Tag: damage

  • Girls, don’t let the world damage you! (II)

    Dear Mummy Temilolu, May God continue to increase your wisdom to lead us on the right path! I look forward to meeting you some day. I decided to break up with my boyfriend after reading one of your posts and I don’t regret doing so! Thanks for opening my eyes to more important things I need to focus on for now!

    Eniola

    Dear Aunty Temilolu,

    I am 17 years old and a guy told me he is in love with me. What should I do please? And guess what? I am the girl my brother slept with four times when I was nine.

    M.

    My darling M,

    I’m really sorry you were abused as a child and really want to believe you’ve gotten over it long before now! I know you have a loose idea of sex and I wish you would turn your face away from advances from guys. This is because with your likely state of mind on sex you would do just about anything to keep a guy you fall in love with. YOU WOULD BE BADLY DISTRACTED BECAUSE YOU WOULD EXPECT TOO MUCH FROM YOUR LOVER AND YOU ARE LIKELY TO GET SO LITTLE ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU COME SO CHEAP! Please forget about having a boyfriend for now. Concentrate on attaining a CGPA that could fetch you a first class or at least a second class upper. Concentrate on making the most of your virtues/innate skills, take a closer walk with God and let Him cook you and by the time He’s done with you, even you will be perplexed at the wonderful wonder that you’d become. NO GUY IS WORTH YOUR ATTENTION NOW! Please forget what happened when you were nine. You can’t turn back the hands of time but you can create a glorious future out of your dreams. May God bless you and make you VERY GREAT in Jesus mighty name!

    Dear Mummy Temilolu,

    I came across one of your articles and felt I should share this with you. I stay with a family friend whose husband has older children, one of whom is a guy about my age-17. We became close and we started doing “things” with our bodies although sexual intercourse is yet to be involved. I’m still a virgin as I’ve never had sex before and he claims to be one as well. However, I don’t feel good in my spirit. I’m a chorister in my church and in recent times, I get scared to minister. I can feel my spiritual life drowning even without sex. I don’t know what to do and I don’t want to disappoint my parents.

    Anonymous

    My dear Anonymous,

    I thank God His spirit has not departed from you! You are a good girl but not quite in control of your spirit. And I tell you this is one of the major problems of the average youth and humanity in general. You can’t afford to be lukewarm as the devil is forever roaming the world looking for whom to devour! In the first instance, I thank God you’re still “intact” even though you could just be a “technical virgin” as I don’t know what you’ve both been doing to your bodies! Now that you feel so bad with messing around with your body which is God’s holy temple, can you imagine how you’d feel if for instance he comes again to you tonight and he gets to have intercourse with you? STOP PLAYING WITH FIRE! YOU CAN’T HANDLE IT! I TELL YOU, YOU’D NEVER GET OVER IT EASILY AND EVERYONE AROUND YOU WOULD DISCOVER AS A RESULT OF YOUR EMOTIONS!

    As I told M above, you have no business getting into a romantic relationship for now! Also, for someone like you who’s so spiritually-inclined such that you know God is frowning at your immoral acts, doesn’t your spirit tell you that God thinks so highly of you and has fantastic ground-breaking plans for you in the supernatural? Hmm….if your family friend won’t stop harassing you, then you would have to leave his house because I know you’d never want to tell anyone what’s been going on! BE CAREFUL, BE CAREFUL, BE CAREFUL! Once you taste sex, your life can never be the same again for diverse reasons! You are too young to handle all that comes with it! It’s too distracting for your age! BELIEVE ME! BE PATIENT, BE PATIENT, BE PATIENT WITH GOD, GIVE HIM YOUR LIFE AND AT THE RIGHT TIME HE’D LEAD YOU TO A FANTASTIC MAN WHO YOU’D SPEND THE REST OF YOUR LIFE WITH AND HAVE SEX WITH 10 TIMES A DAY IF YOU BOTH WISH!

     

    • To be continued

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  • Ado Poly students to pay for damage

    The management of the Federal Polytechnic in Ado-Ekiti, Ekiti State capital, has imposed a reparation fee of N20,000 on each student for property destroyed, looted and stolen during the October 7 riot at the institution.

    Besides, the students are to swear to an affidavit to be of good behaviour and present a letter of indemnity from their parents and sponsors.

    These are among decisions of the school management at its meeting on Tuesday.

    The management ordered all students to resume on November 20.

    In a statement by the Registrar, Mrs. Sade Adediran, the school said payment of school fees and the N20,000 reparation fee are conditions for resumption. Students, the statement said, would start their examinations on November 27, except those on Students Industrial Work Experience (SIWES).

