Tag: Children

  • FG to prosecute parents who refuse to enroll children in school – Minister

    The Minister of Education, Malam Adamu Adamu says Nigeria will soon effect policy to prosecute parents who refused to enroll their children of school age in schools across the country.

    Adamu made this known in Abuja on Monday while addressing newsmen during the 9th edition of the Weekend Ministerial briefing.

    He said parents who sabotage the efforts of the government at reducing the number of out of school children would soon be criminalised and would be made to face the wrath of the law.

    “Unless the issue of parents who refused their children going to school is made a crime, and we start jailing parents, the menace of out of school children will not be resolved.

    “There are many who are still working behind culture, religion.

    “So the ministry is to effect this policy so that any parent whose child of school age refuses to take them to school will be jailed,’’ he said.

    Speaking on matching grant and other intervention funds for basic education in Nigeria, the minister said a total of N350 billion had been expended on the sub-sector as against N360 billion spent by the previous administration.

    “In the six years preceding the Buhari Administration, between 2009 and 2014, the Federal Government spent about N360 billion worth of intervention on Basic Education covering textbooks, teacher professional development, construction of classrooms and library resources among others.’’

    Adamu added that in 2015, matching and non-conditional grants disbursements to 15 states of the Federation and the Federal Capital Territory amounted to N68.4 billion.

    He also said that in 2016, grants disbursements to 29 states and the FCT amounted to N77 billion.

    According to him, in 2017 the Federal Government provided a total of N95billion to 24 states and the FCT, and another N109 billion to 20 states and the FCT.

    “During the four year under review, the government of President Muhammadu Buhari provided a total grant to include, Matching grants, Educational imbalance fund, Special Educational fund and Good Performance fund.

    “Others are Instructional Materials funds, Teacher Professional Development fund, as well as Universal Basic Education  Commission (UBEC ) Implementation and Monitoring funds across geo-political zones as attached.’’

    Adamu emphasised that corruption and lack of political will from State governments were among other reasons responsible for collapse of basic education across the states.

    “Having come to this painful conclusion, the Federal Government decided to deduct from source, part of the last tranche of the Paris Club refund from all the states that have not been able to access their monies from (UBEC).

    “If this attitude of deliberate refusal on the part of states to provide counterpart funding for basic education continues, then the Federal Government will have no choice than to sustain its strategy of deducting counterpart funding of states percentage from source.’’

    Adamu added that stakeholders were awaiting the decision of the Federal Executive Council (FEC) on reduction of matching grants for state governments.

    “We have already submitted proposal on the reduction of matching grants and we believe between 10 per cent and 20 per cent of the matching grant will be reduced as against the 50 per cent that states have been claiming is difficult to provide,’’ he said.

    NAN

  • Mixed feelings for hairdresser delivered of triplets…two years after her two children were kidnapped

    Mrs. Suliat Abdulazeez was in a far better mood than she had been when the reporter met her two years ago. Then, she was in agony.

    Tears rolled down her eyes and she was inconsolable because it was only a few days after her two children, a boy and a girl, were stolen by a young woman who was working with her as an apprentice.

    On this day, she was full of laughter, having just been delivered of a set of triplets two years after she lost her two children on November 25, 2016; a day that sticks in her memory as the darkest in her life. The day had started brightly only for the world to collapse on her at dusk. Six-year-old Kafayat and her four-year-old younger brother, Farouk, were taken away to the land of no return.

    Two days before the sad incident, Suliat had accepted a young lady as an apprentice. The lady, who gave her name as Grace John, had indicated interest in learning braiding and hairdressing in Suliat’s hair salon and she felt no reason to deny her the chance to learn the trade.

    Recalling the incident, she said: “The girl came to my shop on a Wednesday and said she wanted to learn hairdressing. I asked who her guarantor was, because she said she came alone. She said she was staying with a friend in the area and would have come with her but the friend had gone to work.

    “The next day, she came to resume but without the guarantor. She claimed that her friend could not come because she had gone to work, saying that the friend would come with her the following Sunday.

    “She then asked where she could buy soft drinks and I showed her the place as I was attending to a customer. But the girl went away for so long that I started wondering where she had gone to.

    “She later came back and I asked her where she went for so long. She said she had to trek down the road to buy the soft drink because the woman I directed her to did not want to release the soft drinks without an empty bottles.

    “I shared the soft drinks among my neigbours and also introduced her as my new apprentice.

    “I had planned to visit her residence the following day, but I had to first attend a meeting of hairdressers in the community. I returned from the meeting around 4 pm only to discover that nobody knew where she had gone with my children. That was how we started searching for them.”

