Tag: Children

  • Re: Three children, three fathers at 22

    Life, oh life, oh life! How it loves to torment us and at the same time train us to become its master, yet a lot of us don’t even know the fiery warrior and unbeatable conqueror we’ve become. We sometimes fail to see how much life after trampling on us throws us far into the sky to behold the earth from our lofty heights and commandeer the best of things to ourselves. Such is the case of Motunde who had a pitiful childhood, a traumatic adolescence and ended up having 3 children for 3 fathers by age 22. Life which was hitherto cruel to her pushing her around black pits of despair suddenly turned around to give her what her pedigree could never get her. However, as she shines like the sun out of a clear azure sky, gathering are the dark clouds of her past threatening to cast a dark shadow over her beautiful life. After having her life completely over-hauled, making her an adorable and a world-class lady, a fine gentleman has asked for her hand in marriage. Trouble is he doesn’t have the faintest idea that she’s ever had a child, least of all three children for three different men. He has no idea of her grievously-oppressive years of abuse and neglect. She’s been worried of his ignorance and too terrified to go on with the marriage without letting him into her past. A few readers sent in their suggestions.

     

    Dear Temilolu,

    I just read your very touching piece and I dare say, there are many thousands out there with similar stories. If all that is written is the whole truth, Motunde should have no fears. She is not flirty, loose or currying unnecessary male attention but pushed by circumstances beyond her. It’s better to say the truth and be FREE or she’ll end up living in perpetual FEAR, frustration, guilt and deceit. What if for whatever reason, she cannot conceive again (maybe even due to the man) will she be happy? She should tell Siji and allow him the option to walk away, break for a while or call off the relationship out rightly.

    If Siji truly is the man from God for her, he’ll stand by her. He may or may not tell his family because except they have the mind of TRUE children of God, they may pressure their son to call off the wedding. Best wishes to Motunde as she takes the path of honour of full disclosure if she wants to have a lasting marriage!

    Ayo

     

    Dear Motunde,

    Please tell him about your past. You can’t build lasting happiness on a foundation of deceit and dark secrets. Better to lose him now than later when much more will be at stake. If you can’t trust him with your history, you don’t trust him. Why marry one you don’t trust?

    Jesse Unoh

     

    Such a sad beginning, but thank God for his faithfulness. My darling sister, please tell your husband to be. If not, the juice that will be added will definitely change his heart towards you.

    Mosun Odunsi

     

    Dear Motunde,

    I must congratulate you on your great victory- one which I consider very rare. Has anyone ever told you that you are a champion? How could you go through all that and still have your brain intact enough to possess a degree in software engineering? Amazing! Most times, the devil attacks shinning stars and distracts them in every possible way just to stop them from fulfilling their divine destinies. However, have you ever considered the fact that were it not for your horrible circumstance, you would never have gotten to that restaurant where you worked and got picked up by the lady who turned your life around? Judging from your childhood, if you had remained with your grand mum, you’d probably still be hawking one thing or the other as your family could hardly feed. Indeed, you must be thankful (though, it wasn’t funny) and stop feeling like a casualty. I imagine the bad memories still make you flinch and the thought of your fiancé’s reaction sends a chill down your spine. However, you MUST tell him. True, it’s not a palatable discovery for any man and his family but I am assured there’s a very special man out there God has programmed for you. If He could allow life to treat you this way and still give you the very best you didn’t bargain for, then relax because He is still working and about to daze you with a super-man. The super-man could be Siji your fiancé, if he decides to go on with the wedding. If he doesn’t, I assure you there’s a mind-blowing surprise around the corner. As from now on, I want you to realise the super-girl you are and stop feeling like a victim. Whether you believe me or not, you’ve been passed through fire and came out wondrous and that makes you a goldmine for any man and a star in any man’s sky. You strike me as a woman who could go as far as getting the water from the moon for a man who truly loves her. Do the needful and enjoy the rest of your glorious life. A round of applause for you!

     

    Love always,

    Temilolu Girls Club

  • Why some adults hurt children with words

    Dear Harriet, I am an undergraduate and your fan. I must say that I have learnt a lot from you. Your column is educative and informative. Please, why do some adults hurt children with words and make them feel so bad?

    Emeka, Lagos.

     

    No one knows for sure why some adults do this. They may have problems of their own that they can’t cope with. Some may have grown up being abused verbally or otherwise themselves. Could be that they really don’t understand wrong and right words.

    Words can hurt our children deeper than a blow. Out of frustration and anger, harmful words so easily pop out of our mouth when we are dealing with children, for example, a statement like this: ‘Why can’t you be like your sister’.

    A statement like this can cause emotional injury and low self-esteem. The words parents use form the basis of a child’s sense of self. Words are like a mirror, reflecting back to children vital information about who they are and what they will become. It is very easy to verbally hurt our children in subtle ways, often in the mistaken intension that we are doing what is best to teach them to behave.

    Most children are resilient and can handle an occasional hurtful comment from their parents. The more we are aware of the implication of harmful statements, however, the more likely we will be to find other ways to influence our children.

    Parents in most cases love their children. I cannot recall any parent telling me they don’t love their children. Therefore, most of them do not intentionally want to harm their children physically or emotionally.

    Still many parents think nothing of using words that affect their child’s psyche as painful as if the child has been beaten physically.

    Let’s look at this case together. A mum is in school to pick up her son after school and the first statement that comes out of her mouth is “I know you were bad today, weren’t you? You were bad”.

    No smile, no hug. This parent I know love her son and did not wish to destroy her child’s self-esteem. Yet that is exactly what is going to happen if care is not taken.

    A lot of parents need to understand the cognitive and emotional development of children. We take our children to the clinic for their physical checks and the paediatrician tells us all about their physical growth which is one aspect of the whole lot.

    Just as the physical growth is very important, we must not rule out the importance of the child’s cognitive and emotional growth as well.  The question that comes to mind is this: How successful is a healthy, full grown person whose psychological development is ignored?  Look around at the adult you know and you will understand what I am saying. When a child keeps hearing that he/she is bad, trust me, in no time that child will start thinking that he/she is really bad.

    Furthermore, name calling:  like lazy girl/boy, no brain, stupid, idiot, or fool.

    Parent’s words are like gospel to a child. If you label a child as a fool, an idiot, the child is likely to believe it’s true. Negative labels attack a child’s personality rather than specific behaviour. Name calling can be seen as self fulfilling prophecies. A child who is called clumsy, dummy, or lazy will definitely act like one. Mean words truly hurt children, cruel words destroy them.

    What to say instead: Direct your child’s attention to particular behaviour that needs changing. Be specific when you are correcting your child, make it clear that you are upset with his/her action not his person.

    Comparisons like why can’t you be like your brother? When I was your age, I use to…….. When you tell your child that she is not as well behaved or highly achieving as her brother, you sow a seed of resentment and bitter rivalry between your children. Children should not feel they are in competition with other family members because one will inevitably feel devalued and inferior to others. Even positive comparison can backfire. Comparisons instill competitive feelings and discord among siblings.

    What to say instead:  Comment on your observation, discuss with your child about your expectation, point out their strength and encourage the child on ways of improving.

    Cursing, for example, good for nothing!  Children depend almost entirely on their parent’s reactions to know whether they are good or bad, smart or dumb, loved or unlovable. They are very vulnerable emotionally. A child is likely to internalize her parent’s hostility and conclude the worst about him/her.