    Students of the polytechnic went on the rampage on October 7 during a protest against the death of Vincent Taiwo Oluwafemi, an HND II student of Estate Management.

    Vincent was said to have been discharged from Ekiti State University Teaching Hospital in Ado-Ekiti, against medical advice.

  • 16 in custody for malicious damage

    Two chiefs – Emmanuel Adeoye, 60 and Ezekiel Adetifa, 49 – as well as 14 youths of Iye-Ekiti community were arraigned yesterday at an Ado-Ekiti Chief Magistrates’ Court for alleged riot, malicious damage.

    Police prosecutor, Mr Samuel Osubu, told the court that the defendants committed the offence on October 16 at Iye-Ekiti.

    He listed the other defendants as: Akinwumi Odunayo, 46; Adeleye Damilare, 20; Ariyo Abiodun, 31 and others.

    Osubu said the defendants also conspired to kill Awolope Shola, Oluwafemi Olaoluwa and Alice Awolope.

    The prosecutor said the defendants promoted inter-communal war within Iye-Ekiti by breaching the peace.

    According to him, they committed the offences, punishable under Section 516 (A), 71, 390 (9) of the Criminal Code, Cap C 16, Laws of Ekiti State, 2012.

    Osubu said he duplicated the case file and sent it to the Director of Public Prosecution (DPP) for legal advice.

    The defendants pleaded not guilty to the charge, while their counsel, led by Mr Sunday Alonge, prayed the court to grant them bail.

    The lawyer promised that they will not jump bail.

    The prosecutor opposed the bail application, saying the defendants caused chaos in the community.

    Chief Magistrate Adegboye Adesoji reserved ruling till tomorrow, and ordered the accused remanded in prison custody.

  • ‘Excess salt can damage good health’

    ‘Excess salt can damage good health’

    Nigerians have been advised to watch their salt intake for the sake of their health.

    According to a naturopath, Dr Idowu Ogunkoya, while salt makes food tasty, it should be used moderately. “If one eats too much  salt, the extra water stored in the body raises one’s blood pressure”, he said, adding: “So, the more salt you eat, the higher your blood pressure. The higher your blood pressure, the greater the strain on your heart, arteries, kidneys and brain. This can lead to heart attack, stroke, dementia and kidney disease.”

    Dr Ogunkoya said eating of excess salt does not stop with adults as children also do through seasonings that accompany noodles. “Majority of salt is added to noodles through the seasoning supplied in sachets. So reduce the sodium content by using the minimum amount of seasoning, preferably half of the sachets. Instant noodle soup is often high in salt; limit its consumption to avoid excess intake of salt,” he said.

    So either way one must watch salt consumption because high sodium leads to damages in the body system, “Over time, the extra work and pressure can stiffen blood vessels, leading to high blood pressure, heart attack, and stroke. It can also lead to heart failure. There is also some evidence that too much salt can damage the heart, aorta, and kidneys without increasing blood pressure, and that it may be bad for bones, too.

    “Excess sodium increases blood pressure because it holds excess fluid in the body, and that creates an added burden on the heart. Too much sodium will increase your risk of stroke, heart failure, osteoporosis, stomach cancer and kidney disease,” he noted.

    According to Dr Ogunkoya, eating salt is not totally bad but its overindulgence, “Table or common salt also known as sodium chloride, is added to food to make it tastier. Salt provides your body with sodium, which is necessary for proper muscle function and regulating the amount of water in the body. The average daily sodium intake should be 1500 milligrammes, while the maximum intake is 2300 milligrammes. Consuming more sodium than the maximum daily recommended intake is harmful,” he warned.

    He said Cardio vascular disease (CVD) is the leading cause of death in the world and hypertension or high blood pressure is a condition that affects so many Nigerians. While this condition can be caused by other factors such as stress and eating diets rich in saturated fats, excessive intake of sodium increases the risk of developing it. “If you already suffer from high blood pressure, reducing your salt intake could also reduce your risk of heart disease and stroke. When you consume too much sodium and your blood pressure is too high, over time the extra pressure can make your vessels less elastic and more susceptible to buildup of fatty deposits called plaque. This can cause atherosclerosis, or hardening of the arteries. In atherosclerosis, vessels narrow and their walls thicken, making your heart work harder and eventually raising your risk of heart attack, heart failure and stroke,” he advised.

    The naturopath said every edible provided by nature has its natural salt, so one may not need to add salt at all, but if one must use, then it should be in moderation, and salt shaker should be done with.Lots of people have diabetes and don’t know it. But the disease often causes telltale changes in the retina that can be picked up by an ophthalmologist. In this eye, diabetes has caused tiny hemorrhages in the retina and yellowish deposits of blood fats (lipids). The condition is known as diabetic retinopathy.

