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  • Women get platform to share survival experiences

    Women get platform to share survival experiences

    A writer and  communications strategist, Ogochukwu Geraldine Eloike, has launched her book “Ichabod”.

    It is a narration of the feminine experience and it is being trivialised by society thus widening the gender gap.

    The book, published by Parresia Publishers Ltd, under the Origami imprint, provides practicable roles the society and individuals can play in entrenching equity and ameliorating gender wariness which has been on the rise in recent times.

    To launch the book, the author, Ogochukwu, kick-started hashtags campaign #Ichabod and #ImEnough to give women a voice and platform to share their life experiences in relation to manifestations of gender inequity and shortfalls.

    Through the hashtags, women and girls can share their experiences as girls and young adults living in patriarchal societies and how these experiences have shaped their life decisions thus far.

    The author said: “The term Ichabod has biblical connotation which means lost glory and it is used as the book title to allude to various ways we have gotten the training and raising of the girls wrong by paying much tribute to male children across various touchpoints.

    “We have a series of activities designed to celebrate girls and women, but, our socio-cultural foundation remains patriarchal.

    “For instance, in the Nigerian political environment, the Senate unanimously voted against a gender-balanced house in 2021 and the action clearly depicts the perception of women as unequal and undeserving of leadership positions even when existing and emerging data shows that women, in some contexts are better leaders.

    “Ichabod is a direct and honest analysis of current gender disparity situations, not just in Nigeria but across the globe using real-life data garnered online and offline to measure various drivers of abuses, dissatisfaction, and perceived/established differences amongst both genders.

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    “The insights allow for a direct call to action for women as emerging data depict a rapid increase in gender-based violence especially by spouses or close family members.

    “I hope that this book will trigger some sort of paradigm shift in various societies so that as people, we would pay more attention to the needs of each other instead of trying to subjugate and exert authority over one another.”

    The book identifies as a imperative the need for stakeholders, starting from families, to look beyond the status quo and become more involved in addressing foundational causes of misogyny, as unhappy mothers are most likely to raise unhappy children.

     Institutions like government parastatals and religious establishments are also required to put in place structures that would test and allow for equity and help in actively bridging the gap created by gender disparity.

    The book is available on Okadabooks, Amazon Kindle, Amazon paperback, and hard copies can also be ordered by readers from Parresia Publishers via the website or walk-in to 1st Floor Ibilola Nelson House, 82 Allen Ave, Ikeja.

  • Our electronic payment experiences, by customers

    The deployment of e-banking technology has not reduced the stress in banking, some customers have said.

    A hair dresser in Lagos, Lebi Hannah, told The Nation that excess bank charges remained a disincentive to customers and that they should be reduced by the lenders.

    She, however, praised banks on mobile banking,  which she said has made her not to step into the banking hall for several months.

    She listed some of the excess charges as Automated Teller Machine (ATM) card maintenance fee, stamp duty charges, and interest on loans.

    Another customer, who spoke anonymously, complained about Point of Sale (POS) services, saying that customers who pay through the machines are sometimes debited twice, and that this has continued to be a major challenge for retailers.

    “The major issue my cashiers encounter is debiting their accounts twice for goods bought and also waiting for three to four days before collecting money paid in by customers for the goods bought,’’ he said.

    Pointek Company Chief Executive Officer Damilare Michaels spoke on bank loans, insisting that lenders should be lenient in collecting collaterals for borrowed funds.

    He said his lender asked for his National Youth Service Corps (NYSC) certificate as one of the collaterals for the loan, adding that such demand is too high.

    On banking services, he said long queues were still prevalent in most banks, especially in the Ikotun axis of Lagos, making bank operation tedious and time-consuming.

    CEO of Smart Bridalz, a makeover company, Mrs. Adesuwa Atagamen, spoke on bank loan, saying that interest on loans remains very high,  making it difficult for many borrowers to repay loans.

    “Banks should reduce the amount of interest on their loans and they should limit the way they embarrass their customer for the money loaned to them,” she requested.

  • My near-death experiences —AIG Zone11 Oshodi-Glover

    My near-death experiences —AIG Zone11 Oshodi-Glover

    Mr Agboola Oshodi-Glover is the Assistant Inspector General of Police in charge of Zone 11, comprising Osun, Oyo and Ondo states. In this interview with GBENGA ADERANTI, he talks about his fears, career and family life. Excerpts:

    WHAT was your perception of the police before you joined them?

