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  • Imo recruits 3,000 graduates

    Imo recruits 3,000 graduates

    The Imo State government has engaged 3,000 graduates into its workforce, it was learnt yesterday.
    A statement by Governor Rochas Okorocha’s Chief Press Secretary, Sam Onwuemeodo said the recruitment is to fulfil the governor’s promise to provide jobs to youths, especially graduates.
    The statement reads; “For the civil service, 1,499 graduates have been engaged, while 1,501 others were employed into the local government system, and in each case, their departments came with the publications containing their names.
    “They have started collecting their appointment letters and the governor has promised to confirm their appointments within the period specified by relevant rules”.

  • 3,000 benefit from food donation

    No fewer than 3,000 indigent residents of Abeokuta, the Ogun State capital, have received food items from the Jubilee Christian Church International (JCCI). The gesture was aimed at cushioning the effects of the economic recession in the country.

    JCCI, which has its headquarters in Abeokuta, also gave out cash to widows and other economically vulnerable residents.

    The items distributed to the beneficiaries included rice, beans, beverages and cash as part of activities to mark its 25th anniversary.

    The General-Overseer, Rev. Kunle Adesina, said the gesture was the church’s modest efforts towards helping the less-privileged people in the society.

    Adesina appealed to government at all levels to address the pervasive hunger in the country, which he said could trigger a revolution if not addressed.

    He said: “A lot of Nigerians are suffering,” warning that they might revolt if government fails to tackle their problems with relevant policies.

    The cleric explained that the church resolved to give out food items to the people in order to cushion the effect of hunger in the land.

    “My advice to the government is that whatever policy they are evolving; they should take the poor people who are in the majority into consideration. Any policy that would not cater for them is not a good policy.

    “The poor people are in the majority in this country and they are really suffering. I don’t pray that we get to a point where the poor people would not be able to take it again, and that is when you see people revolting and go into revolution.

    “So, I advise the government to do something urgent because a lot of people are suffering,” Adesina said.

    He recalled that the JCCI started 25 years ago “on zero level” but had spread the Gospel to 10 nations, adding that he had a mission to take the church to more countries of the world.

    Adesina noted that he was not yet satisfied with the rate at which evangelism spreads in Nigeria, saying “there are more to be done by Christians.”

  • Loving your wife the Bible way! (3)

    Dear Reader,

    Welcome to yet another time of refreshing. Since this month began, we have discovered that the journey into marital fulfilment will only be a success, by walking in the light that comes from the Word of God.

    Last week we started examining what must be in place, for true expression of love. Today, we shall be looking at the practical ways love can be expressed to your wife, in what I have titled: Loving In Thoughts & In Words!

    Loving essentially starts from the heart, but eventually finds expression through the mouth and by actions. Therefore, beginning from the thoughts of your hearts, husbands, learn to love your wives. It is noted from God’s Word that out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks (Matthew 12:34). Thus, when your heart is full of loving thoughts, it readily finds expression in the words you speak.

    If, for instance, you use abusive words on your wife, you have succeeded in convincing everyone that is a witness to it that you are speaking out of the abundance of your heart. Until you change the contents of your thoughts, you cannot speak otherwise.

    Men initiate things and women respond to them. Husband, initiate the love relationship between you and your wife, and she will respond to you in love, for no woman hates to be loved. When you love your wife, you easily win her submission.

    Furthermore, as a caring husband, you must learn to speak kind words to your wife. Words create the right atmosphere in the home. Express to her the nice qualities you like in her. Handle your wife with care by speaking kind words of appreciation to her often.

    Your relationship with your wife started with the use of these three words: “I love you.” That means, it will grow by its continuous use.  Often, however, these words are forgotten after the euphoria of the wedding ceremony is over. Words are powerful, and saying, “I love you” over and over, spices up marriage. Just as it is necessary for rain to fall again and again for farmers to reap a bountiful harvest; so also, it is to say, “I love you” over and over.

    The presumptuous claim that it is not necessary to say it over and over because, “She should know I love her”, is wrong. She needs to hear you express daily how much you love and appreciate her. My husband says it to me daily, and I never get tired of hearing it.

    Even God’s Word points out the importance of voicing out what one believes in the heart (Romans 10:10). Give voice to your feelings; it is not a sign weakness, but of strength! The world was made by faith-filled words; therefore, let your “I love you” to your spouse be also full of faith. Even if your spouse is a monster, she would change to a marvel! That is how God won man to Himself. While we were yet sinners, Christ died for us, thus saying, “ I love you” to the people who rejected His love.

    Some men find it hard to say, “I am sorry. Please, forgive me,” because of their ego. God’s Word says: And my people shall dwell in a peaceable habitation, and in sure dwellings, and in quiet resting places (Isaiah 32:18). That is, God’s original intent for the home is to be a place of peace and quietness. “Quietness,” not in the sense of silence, but of rest.

