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  • Elijah Rising: How a Faith-based Nonprofit is Fighting Sexual Exploitation in the U.S

    Elijah Rising: How a Faith-based Nonprofit is Fighting Sexual Exploitation in the U.S

    A room filled with hand-poured soy wax candles was the first sight that evoked a poignant feeling. Followed is the sight of T-Shirts and face caps on display for visitors delight. A couple of leather bags were hung on the wall, adding to the various types of products available in a room filled with ‘goods that empower’. The items were made by survivors of sex exploitation.

    Welcome to Elijah Rising, a faith-based nonprofit in Galleria West, one of the most sexualized districts in Houston, Texas, running with the mandate of driving the reality of modern-day slavery into the consciousness of the society. It is interesting to know that the building housing the headquarters of Elijah rising once housed an Asian brothel called Angela Day Spa. It used to be one of the original stops at Van Tours organized for interested persons on request.

    A tour round the Museum of Modern-Day slavery managed by Elijah Rising almost evoked a tear-jerking reaction. On display are collections of artifacts preserved from raids of motels and street interventions. The museum with a reputation of potency in exposing brutal realities of sexual slavery and commercial exploitation also houses a room, which is replica of a spot discovered during a raid of cantinas where women are being exploited in 2013. A cantina is a dimly lit tavern popular in Mexico and Spain cultures where traditional alcoholic drinks are served.

    In the small room, there is a mattress on the floor with ruffled pink bedspread. A waste bin containing trashed condoms stand in a corner, side by side a stool with photos of a woman cuddling a baby, a small bible and some condoms. In the other part of the museum are tattered brassieres and female shoes. These items were preserved during a raid of a motel used for housing trafficked women exploited in commercial sex.

    David Gamboa, a youth pastor who works as the Creative Director of Elijah Rising got an epiphany when he visited the organization on a museum tour.  David relived how he in a bid to find solution for teens addicted to pornography, he embarked on the museum tour, prompting them to come see the reality of what happens to women who are sexually exploited.

    “I believe something shifted in their mindset.  That was how I got involved with Elijah riding,” he recalled.

    As a faith-based nonprofit organization, Elijah Rising runs with the mission of ending sex trafficking and commercial sex exploitation through prayer, awareness and after care. These tenets of the organization’s mission are executed in the spirit of Isaiah 1:17, a Bible verse which speaks about doing good by rebuking oppressors and seeking justice for the fatherless and widows.  At the early stage, the nonprofit was solely focused on sex trafficking.  It expanded by giving priority to commercial sexual exploitation in order to address modern day slavery.

    “Elijah started out as a prayer group of concerned people who gathered to pray about this issue and we decided to evolve into an official nonprofit. Prayer is essential to what we do. In every place we go to, especially the van tours, the atmosphere is highly spiritual,” David offered.

    Samantha Hernandez, the director of interventions and strategies exudes the charm and charisma of a personality responsible for organizing rescue mission and leading after care programmes for survivors.  With hair tinted in colour blue, Samantha happily shows off her tattoo, which she describes as a Rehab tattoo. Rehab in biblical times was a prostitute who was redeemed and later got  mentioned in the genealogy of Jesus.  Samantha later led the visiting journalists on a Van Tour, touching high probability trafficking areas in Houston. The Van Tour which can sometimes take up to two hours has been described as a ‘rolling human trafficking 101 class with visuals’.

    With interventions at specific days of the month, the organization trains church groups and leaders who go to various places where sex is sold.  Elijah Rising also reach out to women who are exploited online by training volunteers who phone perceived victim of trafficking to offer them a way out. At other times, they go out on the street, distributing food and relief materials to commercial sex workers. In reaching out to the women on the street, the volunteers also try to slip a phone number which leads to another team known as Rescue Houston, a nonprofit which can arrange for escape and connect survivors to resources.

    “Rescue Houston support women who are literarily stepping out from their traffickers who sometimes they are in love with. The team sit survivors through the trauma period by connecting them with resources and channels,” Samantha added.

