Tag: Give

  • For those who give

    For those who give

    Once in a while, I get requests from people with one form of physical disability or the other in need of financial assistance. There are those who need urgent medical care which they cannot afford to pay for or others who are physically fit but are incapable of meeting their crucial financial obligations.

    Those who ask for assistance usually believe that if their cases are published in the newspapers, they can get the required financial support they need. This is true to a large extent based on a number of cases I have taken time to either write about in my column or ensure their publication in The Nation.

    I must, however, confess that sometimes I only publish to satisfy the person seeking help, not because I am sure he or she will get the required support.  Some of the financial support required is sometimes so much that it seems impossible that anyone will take the appeal seriously and offer to help.

    I remember some years ago when  a woman carrying a baby met me at the peak of the production of the Sunday paper I used to edit to seek for my help to publish about her baby who needed a huge amount for medical treatment in India.

    I could barely finish listening to her ‘incredible request’ considering the production task ahead of me. I immediately referred her to one of my staff to speak to her for whatever the story was worth. We eventually published the story without paying much attention to it.

    About a year later, the woman showed up to inform me that she got financial assistance based on the story from a local government chairman and she has travelled and returned from India after a successful operation on her baby!

    A very brilliant young lady whose parents could not afford to pay her fees for Higher National Diploma told me about her predicament and all I did was write a piece titled My turn to help, which I circulated by email to some of my friends. In less than an hour, someone paid for her first year and we raised enough to pay for the two-year course.

    Just recently, the case of a blind, talented young man, Holy Ogene, who needed about N340,000 for an eye operation which I wrote about in this column and was also interviewed by Joseph Olaoluwa, an intern, caught the attention of a lecturer in the department of English at Afe Babalola University, Ado Ekiti, (ABUAD) , Mr Olumide Olugbemi-Gabriel,  who rallied his students and their parents to contribute the balance of the required money.

    Holy had given up on getting the support following initial poor response to the publication. To his surprise, he found out much later that a third of the money had been sent to his account and, luckily, Olugbemi-Gabriel called to find out how much he had and got the balance contributed.

    This piece is to appreciate those who have responded to my publications for assistance in the past and those who will still do. It takes having a genuine heart of giving to read about a call for assistance in the paper and respond.

    My prayer for you all is that God will reward you abundantly and meet you at every point of your own need. Amen.

  • Don’t give up! (3)

    Dear Reader,

    Welcome to this week’s teaching. In the previous editions, we examined how to use prayers and a life that speaks to help get your unbelieving spouse saved. I see God turning your challenges into cheap miracles, as you put to practice those things that you have learnt, in Jesus’ name.

    This week, we shall be examining the use of FASTING in getting your spouse saved. “Fasting” means doing away with food for the purpose of concentration. It is a way of seeking the face of God, earnestly bringing the flesh under your control in order to be more sensitive to God.  God knew that there would be challenging situations that will prove a little difficult for us; that was why He recommended fasting. Mark 9:29 confirms that: “This kind can come forth by nothing, but by prayer and fasting.  Set some time apart to fast for the salvation of your loved ones. This must be coupled with prayer and the Word of God.  When fasting is void of prayer and the Word of God, then it is hunger strike or mere dieting! Your fasting must also be done in wisdom. It is not how long you fast that matters, but how well and effective your fast is.

    I once met an elderly woman who became born again after she was married. Apparently, her husband was deep into the occult. This woman took up the challenge and started praying for her husband, breaking the power of the devil over his life. At a point in time, she started sacrificing her breakfast for her husband’s salvation. According to her, she would prepare her breakfast and give it to the needy. She did this for two years!

    Meanwhile, she was in a different city from where her husband was. Unknown to her, God had sent someone to cross path with the man and he gave his life to Christ. When this woman met her husband he was born again!  We serve a God of miracles!  Can you imagine her joy that day? But she had to pray, practise patience and fast about it.  Yours will be the next testimony in Jesus’ name!

