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  • Body opposes Lesbianism, Gay, others

    Body opposes Lesbianism, Gay, others

    Scripture Union (SU), Nigeria has kicked against Lesbianism, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender and Queer (LQBTQ), together with the ideology that contradicts moral values, biblical standard, humanity, children, youth, families and the society at large.

    SU said LGBTQ is not only borne out of evil affection, but also an ideology that is against nature and to promote illicit gratification of self.

    Speaking at the 114th National Council Meeting of SU, National Chairman of Scripture Union Nigeria, Dr. Wilfred Onu, supported by the General Director, Cosmas Udoh, an engineer; said the position of SU on LQBTQ came after its national leadership considered several global and national issues confronting Christian beliefs and Bible standards.

    According to the duo, LGBTQ and its ideology are against original plan of God and it is a deliberate attempt to distort and change God’s design for mankind, which is considered to be an abomination.

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    SU leadership noted that despite infiltration, the union and members were poised to remain unwavering in their commitment towards upholding the teachings of the Bible.

    It urged the President Bola Ahmed Tinubu administration to uphold the position of the Bible as contained in Same Sex Prohibition Act, enacted on December 30, 2013, saying government should seek to strengthen the law with stricter measures that would discourage proponents of LGBTQ ideology.

    They said government and its agencies should collaborate more with sincere faith-based groups in passing the right message to children and young people in schools and communities, which would help in ensuring sane society.

    SU, however, called on religious bodies to stand firm in their beliefs, spread the truth of God’s words and use their influence to speak for and protect children, youth and families “from these harmful ideologies.”

  • Gay men have approached me many times- Skit maker Steve Chuks

    Gay men have approached me many times- Skit maker Steve Chuks

    Skit maker Akaelu Steven Ebuka aka Steve Chuks or Mama Gold has said many gay men have shown interest in him.

    Well-known for donning female attires and effects in his content, the skit maker indicated that might be the reason he has continued to get advances from gay men.

    He clarified on his s3xuality, stating, ‘I don’t want that kind of thing’.

    He also lamented how men who wear female clothes were generally being stereotyped, wondering why it wasn’t the case for females that adorned male outfits.

    He said: “One thing I don’t like is how people stereotype men who wear female clothes. What I’m doing now, it immediately feels like I’m a certain thing. Have I told you anything? Did I tell you that I was anything?

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    “I have also met people [gays] that were like, ‘You sure say this your bumbum I no go use am do anything?’ Yeah, guys. And I was like, ‘what’s happening here? Is it the ‘Madam Gold’ character deceiving you? But I’m not dressed as Madam Gold now. Leave me.’

    “I’m not joking. I’ve been approached so many times by gay men. I don’t want that kind of thing. I didn’t tell you anything. Don’t come to me and say anything like that.

    “Nigerian men are very derogatory. According to them, any man who wears women’s clothes is gay.

    “I think that’s one of the reasons Josh2funny probably changed his costumes after he got married.

    “Even before I got into the entertainment industry, people were always saying things about him because of the way he was dressing then. And I was like, I don’t see nothing. I just see someone acting.

    “Why don’t they say things about girls that are wearing men’s clothes? Nobody ever tells them things like that. Why is it even a thing? Why can’t you just enjoy the comedy and the clothing?”

  • Arrested gay suspects didn’t kill, steal or harm anyone – Georgina Onuoha

    Arrested gay suspects didn’t kill, steal or harm anyone – Georgina Onuoha

    Actress Georgina Onuoha has called for the release of the over 100 gay suspects arrested by the Delta Police command.

    The Police Command on Tuesday confirmed a crack team of its operatives attached to the Ekpan division on Sunday nabbed the suspects during a gay wedding which they tagged, “all white party” at a popular hotel off Refinery Road, Uvwie Local Government Area (LGA) of the state.

    Sharing her thoughts on the matter, the US-based movie star implored the police to release the suspected gay men because they have neither committed murder nor stole or even harmed anyone.

