Tag: Christmas

  • People prepare for Christmas without money in Osun

    People prepare for Christmas without money in Osun

    Many residents of Osun State otherwise known as the state of the virtuous, particularly Christians are excited about the joy associated with Christmas festival. As it was in the past the people are particularly concerned about preparation for hosting their loved one, well wishers and their kinsmen resident abroad and other parts of the country, who are likely to come to the state to celebrate the festival with them.

    Few days to Christmas, major roads, especially ones linking Osogbo, the state capital city have been adorned with flowers, Christmas lights and other decorations by the state government to etch the happy feelings on the minds of the people. Coming into Osogbo via major roads there are bill boards sending greeting messages of the Christmas and the end-of-the-year sponsored by the state government and corporate organisations.

    Also, many churches, public and private corporate buildings as well as some streets off the major roads are decorated in bright colour drape materials. No doubting both the government and the people are excited about the festival. What made the preparation more participatory was the fact that the Christmas festival is being celebrated annually close to the end of the Western calendar year.

    As the festival drew very close, prices of goods went up, reducing the spending power of an average citizen of across the state. It is very clear that it was a national matter because the inflation cut across the country and it affects mostly more patronised goods during the Christmas season. Prices of textile materials, food stuffs, assorted drinks and others have astronomically gone up.

    In the view of a provision seller at Olaiya Junction in Osogbo, Miss Saida Folasade Bello: “It is not strange that prices of goods go up at this period. For many past years, the pattern has been like that. It is predictable that it will be like that next year.” Miss Bello said many traders try as much as possible to secure cooperative and soft loans at least a month before end of the year to stock goods in order to buy relatively cheap and sell higher prices to maximise profit. However, she lamented that people’s spending power this year had been drastically reduced because of lack of money.

    According to an aluminum profile and accessories trader, Alhaja Bola Salam, apart from the prices of materials going up people are indulged in buying goods on credit from them. Also, a boutique owner, Mr. Saheed Ajiboye, who attributed hike in prices of his textile materials to current high exchange rate of dollar, complained that buyers patronised more those who take goods to their homes and offices to buy on credit.

    A motor dealer, Mr. Kunle Adeniyi, said rather than buy new cars people bring their used vehicles to them for sale because they want to use the proceed to complete their house projects and pack there this December in order to avoid paying new rent to their landlords. He said: “It is a lot more difficult selling used cars than new ones because many of these cars are in bad shape and more so, the profit margin on selling them was very minimal.”

    Despite all odds, the state government and some notable organisations in the state like churches, banks, and telecommunication companies among others have tried to push some fund into the economy of the state with special decorations of major roads, some roundabout and their premises in major cities like Ilesa, Ile-Ife, Osogbo, Ikire, Ila, Ifon, Ilobu, Ejigbo, Ede and Ikirun.

    Apart from the Mayfair roundabout housing Ori-Olokun statue in Ile-Ife, the Owa roundabout, accommodating the statue of Ogedengbe, the Ijesha war generalissimo in Ilesa, the Old Garage, housing Osun goddess statue and Ayetoro and Okefia roundabouts in Osogbo, the state capital, the state secretariat along Gbongan road and the roundabout leading into the office of the governor were heavily decorated.

    The Osun State Commissioner for Finance, Economic Planning and Budget, Dr. Wale Bolorunduro, said the state government had not only cut out a beautiful landscape but had provided money to go to those whose jobs are associated with the decorations.

    He said: “There is a significant multiplier effect on the economy through the decoration. It is a way largely of injecting money into the local economy. For instance, the materials for the decoration were sourced from within the state, those who got the contract for the decoration, no doubt, run their operation fully here. And we expect that the money they make will be used to buy things they need for personal use like foods, petrol into their cars and many other things from people in the state.”

    His counterpart in Information and Strategy, Mr. Sunday Akere, said those criticising the decoration of roads and public places are only doing so out of sheer ignorance or mischief. “It is a fad all over the world to see public places draped in bright colours at this time of the year. It goes a long way to set peoples mood right and suggests to people that we are in a season promoting love to one another and sharing of what you have with the less privileged in the society. Before the Rauf Aregbesola administration assumption of power less importance were paid to beautification of the environment. The state government since assumption of office has always show interest in making our environment healthy to live in and attractive to visitors.”

    An interior decorator and event planner, Miss Ibukun Ojo, confessed that she had been favoured by the season. According to her, many churches and few branch offices of some banks have awarded her decoration contract.

    Also, a bricklayer, Mr Rasak said, he had more than enough construction work to handle this season. However, he revealed that prices of building materials have skyrocketed, saying some have resorted to selling their property to speed up the completion of their house projects.

    Meanwhile, to make the people enjoy the season, the state governor, Ogbeni Rauf Aregbesola, about three days ago directed the Ministry of Commerce, Industry, Cooperatives and Empowerment to give free train ride to travellers from Lagos to the state during Christmas and New Year period. Since his assumption of office three years ago, Governor Aregbesola has been offering free train ride on all religious public holidays to those coming into the state. The Commissioner for Commerce Industry Cooperatives and Empowerment, Mr. Ismail Jayeoba-Alagbada, said the free train is to facilitate smooth and hitch-free transportation for people coming to the state during the yuletide. He said the gesture by the government to people willing to come home during Christmas and New Year, is aimed at easing their travelling during this hectic period.