    Fasting has several advantages in helping to get your spouse saved. Fasting is an added plus to prayers. When fasting is done effectively along with prayers using the Word of God, the result is always an immediate success. Some impossible situations recorded in Esther 4:3, Matthew 17:29 and Acts 14:23 in the Bible, experienced a turn-around through fasting and prayers.

    God’s Word in Isaiah 58:6-7 says: Is not this the fast that I have chosen? To loose the bands of wickedness, to undo the heavy burdens, and to let the oppressed go free, and that ye break every yoke?  Is not to deal thy bread to the hungry, and that thou bring the poor that are cast out to thy house?  When thou seest the naked, that thou cover him; and that thou hide not thyself from thin own flesh?  This means that fasting can set one lose from any kind of bondage and break every kind of yoke, when it is done effectively (Isaiah 58:8-14).  It is not just abstaining from food or drink, but abstaining with a major purpose of seeking God in prayers via His Word, while maintaining a good Christian life that speaks.

    This is an ‘all-round package’ for answered prayers that covers every area of need, including the salvation of your spouse! I see God answer your prayers according to the desires of your heart, as you simply put the above-mentioned points to work, in Jesus’ name!  Don’t give up on your spouse; your own testimony is at hand.

    However, the first thing to do for your fasting to be effective is to surrender your life to Christ and become a child of God. God will only listen to His children. God’s children are those who have accepted Him through His Son, Jesus Christ, as their Lord and Saviour. If you will like to accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Saviour and become born-again, please say this prayer: “Dear Lord Jesus Christ, I come to You today. I am a sinner. Forgive me of my sins and cleanse me with Your Blood. Deliver me from sin and satan to serve the living God. I accept You as my Lord and Saviour. Make me a child of God today. Thank You for accepting me into Your Kingdom.”

    If you prayed this simple prayer, you are now a child of God. He loves you and will never leave you. Read your Bible daily, obey God’s Word and seek Christian fellowship (John 14:21).

    Congratulations! You are now born again! All-round rest and peace are guaranteed you, in Jesus’ Name. Call or write, and share your testimonies with me through contact@faithoyedepo.org; OR 07026385437 and 08141320204.

    For more insight, these books authored by me are available at the Dominion Bookstores in all Living Faith Churches and other leading Christian bookstores: Marriage Covenant, Making Marriage Work, Building A Successful Home and Success in Marriage (Co-Authored).

  • Go forth and give

    Go forth and give

    Three men have shown us the different shades of love. One shows it genuinely, the other as a show man and the third in dubious colour.

    I am referring to Aliko Dangote, Africa’s richest man; Mohammed Ndinmi, Africa’s 39th richest person; and Ali Modu Sheriff, the most prominent African politician whose image conjures the blood and ogre of Boko Haram.

    Borno State, where the ravages of Boko Haram left a human trail of tears, beckoned for charity. The internally displaced persons lost not just home, they lost family. Especially, they lost the soul of their lives. Their past is a story told. The past of halcyon moonlights and storytelling, of home jokes and cosy whispers, of family landmarks and quiescent worship, of pictures, of farms and heath, of intimate hugs and family moments and mementoes. They are histories without artifacts. The same family members became corpses without names.

    It is time to gather their limbs together after the so-called goons of God roared into their towns and villages with blood in their eyes.

    Dangote hit headlines with a donation of N2 billion to the IDPs in Borno State, and he did not do it in the abstract. He visited Maiduguri, especially the Dalori and Bakassi camps. His flesh and blood was present among the bloodied and bowed. “It’s not the first time I am coming here,” he said as though it was news.

    His words were confirmed by his amiable host and Borno Governor Kashim Shettima, who acknowledged that he had been coming around and had earlier donated N400 million to the same IDPs. Dangote has not restricted himself to Borno State, It is on record that he had given N1.2 billion to IDPs in Borno, Adamawa and Yobe states.

