Tag: Children

  • Protect your children, SAN urges parents

    PARENTS have been urged to protect their children against abuse. Mrs. Titilola Akinlawon (SAN) gave the advice  at the annual lecture organised by the African Women Lawyers Association(AWLA), Nigeria to mark the ‘Day of the African Child’.

    Akinlawon, who chaired the event spoke on the topic, “ Child protection; culture and responsibilities.”

    She urged parents to inculcate high level of discipline and integrity in their children.

    Female children, he said, shout when they are being abused by the opposite sex,in order not to lose their dignity and self-respect.

    She said the right of every child is protected and guaranteed in the Lagos State Child’s Rights Law enacted in 2010 and in the child law put in place by the Federal Government.

    The Senior Advocate of Nigeria noted that though the present generation of children have the privilege of Internet and other electronic media network around them, she counselled  them not to abuse such priviledges by visiting websites that would not advance their academic pursuit.

    “You are our future if we fail to pay attention to your welfare, then what does the future holds for you”, she asked.

    Speaking on ‘Child Protection’, Mrs. Tam George, said a recent report by United States stated that over 10.5 per cent of children of school age in Nigeria are out of School.

    “You have a right to sound education, you have a right to leisure and recreation, you have right to move together in group, you have right to ask and to express yourself, you have right not to be physically abused.”

    George however charged the children to pursue their goals and also seek more information that can assist them in their academics.

    Similarly, Mrs. Lara Williams who spoke on “Culture and Religion”noted that culture has taken away over 90 per cent of the daily activities in Africa.

    She said that there was need for  male children  to have respect and dignify their female counterpart.

    According to her, there should be an end to the attitude of discrimination between the male and female child in the family.

    She frowned at the public discrimination against disable children in the society.

    “Disable children are always not being properly taking care of. They are always being hidden from the public even by their parents” she lamented.

    Williams urged the children to desist from rebellious act and instead package themselves and behave well in their respective homes.

    She also tasked children to listen to instructions from their parents, adding: “Parents have responsibilities to you and you children also have responsibilities to them”.

     

     

  • Family government (4)

    Dear Reader,

    One truth you need to know is that your children, in actual sense, do not belong to you, but to God. He has simply put them in your charge and made you their caretaker. That is why we will be examining the aspect of CHILD TRAINING.

    Children constitute immediate members of the family government after the woman. Both the man and the woman have a joint responsibility to perform, in training their children.

    They both have different roles to play in the family government, in order to ensure lasting success and excitement in the family. Just as it took both the man and the woman to bring about the birth of the child, so also, are they expected to rear him or her together.

    God’s Word in Psalm 127:3-5 says: Lo, children are an heritage of the Lord: and the fruit of the womb is his reward. As arrows are in the hand of a mighty man; so are children of the youth. Happy is the man that hath his quiver full of them: they shall not be ashamed, but they shall speak with the enemies in the gate. Children, as members of the family government, are additional blessings from God Himself, sent to spice up your family. Children are sent to add colour and meaning to your family government.

    Can you imagine a nation having a president, governors, ministers and commissioners but no people? There will not be much governing to do. This case can be likened to the blessings of having children in the family. They are rewards and “arrows”. An arrow is a lethal fighting weapon that is used for various purposes. Children in the hands of God, can be likened to such lethal weapon that can be used to destroy the works of the devil. Verse 5 says: they shall speak with the enemies in the gate. They are blessings from God that are invaluable.

    Therefore, you have a responsibility to prepare them the way skilled craftsmen fashion arrows, at the blacksmith’s workshop. You have to carefully and patiently groom them to become arrows as faithful and responsible adults in the area of business, education, legislature and gospel promotion.

    For instance, Daniel was not a preacher, but a politician, yet he was righteous and upheld the name of Jehovah in Daniel 5:11-12. Joseph was a prime minister, who also upheld integrity in Genesis 39:8-9 and Genesis 41:38-41. Other examples include Samuel in I Samuel 3:19 and Timothy as a Bishop in I Timothy 4:14. These are some examples of men who were brought up in homes where God’s laws were taught, thereby fashioning them to become arrows in God’s hands.

    Two major tools for training your child are: LOVE and CONTROL. These two are of equal importance. You cannot control a child you do not love, and you cannot effectively love a child you do not control. You need 100% of both in training your child. God’s Word in Luke 18:16 says: But Jesus called them to Him and said, let the little children come to Me, and do not forbid them; for of such is the kingdom of God and Mark 10:16 says: And he took them up in His arms, laid His hands on them, and blessed them. These are practical examples of how to demonstrate love to your children. It summarily involves you developing a mutual and trustworthy relationship with them. Let them know that you love them in your actions and words, when you are teaching, training or disciplining them.

    Children are very sensitive, so if your actions and words do not portray that you love them, they will doubt, you even if you say so. Treat them respectfully as little people and not as inferiors. Remember, they are very important members of the family government too! Never be too proud to say, “I’m sorry” to your child, when you’ve made a mistake. Be a sure example to your children always. Don’t tell them to do what you won’t do yourself. Also, allow them to learn by examples. Children learn faster this way. Remember, children need love, especially when they don’t deserve it.

    Control, on the other hand, means to have authority and power in order to direct, manage or rule. Love without control will lead to destruction (I Samuel 2:22, 29). Children should be taught early in life, how to submit to higher authorities. Exercising control in training your child should be done with patience, using yourself as an example for the child to follow.

    Having read this teaching, it is important for you to accept the Author of every family government, by confessing Jesus Christ as your Lord and Saviour. God wants the best for your family and He can turn your home around for the better, if you let Him. Accepting Him, will open you up to His help. If you will like to confess Jesus Christ as your Lord now and become born again, please say this prayer: “Lord Jesus Christ, I come to You today. I am a sinner. I cannot help myself. Forgive me of my sins and cleanse me with Your blood. Deliver me from sin and satan, to serve the living God. I believe You died for me and on the third day, You rose that I might be justified. I accept You as my Lord and Saviour. Make me a child of God today. Thank You for accepting me into Your Kingdom”.

    Congratulations, you are now born again! I believe that you will begin to experience the reality of the price that Jesus paid for your sins at Calvary. All-round rest and peace are guaranteed you, in Jesus’ Name!