    What to say instead: As parents, we should learn to avoid cursing our children; we should correct them with love, bless them with our mouth and remember there is power in spoken words.

    Finally, I leave you with the incredible poem written by Dorothy Law Nolte:

    “If children live with criticism, they learn to condemn

    If children live with ridicule, they learn to feel shy

    If children live with shame, they learn to feel guilty

    If children live with encouragement, they learn confidence

    If children live with praise, they learn appreciation

    If children live with acceptance, they learn to love

    If children live with approval, they learn to like themselves

    If children live with recognition, they learn it is good to have a goal”

     

    Harriet ogbobine is a counselor and a motivational speaker. Send your questions and suggestions to her on bineharriet@gmail.com or txt message only 08023058805. You can also follow her on twitter: @bineharrietj

  • Wealthy Nigerians’ children plot TAKEOVER of music industry

    Wealthy Nigerians’ children plot TAKEOVER of music industry

    They are children of wealthy businessmen and political bigwigs. Many years ago, it would be preposterous for them to contemplate a career in music. The jobs reserved for them were blue chip, and they would easily be tagged as rebels if they ignored a career in the corporate world for a vocation believed to be reserved for school dropouts and never-do-wells.

    But this is the jet age; the age in which emphasis is placed on the independence of the child’s mind. The society and its value system have experienced a paradigm shift from the age of restriction where parents decided the future of their children to the age of freedom where the kids decide what path they want to toe.

    That is the case with Folarin Falana, son of frontline lawyer, Femi Falana (SAN), whose alias is a.k.a. Falz the Bad Guy. Folarin literally rebelled against his father, dumping the wig for a career in music.

    Falz the Bad Guy is not alone in this trend of the nouveau-rich treading a path previously believed to be reserved for the children of the poor. The list includes other music stars like Naeto C, son of former Minister of Aviation, Kema Chikwe; David Adeleke a.k.a. Davido is a member of the prominent Adeleke family in Ede, Osun State; Florenece Ifeoluwa Otedola a.k.a. DJ Cuppy is the daughter of billionaire businessman, Femi Otedola while Chuka Edozien, popularly called Lynxx, is son of a former deputy governor of old Bendel State.

     

    Folarin Falana (Falz the bad guy)

    The name Folarin Falana may not evoke any emotion among young and upward mobile Nigerians, but the mention of Falz the Bad Guy is sure to elicit loud cheers, especially in entertainment circles.

    The son of fiery legal luminary, Femi Falana, Folarin, though trained as a lawyer, is making a name for himself in the entertainment industry. He attended St. Leo’s Catholic Primary School, Ikeja, after which he proceeded to Olashore International School in Osun State. He bagged his law degree at the University of Reading in the United Kingdom and later proceeded to the Nigerian Law School, Abuja.

    His career in music began in 2009 when he released a mix tape titled Shakara. It was a compilation of some songs he had recorded, which was uploaded for the public to know more about his music. He later came out with other singles like Cool Party, What’s up Guy and High Class, his most successful single to date.

    Given his father’s reputation, many had expected to take the courtroom by storm when he graduated from Law School. But rather than head for the courtroom, the allure of music was too tempting for young Folarin to resist.

    He said: “A lot of people have asked me why I opted for music instead of Law. My response has always been that when you are very passionate about something, you must follow your heart. Music is my passion.

    Initially, I had hoped to follow in my father’s footsteps. Looking at his life, how much he has achieved and the kind of name he has made for himself, I sincerely wanted to follow in his footsteps. I admired his achievements and lifestyle. The main reason I studied Law was to emulate his achievements. But music simply stole my heart.

    For those who thought that his decision to drop the wig for the microphone would lead to family dispute, Folarin said he had the backing of the family the moment he made his plans known.

    He said: “My decision to take up music did not cause any problem in the family. Although my father was surprised when he got to know about my decision, because he found it strange that I would take up music as a profession, it was handled maturely by my father and other members of the family. Later on, my dad and my mum started to accept it and have even gone as far as encouraging me.”

    On his stage name, Folarin said: “First, Falz is a nickname my friends gave me while I was in school. It is just a short form of my last name, Falana. As for ‘Bad Guy’, it is not Bad Guy but BAHDguy, which is an acronym for Brilliant And Highly Distinct guy (BAHDguy). The BAHDguy stands for something positive.”

     

    David Adedeji Adeleke (Davido)

    Better known by his stage name, Davido, young Adeleke is an American-born Nigerian recording artist, performer and record producer. Davido stormed the music industry in 2011 with his chart-bursting single, Dami Duro, which was well-received throughout Nigeria.

    Along with his elder brother, Adewale Adeleke, Davido is the co-owner of HKN Music. He has produced for numerous artistes, including Naeto C, Skales, Tiwa Savage and Sauce Kid.

    With the huge success of Dami Duro, Davido, who relocated to Lagos at a young age, came out with his debut album, Omo Baba Olowo in 2012. The album features singles like Back When, which featured Naeto C; Dami Duro, All of You, Overseas, which featured Sina Rambo; Ekuro, Gbon Gbon and Feel Alright, which featured Ice Prince.

    Davido was born on November 21, 1992, to Chief Deji and Vero Adeleke in Atlanta, Georgia. His father is a Nigerian business magnate while his late mother was a university lecturer. He attended The British International School in Lagos before proceeding to study Business Administration at Oakwood University, prior to relocating to Nigeria. He graduated from Babcock University in Ogun State.

    Speaking on his musical career, Davido said: “I have been doing music for some time now, but I took it seriously in March 2011. I started with a group called KB international in America. It wasn’t working out, so I thought I should just do this on my own.

    “I was around people who were musically inclined and I love music. So, I simply said to myself, ‘Why not do something you love and be happy while at the same time making money?’”.

     

    Chukie Edozien (Lynxx)

    Chukie Edozien, better known by his stage name Lynxxx, is a hip-hop recording artist and entrepreneur. The only son of Chief John D. Edozien, a former deputy governor of old Bendel State, Lynxx burst onto the scene in 2010 with his debut single and went on to become the first Nigerian artiste to be endorsed by the global brand, Pepsi.

    He is the originator of Jollof Musik, a genre he describes as “an artful blend of music to create great music.”

    Chukie attended Corona Primary School Ikoyi, Lagos for his primary education, and went on to Kings College, Lagos for his secondary education. He attended the University of Hull in the United Kingdom, where he obtained a degree in Business, Economics and Marketing.

    After almost a decade of behind-the-scenes work, Lynxxx came out with his debut as a recording artiste in December 2009, when he released his first official single, Change Your Parade. The single became popular in nightclubs and radio stations across the country, leading to tremendous rise in his fan base.

    He followed up the success of the single with the release of his debut album, This Is Lynxxx, in December 2010. The album featured a combination of musical genres, including urban hip hop, contemporary R&B, and infusions of funky house. He would later tag the style as JollofMusik.

     

    Naetochukwu Chikwe (Naeto C)

    Naetochukwu Chikwe a.k.a. Naeto C is the son of former Minister of Aviation and Nigerian Ambassador to Ireland, Mrs. Kema Chikwe and Chief Herbert Chikwe. He spent his early years in Owerri, Imo State, in a household highly influenced by music. His fondness for music grew fast and soon found his way in other creative art forms, most specifically poetry, which took him to various competitions and earned him accolade as a young poet.