    Therefore, any man who desires his home to be heaven on earth should not let ego stand between him and his wife, or children. Don’t give room to the devil to bring problems to your home. Learn to say “I am sorry”, when you offend your wife or you observe that she’s not just happy with you. Like I mentioned earlier, it’s never a sign of weakness but of strength, and it works!

    Next week, I shall examine loving with actions. Meanwhile, if you have not accepted Jesus Christ as your Lord and Saviour, you are incapable of demonstrating God’s kind of love. It is when you accept Jesus into your life that the love of God is shed abroad into your heart (Romans 5:5).

    If you want to give your life to Christ, say this prayer with me: “Dear Lord Jesus Christ, I come to You today. I am a sinner. Forgive me of my sins and cleanse me with Your Blood. Deliver me from sin and satan to serve the living God. I accept You as my Lord and Saviour. Make me a child of God today. Thank You for accepting me into Your Kingdom.”

    If you prayed this simple prayer, you are now a child of God. He loves you and will never leave you. Read your Bible daily, obey God’s Word and seek Christian fellowship (John 14:21).

    Congratulations! You are now born again! All-round rest and peace are guaranteed you, in Jesus’ Name. Call or write, and share your testimonies with me through contact@faithoyedepo.org; OR 07026385437 and 08141320204.

     

    For more insight, these books authored by me are available at the Dominion Bookstores in all Living Faith Churches and other leading Christian bookstores: Marriage Covenant, Making Marriage Work, Building A Successful Home and Success in Marriage (Co-Authored)

  • Family Government (3)

    Dear Reader,

    Last week, we saw the place of the woman in handling her primary responsibility to her husband in the area of family government. When the Word is discovered and applied with wisdom, treasures are uncovered that makes for fulfilment in family life.

    Handling finances is a very sensitive area in the family. It is important to understand the place of money in the family to avoid tension. That is why, today, I shall be unveiling some key spots about Family Finances.

    God’s Word says: For wisdom is a defence, and money is a defence… (Ecclesiastes 7:12). Money is simply a medium of exchange, but it is referred to as a defense, because with it you are not embarrassed.

    Right from the time God blessed Adam with a wife, he has been the head of the family. This placed upon him the responsibility of providing for his household (1 Timothy 5:8). So, by God’s arrangement, you, as the man, are to provide for your family. You are the one who must ensure that there is food for members of your family. You must also ensure that your family members are well taken care of, especially your immediate family members (Song of Solomon 1:6).

    Thus, as a husband, you cannot afford to be lazy. Your hands must be working hands. God’s Word says: Wealth gotten by vanity shall be diminished: but he that gathereth by labour shall increase (Proverbs 13:11). There is dignity in labour. In fact, God’s Word enjoins that a man who is too slothful to find gainful employment should not eat (2 Thessalonians 3:10).

    You are also responsible for catering for your wife and children. If you fail in this duty, you are a failure indeed! It is a curse for the wife to take on this responsibility.

    To the woman, everything you have belongs to your husband, even your income. If you are employed outside the home, you must submit all to him. This is so because in family finance, there should be no ‘his’ and ‘hers’. Both should have access to each other’s money. Where there is a joint account, no one should spend money without informing the other.

    Trust is the key word in family finance. Husband and wife must trust each other enough to put their money together and be prudent in spending it. Note that accountability boost trust. In a situation whereby no one wants to be accountable to the other, there will be no progress financially. The virtuous woman in Proverbs 31:11 is trustworthy!

    Another key point in the area of family finance is giving.  God is a giving God. He demonstrated His love for man by taking the initiative and giving us His Son, even when no man understood what He was doing and could not say, “Thank you”.

    Therefore, if you claim to be God’s children, you must imitate Him in all things (1 John 4:7). Giving gifts to one another spices up the family. You can take initiative to surprise your spouse and children with thoughtful little gifts. If it did wonders for you during your courtship days, it will do you no harm to carry the habit over into the family.

    Since two are better than one (Ecclesiastes 4:9), you can “better” your giving to the Lord by giving as a family, thus making better your receiving (Luke 6:38). As a family, you must be encouraged to sow seeds. Ensure that your tithe and offering are paid, either separately as husband, wife and children or together as a family. There is a portion to eat and a portion to sow (Proverbs 11:24).

    As a family, you must also be generous to the poor, the underprivileged, and those who do not have as much as you do.  God loves the merciful and releases blessings upon them (Proverbs 28:27). When you reach out to bless the poor, God ensures that you do not lack.