    A Christmas party for the children is being planned by the wife of the governor, Mrs. Serifat Aregbesola, to make the season enjoyable, while a Christmas carol to be hosted inside the Government House in Okefia is also on the card.

    While many parents are concerned about raising money to finance the celebration of the season, children talk more about fireworks and use of bangers to excite themselves. An eight-year old Araoluwa Odesola, said she had been looking forward to enjoy the season when she and her family would exchange visits with other families.

    But the General Overseer of the Kingdom Gate Missionary Church, Pastor Femi Oyeyemi, admonished the people to pay more importance to the message which the birth of Jesus is preaching rather than the commercial aspect and the celebration of the Christmas season.

  • Dickson: imbibe Christ’s virtues

    Dickson: imbibe Christ’s virtues

    Bayelsa State Governor Seriake Dickson yesterday advised Christians to reflect and rededicate themselves to the lifestyle of Jesus Christ.

    The governor noted that Christ’s life symbolised sacrifice, love, peace and truth.

    In his Christmas message, Dickson urged Christians to worship God in love and in truth, adding that Christmas affords every Christian an opportunity to demonstrate the true virtues of Christ.

    He said Christians should always strive to be role models as Christ, who lived and died propagating the message of love, peace and truthful co-existence among mankind.

    Dickson thanked Christians for their dedication and prayers for the country.

    The governor urged them not to relent but to increase their prayers for the peace and unity to spread across the land.

     

    He attributed the success of his administration to the unending prayers of religious leaders and God’s continued presence in the affairs of the state.

    Dickson expressed satisfaction with the various roles the church has played to support the activities of his administration.

    In a statement in Yenagoa, the state capital, by his Chief Press Secretary, Daniel Iworiso-Markson, the governor described the church as a source of encouragement and inspiration to the government.

    He promised to use the Christmas celebration to rededicate himself and his government to improved service in the state, by delivering on his Restoration Agenda.

  • Merry Christmas;   The Sovereign National Conference

    Happy marriage to Daniel and Justina Henshaw. I am very sure that nobody is going to read this article. After all, it is Christmas Day! Just in case –Merry Christmas.  Be Christ-like – nice today to your family, to your friends and to your hired domestic help. They need a good Christmas more than you.  Domestic help are treated particularly badly by many upright people masquerading as Christ-like. Granted they are often criminal in intent but a decent meal is what even a prisoner awaiting execution is given.  The long overdue focus on human rights among the world’s and particularly Nigeria’s domestic help is welcome, as many are kept in almost slavery conditions.  A merry Christmas to you and your domestics.

    S-NC BUSINESS IS SERIOUS BUSINESS AND EVERYONE’S BUSINESS -ESPECIALLY THE UNDER 40s. Let us find younger adults to take us forward from this S-NC. The S-NC is about much more than just politics The S-NC is about life itself, existence, hate and happiness and not just mind control and mineral control. Everyone should be involved in this non-political journey during the next few months. Nigeria’s survival depends on it. Our successful transition from disaffected country to a cohesive nation or back to pre-amalgamation primal self-interest depends on this S-NC.

    Modalities are being worked out. Let the word SACRIFICE resound from Nigeria’s dungeons and rooftops. Of course there must be ‘NO ALLOWANCES FOR BEING MEMBERS’ only ‘NON-MONETISED ACCOMMODATION AND FEEDING’. LET EACH COMMUNITY, GROUP OR AGENCY SPONSOR ITS CANDIDATE. The VENUE must reflect Nigeria’s problems -AN EDUCATIONAL FACILITY LIKE A FEDERAL UNITY SCHOOL, POLYTECHNIC OR UNIVERSITY-not six months in Ladi Kwali Hall!  So who will be in the S-NC? There are many suggestions. About 80% should be under 40 years and 50% should be women. Women have suffered the most. Women represent children –two in one. We have fine females in all spheres. Any proposed proportional representation is based on our fraudulent census while executive whistle-blower Odimegwu is unjustly dismissed/ resigned and Nigeria looks on. Shame! This gives serious doubts from the beginning.

    Amalgamation collected together different ethnic groups, many very uncomfortable bedfellows, not having been treated fairly, by federal equity. This is decision and payback time. Reassessment may require apologies, reparation, redistribution, payouts. It will certainly require a redefinition and redistribution of federal political and administrative structures, fiscal federalism, exclusive listing changes and ‘federal feeling’. Every Nigerian interprets that ‘FEDERAL FEELING’. They will examine the flaws in federalism and the constitution and participate in fashioning a ‘NEW FEDERAL NIGERIA’ if possible and a ‘NEW REGIONAL FEDERATION’ with a ‘NEW NIGERIAN REVENUE AND REPRESENTATIONAL FORMULAE’ if necessary. No Nigerian will feel oppressed, marginalised after this S-NC.

    Therefore if there are 344 ethnic groups in Nigeria, let them each send one person, the best brained person, to meet, greet and avoid deceit. One person, one voice per group. Let them advance their ideas and retreat home for contemplation on Nigeria surviving as a nation. Enough of WAZOBIA or WAZZZOOOOBIA. There are more than three tribes in Nigeria and they and their coat tail tribes have failed to improve Nigeria or bring it into the 21st century. The term should be consigned to the dustbin of history. It is an insult to the other 341 tribal groups and a reminder of the oppression, real and imagined, inflicted on ‘other ethnic groups during the last 53 years. This is 2013. We can no longer be playing colonial politics with fellow Nigerians who are Nigerians in their own right and not ‘minorities’ -another word that should be expunged from our vocabulary.