    Onuoha argued people would continue to castigate the s3xual orientation of others for as long as they lack the exhaustive knowledge on the topic.

    The actress-turned-medical practitioner also swerved briefly into religion, knocking many for their skewed ‘faith practice’ in the guise of Christianity.

    Read Also: BREAKING: Police arrest over 100 gay suspects in Delta

    She then went on to state that her opinion wasn’t an endorsement of suspects’ lifestyle but more about humanity, stressing they be set free.

    She wrote; “Leave these people alone. They did not kill, steal or harm anyone. They are not the cause of Nigeria’s demise and predicaments. Let them live their lives. 

    “You that are busy committing fraud, sleeping around with married men and women, lying etc You are no better than these folks living their lives. 

    “Until many of you work in the medical field and understand the mechanisms behind s3xual orientation, you will continue to live by the preachings of hate many con artist who call themselves pastors have poured into you as preachings.

    “I laugh at the stupidity of some Nigerians who still believe that sin has categories and being “gay” is the worst of.. You are only deceiving yourself. In the eyes of God, sin is sin and many of you indulge in worst sins. 

    “I have a poignant question for you Nigerians, Do you think God will give you trophy if you harm or kill any of these people he created in his image and likeness? You will be hailed for committing murder? And you think God will welcome you with his open arms? 

    “What most of you practice is not Christianity, you are practicing hate and bigotry. If for any reason you think this is a “western culture” being brought to Nigeria, then you are the most ignorant of them all. 

    “Hold your politicians and pastors accountable for the anger and poverty you are facing and leave these people alone to live In Peace. This is not an endorsement of how they live their lives, rather this is about their humanity. Let them be.”

  • BREAKING: Police arrest over 100 gay suspects in Delta

    BREAKING: Police arrest over 100 gay suspects in Delta

    The Delta Police Command has announced the arrest of over 100 gay suspects in the State.

    The suspects were allegedly carrying out a gay wedding ceremony in a hotel in Delta state.

    The Command in a post on its official X (formerly Twitter) handle on Tuesday, said it would parade the suspects shortly.

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    It stated: “Delta State Command has arrested over a hundred gay suspects in a hotel carrying out a gay wedding ceremony. We will be going live shortly on Facebook to parade the said suspects.”

    Former President Goodluck Jonathan approved the bill against gay relationships and same-sex marriage in 2014.

    Anyone found guilty of this law can face a prison sentence of up to 14 years.

    Details shortly…

  • World AIDS Day: Let’s fight the scourge

    World AIDS Day: Let’s fight the scourge

    By Moses Emorinken

    World AIDS Day is observed every 1st of December. It is a day dedicated to spreading awareness about the dreadful Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome ( AIDS ).

    The theme of this year’s World AIDS Day is “Right to health”. The World Health Organization highlights the need for all 36.7 million people living with HIV and those who are vulnerable and affected by the epidemic, to reach the goal of universal health coverage.

    Today, we join the World Health Organisation ( WHO ), United Nations ( UN ) and other global organisations to campaign for global public health.

    We also remember those who have lost their lives to the disease and commiserate with those that have lost friends, colleagues and family members.

    The battle against this disease is not a one-man fight but a collective battle to reduce its effect to the barest minimum.

    Whether we like it or not, we all share a common destiny, and as such must contribute our quota to securing and creating a safe and healthy society that we can all be proud of.

    Recent statistics from The Joint United Nations Programme on HIV/AIDS ( UNAIDS ) reveal that in 2016, Nigeria had 220,000 new HIV infections and 160 000 AIDS-related deaths.

    There were 3,200,000 people living with HIV in 2016, among whom 30% were accessing antiretroviral therapy.

    Among pregnant women living with HIV, 32% were accessing treatment or prophylaxis to prevent transmission of HIV to their children.

    An estimated 37,000 children were newly infected with HIV due to mother-to-child transmission. Among people living with HIV, approximately 24% had suppressed viral loads.