    The father of the missing children, Fatai Abdulazeez, narrated how he had lost virtually everything he had in his bid to recover his children but his efforts yielded no result.

    According to him, sometime in the first quarter of 2017, a few months after his children were abducted by the strange apprentice, he heard over the radio that a certain girl who stole a baby had been caught somewhere in Lagos after pretending that she wanted to learn work. He discussed with his wife on the possibility of the culprit being the same girl that stole their two children.

    They then decided to go to the Force Headquarters and check. With the help of a certain officer, Abdulazeez was able to trace the alleged kidnapper to the State Anti-Robbery Squad (SARS). He met the officer in charge of the case who asked him whether he would be able to recognise the girl, but he said no; that it was his wife that knew her. He was told to go and bring his wife.

    His wife came and shouted immediately she sighted the girl, saying it was the same girl that stole her two children. However, there was a twist. The girl denied ever meeting Suliat, much less kidnap her children. The police asked her whether there were other people who could identify the girl and Suliat told the police that her neighbours could do so.

    Abdulazeez said that Suliat went back to the neighbourhood where his wife’s shop was located to bring some of the people that had seen the girl during the three days she was with her. According to Abdulazeez, the neighbours were initially reluctant to come with them for fear of being arrested by the police. But after much pleading, eight of the neigbours came and an identification parade was conducted and each of them identified the suspect as the one that stole the children.

    Abdulazeez, however, said an officer told him that the police would need money to do a thorough investigation, since it would require traveling and other logistics. He said he contacted another senior police officer to help him intervene in the case and it was then he got to know that the lady in question, whose real name was Gladys Austin, had been charged to court for abducting the baby for which she was arrested.

    Faced with the grim reality that the chance of getting his children back was getting slimmer, Abdulazeez said he had to engage a lawyer, one Barrister Sanni Saidi of Leo Chambers.

    The title of a petition from Leo Chambers dated March 22, 2017 and addressed to the Assistant Inspector General of Police, Zone 2 Police Command Onikan, Lagos, reads: “Appeal on compassionate ground to assist, investigate and grill Gladys Austin (also known as John Grace), an apprentice who absconded with her employer’s kids (Kafayat and Farouk Azeez) sometimes in November 2016 and was subsequently caught by the operatives of the Special Anti-Robbery Squad for similar act of baby stealing.”

    Saidi wrote: “We have the instruction and directive of our client to write to your good office in respect of the above subject matter. Our clients were at SARS section of the state command on Thursday, the 2nd day of March 2017 on the information that Gladys Austin (also known as John Grace) has been apprehended by “ever gallant” SARS operatives … On getting there, the mother of the kids was able to  identify Gladys Austin (also known as John Grace) as the apprentice who absconded with her kids and also an identification parade was also conducted and neigbours who had seen the apprentice at work were also called one after the other to ascertain the true identity of her.

    “It’s on record that our client reported the incident at the Ojo Police Station sometimes in November 2016 and we hereby deem it fit to bring it to your notice, so that you can deploy your resolute, uncommon expertise and professionalism so that the kids can be relocated and reunited with their family.

    “Sir, the manner in which SARS operatives have handled this matter is questionable and their sincerity in this matter is in doubt, despite the fact that there’s no issue to the identity of the suspects, three other suspects (Rita Eze, Ogechi Onweke and Mrs. Elizabeth) were arrested for human trafficking trade with the suspect. We hereby seek the intervention of your good office to take up this matter as a superior authority.”

    Asked what was the response of Zone 2, Saidi said: “At State Command, Ikeja, SARS section, when the lady was apprehended, they did identification parade. The mother of the children was able to identify the lady but she denied. So, while we were trying to see how to transfer the matter to Zone 2 and all that, so that a proper investigation could be done, all of a sudden, the suspects, including Gladys Austin, were charged to court.

    “We proceeded to Zone 2, wrote a petition and they demanded for money. I think we raised the money for them. That was just it. What we wanted was for them to call those police officers who charged the case to court without investigating our own matter.

    Still fighting for the recovery of his children, Abdulazeez wrote a petition dated July 31, 2017 to the Director, Office of the Public Defender, Ministry of Justice, Lagos. But while a lawyer was assigned to the case, there was little that could be done as he kept spending money going to the Surulere office of the Office of the Public Defender without making any progress.

    He said his children’s abductor had caused a lot of problems in his home. He said he could not concentrate on his work as an auto mechanic. He could no longer stay in his shop and attend to clients to make money and take care of his family. He has had to sell a plot of land and another partially developed plot.

    He said that after spending all the money to see whether he could get his children back, there was no success. He said he had had to slow down as the incident was taking a toll on his family. His wife, Suliat, was so depressed that she attempted killing herself with sniper. Luckily, she was rescued.