    Old battles still open fresh wounds. Conquerors must confer with their former adversaries to concur and conjure a non-violent way forward. Swords are no longer the way to stay on the same boat. Wound remain open too long in Nigeria and fresh ones are opened daily making co-habitation without one eye open and a hand on a weapon impossible in some areas. Where is the love of self and each other, sister and brother, friend and lover? But love cannot come when agendas are for the belligerent takeover of other people’s property.  There must be conflict for resolution but there must be evil intent for conflict in the first place. That pervading evil intent is capable of destroying even the new Nigeria and ‘the falling apart as the centre cannot hold’.  To be proud of Nigeria we must be proud of each other. If we despise and deprive one group, no amount of disguise will make us feel Nigerian.

    The centre is a huge bone of contention in Nigeria and the unbundling of the federal structure is of paramount importance to any sense of belonging. The federal structure has been seen as self-serving of incumbent powers that be and oppressive of the peripheral authorities especially if they are seen as wrong party, wrong ideology, or wrong-footed or anti-centre. Millions of Nigerians have suffered untold hardship and been forced to invent the circumstances of ‘I de manage’ due to the unfair withholding, unfair distribution of their federal rights in terms of funds, opportunities, projects, infrastructure and federal presence. Indeed many have died at the hands of federal agents like the police during political and other activities. ‘Federal bias is often lethal, fatal or injurious to your health’ easily summarises to power of the centre over the country and its citizens. This needs to be reversed.  MEXAHNYIA

  • Christmas: Beyond Santa Claus

    The early church did not know the exact date of Jesus’ birth, neither was there any annual celebration of the event. The Bible tells us that Jesus was born ‘while shepherds watched their flocks by night,’ but many scholars doubt the idea of the birth of Jesus in December based on the frozen Palestinian weather conditions.

    The first evidence for the celebration of Jesus Christ’s birth on December 25, is found in a Roman document dated AD 336. The date was chosen as a Christian take-over of the Roman festival celebrating the unconquerable Sun – ‘The apparently dying Sun began to increase its sunlight on December 25.’ The argument is that when Pope Gregory the Great sent St Augustine to convert the barbaric Anglo-Saxon pagan tribes in northern Europe in AD 595, he urged his missionaries to fit and contextualise Christian celebrations around local traditions. St Augustine converted many of the kings and thousands of their subjects with a follow up of mass baptism on Christmas Day in 597. St Augustine told the Anglo-Saxons of the true God becoming man – Jesus Christ. The renewal that followed was that, instead of worshipping the Sun, Christians in Rome began to use the festival to celebrate the birthday of Jesus Christ and to worship instead the unconquerable Son – Jesus Christ.

    December has therefore come with all the joy of Christmas and the run-up to the New Year. The reflection is that the real meaning of Christmas goes beyond the Santa Claus and gifts under the tree, the lights in the windows, the cards in the mail, turkey dinners with family and friends, and shouts of ‘Merry Christmas’ to those who pass us in the streets. In our consumer culture society, Christmas as a familiar tradition is hardly complete without tree and cards. Just as the Christmas carol is a Victorian invention, the Christmas tree goes back to the eighth century to a missionary from England called St Boniface who went to Germany to teach people the Christian faith. While in Germany, one December, St Boniface encountered a group of people standing beneath an oak tree ready to sacrifice a child to please their god. St Boniface immediately rescued the child and chopped the oak tree down. At its foot was a small fir tree. St Boniface cut the small fir tree and gave it to the people as a symbol of life. He called it the tree of the Christ-child. The tradition was boosted when Martin Luther, the famous German church leader, cut a fir tree and took it home in the December of 1540. To Luther, the evergreen tree reminded him that life continued through the winter, when most of nature appeared to have died. He attached a number of small candles to illuminate the tree to express that Christ was welcome in his home. It is on record that the popularity of the Christmas tree increased as part of the celebration of Christmas in the middle of the nineteenth century, when the Christmas tree was introduced into England by Queen Victoria’s husband, the German born Prince Albert.

    Nowadays, millions of Christmas cards are sent all over the world, with a variety of messages from peace to goodwill about the birth and coming of the Saviour of the world. The first Christmas card was made in 1843 by Sir Henry Cole, founder of the Victoria and Albert Museum, London. The card titled ‘Brimming Cheer’ pictured a family celebrating Christmas and giving gifts of clothing and food to the poor was sent by Sir Henry to John Horsely. In the beginning, Christmas was a time of reaching out to poor people with no money to buy presents for their children, family and friends and turkey dinner may only be a wish and not a reality.

    Authentic Christmas is about incarnational mission, a time of healing and renewing relationship (Luke 2:4-19). In the little town of Bethlehem, God met the hopes of humanity including the Gentiles through the birth of His Son, Jesus. God responded to the magi from Persia’s hunger for truth. The good news of Christmas is about the coming of Christ who brought salvation to a cruel and hard world, regardless of our background and colour. Jesus’ story (history) is one of truth, love, and hope was born so that one day the price could be paid for the sins of the world (1John 1:9).