    Also, globally, UNAIDS statistics revealed that:

    In 2016 (June 2017) an estimated:

    1. 20.9 million [18.4 million–21.7 million] people were accessing antiretroviral therapy

    2. 36.7 million [30.8 million–42.9 million] people globally were living with HIV

    3. 1.8 million [1.6 million–2.1 million] people became newly infected with HIV

    4. 1.0 million [830 000–1.2 million] people died from AIDS-related illnesses

    Major Populations most affected by HIV in Nigeria are:

    1. Sex workers, with an HIV prevalence of 14.4%.
    2. Gay men and other men who have sex with men, with an HIV prevalence of 23%.
    3. People who inject drugs, with an HIV prevalence of 3.4%.

    Nigeria’s HIV epidemic affects all population groups and geographic areas of the country. It is the second largest epidemic globally.

    We need to begin to take decisive actions as individuals, organisations and government to tackle this pervasive disease threatening our collective survival. The extent to which we can extinguish this scourge depends heavily on each of us.

    Although Since 2010, new HIV infections have decreased by 21% and AIDS-related deaths have decreased by 6%; there is still need for further research to improve the current available treatment plans.

    Difference between HIV and AIDS:

    HIV stands for Human Immunodeficiency Virus. This virus leads to infection and weakens the immune system.

    It is pertinent to know that HIV can be transmitted from one person to another. On the flip, AIDS is a condition that is acquired only after a person has contracted the HIV infection, and it is the final stage of the HIV infection.

    Mediums of HIV transmission:

    1. Unprotected sex (anal or vaginal).
    2. Sharing contaminated sharp objects like needles, syringes etc. Also, the use of unsterilized clippers for barbing and shaving hairs can be a source of contracting the virus.
    3. Receiving unsafe injections, blood transfusions, tissue transplantation etc.

    Treatment of HIV:

    HIV can be suppressed by the administration of antiretroviral (ARV) drugs.

    It cannot be cured at the moment, but its effect can be weakened, thereby strengthening the individual’s ability to resist infections.

  • Jibes, as police arrest Bobrisky over gay claim

    Jibes, as police arrest Bobrisky over gay claim

    Nigerian Twitter yesterday erupted following news of the arrest of social media sensation, Idris Okuneye.

    Although several reasons have been given for his arrest, most seem to go with the fact that it has to do with his coming out as gay.

    In a post earlier in the week, he stated; “All this house boys and girls coming to drop comment on page are you all stupid? Do you think your hate comments can change me? Why are you trying so hard to get my attention?… If all your insult bothered me, I should have stopped posting here. Yes am gay, I will go to hell fire. Thanks. Please what else? Am tired of that same words. I wanna hear something new.”

    Another report has it that the bleaching cream merchant was arrested at the instance of Toyin Lawani on the grounds of slander.

    Reacting to the arrest, most Twitter users seem to think he has gone back to being a guy, suggesting that his gender is in contention.

    For instance, a Twitter user, @deetwogod chirped; “But why will they arrest BOBRISKY?? What offence did he …sorry what offence did she….  Oya sorry what offence did it commit?

    Another user, @ezxmuoh is of the opinion that Bobrisky admitting to being gay openly in a country where it is a crime makes him nothing but foolhardy.

    For @harbjar, it all boils down to one question. “Will Bobrisky be jailed in the male section or female section of the prison???”

    Meanwhile, Bobrisky has spoken out for the first time since he was arrested on Tuesday. Speaking to the popular Linda Ikeji Blog, he stated that Toyin Lawani was the one who called for his arrest, accusing him of stealing his customers.

    “Toyin Lawani asked her lawyer to write petitions against me that I worked for her and I’m selling cream to all her customers. Which was a fat lie. I never worked for Toyin. She was my friend. I can’t remember ever working for Toyin or learning how to make cream from her. Then she also said I threatened her. So we are going to Abuja cos that was where the case was reported,” he was quoted as saying.

    However, Lawani’s camp has washed its hands off the arrest. Speaking through her Personal Assistant, the entrepreneur denied having anything to do with his arrest.