    With Suliat delivered of a set of triplets, our correspondent contacted the Lagos State Police Public Relations Officer, Mr. Elkanah Bala, on the effort being made by the police to recover the missing children. Bala, who only recently took over as the PPRO of the Lagos State Police Command, sympathised with the family and requested to see the father of the children. He referred the case back to the SARS Department of the Lagos Police Force.

    The Deputy Officer In-charge of the department, Mr. Adigun Abdulfatai, after listening to the father of the missing children and also hearing from the officer in charge of the case, explained that as at that time the alleged kidnapper of the children was charged to court, there was nothing else they could do since the girl had been in detention for weeks and could not be kept there longer.

    He also explained that the department did all it could to see if they could get the truth from the alleged kidnapper with regard to where she took the children to, but the girl did not admit to stealing the children. He said there about 10 families that came forward at the time to claim that the girl stole their children and she denied all.

    There is however a ray of hope for the family of Abdulazeez as the SARS boss has called for the file of Gladys to know its current status and also look for a way to unravel the whereabouts of Kafayat and Farouk.

    There seems a possibility that the newly born triplets could unite with their elder siblings.

  • Making our children read again

    The reason for this necessary intervention is that our children no longer read. Everyone says this. Even fathers and mothers who never put a book in their children’s hands complain that their children don’t read.

    We have been inundated lately by campaign slogans that attempt to entrap our minds and make us do the bidding of our politicians. So, very likely, reader, you are familiar with Trump’s ‘Making America great again’, and Atiku’s ‘Making Nigeria work again’. Well, this week, we have something to trump them all, which is what everyone should be singing anyway: Making our children read again!

    The reason for this necessary intervention is that our children no longer read. Everyone says this. Even fathers and mothers who never put a book in their children’s hands complain that their children don’t read. Now, I ask myself, who could be responsible for that? Anyway, I remember the many times I have bemoaned the fact on this column that the reading population in Nigeria is thinning faster than the balding head of a vulture. Yet, no one is batting an eyelid, except to join me in complaining.

    These days, what you are likely to find in the hands of a child is a mobile phone complete with internet facilities and every other facility. With it, they can surf every site available, good or bad, and ‘widen their horizons’. Of course, some horizons get too widened in the process. Even children who are not able to master their letters are given phones by their indulgent parents because they believe their children are such geniuses they can take apart the morality of the phone on their own. Such parents are not interested in putting books in their children’s hands; that’s too slow. The parents wake up soon enough though when the consequences come calling.

    ‘Books should be tried by a judge and jury as though they were crimes, and counsel should be heard on both sides’, says Samuel Butler, that 19th/20th century satirist and novelist. Well, he knew what he was talking about, seeing he was a writer and all. In Nigeria today, dear reader, we dare not put books on trial, because they will lose, hands down. To start with, whereas politicians are commanding two hundred counsels to defend their economically insalubrious ways, books will probably command counsels we can count on only one miserable finger. That is the strange way of the world seeing that counsels became what they are courtesy of them books. So, rather than put books on trial, we will just attempt to speak up for them.

    According to Benjamin Disraeli, the 19th century statesman, ‘the best way to become acquainted with a subject is to write a book about it.’ That does sound like taking things from the rear end, rather than the beginning but I’m sure you get the spirit of the man’s words, dear reader. It means that if I wished to know more about banana eating habits of the human specimens called Nigerians, all I need to do is write about it, not eat it. Writing impels you to read.

    Charles Colton, another 18th/19th century writer, says of reading: ‘some read to think, these are rare; some to write, these are common; and some read to talk, and these form the great majority.’ We might well add that some read to take action such as sharing innovative intelligence, wisdom, knowledge, understanding and findings and thus increasing technological knowledge. That is where we are going because we are celebrating World Book Day and the theme for this year is ‘Share a story’.

    Sharing a story necessarily implicates sharing a dream. In a story, characters move deftly and nimbly across the pages to illustrate for us the beauty of life or the futility of inordinate ambition. The characters speak to us words of wisdom to let us know the true facts of life: no good deed goes unrewarded; no bad deed goes unpunished. They teach us that love never grows old or out of fashion, and hate always eats itself out. Above all, stories illustrate to us the futility of self-worship and the richness of other-service.

    Reader, when you share a story, you share a world. Stories have ways of taking you by the hand and leading you over many oceans, rivers, vales and valleys, mountains and hills from where you look down and see the world in all its glorious smallness. Then you discover you are actually not the most important thing that has happened to this planet after all; there is always something more spectacular than you. In story books, you open the shutters of your minds and widen their boundaries to be able to take in all the different worlds and different cultures. We discover new worlds.