    Call or write, and share your testimonies with me through:

    E-mail: faithdavid@yahoo.com Tel. No: 07026385437; 07094254102

    For more insight, these books authored by Pastor Faith Oyedepo are available at the Dominion Bookstores in all Living Faith Churches and other leading Christian bookstores: Making Marriage Work, Marriage Covenant, Building A Successful Home and Success in Marriage (Co-Authored)

     

  • FRSC trains children on safety

    he sector 2.19, Oshodi Command of the Federal Road Safety Commission (FRSC), has begun ‘Catch Them Young’ campaign to curb road accidents in the state as a way of ensuring that children are enlightened on safe road use.

    The Sector Commander, Mr Samuel Ogundayo, who stated this during an awareness campaign on road safety for school children, said the sector embarked on the campaign so as to enlighten the children on safe road use.

    Ogundayo, who noted that children are the worst victims of road crashes either directly or indirectly said children, when properly educated would be inclined to easily draw the attention of elders to observe acts of negligence or misbehaviour on the road.

    He said the command used the occasion of the children’s day not only to celebrate children but to draw awareness to road safety issues, adding that his command held training on zebra crossing and the use of seat belt because findings have shown that many fatal crashes have occurred by neglecting the rules.

    His words: “Even when they are not involved in crashes, the untimely death of their parents or guardians in  road crashes will definitely affect their future. It has, therefore, become imperative to reach out to children and acquaint them with traffic rules and safety measures.

    “This will make them safety conscious and imbibe the culture of learning traffic rules before they advance in age.”

    He also warned children against the use of ear-phones while on the roads, to avoid being knocked down by careless drivers, stressing that such practices would distract and prevent them from hearing the  sound of oncoming vehicles.

    In her contribution at the occasion, one of the Road Safety Ambassadors, Miss Folakemi Adekunle, appealed to parents to always abide by traffic regulations for the sake of their children.

    Miss Adekunle called on motorists to always take the issue of pedestrians’ safety serious and refrain from acts that could endanger the lives of commuters.

    Not less than 500 school children were present at the TY Danjuma hall of the Armed Forces Resettlement Centre (AFRC), venue of the event, where they entertained themselves before officers of the command educated the children on various measures on road safety.

    Among other dignitaries at the event were Mrs Victoria Bamidele, who represented the Lagos State Sector Commander, Major Comfort Edet who represented the AFRC, Commander Vehicle Inspection Service, Oshodi unit Mr Kasali Suara and top management of the safety commission.

     

  • Aregbesola fights poverty with O’Meal

    Aregbesola fights poverty with O’Meal

    There were grim statistics for Nigeria from the recently released “State of School Feeding Worldwide Report”, compiled by the World Food Programme (WFP).

    The report, launched at the United Nations headquarters in New York, indicated that only one out of five school children get a healthy school meal in developing countries. The report also presented a gloomy picture of Nigeria’s school feeding programme highlighting that less than 500,000 school children get a decent meal in school. In that report, Nigeria and Cameroon shared the ignoble position of coming last.

    In 2004, Nigeria began a pilot project of Home Grown School Feeding and Health Programme (HGSFHP) which was part of the Universal Basic Education Programme. It was designed to feed pupils in elementary public schools. But out of the 13 states that participated in the programme, only one state remained committed to the continued implementation and improvement of the project: The state is Osun.

    The state governor, Ogbeni Rauf Aregbesola has been developing a simple theory with his re-organised school feeding programme in the state. For him, providing nutritious and healthy meals in schools has a direct link to mental development and the eradication of poverty.

    Therefore when in April 2012, he decided to review the school feeding programme with a bigger and better menu, he targeted not just the children but also the farmers in the state. The Osun Elementary School Feeding and Health Programme (O’Meals), which was the result of the new thinking in the state has since surpassed most of its main objectives.

    One of the cardinal points of O’Meals is to increase enrollment and retention of school children in state primary schools. Within four weeks of the commencement of the programme however, school enrollment has jumped about 25 per cent in government primary schools. By June 30, 2012, enrollment increased from 155,318,000 to 194,253 from primaries 1-3.

    Basking in the euphoria of this success, the state government promptly widened the scope and included primary 4 in the scheme. The state now feeds a total of 252,793,000 students daily at the annual cost of N3billion. From the report of the WFP, Osun State accounts for more than half of the total number of children getting healthy and nutritious school meals in Nigeria.

    The operation officer of O’meal, Mrs. Bunmi Ayoola, said the programme has achieved and surpassed its objectives of increasing school enrollment in the state. She said the government also ensures that the food is prepared in a healthy and neat environment.

    “Balanced diet helps in developing the brain’s capacity as well as cognitive response index of each child and it plays a major role in ensuring that children assimilate learning instructions fast and well,’’ she said.

    Fighting poverty and increasing enterprise

    But increased enrollment was not the only intention of the Osun State government; reduction of poverty and boosting small and medium scale enterprise were also key points in the school feeding programme. According to the Deputy Governor, Mrs. Grace Titilayo Laoye-Tomori, the rebirth of the school feeding programme has had a positive impact on farmers.

    “As part of six points integral action plan of the state government to banish hunger, create employment and education for all; the school feeding programme has increased the enrollment of the pupils by 25 per cent within the two weeks of re-introduction, allowed farmers to engage in massive food production and encouraged learning in primary schools. Let me tell you that 80 per cent of food production by the farmers in the State will be used for feeding of our kids in the programme”.

    The deputy governor revealed that over 900 cocoyam farmers have been empowered by the government.

    “In order to ensure that the programme is sustained, we have encouraged our farmers to go into massive production of fish and chicken with which to feed the pupils. We have also directed our farmers to go into massive production of plantain, banana and very soon we are thinking on the possibility of going into massive production of rice and establish rice mills across the state to encourage our farmers,” she said.

    More than 3,000 women in the state have also been empowered to serve as the food vendors. The vendors are well kitted with modern cooking utensils and bowls at the cost of N152 million to the state government. One of the vendors, Mrs. Esther Ogundipe said the programme has empowered her family. “Aregbesola has added value to my life; I am no more a housewife,’’ she said.

    Today, according to the state government, 15,000 whole chickens are sourced weekly from local poultry farmers; 254,000 eggs sourced weekly; 35 heads of cattle purchased weekly from local cattle farmers and 400 tonnes of catfish purchased weekly from local fish farmers.