    Stance on Prostitution

     Elijah rising takes a stand that prostitution whether legalized or not is a violation of human right. The stance is anchored on the fact that majority of clients serviced by the nonprofit who are in willing or trafficked prostitution face violence and abuse equally across the board.

    Affirming this position, Samantha said; “Every woman I have met who has been through prostitution or sex trafficking entered through coercion because they need to survive–that is not a choice, it is a product of a lack of choice. That is our stance and we take a lot of hate for it. We have clients that have been high end escorts who have been raped and forcibly beaten. The lines are almost the same.”

    The organization is also interested in policy as it is pushing for a legislation aimed at decriminalizing women who are being sold into sex slavery. Elijah Rising advocates for a higher penalty for traffickers or pimps.

    “There is a need to create a bad environment for buyers and pimps. Right now, prostitution is illegal in the U.S and prostitutes are likely to be penalized, so the approach is before they will be arrested, let’s get 50 people speaking to them that they have another choice,” David chipped in, adding that the organization caters to Christian and non-Christians alike.

    In a bid to shift culture towards not buying sex, Elijah Rising also reach out to men, using some reverse strategy where potential buyers could be educated. They also try to identify men who could be addicted to sex, helping them with resources on curbing addiction.

    In providing after care to survivors, Elijah Rising says it never exert pressure on women.  “We never stand between a woman and an exit.  When we reach them on phone, if they hang up, we send them a text message to reach out if they need help,” the organization stated.

    Some years ago, Elijah Rising acquired Kendleton farm, a small campus college with dorms and onsite house for staff which used to be a Christian college. The space fills the gap of the massive accommodation problem in Houston. The Kendleton farm which the organization said was purchased for an insanely low price is now under renovation. At the moment, it has five residential homes and massive admin building with dorm space.  So far, 12 women and five kids have been housed in the facility.

    Houston is a major player in human trafficking in the U.S. In a study by the Arizona State University, it was revealed that 21.4 percent of men within ages 18 to 65 had solicited sex online in Houston. The average age of entry into sexual exploitation in the city is 12 or 14. According to the United Nations, the global Human Trafficking industry is said to be worth over $50 billion.

     

    Hannah Ojo recently returned from a tour of three states in the United States where she participated in the Department of State’s Foreign Press Centre’s Combating Trafficking in Person programme. 

     

     

  • Nonprofits ​get Tips on hot-lines for Human trafficking Prevention

    Nonprofits ​get Tips on hot-lines for Human trafficking Prevention

    In the wake of renewed efforts to combat human trafficking around the world, nonprofits organizations aiming to use toll free lines to help rescue trafficking victims have been admonished to conduct a readiness assessment on available infrastructures on ground in their home countries.

    The admonition was given during a presentation by Polaris, a U.S based organization leading the global fight to eradicate modern slavery, at a briefing with foreign journalists hosted by the United States Department of State’s ForeignPress Centre in Washington.

    Ms Caroline Diemar, the National Hotlines Director, who is responsible for providing strategic oversight of the U.S National Hotlines programme
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    with a focus on strategic growth and efficient use of resources to maximize capacity and provide high quality service to victims and survivors of human trafficking​,​
    stressed the importance of infrastructure and government support in ensuring the successful application of hotlines and resue text message tools for nonprofit groups.

    “Even though it is an NGO running the hotline, it should have government support not only for funding purpose but for some form of legitimacy. At the same time, the independency of being an NGO hotline dedicated to combating and preventing human trafficking should not be eroded by government interference,” she said.

    Speaking on how Polaris leverages on data and technology to pursue traffickers wherever they operate, Andrea Rojas, Manager of Strategic
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    ommunication​s for Polaris​

    , added that having a dedicated toll-free line where people can report suspects of human trafficking has proved to be effective in fighting the scourge in the U.S and other parts of the world.