    I quite believe that one of the outcomes of the government’s programme of shutting the people’s mind is corruption. That programme began in the seventies and eighties when the government began to shut down the tools and materials of book production – killing off paper mills, strangulating newspaper industries, imprisoning the book work force, etc. The natural consequence of this action is that books became scarce, the people had no credible, selfless models to mentor them, except these wild kleptomaniacs around us, and imaginations dried off. What has come off from all that has been this culture of crazy kleptomania gone mad and wild. Nature hates a vacuum.

    I believe when people begin to read, then they can truly begin the fight against corruption. It is not enough to mouth the fact that the war against corruption must be fought without people being involved. The entire populace must be involved in the fight. There is no better way to marshal the populace to be embroiled in that bustle than through books. The government cannot fight the battle alone; it is a grave error for her to think so. To win that war, we must begin the book revolution which will lead to a cultural revolution.

    Finally, the country must adopt a plan of action to make her citizens more responsive towards books, stories and reading. A situation where the people are kept perpetually in the dark because of the government’s self-serving plan cannot hold perpetually either. Something must give, and it has to be this dark veil of ignorance. The people should be given the chance to own their own thoughts.

    For this last one to happen, the country must attempt to catch readers, book lovers and story tellers young. Let every classroom in the land in the primary and early secondary schools make an hour in the day to read a storybook to and in the class. Let families read story books together. This way, imaginations can be primed to do some serious innovative thinking and increase our national intelligence in order to improve our technological drive. Many parents fight each other over phones and who is hiding or not hiding passwords; they hardly fight over books. Children pick up most of their habits from home and school. It is time to go #makingourchildrenreadagain right from home and school.

  • Scatterbrain (add/addhd) children and adults (1)

    THERE are many “scatterbrains” around. I am not referring to politicians who just cannot stop trying to be spanners in the wheels. They go by another name. By scatterbrains, I am referring to those children and adults, even parents and grandparents,who cannot bring anything they start to fruition or to a reasonable conclusion.Their lives are jumpy or jerky.They cannot concentrate or focus on anything for enough time to make reason or meaning of it before the loop or hook up to another and make another huge mess of it before they move on and on and on again, in the end becoming rolling stones which gather no moss. Medicine classifies such people, young or old, as suffering from ATTENTION DEFICIT DISORDER (ADD). If they are boisterous in addition to this malaise, they are said to suffer from ATTENTION DEFICIT AND HYPERACTIVITY DISORDER (ADHD).

    Surprisingly, food medicines can help to solve this malaise, which has disabled many people and made them unable to “gather” themselves, as we say.

    This is an interesting field in which many researchers have brought enlightenment. Is it not interesting that certain foods, which many parents give their children, believing they are feeding them well, actually impair certain cells in their brains which make them to hate learning and schooling? In this election season in Nigeria, appeal after appeal have gone out to “area boys”, urging them to delink themselves from politicians who use them to disrupt the electoral process.They are even told pointedly that the children of politicians are abroad, making meaning of their lives, while they are killing themselves out here for peanuts that would fetch their principals fortunes, they and their households cannot exhaust in many generations. But did not a flood of these appeals fall on deaf ears? Food medicine research suggest to us some reasons if this always happens.Why, patiently, we monitor the lives of children who dropped out of school on account of learning problems in the brain, it is possible to discover criminal bent, which flowers and fruits in adulthood. A common thread (nutritional damage and/or nutritional deficiencies) link both poles of life together,say some researchers.When in several studies, many criminals who were always back in jail were given those nutritional substances in which their brains were previously deficient, psychiatrists and psychologists found they could successfully rehabilitate about 80 percent of former criminals. I do not think this lesson has been well learned and incorporated into the Nigerian psychiatry practice. For all psychiatrists, I speak with lend to undervalue the role of nutrition in the healing process of their practice and give far too much play to drugs which some of their patients are forced to take throughout life. Isn’t it suprising that where, overseas, patients replace these drugs with the right diets, they bounce back to normalcy after overcoming the initial shocks of psychiatry drug withdrawal, and never have to return to the psychiatrist. Before we address this question further, let us further see, a picture of ADD or ADHD in the home, at school or in adult life.

     

     ADD/ADHD at home

     

    At home, the signs or signals are too clear, but many parents fail to catch them.They always assume, for example, that restlessness is a feature or hallmark of all children.Yes, it is true that children do not and cannot “sit in one place”. They are energetic and adventurous and need, through motion, to develop their muscles and bones. Indeed, parents become uneasy when a child is not flowing along like their peers. But what do we make of a child who sits awkwardly all the time, such as sitting at a dining table with his legs not right down in front of him, but strewn diagonally on the seat beside them? What of that child who is prone to damaging almost every gadget at home? What of that who does not make his or her bed, fails to wash dishes after meals, flings objects, screams without need, disarrange places, enjoys noise making, loud music and wear dirty clothes.They may be intelligent, but they exhibit poor social skills and are, in simple words, anti-social.