    Even though some have criticised the enormous cost of the programme, the WFP said even in developed country, the amount spent by government on school meals is a worthy investment for the future.

    “This will help raise healthy adults for the future, it is a worthy investment by any government,” the world body said.

    At mid-day on any school day, the bell rang; food vendors immaculately dressed began to make preparations for the feeding of their wards. All across the state, the same process is repeated at every primary school. Meals like Yam Porridge, bread soaked in a steaming red stew with chicken to garnish, beans porridge and vegetables, all complemented with fruits were handed over to 250,000 children. In Osun schools, time for break means time for “Ounje Aregbe.”

     

  • Pediatrics and child health; in focus: Children of the street and children on the street (4)

    Ogun state has nine registered Universities, the highest of any state in Nigeria, whereas Osun state has four or five .What a proactive enterprise, to ensure that there are enough to feed the universities

    This should be taken up as a Federal government project. After all investment in children is investment in the future of the country if mobile phones could be bought and distributed to farmers, then these devices can be bought and made available to our kids, with assistance by the state governments

    Children spend quality time face booking, but the contents are mostly on relationships, infatuation, self love etc. they could be redirected to use the equipment to create learning groups, exchange groups, interschool study groups etc

    Time spent on wandering /loitering/idling /games can be studied and findings used to review/improve the project

    Routine screening can be done on street children (with incentives) to evaluate. psychiatric/mental health, to know those already on alcohol, other drugs including hard drugs

    Research—knowledge attitude and perception ( kAP) studies, can also be sponsored to seek out candidates suitable for rehabilitation…it may then be possible to know the extent of their involvement, identity of their social contacts, those being indoctrinated/brainwashed among other benefits

    Some parents give no good examples and so the children have a teacher of bad habits in their Mom or Dad

    Intending couples should be encouraged to think seriously about relationships before you go into one, so you don’t end up with unwanted pregnancies.

    Health education, age appropriate should be encouraged in schools, churches and family fellowship

    Government should also pay more attention to funding in homes for motherless babies and orphanages

    It is time young girls stopped looking at Europe and America as pure heaven, reality is that they also have their own problems of people feeding directly from the dustbin.

    Parents, churches should to the extent possible monitor what their children are doing in terms of face booking competition, faces simply do not represent human being

    What about what children are doing and being allowed to do in the different schools? How age appropriate are the messages they are getting? How gender sensitive. What relationship exists between teachers, pupils and students?

    Who and how are records kept? In the Holy Trinity Grammar school of those days, the principal took the matter of children on the street very seriously. He took time to ride bicycle and would chase students anywhere they ran, even into bushes and broth them into schools with severe disciplinary measures to serve as deterrent to others. Students were encouraged to go to the school libraries during free periods. Loitering was forbidden because they were used as avenues to dash to the streets

    With the large population of this country, and the presence of vast portions of arable land, the School to land policy which was the brain child of a previous Military Government should be reexamined. Research has shown that more than half of the total number of street boys are secondary school dropouts, and The finance minister has been glad to announce that Non oil exports has now climbed to over 20%, while this is encouraging, poverty and hunger are two conditions which prepare many Nigerian Women(including pregnant women ) and children for Malaria to complete the dying process, One sure way of eradicating hunger and perhaps poverty is to pump money into mechanized agriculture, send young people for training in specific areas, remove the fear attached to farming that farmers die young and because they die for subsistence die poor. With milking machines, tractors, harvesters, incubators, with research laboratories, there will be enough to eat and family coherence needed to bring children close to their families can be guaranteed. Taking inventories, census of those living secondary schools, of youth corps members will enable proper planning and efficient management of a School to land initiative. It is a reliable way of getting children away from the streets, and reducing the number of children and young adults available for recruitment into various crimes and for trafficking. With enough food to eat and sell, female children can have education to what ever level as desired. They will not need to sell their bodies for money, and even if they have to indulge, they will have the capacity to negotiate for safer sex. Capacity building is not all about giving loans, that are tied to so many strings that recipients end up getting poorer while the banks declare unbelievable profits, the school to land initiative is a better alternative for those too poor or too young to assess bank loans.

    Governments, National orientation agency and others concerned with the welfare of Children should engage schools, colleges, physicians in family health, child health and pediatrics and support them to carry out research in the problem of street children . Government should bring down the costs of adoption, but do more monitoring once the processes are done with. Relevant agencies can involve social workers in supervision and management of minor conditions.

    Governments can build Science and Technology camps, mechanic, Lap top, and cell phone repair centers in strategic locations, where large groups of street boys congregate. Inventors can emerge from such camps and with positive reinforcement, others can emulate and aspire. Dreams and hope will metamorphose into reality, for the individual and for the family/

    .It is time wealthy individuals, institutions, multinational companies began to show interest in Debates, quiz contest, and other activities that can reward excellence, and make the streets less attractive for children. Setting up football academies like the one by Channels TV organization is a very good one. The boys are playing fantastic foot ball and are likely to draw others of their age away from street life. Someone should try a similar experiment with the girls and you will be amazed. However, not every one plays foot ball, just as we don’t expect every child to know how to play the saxophone, or guitar, but every child needs an education. Those who give out 50 million naira to sponsor birthday parties for strangers in our midst as a way of showing they have money need to spare a few minutes to imagine what one million can do for a home for the motherless, being managed by Catholic missions. These catholic charity organizations will be wondering whether God gave Wealthy Nigerians such retrogressive mindset that we can actually prefer to build more houses abroad than give financial support to the needy, even within extended family systems.