    Bobrisky, who is famous for being a cross-dresser, was arrested on Tuesday by the Lagos state police.

  • Pope Fancis and the gay question

    Pope Fancis and the gay question

    He is a man of God after my heart even though I am no adherent of the Roman Catholic Faith. Pope Francis’ unassuming simplicity, quiet dignity and unobtrusive asceticism make him such a Christ-like figure. On his stepping into the shoes of the fisherman, St Peter, regarded by Catholics as the first pope, he chose to be named after St Francis of Assisi. That decision sent a signal that this would be a Pope committed to the welfare and wellbeing of the teeming wretched of this earth. For, St Francis of Assisi dedicated his life identifying with the poor and underprivileged of this world while himself shunning any form of worldly comfort.  Some christened the new head of the Roman Catholic Church as the ‘Pope of hope’.

    Pope Francis has not disappointed. He has at every opportunity spoken against global poverty, the current perverse inequality in our world and the adverse consequences of a neoliberal capitalism that ceaselessly pursue economic growth and ever increasing profit even at the detriment of the environment that sustains us all. Pope Francis shuns protocol and considerations of security to reach out to children and the poor and disadvantaged in his extensive travels across the globe. Here is a pope who even bends down to wash the dirty feet of poor children, following in the steps of Jesus Christ.

    But then, Pope Francis is also at home with the high and mighty. His speeches elicit standing ovations and prolonged applause whether at the United Nations or at the United States Congress or in Cuba. And here is my problem with the Pope’s style. He rightly reaches out to the poor but also wants to be in the books of the high and mighty. The Pope heads over 2 billion Catholics worldwide. He is the Vicar of Christ on earth.  But if Jesus or the fiery John the Baptist or St Paul, were to address the United Nations or US Congress today, would they be given standing ovations? I wager not. For, they would have spoken blistering truth to power to the utter discomfiture of their audiences. Can it then be that the Pope is so widely venerated   because he says what the people want to hear? Has the church subordinated itself to the values of a world that, like the ill-fated Titanic, is heading seemingly inevitably towards a destructive rock at sea? As perhaps the most powerful and influential religious leaders on earth, should the Pope not be a light on the hill seeking to give direction to a world clearly shrouded in socio-political, economic, moral and spiritual darkness?

    These thoughts came to my mind when I read of the Pope’s recent admonition to Roman Catholics to apologize to gays whom they had maltreated in one way or the other. Incidentally the Pope also asked the Catholic Church to apologize to the poor, women and even children who had been exploited or discriminated against in any way by the church. Speaking on his way back to the Vatican from Armenia, the Pope said “I will repeat what the catechism of the (Roman Catholic) says, that they (homosexuals) should not be discriminated against, and they should be respected, accompanied pastorally”. In 2013, the Pope reportedly reiterated the church’s position that homosexual acts were simple but homosexual orientation was not. But can there be homosexual orientation without ultimately homosexual acts? “If a person is gay and seeks God and has good will, who am I to judge?” the Pope had said.

    Of course, in some ways the Pope is right. It is not the function of any human being to stand in judgement against another. Judgement is ultimately the responsibility of God. And as the Pontiff rightly said again, the church has a responsibility to show love and compassion for all including gays. However, I worry about the moral relativity that informs the Pope’s position. If a religious leader of his stature and influence sits on the fence in this matter, is he not indirectly giving the impression especially to impressionable youth that there is nothing wrong with homosexuality?

    True, in a democracy, nobody should be debarred from expressing their sexual preferences. An individual’s sexual preference is a private matter and not one for public regulation. But while politicians who seek to win elections and thus identify boldly with the increasingly numerous and politically significant people of same sex orientation, the Pope has no such burden. He should be able to declare and consistently affirm the biblical position on homosexuality. This does not mean discriminating against same sex relationships in any way. That does not lie within the province of the church. Despite, their deep differences, for instance, the Republican and Democratic presumptive nominees for the US presidential election, Hillary Clinton and Donald Trump, as well as incumbent President Barack Obama, ceaselessly express their support for people with same sex orientation. They can afford to do that. For them, it is about political success and democracy. For the Pope, it is a moral issue on which he ought to take a firm and uncompromising stance. There must be a yardstick for deciding what is wrong and right in any society. Where the dividing line between right and wrong is erased, the society can only continue to spiral from one depth of moral degeneracy to even more devastating ones.

