Tag: brother

  • Suntai’s brother wins House ticket

    Suntai’s brother wins House ticket

    Taraba State Governor Dambaba Suntai’s younger brother, Babangida, has emerged as the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) House of Representives flag bearer in Bali/Gassol Constituency.

    Also, Acting Governor Abubakar Sani Danladi is the PDP senatorial candidate for  Northern Taraba Zone. A source said, although the ticket was reserved for the former acting governor, Garba Umar, the  party changed its mind, following protests by top party leaders.

    Danladi, who hails from Karim-Lamido Local Government Area, has been Suntai’s deputy since 2007.

    Danladi was impeached in October 2012 by the House of Assembly. But, the Supreme Court ordered his reinstatement in November last year. The ticket is a payback for Danladi, who initially refused to contest, added the source.

    Babangida Suntai exuded confidence, saying that he will win the general election. He said he successfully resisted attempts to edge him out of the primaries.

    He added: “I am very happy that I have gotten the ticket. It was really tough, but I forged ahead. They told me to run for the House of Assembly, but I refused. Others asked me to step down so that they will ‘settle’ me, but I forged ahead.”

    Suntai was planning to run for the Senate after the expiration of his second term. But, the plane crash truncated his ambition. His associates said that he is happy that his younger brother became a parliamentary aspirant.

    Babangida Suntai defeated the House of Representatives member, Haruna Manu, at the primaries.

    However, Manu was elected as the running mate to the governorship candidate, Darius Dickson Ishaku.

  • ‘My brother was under pressure to get  married but he died on wedding day’

    ‘My brother was under pressure to get married but he died on wedding day’

    One of the siblings of a man, Chukwuemeka Batholomew Nzekwe, who died on his wedding day, has revealed how his brother was put under pressure to get married by family members.

    The wedding ceremony turned tragic in Ekwulobia community, Anambra State on Saturday August 9, 2014, when the groom Chukwuemeka, died on his way to church.

    The 38-year-old man, according to a family source who spoke in confidence, rode on a power bike with his best man to beat the traffic when a man who wanted to alight from a car parked beside the road hit them with the door.

    “My brother had for long been disturbed by our family members to get married and we all were very happy when he announced that he had found a lady he would marry. He had concluded all necessary arrangements that could make the wedding ceremony grand.

    “He chose to ride with his best man on a power bike in order to beat the heavy traffic on the road, not knowing that it would lead to his death.

    “The incident happened at about 9.30 am when an occupant of a vehicle parked along the road hit them with the door of the car when he wanted to alight.

    “My brother fell on his head to the ground and died instantly while his best man is in critical condition in a private hospital.”

    The news of the incident shattered the joy of family members and guests who were seated in the church and brought the service to an abrupt end.

    “Although, the bride (name withheld) was taken away from the church, she was so traumatised that she now talks like someone who has gone nuts,” the family source added.

  • Suspected gunmen abduct Bayelsa Speaker’s brother

    Suspected gunmen have kidnapped Iniokpoemi, the younger brother to the Bayelsa State House of Assembly Speaker Kombowei Benson.

    He was abducted about 3am yesterday.

    The incident occurred a few days after Florentina, the nonagenarian mother of Senator Emmanuel Paulker and Pa Benson Adigio-Eseni, the octogenarian uncle to the former Governor Timipre Sylva were kidnapped.

    The police and other security agents were still making efforts to rescue Adigio-Eseni and Paulker when the abductors of Benson struck at Korokorosei in Southern Ijaw Local Government.

    The hoodlums were said to have shot in the air before whisking away Benson, the immediate past chairman of the Community Development Association (CDA) in the area.

    The Speaker’s younger brother is the second victim of abduction in the Benson extended family.

    His 86-year-old mother-in-law, Ogboru Orumo Dark, popularly called Obololo, was in March kidnapped about 1am from her home in Seibiri compound in the same community.

    A source, who preferred anonymity, said the gunmen created panic through their gunshots.

    “They came on a speedboat, bundled him and ferried him away through the waterways. They must have taken him to the creeks,” the source said.

    Police Commissioner Hilary Opara confirmed the incident.

    He said: “We have got information on the incident. The District Police Officer (DPO) and the Assistant Commissioner of Police have briefed me. The good thing is that we know the direction the hoodlums took. So, we will arrest them and rescue the victim.”

    Opara said they were also working to rescue Paulker.

    “We have made progress in that incident. We arrested one of them within hours and the next day we apprehended three more suspects, who are helping us in our investigation.”

