Mohbad: Victim of bullying for whom help came too late?

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The sudden exit of Afrobeat star Ilerioluwa Aloba a.k.a. Mohbad or Imole may have come as a rude shock to millions of his loving fans but definitely not to the artiste and the discerning minds that pay close attention to the lyrics of his music.

Mohbad was actually expecting his death even amidst his growing career and popularity. In many instances, Mohbad’s lyrics captured his struggle both on the home front and his career.

On the home front, Mohbad was a victim of broken home. Like Teni, who witnessed the murder of her father by assassins at a very tender age, Mohbad struggled with the broken marriage of Joseph Aloba and his wife, who for many years have held the bitterness of separation against each other, oblivious of Mohbad who had become the chief victim of a broken marriage.

Mohbad in his melodious lyrics of “Sorry” captured his frustration as a youth lacking the proper love of father and mother.

Dis kind life tire me

Daddy no get salary

10 years I no see mommy

Stepmother no care

Landlord dey worry

My brothers are hungry

Daddy gather money make I go poly

I go poly but I no go class

Chorus:

Daddy I am sorry

I don dey do yahoo

I don dey take banku

Omo pastor ti wonu aye

Mummy just dey pray

Daddy just dey pray for me

Make e better for me

Me I no go school

Only thing I be do

Musiki I choose

Dis life like e tire me

E su biri biri e bo mi o

Iwaju loloko mi wa mi lo

Eyin loloko mi wa mi lo

Mi o mo yee oooooo

This is where I have a grouse with the pronouncement of Burna Boy that most Afrobeat songs are meaningless.

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In the light of our modern day society, the opening and closing of the lyrics of Mohbad’s song, “Sorry” captured his confusion and frustration with the pronouncement “dis kind life tire me” meaning “aye yi su mi” in Yoruba. Dis kind life tire me in other words is a direct transliteration of “aye yii su mi ” in Yoruba language.

After narrating his painful experience and struggles at the home front with both his father, mother and stepmother, and when he was sent to school, Mohbad concluded the song with a cry of both confusion and call for help in

E su biri biri e bo mi o

Iwaju loloko mi wa mi lo

Eyin loloko mi wa mi lo

Mi o mo yee oooooo

Which means everyone, come to my help. I am confused. I don’t know whether I am moving forward or backwards.

Another song of him that captured the depth of his fears was “Walking dead”.

By its title alone, Mohbad mixed no word about what he meant.

It’s one life and I live it well

Cause man no want to live with regret

Jah is my confidence

Every man is a walking dead

Love me while I am still here

Cause heaven is our residence

Jah is my confidence

Every man is walking dead

Brother when I am here no more

People will love me more

Talk about the things I have done

Discuss my right and wrong

While I am lying dead on floor

When I can’t talk no more

If I go live forever, sebi Oluwa lo mo

Ero ki Mama mi ye ma tete wale oh

(Fellows tell my mummy, I will come home quickly)

Ayo Tete wale eh ah (Ayo come home quickly)

Cries, cries and mournings.

What is more painful here is that Mohbad spoke clearly about his death with so much helplessness and even cried at the end of the track.

However in another track titled “Tiff”, Mohbad clearly pointed out where his death was coming from by narrating his experience with the Marlian music.

Won ti sojoro (en en en en enta)

(Background) everyday for the thief one day for the owner.

Won ti sojoro (Imole)

Se bajose Marlians ni

Won wa fe ma corner mi (won paro)

Won fe ma bother mi

But Oluwa cover mi

Won pe daddy mi

Won threaten mommy mi

They wan take the peace in me

Won fe mo Olorun mi

Ara ra ra ra ra rararah

Won ti sojoro

Won ti sojoro I no gree

Every day for the thief, one day for the owner

Paso wonder fuck their gunners

Emi Messi, I no be loser

Won Fe ki Ronaldo gba corner

Barcelona for the corner

Hmmm won Fe ki n wo sapa

I don stop to smoke ganja

Mo dupe f’oluwa Hallelujah

 Zzz ko ja

Black ko bad

Dollar, mo rise

Why is Naira going down

Ko si much, but mo guide

Mi o fresh but mo fine

Won riran, mo sight

In the darkness I am the light oh

With street slangs enriched with Yoruba wisdom, Mohbad was able to show how his imole (light) was able to walk out of the darkness he walked into while pursuing his music career and the ensuing revolt and threat from those who saw him as a threat.