    The world today is in one of the most violent yet religious but corrupt periods in its history, hundreds of millions have died since World War II and many are still dying through corrupt, terrorist, and other militia activities. Globally, leadership, followership, and family life are in crisis and value for life is diminishing daily. Democracies have broken the contract between generations by heaping IOU on our children and grandchildren. Our political, market economy, and churches are distorted by palliative leadership. The rule of law has metamorphosed into the rule of lawyers and lawmakers (breakers). Despite millions of peace greetings to each other at Christmas, the world is still in conflict and chaos. Why are our peace greetings short-lived especially when thousands of peace treaties have been signed over the years?

    On December 25, 1914, during the First World War, while the Germans and the Allied armies faced each other in France, someone began singing the carol ‘Silent Night, Holy Night,’ and a follow up of hush fell over the battlefield. According to report, ‘soldiers on both sides laid down their arms, climbed out of their trenches and met together. Men who had spent weeks trying to kill each other now embraced, sang and exchanged souvenirs and cigarettes. Even a football match was organized…’ The sad reflection is that, ‘on 26 December, they went back to their trenches once again to kill each other.’ What is the difference in our society today? Where is the peace in our time despite our peace greetings, decorations, lights and carols, congresses, and retreats? There will be no peace in this world era of negligence, hero worship, greed, and complacency until the main problem in the world is sorted out. The heart of the human problem is the problem of human heart. Our world and the church are only as evil and carnal as our hearts. We cannot continue to exist on a diet of sins and short comings.

    The truth is that no president or senator, prophet or priest, pastor or seer could fulfil the redeeming role of human hearts hence, God himself became man in the coming of person of his Son, Jesus. This is the reason why Christmas is a contextual mission, very prophetic and counter-cultural. Christmas is not just built on the familiar tradition of man or the Christ’s first advent in Bethlehem. Contextual Christmas is built on Jesus’ coming into the human hearts by his Holy Spirit and the expectation of his second coming to restore the world and the church we have messed up. According to Eberhard Arnold, when we become “mindful of how Christ’s birth took place” we will sense immediately that Christmas marks something momentous: God’s coming into our midst and not just something that happened in the past. It is a recurring spirituality and mission here and now. Christmas is not merely a commemorative event or an anniversary, but a periodic opportunity for renewal and preparation for the coming King and Judge. When the Messiah comes, the deserts will bloom again. With best wishes for warmed-hearts Christmas and the New Year.

    • Very Rev Dr Okegbile, is of the Nigerian Methodist Chaplaincy, UK/Ireland.

  • Cash crunch hampers Christmas shopping in Ekiti

    Cash crunch hampers Christmas shopping in Ekiti

    From changing pattern of sales to changing looks across sections of Ado-Ekiti, capital of the state, Christmas seems to announce its coming, although amid worries of shortage of spendable cash, writes Sulaiman Salawudeen

    Parties for children

    Mrs. Folasade Awoyode had emerged in company of her two kids, Angel and David, at the Christmas celebrations organised by a media establishment in Ado-Ekiti, capital of the state. According to her, the kids had pestered her continuously for three days before she eventually succumbed to taking them out on a festive picnic.

    She explained that her reluctance was because her husband, a journalist, who would have preferred to lead the way at such an occasion, was not in town and would not be returning for some time.

    Mrs Lucia Adejumo had also brought her twin children to the picnic as the husband was equally not around to superintend the outing. A quick survey of the whole environment of the picnic where there was a minimum of sixty families however revealed that all the children were brought by their mothers. Is it not useful therefore to pose the question: Are all the father/husbands actually away on business or because of the often reported vanishing culture of responsible fatherhood?

    But there are few encounters which would not make the preceding observation apply generally.  It does not. One of such is the yuletide fun parties tagged ‘2013 Children’s end-of-the-year party’ hosted by the wife of the Ekiti State Governor, Erelu Bisi Fayemi, drawing children across the sixteen local government areas of the state.

    The event held at the Oluyemi Kayode Stadium, Ado-Ekiti, attracted well over four thousand children who engaged in the brief period in dance and other competitions and also went home with various gift items.

    The performance of two popular Nollywood artistes including Funke Akindele and Saheed Balogun added colour to an event which was the third in a row by the wife of the Governor, leaving the children giggling and applauding during the duo’s performance.

    Addressing the children, Erelu Fayemi said education should be their first love, adding, “it is education which can make you become a governor, lawyer, medical doctor, engineer, accountant and many others. If you want to be the President of Nigeria tomorrow, you must have education. So education should be your first love.

    She noted that it is when they (the children) faced their studies that they could make their parents happy, adding, “Nigeria will be better with children that are serious with their education.

    Erelu Fayemi explained that the current administration in the state has invested a huge amount of fund into revamping the education sector so as to offer school children all necessary supports for them to excel academically and morally.

    She explained that 2013 party was held at the stadium to accommodate more children, instead of the traditional Government House grounds.

    The governor’s wife used the opportunity to educate parents on the need to take proper care of their children by ensuring that they enroll them in school to make them productive citizens in future.

    She reminded parents of the existing Child Rights Law, which makes it an offence for any child to hawk commodities during school hours.

    Other highpoints of the event were dance and quiz competitions; as well as children’s special dance with the First Lady. Those adjudged by the children themselves as having outshone others were given prizes.

    But all of the children went away with gifts from Father Christmas placed at the four grottos mounted at the four entrances into the stadium.

    Other fun centres including the popular and not so popular eateries in the town have so far organised parties for children where they equally went home with various gift items after having frolicked with amusement items.