    It is also wisdom to give to men of God. As a couple, especially, you must provoke each other to do right things. Sowing to men of God, who are placed over us is right and provokes great blessings from the Lord. God is glorified when you handle your money this way.

    Also, you have an undeniable responsibility towards your parents. It is your duty to honour your parents according to how God has blessed you. You must honour your parents if life must be well with you (Ephesians 6:1-3).

    The “grace to be responsible” in the area of finances is the privilege of those born again. You can become born again by confessing your sins and accepting Jesus Christ into your life. If you are ready for this, please say this prayer: Dear Lord Jesus Christ, I come to You today. I am a sinner. Forgive me of my sins and cleanse me with Your Blood. Deliver me from sin and satan to serve the living God. I accept You as my Lord and Saviour. Make me a child of God today. Thank You for accepting me into Your Kingdom.

    If you prayed this simple prayer, you are now a child of God. He loves you and will never leave you. Read your Bible daily, obey God’s Word and seek Christian fellowship (John 14:21).

    Congratulations! You are now born again! All-round rest and peace are guaranteed you, in Jesus’ Name. Call or write, and share your testimonies with me through contact@faithoyedepo.org, pstfaithoyedepo@gmail.com; OR 07026385437 and 08141320204.

     

    For more insight, these books authored by me are available at the Dominion Bookstores in all Living Faith Churches and other leading Christian bookstores: Marriage Covenant, Making Marriage Work, Building A Successful Home and Success in Marriage (Co-Authored).

  • Perils of the post-truth era (3)

    In the last two week, there has been an intensification of the ongoing spat between the media and U.S. President Donald Trump. It took on a different dimension when Trump break with tradition by opting out of the White House correspondents’ dinner and by calling the media the “enemy of the people.”

    There are several perils I can point out with this style of governance and communication. Like I mentioned in previous parts, I’m concerned that leaders with dictatorial tendencies – especially in Africa and the third world – would latch onto this style and limit the fundamental rights of free speech. In the first instance, deliberate misinformation is notoriously hard to correct once it is released, and social media, in particular, has a reputation for spreading factually inaccurate statements and conspiracy theories. A classic example back home is the controversy surrounding President Muhammadu Buhari’s health.

    One study I came across examined five years of Facebook posts about conspiracy theories. The authors found that people tend to latch onto stories that fit their preexisting narratives about the world and share those stories with their social circle. The result is a “proliferation of biased narratives fomented by unsubstantiated rumours, mistrust, and paranoia.” They found that although corrections to errors eventually emerged, they didn’t have the same reach as the original misinformation.

    Second, because Trump’s communication style relies heavily on anger, people who are predisposed to his message may become even less critical of potential misinformation. Research suggests that when people are angry, they evaluate misinformation in a partisan way, typically accepting the misleading claims that favour their narrative. Most Nigerians can relate to the pre and post 2015 elections events in the country; something that is still very much around and shaping several narratives.

    Thirdly, a communications strategy based on Trump style inherently makes enemies of anyone who would seek to reinstate the truth and expose statements as misinformation. Journalists, scientists, experts and even government officials who disagree with this style are subject to charges of ineptitude, partisanship or conspiracy.

    Let’s now switch focus to how Trump was able to “bulldoze” his way into the White House against “all odds” and the communication lessons we can learn from it. This is against the backdrop of his speaking mistruths with little consideration for their factual accuracy.

    It doesn’t matter whether you love him or hate him; it’s hard to deny the man is a master of communication. His style simply resonates with many people. Although Trump’s candidacy will undoubtedly change how future politicians approach communication, the implications of his success are much broader.

    The first lesson is “understanding the time.” It is glaring now that we live in a post-modern and post-trust era where citizens looks at every institution – government to business – with incredible scepticism. Voters are anxious, angry and open to alternatives – whatever alternatives. Trump understood this and worked feverishly to fill this void. Gaffes aside, Trump used his strategies to shift his image from an insensitive capitalist billionaire to influential ‘man of the people.’

    He has a “clear narrative,” a master story that he sticks to. He preys on the people’s fears of terrorists and immigrants and made that a consistent narrative. Not even former President Obama’s reminder that all Americans – except Native Americans – were once immigrants could deter those that believe in him. Everywhere he went, this message was consistent; “no shaking,” to use a popular Nigerian lingo.

    He also understands and taps into simple, emotional truths. As a result of globalization and competition, some jobs left the U.S seeking cheaper sources of production and profit – in tune with classic capitalism. This shift left a lot of workers jobless – the so called “white working class.” In reality, this cuts across all races, but Trump cashed in on this to gain the support of disgruntled whites.

    Understanding the people’s emotions meant he also speaks their language. He reframes every debate question into language he prefers. He is deliberately; decidedly different from his peers in both his style and approach. He defined this as not being “politically correct.” He hit hard on the “establishment” which was why all his fellow contestants fell on the wayside.

