Tag: Blessing Obasi

  • Why I don’t do 50/50 with my husband – Blessing Obasi

    Why I don’t do 50/50 with my husband – Blessing Obasi

    Actress Blessing Obasi Nze has opened up about the financial dynamics in her marriage to actor Stan Nze.

    Speaking in an interview with Ife, Blessing said their approach to finances is based on mutual responsibility and trust, rather than a specific sharing formula.

    The movie producer explained that she and her husband take full responsibility for expenses, with each partner contributing their best without measuring who contributes more.

    According to her, they pay for things as needed and exchange receipts to keep a record of expenses, allowing them to function as a team.

    Nze advised against fixing money ratios in marriage, saying it can make the relationship feel too formal and transactional.

    “It’s 100/100. There is no 50/50 with me and my partner. We just do things equally and sometimes he does it and just sends the receipt to me, and I do likewise. I bring mine, he brings his. Our goal is to make it work. I can’t be doing 50/50 or 70/30 because it’s like office work already,” she said

    She emphasised that their focus is on partnership and support, with each person stepping in whenever necessary.

    Blessing Nze, who got married to Stan Nze in September 2021 and welcomed their first child in October 2023, believes this approach helps them make their marriage work.

  • Stan Nze, Blessing Obasi celebrate third wedding anniversary

    Stan Nze, Blessing Obasi celebrate third wedding anniversary

    Actors Stan Nze and Blessing Obasi are celebrating their third wedding anniversary.

    The couple got married in September 2018 in Lagos and have a one-year-old son.

    In a heartfelt Instagram post, Stan expressed his gratitude for the past three years with Blessing, calling her the “most amazing woman alive”.

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    He wrote: “3 years of being 1 with the most amazing woman alive. 3 years of experiencing God’s faithfulness and goodness firsthand.

    “We said “Yes” exactly 3 years ago and today I am saying “Yes” over and over again cos I won’t have it any other way. Happy 3rd Anniversary to us baby @blessingjessicaobasi”.

    Stan’s sweet message was accompanied by a romantic photo of the couple, with Blessing responding with a loving comment.

  • Stan Nze, Blessing Obasi celebrate son on 1st birthday

    Stan Nze, Blessing Obasi celebrate son on 1st birthday

    Actors Stan Nze and Blessing Obasi, have finally shared heartfelt posts to celebrate their son Jayden’s first birthday.

    Stan Nze expressed his joy, stating that Jayden has brought immense love and peace to their family.

    He prayed for God’s guidance and wisdom to raise their son.

    “Mazi Nze Jnr. Ichie Billi Billi, the 2nd. My one and only Jay Bobo @jay_nze

    “Son, you have brought so much more love and peace to our family, and we couldn’t have asked for any other gift.

    As you celebrate your Big 1 today, I pray that God keeps giving us the grace and wisdom to train you how you should go. Happy 1st Birthday Big Boy. I love you, scatter.”

    Blessing Obasi on the other hand, wrote an emotional note, calling Jayden the crown of her youth and her gift from God.

    She shared their journey, from praying for him to discovering her pregnancy, and expressed her joy and gratitude for their little warrior.

    “To My Son, The Crown of My Youth, My Gift from God, My heartbeat in person. I look at you, and I know that God loves me! You are a definition of God’s love for me. Where did time go? 365 days already…Your name I knew, even before you came. While we prayed for you, little did we know that God had done it already. I lived in oblivion for months through the rigorous terrain of shoots and Lagos bustle. Prophecy had gone ahead already. When I found out, I couldn’t contain my joy!! Your dad and I cried…God answered. You are our testimony.

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    “The night prayers, the unexpected turn of events at your delivery, you came…my little warrior. To watch how grown you look today and looking back to how tiny and fragile you were is a testament that God is real!!

    “My darling love, may your days be filled with laughter. My mumu button, I fall in love with you afresh every day. You are beautiful! Your smile warms my heart.

    The Lord bless and keep you. May your path be bathed in light. May you walk in purpose. I can’t express how much I love you. You bring us so much joy. You are covered by the blood of Jesus. My little king… happy happy birthday. Mummy Loves You.”