  • Hat-trick hero Kehinde Fatai dedicates goals to twin brother

    Nigeria striker Kehinde Fatai has  said his memorable treble for Romanian club Astra Giurgiu in a UEFA Europa League qualifying match are dedicated to his twin brother, Taye.

    Fatai fired hat-trick in a 3-0 win over Liberec in a third round qualifying clash on Thursday night.

    He told AfricanFootball.com: “I am so happy that I scored a hat-trick, and we won 3-0. It was a great moment for me.

    “I have scored six goals in three games now, I thank God.

    “I dedicate all the goals to my twin brother, Taye. He is always around me and encourages me.”

    The former JUTH FC striker opened the scoring in the fourth minute with a superb strike, when he picked the ball from the left wing, dribbled past several defenders before he fired the shot into the corner of the net.

    He hit a brace in the 74th minute after he won ball from defenders and he completed his hat-trick in the 81st minute when he tapped in from a rebound.

  • My brother and I used  to date the same girls

    My brother and I used to date the same girls

    The large turnout at the burial of Taiwo Jamani, the CEO of Ireland-based Data Link Company, who died in a Beaumount hospital, Ireland, at about 4 am on November 12, after going into coma for a month, would not come as a surprise to many. Until his death, Jamani was a darling of many of his Nigerian compatriots based in Dublin, the capital city of Ireland. The deceased businessman regarded by many as a philanthropist was laid to rest at Flemington Cemetery, Balscadden Balbriggan, Dublin last Saturday.

    Eyewitness accounts said the more than 2,000 people who attended the burial could not conceal their grief as they wailed endlessly. And while it was an occasion for mourning, it also provided an opportunity for many of the late Jamani’s friends and associates to meet his twin brother, Kehinde, for the first time.

    While he is till saddened by the loss of his brother, Kehinde has decided to take the matter stoically, saying that the only thing left to do was to pray for the repose of his twin brother’s soul. “There is nothing we can do now but leave everything in the hands of God,” he said.

    Consequently, 45- year-old Kehinde says he would not press for charges against his twin brother’s suspected killer. “It is only God who can deal with the person responsible for Taiwo’s death. God will deal with him in His own way. Vengeance is God’s; I cannot handle that,” he posted on his Facebook account.

    And he added that no special effort would be made to immortalise his deceased brother in spite of his popularity before his death. Kehinde believes that the impact he made on the lives of people while he was alive was enough to immortalise his name.

    He also explained why the bereaved family decided not to bring the late Jamani’s body to Nigeria for burial. According to Kehinde, ”Taiwo (Jamani) would have been buried in Nigeria, but all his children are based abroad. Besides, it is a taboo for parents to see the graveyards of their children. That could shorten the lives of their parents, hence the decision to bury him abroad.”

    Kehinde, who lives in the United Kingdom, and his late twin brother are half- Yoruba and half-Edo. His mother, he said, hails from Ekiti, while his father is a native of Auchi. “But we both grew up in Lagos. It was a good experience,” he said.

    He also recalled that as it is common with young identical twins, he and his late brother played many pranks while growing up. And being identical did not come without a price as Kehinde said he was punished many times for the sins of his twin brother just as his twin brother was also punished for his own sins.

    Even their girlfriends, he said, found it difficult to identify them. “Because we were so identical, we ended up dating the same girls when we were growing up,” he recalled.

    At Jamani’s burial, his Dutch wife, Helen, who has two children for Jamani, was the cynosure of all eyes. But Biola, the woman whose boyfriend allegedly killed Jamani because he suspected that they were dating themselves, was absent at the burial. Close sources say she feels embarrassed by the saga and has come under so much pressure that she hardly goes out these days. “Biola no longer goes out like she used to because people are insinuating that Jamani was killed because of her,” a source said.

    Jamani, owner of Data Link Company, Dublin, was allegedly attacked by 37-year-old Jooda Akanbi (a.k.a Sharon) on October 10, on Main Street in Dublin town at about 12.20 pm after an argument broke out between them. It was alleged that Taiwo Jamani was dating Biola, a mother of three, the same woman Jamani’s alleged killer, Akanbi Jooda, was dating.

    Biola has continued to deny ever dating Jamani. In an exclusive interview with an online publication, poddesk.blogspot.com, Biola reportedly voiced her frustration over Jamani’s death.

    “I don’t know what I have done to deserve these hatred and lies flying all over the place about me. Why would they say I was his girlfriend and that he was killed because of me?