    Businesses for the period

    The fun of the period has not been for the children alone, however, as the fever of the yuletide season has spread across the state capital. From Okesa passing through Ojumoshe to Okeyinmi down to Old Garrage facing Ejigbo junction, businesses seem to have caught the bug of the festivities.

    Various articles of ostentation reminding of the yuletide in various shapes and sizes were mounted at entrances to shops, kiosks and on wooden platforms where the interested public admire and buy or just admire and move on.

    Also, here and there at major junctions are booming businesses which revolved round brisk sales of such articles as Christmas caps, toys, music instruments, tree, lights and others, some of which sing the familiar ‘jingle bell, jingle bell jingle all the way’ tunes.

    Entrances to banks and corporate outfits, eateries and relaxation centres now wear patterns of red striped in white. In the night, they reveal clear patterns of moving cars, trees, a family in sitting posture, all such amusing patterns which arouse curiosity and awe.

    The prices of the items have however either remained same or very tolerable. Chief (Mrs.) Tolu Ogunleye of Green Light Ventures, Okesa, admitting this, hinged the situation on the shrinking disposable income available to the people

    But Livingstone Eze, a cosmetics seller at the new Fayemi Market behind Textile, in the capital who has been on the street, selling Christmas gift items, would not admit the situation has been bad. According to him, if money has not been available for people to spend, he would not have risked putting his money into selling the gift items.

    Eze said: “As you can see, cars stop for us here and they make their buys. Would they be buying if money was not in their pockets? The situation has been like that for and among the people. While some complain of lack of money, others would not say they have but you know they have. That is life.”

    Somewhat confirming Eze’s opinion, Mr. Emanuel Akinwande, a teacher, had been busy in the last two weeks, trying to fix some conveniences in his newly completed personal house. His intention, just like scores of others, had been to celebrate the Christmas in the new home.

    “I have come to buy a door for the entrance. We spent the whole of yesterday fixing the windows. By the end of tomorrow, most of what we want to put in place would have been done.

    Meanwhile, in response to the change in the selling patterns across the shops and kiosks, Mrs. Kudirat Olorunoje, warned that sellers must be cautious not to overstock with the now selling items.

    She said: “We are in the festive period which will not last more than a week or two. It is good to join others to make quick sales but it won’t be proper to stock more than could be sold. For those who have shops, they just keep for another year, but those who don’t have shops, it may be a mistake as they may not have where to keep them.

    Foodstuffs and transport fares

    Prices of foodstuffs have however remained the same from rice, beans, tubers of yam, local edible red and refined cooking oil and various other foodstuff varieties.  Mrs. Sola Taiwo, a foodstuff seller at the Erekesan Market, Old Garrage noted that prices of foodstuffs have remained the same because of the general shortage of finances.

    Taiwo said: “Who will buy if we increase the prices. The truth is that there is no money and everyone knows that. Even now, sales are low. Those who sell other things may have better market but those of us selling foodstuffs are not having much improvement.

    Findings across local markets confirmed this with rice, beans, edible oil (ororo), tubers of yam reportedly maintaining their old prices of N450, N350, N250, and N500 respectively.

    However, while transportation fares within the towns and cities have remained the same, the fares at the parks for those traveling outside the state have however gone up. While some have simply doubled, some have gone up the worse.

    When queried on the development, the only excuse the drivers gave was that people already know that prices would go up during the period. In his explanation,  regardless of the availability of petrol at fuel stations and the fact that prices of fuel have remained the same, fares must go up for drivers to enjoy themselves better.

    Said one of the drivers who plies Ado-Ibadan route: “On a normal day, Ibadan is just N1,200 but now, it is N2,500 while Lagos is now N3,000 from N1,500. People will pay the amount because they know it must happen. There is nothing anybody can do about it”.

     

  • The Christmases I remember

    The Christmases I remember

    Betty Abah, a Lagos-based writer, activist and coordinator of CEE-HOPE Nigeria recalls Christmas celebrations while growing up in Otukpo, Benue State.

    I remember especially the rice, the stew-saturated and meat laced-rice that arrived our home shortly after dawn, as the special morning breaks into a toothless smile. They were borne on the bent heads of fellow kids or in the hands of beautiful maidens. We would suspend our work ‘supervising’ the roasting goat. We would devour those as first course while awaiting our mothers’ which would come late, inspite of Baba’s chiding.

    The good, old Christmas was indeed a day of suspensions. The rebukes, the spanks suspended, tied up to the rafters; the cold, early morning ‘flight’ to Army Children’s School, Ojira also suspended till January when Mr. Fasako would await us, eyeing offenders, brandishing his trademark cane….. and gladly too, the painful routines of pushing Baba’s jalopy station wagon which emitted smokes directly into our young lungs in the early morning breeze as we stomped the red, rising dusts, eight, ten tiny pairs of feet at a time…a routine from which we had no escape on ordinary days for to disobey Baba was tantamount to embarking gleefully on a suicide mission.

    A Christmas in Otukpo was a day of immense goodwill. After the rice, topped with the usual brewed cereal drink (umu or kunu), we start pounding the roads to show off our new dresses, shoes, eye glasses etc (sometimes over-sized or undersized), and visit relatives, where, after boutfuls of yet more meals and a shout of ‘Api Klismas’, we were sure to return home, our petite made-in-China handbags sagging with coins or stuffed with a few notes. Oh, even Mama who always ensured we minimized our meat intakes so we don’t turn out ‘bad children’ somehow forgot her principles and allow us the Christmas-day-spoiling…

    And, isn’t it amazing how the road-side masquerades and booming bangers broke through our sanctimonious walls and airs obtained at the Methodist Church, Jericho Section during the previous night’s carol? We would yell with abandon, and run after the masquerades, or they gave us hot chases, whip-in-hand, our shoes dangling in our hands. Sometime too, we would recognize a masquerade, especially if it/he had a limp!