    After finishing his secondary education in Lagos, he moved to the United States for higher education. Naeto C later hooked up with other budding talents, Uzikwendu and Ikechukwu. The trio went on to form a group, the World Famous Akademy.

    Naeto C graduated in 2004 from the George Washington University with a B Sc. in Biology, but with plans to go further and become a medical doctor. After some deep soul-searching, he changed his mind and decided to pursue his dream and develop his talent as a musician.

    In the summer of 2013, Naeto C disappeared from the entertainment scene and returned to school to pursue a higher degree at the University of Dundee, London.

    His notable production achievement is I Believe, a song Naeto wrote and co-produced with VC Perez. Naeto C has garnered more experience to establish himself as a household name in the nation’s music industry.

     

    Florenece Ifeoluwa Otedola (DJ Cuppy)

    Florence Ifeoluwa Otedola, also known as DJ Cuppy, is a Nigerian music producer and the daughter of Nigerian billionaire businessman Femi Otedola. She graduated from King’s College London in July 2014 with a 2.1 honors degree in Business and Economics, and is currently enrolled at New York University to pursue a Master’s Degree in Music Business.

    Her father, Mr Femi Otedola, is the second Nigerian to ever make the Forbes annual list of the world’s richest people with an estimated net worth of over US$1.2 billion. He is the CEO of Forte Oil Plc and the Nigerian President and Chief Executive Officer of Zenon Petroleum and Gas Limited.

    His marriage to wife, Nana, is blessed with three daughters and one son, among whom is Florence Otedola, popularly known as DJ Cuppy, who was recently named tourism ambassador for the Federal Republic of Nigeria.

    DJ Cuppy began her career as a DJ at 16 in London, buying second-hand equipment and playing in clubs. In 2014, she was the resident DJ at the MTV Africa Music Awards in Durban. She would go on to play at the Tatler and Christie’s Art Ball in London and the Financial Times Luxury Summit in Mexico City.

    In July 2014, she released House of Cuppy, her first compilation mix in both London and Lagos. She then had a launch for House of Cuppy in New York City on September 2, 2014. She also launched her music management and content production business, Red Velvet Music Group.

    Speaking about her love for music, DJ Cuppy said: “I have always loved music, even as a child and I was very passionate about young people. I am greatly honoured when young people approach me to say they like what I am doing. I am also establishing my own company, which is into publishing and management. I have a 10-year plan to change the face of entertainment in Nigeria.”

    She says she has the blessing of her parents, both of whom she said have been very supportive.

    She said: “My mother has been my everything. She has been very supportive of my career. She is such a strong woman, and I only wish I can be half of what she is. All I know is that it is always good to do what you love. I also love to do business and that is why I am combining music and business. From the onset, I have always had this entrepreneurial spirit to run my own business one day. That, I will say, I got from my dad.

    “My dad is not only my mentor; he is very involved in my adventures. Whenever I have shows, he will help me go through the list. He is very passionate about music. He loves music a lot. I remember listening to Fela’s music with him in the car when I was younger.”

    While not dismissing the importance of her background in her rise to the top, DJ Cuppy believes her talent and hard work have been the major factors in her ascendancy to the top.

    “I will say that I am very lucky, because I have very supportive parents. Of course, I also have the most supportive team in the world. My parents encouraged me to be the best in whatever I do. I think it is all about being myself and not trying to be someone else.

    “I am very lucky to have the kind of parents that are pushing and challenging me to be the best I can. A lot of times, people get distracted by the background information. I am where I am, following my dreams and doing a very exciting project. With time, people will come to see that it is passion and talent that has worked for me.”

  • Civilian JTF  recruiting children, says U.S. Report

    Civilian JTF recruiting children, says U.S. Report

    United States Secretary of State John Kerry yesterday presented the 2015 Trafficking in Persons Report. The report shows that Nigeria has not achieved much in its efforts to combat human trafficking across its borders. The report, which shows that does not fully comply with the minimum standards for the elimination of trafficking, indicts the Civilian Joint Task Force (CJTF) for using children illegally to fight insurgents. It thus recommend that government must cease provision of financial and in-kind support to the CJTF until the group ceases the recruitment and use of children; investigate and prosecute all individuals suspected of recruiting and using child soldiers and perpetrating other trafficking abuses against women and children

    Natalie and Dara, eager to earn money and go to school, left Nigeria with the help of men who arranged their travel and convinced them good jobs awaited them in Cote d’Ivoire. Once there, Natalie and Dara were instead forced to have sex with men every night to pay back a $2,600 “travel debt.” After two years of being subjected to sex trafficking, Natalie and Dara contacted a UN Police officer (who was in the area to investigate other suspected cases of human trafficking) and escaped. The United Nations Office on Drugs and Crime helped the girls return to Nigeria, where they participated in social service programs supported by regional NGOs. Their traffickers were convicted in 2014 and sentenced to five years’ imprisonment and a $2,000 fine.

    Aisha was at a friend’s wedding when she was abducted by Boko Haram, along with her sister, the bride, and the bride’s sister. They were taken to a camp where her friends were forcibly married to Boko Haram fighters. Aisha, at 19 years old, had to learn how to fight; she was trained how to shoot and kill, detonate bombs, and execute attacks on villages. She was forced to participate in armed operations, including against her own village; those that refused were buried in a mass grave. Aisha saw more than 50 people killed, including her sister, before she managed to escape.

    Natalie, Dora and Aisha are just three of the victims of human trafficking captured in the 2015 Human Trafficking Report released yesterday by the State Department. As it was last year, the report shows that Nigeria is still a source, transit, and destination country for women and children subjected to forced labour and sex trafficking.

    It shows that Nigerian trafficking victims are recruited from rural and, to a lesser extent, urban areas: women and girls for domestic servitude and sex trafficking and boys for forced labor in street vending, domestic service, mining, stone quarrying, agriculture, textiles manufacturing, and begging. Young boys in Koranic schools, commonly known as Almajiri children, are subjected to forced begging.

    The report says Nigerian women and children are taken from Nigeria to other West and Central African countries, as well as to South Africa, where they are exploited for the same purposes. Nigerian women and girls are subjected to forced prostitution throughout Europe. Nigerian women and children are also recruited and transported to destinations in North Africa, the Middle East, and Central Asia, where they are held captive in the sex trade or in forced labor. Nigerian gangs subject large numbers of Nigerian women to forced prostitution in the Czech Republic and Italy; EUROPOL has identified Nigerian organized crime related to trafficking in persons as one of the greatest law enforcement challenges to European governments. Nigerian women are transported to Malaysia, where they are forced into prostitution and to work as drug mules for their traffickers. West African women transit Nigeria to destinations in Europe and the Middle East, where they are subsequently subjected to forced prostitution. Children from West African countries are subjected to forced labor in Nigeria, including in Nigeria’s granite mines. Nigeria is a transit point for West African children subjected to forced labor in Cameroon and Gabon. During the reporting period, an NGO alleged Nigerian officials subjected children in internally displaced person (IDP) camps in northeast Nigeria to labor and sex trafficking. A Nigerian soldier also allegedly engaged in the forced labor of a child.