    “A dedicated toll-free line for human trafficking is definitely something to explore. We have done it in other countries as well and it works depending on the peculiarities of
    ​each​
    country​. We
    recommend a number that can be remembered by everybody. It is not just for survivors but for service providers ​ as well,”​
    Rojas submitted.

    The U.S national human trafficking hotline which has expanded to texts and chat services has identified 36,270 human trafficking cases. Globally, there are 40.3 million victims of modern slavery according to statistics from the UN.

  • Advocacy group gets funding to serve labour trafficking victims in the U.S

    Advocacy group gets funding to serve labour trafficking victims in the U.S

    The Enitan Story, a non-governmental organization founded by a Nigerian American, Ms Bukola Oriola has received funding from the Minnesota Department of Health (MDH) to serve labor trafficking victims ages 24 and under.

    With the MDH seeking to expand its response to human trafficking and the need for specific services for labor trafficking victims, the Enitan Story became one of four nonprofit organisations in the State of Minnesota to receive the first ever grant funding.

    With the grant, The Enitan Story will provide case management, community outreach, job and skills training to victims who qualify to receive said services.

    “We are very pleased to be a recipient of this grant. As a labor trafficking survivor-led organization, we understand the needs of labor trafficking survivors and how difficult it is to identify victims even when we see them daily in our community,” said Bukola Oriola, Founder & Executive Director of The Enitan Story.

    “This grant will help us with our in-depth community outreach with the purpose of identifying labor trafficked youth and provide them with direct services through job and life skills,” the award winning ex-journalist further told The Nation.

    Labor trafficking is a form of modern slavery that exists throughout the United States and globally. Labor traffickers – including recruiters, contractors, employers, and others – use violence, threats, lies, debt bondage, or other forms of coercion to force people to work against their will in many different industries.

    Headquartered in Spring Lake Park, Minnesota, The Enitan Story is a nonprofit organization whose mission is to advocate for victims and empower survivors of human trafficking. It is dedicated to serving victims of human trafficking by advocating for them and referring them to available resources in their communities. More information about The Enitan Story can be found on its web site at www.enitan.org.

  • Old students hold familiarization

    The 2001 old students set of Saint Joseph Secondary School (SJSS), Idimangoro Agege recently held a familiarization visit to their alma mater in other to access the state of the school and plan development projects that would ensure a conducive learning environment for the current students of the school.

    Akinyemi Akintan, the chairman of the SJSS 01 set told The Nation that the aim of the visit was to formally introduce themselves to the principal officers of the school and share their outlined plans to move the school to greatness.

    Speaking on the outcome of the visit, he said; “It was a wonderful time stepping into the school compound once again, the nostalgic feeling was quite overwhelming. We met with the Principal, Mr. Iseyemi who received us warmly and advised us on core areas of interventions required by the school.

    Akintan further added that the school decided to undertake the visit in order to mobilize members both within and outside the shores of Nigeria to make financial contribution to the growth of the school.

    “The school as it is now is in a state of dilapidation and the environment is not conducive for learning. We were better off in our time than the current state.

    However, hope is not lost. It gladdens my heart to see that many other old students’ sets are keen on working towards reconstruction of the school. This goes to show the impact of the school has made in the lives of those who were privileged to pass through it”.

    In a related development, members of the 2001 old students set also gathered for their first reunion at the De Dems event centre in Akowonjo. The union which would be their first meeting after 16 years of separation presented an opportunity for them to deliberate on infrastructural projects for the school.

  • Nigerian named among 2018 Global Leaders Fellows

    Nigerian named among 2018 Global Leaders Fellows

    A 27-year-old Nigerian, Onyedikachi Ekwerike has been named among the recipients of the 2018 Global Leaders Fellowship for new and emerging nonprofit executives.

    The Global Leaders Fellowship is an exclusive leadership development programme awarded to deserving new and emerging nonprofit executives aged 25-35. According to a statement released by NonprofitCoach, a California based organization which specializes in leadership coaching for nonprofit leaders, criteria for selection for the 2018 fellows was based on nonprofit leadership, diversity, participation, merit and financial need.

