DEAR Temilolu, I have been reading your column in the last two weeks on Pamela’s story and find it very inspiring and touching. May God continually grant you the grace, strength and wisdom to carry on. I would love to point out that all men are not the same, so also all women. The way men are painted these days establish a mindset in women that all men are bad and this is the origin of the mistakes most women make. To be frank, there are a lot of bad men out there and it’s easy to know them so also are bad women easy to point out. Please encourage ladies to dress well, be focused, attain some level of educational and financial status before marriage, reduce their dependence on men especially before marriage, appreciate the little they are given in a relationship and never make comparisons. They must keep God-fearing friends and pray for the men they are surrounded by. Love and relationship is give and take. We all know you cannot take without giving. Ladies should ask for less or little. Relationships are not for acquiring wealth or what your folks can’t give you. We all must be content with what we have. There are good men out there who equally desire good women. Thank you and God bless you.
Olabode
Dear Temilolu,
I read your amazingly beautiful but brief piece on Pamela’s story-Girls, please read this. Lo and behold my take away- “In a highly competitive and evil world like this, you must be spiritually intelligent, otherwise, the worldly-wise could make you wish you were never born.” Whao! Nothing could be more refreshingly insightful! You are such an immense blessing to my generation. May the good lord continue to keep you for us all and may He never stop pouring His spirit on you.
Tunde Olayode
Dear Temilolu,
Continue your good work in the newspapers. God bless you.
Anonymous
Dear Aunty Temilolu,
I see a model in you. I am working on my first book and I am a final year student. I was brought up in a disorganised home but God has been my pillar. I’ve always had the dream of impacting my generation and being a shining example and role model to other girls. You strengthened me last October when I almost gave up. I am proud to have you as a sister in our generation. I wouldn’t have been pure and chaste till now but went back to my God because of you and your wonderful articles which have had a tremendous effect on my life. I conquered temptation. I love that “person” in you, I love you!
Esther David, Jos
My darling, precious, glorious, dignified, world-famous and heavenly celebrated Nigerian sisters,
I can see everything turning around for your good. As long as you follow God’s principles on every aspect of your life, you can never go wrong and can only experience “heaven on earth.” We shall soon discuss issues that could bring about the wrong choice of a husband. And the earlier you realise them the better. As for all the Esthers out there, before this year 2016 runs out, I assure you, “who know know go know.” You can’t miss your super glorification because as you have decided to honour God with your body at a time like this, an emergency meeting will be held for your sake in heaven and arrangements will be made for your star to shine all over the world.
“ And kings shall be thy nursing fathers, and their queens thy nursing mothers: they shall bow down to thee with their face toward the earth, and lick up the dust of thy feet; and thou shalt know that I am the LORD: for they shall not be ashamed that wait for me.” Isaiah 49:23 (KJV)
Hmmmmm….Sigh! Girls, beware, be wise! May God bless you all and make you very great. AMEN!