    Boko Haram, noted the report, forcefully recruited and used child soldiers as young as 12-years-old and abducted women and girls in the northern region of Nigeria, some of whom it later subjected to domestic servitude, forced labor, and sex slavery through forced marriages to its militants. An NGO also reported a civilian vigilante group, identified as the Civilian Joint Task Force (CJTF), recruited and used child soldiers, sometimes by force. The government prohibited the recruitment and use of child soldiers and issued official statements condemning such use; however, the CJTF continued to recruit and use child soldiers during the reporting period. The Borno State government continued to provide financial and in-kind resources to the CJTF, which was also, at times, aligned with the Nigerian military in operations against Boko Haram.

    Painfully, the government of Nigeria, shows the report, does not fully comply with the minimum standards for the elimination of trafficking; however, it is making significant efforts to do so. During the reporting period, the government sustained strong anti-trafficking law enforcement efforts by enacting amendments to the 2003 anti-trafficking law, which restrict the ability of judges to penalise offenders with fines in lieu of prison time; by investigating, prosecuting, and convicting numerous traffickers; and by providing extensive specialized anti-trafficking training to officials from various government ministries and agencies. The National Agency for the Prohibition of Trafficking in Persons and Other Related Matters (NAPTIP) identified and provided services to an increased number of victims and continued extensive awareness campaigns throughout the country. The government also created an inter-ministerial presidential taskforce to coordinate anti-trafficking activities across the government. Despite these efforts, during the reporting period, the Borno State government provided financial and in-kind resources to the CJTF, which recruited and used child soldiers.

     

    Recommendations

    for Nigeria

     

    Cease provision of financial and in-kind support to the CJTF until the group ceases the recruitment and use of children; investigate and prosecute all individuals suspected of recruiting and using child soldiers and allegedly perpetrating other trafficking abuses against women and children; continue to vigorously pursue trafficking investigations, prosecutions of trafficking offenses, and adequate sentences for convicted traffickers; take proactive measures to investigate and prosecute government officials suspected of trafficking-related corruption and complicity in trafficking offenses; ensure the activities of NAPTIP receive sufficient funding, particularly for prosecuting trafficking offenders and providing adequate care for victims; implement programs for the disarmament, demobilization, and reintegration of former child combatants that take into account the specific needs of child ex-combatants; continue to provide regular training to police and immigration officials to identify trafficking victims among vulnerable populations, such as women in prostitution and young females traveling with non-family members; fully integrate anti-trafficking responsibilities into the work of the Nigerian Police Force and the Ministry of Labor; and continue to increase the capacity of Nigerian embassies to identify and provide assistance to victims abroad, including through regular and specialized training for diplomatic and consular personnel.

     

    Prosecution

     

    The government, the report observes, maintained strong anti-trafficking law enforcement efforts. In March 2015, the government passed amendments to the 2003 Trafficking in Persons Law Enforcement and Administration Act, which increase the penalties for trafficking offenders. The law prohibits all forms of trafficking. It prescribes a minimum penalty of five years’ imprisonment and a minimum fine of one million naira ($5,470) for labor trafficking offenses. The law prescribes a minimum penalty of five years’ imprisonment for sex trafficking offenses and a minimum fine of one million naira ($5,470); the minimum penalty increases to seven years’ imprisonment if the case involves a child. These penalties are sufficiently stringent and commensurate with other serious crimes, such as rape.

    NAPTIP, it said, conducted 509 trafficking investigations, completed 56 prosecutions, and secured 30 convictions during the reporting period, compared with 314 investigations, 43 prosecutions, and 42 convictions in the previous reporting period. The decrease in convictions is likely a result of a three-month strike by the judiciary. An additional 150 prosecutions remained pending at the end of the reporting period. All prosecutions occurred under the 2003 anti-trafficking law, and prison sentences upon conviction ranged from three months’ to 30 years’ imprisonment. Of the 22 convictions, 17 resulted in imprisonment without the option of paying a fine. The government also collaborated with law enforcement agencies from Finland, Niger, Norway, and the United Kingdom on investigations involving Nigerian nationals during the reporting period. The government commenced an investigation against a Nigerian soldier who allegedly engaged in the forced labour of a child; the investigation remained ongoing at the close of the reporting period. In response to an NGO’s report that Nigerian officials subjected children in IDP camps in northeast Nigeria to labor and sex trafficking, the government convened a multi-agency taskforce—including NAPTIP, security forces, and an international organisation—to investigate the allegations; ultimately, the government concluded there was no evidence of child trafficking. The government did not report any other investigations, prosecutions, or convictions of government officials complicit in trafficking offenses; however, corruption at all levels of the government remained a pervasive problem.

    The government conducted extensive training sessions throughout the reporting period. NAPTIP, in collaboration with international partners, provided specialized training to approximately 159 government employees, including judges, prosecutors, and officials from NAPTIP, the Nigerian Police Force, the Nigerian Immigration Service, the Nigeria Security and Civil Defense Corps, the National Drug and Law Enforcement Agency, and the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission. These programs offered specialized training on victim identification, investigation of trafficking cases, and child protection. NAPTIP officials assisted Finland, the Netherlands, the United Kingdom, and various African countries with their anti-trafficking efforts through training courses, joint intelligence sharing, and mutual legal assistance.

     

    Protection

     

    According to the report, the government increased efforts to protect trafficking victims. The government and NGOs identified 914 trafficking victims within the country, including 336 victims of sex trafficking, and 578 victims of labor trafficking, compared with 777 victims identified in the previous reporting period. NAPTIP provided initial screening and assistance for all victims it identified and referred them to government-run care facilities for further medical care, vocational training, education, and shelter. The government has formal written procedures to guide law enforcement, immigration, and social services personnel in proactive identification of trafficking victims among high-risk populations. Police, immigration, and social services personnel received specialized training on how to identify victims of trafficking and direct them to NAPTIP. Additionally, the government’s national referral mechanism provides formal guidelines for law enforcement, immigration officials, and service providers to improve protection and assistance to trafficking victims in Nigeria.

    In 2014, said the report, the government allocated approximately 2.4 billion naira ($13 million) to NAPTIP. NAPTIP spent roughly one-fifth of its operational budget, or 96.5 million naira ($528,000), on victim protection and assistance during the reporting period. State governments also contributed an additional five million naira ($27,300) to support state anti-trafficking efforts. NAPTIP operated nine shelters specifically for trafficking victims, with a total capacity of 313 victims. Through these shelters, NAPTIP provided access to legal, medical, and psychological services, as well as vocational training, trade and financial empowerment, and business management skills. Victims who required additional medical and psychological treatment were provided services by hospitals and clinics through existing agreements with NAPTIP. NAPTIP shelters offered short-term care, generally limiting victims’ stays to six weeks, though victims were allowed to extend their stays under special circumstances. If victims needed longer-term care, NAPTIP collaborated with two shelters operated by the Ministry of Women’s Affairs, as well as NGO-run shelters. Victims in NAPTIP shelters were not allowed to leave unless accompanied by a chaperone. NAPTIP provided funding, in-kind donations, and services to NGOs and other organisations that afforded protective services to trafficking victims.

    The report observed that per provisions of the 2003 anti-trafficking law, Nigerian authorities ensured identified trafficking victims were not penalised for unlawful acts committed as a result of being subjected to trafficking. On rare occasions, authorities initially detained individuals involved in prostitution or other unlawful acts before they were identified as trafficking victims. Once identified, NAPTIP, the report said, worked with security services to remove victims from custody and provide them care. Officials encouraged victims to assist in the investigation and prosecution of trafficking cases, and NAPTIP reported 36 victims served as witnesses or gave evidence during trial in the reporting period. Trafficking victims were guaranteed temporary residence visas during the pendency of any criminal, civil or other legal action. All victims were eligible to receive funds from the victims’ trust fund, which was financed primarily through confiscated assets of convicted traffickers. During the reporting period, the government disbursed 4.1 million naira ($22,400) among 17 victims for various purposes, including vocational training and school tuition, although not necessarily in equal amounts.