    Ekwerike founded the Postpartum Support Network Africa (PSN Africa), a nonprofit organization which works to raise awareness about perinatal mood and anxiety disorders in Africa. He was named among other 10 recipients from countries like Tunisia, Kenya, El Savador, India, Afghanistan, Romania,

    Ekwerike, a clinical psychologist founded PSN Africa in 2016 to raise awareness about perinatal mood and anxiety disorders in Africa.  In a chat with The Nation,  Ekwerike who trained as a clinical psychologist said that the organization is building a network of professionals who are passionate about helping mothers suffering from perinatal mood to gain access to quality mental health care.

    “In just over two years, PSN has become the largest maternal health organization in Africa supporting women in four countries namely Nigeria, Ghana, Kenya and Botsawana. We plan to reach another six countries by 2020 and eventually serve the entire continent”, Ekwerike, a 2017 Mandela Washington Fellow enthused.

     

  • 2019: A vote for generational shift

    2019: A vote for generational shift

    As the country warms up for the 2019 general elections, Correspondent HANNAH OJO highlights the factors underlying the agitation by youths for roles in governance.

    Former Vice Prresident Atiku Abubarkar stirred the hornet’s nest in a recent Facebook live chat where he described his return to the People’s Democratic Party (PDP) as a calculated move to save the future of Nigeria by creating jobs for the teeming youth population, should he become president come 2019.

    No sooner had he began to speak in a tempered voice that a barrage of comments filtered in from young people. A Facebook user, Excellent Emechebe, threw a salvo at the presidential aspirant asking why the famed politician could not pass his  ambition to a younger person. “You are too old. This is another Buhari in disguise,” Emechebe said. Following in line was another young man, Aziza Uko Douglas who fired a retort: “If you care about the youths so much, at 70, you wouldn’t want to run for president. You would look for a much younger person who is qualified with a vision and put your support behind that person”.

    As the 10-minute live session which generated 9004 comments progressed, it became glaring that the youths are frustrated by their marginalisation in the democratic process. Agitations appear to be growing among young people who are protesting the unwritten rule that defines their role in the electoral system simply as voters with handed down roles of election riggers or bag carrying personal assistants.

    When the House of Representatives passed the NotTooYoungToRun bill in the middle of the year, it was greeted with excitement. However, the snail pace of the constitutional review committee, which took some months before forwarding the bill to the Houses of Assembly soon created doubt.  It was not until some weeks back that the bill was forwarded. Following the transmission to the 36 Houses of Assembly, a minimum of 24 Houses of Assembly must sign their approval before the bill would be signed into law. Kwara and Adamawa have signed the bill into law. Youth Initiative for Advocacy and Advancement (YIAGA), a civil society group which has been putting youths in the heart of participation in the political process stated on its website that it has sent 991 personalized letters to legislators in the 36 state houses of assembly in Nigeria.

    Hamzat Lawal, an activist who is one of the front man of the campaign for young people in politics  is of the opinion that failure to pass the bill before the 2019 elections may lead to voters’ apathy from the youths’ bloc.

    “I believe that come 2019, if this bill sees the light of the day, we should aim at having a young president of the federal republic of Nigeria. I and my friend have started a campaign called TPC which is The People’s Candidate which is about taking power back to the people”, he stated.

    Also, as the campaign for young people to run for public office gathers momentum, Hamzat is also quick to condemn people who believe Nigerian Youths are not capable of being good leaders.

    “The civil society, the entertainment and tech sectors are being led by young people.  I think it is just a conspiracy to limit the potentials of young people to say that they are not ready? if you don’t even give them the opportunity, what yardstick would you use to measure their readiness?

    “If you are 18 and you are eligible to vote someone into office, you should be eligible to be voted into office. Mankind is meant to aspire and the worst thing that has happened to our generation is that we are not even allowed to aspire.