    Let me quickly say that I am opposed to the very hypocritical stance of public authorities in many parts of Africa, particularly Nigeria on the issue of homosexuality and same sex marriage. In Nigeria for example, an exceptionally idle National Assembly passed a law criminalizing same –sex marriage in 2009. This is, of course, sheer hypocrisy if not lunacy. Why doesn’t the Nigerian parliament, for instance, also pass a law criminalizing adultery, which in the biblical scriptures is treated as being no less sinful than homosexuality? So is it right for overpaid but under-performing public officers, who seduce and go out with young women including students to rail against homosexuality while ignoring the huge log in their own eyes? As the Anglican Bishop of Remo, Rt. Rev. Michael Fape poignantly put it: “Pope as a Roman Catholic has a right to his opinion. He is not saying the minds of those who are orthodox Christians…Whatever is good (as punishment) for an adulterer, for a robber, a sorcerer, or a murderer is good for a homosexual. They are all on the same level”.

    Criminalizing same-sex marriage only drives the practice underground rather than eradicate it. Containing same- sex marriage just like adultery among married couples goes beyond the scope of legislative or state action. This task must be left to spiritual bodies or Non-Governmental Organizations so inclined to work in that direction. But how can those who need counseling and help in terms of their sexual orientation be helped when an utterly meaningless law drives them underground? In any case, have we taken enough time to study and understand the issue of same-sex relationships from its psychological, sociological, scientific and medical dimensions?

    I remember being at a church service here in Lagos shortly after the 2009 anti-same-sex bill of the National Assembly was passed. The Senator who spearheaded the bill was in the church with his wife and children. The pastor spoke eloquently and at length about the man who had fought so hard against homosexuality and took a firm stand for God or words to that effect. He eventually urged the congregation to stretch forth their hands towards the distinguished Senator mightily being used by God in the National Assembly. Of course, I did not join in any such thing. As far as I know, legislators who receive humongous quarterly allowances and other outrageous perks in a country as poor as ours are no better than the homosexuals they seek to hound out of existence.

    All the same I insist that the pope should, like Peter, whose fisherman shoes he adorns or Jesus, of whose Vicar he is on earth, must stand for something. This is particularly so in the moral and spiritual darkness of our contemporary world.

  • Police disperse gay rally in Istanbul

    Police disperse gay rally in Istanbul

    Turkish police on Monday fired tear gas and rubber bullets to disperse gay activists in Istanbul.

    hundreds of people gathered in the busy Istiklal Avenue near the iconic Taksim Square to stage the annual LGBTI (lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and intersex) pride march, despite a ban announced by the Turkish authorities a week before.

    At least 12 people including two foreigners were detained, the Hurriyet daily reported, while the police chased others in the small lanes and streets of Istiklal Avenue.

    Volker Beck, a politician from the German Green Party, and Terry Reintke, a member of the European Parliament, were later freed, the daily said.

    The riot police also used tear gas and rubber bullets to disperse a transgender pride march on June 19.

    The Islamist and ultra-nationalist groups had threatened the LGBTI groups for holding rallies during the Ramadan, the holly month for Muslims.

  • Thoughts on our growing population of gay men

    I was jolted from my mental slumber on Monday by a message Kenny Brandmuse posted on his Instagram page. The brand expert had fled Nigeria for the US last year after publicly admitting his status as an HIV-positive homosexual. His action came as a rude shock to his friends and colleagues at Orange Academy, a Lagos-based school that trains brand managers.