    “Taiwo was a very nice guy. He was nice to everybody and to me and my kids. Initially, I never wanted to say anything. I thought that after the burial, everything would die down and Taiwo would rest in peace, but the lies have persisted and they are getting worse.

    “I am human and it is beginning to weigh me down. Why would anybody want to tarnish my image? I just want to make it clear that I never dated Taiwo of blessed memory. He was like a brother to me,“ Biola was quoted as saying.

  • The girlfriend that I love so much is secretly dating my younger brother

    Dear aunty Adeola I love reading your columns every week and it has helped me a lot, now aunty I have a problem that is killing me inside and giving me heartache. My girlfriend that I love very much is dating my younger brother secretly. I noticed it and asked her what is going on between her and my younger brother she said nothing was going on. I am sure that something is going on because I saw some lovely text massage that my brother has been sending her. And any time she comes around she likes staying with him. So Aunty Adeola I really need your advise now because I am confused. – Chike from Imo state.

    You seem to have common sense because you appear to be handling this issue very well by not fighting. In cases like this, you really can’t be too sure that your brother is having an unholy alliance with this girl. The fact that they’re close and send text messages to each shouldn’t ordinarily cause you to be solid sure there’s something between them. But if the text messages are indeed explicit and descriptive of feelings of affection, then you may be right that there is indeed something going on. If that is the case, it’s best to just quietly move on and watch what your brother and the girl will do next without you in the picture. It would be good to know if they will come out and show the world then that they are in love (or lust). Brotherhood is more important than girls; I want you to hold on to that. There will be plenty of girls out there, not just that one. It’s not worth ruining a relationship between two brothers because for all we know, she’s probably laughing at both of you anyway.

  • This‘monster’ is our brother!

    There is a mail making the rounds in social media network routes. It has come on the heels of the savage butchering of a British soldier in broad daylight. It is doubtful if anyone remains who has not heard of the despicable incident that happened in the Woolwich area of London on Wednesday just gone by. The man, Lee Rigby, known as Riggers to his friends and family was first hit by a vehicle, then dragged into the road, then using the tarmac as their slab, the assailants, Michael Adebolajo and Michael Adebowale had his head chopped off…

    In case you have not seen it, I post below, excerpts of the mail, essentially a call to Nigerians, to deny our connection with the assailants suggesting that the links are nothing but tenuous.

    “Nigerians all over the world should speak out and condemn the beheading of a citizen yesterday in UK. The beheading was done by a British citizen and not a Nigerian as speculated; his name does not confirm his nationality. This lunatic was born in the United Kingdom, never been to Nigeria, [he has been] issued a birth certificate in the UK and holds a British passport. Suddenly he is now a Nigerian?

    This guy is not a Nigerian….. British born Michael ‘Mujahid’ Adeboloja with an accomplice yesterday beheaded a British Soldier on a street in Woolwich, London…. Nigeria should just be left out of this…”

    As with most viral media messages, it is not clear who has authored this but the person is clearly a passionate and patriotic compatriot. Their response reminds me of our erstwhile Minister of Information Professor Dora Akunyili’s response to the matter of the botched American airline bombing attempt. She declared then that suicide bombing is “not in our character”. Hers was the official coalescing of the views of many who chose to deny the culprit, to find reasons why he should not be identified as one of us, in spite of the fact that his father, a highly placed, and ostensibly responsible and respected member of the Nigerian society. “Oh, his mother is from Yemen”. “He schooled in Togo”.“He was resident in London; see what they have done to our son”. That’s was the closest we came to identifying with him.

    To those sentiments above, I should add the age old one that is common in Nigeria when things go awry– the wicked have done their worst! Though not uttered on that occasion, it was implied at least in the compassionate views expressed about the villain. This sort of denial is rampant on such occasions especially within the domestic sphere. It is evidence of a blame culture, a refusal to accept responsibility to contribute to the restoration of a broken equilibrium. We are quick to wash our hands and distance ourselves from the aberrant. We would rather not explore the unpleasant situation to see if and how we might be culpable in the transgression. So homes are broken on account of erring children. “A good child is the father’s” we say; when a child offends the mother is to be punished – excised from the family home with ignominy, for polluting the stock.

    Very well but whatever happened to the view that it takes a village to raise a child? We now live in a global village. Many who were born in Nigeria are raised, or are raising children in various parts of the world.