    One of our major destinations was Ogwonu-Igbalapa (‘stumble-seven-times’) area of town, named for its crooked, stony streets, some, sadly, still unchanged. But we didn’t mind the stones. Our minds were on the coins. We dare not go near the Babylon area of town which had the railway line, for why, the trains would magnetize and kill us if we dare!

    Our ideal Christmases were borne to us on the breezy backs of the harmattan in the mid-eighties and early nineties in Otukpo aka ‘Texas’, the red-soil enclave of Benue. Those were Christmases of immense goodwill. Christmases that smelt so good. Christmases of sweet re-unions… Christmases where the rich from the cities returned, showing off their wealth without fright of mid-way stops, temporarily enriching the have-nots with their city-scented crumbs… when bachelors, after year-long labours in Lagos or in the textile mills of the north came home and had a rethink of their status at the sight of maidens…

    Oh, for Christmases saturated with love!
    There was something spiritually elevating, there was something electrifying, even magnetizing about those Christmases, whose day we counted three  months ahead—- the happy Christmases of yesteryears… Christmases without cracks, Christmases without chaos, Christmases without the Kalashnikovs..!

    Oh! My by-gone Christmases of new clothes, bogus meals… Christmases without strife,  where people attended carols without looking over their shoulders for fear of the unknown… Christmases without fear of kidnappers lurking in the dark— hungry, angry youngsters holding the haves down in dingy hells, magnifying anarchy— while politicians say is all well…
    Oh, how I love, love the Christmases of my childhood! How I love to reincarnate the Christmases of unblemished years…

    For some curious reasons the rice rarely arrived here in Lagos. Relatives here think I am too old now to be given a coin or two (that is if they are even still legal tenders and could still purchase the tingling goodie-goodie chocolate), and the traffic is in no mood to pamper Christmas revelers. I miss the special aromas of Christmases-made-in-Otukpo, an aroma arising from the sweet blend of roasted goat meat and the specially made rice stew.

    Kai, I loath Christmases in Lagos…! Drab..drumless..goatless..coinless…
    Oh, for Christmases back in Otukpo… The Christmases of my childhood… Christmases which were scented. Christmases which were serenading.
    Christmases which were safe nation-wide…
    Christmases of Christ-like innocence…When God became man that man may become God…!
    Those are the Christmases I will always, gladly REMEMBER…!

    Abah is a Lagos-based writer, activist and coordinator of CEE-HOPE Nigeria.

  •  It’s Christmas season, again

    SIR: The simple things people do around Christmas bring out the most joy.  Wheelbarrow pushers in their idle time discussing the details of their preparation to travel to their villages are heartwarming.  It is marvelous to watch the dreamy manner in which they anticipate the joy they will have when they meet their families and friends.  They talk with excitement about the date they will travel and the things they have bought like television sets, new clothes and shoes, bag of rice, drinks and many more.

    Happiness is spread in the air during the season.  No matter how little anyone has, he or she makes sure that there is joy in his or her house by sharing wholeheartedly.  Children dress in their new clothes and go from house to house visiting neighbors and relatives.  They are welcome with delicious food and drinks.  The best part to them is that they get money also.  Girls look so adoring walking the festive streets on masquerade outing day.  They showcase themselves in a very attractive way.  By chance, the eyes of handsome boys will catch them and romance may ensue.  Parents expect marriages to follow.

    Christmas brings family members together.  They travel from far and wide to visit home.  Beautiful events are scheduled during the period.  You wake up each morning and before you recover from the eating and drinking of the previous day, you are reminded of another occasion like your cousin’s wine carrying.  List of activities goes on from wedding to yearend closing to private parties.  In the midst of all, you entertain visitors.  Your sweet harmattan sleep is interrupted by relatives who will like to know about your wellbeing and maybe use the opportunity to inform you about the little situations in the family.  Perhaps your niece may need assistance with her school tuition.  Not the least, you treasure the chance of pleasurable time with family members over breakfast.

    The spirit is refreshed by the wonderful things around the holidays.  You are happy to see your nieces and nephews, some of them for the first time.  You have a chance to see the changes in your childhood home.  The improvements by your friends, like the kind of houses they built in the village and other triumphs they made.  They motivate you.

    Life is not all about suffering.  Christmas gives us one chance for smiling.  The wheelbarrow pusher may go back to his toiling tomorrow but for this celebration, he forgets all his worries.  Let the blinking lights glitter in the streets.  Let the busy shoppers exhaust themselves with shopping.  Let the spark and sound of knockouts cheer our hearts.  We are merry for our creator gives us the reason every year for the season.

     

    • Pius Okaneme

    Umuoji, Anambra State.

  • What Christmas means to The Nation facebook fans

    What Christmas means to The Nation facebook fans

    It’s that season of the year when Christians around the world celebrate Christmas. The Yuletide, marked every year to acknowledge the birth of Jesus Christ brings merriments, it is a time to share, exchange gifts, visit friends and celebrate.