    Lamenting how much he had missed home after fleeing the country for fear of molestation, he wrote: “I’ve been very homesick lately. My desire to kneel beside my mom’s grave and lay her some wreath of beautiful flowers; to see my twin sister and pinch her fat cheeks while she criticises everything I would easily think is good enough. I miss being at Orange (Academy), assisting brilliant minds in bringing their ideas to life, advising tons of amazing people about their personal branding and stories.” Brandmuse also lamented how deeply he missed booli (roast plantain), his favourite delicacy, fortified with organically grown peanuts. He also said he missed his nephew, who made it a duty to get him the delicacy, and other friends and acquaintances.

    Since Nigeria passed the Same-Sex Marriage Prohibition Act into law on January 7, 2014, prohibiting homosexuals from meeting in groups of two or more, banning marriage or civil union between people of the same sex and criminalising gay clubs and events, it would seem that more and more Nigerians are openly confessing their gay status. Apart from Brandmuse, other Nigerians who have confessed to being gay include Bisi Alimi. He was, indeed, the first Nigerian to declare his sexuality on the Nigerian Television Authority (NTA) as a guest of the station’s talk show queen, Funmi Iyanda, in 2004.

    Rev. Jide Macaulay, the founder of House of Rainbow Fellowship, a secret gay church based in Lagos, is reputed as Nigeria’s first gay preacher. He was said to have relocated to the UK after a national newspaper did a story on his homosexual church and he began to receive threats to his life. John Amaechi, who has a Nigerian father and English mother, is reputed as the first Nigerian Basketball Association (NBA) player to speak openly about being gay.

    Other Nigerians who have openly admitted their gay status include Dr. Otibho Obianwu who spoke for the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transsexual Nigerians in Diaspora at a rally in Abuja when the bill prohibiting same-sex marriage was passed by the National Assembly; John Adeniyi who opined that passing the anti-gay bill would only encourage heterosexual marriage as well as prevent homosexuals from getting quality medical care; John Adewoye who is on self exile and Chika Nwafor who got married to his German gay lover and has been living with him in Germany.

    Upon his visit to the US as president-elect last year, many Nigerians were worried that President Muhammadu Buhari could bow to the pressure that had been mounted on Nigeria, particularly from the UK, to subscribe to a practice that constitutes a veritable threat to procreation and expose more people to sexually transmitted diseases. But the President minced no words in rejecting the practice he preferred to call sodomy; a subtle reminder on the biblical Sodom and Gomorrah, the corrupt cities upon which God rained fire and brimstones for practising homosexuality.

    But victory over homosexuality and same-sex marriage appears not yet in sight as European and American nations are taking turns to pass legislations that seek to legalise the practice. Only recently, hundreds of same-sex couples in Chile headed to registry offices to celebrate civil unions, which became legal for the first time in the country.

    Although the Catholic Church is a powerful influence in the region, Latin America has been relatively quick to embrace the recognition of same-sex unions. Like the US and the UK, same-sex marriage has been legalised in Argentina, Brazil, Uruguay and some parts of Mexico. Technology has turned the world into a global village and the penchant of our youths for seeking greener pastures in societies that have already adopted the practice is on the increase.

    Like it happened with HIV/AIDS in the 1980s, Nigerians who travel abroad could fall prey to the idea and return home to sell it to their peers. There are fears already that the practice is already gaining ground not only on university campuses but also in the dormitories of secondary schools. The threat, therefore, could be as serious within as it is without.

    Contrary to what the US, the UK and other gay-compliant countries would want the world to believe, the few gay practitioners among us are the ones exposing the lives of the majority to danger. They constitute a threat not only to procreation but also to our collective health as a nation.

    I fear that in the near future, Nigerian parents may start suspecting that their children are flirting with their friends even when they are of same sex. The day may soon arrive when your male son would come home with his friend and you start peeping through the window just to be sure that they are not sex pals. Did you just say God forbid?

  • Non-issue of the gay rights issue

    Recently, the US Supreme Court ruled that same-sex marriage is a legal right across the whole of the United States. With that ruling, 14 states with bans on same-sex marriage would no longer be able to enforce them bringing an end to more than a decade of bitter legal battle on the matter.