     

    Prevention

     

    According to the report, the government sustained efforts to prevent human trafficking. NAPTIP continued to conduct extensive national and local programming through radio and print media in all regions of the country to raise awareness about trafficking, including warning about fraudulent recruitment for jobs abroad. NAPTIP also carried out advocacy visits with community, traditional, and religious leaders, as well as government officials at both the local and national levels. The government increased coordination between NAPTIP and various relevant ministries through the establishment of an inter-ministerial presidential taskforce; this taskforce met twice during the reporting period. In October 2014, the government adopted a national policy and action plan on labor migration and instituted a licensing requirement for all private labor recruitment agencies managed by the Ministry of Labor. The government did not make any discernible efforts to decrease the demand for commercial sex acts. In January 2015, the attorney general issued an advisory notice reiterating the Nigerian government’s stance against the use of child soldiers and warning anyone found to be using child soldiers would face prosecution. The Borno State governor also warned the CJTF that the recruitment and use of child soldiers was prohibited; however, state government support for the group continued. The government, with foreign donor support, provided anti-trafficking training to Nigerian troops prior to their deployment abroad on international peacekeeping missions. The government also provided anti-trafficking training for its diplomatic personnel.

     

  • ‘Contaminated fish can affect unborn babies, children’

    ‘Contaminated fish can affect unborn babies, children’

    Mrs. Temitope Sikiru, a Senior Nutritionist at Massey Street Child Hospital, Lagos, in this interview, speaks on the nutritional benefits derived from eating a proper fish diet

     

    How does fish diet help to prevent and correct stunted child growth?

    Fish is an essential source of protein. This protein is of High Biological Value, known as HBV. A proper fish diet can help to prevent and correct kwashiorkor, a disease condition caused by inadequate intake of protein in children. Moreso, because of the presence of calcium in fish, it helps in the formation of strong bones which can help to prevent rickets in children and osteoporosis in adulthood.

    How does improved nutrition on fish diet for women during pregnancy improve birth weight and also prevent anaemia?

    Improved nutrition on fish diet for women during pregnancy can help to prevent anaemia since fish is also a source of Iron and calcium. To be noted is that fact that for the iron to be properly absorbed and utilized by the body, plant products, especially fruits rich in Vitamin C should also be consumed because Vitamin C aids iron absorption. Moreso, the calcium will proffer great health benefit to support the pelvic bones for small adult pregnant women.

    What are the health defects that could arise from eating contaminated fish?

    The health defects that could arise from eating contaminated fish mostly affects pregnant women, unborn babies and children, and have lesser effects on adults. The effect includes poor nervous and brain development, delayed developmental milestone, numb or tingling fingers and poor neck co-ordination. It should be noted that, mercury is the major source of contaminant in fish.

    Are there health defects that could arise from the inability to eat a proper fish diet?

    The health defects that could arise from not eating a proper fish diet are serious. In adults, there is susceptibility to or increased risk of development of certain types of cancers e.g breast cancer, oral cancer, and prostate cancer. The inability to get fish protein can also lead to increased risk of high blood pressure and increased risk of depression. It can also cause illness such as kwashiorkor and underweight in children.

  • FG committed to welfare and protection of children – Aisha Buhari

    FG committed to welfare and protection of children – Aisha Buhari

    The Wife of the President, Mrs Aisha Buhari, said on Saturday that the federal government would continue to attach importance to the welfare, protection and development of Nigerian children.

    The first lady made the remark at the Children’s Eid El-Fitri Party (Sallah Party) she hosted at the Banquet Hall, Presidential Villa, Abuja.

    She explained that the Sallah party was an indication of the importance the administration of her husband have for the children. She urged the children to be useful to the society and compliment the efforts of the government by working hard in their schools and also to be obedient to their parents.

    “Tomorrow, you may be the president, the president’s wife, senator, honourable members, governors, medical doctors, teachers, journalists, engineers, nurses, lawyers and other professions,’’ she said.

    Aisha also advised the children to respect and obey their parents, teachers and elder people in the society. “Make sure you assist your parents by tidying up the house all the time. As the holiday comes, enjoy it but remember to study your books and avoid bad companies,’’ she said.

    She added: “On occasion like this, we celebrate with Nigerian children especially the less privileged and the Internally Displaced Persons’ (IDPs) in different camps. “We love, appreciate and share in their situation.’’

    She urged Nigerians to pray for children in IDPs and orphanages across the country to overcome their challenges

    Aisha appealed to Nigerians to support the Buhari administration to enable it excel in its efforts to better the lot of Nigerians. Highlight of the occasion was dancing and presentation of gifts to the children, among others.

  • Our children’s unanswered questions

    I recall a recent event in which some children did not only thrill us but asked questions that left many parents bewildered. With songs, drama and speeches, they held an audience spellbound as they took everyone down the memory lane of the nation’s journey since independence. They drew our attention to the maladministration of the nation’s different sectors. They demanded the whereabouts of the over 200 girls abducted from Chibok, Borno State and asked if they would ever return home. Then they came hard on insurgents and demanded to know their sponsors.

    The occasion took place in Abuja about a year ago during the launch of the Federal Government’s Victims Support Fund, chaired by Gen. Theophilus Danjuma (rtd). Present at the occasion meant to raise funds for the rehabilitation and upkeep of the victims of insurgency were President Goodluck Jonathan, state governors, service chiefs, captains of industry, members of the diplomatic corps and who is who in the country. The performance of the children, who were drawn from various tribes, provoked and prodded sane minds. To men of conscience, the children could just not be ignored. And from the look of things, some of the questions the children asked are receiving attention even though some others may go unanswered.

    Of all the questions the children asked, the one that has continued to agitate the mind is the one that formed the basis for this article, namely: “Are there no sponsors of Boko Haram?” Or, put differently: “Where are the sponsors of this heinous crime?” When Al-Shabab, the militant Islamist group attacked a shopping mall in Kenya, the Kenyan President, Uhuru Kenyatta responded with the speed of a meteor. One of the immediate steps was to locate the possible sponsors of the dastardly act living within Kenya. In the process, about 80 people or sources were identified and their accounts were immediately frozen. In the process, it was discovered that some government functionaries were suspects.

    Similarly, when the Al-Shabab assaulted Garissa University and left 148 people dead, Kenyan fighter jets went into immediate action, bombing the two camps of the group in the Gedo region. Investigation further revealed that the son of a Kenyan government official was one of the masked Al-Shabab gunmen who stormed Garissa University College. Kenyan Interior Ministry said Abdirahim Abdullahi, who was the son of the government official in question, was among the four attackers killed during the attack.

    News from Niger Republic revealed that 643 people have been detained and charged to court for acts of terrorism and criminal conspiracy since February 2015. This was announced to the Niger Parliament by Hassoumi Massaoudoy, the Niger Security Minister. According to the Minister, Niger has deployed 3,000 soldiers to a joint regional force formed with Chad, Cameroon and Nigeria in order to quash the Boko Haram insurgency. Hassoumi further told the parliament that several Boko Haram networks and sleeper cells had been dismantled in Niger’s Southern Diffa region, which is on the border with Nigeria, and troops deployed there. In the words of the minister, “If this measure had not been taken, we could have had an uprising in the very interior of Diffa.”