    Churches and religious organizations should encourage activities that teach children to avoid dangerous experiments, avoid attempting to do things they watch and see on television. Church programs for children should include insightful comments and activities on the fear of God, the love and respect for parents, family members and authorities. Such programs for children should not be designed to exploit parents, because no matter in what for it is disguised, children have their own ways of knowing what the intentions are. If Children can not find comfort, assurance and hope in Churches, they will find them on the street, if those telling them to give their lives to Christ hide to engage in anti Christian activities, Children will show that they too can hide and see what goes on in the dark, and if they cant give their lives to Christ, the devil, bacteria and dangerous viruses will all be very happy to take over such lives,

    We need Stronger Parents Teachers Associations (PTA) is in our Schools and colleges, where office holders –at least some of them have children in the schools they oversee. Policy makers should also have their children in the schools. Situations exist where female school children are made to go out and look for water in school compounds where there are boys known to belong to the class of children on the street. These innocent girls who are either sent to fetch water or throw dust bins can be enticed with in many ways by these boys hanging around the school premises for just such opportunities so as to give vent to their dangerous feelings. One wonders why people entrusted with oversight functions only pay visits and do so without giving pupils and students the opportunity to share their experience concerning health, safety and environment. When cases of rape are discovered under conditions such as stated above, parents are usually very reluctant understandably to expose their children to the associated negative publicity and the stigma slapped on victims of rape. School authorities report cases late, when if there was transmission of infection, it will have gone past the incubation period. Take the issue of HIV/AIDS for instance, which has incubation period between eight weeks and ten years; bringing a rape victim to the clinic three days after the incidence is useless, except if it is done to have a record of the status of the victim. Similarly, going to the Doctor two weeks after the incidence so you can get a Medical report for the Police are unhelpful over 80% of the forensic evidence would have been lost. Moreover, giving antiretroviral drugs after twenty four hours does not guarantee even up to 40% destruction of the pool of invading viruses. From all these, it should be apparent that every thing humanly possible should be done to either keep young female students in boarding schools away from street children or avoid situations where these little girls are forced into situations where they have no choice. Most of these children are easily frightened when they realize their parents are hundreds and thousands of kilometers away and phones are forbidden.

  • Children and cell phones

    SIR: Our children are now very much interested in the manipulation of cell phone, watching films and other thrillers every day. They are deep rooted in the act in such a way that they often forgo doing their home work, reading their books and attending to other home chores. More worrisome and disturbing is that those in the secondary schools go to school with the gadgets which they browse in the class even when lessons are going on. This craziness in frivolous activities has in fact contributed in no small measure to the massive poor performance in examinations by students.

    Unfortunately, this syndrome is manifesting at the time the government is setting every thing in motion towards achieving quality education for all by 2015. All the same, the situation is not completely out of hand as the government, especially the school authorities, can do something to remedy the situation.

    Against this backdrop, I suggest to the government, teachers, parents and other stakeholders to do everything within their strides to correct this aberration. Otherwise, our nation would be infested with bunch of illiterate graduates in the near future.

    The last UTME witnessed the worst performance ever known in the history of this country. Only 10 out of 1.7 million candidates who sat for the examination scored 300 and above. Such a poor performance should move stakeholders, especially the present government to find a lasting solution to the problem,

    Regrettably, the deadline projected for making education in the country superb clashes with the next general election. I have the eerie feeling that government would do much on the issue since the campaign for governance in 2015 has dominated the polity.

    Nigeria has all it takes to bring back education to an enviable height like in the days of our famous trio, Awolowo, Balewa and Azikiwe of blessed memory. My heart bleeds whenever I see the poster, STUDY IN GHANA in our major towns and cities. Imagine Ghana that was sent packing decades ago now, like the biblical Joseph feeding us educationally. Nigerians now go to Ghana to study. Is not shameful?

    Parents should do something about this indulgence in frivolities by our children because they are the first people to feel the impact of their misbehaviour. The bottom line is parents should not buy their children cell phone until they finish their secondary education.

    • Nkemakolam Gabriel

    Port Harcourt, Rivers State.

  • Women warned against harmful practices against children

    Women warned against harmful practices against children

    •Group decries low education on infant mortality

    THE Minister of Women Affairs and Social Development, Hajia Zainab Maina, has urged policy makers to adopt and implement policies that would prevent women from inflicting harmful practices on their children.

    The minister spoke in Abuja, the nation’s capital, as Nigeria joined the rest of the world to mark this year’s Day of the African Child.

    She also urged development partners to compile, adopt and implement national plans which protect, respect, promote and fulfil the rights of children to be protected from harmful traditional practices.

    The policies, she said, include introducing public awareness and education involving policy makers, respected elders, traditional leaders and community workers.

    Speaking on the theme of this year’s celebration: Eliminating Harmful Social and Cultural Practices Affecting Children: Our Collective Responsibility, Hajia Maina, who was represented by the Permanent Secretary, Hajia Habiba Muda Lawal, said everyone must ensure the protection of children.

    She regretted that many children in the country are subjected to harmful practices that have negative impact on their psyche and personality development.

    The minister listed these as female genital mutilation, child marriage, honour killings, son preference, witchcraft labelling, among others.

    Also, Mothers’ Pride, a non-governmental organisation (NGO), has criticised governments at all levels for not doing enough to educate about the negative impact of maternal and infant mortality, especially among rural dwellers.

    The group noted that federal, states and local governments need to educate the populace to boost literacy level and reduce diseases, such as hypertension, cancer, malaria and typhoid.

    It regretted that such diseases have reduced the nation’s population.

    The Director, Mother’s Pride, Mrs Oladunni Korede-Shokunde, spoke in Lagos at a sensisation programme she organised in partnership with the First Baptist Church, Agbado, Lagos.

    She said: “We need proper public education and the support of institutions, like religious organisations, to reduce these scourges.”

     

  • Pediatrics and child health; in focus: Children of the street and children on the street (3)

    Pediatrics and child health; in focus: Children of the street and children on the street (3)

    Children of mentally ill parents may end up as street children when they are unable to get adequate assistance to help them carry the burden of care, this added to the fact that mental illness on its own can either be inherited or acquired

    Working parents often leave their kids with members of the family who may not be responsible enough to prevent the kids from straying away

    Street children are often characterized by poor housing, unfenced living quarters, slums and excessively permissive parents

    Where orphanages are abandoned by governments, you have rigid and expensive adoption conditions, potential parents are scared away . Where there is insufficient background check, poor or inadequate supervision of foster care, any thing is possible

    Family conditions may be such that there is enough to go round but not socially conducive; two situations can help readers appreciate this; wife inheritance one involved sudden death of a husband and the inheritance of the widow by a 12 year old boy child, who was living with the family at the time. All normal coping mechanisms broke down and at a point, children who saw their mom as not worthy of respect began as children of the street and later of the street. In the second situation, a polygamous man had 21 children through 5 wives, the children grew up mostly dependent on what their moms could provide, and nearly all ended as street children

    Abusive parents, uncles, single parents, abusive foster parents, and others too busy to look after children create multiple avenues for children to abandon homes for the streets. Others include excessively permissive parents, marital disharmony where a mother habitually tries to override decisions taken by the head of the family.

