Comedian Basketmouth‘s estranged wife, Elsie Okpocha, has advised women who blame themselves when their men cheat to desist from doing so, adding that it is not a woman’s fault if a man has infidelity issues.
She noted how a woman can be beautiful, sexy, the best cook, be intelligent, and yet their spouse would still cheat on them.
Reiterating that it isn’t the woman’s fault, she admonished them to stop starving themselves or holding themselves guilty for their spouse’s fault.
She said: “This is to women, you need to understand here that when a man cheats, 80% of the time, it has absolutely nothing to do with you. So don’t you ever beat yourself up again? You’ll be beautiful, and sexy, know how to cook his favourite dishes, and be intelligent and smart and he will still cheat. So it’s not you, it is never you. So don’t cry in a room, or starve yourself of being sad. Don’t blame yourself for something someone else decides to do.”