    In Nigeria, it was recently announced that about 300 of the over 500 suspects of terror attacks would be charged to court for terrorism and conspiracy.

    Militarily, the war against insurgency has been intensified. The tail end of the erstwhile administration of President Goodluck Jonathan saw more heat on the insurgents with the liberation of more local government areas from the hitherto strongholds of the Boko Haram sect. Today, vigorous military action by the Buhari administration aimed at total liberation of the entire North East from the shackles of Boko Haram is ongoing, ironically provoking the intensification of attacks by the insurgents, especially on soft targets, which include churches, mosques, markets and defenseless civil populace mostly in the rural areas as well as in the cities through suicide bombing and outright gun attacks.

    In this renewed intensification of attacks by the insurgents, hundreds have been killed while many were injured with incalculable damage to property. All these unprovoked attacks by the insurgents, apart from being self-seeking, is to further create fear and intimidation in the minds of the people who would in the ultimate be made to feel that the government of the day is incapable of protecting the citizens. This perception of the insurgents, who by all intents and purposes are war mongers and demons of division, must not be given credence or approval.

    From the present severe heat and intensity of air and ground attacks on the insurgents, it is predictable that sooner than later, the Nigerian military will heave a sigh. Yes, militarily, the battle would be won, but the war is still on. And one of the ways to end the war is to locate and bring to book the local sponsors of this man inhumanity to man. It is obvious that without local sponsors and conspirators, the overbearing strength and orgy of destruction perpetuated by the Boko Haram sect would not have manifested. The local sponsors serve as the window or link for the external collaborators or sponsors to get into Nigeria. Identifying the local sponsors and block their sources of funds locally and externally will no doubt have positive effect on the war against insurgency.

    It is no longer a secret that local sponsors of insurgency are in our midst. What is surprising is that up till now, the Nigerian public is still in darkness with regards to the identity of the concerned individuals or groups who through outright sponsorship, aiding and abetting, continually desecrate Nigeria, especially North-East, with the blood of innocent citizens. Even as President of the nation, Dr. Goodluck Jonathan publicly declared that there are Boko Haram members in his administration. These so called members of the sect might not just be members but sponsors. Who are these and where are they now?

    The war against insurgency must not only be won but must be seen to have been won. The Nigerian Army has been forthcoming in this regard. It has demonstrated of recent the capacity and capability to defend the sovereignty of the Nigerian state. Besides, the military is purging itself of various ills or afflictions through court marshalling suspects for various offences, including aiding, abetting the enemies and abandoning the war front.

    Our security agencies, especially the intelligent units, must brace up and be pro-active to counter all moves by the insurgents to mar the peace and destabilise the nation. Above all, they will have to think ahead and set in motion pre-emptive moves or forces to counter the plans and forces of the enemy. They have to reach out to concerned groups, stakeholders and individuals, low or high.

     

    • Victor Izekor, a journalist and public affairs analyst writes at victorizekor@gmail.com
  • BA’s rules on flying with children out

    Towards making flying smooth in the holiday season, British Airways has put in place some basic steps to ensure a pleasant flying experience for passengers, including children.

    According to its Country Commercial Manager for West Africa, Kola Olayinka, the firm has ensured  a comfortable flying experience for every passenger.

    He said: “When travelling with children, it is important to have a careful plan and take certain precautionary steps that will ensure that a child is relaxed, occupied and comfortable.’’

    He added that, being in a confined space with a noisy youngsters could  be awkward for parents and irritating to fellow flyers.

    “Most children are naturally quite excited about flying. The trick is to harness that interest, without them getting over-excited while ensuring they do not become fretful in an unfamiliar environment,” he said.

    Olayinka listed the steps to enjoy flying with children without stress to include a visit to sites such as BA.com which have comprehensive details of paperwork required for travelling with minors, so you can plan ahead.

    “You can also order children’s meals online, or get help from the hostess,” he added.

     

  • Children protest against early marriage in Cross River, Bayelsa

    Children protest against early marriage in Cross River, Bayelsa

    It was a poignant sight as children of some primary schools in Yakurr Local Government Area of Cross River State trooped through the streets to protest deprivation of their rights, especially the issue of early marriage for girls.

    •The children and adults protesting against child marriage in Cross River.
    •The children and adults protesting against child marriage in Cross River.

    The pupils who were drawn from St Pearse’s Primary School, Government Primary Ofelekan, Presbyterian Primary School, and St Joseph Primary School bore placards to drive home their grouse as they insisted their voices must be heard in matters that concern them.

    The occasion was the Day of the African Child with a theme that focused on the problem of early marriages, but the pupils said it was a matter that affects them directly and the programme to mark it was organized by the European Union (EU) and United Nations Children Fund (UNICEF) in collaboration with the state government.

    Stakeholders also joined the voices in the call to intensify the fight against early marriage.

    UNICEF consultant, Mr James Beesah, condemned the discrimination between the girl and boy child, female genital mutilation, child labour as well as other forms of child abuse.

    He said all children irrespective of gender have a right to proper education, good water and sanitation, and a good environment to grow among others.

    Programme Manager of the Rural Water Supply and Sanitation Agency (RUWATSSA), Mr Patrick Emori also called for a synergy among relevant stakeholders to fight against child marriage.

    He said child marriage is a complex issue that has devastating and long term effects on the life of girls, who are  always victims.

    The issue, he said, was a human rights, gender, health, cultural and developmental one and hence should be tackled on all fronts.

    He said children should take an active part in the fight by speaking against it wherever they find the problem. He encouraged them to talk to their parents, Government and leaders in the society about the issue.

    The wife of the chairman of Yakurr Local Government Area, Mrs Ekaette Akpama, said the days when girls were left behind in terms of Education and other developmental issues, are gone.

    She urged male and female children to take their education seriously to ensure a better future for themselves.

    The Coordinator for the Water Sanitation and Hygiene (WASH) programme in Yakurr, Comrade Onun Omini Usani, said the issue of child marriage in the area was still quite high and urged that efforts be concerted to reduce it as in other communities in the country.

    He said: “What we see for the young ones is either they are impregnated or because of poverty their parents force them to early marriage or to raise money to support the male child. At the end of the day you discover that the female child would not have a future. They just bring them as young as they are into bearing children and taking them to hard labour in the farm. If this is checked, we will now be able to have more of the female children in schools.

    “Apart from this day of the African Child, where I know we had a good rally and creating public awareness, I think the level of awareness in terms of this activity is very low. Even at school, curriculum does not even capture some of these social vices. Organisations, agencies and government need to work together to tackle this. We don’t need to depend on yearly events so everybody should be aware that it is an evil to the girl child and it should not be. The fight should be more consistent.

    “My advice is that children should be given the opportunity to express themselves, especially the opportunity of the right of education and the enabling environment to develop themselves.

    “Parents should known that is their responsibility to train the children, especially the girl child. So parents should stop encouraging child marriage and create other avenues to get resources to help their children. I also want to advise government that parents who indulge in that kind of practice should be persecuted as a deterrent to those who don’t want to change from this activity. Parents should stop it and it should be discouraged.