  • Court slams N20m damage against police for assaulting lawyer

    In Owerri High Court has awarded N20 million as damage against the police for assaulting an Owerri lawyer, Chukwuemeka Amaghiro, last year.

    In his judgment, Justice K.A. Orjiako said the respondents were found guilty of gross violation of the applicant’s right.

    Amaghiro in 2016 filed a suit of violation of his right against the Police Service Commission, Nigeria Police, Commissioner of Police in Imo State and the OC D8 SARS Investigative Police Officer, Bassey Ikpa, for assaulting him.

    Orjiako held that evidence before him proved the lawyer’s right was violated.

    He said he awarded the damage considering the reputation of the person assaulted and the provision of the law on human right violation.

    Orjiako advised the police to respect human right while discharging their duties.

    Amaghiro and Emeka Iwuchukwu were allegedly assaulted by police officers when they visited their client, Keziah Nwoha, who was in police detention in 2016.

    Iwuchukwu was awarded N10 million as damage on December 6, 2016 in an Owerri High Court presided over by Justice E.F. Njemanze.

    Counsel to the applicant, Mr. Soronnadi Njoku, told NAN his clients approached the court due to how they were manhandled by police officers on the instigation of the OC SARS D10, Mr. Emenike.

    He said the two lawyers visited the police to find out why their client was arrested and detained, as her case was still pending in court.

    “When the lawyers got to the police, the Investigating Police Officer, Mr. Bassey Ikpa, became hostile.

    “The lawyers became helpless and approached his superior, who directed the officers to deal with them,” he said.

    He said he would enforce the two judgments simultaneously to ensure the damage awarded to the applicants was paid.

    The respondents and their lawyers were absent during the judgment.

  • On military sacrifice and collateral damage

    Dateline Abuja, June 25, 2014: There was no hint that the phone call I received from Suleiman Bisallah, my very close friend and professional colleague of many years standing, was the last time we would speak, until three hours later when another colleague broke the devastating news that the same Bisallah was one of the victims of the bomb-blast that took place at Emab Plaza in the heart of Abuja.

    Bisallah was the Managing Editor of the New Telegraph newspaper and had gone to Emab Plaza to pick his phone that he had earlier taken there for repairs. He told me on phone that he was rushing to the plaza and that he was going to meet me at home, as he often did, later in the evening. Barely 30 minutes after we spoke, Bisallah met his untimely death, in the most devastating of ways. His sad demise has been counted as a big achievement by Boko Haram.

    This was the death that transformed me from an editor that was just reporting insurgency, from the comfort of my office, with little understanding of its impact, to one who knows what the Boko Haram war and its devastating effect really means. It automatically changed the way I report the insurgency.

    Two years earlier, on a sponsored trip to Turkey, alongside nine title editors of the then leading newspapers in the country, the President of that country’s Journalists and Writers Foundation (the equivalent of the Nigerian Guild of Editors), had told us that even though the leading newspapers in that country belonged to the opposition, the editors have made themselves a firm promise to help the government by stopping  any prominent publication of the dastardly activities of the PKK terrorist group. That decision had gone a long way in alienating the terrorists, and they are only regrouping now that the Turkish government has unjustly seized the same newspapers that were helping it to win the war against terror.

    It was after the Emab Plaza bombing I realised that by helping our armed forces and prominently projecting their victories and denying the enemy the same luxury, we are in reality not helping just the government of the day, but basically ourselves. Terrorists in all parts of the globe thrive in publicity, and seeing their acts of destruction prominently in the press goes a long way to encourage them to do more. Sadly, the same Boko Haram insurgents that we were inadvertently helping did not spare us. They bombed the offices of THISDAY in Abuja and some other newspapers in Kaduna and killed scores of our colleagues. Boko Haram leaders threatened to wipe all journalists out of existence until they realise that will ultimately deny them the cheap publicity they were getting. More than ever before, I saw the need to help our soldiers whose call of duty demands that they leave behind members of their beloved families and stake their lives to ensure you and I live in peace.

    While we complain bitterly each time NEPA switches off electricity supply to our homes or offices, perhaps only because we were watching a television drama or some news, those soldiers are facing – and even expecting – death every minute or second, as they face the enemy in such dreaded places as the Sambisa Forest that we the perennial critics could not even imagine treading on, not with all the money in the world.