    While that US Supreme Court ruling was America’s interpretation of ensuring that human rights is available to every American, African counties invariably do not have the same interpretation of those rights. For sometime, Western countries with America at the fore have continued to pressure African countries to recognise and legalise gay rights.

    As part of its foreign policy agenda of the highest priority, America had adopted protection of the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender community. On his recent trip to America, it was reported that the subject of gay rights and the reversal of the anti-gay law in Nigeria was touched on in a veiled manner to President Buhari.

    Last year, the signing of the Same-sex Prohibition Act by the last administration on January 7 2014, elicited negative reactions from Western countries such as the US, member countries of the European Union and Canada. They have consistently mounted pressure on the federal government over the signing of the Same-Sex Prohibition Act 2014, claiming that the law is a violation of the fundamental human rights of Nigerians with same-sex orientation.

    Notably, that law that was signed last year does not only criminalise same-sex marriage, it also makes public displays of affection and even socialising in the lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and inter-sex community illegal. At the time that the law was passed, the US Ambassador to Nigeria, Mr James Entwistle threatened that his country would scale down its support for HIV/AIDS and anti-malaria programs in response to government’s position on the gay rights issue. Thereafter, it was reported in the Vanguard newspaper that the US had committed “substantial” resources to fund the emergence of gay clubs and advocacy groups in Nigeria. As part of the fallout then, the Canadian government cancelled a scheduled state visit by the then President Jonathan. The Canadian government’s action was believed to have been that country’s reaction to the president’s assent of the bill, which had enjoyed popular support in Nigeria.

    On the US President, Barack Obama’s, recent trip to Africa, the subject of legalising gay marriage came up. President Obama was very categorical in his condemnation of discriminatory practices against gay and lesbian people and urged African leaders to treat the issue of homosexuality as a universal human right, comparable to the fight against racism or sexism. However, in return, all the African leaders he conversed with emphatically told President Obama that the issue of legalising gay rights in Africa is ‘out of the question’ and a ‘non-issue.’ They made it clear to him that, there are certain subjects and values which Africa does not share with America, legalising homosexuality being one of them, and as such, it would be impossible to impose on people principles, which they do not recognise or accept.

    This is not the first time America and the West have tried to pressure Africa into accepting homosexual unions. Since 2011, certain Western countries have been considering and implementing laws that limit or prohibit general budget support to countries that restrict the rights of homosexuals. Regardless of this, many African countries have continued to refute pressure to legalise homosexual practices. Many African leaders feel that gay rights are against Africa’s culture and religious value systems and believe that they have the sovereign right to reject what is seen as an imposition by Western nations that attempt to affect national sentiments via aid. While some of us may disagree with the laws that impose the death penalty on those who come out as homosexuals, the reality is that same sex acts are illegal in about 38 African countries and actual enforcement varies widely and punishment ranges from prison sentences to the draconian sentence of the death penalty.

    In Mauritania, Sudan and Nigeria, homosexuality is a serious punishable crime. In Uganda, Tanzania and Sierra Leone, offenders can receive life imprisonment for homosexual acts. South Africa’s constitution is the most liberal towards gays and lesbians within the continent, with a constitution that guarantees gay and lesbian rights and legal same-sex marriage. However, even there, gay rights have been described as an “exclusive privilege of the whites and well-heeled, a small but high-profile subset.”

    The raucousness from Western nations that has been accompanying the banning of same sex unions in some parts of Africa, Eastern Europe and Asia has risen to a crescendo. And in their bid to ram the freedom of same sex unions down the throat of more traditional and conservative nations, the West has discarded high-minded rhetoric for bullying tactics dressed in the guise of human rights mantras. The result? Hypocrisy has taken centre stage as the preferred response of the West in its bid to redefine the limits of marriage, privacy and religious freedom in some African, Eastern European and Asian countries.