    The Dangote generosity is also significant in the light of the labour minister, Chris Ngige’s recent “order” that banks should discontinue their firing canon. Dangote is exemplifying the modern view of corporation as civil partners. They are not in society only to make profit but also to profit society.

    They are enterprises and conceived for self-enrichment. But that is the province of pristine capitalism. With increasing call around the world social engagement, big companies are being held to account. I may not go as far as compelling individual companies not to fire their workers. I, however, believe that the conversation ought to begin as to the moral imperatives that must factor into such decisions. A bank with billions in its vaults should have a better reason to consign workers into the streets. That is one of the reasons that Bernie Sanders has stirred great passion in the United States election year. Inequality in today’s world is returning to the Industrial Revolution levels, as aptly documented by the French economist Thomas Picketty in his epochal work, Capital in the Twenty First Century.

    Dangote’s activities with his foundation reflect this sensitivity. But the Nigerian rich, ever sick of self love, thinks little of the little guy. One of such is Mohammed Indinmi. He is a well-known billionaire and gained notoriety over his donation to a U.S. university while boy victims of Boko Haram are squeaking from malnutrition in a Borno State IDP camp.

    He debunked a rumour that he contributed $14 million to a U.S. university but a mere $900, 000. He  probably expected us to embrace him and slobber him with kisses because he contributed an equivalent of about N300 million to a university in a country where its income per capita is probably more than half of the Borno State IDPs put together.

    We have not seen from him an equivalent  show of love to his own people suffering in the aftermath of the pious hoodlums. The school is Lynn University and it set up a Mohammed Ndinmi International Business Center with state-of-the-art features like a venture lab, internship centre, 11 classrooms, etc.

    Some see him as a show man, more willing to please his rich school than his abject neighborhood. He has inferiority complex, and seeks the gratitude of the American rather than the joy of his own habitués. That suits his ego. He acted in tandem with the words of writer Carlos Ruiz Zafon: “Presents are made for the pleasure of those who give them, not the merits of who receives them.” It’s the same Ndinmi, who sent his six children to the same school and his son buzzed ignominiously on the social media when he flashed his account balance of $100 million. He is not a Nigerian leader, even if he is IBB’s in-law. He is not an American leader either. He is a giver who is a counter to the Biblical line, “charity never fails.” His charity failed in Borno, so did his money.

    The other player is Ali Modu Sheriff. The former Borno State governor, in all his moral weightlessness, is embroiled in leadership slugfest in a befuddled PDP. But the man has been the flipside of a Borno statesman. He is an example of a giver as cynic. The man cancelled bursary awards to his state students when he was governor. He boasted that media reports could not hurt him since his indigenes could not read. The same was associated with Boko Haram and has done little to swim out of that poisoned stream. The same man said he donated N150 million to Boko Haram. Many in the state said it was cynical. Even at that, the state said they never received the money. The Borno State Resettlement Committee said they did not get the man’s money but two truckloads of rice. Sheriff has not denied the denial. The genuine N150 million donation to IDPs came from faraway: Lagos State Governor Akinwunmi Ambode. Sheriff could learn a thing or two about actualising pledges.

    The indigenes are probably echoing the lines of the poet Alfred Lord Tennyson: “Let me go: take back thy gift.” It is like the Greeks whose horse the Trojans looked in the face. The Sheriff donation was a nothing about much ado. Shakespeare in his play, Much Ado About Nothing, had a character say, “My charity is outrage.” It was a whited sepulcher.

    The IDPs are a charity case. So are Sheriff and Ndinmi. A man’s life consists not in the abundance of things he possess, said Jesus. But in the abundance of love shown. They should borrow a page from Dangote. Shakespeare’s words for the rich: “no legacy is so rich as honesty.”

     

    MTN at rest

    At last after the rough-and-tumble crisis, a settlement has been reached. The network mogul MTN will pay N330 billion to the Federal Government. It is relief to the company, a costly one at that. It was important that MTN followed the law in this matter. But the law is not designed to kill. A company cannot learn a lesson in the grave. So, MTN was punished enough to feel the pain but also enough to rouse itself to a more circumspect way of doing business.