    Four types of individuals or groups are not likely to appreciate the deep sacrifice the Nigerian military is making in quelling the Boko Haram insurgency: they include those who have never lost anyone that is dear to them, to the insurgency, as well as those who have never witnessed first-hand, the scale of damage occasioned by insurgency. Others include those who only saw war on television and therefore don’t know what it means in real life, and those who benefit, in whatever way, from war. This probably informs why some of us mistakenly regard the military as our enemies that we must do everything to bring down, forgetting that without them, we will be forced by agents of darkness to abandon these homes and offices from which we comfortably operate. If in doubt, ask the IDPs.

    All over the world, the most senior war commanders largely only design how to win the war and command their troops to execute the plan. They hardly venture to the warfront. But apart from the unprecedented commitment of the Buhari administration in seeing to the end of the Boko Haram insurgency, one of the key reasons the war has been won is the quality of the people appointed by the government to lead the armed forces.

    For example, Lieutenant General Tukur Yusufu Buratai, the Chief of Army Staff whose troops do most of the dangerous work, has since made a habit of spending lots of time with soldiers in the trenches. The very day he was appointed to his current post in July 2015, Buratai moved out of Abuja to the war front in the North-east, a move that helped change the course of the war and marked the beginning of the end of Boko Haram terrorists group’s insurgency. The troops reasoned that if their Chief of Army Staff, who can choose to remain and operate from his air conditioned office, can leave it all, abandoning his family as they all did, and stake his life to be with them,  they have every reason to do more and win the war.

    In other words, the acts of unprecedented bravery and selflessness by Buratai helped reduce a complex theory into practical steps. Whereas the perennial critics were rushing to their towns and choice capitals of the world to spend their Sallah and Christmas breaks with their beloved families, he chose to spend it in the trenches with the troops, eating the same food and drinking the same water as them. Now every senior army officer has taken a cue from their Chief of Army Staff and are all on their toes in the bid to give their best to Nigeria.

    Those troops that have staked everything to rid Nigeria of a nagging insurgency which had claimed lives of tens of thousands of civilians will be the last persons to deliberately target the same people they have toiled so much to defend and protect. Perhaps the best way to understand the operational error that led to the Nigerian Air Force pilot mistaking an IDP camp for a Boko Haram congregation is a Hausa proverb which roughly translates to something like mistakes are often made in the frenzy of winning a difficult war.

    The Boko Haram terrorists are like the drowning man who will cling to anything to keep afloat. They go for soft-targets in desperation to appear to be in business, just as Al-Qaeda, Taliban and other international terrorist groups that have been defeated by the strongest military in the world still go for similar targets to appear to be relevant. Perhaps it is their way of attracting continuous funding from their sponsors.

    It says a lot about the expertise and professionalism of the Nigerian armed forces that until now, very little or no collateral damage was witnessed, fighting a group of people that have no clear identity; who are also members of the society that look no different from you and I. If the military was bereft of conscience, they could deny responsibility for the error that unfortunately cost tens of innocent people their dear lives. It is reassuring that we now have an armed forces which  believe that much as it strives for the best, it cannot be perfect, just as no human institution has ever been.

    And it comes as a huge additional relief that President Buhari has expressed deep regret with the terrible incident and consoled the families that lost the very people the government spares nothing to protect.

     

    • Gaya is the Vice President of the Nigerian Guild of Editors.
  • Two lawyers docked for alleged malicious damage

    Two lawyers, Bayo Adebowale, 34, and Austine Izuagie, 48, last Friday appeared in an Ebute Meta Chief Magistrates’ Court in Lagos for allegedly causing malicious damage and grievous harm.

    Each of them faces a four-count charge of behaving in a manner likely to cause breach of peace, malicious damage, conspiracy and grievous harm.

    The duo pleaded not guilty.

    Magistrate B.O. Ope-Agbe granted them N500, 000 bail with two sureties each in the like sum and adjourned the case to April 12.

    Prosecuting Sergeant Jimah Iseghede said the lawyers committed the offences on February 26 at Faith Mission Estate in Satellite Town, Lagos.

    He alleged that the men dispatched two armed men to Faith Mission Estate to demolish two buildings belonging to another lawyer, Dr Marian Adeleye.

    He said the offence contravene Sections 166(d), 243, 348 and 409 of the Criminal Law of Lagos State, 2011.

  • Insurers: Sandy’s damage hits $10b

    Some insurance companies say they were prepared for Hurricane Sandy, but the same may not be true for flood insurers who are feeling increased pressure as the storm caused more water damage than normally expected in such storms.