    The sheer hypocrisy of the West regarding their stance on the banning of same-sex unions is most apparent when considered next to the position taken on polygamy under western laws. In most western nations, the practice of polygamy is not only frowned upon but has been criminalised. The Western countries pass laws that limit the boundaries of marriage, privacy and religious freedom in line with their value system while they employ strategies and tactics to intimidate, harass, undermine, threaten and abuse other countries for doing the same.

    In the case of Reynolds vs. United States, the American courts declined accepting polygamy as a legitimate religious practice, dismissing it as “almost exclusively a feature of the life of Asiatic and African people.” American courts have declared polygamy to be “a blot on our civilisation” and compared it to human sacrifice and “a return to barbarism.”

    Not only is the practice of polygamy one of the common threads between Christians, Jews and Muslims, studies have found polygamy present in 78 per cent of the world’s cultures. In the same way that countries that accept polygamy have no right to force western nations to legalise polygamy, western nations have no right to impose same sex unions on the countries that ban it.

    As a sovereign nation, Nigeria and other African nations have a right to ban same-sex unions in the same way the West has banned polygamy.

    The previous leadership in Nigeria has taken a position on a practice that is alien to its culture and its religious and traditional institutions and the current leadership is likely to uphold the same. The public relations officer of the northern Christian Association of Nigeria (CAN) had in the past stated that Christians and their counterparts in other religions had unanimously expressed gratitude to the last administration and National Assembly for passing the Anti Same-Sex Marriage law, despite opposition from Europe and the US. Similarly, the Muslim Students Society of Nigeria (MSSN), Lagos State, had also commended the administration for signing the bill into law. The group applauded the Nigerian leadership for standing its ground, despite pressure to reject the anti-gay bill by some international organisations and foreign countries.

    In the scriptures, marriage is a sacred contract between a man and a woman that cannot be redefined and it is the cornerstone of family life. In the Bible, passages in the book of Leviticus prohibit homosexuality. Chapter 18:22 states, “Thou shalt not lie with mankind, as with womankind: it is abomination.” Similarly, chapter 20:13 also states, “If a man also lie with mankind, as he lieth with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination: they shall surely be put to death; their blood shall be upon them.” Jews and Christians have historically interpreted these two verses as the clear prohibition of homosexual acts. Furthermore, the story of Sodom and Gomorrah has historically been interpreted as condemning homosexual acts.

    In Islam, the traditional schools of Islamic law based on Qur’anic verses and hadith consider homosexual acts a punishable crime and a sin. The Qur’an cites the story of the “people of Lot” (also known as the people of Sodom and Gomorrah), destroyed by the wrath of God, because they engaged in “lustful” carnal acts between men. The Qur’an contains seven references to the people of Lot; 7:80-84, 11:77-83, 21:74, 22:43, 26:165-175, 27:56-59 and 29:27-33, and their destruction by Allah is associated explicitly with their sexual practices.

    In 2012, the Nigerian parliament approved a bill banning same-sex marriage despite threats from the US and UK that they would consider withholding aid if the country didn’t recognise gay rights. Curiously though in the US, 17 states out of 50 (less than half) have endorsed same-sex practices and others reject its legality. This means that even in the US, not all its citizens are in support of same-sex practices.

    It increasingly seems that the Western countries’ mandate is to coerce African states to institutionalise behavior systems that they frown upon or deem illegal. There is the urgent need for these African states and the Nigerian leadership not to be dependent on foreign assistance for governance. If foreign aid coming from the West to Nigeria of other African Countries is contingent upon obliterating the core values of Africa, then Afrian nations have no choice but to liberate themselves and get their act together.

    Nigeria and the African Continent should use its net worth to dismantle the entrenched dependence syndrome and to also say ‘No,’ no matter how many times they are accused of not adhering to the value system of the West. Aid given with strings attached is not worth it, especially if those strings are repugnant to one’s values and belief system.

    Just like with the case of polygamists in Western countries, a day of social acceptance is unlikely to come for homosexuals in Nigeria and most African and Asian countries.

    May each country be free to preserve the value systems they wish to be defined by and adopt the laws of which they wish to be governed.