    Fundamentally, Trump consistently relates all of his ideas back to a master slogan: “Make America great again.” While he was doing this, a more experienced candidate like Jeb Bush did not even clarify to the public just what he stood for – beyond being anti-Trump. None of the contenders questioned what being great again portends. On the other hand, Trump ensured his campaign carries momentum by practicing consistency and discipline in his message.

    The struggle for power – in some instances – is sometimes fought using unconventional means. This means that elections are not fought using reason; they’re fought using emotion. Trump recognises this, and while his rivals focused on debating various issues, Trump was busy leading an emotional movement. Lindsay Graham had the best technical understanding of any of the candidates, but he dropped out of the GOP race because he couldn’t convey his message in a captivating way.

    Often, the way to persuade people is to tap into what matters to them emotionally. Trump offers that by persistently raising issues that strike emotional chords with voters. A close parallel in Nigeria is Governor Ayodele Fayose of Ekiti State to whom “stomach infrastructure” was attached. Fayose knows his people and they know him. He effectively branded opponents as “arrogant” and “far from the people.” He has continued with his unique system of governance to date.

    Trump was probably the wealthiest of all the candidates, but he came across to many as “deeply human” by using the peoples’ vernacular. He cuts through the complexity of political conversations and talks as he would every day. For example, Rand Paul had more populist ideas, but his language is often “academic” and “sophisticated” to the people. Paul comes across as though he was speaking only to an intellectual elite; Trump aims to speak to everyone.

    In 2013, it was widely believed that Mitt Romney’s 47 percent comment derailed his campaign. Although he had many of the same vulnerabilities that Trump had in the just concluded election, but Trump dealt with his problems more effectively. If voters accuse him of being racist, he says he’s for security. When he’s accused of being sexist, he reframes the argument – and says he’s not sexist, but simply against imposed “political correctness.” Whatever the issue, Trump often reframes the question of his character and puts things into more favourable narrative.

    Though his peers fight to be better than one another, Trump focuses his time on a simpler task: “being different.” Most voters can predict what will come out of the mouths of most politicians, but Trump keeps people interested with the possibility that he’ll say something unexpected. Every other GOP candidate sounds similar, but there was only one Trump.

    Trump really did his homework by understanding citizenship communication. He fully and expertly exploited the discontent in the society just like Daniel Kanu did with the Biafra issue in Nigeria. If we dig deep, the hundreds of thousands of youth falling over the rallying cry of Biafra have other grievances at the back of their minds, Biafra happens to provide the springboard for them to vent their frustrations.

    The lesson: whenever there’s discontent in the society you need a higher kind of communication to counter populists who would exploit it. Two things are critical in analyzing Trump. First, there is definitely a pattern to his patois. And second, whether deliberate or not – and there’s reason to think it may be more deliberate than it seems – the man’s style of speaking developed into a remarkably effective delivery mechanism for his message. No matter how much the media mocked it; “Trumpese” – as we’ve seen – helped Trump rather than hurt him.

    Interestingly, Trump didn’t employ speechwriters. He rarely relies on Teleprompters. He barely even uses notes. He basically “improvises his speeches.” At a point in his campaign, his twitter account was “taken away” from him to prevent his angry tirade on twitter which can come at any time of the day. This is the uniqueness of the post truth era.

  • Lagos targets 3,000mw by 2022

    Lagos targets 3,000mw by 2022

    Lagos State Governor Akinwunmi Ambode yesterday said his administration planned to achieve 24-hour power supply by generating 3000 megawatts of electricity by 2022.

    The governor spoke after receiving a report from the Embedded Power Technical Committee at the Lagos House, Ikeja.

    He said the sustainable solution would be the pooling together of commitment and resources of stakeholders in the power value chain.

    Explaining the rationale behind government’s embedded power initiative,  Ambode listed transmission as the major point, adding that the initiative was designed to resolve the power crisis in the state.

    He said: “The reason why we embarked on this initiative is that we believe if the power problem is solved in Lagos, it is technically solved in the country.

    “The problem of power in Nigeria is the problem of transmission and that is the truth. Yes, we have generating companies and we have distributing companies and they say power is in the hands of the private sector but we know technically that that is not totally true.

    “We also know that transmission is hundred per cent owned by government but we have tested here in Lagos and we have been able to provide 48 kilowatts of power without transmitting it, which means that we generate and then distribute.

    “So, if that works for 48 kilowatts, can we put Lagos into clusters and actually use embedded power initiative to drive the business of Lagos?

    “That is what this initiative is all about and I want to thank stakeholders for submitting their business template.”

    Ambode said the state’s target is to generate 3,000mw through accelerated deployment of various embedded power plants in strategic locations in the state.