    But before I come to them, I would like to say that several studies suggest that this problem is caused by a heavy sugar diet, colourings and preservatives in food, among other sundry possibilities.This diet impairs the function of brain cells, which are involved with the learning process.Thus, while a child or adult so impaired may be intelligent, they have no interest in learning, having been destabilised in this regard.The medical profession attempts to correct this disturbance not naturally with healthy diet but with drugs,the star of which is called RITALIN, which, often, is too powerful for the children or adults who use them, may cause appetite crisis, developmental problems, such as stunting and even drug dependence.

     

    Ritalin

     

    According to the PILL BOOK, the editor-in-chief of which is HAROLD M. SILVERMAN(Maria Wasilik and Judith I. Brown are consultant): “Ritalin… prescribed for Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder in children. Also prescribed for psychological, educational or social disorders, narcolepsy and mild depression of the elderly. Methylphenidate is also used to treat cancer, to help stroke victims recover and with variable success with treating hiccups after anesthesia…it should be used only after a complete evaluation of the child, not only on the presence of one or more behavioural characteristics. Common symptoms of ADHD are short attention span, easy distractibility, emotional instability, impulsiveness and moderate-to-severe hyperactivity. Children who suffer from ADHD will find it difficult to learn. Many professionals feel that methylphenidate offers only a temporary solution because it does not permanently change behaviour patterns. It must be used with other special psychological measures. Stimulants like methylphenidate are not for children whose symptoms are related to environmental factors or to primary psychiatric conditions, including psychosis. Methylphenidate should not be used to treat a primary stress reaction…chronic or abusive use of methylphenidate can lead to drug dependence or addiction.This drug can also cause severe psychotic episodes.Take methylphenidate with caution if you have glaucoma or other visual problems, high blood pressure, a seizure disorder, if you are extremely tense or agitated, or if you are allergic to this drug…possible side effects (for adults are) nervousness or inability to sleep which your doctor generally controls by reducing or eliminating the afternoon or evening dose. Rare: skin rash,itching,fever, symptoms similar to rhythm, headache, drowsiness, changes in blood pressure or pulse, chest pain, stomach pain, psychotic reactions…effects on components of the blood and loss of some scalp hair …child, most common: appetite loss, especially during prolonged therapy, sleeping difficulties and abnormal heart rhythm…”

     

    ADHD in the classroom

     

    There are many ADHD children in Nigerian schools.Trained teachers recognise them, but there is so little they can do to help them, according to some of them I spoke with. First, parents are upset when they are told their children are abnormal in behaviour. They believe it is the teacher’s job to correct any behavioural problem in children they teach.They do not understand that healing requires dietary changes and food supplements and, perhaps, special education under teachers who are specially educated to teach such children. If the teacher presses too hard out of concern for the child, the parents may take their case to the proprietor, if the school is a private school. School owners are too scared to sit such parents down and tell them the bitter home truth. For there may not be enough children in the class to justify the wage bill and parents easily move their children to another school where, erroneously, they believe a better deal would await them and their children. In public schools, it is rare before parents and disturbed children obtain help or support. And, for children who overdo, the chances are that they would be pumped with ritalin. Their parents probably have never heard of this drug,which has been the subject of bitter debates in the united states and Europe for decades now. It is in the light of this that I wonder if these children will not be better helped by dietary supplements, which have been known to protect the brain, improve brain health and function, support interest in learning and help to improve academic and social behaviours. Among these herbs are  gotu kola, the brain and nerve energiser and longevity herb, magnesium therapy, primrose oil, black currant or borage oil, phosphatidyl serine, calcium,vitamin B complex and other vitamins.

     

    Back to healthy kids

    Mary Anne Shearer and Charlotte Meschede say: “Charlotte my co author,was faced with the option of treating her son with ritalin some years ago. Like so many parents she had been relatively unaware of the drug and it was only when it was recommended for her son that she sat up and started some personal investigation.This is what she has to say about her experience:

    ‘’I must mention that virtually everyone who recommended Ritalin for my own son when he was in grades 1 and 2, including doctors and teachers, assured me that Ritalin has no side effects. However, as soon as I did even the most preliminary research into the drug, it became apparent that this was not the case.The mere fact that it is a controlled substance, a schedule 7 drug, caused both my husband and myself great concern. My research did not stop there. I knew of several parents whose children had been prescribed Ritalin some 15 to 20 years earlier. In the one instance, the particular child (now an adult in his 30s), had only reached a height of five (feet) six (inches) whereas his two older  brothers were 6’4″ and 6’3″ tall. His mother and father were 5’10” and 6’4″ tall.

