read least of all have them resonate in your spirit then THERE’S A SERIOUS PROBLEM! Any church which consistently preaches holiness and the narrow path carries a very strong presence and power of God that is enough to keep your soul burning and your flesh subdued! Sadly, a lot of you would rather go to churches where concentration is on something else instead of the undiluted word of God which is what you need to attain heights even pastor can only dream of!
Girls…girls…girls, YOU’RE WONDERS WAITING TO HAPPEN and the devil would have none of that! Because someone isn’t a committed child of God and fantastically successful doesn’t mean the same would go for you! I keep asking, do you know the type of star you carry and what it needs to manifest? If Joseph, Daniel, Esther had defiled themselves even under severe pressure would they have been catapulted to unbelievable heights?
“What no eye has seen, what no ear has heard, and what no human mind has conceived is what God has prepared for those who love him- these are the things God has revealed to us by his spirit. The Spirit searches all things, even the deep things of God.” 1 Cor. 2:9-10
How can you even know God’s plans for you, the type of star you carry and the battles you have to fight/the path to follow when your spirit is saturated with romance and lust? May you not wake up in your middle age and realise you never even lived in Jesus mighty name!
My little madam, by now, you should know how to get yourself out of your sexcapade! May God empower you and cleanse you! I remain yours!