    Of the 3000mw, the governor said 350mw would be delivered by Q1 2018, additional 850mw by Q4 2018 and the balance of 1,800mw not later than Q3 2022.

     The government will support the Power Purchase Agreements (PPAs) to be signed between the distribution companies and the embedded power providers, to enhance bankability of the projects.

    He said the embedded power would be distributed off-grid through the  Eko and Ikeja Distribution Companies.

     The government will support the distribution companies to upgrade their distribution infrastructure and installation of smart prepaid metres in the areas where embedded power is deployed.

    Other areas of collaboration, according to Ambode, would include support for collection, appropriate legislation and enforcement of power theft laws.

    Ambode added that his administration will collaborate with operators of oil blocks in the Lagos area to accelerate the extraction of gas feedstocks for power generation.

    Responding, Chairman of Eko Distribution Company Charles Momoh praised the governor for the initiative, saying Lagos would be better for it.

    Commissioner for Energy and Mineral Resources Wale Oluwo said thorough implementation of the report would address electricity problem in the state.

  • Troops arrest 3,332 suspected insurgents in one month

    Troops arrest 3,332 suspected insurgents in one month

    Three thousand, three hundred and thirty two suspected insurgents were arrested by troops of Operation Lafiya Dole between January and February 1, in a mop-up operation following the sack of Samabisa forest, it was learnt yesterday.

    The Theater Commander of Operation LAFIYA DOLE, Maj.-Gen. Lucky Irabor, spoke during the weekly live media briefing in Maiduguri.

    Of the over 3,000 arrested, 26 were foreigners, comprising 17 Chadians and nine from the Republic of Niger. Five others surrendered to troops.

    According to the Army chief, 112 persons died in the error attack on the Internally Displaced Persons (IDPs) camp in Rann, Kala/Balge Local Government of Borno State, it was learnt yesterday.

    Gen. Irabor said gun vehicles, arms, ammunition, four military trucks,  foodstuff, N872,000, drugs, clothes and others were recovered from the terrorists’ hideout.

    A syndicate of nine different suspected suppliers and agents were also arrested while eight trucks carrying foodstuff and fertilisers were intercepted. The syndicates are undergoing interrogation, Gen. Irabor said.

    He added that seven rustlers were intercepted with 34 cows and are being interrogated; eight women going to Kano State from Niger Republic were also arrested. They are being investigated.

    According to the military chief, they will be handed over to the Nigeria Immigration Service (NIS).

    Gen. Irabor added that 26 insurgents were killed in various operations. He regretted that five soldiers were killed and five injured, as well as three others, including a Civilian JTF.

  • A new wine for a new bottle (3)

    Dear Reader,It is a great privilege to share with you from the Word of God. Last week, I shared on: God’s move for the end-time. Today, I will be examining the topic: “The requirement for the New Wine”

    What Can I Do To Be A Partaker Of This New Wine?

    What can I do to become a new bottle in the hands of God? The Bible says: But new wine must be put into new bottles; and both are preserved” “No man also having drunk old wine straightway desireth new: for he saith, the old is better (Luke 5:39). If you sit down to think about it, you will discover very clearly that there are certain things that vessels who want to become new bottle in the hands of God must be ready to do, in order to partake of this new move. In the course of this teaching, I will mention one of these qualities.

    God has a container in His hand and He is ready to pour the new wine into as many vessels that will come before Him. God is getting the wine ready in His container and He is looking for people to pour His new wine into. Right now, He is distinguishing between the goat and the sheep; He is looking for the bottles that have been refined and are ready to partake of the new wine. That brings us to the first requirement for this new wine:

    PURGE YOURSELF

    The first thing the Bible tells us that such bottles must be ready to do to partake of the new wine is to purge himself or herself from the old wine.  Any bottle that wants to be a container of the new wine must be ready to purge himself of all the leaven.

    So, if you and I want to be partakers of the new wine that God is ready to pour out in our time and days, the first thing we must do is to purge ourselves of the leaven. The Bible tells us in 1 Corinthians 5:6 that: “Don’t you know that the little leaven leaveneth the whole lump?” A little leaven, no matter how small it may be, when you mix it with flour, the effect is always tremendous and visible. I don’t know what leaven you need to purge yourself of at this moment: it may be the leaven of pride or anger; or those little things that you say don’t really matter.

    The new wine cannot stay in the same bottle with that leaven. It may be the leaven of little lies that you tell and you say to yourself: “Oh! It doesn’t really matter.” The old bottle cannot contain the new wine. If you put the new wine in the old bottle, the bottle is going to burst or get destroyed. God doesn’t want you and I destroyed; rather, He wants us to make our lives living sacrifices in His house.