    In other situations, weak or inactive parents teachers association (PTA), principals and school heads too harsh to reach either by parents, pupils or students, could make it difficult to effectively monitor activities of children particularly those in boarding schools

    Some local trafficking in humans involves trading in house helps who move from one house to another in different locations at times working with street children to steal from unsuspecting employers. Most of them end up becoming vagabonds and carriers of sexually transmitted agents.

    Street trading, begging or hawking is a common feature on the streets, in poor communities of the world communities Poor or low risk assessment of personal dangers, in association with low level of education, especially health education is common amongst parents, guardian and children involved in street trading. However for poor families it is the only way to survive economic troubles; affected children may become attracted to the freedom and adventure denied by regimented conditions at home.

    Health problems………..

    In addition to the issues analyzed so far, Health problems classifiable into physical, mental social, environmental, and psychosocial to effectively capture the extent of the problem and the solution have been recognized; Children on the street are exposed to all sorts of diseases from Malaria(merciless mosquito bites), Staphylococcus and Salmonella food poisoning from contaminated food and drinks, sexually transmitted diseases such as, HIV/AIDS, Hepatitis, B and C, Syphilis, Cancroids, Herpes and Gonorrhea.

    Concerning environmental hazards, water is a major problem for street children and so they drink from sources likely to be contaminated with metals such as Lead, Cadmium, and Arsenic. These will eventually cause damage to organs like the kidneys, brain and liver. Those using mechanic workshop as dwelling places are exposed to petroleum products, metals have been implicated in tumors and street children run the risks of developing cancer of the skin, bladder and liver later in life.

    Physical health status of street children can be influenced by many variables; in all, children on the street can act as Infection Bridge, bringing diseases from the street to the homes while children of the street can slip into homes to visit friends when everyone is not paying attention. They also are at risks of direct injury that can break bones of hands, legs, teeth and skull from getting into fights. Violent death can also come very quickly from being run over by motor vehicles or falling from heights. Being caught and flogged can leave telltale marks that can be seen mostly on the extensor (back surfaces) of the upper limbs- arms and forearms.

    Frequent micturition with mild biting pain as a child urinates, offensive or very bad vaginal odour, with lower abdominal pay may give away the presence of genitourinary tract infection in the girl child. She may sleeping on her feet, excessively drowsy , wanting to be left alone , unable to take any thing by mouth, or even vomiting if pregnancy has come in. Purulent discharge (pus with or without urine) from the penis with agonizing pain (evidence of infection, urethritis) may make the boy child hide away from parents to urinate.

    For street children, the risk of acute disease conditions, developing to become chronic is very high and because they have no money, tendency is to buy a few drugs, e.g. assuming a street child contracts gonorrheal infection, he is not likely to panic, but will go to a patent medicine shop for treatment which in most cases is subclinical paving the way for the infection to become chronic , A young Medical student knowing what structures could be at risk will rush to the Venerology Clinic, undergo medical examination, and lab tests which will assist a Physician to administer drugs that will clear the bacterium within days. For the girl child of the street.the reproductive career can be permanently damaged by a single episode of poorly treated gonorrheal infection. Syphilis could also progress from primary through damage to the heart and the third stage where there is damage to the brain (GPI) which may be irreversible.

    Water borne, and water associated diseases are common problems with street children, because access to water is a major problem, they are prone to skin diseases, acute and chronic diarrheal diseases, frequent mouth infections, vaginal yeast infections, pelvic inflammatory disease (PID).

    Food poisoning occurs frequently manifesting with diarrhea, and vomiting because street children may be forced to eat from dust bin and drink contaminated water.

    Rape, prostitution, early marriage, teenage pregnancies, baby motherhood are some of the problems associated with street children, victims of child trafficking, sex slavery and rape also become victims of stigma, may develop psycho social problems and may find it difficult to live normal lives. Inhabitants of the street don’t operate in a vacuum. Older children of the street organize themselves into gangs, you must belong to a gang, once you enter the street, involvement in drug use, and hard drugs may start with alcohol and cigarettes and then someone graduates to others that will see him dive into many others with little or no will power to fight addiction. Currently street children consume large quantities of cough mixture, antidepressants, and anabolic steroids to make themselves stronger, assuming false optimism.

    Suggestions

    First is to make the streets less attractive for street children at different levels. Family, community, local governments, State and the Federal governments.

    Practical steps to provide basic necessities of life, such as food, water, and electricity.

    If there is no electricity in the homes most of the time, and there is a place where a small generating set can provide light at the cost of a bottle of drink, a street child will jump out.

    There has been much talk about how badly the standards of education have fallen, without any reasonable or concrete steps to address the condition.

    The recently launched Governor Aregbosola child education project, should be adopted by the Federal government as a sustainable policy for child empowerment development and education.

    The benefits are numerous; It will make the school more attractive and the streets less so.

    It is indeed very timely going by the possibility of making JME an e exam by 2015.

    The governor perhaps gave more devotion to how the problem of our technological stagnation can be solved at the first rungs of the academic ladder. How they can be empowered to learn , build up individual capacity to pass requisite exams and move on to greater heights, at the same time spreading the good hope, not all for the rich as usual but for every one, the arrangement makes provision for continuity and healthy competition

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Ogun state has nine registered Universities, the highest of any state in Nigeria, whereas Osun state has four or five .What a proactive enterprise, to ensure that there are enough to feed the universities

    This should be taken up as a Federal government project. After all investment in children is investment in the future of the country if mobile phones could be bought and distributed to farmers, then these devices can be bought and made available to our kids, with assistance by the state governments

    Children spend quality time face booking, but the contents are mostly on relationships, infatuation, self love etc. they could be redirected to use the equipment to create learning groups, exchange groups, interschool study groups etc

    Time spent on wandering /loitering/idling /games can be studied and findings used to review/improve the project

    Routine screening can be done on street children (with incentives) to evaluate .psychiatric/mental health, to know those already on alcohol, other drugs including hard drugs

    Research.—knowledge attitude and perception ( kAP) studies, can also be sponsored to seek out candidates suitable for rehabilitation…it may then be possible to know the extent of their involvement, identity of their social contacts, those being indoctrinated /brainwashed among other benefits

    Some parents give no good examples and so the children have a teacher of bad habits in their Mom or Dad

    Intending couples should be encouraged to think seriously about relationships before you go into one, so you don’t end up with unwanted pregnancies.