    ‘’In another family, the child given Ritalin had also not reached his potential height as his father and mother were 6’4″ tall and 5’11”. At 27, this particular young man was found dead of a heroine overdose. One of the more common anecdotes that keeps surfacing is the high percentage of drug abusers among adults who were prescribed Ritalin as children. For me, this was proof enough that drug therapy was not the answer. It was the conviction that led me to discover other solutions, dietary modifications being the first among them.”

    The authors of HEALTHY KIDS would appear to agree with some medical authorities that junk food is behind ADD and ADHD,which may fruit as criminal tendencies when they grow up.

    “A well known paediatrician once wrote: ‘’If school authorities want to stop discipline problems and vandalism in the classroom, they should close all tuck shops within a kilometre of the school. More and more these days, we hear of children who have been diagnosed with Attention Deficit Disorder and/or Hyperactivity.Why is this problem escalating? Earlier in this chapter, we saw how additives and refined carbohydrates like sugar have been found to cause learning difficulties and behavioural problems. Candies are practically a symbol of our culture.They come in so many colours, shapes and flavours and are freely available wherever we go, just waiting to be picked up by eager children and adults.When a child is bombarded with such tantalising displays, logical explanations about the health risks of these products fall on deaf ears.Children respond to emotion and not logic. And so it becomes the difficult and unpopular task of the parents to enforce healthy eating habits at home.”

    Once again, I suggest that all parents who are bringing up children have a copy of this book at home. The authors have been in it and  successfully emerged from it all.Their experiences are priceless.They teach you how to deal with children who do not wish to give up junk food which may damage their lives.They also give you references about other books which would be of help as well.

    When a Nigerian parent reads this book, he or she may become more alive in the environment which surrounds the school which his or her child attends. From the school gate all the way down home are purveyors of all kinds of foods and drinks and snacks which children enjoy. Many of them are sugared white flour foods, such as doughnuts, meatpies, egg rolls, fish pies, pork, sugared zobo drinks, ice cream etc.They are laden with damaging chemical additives and preservatives.That is why the authors, having been mothers of ADD and ADHD children, support the idea that the school environment be cleared of this stuff.

    The second part of this series will, among other features, lead us to the experiences of a mother whose ADHD child was placed on Ritalin. But before then, ask the teacher of your child if he or she exhibits in the classroom any of the following traits which teachers often observe in ADD/ADHD children…

     

    ADD/ADHD at school

    They appear to have no respect for books.Their handwriting betrays emotional highs and dips: Concentration on class work is not constant. For example, a child in primary school may know the process of simple addition in arithmetic. If given five sums to solve, using the same process, he or she may solve the first two correctly but flounder in the others.This betrays a straying of the mind, short attention spans, irritability at being asked to sit behind a desk,working longer than he or she has the capacity for. Such children enjoy disturbing other children. Under the desk,they may pinch their neighbours with fingernails or with lead pencils.They tear the books of other children, dare them to fights. They change seats or seek to occupy more space than they should where they share seats.They are willing to do their home work but fail to do it well, unless they are assisted by their parents or private home teachers.While a class is in progress,these children like to play with objects and disturb attentive children. They do anything other than learning.

  • Saving the Nigerian girl-child

    Living in a very safe environment where there is no fear, our lives and properties are secured is the wish of every individual. According to late Nelson Mandela, “safety and security don’t just happen; they are the result of collective consensus and public investment. We owe our children, the most vulnerable citizens in our society, a life free of violence and fear”. That should be the utmost priority of every leader and government. In Nigeria, the girl child lives in fear of the unknown as she is faced with many challenges which includes: child trafficking, rape, gender discrimination, illiteracy, early marriage, prostitution, unwanted pregnancies, abduction, domestic violence and so many others.

    The case of Chinwe, a 15-year-old single mum from Ozubulu in Anambra State who was given out in marriage to Izuchukwu Igwilo, a mentally unstable man, was a clear state of the Nigerian girl child. She was to become a sex slave to the groom’s brothers and bare bastards to bear his name. What a coded way of prostitution? Chinwe was lucky to have been rescued by a good Samaritan who posted her predicament on social media for the world to see and come to her rescue. Many of these young girls are unlucky as they end up dead or infected with deadly diseases in their quest for daily bread due to the level of poverty and lack of education.