    There is a story in the Bible about Ananias and Sapphira. There was a time in the history of the church, when God began to do a new thing just like He is determined to do in our days. God was busy pouring out the new wine into new bottles when suddenly, Ananias and Sapphira brought in their old bottles and wanted the new wine poured into it. The end result was a great calamity. The Bible tells us that they were destroyed; they died physically just because of that little leaven that was still in their lives. I don’t know you, and I don’t know the leaven that is in your life but you know it. That is why the Bible says: if we judge ourselves truly, we shall not be judged. Every Sunday morning, we all go to church, sing to God and listen to the Word of God; yes. But from Monday to Saturday, what is your life like?

    Everyone who comes to church on meeting days appear holy and righteous before God; but on other days of the week, what kind of life do you live? What is that leaven that is in your life? It may be so tiny and small, according to you, but remember the Bible says: “Little leaven leaveneth the whole lump.” Let’s read that verse of Scripture together: Your glorying is not good.  Know ye not that a little leaven leaveneth the whole lump? Purge out therefore the old leaven that ye may be a new lump, as ye are unleavened.  For even Christ our Passover is sacrificed for us. Therefore let us keep the feast, not with old leaven, neither with the leaven of malice and wickedness, but with the unleavened bread of sincererity and truth (1 Corinthians 5:6-8).

    There are leavens of malice and wickedness; yours may not be either of this but I am sure you know what yours is. God is giving you and I another opportunity, today, to get the leaven out of our lives. The Bible says: “The little foxes that spoils the vine” (SOS 2:15). As little as they seem, they have the power to spoil your vine. Don’t ever forget that your vine have tender grapes; therefore, give no place to the enemy. God is getting ready for His people; He is building for Himself an army, but that little leaven in your life can be a deterrent to you being a partaker of this new wine. You must examine yourself as every day comes, and make sure that you don’t give room to any leaven in your life.

    You will discover that some of these leaven come so subtly on man. They come so gently, they enter so secretly and anyone that is not careful will open up a place to the enemy.

    Maybe you just did something good and everybody says, “Oh! That sister is just wonderful. That brother is just great. Oh! What a mighty thing.” Before you know what is happening, the devil says that you are the wicked and crooked person in your environment. Then, you look at yourself and say, “Me! oh!” You may not tell the next person to you, but you say in your heart, “As great and wonderful as I am?” The devil says, “It doesn’t matter.” As a result, you too start crying. Subtly, that is the leaven the enemy uses to see what he can do or how he can eat up the tender vine that God has given to you.

    The Bible says that we should give no place to the devil. You have the power to refuse the devil at will. I don’t know what that leaven in your life is, but you have the duty to make sure that you don’t give room to it. The Bible says that pride goes before destruction; it comes in subtly. It is, therefore, a matter and conviction of the heart. No other person knows that thing which exists in your life. Maybe, you are the only person who knows that leaven; do yourself a lot of good by purging your life of that leaven and giving no place to them. As you do so, you are preparing yourself as a new bottle for the wine of God this end-time.

    Every heart that desires to be a partaker of the new wine for this end-time must first make his life available to God by accepting Jesus Christ as his Lord and Saviour. This is an opportunity for you to give your life to Jesus, right now. If you are ready to be born again, please say this prayer: Dear Lord Jesus Christ, I come to You today. I am a sinner. Forgive me of my sins and cleanse me with Your Blood. Deliver me from sin and satan to serve the living God. I accept You as my Lord and Saviour. Make me a child of God today. Thank You for accepting me into Your Kingdom.

    If you prayed this simple prayer, you are now a child of God. He loves you and will never leave you. Read your Bible daily, obey God’s Word and seek Christian fellowship (John 14:21).

    Congratulations! You are now born again! All-round rest and peace are guaranteed you, in Jesus’ Name. Call or write, and share your testimonies with me through contact@faithoyedepo.org, pstfaithoyedepo@gmail.com; OR 07026385437 and 08141320204.

    For more insight, these books authored by me are available at the Dominion Bookstores in all Living Faith Churches and other leading Christian bookstores: Marriage Covenant, Making Marriage Work, Building A Successful Home and Success in Marriage (Co-Authored).

  • How to improve on your marriage (3)

    Dear Reader,

    Peace and blessings be multiplied to you in this month of the birth of our Lord Jesus Christ. In my first lesson, I told you that marriage is a miracle. Last week, I looked at marriage covenant responsibilities.

    This week, I want you to Beware Of Divorce! Enjoying a loving home is God’s utmost desire for you and your spouse this Christmas and forever. That was His design from the beginning of creation.