    MTN has huge investment in Nigeria and many employees. All that also came into the picture in the settlement. The company can now go back to business without the weight of a fine, or after the weight of the fine.

     

  • N9.3bn surveillance contract: Urhobos give FG one-week ultimatum

    The Federal Government’s N9.3billion pipeline surveillance contract to some former militant leaders and the leaders of the O’odua Peoples’ Congress (OPC) has continued to generate controversy in the Urhobo area of Delta State.

    The leadership of the Urhobo Ethnic Nationality, Host Communities (HOSTCOM) has given the Federal Government one-week to reverse the perceived injustice or jeopardise the safety of oil and gas facilities in their land.

    “At the expiration of the one-week, if the Urhobo portion of the surveillance contract is not given to them, then they would withdraw their indigene working in all the oil and gas facilities across the Urhobo nation and from then onward, (we) would no longer guarantee the safety and protection of the facilities.”

    The warning was contained in a press statement issued by the group and the President General/Chairman, Oil Producing/ Impacted Communities of Urhobo Nation at Udu, headquarters of Udu Local Government Area of the state, on Friday.

    The statement was signed by Comrade Efe Okovwurie, Moriss Idiovwa, Mrs Mary Otikiri and Hon Kingskley Akpenimor, Chairman Urhobo HOSTCOM, Coordiantor Urhobo Ethnic Nationality, Youth and Women leaders respectively of HOSTCOM.

    It stated, “The first phase of the contract awarded to some of those contractors that were also engaged in the new arrangement had no impact in the oil bearing communities because those recruited were from the urban areas where the oil and gas facilities are not located.

    “Others were recruited as ghost workers, hence the communities are insisting the Urhobo portion of it, cutting across the eight LGAs of Delta State must be given to the company jointly owned by the oil bearing communities to ensure that indigenes of the communities can benefit.”

    The groups noted that information reaching it indicated that some groups of persons were hired and mobilized from the Urhobo Nation for protests in Abuja, adding that the host communities did not mandate the protest on their behalf.

    “The agreement reached between the leadership of the various communities and HOSTCOM is to accommodate all stakeholders, including indigenes of oil bearing and impacted communities, the traditional rulers, PGs of kingdoms, youth and women bodes ad Urhobo ex-militants and HOSTCOM leaders.”

    Meanwhile, HOSTCOM has debunked media reports that the group was against the emergence of President-Elect, General Muhammadu Buhari of the All Progressive Congress (APC). “Contrary to some media report, the Urhobo HOSTCOM and the general Urhobo nation will support and work with a General Buhari-led government to move Nigeria to greater height.”

  • FUNAAB alumni urged to give – even if only N1,000

    FUNAAB alumni urged to give – even if only N1,000

    An appeal has gone out to former students of the Federal University of Agriculture, Abeokuta (FUNAAB) to key into the institution’s ‘Alumni Give Back Programme’.

    The initiative is to raise funds to complete various projects in the university. They have been told that even N1,000 towards each project is welcome and would make a difference.

    A statement from the university noted that names of donors would be published on its website and the ‘Alumni Give Back Programme’ brochure.

    Donations could be made from any part of the world into: Prize and Endowment Account, FUNAAB Guaranty Trust Bank (GTB) Plc, Account Number: 0106761783.

  • 2015: Governors give PDP, Jonathan three conditions

    2015: Governors give PDP, Jonathan three conditions

    Protest votes threat rocks ruling party over automatic tickets, others

    Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) governors have given three conditions to back President Goodluck Jonathan’s yet-unannounced re-election bid.

    The conditions are:

    •allowing outgoing governors to choose their successors;

    •automatic second term tickets for those running first term in office; and

    •automatic senatorial seats for governors aspiring to be in the Senate.