    I was seeing the police from far off then; I had nothing to do with them. I grew up around Yaba College of Technology; a peaceful environment. The only time I saw policemen then was when students were about to protest or riot. The highest rank we saw then was a sergeant.

    But when I joined the police, they said they were going to give us the ASP rank. That was a big one. Even if people had wanted to help me, they didn’t have access to the top to talk on my behalf. Joining the police was a way of life because it would give me job.

    Of all the careers available to you when you left the university, why did you opt for the police?

    I joined the police by accident. It was at the time we started having employment problems. I wanted to be a teacher. I went for an interview in Lagos State where I met a friend of mine who also came for the interview, and he told me that he had gone to collect the form for police and that I should go to the Police Service Commission. I collected the form and did the interview.

    I served in Niger State, and the principal there loved my work. I was one of those who won the president award. The president now was then the head of state. By the time someone came to my house and said they saw my name in the papers that NYSC wanted to give me an award, I checked the date and it was the same day we were going to do our final interview for the police. I said I had better gone to tell them at the NYSC if they could give me a note to the Police Service Commission. Of course, they gave me a note. They rejected the notes from many other applicants but accepted my own and one other person’s. I did my own interview and went for the award the following day.

    The late Tunde Idiagbon was the one that presented the award on behalf of President Buhari. Idiagbon was the Chief of Staff. Then, the quota for each state was five, but Lagos State got one more, and I was the sixth person, based on the award.

    How has the experience been since you joined the police?

    It was wonderful when I first started. The weight of the uniform was too much for me. As an ASP, when we finished our cadet training, we were posted to Auchi. I was given a house, a bit far from the office. People would be looking at me, until I later got used to the police work, and I admire it.

    When you told your parents that you were going to join police, what were their reactions?

    We are from Lagos. My parents were not too much averse to it. Although my mother died a long time ago, my father knew it was a federal job and he didn’t object to it. In fact, in the society, you are accorded respect if you are a police officer. It is good to be in the police or any of the forces because you have a spread. You can take care of businesses anywhere. If any of the family members is having a problem you can stand in for them. The most important aspect of being a police officer is that you have the ability to solve problems for members of your family as well as others.

    Policing is a good job and it cannot be in conflict with somebody’s faith because it is those things God wants to do for people that you are assigned to do as a police officer. But most of the time, people misconstrue it to oppress other people or trying to make a way, thinking that it is by force you can make people to give you things. You don’t need to force people to give you things, because if you are doing your work properly, you will flourish and people will appreciate you and come close to you because they believe that you are their friend. But most times, they don’t want to regard police as their friend. Once they see that you are not really looking out for fault by which you can take advantage of them, they will be readily available to assist you and to help the work.

    What has been your most difficult times as a police officer?

    There are many, beginning with that of Auchi. There was a time somebody committed double murder far in the bush. The Divisional crime Officer (DCO) said I should go and arrest the man. I had to use all sorts of tricks. I told him Oga wants to see you, this and that. I was able to take that person from deep inside the bush to the police station.

    Another one was when I was an Assistant Commissioner. I was posted as the Area Commander, Festac, Lagos. The first day I got there, I was just signing my handover notes and they said see rioters coming to the station! The day before, a policeman had shot somebody and the people were rioting. I had to go out and persuade them. I didn’t even know who to call, because I was just coming. I had to face the angry mob myself and tried to persuade them. I calmed them down and we were able to solve the problem.

    How has postings affected your family?

    I’ve been a bit lucky. I’ve not gone far from my base. It is not easy for a policeman, because most of the time, you would not see your family for a long time. And as a young man, you may be going around doing things without even thinking of the young wife at home who will be coping with all the problems of taking care of the family. So it didn’t affect me too much, because my wife was up to the task and she tried to take care of the children to go to school.

    There was a time we had to take them to Abuja but they lost a year, because by the time we put them there, bringing them back to Lagos, they were saying the standards at the other side were not the same. It affected their education a little, but not much, because my wife and I decided that she must stay in Lagos to take care of the children. But she would tell me how long I had stayed away and how she had managed, which a young man would take for granted, but those things are very important.

    Do you sometimes get scared that something bad might happen to you as a policeman?

