Actress Chizzy Alichi-Mbah has slammed individuals who have an issue with her or any other wife having some form of ‘control’ on their husbands.
She questioned if these persons would rather have one’s spouse controlled by them instead.
The film star cited an example with her marriage where the hubby consults and discusses issues with her and she gives her two cent which may ultimately turn out unfavourable for his friends.
She wondered if that amounted to wielding some form of control over him or depicted the fact that they have a great home in which the man listened and adhered to his wife’s counsel.
Sharing her thoughts, Chizzy said: “So, I’ve noticed that if you have a happy home, if you listen to your wife, try to do good by your wife, people, especially the guys friends will be like, “Ha! Forget it, it’s that wife that’s controlling him”.
“I don’t understand. So he shouldn’t listen to his wife? Okay, you’ll rather control him and the marriage?
“But when the marriage begins to shake and eventually leads to breakup, you guys will be the first to start saying marriages don’t last this days.
“But families that stay together….most times, we women especially me, I have business-minded. And whenever I tell my husband business ideas, it works for him.
“Of course, you have to discuss with your spouse if you want to venture into a new business.
“And maybe he knows things I like or he gives me money or his friends beg him for money, or he needs to do something with his friends; first of all he’ll discuss it with his wife.
“And when I see the beyond, because I have spiritual eyes. So when I see beyond and I tell him not to venture into it that it’s not a good idea, then they’ll say it’s the wife that’s controlling him, right?
“So, are you the one that should now control him if you don’t want the wife to? Did you put touch and follow or talk and do in your mouth so that anything you say, that’s what he’ll do?
“He should not consult, discuss it with his wife? Right?!”