    Health education, age appropriate should be encouraged in schools, churches and family fellowship

    Government should also pay more attention to funding in homes for motherless babies and orphanages

    It is time young girls stopped looking at Europe and America as pure heaven, reality is that they also have their own problems of people feeding directly from the dustbin.

    Parents, churches should to the extent possible monitor what their children are doing in terms of face booking competition, faces simply do not represent human being

    What about what children are doing and being allowed to do in the different schools? How age appropriate are the messages they are getting? How gender sensitive. What relationship exists between teachers, pupils and students?

    Who and how are records kept? In the Holy Trinity Grammar school of those days, the principal took the matter of children on the street very seriously. He took time to ride bicycle and would chase students anywhere they ran, even into bushes and broth them into schools with severe disciplinary measures to serve as deterrent to others. Students were encouraged to go to the school libraries during free periods. Loitering was forbidden because they were used as avenues to dash to the streets

    With the large population of this country, and the presence of vast portions of arable land, the School to land policy which was the brain child of a previous Military Government should be reexamined. Research has shown that more than half of the total number of street boys are secondary school dropouts, and The finance minister has been glad to announce that Non oil exports has now climbed to over 20%, while this is encouraging, poverty and hunger are two conditions which prepare many Nigerian Women(including pregnant women ) and children for Malaria to complete the dying process, One sure way of eradicating hunger and perhaps poverty is to pump money into mechanized agriculture, send young people for training in specific areas, remove the fear attached to farming that farmers die young and because they die for subsistence die poor. With milking machines, tractors, harvesters, incubators, with research laboratories, there will be enough to eat and family coherence needed to bring children close to their families can be guaranteed. Taking inventories, census of those living secondary schools, of youth corps members will enable proper planning and efficient management of a School to land initiative. It is a reliable way of getting children away from the streets, and reducing the number of children and young adults available for recruitment into various crimes and for trafficking. With enough food to eat and sell, female children can have education to what ever level as desired. They will not need to sell their bodies for money, and even if they have to indulge, they will have the capacity to negotiate for safer sex. Capacity building is not all about giving loans, that are tied to so many strings that recipients end up getting poorer while the banks declare unbelievable profits, the school to land initiative is a better alternative for those too poor or too young to assess bank loans.

    Governments, National orientation agency and others concerned with the welfare of Children should engage schools, colleges, physicians in family health, child health and pediatrics and support them to carry out research in the problem of street children . Government should bring down the costs of adoption, but do more monitoring once the processes are done with. Relevant agencies can involve social workers in supervision and management of minor conditions.

    Governments can build Science and Technology camps, mechanic, Lap top, and cell phone repair centers in strategic locations, where large groups of street boys congregate. Inventors can emerge from such camps and with positive reinforcement, others can emulate and aspire. Dreams and hope will metamorphose into reality, for the individual and for the family/

    .It is time wealthy individuals, institutions, multinational companies began to show interest in Debates, quiz contest, and other activities that can reward excellence, and make the streets less attractive for children. Setting up football academies like the one by Channels TV organization is a very good one. The boys are playing fantastic foot ball and are likely to draw others of their age away from street life. Someone should try a similar experiment with the girls and you will be amazed. However, not every one plays foot ball, just as we don’t expect every child to know how to play the saxophone, or guitar, but every child needs an education. Those who give out 50 million naira to sponsor birthday parties for strangers in our midst as a way of showing they have money need to spare a few minutes to imagine what one million can do for a home for the motherless, being managed by Catholic missions. These catholic charity organizations will be wondering whether God gave Wealthy Nigerians such retrogressive mindset that we can actually prefer to build more houses abroad than give financial support to the needy, even within extended family systems.

    Churches and religious organizations should encourage activities that teach children to avoid dangerous experiments, avoid attempting to do things they watch and see on television. Church programs for children should include insightful comments and activities on the fear of God, the love and respect for parents, family members and authorities. Such programs for children should not be designed to exploit parents, because no matter in what for it is disguised, children have their own ways of knowing what the intentions are. If Children can not find comfort, assurance and hope in Churches, they will find them on the street, if those telling them to give their lives to Christ hide to engage in anti Christian activities, Children will show that they too can hide and see what goes on in the dark, and if they cant give their lives to Christ, the devil, bacteria and dangerous viruses will all be very happy to take over such lives,

    We need Stronger Parents Teachers Associations (PTA) is in our Schools and colleges, where office holders –at least some of them have children in the schools they oversee. Policy makers should also have their children in the schools. Situations exist where female school children are made to go out and look for water in school compounds where there are boys known to belong to the class of children on the street. These innocent girls who are either sent to fetch water or throw dust bins can be enticed with in many ways by these boys hanging around the school premises for just such opportunities so as to give vent to their dangerous feelings. One wonders why people entrusted with oversight functions only pay visits and do so without giving pupils and students the opportunity to share their experience concerning health, safety and environment. When cases of rape are discovered under conditions such as stated above, parents are usually very reluctant understandably to expose their children to the associated negative publicity and the stigma slapped on victims of rape. School authorities report cases late, when if there was transmission of infection, it will have gone past the incubation period. Take the issue of HIV/AIDS for instance, which has incubation period between eight weeks and ten years; bringing a rape victim to the clinic three days after the incidence is useless, except if it is done to have a record of the status of the victim. Similarly, going to the Doctor two weeks after the incidence so you can get a Medical report for the Police are unhelpful over 80% of the forensic evidence would have been lost. Moreover, giving antiretroviral drugs after twenty four hours does not guarantee even up to 40% destruction of the pool of invading viruses. From all these, it should be apparent that every thing humanly possible should be done to either keep young female students in boarding schools away from street children or avoid situations where these little girls are forced into situations where they have no choice. Most of these children are easily frightened when they realize their parents are hundreds and thousands of kilometers away and phones are forbidden.