    Education is one of the fundamental rights of individuals. Unfortunately, so many young girls in most parts of the world are deprived of this opportunity especially in Nigeria. The rate at which young girls drop out of school this few years is worrisome and calls for concern. The country’s inability to checkmate the devastating challenges of poverty, unemployment, gender inequality and insecurity is due to the poor state of its educational sector.

    The North is the worst hit as it has the highest number of female school drop outs. To this end, I implore the government to save the Nigerian girl child by providing free education for them because education bestows on women a disposition for a lifelong acquisition of knowledge, values, standards, attitudes, competence and skills. Let’s say no to illiteracy, no to early child marriage, no to prostitution, no to poverty.

    • Deborah Phillips

    Department of Mass Communication,

    Bayero University, Kano.

  • Criminalise violence against children – CCN

    The Christian Council of Nigeria (CCN) has called for criminalisation on perpetrators of Violence Against Children (VAC) in the country.

    Its President, The Most Rev Benebo Fubara-Manuel, made the call in Lagos during the second phase of the CCN-United Nations International Children’s Emergency Fund (UNICEF) collaboration on ending violence against children.

    Fubara-Manuel said the campaign was to fight against every form of marginalisation of children and destruction of their future.

    “We call attention to, and name as evil every form of physical sexual, psychological, emotional and structural VAC. We reject and condemn child neglect, child exploitation, child abuse, child trafficking and all other forms of violence against children,” he stressed.

    He lamented everyone as parents, family members, religious people, traditional and political leaders, we have all allowed VAC to happen too often at this time.

    He called for re-examination of the existing policies of all the bodies and of the nation with the view to discerning weather or not these policies perpetuate VAC.

    He called for the amendment of every structure that destroys children, including environmental pollution, bastardisation of education,  and inadequate provision for children especially the poor and vulnerable.

    He urged religious leaders, men, women and youths in town hall meetings as well as special conferences to look only for leaders who have a clear plan for children and those who would do everything to protect them.

    National Coordinator, UNICEF/CCN End VAC project, Uzoaku Williams, stressed the need for churches and stakeholders to rise up against all forms of violence against children, be it domestic, physical or emotional.

    She said perpetrators of violence must be brought to book.

    “When we have people who have committed this crime and nothing is done to them, we will see it happening over and over again.

    “The role of government is to see that those involved in the act must face the law. The police and all security agencies must not cover up such matters.

    “The perpetrators must not be let go, because they will commit the act again and we will have more victims every day and everywhere.”

    She urged Nigerians to always speak out against violence.

    “Our problem in Nigeria is that when we see violence, we do not speak out for fear of intimidation, attacks or the likes.

    “When we see violence being perpetrated on any child; be it your biological child or not, we owe it a responsibility to speak out,” she stated.

    She added children should listen to their parents as they have their best interest at heart.

    Lagos State Coordinator, End Violence Against Children, a campaign in collaboration between CCN and UNICEF, Oluwasegun Oladosu, said the campaign was to awaken people and let them know the reality of violence in the society.

    “Our aim is to let Nigerians be aware and break the culture of violence which encourages the perpetrator to continue.

    “When perpetrators are brought to justice, they will refrain and stop the havoc on our children in the society.

    “Nigerians should not allow themselves to be victimized or threatened over violence; perpetrators should be brought to brook and justice should prevail,” he said.

  • Man nabbed for allegedly killing wife, children, others

    The police in Ebonyi State have arrested a man, Simon Ugbala, who on Monday allegedly killed his wife, two children and four others with a machete.

    He injured several people.

    The suspect, who was believed to be mentally-deranged, was alleged to have gone berserk, killing and injuring people. He later ran away into the bush.

    Later about 200 youths searched for the man in conjunction with the police.

    The suspect was said to have appeared in the community the next day and attacked more people, killing one other person, which necessitated the involvement of the military.

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    The news of his re-appearance forced parents to withdraw their children from schools.

    The Nation learnt that the combined efforts paid off, as Ugbala was arrested yesterday and handed over to the police.

    Spokesperson Loveth Odah confirmed the incident.

    She said the suspect was arrested by a combined team of the Police, Army and youths.

    Odah said the suspect had been taken to the Federal Teaching Hospital, Abakaliki (FETHA), for psychiatric examination and evaluation. She advised residents to take people suspected to be mentally-deranged to hospital, to prevent calamity.

  • Man kills wife, children, four others

    Pandemonium broke out on Monday evening at Onyikwa Nkaleke, Ozibo community in Ebonyi Local Government Area of Ebonyi State, as a 35-year-old man, Simon Ugbala, went berserk, killing his wife, two children and four others.