    “Parents should bear children they can take care of, because part of the problem we are talking is this issue of child spacing. You have so many children within a very limited time without adequate resources to take care of them. So they should have children they can take care of because when the burden is too much, they do these things and the effect is on the children who are always at the receiving end.”

    A teacher at St Pearse’s Primary School, Mrs Nkoyo Mbang, who also doubles as the Coordinator of Environmental Health Club  described child marriage as a bad culture which brings a lot of hazard to the woman.

    “The problem before now was elaborate. Only that now parents are trying to train their girl children so it is a bit reduced. Before now a girl child was not sent to school. The parents would say “I don’t want to send you to school because if I do it is your husband and husband’s people that would enjoy you.” The awareness is growing now that if the girl child is educated, it is the whole nation that is being educated. My advise to parents is that the girl child is not a slave, but should be seen as the boy child. She ought to be taken as important as the boy child.

    “We should continue to talk about it so that people who indulge in this vice would desist. When we had the day of the African Child, it is just once a year. Efforts should be made all year round by relevant stakeholders to ensure that the problem is tackled. So those in charge and policy lawmakers should put more effort in tackling this issue of child marriage.”

    A parent from the area, Mr Ikpi Eyong, said: “Early marriage poses severe health threats to the victims, some even leading to death. It can lead to  vesicovaginal fistula which is a major health problem for the girl. Also it causes dropout from school which in turn would lead to a low literacy among the women folk. I would advise other parents as myself to please don’t allow their young girls to get married off as children.”

    And in Bayelsa

    Unicef and the Rural Water and Sanitation Agency (RUWASSA), Bayelsa State were recently preoccupied with the protection of child’s rights in the state. Even the Glory FM 97.1 joined in the partnership to seek an end to various practices that violate the rights of a child.

    The institutions were no doubt bothered by early marriages, sexual abuses especially rape, physical abuses, lack of access to education and other abuses militating against the development and maturity of children in the state.

    As part of the activities to celebrate the day of the African Child, UNICEF and its partners relocated to Kaiama, the headquarters of Kolokuma/Opokuma Local Government Area of the state. They invited pupils of different schools in the area and involved them in the celebration.

    This year’s celebration of the African child by UNICEF is attached to the Soweto killing,the 1979 South African experience where some students carrying out a peaceful protest were murdered by the police. June 16 was set aside by UNICEF to honour the departed students.

    First, the pupils were given a task that exposed them to their rights as contained in the African Children’s Charter. They were asked to engage in a competitive creative drawing with a theme, “25 years after the adoption of the African Charter, accelerating our collective efforts to end child marriage in Africa”.

    Pupils from Okoro Primary School; Imgbela Primary School,Odi; Igbeta Primary School,Odi; King Bolou Primary School; Amasian Primary School,Odi; Group School 1,Okpokuma; Reverend Proctor Memorial School 1 and 2, Kaiama, participated in the competition.

    The pupils busied themselves creating images in their heads and also putting lines together to make the images real. The event attracted many dignitaries who watched as the pupils engaged in the competition.

    The Project Manager, RUWASSA, Mrs. Wini Asingbe; Head of Nutrition, Mrs. Felicia Afenfia and the Kolokuma-Opokuma Education Secretary, Mr. John Appah were all in attendance.

    Afenfia said it was necessary to instill creativity in the minds of the young ones. “Creativity should be instilled in our children at a very young age. Some are born artists while others are trained.

    “Engaging them in this kind of competition sharpens their skill. Teaching them healthy competition is very important for a healthy future”, she said.

    After the competition, the children sat to listen to instructors who spoke on various issues bordering on their rights. One of the resources persons, Dr. Bodies re Teibowei, appealed the female children not to allow anybody take advantage of them sexually

    She asked them to stop keeping secrets and to expose anybody attempting to abuse them sexually by touching their breast and waist. Addressing them she said: “Say no to bad people.”

    She further encouraged the children to be serious with their studies and to use their talents to attain greatness.

    Also speaking, the Managing Director of Glory FM, Mr. Lawson Harford who was represented by ?the Deputy Controller Programmes, Mrs. Biboera Adobeni said the theme for this year’s celebration was apt. He called on the children to be responsible useful to their families and the society at large.

    Ashingbe demonstrated to the children the benefit of washing their hands before and after meals and after using the toilet. She urged them not to drink river water and also encouraged them to ensure they drink clean water always.

    Apah appreciated UNICEF for choosing Kolokuma/Opokuma out of the eight local government areas in the state saying that the exercise was a success. He enjoined the children not to disappoint their parents and the society at large.

    The pupils held a community awareness rally and presented of short drama. Prizes were also given to the winners of the art competition.

  • Our father was unusually happy few days to his death—Ex-FUTA VC Ilemobade’s children

    Our father was unusually happy few days to his death—Ex-FUTA VC Ilemobade’s children

    After he had been declared missing for seven days, the body of former Vice-Chancellor (VC) Federal University of Technology, Akure (FUTA), Ondo State, Prof. Albert Ilemobade, was discovered in a generator store in his Ijapo, Akure residence. His guard and former driver, suspected to have carried out his assassination, have since been arrested. DAMISI OJO writes on the intrigues provoked by the death of the ex-VC.

    THE murder of former Vice Chancellor of Federal University of Technology, Akure (FUTA), Prof. Albert Ilemobade, will go down as one of the most callous in the history of Ondo State, particularly Akure, the capital. There had been no previous reports of a man of the age and status of the former university don being strangled to death.

    Concerned family members and symphatisers had embarked on marathon prayers for God to touch the minds of his abductors when the news first filtered out penultimate Monday that the retired academic had been abducted by some unknown persons. Eager to see her husband return home, Ilemobade’s aged widow, Mrs. Olakitan Ilemobade (73) had promised to find any amount demanded as ransome by his captors. Unknown to her, the late academic’s body was decaying inside the abandoned store within their white-coated building in Ijapo Estate, Akure.

    Before the late professor’s body was detected, Olakitan said she was inside the house sleeping when those she thought were kidnappers entered the house and took her husband away. According to her, she woke up only to discover that her husband was nowhere to be found while the car he parked inside the compound had also disappeared. The gate man was also nowhere to be found.

    She said: “When I got to the gate of the house, I discovered that it had been locked and our vehicle had been taken away. That is all I can remember or say about the ugly incident.”

    She said the car reported to have been abandoned along Ijare Road in Ifedore Local Government Area of the state was not the late VC’s car, adding that the suspects took him away in a Toyota RAV 4 SUV, which had not been found at the time.

    About seven days later, the corpse of the 79-year-old professor of Veterinary Medicine was discovered inside his store, causing relations and sympathisers to weep and mourn. Friends, associates and kinsmen of the late professor have continued to throng his residence on Ijapo Estate, Akure.

    Many of them were heard raining curses on the killers of their benefactor, who they said was too nice to be killed in such horrible circumstances. Ilemobade’s residence turned into a Mecca of sort as people from Akure and other parts of the state tried to catch a glimpse of the scene of the gruesome murder. They wore mournful looks as they discussed the incident in hushed tones.

    The family and church members have also made an appeal to the police and other security agencies in the country not to allow the killing of the late professor to be swept under the carpet. They described the death of the septuagenarian academic as too painful, hence the appeal for quick investigation into his killing and subsequent dispensation of justice on those found guilty in the murder case.