    As a British Nigerian, here is my reply to the call to shun the Woolwich attackers. I deplore the act unequivocally, regardless of who may have committed it. I am definitely disappointed that the despicable deed can be associated to Nigeria even if remotely. I understand why compatriots resent such associations but we should not bury our heads in the sand or deny our own. The name Adebolajo attests to a Nigerian connection. And deplorable as the crime may be, as a Nigerian, I will not disown Michael Adebolajo, nor should you. We should stop to consider his folk. How they must feel at this time. How they must feel at the monstrosity he’s turned out to be. We should all be concerned that other seed of Nigerian descent do not become so corrupted. What can we do to ensure that Nigeria’s children walk uprightly and attain glorious heights? That should be our concern. After all, when British-born Nigerians do well, we are happy to claim them as our own. Let’s not be fair weather friends. This monster is our brother. At least he is our brother’s son.

    Regardless of the bad press that prevails at this time, I am still proud to be a Nigerian for the fact that one deviant element does not reflect the whole. I know there are many more like him, in perhaps not so dissimilar ways. They exist in Nigeria, in the UK and in other nations of the world. May I remind us of Anders Behring Breivik, the man who in 2011 killed 77 people in a bomb attack and gun rampage in Norway? Norway is not known for violence, neither is Newtown, Connecticut U.S.A. the scene of the chilling gun attack that claimed the lives of 20 children, six adults including the mother of the gunman. That gunman then killed himself – 27 lives in all, wasted just like that in December 2012 and for what? Bizarre, yes; just like the acts of the deranged Michaels. So you see – it is not about nationality, race or religion. They are depraved, and they should be dealt with appropriately.

    Undoubtedly, media representations are important. They influence how individuals and groups are defined. So, I understand, even appreciate the objection to the media labelling of these guys, done by introducing a qualifier which distances them from the dominant group. By describing them as being of Nigerian descent, there is a distancing from these Britons; perhaps as a means of explaining the barbaric nature of the act. After all, previous acts of terror had been brazen and brutal, but none had been so savage – head chopped off with a cleaver in full glare of the public. It is stuff from nightmares, played out in horror films, best not imagined, but it happened.

    The media is justified to present the facts and we must be measured in our reaction to the reports.

    Rightly, the mail going round lists Nigerians who have brought glory to the Britain – the land of their birth, and to Nigeria – the root of their parents. Sadly, the behaviour of the duo is shameful. Yet, we and folks whose name they share, need not despair. The name Adebolajo may not ring a bell; but till now it had not been associated with notoriety. There are enough Nigerians doing good and I am glad. So yes, warts and all, of my Nigerian heritage I remain proud. The lessons it has taught me I will use. The discipline I have learnt from my culture I’ll deploy. I shall thus strive to do my bit, for God and for country.

     

    • Dr Esan lectures Broadcast Journalism in the United Kingdom.

     

  • Man arraigned for allegedly killing kid brother

    A Lokoja Magistrate’s Court yesterday arraigned a 32-year-old civil servant, Ismaila Ahmed, for allegedly killing his younger brother, Ilyasu, with a charm.

    The accused, a native of Inoziomi Quarters in Adavi Local Government Area of Kogi State, was charged with criminal conspiracy and culpable homicide, not punishable with death, but contrary to Sections 97 and 224 of the Penal Code.

    The police First Information Report (FIR) revealed that the accused allegedly committed the offence on October 27, last year, at 6.30pm.

    Ismaila allegedly beat the deceased “with a charmed ring, leading to the collapse of his brother, who died consequently”.

    The deceased, it was learnt, was mediating in a fight between his brother and another man, Buhari Abdullahi, who is now at large.

    Ismaila pleaded not guilty to the charges.

    Prosecuting police officer, Samuel Ikutanwa, urged the court to remand the accused in prison custody.

    The prosecutor said investigation into the matter was still ongoing.

    The counsel to the accused, Muazu Abbas, prayed the court to use its discretionary power to grant his client bail.

    Abbas averred that the accused, before his arraignment, was on police bail.

    The lawyer tendered a letter, reportedly written to the court by Suleiman S. Obadegba, an uncle to the deceased, of the family’s intention not to pursue the case.

    Chief Magistrate Levi Animoku granted bail to the accused with N100,000 and a reliable surety who must be resident in Lokoja.

    Animoku said the essence of the bail was to secure the attendance of the accused in court to take his trial.

    “I am sure that he will attend to his trial,” the magistrate said.

    Animoku adjourned the matter till June 13 for mention.