    There is no policeman who does not sometimes get scared. If you go for an operation, there is no way you will not be scared. But you have to be brave. Sometimes, you have to face violent and hostile crowds, and you cannot run away because the duty demands that you do your best in the face of trouble. When I was in Anambra State, it was a terrible time. The arms and ammunition in the hands of criminals were more than those of the police and sometimes you were thinking that they might even come and abduct you from your room while you were sleeping. But you have to continue to fight and get the men to fight the criminals in the face of limited resources. So you cannot afford to run because that will make you a weakling, and you cannot afford to do that.

    Should I assume that it was the most difficult place you ever worked?

    Yes, I can say that.

    Then how did you manage to scale the hurdles?

    I was not the CP. But we had the best strategy to confront and curtail the situation there. The anti-robbery men there were very good. We had a contingent of Police Mobile Force (PMF) units that were given to us from other parts of the country, and we were able to deploy them to places where we could now subdue the rampaging kidnappers and robbers. And, of course, other security agencies also helped. The army were coming in, but the police were the ones bearing most of the brunt, and the governors were cooperating.

    There was a day some robbers were coming all the way from Nsukka. They had killed the Divisional Police Officer (DPO) and robbed the banks. Somebody called me that the robbers were coming through a particular place. We had to deploy an APC. We positioned it on that road and we were able to get the robbers. In fact, while they were trying to share their loot, the policemen were able to barge in on them, shot some of them and arrested some. There was one guy, if you saw him, he was about 6ft Talking about missions, why is it that our policemen do better outside the country?

    The thing is that in those places, you have the facilities. You have the tools, and in fact, when you are in the midst of people who are behaving well, you show yourself as a responsible human being too. Coming from the background where we have been working with our bare hands and you get to a place where you have facilities, you will definitely excel.

    Would you allow your children to join the police?

    Of course, I will. I want one of them to be a police officer because there seems to be danger everywhere. Somebody has to be able to stand for the family and be able to know the direction of things in the country, because you find that every institution wants to intimidate the other people in the society. There is the need for somebody within the family to help the family. I want my son to be a police officer.

    But now, to recruit our children is becoming a problem. A lot of people are interested in becoming police officers, and a lot of people who have oversight functions on police are even trying to take over the recruitment of policemen from the police. We also are now begging so that we can have our children to be recruited.

    If you have a fresh chance to choose a career, will it still be in the police?

    Why not? It is a place where you can do good to people. You are the nearest to the people in the society. Those who say police is your friend, they know what they are saying. The police is like the referee. He is like a man within a community and knows the problems of the community, and he is the one who can wake up in middle of the night and save those who are in danger.

    When I was in Kwara State, there was a lawyer who was critical of the police. He didn’t want to see anything good about police. But one day, he was coming home in the night, and he saw some people pursuing him. He had no option but to call the police. He called me and I had to call the patrol team. They went there and had to escort him home. After that, I didn’t hear any complaint from him again. But one will be happy when you know you’re doing something good to people.

    For example, when we were in Anambra State, there was the problem of if a man died, the brothers of the deceased could come and start packing the things in the house without having regard for the wife of the deceased who had been with him and children. We had to be there and said, ‘Look, we don’t know anything about your culture, but the law says this is the wife of the man, and his children are entitled to the property.’ We provided security for them and that one stopped.

    How was your growing up?

    It was a peaceful one. I grew up in Yaba College of Technology. I attended All Saints Anglican School, Yaba. I wanted to be somebody, get a good job, but I didn’t know what. Although I used to love General Yakubu Gowon, any time they were on parade, you would see the beautiful uniform and moustache. I loved to join the force then because the young men in the army were the ones making waves then in the politics of the nation.

    Could that be one of the reasons you opted for the police?

    I will consider it a joy that I was able to be in the uniform. Because when you are looking for jobs and there is nobody to help you, and you keep trying on your own. God just helped me in this case and I was able to scale through.

    Any regrets?

    No regrets

     

  • Brazil trip winners relive experiences

    WINNERS of the Coca-Cola consumer promotion grand prize – trip to Brazil – have continued to relish their experiences.

    For the 22 lucky Nigerians, their experiences were spectacular, starting from the search for three crown corks of any of the Coca-Cola brands in 50 or 35cl bottles to the day their plane landed in Brazil.

    Since their return, the glimpses of the beautiful cities of Rio-De-Janeiro and Brasilia, La Maison hotel where they stayed; the breakfast of ‘Queijo de coalho’ (a tasty, salty grilled cheese) and Pão d’água (a specialty bread that’s crunchy on the outside and soft on the inside), served warm and fresh, with guava paste and mozzarella cheese — a combination popularly known as ‘Romeo and Juliet’ are still fresh in their memories.