    When November elapses, the spirit of Xmas takes the centre stage even though the actual celebration is 25th of December. The streets wear new looks, Xmas light and trees adorn public places, homes and offices with inscriptions like ‘Merry Xmas’ all over.

    The Nation Newspaper sought to know what Xmas really meant to people. As expected, people have diversed views of what the celebration of Christ’s birthday means to them.

    The Nation facebook fans submitted commented on what Xmas meant to them, below are some of their interesting responses:

    Olalekan Folorunso: It means the birth of divine redemption to humanity, it’s a confirmation that God came in form of human and lived among men, it means generosity- because it was a product of love for God’s grace to have permitted a carpenter to be the father of our Lord Jesus Christ- Matt.13v55. Christmas has demolished the middle wall of partition between God and man, you need no contractor to fast, pray and see vision for you anymore. Christmas has restored the lost friendship between man and God.

    It is a confirmation that our existence must be a blessing to our world 1 John 2v2. For this reason I say to you, though your beginning may not have beautiful story like Jesus that was born in a manger but ended up as Messiah of universal, with your focus on God you will end yours in glory IJN amen Lk.2v7.

    Mohammed Malabu: It means a lot to d Christians, and also we Muslims join our Christians friends in celebrating it, I hope this period will be a turning point for Nigeria’s peace and unity.

    Victor Ezeugo: To me, it means always remembering the sacrifice of Mary and the loyalty of her son Christ Jesus, and remembering me of His mercy and forgiveness to others and also to keep myself like a child.

    Adebowale Geronimo: It means the birth of Christ. We need a messiah born for us. That is important.

    Golden Mark: A season that heralds the birth of Christ, the birth or nativity of Christ, a season of unspeakable joy and expectation a season that reminds us of the second coming of Christ.

    Idachaba Ocholi: It means the celebration of my lord Jesus Christ.

    Kolawole Ajpower: It means the depth of Christ love which we are supposed to replicate.

    Thompson Omie Noah Peter: Love was born on xmas day

    Fabong Venkur: It’s a moment of reflection, celebration, Love, sharing and resolution.

    Ogba Chidi Sammy: This is what Xmas means: no more beating on closed doors, but an open heaven, Angels ascending and descending freely. Our prayers reaching the throne of God and the Holy

    Spirit constantly pouring, on us like sunshine from a cloudless sky. God with us- Emmanuel!

    Brian Ryan: Christmas is the most celebrated day of the year. When God gave salvation freely to mankind!

    Kollis Olawuyi: New things, new born, new glories, new message and many more.

    Cajetan Onuoha: The birth of our Lord and Saviour- Jesus Christ. It is a time for us to reflect on our Lives, Repent of our Sins and turn back to God our Creator. A time to help the Needy in our Society, care for the Sick and visit the prisoners. The Mass of Christ.

    Ubanwa Michael: It means Christ and the reason for the season

    Read more comments here>>https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=618351451565330&id=161915460542267&_rdr#618368838230258

  • 5 places to visit this yuletide

    5 places to visit this yuletide

    It’s Christmas and at this time of the year, people ask the question “Where do we go right now?” If you live in Lagos, you have many answers to that question.  If you’re on the look out for fun places to exciting time with your family, friends or close associates, then these are the top five places that might interest you…..

     

    Rhapsody’s Victoria Island

     

    This is a must place to visit for a night out or drinks with friends. It’s the perfect blend of great ambience and delicious meal.

     

    The Lagoon Restaurant

     

    If you want to go out in groups or as a family, then this is the perfect place to visit. It has affordable food and an expansive menu ranging from brazillian to traditional menus.

     

    The White Space, Ikoyi

     

    If you’re artsy at heart and want to meet like minds while shopping and partying, then you can’t miss the white space.

     

    La Manga luxury Beach Villas, Ilashe

     

    This is one spot that is highly recommended for couples who want some time away. If your idea of a quick getaway includes stunning beach and luxury accommodation in a quiet and private environment, then La Manga Luxury Beach Villas in Ilashe Island, Lagos, Nigeria with its spectacular and invigorating view of the ocean is the place for you.

     

    Lacampagne Tropicana Beach Resort

     

    This is a very tranquil place located just an hour’s drive from Victoria Island in Lagos State. The resort offers a perfect blend of natural environments and the warm Atlantic sea.

    It also provides accommodation and a variety of activities like hiking, horse riding, canoeing and exquisite cuisine.

    It might be a perfect place to visit with family or friends

     

  • Christmas  I’ll never  forget

    Christmas I’ll never forget

    A pleasant surprise, a wonderful gift or an experience that would be cherished for a long time. These naturally are some of the things we all expect at Christmas. Once we get what we desire, the memories linger and like Oliver Twist we are likely to ask for more. As we look back , a memorable Christmas would be very easy to remember and cherish. The Nation on Sunday’s Edozie Udeze, Adetutu Audu and Gboyega Alaka spoke with some of our celebrities and they recount the Christmas that they will never forget.

    Uti Uwachukwu, BBA winner

    We will have to go back to the Christmas of 2008 where I spend Christmas with my whole family after a very long time. We went to the village, it sort of reminds me of the…., everywhere was cool and calm with no noise around. The closeness of the family, all the people abroad cam e back for the holiday. It was really warm. I’m a family type of guy. For me that should be one of my but Christmas ever. I really do not expect Christmas gift, it is only when it is birthdays that I expect gifts. It is not about receiving, my charity outfit I coming out on the 20th of Dec and that is my own way of giving back to the community.