    Recalling the turn of event at a national day of action where thousands of youths marched peacefully in Borno in support of the #NotTooYoungToRun bill, Hamzat also affirmed that the eagerness with which the youths have pushed for the implementation of the bill is a sign that they are ready to take charge of leadership.

    Power, competence and previous results

    Dayo Adeniyi, a Mandela Washington fellow whose outfit, Matadors Leadership Institute has been organizing leadership training wants the #NotTooYoungToRun campaign to be focused on addressing competence and previous results, not just on wrestling power.

    “There’s an experience that could come with age so if someone is old, competent and can deliver quality service, why not? That someone is young does not mean the person will do anything different from what we have always seen. We need young, tested and competent people whose focus is on the service they can render, not the power they seek.”

    One of the factors responsible for young people’s clamour for roles in politics and governance is the unemployment rate, which stands at 14.2 per cent, according to the National Bureau of Statistics. Again, the trading of Nigerian youths in Libya who got caught up in modern day slavery after trying to escape the hardship at home could also be said to be one of the factors fueling youths’ agitation for participation in governance. Also, the EndSARS campaign on twitter which called for the scrapping of the Special Anti-Robbery Squad of the police and was followed up with a rally recently may be a signal to the fact that Nigerian youths are beginning to shift from a standpoint of activism to wrestling power from the old political class. To win the battle over gerontocracy in governance, Nigerian youths would first have to conquer the reformation of a system where power often goes to the highest bidder.

     

    Reporting done as part of BudgIT 2017 fellowship

  • ‘It takes a lot of effort to keep returnee sex slaves in moral check’

    ‘It takes a lot of effort to keep returnee sex slaves in moral check’

    Mrs Bose Aggrey,  founder of the Web of Heart Foundation, an NGO with a migrant reintegration centre in Ibeju-Lekki has helped over 100 migrants with psycho-social care and vocational skills to aid their reintegration into the society. HANNAH OJO had a chat with her.

     

    Since You run a centre for migrant reintegration, what peculiar health challenge have you noticed with the returnees from Libya?

    Generally, migrants are traumatized beings. Most of them will come up with headache, fever, diarrhea and heart burns. Some of them even have ulcers. Some have HIV. We have had one to three cases of inmates who tested positive to HIV.  We have off-the-counter drugs which are within our reach, but when cases become more complex, we take them to the hospital or we seek help with agencies like NAPTIP which has retainership with the Lagos State Teaching Hospital (LASUTH).

    What has been your experience with campaigns aimed at dissuading young people who may be nursing intentions to travel illegally?

    In September, we started a campaign against irregular migration with the hashtag #Don’t QuitStayPut. We have also printed handbooks on the campaign, which we distribute to young adults as a form of educating them on illegal migration. it is a nationwide campaign and in the new year, we would do a lot to promote this cause.

    In your dealings with migrants, what other challenges have you had to deal with apart from funding?

    Psychosocial challenges are prime because these people are so traumatized and they have been exposed to a lot of criminal acts.   Some of them are used to taking drugs which helped to enhance their sexual performance or at least induce them for multiple sexual act.  They have been in detention camp with inhumane treatment, so one is having to deal with people who have been so ill exposed.  It takes a lot counsel and patience to keep them in moral check.  One must also give them a sense of comfort and a place of belonging, otherwise they become quite rebellious. When they come into the centre, I come down to their level and speak their language. Recently, I went for a trauma healing training in Germany and we were put through professional management of these type of trauma. So, that also is helping me, and I intend to train many social workers that want to learn how to handle such trauma.

    There has been an influx of migrants’ returnees from Libya. Is it possible for them to be tempted to travel again through the desert in search of the golden fleece?

