Bed of emotional roses? No, forget it! Perhaps, that is where dreamers want to be at all times. However, the crux of the matter is that love, like life obviously has its high and low points. There is indeed a season to love, seasons to cry and of course a season when you may just have to let go, if the other party redefines what love means to them.
Unfortunately, a lot of people prefer to dwell on the positives more. As soon as the emotional pendulum shifts in the other direction, then things begin to crumble and fall part. Naturally, every woman dream is to find her way into emotional paradise, a place where the man has been ‘captured’ crook whether physically or emotionally.
So the dream begins and the only desire here is to have him till death does ‘them’ apart. However this usually appears to be the most difficult part of the emotional bargain. Reason: “ Men can be really slippery when it comes to matters of the heart, just when they think they have found what they are looking for in a woman, another distraction comes and somehow they find it difficult to look in the other direction.
Insecurity, doubt , uncertainty fear and ultimately panic are things that goes on in the minds of women whose love are going through one form of distraction or the other.
It’s the feeling of suddenly not being sure where you stand with your man. You’re not sure what he’s thinking about and what’s bothering him. Soon, you may even begin to worry that you can’t count on him to “come back” and be completely there for you.
Add it all up, and it’s easy to see why, when your man pulls away, closes off, and stops communicating with you.
Sometimes, it may be the tonic required to turn the whole situation around and make your relationship come out even stronger, more secure, and more connected on the other side. One case that comes to mind at the moment is French President, Francois Hollande.
Ms Valerie Trierweiler was the one who occupied the uppermost part of Hollande’s heart until this discovery was made in the Closer magazine recently. This emotional bomb shattered her heart and she has since been hospitalized.
The damning photographs allegedly also showed the two-timing president going to comical lengths to keep his romantic liaisons with Miss Gayet a secret.
Mr. Hollande was pictured disguised beneath a helmet and a dark coat arriving on a three-wheeled moped driven by his bodyguard.
He spent the night there on several occasions. One morning, his publicly-funded bodyguard returned carrying breakfast croissants.
Mr. Hollande has threatened legal action against Closer for breaching his privacy but has not denied the affair.
On his part Hollande has been urged by his fellow country men and women to clarify the situation in his complicated love life. To be or not to be? That is the emotional question being asked here. Well, the President who interestingly is in hot demand here must bell the cat. He must be courageous enough to tell the world that the beautiful actress, Julie Gayet has stolen his heart.
For the man on the emotional cross, it is a private affair. The other argument however is that the private side of a public man or woman cannot be swept under the carpet. The pertinent thing here is that the President has an obligation to ‘clarify’ his relationship with his girlfriend of seven years because of his on-going love affair with the actress so that the public knows where he stands.
It is an emotional war between Ms Trierweiler, 48 and Julie Gayet, 41. At the end of the emotional imbroglio, the winner certainly takes it all.
Interestingly, Trierweiler became Mr. Hollande’s live-in girlfriend following his separation from fellow Socialist politician Segolene Royal, the mother of his four children. Mr. Hollande was said to have taken her as mistress while still living with Miss Royal.
The French magazine Closer which spilled the emotional beans carried comical pictures of him sneaking in to his Paris love nest wearing a helmet after arriving by scooter.
Hollande, 59, is said to have made a full confession to Valerie the night before full details were published in France’s Closer magazine.
The couple is not married but has been together for six years, making her the de facto first lady when the Socialist leader became President in 2012.
‘He denied nothing. Neither the escapades on the scooter with the security officer in the middle of the night, nor the frequency of these clandestine rendezvous, nor the date that this love affair began… several months ago.’
Hollande and his new found love met at a £2.5million Paris love nest, registered to writer and actor Michel Ferracci. Ferracci, once a close friend and business associate of assassinated Corsican mafia boss Richard Casanova, is a former lover of the French actress Emmanuelle Hauck, who now uses the flat with their children.
Miss Hauck is a friend of Miss Gayet, and there is a suggestion that is how she came to use the apartment to meet Mr. Hollande.