    Divorce can be likened to marital amputation. It causes a lot of grief, pains, and wounds that only God can heal. Even when a wound heals, the scar remains, and in most cases, for life.  Give no place to divorce. Remember, prevention is said to be better than cure. When there is a challenge in your home, divorce should not be the first option that comes to mind. Rather, it is important to first identify and analyse the challenge.

    In the beginning of the institution of marriage, divorce was not a part of the original plan, and was never supposed to be. The Word of God says: Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh (Genesis 2:24). Note the word “Man shall leave, cleave and become one flesh”.

    God hates putting away! The Word of God says: For the Lord, the God of Israel, saith that he hateth putting away (Malachi 2:16). What God says He hates, you should hate too. If you move close to any divorcee, you will observe that they themselves go through a lot of pains and agonies, and their children go through turmoil, and devastation. God views husband and wife as being bounded together in a permanent marriage relationship, and nothing should be allowed to put them apart.

    My husband used to say, “To be slow and sure is better than to be fast and foolish”. My husband and I courted for six years.  Throughout that time, we did a proper study with all sincerity of each other’s character, vision and goals. If you are not contemplating divorce, then there is no need to rush into marriage. Take your time; be sure of what you are getting into. If it is a living family you desire, prepare yourself for it and enter into it with God’s backing and certainty.

    Divorce is not as easy as it sounds, because it is not only limited to legally ending a marriage, but putting death where life once was. For those of you about getting married or yet to be married, be very careful.

    In case you are reading this article right now and you are considering divorce, and you think there is no way out. Just hold it! Who knows, this might be the reason God gave you the opportunity of reading a material like this. If only you will accept and follow God’s master plan, your story will change for the better!

    Or are you already divorced? Do not allow a sense of condemnation to overwhelm and destroy your colourful future. God can still perform His wonders in your life. Do you believe a miracle can still take place in your life and family to bring about a restoration? God is the Restorer, and I know that He will restore your marriage, if you allow Him.

    I hope this brother’s testimony will boost your faith:

    “I read your article in the newspaper. In fact, I have seen a lot of changes in my life, which prompted me to give this glorious testimony of the wonderful works of our Lord Jesus Christ.

    I got married in 1977 as an unbeliever, before I joined the police force in the year 2000. But somehow, my marriage broke up as a result of so many things. But God rebuilt the marriage from the advice and instruction I got from your article.

    I congratulate you for your effort in enlightening young men and women concerning their marital lives, so that their marriages will be peaceful and successful.” Udual, A.

    I see God giving you your own testimony, too, in Jesus’ name!

    You need the grace of God upon your life to be able to stay in your covenant marriage. This grace is only released to those who are born again. You can become born again by confessing your sins and accepting Jesus as your own Lord and personal Saviour. If you are set for this new birth experience, you can say this prayer and be born again: Dear Lord Jesus Christ, I come to You today. I am a sinner. Forgive me of my sins and cleanse me with Your Blood. Deliver me from sin and satan to serve the living God. I accept You as my Lord and Saviour. Make me a child of God today. Thank You for accepting me into Your Kingdom.

    If you prayed this simple prayer, you are now a child of God. He loves you and will never leave you. Read your Bible daily, obey God’s Word and seek Christian fellowship (John 14:21).

    Congratulations! You are now born again! All-round rest and peace are guaranteed you, in Jesus’ Name. Call or write, and share your testimonies with me through contact@faithoyedepo.org; OR 07026385437 and 08141320204.

    For more insight, these books authored by me are available at the Dominion Bookstores in all Living Faith Churches and other leading Christian bookstores: Marriage Covenant, Making Marriage Work, Building A Successful Home and Success in Marriage (Co-Authored).

  • Marriage: A lifetime covenant (3)

    Dear Reader,

    I count it a great privilege to share God’s Word with you through this medium. It is my prayer that as you apply the series of teachings that you have received this month, they shall bring a positive change in your life and marriage in Jesus’ name.

    I discussed the origin of marriage with you in my first lesson for this month. Three weeks ago, I taught you Marriage Covenant Responsibilities. In last week’s teaching, I told you that marriage is a miracle. Today, I want you to Make Right the Wrongs of Your Marriage Covenant.

    Some people get troubled when they read materials like this, probably because they have been living together with their partners without payment of dowry, or any formal engagement/ public Christian wedding. This is not a holy union. So many couples have been living together for years and have even had children without a proper marriage.

    Instead of feeling or living in condemnation, you need to make things right today. In case you are not legally married and you fall into this category, go right away and make things right by paying the dowry. Go and legalise your union. You can do this, simply, by going to the registry for a court wedding. Thereafter, look for a minister of the gospel to bless your union.

    Time never corrects an error! An error yesterday remains an error today, except it is corrected. You can make a wrong, right!  Many people pass through a lot of difficulties in their marriages today, because of the wrong foundation of their union. I have seen women being driven out of their homes at the death of their husbands, because their union was “illegal”. The woman has no voice, because she has no legal backing. Wisdom is profitable to direct (Ecclesiastics 10: 10).