    Hurricane Sandy’s overall toll on the economy could be as high as $20 billion, according to estimates released before the storm, with traditional insurers on the hook for about $5 billion to $10 billion of damage. That would make the storm more devastating than last year’s Hurricane Irene in dollar terms, but not nearly as bad as Hurricane Katrina in 2005.

    The National Flood Insurance Program, however, which is administered by the federal government, may be facing some large bills. While most hurricanes produce heavy winds and rain, Sandy brought with it the highest water levels in New York Harbor since the 1960s, causing massive flooding on the city’s streets, subways and buildings. Depending on the extent of the damage, which has yet to be determined, that could be very expensive.

    “I would say the estimates I saw come out before the storm looked low to me,” said Ryan Ogaard, senior vice president of product management at Risk Management Solutions, a California-based company that specialises in catastrophic risk modeling used by insurers. “I don’t think anyone realized what was going to happen with the level of flooding. It really was a worst-case scenario in some places.”

    Insurers have yet to release their damage estimates, and it may take days or weeks to compile the information. But Risk Management and Eqecat, another firm that calculates the industry’s disaster exposure, expect it to be worse than Irene, which cost insurers about $4.5 billion in losses.

    Those figures would have little impact on overall health of the industry, which could potentially withstand damage up to $100 billion, which is twice the tab from Hurricane Katrina, according to Eqecat President Bill Keogh.

    “That’s certainly something the insurance industry can absorb,” Mr. Keogh said. “It would be really hard to do a lot of damage to the industry. It really isn’t getting to the point of stressing the capital structure of the industry.”

    Insurers prepared for the storm over the weekend, sending emergency crews to central locations that were expected to be hit the worst.

    Agents are setting up mobile units where policyholders can come to file claims for the next few weeks. Insurers also will send adjusters out to affected homes to assess the damage.

    Bob Hartwig, president and economist at the Insurance Information Institute, said insurance companies are deploying “armies of adjusters” to affected neighborhoods.

  • ‘Okada riders damage 42 govt  buses in Lagos protests’

    ‘Okada riders damage 42 govt buses in Lagos protests’

    IT was time yesterday for government agencies in Lagos to count their losses after Monday’s protest by commercial motorcyclists, popularly known as Okada riders.

    The protest also continued yesterday in some parts of the metropolis.

    The riders, in their hundreds marched on Alagbado and Alakuko, outskirts of Lagos, accusing the police of shooting one of their colleagues.

    The atmosphere was tense. The dead motorcyclist was identified as Alagede. He was allegedly shot by a policeman attached to the Alakuko Division.

    The incident occurred at Kollington bus-stop on the Abeokuta Expressway. The veracity of the claim could nt be confirmed at press time.

    The protesters threatened to burn down the Alakuko police station, if the officer was not produced.

    As of the time of this report, they have vandalised a LAGBus and a bonfire was made at Alagbado Bus stop, opposite AIT road.

    An eyewitness told The Nation that the LAGBus was stopped at Kollington Bus stop, Alagbado and passengers were forced to alight.

    The management of LAGBUS Assets Management Ltd. said 37 of its buses were damaged.

    The company is one of the operators of buses using the dedicated Bus Rapid Transit (BRT) lane in the metropolis.

    Another operator, the Lagos Metropilitan Area Transport (LAMATA) said five of its buses were vandalised.

    Managing Director of LAGBUS, Mr. Babatude Disu, told the News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) that despite the damage, no passenger was injured.

    Disu said the company was still taking stock.

    Mr Kolawole Ojelabi, the External Relations Specialist of LAMATA said: “Although commuters were stranded at our bus stations because ticketers were not on ground, we had to begin operation immediately normalcy returned in order not to increase people’s hardship.”

    Meanwhile, those who spoke with NAN condemned the action of the motorcyclists.

    Mr Oladele Banjo, a civil servant who resides at Sango and works at Ikoyi, said he had to trek from Ikoyi to CMS because the few buses on the road on Monday were held up in traffic.

    Another civil servant ,Mrs Ibukun Adegbesan, condemned the act, saying it was unlawful for certain people to hold the state to ransom for their selfish reason.

    “The law is operating and commercial motorcyclists have to abide by it, after all some states have enforced the law and yet heads did not roll. A banker, Mr Ralph Edet, said the vandalism was a foolish way of reacting because the buses were for the masses.

    “Nigerians should learn not to destroy government property as a way of showing their grievances because it causes a setback to the economy,” Edet said.

    NAN reports that due to the protest, most commuters were stranded while others had to take a long walk to get to their destinations.

    NAN also reports that the hardship continued on Tuesday morning as many passengers were stranded while other commercial bus operators hiked their fares.