    Although Jonathan is set to emerge the sole presidential candidate of the PDP, all is not well within the party on how to meet the demands of the governors, a source told The Nation.

    Some of the governors are threatening protest votes in their states if they are not allowed to have their way.

    PDP National Chairman Adamu Muazu is said to be battling to manage the situation.

    Muazu, who is opposed to automatic tickets, has to devise means of accommodating the agitation of the governors, a source said.

    Of the 36 states, PDP has 18 governors. APC has 16 governors. APGA and Labour Party have one apiece.

    Some of the governors believed to have senatorial ambition in 2015 or being prevailed upon to go to the upper chamber are Liyel Imoke of Cross River; Theodore Orji (Abia); Godswill Akpabio (Akwa Ibom) ; Sullivan Chime (Enugu); Martins Elechi (Ebonyi); Gabriel Suswam (Benue); Emmanuel Uduaghan (Delta); Babangida Aliyu(Niger); Ibrahim Shema (Katsina); Saidu Dakingari (Kebbi); Jonah Jang(Plateau); and Isa Yuguda(Bauchi)

    Those seeking second term are Henry Seriake Dickson(Bayelsa); Ramalan Yero(Kaduna); Ibrahim Dankwabo (Gombe); Idris Wada( Kogi)- when due; Acting Governor Garba Umar ( Taraba);

    There has been disquiet in the party on the demands of the governors.

    A governor said: “All the governors are united in their demands to have a say on who will succeed them and second term tickets for their colleagues who still have the opportunity of another term in office.

    “They said if the President can enjoy automatic second term ticket, it should spread across the board.

    “The party is thinking that such a development will shut out other good hands in the party.

    “But most of us do not buy into that argument at all. We believe whatever is sauce for the goose ought to be sauce for the gander.”

    Responding to a question, the source said: “The likelihood of realignment of forces and protest votes cannot be ruled out.”

    Another governor said there was no way the party would not make concessions to allow the second term ticket of the President to sail through.

    “The PDP leadership may say there is no automatic ticket but there will certainly be negotiations to make certain things to work. Mark my words, the PDP governors cannot allow Jonathan to have his way without anything in return. This is politics,” said the governor, who requested not to be named.

    “We are back to the 2003 era when ex-President Olusegun Obasanjo wanted the second term ticket. Governors want to be politically relevant after leaving office and fairness demands some concessions.

    “We have been making our demands known to the party. We hope it will accommodate these agitations to keep the party intact for 2015 poll.”

    The National Publicity Secretary of PDP, Chief Olisa Metuh, was unavailable last night. His mobile lines were switched off.

    But the National Chairman of PDP, Alhaji Adamu Muazu had on January 28 declared at the National Assembly that there would be no automatic tickets for members seeking offices in 2015.

    Muazu spoke at a session with PDP members in the National Assembly.

    At the meeting were Uduaghan, Imoke, Shema, Yero, Aliyu and Orji.

    Muazu said automatic tickets were only given by parties that were undemocratic.

    “We have a democratic process and we will go through that; those that deserve it will surely get it,” he said.

    Muazu stressed that he inherited no records of any promise made by the immediate past national chairman of the party, Bamanga Tukur, of giving automatic ticket to any member.

    A member of the NWC, who spoke last night, said: “Neither Muazu nor PDP has changed its position; there will be no automatic ticket for any member in 2015.

    “I can tell you that our position against automatic ticket has not changed.”

  • ‘Give priority to agriculture’

    The Federal Government has been urged to give priority to agriculture to ensure food security and reduce dependence on oil.

    The advice was given by the Chairman and Chief Executive Officer of Adura Farms Settlement in Ogun State, Chief Lawrence Olusesan Bankole. Going on memory lane, he said the old Western Region survived on cocoa, to prosecute its major infrastructural and educational programmes.

    Bankole said given the right atmosphere, agriculture will engage most of our youths actively and increase the country’s Gross National Product and “reduce our dependence on oil”.