He said although he was not rich, he was happy and contented with what he had.

One clear thing about Mohbad was that though he was coming from a broken home, he was a good boy with an appreciable level of home training who found himself in the midst of bad boys.

At a point of no return, Mohbad like the light (Imole) that he was, Imole was able to walk out of the darkness he found himself by dropping the smoking of ganja.

This perhaps was one of the reasons why he was hated so much.

Another fact about Mohbad was that he walked into these agents of darkness not willingly in the first instance but out of the pressure to earn a living. In his collabo with Bella Shmurda titled “BB2 Poverty” or Bye Bye to Poverty, Imole said unlike Shmurda who walked into the street because his parents were not at home, his own parents were at home but “I have to do what I have to do”.

I felt so many time now now

Mo de dide

O pe ko to ye mi pe ‘le aye yii no be play

A mo tesin ba da ni se la maa tun gun ni

I have been through hell oooooo

Been through hell oooooo

Shmurda (reply)

Brother don’t you ask me question

If I ever help you please don’t you mention

Dem be wan touch me high tension

The life we live inside dungeon

Daddy me ko si nile

Nobody to ask me what to do

I have to do what I have to doooooo

Mohbad replies

Mommy temi nbe nile

Emi ni mo sa nile

I have to do what I have to do

Now I turn music to my good yeee

(Both)

Bye bye to poverty yeee

Oriburuku pada leyin wa

Make Omo aye no block me oooooo

Peron wey I wan shock make he no go shock me

Apart from the run from poverty which drove Mohbad to the street and ultimately into the darkness that he found himself, his embrace of that darkness as the last option was evident in the track titled after his second stage name, Imole.

Oti to tutu fun awon to wa thirsty

Ounje to yapa fun awon to wa hungry

F’agbara Kun agbata f’awon to wa lazy

Shine your light on me so the world can see the glory

Ba mi wa pay day fun awon nigga mi to n hussle

F’ona han awon maami naa to de TI Sonu

Bless me more fi Ife mi sokan awon fans mi

Bami doju t’awon ti mo text to won o reply mi

Imole ni mi mo de de tan Kari aye

Sugbon mummy so pe ki n f’eso saye

Egbo ti n ba f’eso saye bawo ni se Fe ra’le

O ga oooooo, it’s higher than the mountain

O Jin, it’s deeper than the ocean

The industry is looking on me won o mo pe’mi ni’re kan

K’okunkun yin parada to ri pe imole ti n bo

Mo ti n bo, mo ti n bo, mi o ni pe de

Four years mo ti hussle pa mo ti pe nle

Mo ti korin to po sibe mi o de ni video

Osu meta ati abo ni mo fi sun ilele ni studio

Take away my pain give me fame

Take away my weakness give me strength

Take away my korope and give Benz

Oh Lord this stress is not for me

Chorus:

Ma je n Sonu sinu aye

Ma je n se akobata fegbe

Iya to je mummy mi, je daddy mi

Ko ni da to be he mi o 2ce

For you to be a man you have to wine with the devil

You have to dine, you have to be the real devil

Fuck with the devil, ground with the devil

To ba fe jeun pe l’esu o ni lati wa sibi to gun

Won ri mi ri mo n sare but won o mo nkan to n le mi

Omo olowo yin ti to so e o mo nkan to nje ebi

I would rather work 24/7 than to be a slave

If I no get money na me get the blame

Sometimes you just have to work a lot

The more you work, the more you burn

You know what I mean, Imole.

 All these lyrics are the windows to the real Mohbad and his struggles with life and in many of them, Mohbad sang his own funeral songs and we all dance to it.

On his death bed Mohbad saw that he was surrounded by messengers of death but he eventually succumbed to them because the enemy inside was more dangerous than the one outside. Bi iku Ile o ba pa ni t’ode o le pa ni.

Like Reno Omokiri said on his Facebook account on Mohbad “it is better to be hated while you

are alive than to be loved when you are dead. Fake love kills faster than fake medicine. This young man’s sufferings were videoed. His ordeal was in the open amongst the circles he moved in.

His friends, who are now releasing videos, ought to have intervened. An intervention when MohBad was alive is better than an allegation now that he is dead. Friends who did not celebrate him on their profiles whilst he was alive have turned their profiles into shrines when he is dead.

Let’s give people we love a befitting life rather than a befitting memorial. If you like insult me. I don’t need your validation. God has blessed me with money and fulfilment. So I speak my mind, not what you want to hear.”

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