     

     

     

  • These children need N17.5m to battle cancer

    These children need N17.5m to battle cancer

    On their sick beds at the Lagos University Teaching Hospital (LUTH), their prayer is to live. Will Nigerians hearken to the cries of Timothy Olaonipekun (13), Chioma Ukanwa (9) and Esther Ekpo (19 months), who are suffering from cancer? WALE ADEPOJU reports.

    THERE they lay on their beds-helpless in the same ward. The three of them have one thing in common: they are suffering from cancer. They require a total of N17.5 million to live in their wards at the Lagos University Teaching Hospital (LUTH). These children are hanging on to life, praying that help would come. Their parents, who have been straining themselves to pay hospital bills, also join their kids in prayers.

    The lives of Timothy Olaonipekun (13); Chioma Ukanwa (9) and Esther Ekpo (19 months) depend on the lifeline they can get from kindhearted Nigerians. Olaonipekun needs N2.5 million, Ukanwa; N10 million and Baby Ekpo, N5 million for treatment. They have cancer.

    Olaonipekun, Junior Secondary pupil of Baptist Boys High School (BBHS), Abeokuta, Ogun State, is battling with leukaemia – cancer of the blood.

    His father, Mr Muyiwa Olaonipekun, said he has spent over N2 million on his son’s ailment, yet the boy would need more money to live.

    Recounting how his ordeal began, Master Olaonipekun said he had a fever early last July and was admitted in the hospital for some days but was discharged when he got better.

    “The morning after I was discharged I became feverish again and for six days I was admitted again at the Sacred Heart Hospital, Lantoro, Abeokuta, Ogun State.

    “There, I was asked to do tuberculosis (TB) test which was negative. In the 10th week of treatment, I was re-examined and I had a biopsy at the same hospital in Abeokuta where the doctor attended. He gave me a bombshell. He said I have cancer – lymphoblastic.”

    His father said: “The drugs that he is taking are too strong and they don’t allow him to eat. The histopathology report said he has Axilliary Lymp Mode – High Grade Non-Hodgkin Lymphona. It was after this that he was referred to LUTH where he was admitted on November 14, last year. But when his situation improved he was discharged on February 5, this year after the completion of the second round of chemotherapy. He has since been going for chemotherapy. He has resumed the third chemotherapy. It was at LUTH that the doctor said he had leukemia (lymphona).

    “He had some lumps all over his body before he came down with the disease finally. We have spent 13 weeks at LUTH. Initially, we spent 71 days together during the second phase but since then it has been one crisis or the other.”

    Olaonipekun listed the challenges he had undergone to ensure his child stays alive and gain good health back. “Getting platelets in the hospital is a problem. Also, the machine in the hospital has stopped working. LUTH is the major market for platelet. We buy platelet for N5,000, but elsewhere it is sold for N17,000 per pint. There is a hospital in Ikeja where we usually buy the product for N17,000.”

    Olaonipekun, a widower, who lost his wife on April 14, last year, is appealing to well-meaning individuals, corporate organisations and governments at all levels to come to the aid of his dying son.

    He said the BBHS has been supportive but added that his son would need N2.5 million to complete the fourth therapy session.

    “At the moment, Timothy is on the 13th day of a 56-day third course,” Olaonipekun said.

    Ukanwa has also been battling with leukaemia since 2008.

    According to her father, Mr Charles Ukanwa, the ailment started with a fever.

    “She also had rashes all over her body. So, we took her to a private clinic in Lagos. It was from there that we were referred to LUTH in September 2008. She was admitted in the Accident and Emergency Ward (A and E) for three weeks before she was transferred to the Children Ward. My daughter was diagnosed of acute lymphoblastic leukemia.

    “She had stayed at the Ward D of the hospital for six months, receiving treatment. After she recovered, we stopped taking her to the hospital for treatment due to lack of finance because her treatment was expensive. But, unfortunately, she suffered a relapse in January 2010, but she was okay all through 2009,” he said.

    Ukanwa said the family has spent over N5 million on her treatment.

    “At the moment, she has finished her induction, but she’s staying for further treatment and observations. She presented with swollen leg, neck and jaw, ears and severe pain.

    “Whenever she takes drugs, she usually becomes normal. And she has been in the hospital since last July. This has affected her education as she is still in Primary Four.

    “Her mother, who is an auxilliary nurse, has been waiting on her since she took ill. And she is not working at the moment. The consultant in-charge advised that she should be taken to India where she would be treated for N10 million. But where we would raise that is our challenge and we will for ever be grateful to all and sundry who will help save our daughter’s life and keep us also as parents,” she said.

    Another patient, little Esther Ekpo, 19-month-old, has cancer of the ovary.

    Her mother, Mrs Ann Ekpo, said: “I don’t blame people running away from Nigeria. I’ve friends, who are married to Ghanaians and other nationalities and have gone for good. The government has not done anything to make life meaningful for the people. I discovered that my daughter has ovarian cancer in January. This was after her stomach became swollen. Then, she had a CT Scan, which showed that there was a tumour in her left side.

    “After this shocking discovery, we were referred to the Lagos State University Teaching Hospital (LASUTH). But because of lack of bed she was again referred to LUTH. She had a biopsy. When they opened her up, they found out that the mass was large. The expert advised she goes on chemotherapy. She has been on oxygen mask. She is also on drug and doesn’t eat. We feed her through a tube,” she said.

    Unhappy, Mrs Ekpo said the chemotherapy is killing her daughter. She needs red and white blood cells and platelets to survive, but they are not available in this hospital.

    “We have been going to the Island Maternity, Lagos to get platelets. This is not supposed to be so. The trauma is too much for us to bear. I’ve been going to LUTH’s blood bank as if I’m going to the market. My little Esther has been admitted since March. I have spent more than N1 million on her treatment. I need help as soon as possible for my daughter not to die. Someone out there should please help me,” she said.

    Are you moved to reach all or any of these children? Here are their contacts:

    Timothy Olaonipekun: Stanbic IBTC: 0005233079.

    Chioma Ukanwa— Charles Ukanwa: First City Monument Bank: 1298996016.

    For Esther Ekpo, Nnamdi Ekpo: FirstBank: 3005332691.