     

  • Big Brother wants to watch you

    Big Brother wants to watch you

    •FG will invade the citizens’ privacy with new Internet Surveillance platform

    SECURITY, which is the noble art of saving the world from itself, is no doubt, the greatest worry of mankind today, if we refrain from labelling it a scourge. In the name of ‘security’, humongous amounts of funds are disbursed annually across nations; monies often spent under the table, unaccounted for and unaccountable, again for reasons of security.

    In the name of ‘security’, citizens’ rights and freedoms are curtailed and even trampled. Such is the paradox of security in the modern day’s world: huge funds that would help elevate society and mitigate undesirable human conditions are shovel down the nebulous tunnel of security. The mass of law-abiding citizens are often the ones caught in the crossfire of ‘security operations’.

    This is the situation in Nigeria today and it is a terrifically bad example to cite. She is beset by insecurity of the armed and violent kind; one that her minders neither comprehend nor capable to manage. Thus the security (or insecurity) situation in Nigeria is so peculiar that it cuts a picture of a blind-folded giant fighting crazy in all directions. Just a few days ago in the border town of Baga, Borno State, Nigeria reaped the long-foretold result of fighting ‘insecurity’ with guns and mortars – indiscriminate killings that made victims of both the villains and the innocent alike in an unrestrained killing field.

    While the Federal Government and indeed the world is still baffled by the Baga baggage, yet another move has been made to undermine a mass of the populace in a seemingly benign but far more devastating manner. Nigeria’s government is said to have awarded a $40 million contract to an Israeli firm to build an internet surveillance platform in Nigeria. The very contract, its scope, terms and implications for the man on the street is shrouded in secrecy and obviously – for security reasons. Security, especially in an undeveloped environment like Nigeria’s seems to have the capacity to kill and heal equally.

    Concerned Nigerians and rights groups have expressed worry that this technology which is capable of spying on the internet communications of the generality of the citizenry could be deployed to intercept and read private emails and also has the potential to breach unwanted connections. While in the face of terrorist activities and insurgencies in parts of the country, this platform may have important uses for curbing internet-based communications, the dangers of abuse are present and far-reaching.

    Even the Federal Government is not allowed to so easily and flippantly acquire powers to trample upon and abridge the rights of the citizenry to privacy and individual freedom at its whims. This new internet platform has capacities so portent that it could easily be deployed to cripple businesses, to muzzle the media and to frame up individuals at the mere touch of buttons. Section 37 of the 1999 Constitution of the Federal Republic of Nigeria guarantees right to private and family life while 39, 1 and 2 provides for the right to freedom of expression and the press. We think that any directive, policy or instrument of government that are likely to thwart these fundamental rights must be put under scrutiny and tests. The National Assembly must have a role to play here.

    Coming particularly now in this season of acrimonious politics and mutual distrust between the ruling party and members of the opposition, we urge the Federal Government to tread softly and refrain from any action that would even remotely suggest that it seeks to apply authoritarian tactics in statecraft. The problem of insecurity is real and we support government’s moves to tackle it squarely but never, never at the expense of the rights, freedom and liberty of the citizenry.

     

  • Three boyfriends down the line and my brother still hasn’t approved

    Hello Aunty Adeola, I am 21 years old and I have had 3 boyfriends within 2 years. The first one is the one that deflowered me and I love him but my brother doesn’t like him and that was why how we departed. The same thing happened with the second guy. Now there’s the third one that I love, but because he doesn’t have enough money to spend for me, my brother and his children don’t want to see him with me. I don’t have a father that is why I am staying with my brother and he has also said he doesn’t like my guy’s family. Please I need your advice; what am I going to do?

    I’m really sorry to hear this. Your brother doesn’t seem to know that he is disturbing you emotionally and that is like taking a part of you away with his selfishness. If he had complained about the conduct of any of these young men you have introduced to him, then maybe I would have supported him. But for him to be treating you like merchandise worthy of sale to the highest bidder is not fair enough.

    Some men are not too happy that girls and young women these days put money before love and they would use all avenues to preach to girls to love first before asking for money. Yet, we have a man who is actually encouraging his sister to marry for the sake of money. Did his own wife marry him for money sake? Try to find out. I’ll like to know if he has daughters. If he does, he should wait for them to grow up so that he can exchange them for money. In fact, he has enough time to groom them into ladies who would bring rich men home. As for you, keep your matters away from him until you’re ready for marriage. I pray that by then, God would have blessed this man you’re dating now so that your brother can eat his words. It doesn’t mean you shouldn’t give him some of the money o, after all, in a way, not accepting the man would contribute to that one working hard to become successful.