  • Actress Blessing Obasi praises husband on delivery in ‘Afamefuna’

    Actress Blessing Obasi praises husband on delivery in ‘Afamefuna’

    Actress Blessing Obasi has showered accolades on her husband over his performance in the trending movie “Afamefuna.”

    Declaring undying love for him, she said she couldn’t have been more than thankful to God for bringing him her way. 

    She wrote: “This is a special appreciation post to my Sweetness. Finding the right person to do life with, is a blessing beyond measure, and I couldn’t be more thankful to God for the gift of you @stannze

    “Through the darkest moments, I look around and I find you there, right there with me every step of the way.
    Through the happiest moments, I look around and I see you. Your cheer, so big, it could cover for us both. You are my blessing. It is no shock you stay blessing the world as well.

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    “Guys, have you seen the movie- Afamefuna? Did you see my baby’s role execution? Wow! I think I’ve seen you in roles. Yet time and again, you outdo yourself. Well done! 

    “If you’ve seen Afamefuna, let’s catch up in the comment session. What was your best scene? If you are yet to, what are you waiting for?
    I’m super super proud of you My Sweetness. The world is your stage. Occupy!!!!
    Directed by The Supertalented @kayodekasum Produced by @comeonnaija”.

  • Why my late mother refused to remarry – Blessing Obasi

    Why my late mother refused to remarry – Blessing Obasi

    Actress Blessing Obasi Nze has recounted how her mother, Cecilia Ebereonwwu refused to remarry just because of her. 

    She spoke during the service of songs held in honor of her mother, who passed away on February 4, 2024.

    According to the actress, her late mother was a disciplinarian with fierce, unconditional love who dedicated herself to raising her as a single parent.

    Blessing Obasi said; “My mom is and was a blessing to this generation. My mom was a disciplinarian. She loved, my mom loved with reckless abandon.

    “No matter what you do to her, one thing like everyone has said, If you do anything, my mom will not hold it oo. Instantly, she would tell you whoever you are…. She lived a beautiful life.

    “My mother lived a very, very good life. And I am grateful. It’s such a privilege for me to have been born by her. It’s such a privilege. I think people have said so much about it.

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    “My mom is very hard-working. My mom brought me up single-handedly and she gave me the best that life could offer, and I don’t take that for granted.

    “My mom sacrificed, not getting married again, just so that she can just focus on me. She didn’t want any stepfather issues or anything, no. That’s the kind of person my mother was.

    “She’s in a beautiful place, and for me, the major lesson here is how well are you living your life? What would you be remembered for, really? I think that’s the most important thing, really. What would you be remembered for? “

  • Why I married late, by actress Blessing Obasi

    Why I married late, by actress Blessing Obasi

    Actress Blessing Obasi Nze has revealed why getting married at a young age doesn’t equate to an achievement in life. 

    Blessing stated this on Instagram page where she opened up on how getting married for her at an older age wasn’t just a choice but a journey of self-discovery and resilience .

    The Nation reported that the movie star got married at a late age to her younger colleague, Stan Nze and has been blessed with a boy child. 

    She noted how the pressure and stigma were like unwelcome shadows, whispering doubts and casting long, lonely nights.

    However, in those moments of solitude, she found strength and learned that love isn’t a race nor is marriage a trophy for early achievement.

    Blessing further noted how the world often equates a woman’s worth with her marital status, as she admonished her fans to take their time, walk their path, and embrace it.

    She wrote: “You know, I had to jump on this conversation because, after several years of feeling like an outsider in a world that often equates a woman’s worth with her marital status, I’ve finally stepped into a chapter that I crafted on my own terms.

    “Getting married at an older age wasn’t just a choice; it was a journey of self-discovery, resilience, and breaking free from societal norms that tried to dictate my happiness.

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    “The pressure and stigma were like unwelcome shadows, whispering doubts and casting long, lonely nights. But in those moments of solitude, I found strength. I learned that love isn’t a race, nor is marriage a trophy for early achievement. It’s about finding someone who understands the chapters of your past and wants to write the future ones with you.

    “So here I am, not a bride of youthful naivety, but a woman adorned in the wisdom of her years, ready to embark on a shared journey of love, respect, and partnership. And to those still walking their path, remember: your life, your pace, your story. Embrace it.

    “Thank you @joysoapng_ for giving your platform for these conversations to be had. We see you seeing us”.