    I remember a woman I counselled sometime ago. She had been going through a tough time in her home and was ready to call it quit. To top it up, she had no child. When I interviewed her closely, I discovered that there were a lot of loopholes in her marriage. Her dowry was not paid, and there was nothing legally binding her and the man together as husband and wife. No court wedding, no church wedding; both of them just started living together!

    I counselled her to ensure that the dowry was paid, legal papers signed in the court of law, and that their union be blessed by a minister of the gospel. The next time I saw her, she was over-joyous and full of testimonies. To the glory of God, today all is well with that marriage. To crown it all, she was also expecting a baby as at that time!

    A good example of a proper marriage is recorded in Genesis.  It clearly shows us how a formal wedding should be conducted.  Adam did not just rise up to find Eve wandering about in another part of the garden, and he decided to take her home and they just started living together as husband and wife. The Word of God says: And the rib, which the Lord God had taken from man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man (Genesis 2:22). Take note of the word, ‘brought her unto the man’. God was the One, Who brought the woman to the man.

    Since marriage is the basis for a successful family, then, you must first be married before you can enjoy a successful family life. If the foundation of your marriage is not built on the instructions of the Word of God, there is no way you will have a fulfilled family life. It is important, therefore, that you go and pay the dowry, if it has not been paid. This is scriptural.

    There is another account in the Scriptures of how a typical wedding and all that is required should be done. The Word of God says: And they called Rebekah, and said unto her, Wilt thou go with this man? And she said, I will go. And they sent away Rebekah their sister, and her nurse, and Abraham’s servant, and his men. And they blessed Rebekah, and said unto her, Thou art our sister, be thou the mother of thousands of millions, and let thy seed possess the gate of those which hate them (Genesis 24:58-60).

    A parental blessing is very important in a marriage covenant. It is something you cannot rule out. There is something about the blessings your parents pronounce on you that makes it stick on you until all their good wishes are established in your life. From the above Scripture, Abraham’s servant did not just grab Rebekah and disappeared with her. Due procedures were properly followed and the blessings of her parent became a practical reality in her life.

    Some years ago, I shared this truth at one of our women conventions. Meanwhile, a couple had been living together for almost 10 years without being properly married, had three children but the lady’s parents refused to consent to their marriage. After the convention, they decided to make peace and do the right thing. They had been up and down financially over the years. They invested so much, but had very little in return. They were very zealous for the things of God, they are covenant practitioner; yet, there was nothing to show for it. They met the lady’s family, paid the dowry, went to church and had their union blessed by one of the pastors.

    Soon after, great business doors opened for them, their lives took a new turn and they began to enjoy all manner of favours. Thereafter, they built their own house and even bought a Mercedes Benz car, all through the simple act of making wrong, right in their union. Your own testimony will be the next!

    It is also very important in your marriage covenant to acknowledge the place of a holy Christian wedding. The Word of God says: And the rib, which the Lord God had taken from man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man (Genesis 2:22). In this verse of Scripture, we see God’s practical involvement in the institution of marriage. He gave Eve out to Adam. It is, therefore, unsafe for you to go into marriage without God. This will definitely attract the attacks of the devil. You shall not be a victim in Jesus’ name!

    God is your Father, and only a bastard would desire to go outside his father’s house to get married. The presence of God makes all the difference in a man’s life. Therefore, don’t go about without carrying the presence of God; it is dangerous!

    You also need a proper legal documentation of your union.   This is a point of contact to remind God that you have fulfilled all righteousness concerning your marriage; as such, the enemy must not have access into your family.

    You need the grace of God to make the wrong, right in your marriage. That grace is available to every born again child of God. You can say this prayer and shall be born again: “Dear Lord Jesus Christ, I come to You today. I am a sinner. Forgive me of my sins and cleanse me with Your Blood. Deliver me from sin and satan to serve the living God. I accept You as my Lord and Saviour. Make me a child of God today. Thank You for accepting me into Your Kingdom.”

    If you prayed this simple prayer, you are now a child of God. He loves you and will never leave you. Read your Bible daily, obey God’s Word and seek Christian fellowship (John 14:21).

    Congratulations! You are now born again! All-round rest and peace are guaranteed you, in Jesus’ Name. Call or write, and share your testimonies with me through contact@faithoyedepo.org; OR 07026385437 and 08141320204.

     

    For more insight, these books authored by me are available at the Dominion Bookstores in all Living Faith Churches and other leading Christian bookstores: Marriage Covenant, Making Marriage Work, Building A Successful Home and Success in Marriage (Co-Authored).