    He also injured four people. They are at the Accident and Emergency Unit of the Federal Teaching Hospital Abakaliki (FETHA).

    Ugbala, who is believed to be mentally-deranged, attacked several people with machetes before youths went after him and he ran into the bush.

    Police spokesperson Loveth Odah confirmed the incident.

    She said the command had launched a manhunt for the man.

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    “On January 21, at about 2pm, a councillor from Ebonyi Local Government representing Onyikwa Ward, Mr. Friday Nwigube, came to Kpirikpiri Police  Station and reported that Ugbala Simon, 35, suspected to be insane,  went about inflicting machete cuts on people.

    “A combined team of detectives rushed to the village where they found several persons with deep machete cuts. They were taken to the Federal Teaching Hospital (FETHA), Abakaliki, where seven of the victims were confirmed dead by a doctor. Four others are receiving treatment, but are in a critical condition. Detectives and youths are looking for the man,” Odah said.

  • Badeh’s wife, children removed from watch-list

    Slain former Chief of Defence Staff Air Chief Marshal Alex Badeh’s wife and three children have been delisted from security agencies watch-list.

    The removal of the names from the watch-list on compassionate ground  will allow members of the immediate family to attend the burial of their patriarch.

    Those on the watch-list are Mary Iya Badeh (wife);  Alex Sabundu Badeh (Jr);  Kamtafwa Badeh; and  Asuamana Badeh.

    The ex-CDS was shot dead on December 18 by some assailants along Keffi-Abuja Highway while returning from his farm.

    Two suspects, including the man who allegedly hired the assailants and the suspect who pulled the trigger, have been arrested.

    The police and other security agencies are on the trail of other suspects implicated in the murder.

    It has been difficult for members of Badeh’s immediate family to return to Nigeria from abroad because they have been watch-listed for arrest by INTERPOL and other security agencies.

    They were marked for arrest as a result of their alleged involvement in the alleged N3.9billion fraud against the late ex-CDS.

    Most members of the immediate family fled abroad during the investigation and trial of Badeh.

    The Nation learnt that the late Air Chief Marshal Badeh’s wife and children wrote EFCC Chairman Ibrahim Magu through their counsel, Mr. Akin Olujinmi (SAN) and Mr. Samuel Zibiri (SAN), for a “compassionate waiver” to return home for the burial of the ex-CDS.

    Olujimi sent a letter on December 20, last year, Zibiri did a follow-up on January 2.

    Olujinmi said: “Our instruction is to request you on compassionate grounds to delist from the watch-list the wife and all the children of late Air Marshal Alex Badeh, you may have included in the watch-list.

    “According to our client, it was while they were preparing to return to the country to make arrangements for the burial of their father that they learnt that their names may be on the watch-list.

    “It therefore becomes necessary to address this letter to you to request for their delisting from the watch-list.”

    Zibiri wrote: “We write this as a follow up of a letter from Akin Olujinmi (SAN) of Messrs. Olujinmi and Akeredolu and Co. in  respect of the above.

    “We are by this letter formally applying for the delisting of names of members of the immediate family of late Air Chief Marshal Badeh from the watch-list to enable them return to the country without molestation in order to make arrangement for the burial of their father, late Air Chief Marshal Alex Badeh.

    “As counsel to the family, we write to assure you that they will be available to attend to the commission’s invitation whenever they are needed for questioning on any matter relating to the charges/allegations if any that may assist the commission for clarifications.”

    An EFCC source confirmed that Magu on Monday  approved the request of the wife and the three children. He noted the plea by the lawyers to the ex-CDS in agreeing to the de-listing.

    “The EFCC has  written the Department of State Services (DSS), the  Nigeria Immigration  Service(NIS), the Nigeria Customs Service(NCS), and other security agencies to de-list Badeh’s wife and children,” the source said, pleading not to be named.

  • Fire claims two children in Kano

    Two children have died following an early morning fire outbreak in a two-bedroom house at Sharada, Ja’en Yamma, in Kano metropolis yesterday.

    The spokesman of the State Fire Service, Alhaji Saidu Mohammed, told the News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) in Kano that the victims were aged four and seven years.

    “We received a distress call in the early hours of this morning (Monday) from one Malam Bello Tukur at about 2:09 a.m. that there was a fire outbreak at a dwelling house.

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    “Upon receiving the information, we quickly dispatched a fire engine to the scene at about 2:15 a.m, to bring the fire under control,’’ he said.

    Mohammed said the parents of the children had run out of the house in search of help from neighbours when the fire started, but efforts made to retrieve the children was not successful.

    He said however that the firemen later handed over the corpses of the two children to the police after putting off the fire, adding that investigation had commenced to determine the cause of the incident.