  • Pediatrics and child health; in focus:Children of the street and children on the street

    Perhaps as a result the tormenting whiplash of world economies, the world population of street children is on the increase. The situation is worse in some developing countries where religion and culture are structured in such a way as to celebrate early marriage, polygamy and polyandry ,and where majority of people impugn any suggestions about family planning. In fact, it is well documented that in some parts of Nigeria, certain tribes have completely shunned all aspects of medical advice, especially advice dwelling on the unpredictable dangers of any woman having children in excess of five ,and into old age. In these tribes there is strong support and encouragement for elaborate celebrations of parity , during which chieftaincy titles are bestowed on women who have had up to ten children and even more.

    When children decide to leave the protection of parents and guardian to become street children, they are often unaware of the dangers they face, and may be persistently encouraged by peer groups, either from the school or neighborhood. On the other hand ignorance, confused religious background and lack of education all orchestrate to blind such children to the understanding that freedom, no matter how sweet, comes with a huge price. At times some children simply walk out from homes without any one bothering to do any thing, Parents, guardian and the children themselves are ill prepared for the medical consequences associated with life as street children, and the realization comes too late, perhaps in adulthood that concerning infectious diseases, once contracted, the child either succumbs within a short while or spends the rest of his life as a burden, sometimes endangering the lives of others. Children of today are very different from those of the recent past, and of course we don’t know what pattern of behavior to expect of children of tomorrow, but we can predict adult behavioral patterns from what is seen in today’s children. Children in the rural areas in the past were less mobile and more God fearing, but with the emergence of the internet, many of them are now face booking and the difference between street children in rural settings and those in cities has narrowed. Two major issues worthy of consideration are extreme poverty and hunger, recognized in goal six of the MDGS. Long term solutions to majority of the social problems facing us today can be found by honestly and conscientiously looking at how we came to have a high proprtion of street children comparable to India. In doing so let us not forget that recently Nigeria was rated top as the worst place on earth to be born. Whatever the indices, the basic and elementary prescription of good Christianity should moderate our thinking. Given that it is difficult to monitor every born child from infancy through adolescence to adulthood, the question remains whether as parents, uncles, aunties, guardian, school heads, teachers, governments and churches, we have done what is humanly possible to keep children in good health with regards to their physical, social, mental and educational well being. The social aspect has to do with religion and we also need to examine how well we have obeyed the religious injunction-” love one another, do unto others as you would have them do unto you”.

    As a child, occasions meant much to me especially those that involved educational activities. Unlike what obtains today, children were kept very busy. there were quiz contests(schools challenge), and I recall with nostalgia, the musical voice of Mr. Allison Mesango, of the then Bendel state quiz Board, announcing the schools and names of participating students to herald the commencement of contests.

    There were literary and debating societies and we were challenged to recite off hand certain portions of such juicy novel s as “The merchant of Venice”, “Macbeth” “The Lion and the Jewel”, “Weep not Child”, “The Concubine”, Things fall apart” “No longer at ease” and very many others… What ever new book came out in any of the sciences we had to quickly read up so we could be in stronger academic balance to debate. Children’s days were celebrated with some forms of academic activities; children were placed in groups to take part in role plays, drama sketches, recitation etc according to performance .Every one was fulfilled. On one of those occasions, I was taken to the Local Government Head quarters to take part in an essay competition as part of the events to celebrate Children’s day, and to be best of my knowledge the topic “juvenile delinquency, a threat to National progress” was announced at the venue, when we had all sat down. Though I did not know to a great extent what it was all about ,I was in familiar terrain, and found the whole exercise very interesting. I was happy when later I was called out in the assembly after morning devotion to receive a price; it was a novel, an allegorical poem cum prose written by kofi Awoonor, a Ghanaian. It was an experimental novel and to this day it remains the most awe inspiring piece of work I have been blessed to receive. In class three then and with all the pressure of adolescence, my best book was the wonderful “common prayer book”; a real treasure, and one that made it more comfortable for me then to more effectively blend with Church Choir sessions under the unforgettable supervision and mentorship of Emmanuel Ohireimen Orhewere. I very quickly added my book price “this earth my brother” to the Common prayer book and for a very long period struggled to meaning out of it.

    Though I was later to win other much cherished novels including the ones written by wole Soyinka, Elechi Amadi, Vincent Ike and a very beautiful one by Onaiwu Osahon, I recall that the novel- This Earth my brother helped me, as a child to think in terms of deductions, innuendos ,and the abstract . Together with my common prayer book and the Holy Bible I had enough tangible tools for brain exercise. That way I was in a better position to appreciate psychic conflicts, internal and external, and to decide for my self which ways of life were safer , purposeful or rewarding; which ones were capable of improving my felling of self worth or eroding it altogether. Today children face crises of enormous dimensions, less than 10% can actually be held responsible for their problems as deviants, un teachables, delinquents and miscreants; for another 60%, the blame rests on parents who brought them into the world in large numbers and yet with no plans whatsoever to take adequate responsibility for their care , not to forget the very corrupt societies that formulate policies with no plans to honestly implement them

    As the pools of street children continues to enlarge, there is no limit to the dangers they face, the dangers they constitute to society and the magnitude of the medical and social burden the society will continue to carry .

    Who are street children?

    Street children are boys or girls who have found and made certain places within and outside their homes, regular means of livelihood and habitation. They do so with or without supervision and protection from known adults. Street here includes, structures like motor vehicles in motor parks or auto mechanic workshop, such places as Railway stations, uncompleted buildings, under over head bridges ,inside cartons on roadsides, school premises and even benches around wooden shops of security guards .There are several classes of street children but the two commonly used ones are; children of the street and children on the street.

    Children of the street. Street children of this category spend most of their time daily and habitually on the street, often living in situations so fluid that they can be only some few yards away from the home of a known family member and yet difficult to trace because they be spending nights in one street while in the day time they are busy in another street. These children usually have no moral awareness and family support is either absent or grossly inadequate. They are entirely on their own. Children of the street can be further divided on account of age into senior and junior categories with the senior providing direction, protection and in some cases medical attention by way of bringing out money to buy drugs from medicine shops or taking the ill to herbal centers . Senior street children may own properties to attract younger ones, and may in some cases as seen in the “Area boys organizations organize themselves into some kind of hierarchical system . This may be of benefit to those involved but could encourage the formation of street gangs

     

    To be continued