    Nuhu Dalyop, a young football enthusiast, was one of the winners. Upon arriving in Brazil, he sought companies of some of ‘Carioscas’, also known as ‘Rio Locals’.

    He said: “When we got to Copacabana, I felt I was at home; the locals were always happy to let us join in the games, just roll up your shorts, so long as you are confident enough. I had a lovely time.”

    On the significance of the ‘Maracana’ stadium to the world football, another winner Fakorede Saheed, described without mincing words, the atmosphere in the stadium as electrifying.

    Fakorede enthused: “I jumped and hugged a football legend Luis Figo, who was sitting beside me, that for me is an unforgettable moment.”

    The climax  for most of the winners was when they visited the monumental statue that welcomes the world to Brazil – ‘Christ the Redeemer’. Hoisted at the top of the 710 meter (2,330 feet)  Corcovado Peak, the statue, which was made of concrete and soapstone is considered the largest in the world. It  stands with arms outstretched, gazing serenely over the city.

    Egbejiogu Oyinye, one of the few women among the winners, described the statue as inspirational, forgiving and full of hope.

    The trip has given the winners exposure on several fronts: culture, people and appreciation for the greater things in life, an opportunity made possible by Coca-Cola Nigeria’s commitment to consumer satisfaction, delivering on the global message of the World Cup.

     

  • Glo dealers return from Brazil with amazing lifetime experiences

    Dealers of National Telecommunications Company, Globacom, who were sponsored to watch the finals of the 2014 World Cup in Brazil returned to Nigeria last weekend with splendid accounts of their trip to the Samba-loving country.

    Globacom said the  trip to Brazil was in appreciation of the massive support it has gotten from the dealers over the years.

    The dealers, who arrived in Brazil two days before the finals, took time off to visit tourist attractions in the city of Rio de Janerio and Sao Paulo. Some of the places visited are Sugar Loaf, Buzios Beach and Angrados Reis as well as Christ the Saviour site.

    After the World Cup finals, the Glo dealers also savoured the city of Rio further for another two days with visits to Museum of the Portuguses Language Luz in Sao Paulo, Jardin District Football Museum, Villa Lobos Park, Sao Paulo and Movies of Imax Jk Iguatemi Cinema.

    The dealers on the trip include the Managing Director, Easy and Quiet Limited, Mohammed Anthony, CEO of Upper Room Limited, Adegbenro Odukoya, Managing Director,  Idem Ultimate Limited, Hon. Unyime Idem Josiah, and Chidi Orjiakor of Correspondence Limited.

    Others are Suraju Bukoye of Easy GSM Global, CEO of Office Devices Limited, James Odili Odogwu and Samuel Adeniyi Owoeye of Hephzibah Communication and Internet Solutions.

    The trip was rounded off with a dinner at the prestigious Figueira Rubaiyat, Rua Haddock Lobo, Paulista, Sao Paulo.

    Commenting on the tour, The CEO of Easy and Quiet Limited, Mohammed Anthony said: “The trip was well planned; we had time to visit different parts of the cities of Rio de Janerio and Sao Paulo and also enjoyed the final match at Maracana, it was a royal treatment from Globacom.”

    The Managing Director of Hephzibah communication and Internet Solutions, Samuel Adeniyi Owoeye described the dealers’ visit to Brazil as unique, adding that it was a thoroughly enjoyed trip which gave the dealers the opportunity to watch not only the World Cup finals at the glamorous Maracana Stadium but also to tour the cities of Rio de Janerio and Sao Paulo which was very educating and refreshing.”

    In his remarks, the CEO of Office Devices, James Odili Odogwu, a football fan stated that it was all fun all the way as the dealers thoroughly enjoyed the final match between Argentina and Germany and the visit to many tourist attractions across the city of Rio de Janerio. He concluded: “It was a first class treatment from Glo and I thank the company for considering me for the trip.”

    The dealers have since returned to Nigeria.

    Globacom has over the years been rewarding its business associates and subscribers; the company in the last four years, has sponsored many of its dealers and business associates to watch Manchester United’s matches at the Old Trafford while some were sponsored to the  2011 UEFA Champions League Cup Final between Barcelona and Manchester United at the famous Wembley Stadium in London.