     

    Kunle Afolayan, Actor, Film-maker

    I really can’t say precisely, but the few that still stand out would be the ones that I celebrated in my village in Agbamu, Kwara State. My father would take us home every Christmas and my uncle, Chief Samuel Adedoyin would always throw a big party, with lots of children in attendance from all over Lagos, Ibadan and everywhere else and we would have a big celebration, dance and generally have fun. Those were really memorable moments for me and I always looked forward to the next Christmas. I also hope to be able to replicate that when I have the capacity, and make sure that my children travel to Agbamu and have a taste of those great times that we had.

     

    Shirley Aghotse, former Miss Tourism

    It was a long time ago when I had Christmas with my paternal grandmother. There was no money for food, so I told her that she shouldn’t worry that God will provide. Being a faithful God somebody brought a bag of rice and some other people chicken. It was just a miracle because she wasn’t expecting it. That made our Christmas.

    I am not expecting gifts from anybody but definitely because I am from a loving family and I have loving friends. I am just glad that I am alive and I am glad that Hewas born and He came to redeem our souls.

     

    Omasan Buwa, ex-Beauty Queen and Executive Assistant to Delta State governor on Physically challenged.

    Christmas is being commercialized. Christmas for me is the season for Christ even though I knew Christ was not born in December. The Best Christmas for me is when we have Christmas carol from house to house or when the kid will come from house to house and come to sing. Those days when we were young and we will do some nativity play. Those were the good old days for me. I will prefer those Christmas or when we were young, wear cloth, go to church and eat rice, those were the Christmas I will like to remember but these days everything is commercialized, well it’s all good but I will like to remember that Jesus Christ is the reason for the season..

     

    Martin Adaji, Director, general of the National Troupe of Nigeria (NTN), the nation’s foremost dance troupe.

    It was one Christmas when I lost my Aunt. You see, she was like a mother to me. My mother took her to live in our house immediately she got married to my father. From then onwards, she trained her through tertiary institutions and practically gave her out in marriage. She was my mother’s younger sister. And as soon as she got married, she took me along with her to her own house.

    In fact, I grew up knowing and taking her as my mother. So when in 1985, I was preparing to get married, she took it upon herself to shoulder almost all the responsibilities. What happened was that my wedding was to be in April (Easter) of 1986; so by Christmas of 1985 she had bought all the wedding materials for my wife. She was also the one that even picked my bride for me. We were that close.

    It happened on 23rd December, 1985. They, (she and her husband) had hired a driver to drive them home at Ayangba (then in Benue but now in Kogi State), from Zaria. On their way to Abuja, it happened, a terrible accident took place and my aunt was the only one that died. We learnt that the driver was trying to avoid a pot hole when the 504 car skidded off the road, hitting a road block.

    As a matter of fact, that year we were home at Ayangba earlier for Xmas. My grandfather had died in December 1984 and we had gathered to celebrate the one year memorial. We are still in that jolly mood when three neighbours of ours approached our house. Seeing us in good moods, they did not know how to break the bad news of the death of my Aunt to us. They were not really sure whether the news they got was true or not. Instead, they went to the Catholic Parish Priest in town who was incidentally my mate. It was he who broke the news to me. When he did so, I immediately held him on his shirt, saying, father, if this is a joke stop it.

    To make sure we were not being deceived because then there was no GSM Phones, I quickly entered my beetle car to drive down to Zaria that night. As soon as I was set, my mother entered the car and together we drove all night and got to Zaria early in the morning, when my uncle (my aunt’s husband) saw us, he broke down in tears and said to me, Martin, your mother is dead. And I said to him, Uncle if you do not show me where she is in this hospital I will break down all these doors. It was when I saw her corpse that it really downed on me that I’d lost her; that I’d lost the woman who was my mother, who meant everything to me in this life…

    “It was later that my uncle told me that she said that whatever happened we shouldn’t postpone the wedding. I was so shocked and sad that I wanted to shift the date of the wedding. But when uncle said this, it immediately occurred to me that my aunt saw her death coming. But I tell you one thing, that wedding was not complete without her. Up till today, I cannot erase her memory from my life, for she was everything to me. Once Christmas is approaching, my mind goes to her and I’ll then remember that horrible Christmas of 1985.

     

    Muftau Fasasi, Finance Director of UAC Nigeria.

    “It was in 2000. It was one year I’ll never forget. I and members of my family had gone to Jos, the Plateau State capital a month before the Christmas day. On the morning of 25th December as the Christmas carol were being sung and I looked through the window to see people walking the streets in winter Jackets and Swelters, it then occurred to me really that Christ was born on a cold night. The message immediately sank inside of me.

    You know Lagos is usually hot and I’ve been here all my life. So, that moment I celebrated that Christmas in Jos in 2000, I immediately realized that the whole story told about the birth of Christ, the coldness of Bethlehem in Judea, the role of the shepherds who braced the cold weather, all reminded me about the true story of the coming of Christ.

    Whenever Christmas approaches, my mind quickly dashes back in time and I’ll then remind myself that there can never be another Christmas as memorable as that one to me. You see if we can all celebrate Christmas when there is winter and the cold is blowing from every angle it will help us to appreciate the celebration better. Christ coming happened when the weather was cold to help send down the message to humanity and the vivid account about it in the Bible shows how we all can relate to it. Since 2000, I’ve been wishing to have that sort of Christmas again, but it has not been possible.”