    The Ondo State Commissioner of Police, Mr Isaac Eke, assured the family during a chat with newsmen at the State Police Command, that Ilemobade’s killers would face the full wrath of the law. Eke also noted that the suspected killers of the late Ilemobade had confirmed to the police their involvement in the death of the late university don, adding that the law would take its full course in the case.

    Describing the suspected killers of the late professor as evil minded people, the police boss said they should not be allowed to live among human beings, hence the determination of the state Police command to ensure that justice is done promptly in the matter.

    Eke, who described the incident as traumatic and sad, described it as another dimension to criminal acts in the country, assuring that the police would ensure that the two suspects arrested in connection with the murder case, who were domestic employees of the deceased, were made to face the music

    He warned other criminals in the state, saying there would be no hiding place for them in the state.

    Adesola, a professor and eldest son of the deceased who is based in South Africa, said the family was yet to come to terms with the death of the patriarch of the Ilemobade family. According to him, “We do not know why he could have been killed in such circumstance, as he was very generous to those that worked with him, especially the driver and his security guard who have both confessed to killing him.”

    Adesola recalled that the last conversation he had with his late father occurred during the last Fathers’ Day, which he said the deceased celebrated in style.

    He said: “Papa’s (Ilemobade’s) last public function was the Father’s Day where, according to him, he played active roles in all the church activities and had personal discussions with all his children after he returned from church.

    “He specifically told me and my other siblings who came around to celebrate Fathers’ Day with him that he was happy. When we asked him why, he said he could not explain the cause of his joy but just felt happy and highly excited. He said he was too happy and could not hide his joy. He expressed his joy to everyone that came around him both in the church and at home that Sunday.”

    The only daughter of the deceased, Mrs Tolulade Ozigbo, also described her late father as a disciplinarian, stressing that the family has lost a gem and that the vacuum left by the deceased would be very difficult to fill by any member of the family.

    She recalled growing up under the tutelage of her late father, saying: “My father was a disciplinarian who would ensure that we all woke up by 6 am for family devotion, whether we liked it or not. He was too much to be missed. Nobody can say any bad thing about him, not even those who worked with him in all the places he worked, including FUTA.”

    The youngest child of the deceased, Adeseni Ilemobade, who expressed regrets on the death of his father, said the deceased’s former driver and one of the suspects arrested for his killing had during the last Easter misbehaved.

    He recalled that “when daddy travelled to Ondo, our home town, for the last Easter celebration, the driver suddenly disappeared while service was going on. After the service, Daddy could not find the driver and the car in the church premises. He reported the case to the police and after some days, the driver was arrested and the car was found. But daddy, after a while, accepted the plea of the driver. Now,the driver has done his worst by eliminating him.”

    He described the alleged action of the driver as vengeance, stressing that “the driver later came back on revenge mission. But we thank God our father lived a life well spent in the service of God and humanity. He was a man everybody would like to come across and these make us happy as his children who are also growing in his counsel.”

    Notwithstanding the circumstances surrounding the death of Ilemobade, the family said a befitting burial would be given to the late professor, stressing that “no matter the way he left, we are still going to celebrate him as a hero that he was.”

    Adesola, eldest son of the deceased, said: “Regardless of the circumstances that surrounded his exit (death), our late father will be given a befitting burial. The family is already meeting and planning on the date of the burial,” he said, adding that “our late father will be celebrated by the family whenever we agree to bury him.”

    Also, the Vicar-in-Charge of Vinning College of Theology, Akure where the deceased attended before his death, Dr Ayodeji Fagbemi, said: “We have lost a very great scholar and it is just too wicked for a man of his caliber to have been killed this way. It is a terrible thing and I believe that those behind this killing will not go unpunished.”

    He called on the government and the police to ensure that the killers of Ilemobade face the music, saying the case should not be swept under the carpet, just as he called on the judiciary to give accelerated hearing to the case for the world to have confidence in the judiciary.

    Ilemobade’s suspected killers were arrested in Ogun State and, after interrogation by security agents, it was discovered that the two suspects confessed to the killing of Ilemobade, hiding his corpse in a store that housed the generator before running away with his vehicle, which they planned to sell. This led to their transfer to the Ondo State Police Command.

    One of the suspects, Bamitale, a 36-year-old man who claimed to be an indigene of Ekiti State, had during interrogation said he stopped working as a driver with Prof Ilemobade about four months ago when he attempted to steal a car belonging to his boss, adding that Daniel, who was also a domestic staff of the late university don, contacted him a few weeks ago and told him that he had consulted his herbalist on how to steal the car without running into trouble.

    Narrating how they killed Prof. Ilemobade, he said: “After he had told me about his herbalist on the phone, Daniel asked me to come to the House at Ijapo Estate on Sunday by 9p.m. When I got to the place, he told me that he had met his herbalist who told him that if we wanted to take the car, we must ensure that we killed Prof and that he must take away some sand from that house so that there won’t be any problem after we might have killed him. “

    His words: “When I asked him how we were going to kill Prof who was already sleeping outside, Daniel said he would lure him to the security room by telling him that there was a power surge, and from there, we would strangle him to death. We would then be able to enter into his room and take whatever we wanted.

    “He went into the sitting room of Prof and called him that there was a power surge, and Baba passed through the kitchen to the security room. It was there that we grabbed his neck until he stopped breathing. We took him to a store beside his car park and dumped his body there, We put a picture on his chest so that if the body was later found, they would think that it was those who killed him that dropped the picture.

    “When we entered his room, we saw the car key and N7,000 with his laptop and two phones. Daniel locked the gate from outside and we went away with the Rav 4 Toyota car. When we were about leaving his residence at Ijapo Estate, in Akure, we met some police officers who passed by us thinking that Prof had sent us out.

    “We slept at Alagbaka area of Akure because Daniel’s brother, who lived at Arakale in Akure, refused to pick his phone. The following morning, Daniel asked us to take the car to Calabar, but I told him that the N7,000 with us was not enough to buy fuel to take us to Calabar. We agreed to take the Car to Lagos, but the people I know in Lagos did not agree that I should bring the car to them.

    “We left the place for Ijebu-Ode. It was then that FRSC officers arrested us, saying that we did`n’t have the car documents. They took the car to a nearby police station where we were directed to pay N3,000 at First Bank.

    “There was no money on us again, and when it was the second day, we took the laptop and the two phones to Epe so as to get buyers in order to secure the release of the car.

    “When Daniel saw one of his kinsmen, the guy agreed to buy the phones and he gave us N3,000 so that we could secure the release of the seized car. I went to First bank to pay the money and we took the teller to the FRSC. We were given a letter which we took to the police station and they released the car to us.”

    Meanwhile the remains of the late Ilemobade were still in the morgue at press time and may be buried as soon as the family concludes arrangements for the burial rites. It was learnt that the church and the family had met on how to give the late Ondo born academic a befitting burial.

    Efforts to speak with Mrs Ilemobade were futile as her children and symphatisers insisted that the septuagenarian widow had been advised against making comments on the incident probably because of age factor or mood of the moment.

    Shortly after her husband’s corpse was found in the store room, she had pleaded with the police to bring the suspects to her in order to give her opportunity of asking five questions from them on why they killed his long time companion and bread winner.

    However, it could not be ascertained whether the Commissioner of Police acceded to Mrs Ilemobade’s request before the two suspects were remanded in prison awaiting trial.