    Human beings are driven by needs. If the first reason with which they migrated is still not sorted out upon their return, there is a tendency that there may be a lure which could be a pull factor that may want to push them to look for other means of migrating. The good part of what is going on is that they have gone through terrible experience which is a deterrent for them.  The other thing is that the IOM is now collapsing their efforts to ensure that some kind of reintegration is made available for these returnees so that they don’t lack economic power because most migrants are generally economic migrants who are finding a way to get out of their poverty. If these measures are put in place, we might find a way to minimize irregular migration.

    Again, the Edo State Government comes to the Air-port for evacuation. They promise to pay the migrants three-month salary which they can use to sort themselves while they are being reintegrated into the society. Also, there are vocational centres here like ours, where we offer free training to youths who are vulnerable to illegal migration.

     

     

     

  • Group sensitize Lagos residents on budget matters

    Group sensitize Lagos residents on budget matters

    BudgIT, a civic organization committed to raising standards of transparency and citizens’ engagement in public finance has held a Budget Engagement Programme across six communities in Lagos state. The exercise which commenced last week sensitized residents on the 2017 Lagos state budget whilst seeking their input for the 2018 budget.

    The BudgIT team visited communities in Bariga, Shomolu, Mushin and Ikorodu with the support of the Ford Foundation, reaching over 4,000 residents through town hall meetings. Budget pamphlets with infographics showing the breakdown of the 2017 Lagos state budget figures in simple and accessible formats were shared among residents present at the event.

    According to BudgIT’s Lead Partner, Oluseun Onigbinde; “in the six communities visited, we observed that very few residents have minimal knowledge about the budget and the budget process as well as projects implementation which affects development in the communities. Lagosians pay taxes but ask too few questions on service delivery.”

    During the course of the meetings, some residents of Ikorodu community expressed dismay on the part of their representatives for their non-participation in the budget formation process. They disclosed to the BudgIT team that most of their needs are not captured in the budget and also complained about lack of access to information on the state’s budget. Mr Rabiu Akeem, a LCDA chairman in Ikorodu complained about the dilapidated state of government-owned schools and roads in the area.

    Declaring the engagement as an eye-opener that has empowered them with a tool for advocacy, the community members commended the BudgIT team while also promising to engage their representatives to demand information about the budget that affects them directly.

    BudgIT further encouraged the residents to always pay their taxes and also demand the budget documents in order to enable them to follow up on capital projects in their communities and also ensure their needs are captured in every annual fiscal plan.

  • #NotTooYoungToRun: Can there be a generational shift?

    #NotTooYoungToRun: Can there be a generational shift?

    Since the House of Representatives signed the ‘NotTooYoungToRun Bill’, many youths have taken to the social media to announce ambitions for various elective offices. With lack of political structures, grassroots appeal and deep pockets, it is left to be seen how these young Nigerians can turn global success stories to local realities. HANNAH OJO reports.

    How are the mighty fallen? This statement best describes the recent election in Kenya where a 24 and 23- year- old who ran as independent candidates defeated experienced politicians with established political structures to win seats in the Kenyan parliament. In Nigeria where the Not too young to run bill was recently signed by the senate; the success story of these Kenyan youths have generated a new whirl of excitement as some upwardly mobile young people, including celebrities have joined the ilk of people seeking political offices.

    Aimed at increasing youth participation in the political process, the #NotTooYoungToRun bill seeks to reduce the constitutional age requirement for running elective office in Nigeria. The bill with gazette number HB 544 seeks to alter sections 65, 106, 131, 177 of the 1999 constitution of the Federal Republic of Nigeria (as amended) to reduce the age qualification for the office of the president from 40 years to 30 years; Governor from 35 to 30, Senate 35 to 30, House of Representatives 30 to 25 and State House of Assembly 30 to 25. Another tangible change sought by the bill is the mainstreaming of Independent Candidacy, which would be used to curtail the imposition and substitution of candidates by political parties.

    Hon. Tony Nwulu, a PDP member representing Oshodi/Isolo Federal Constituency II, Lagos state is the sponsor of the bill in the House of Representatives while the Senator representing Adamawa Central, Abdul-Aziz Murtala Nyako of the APC sponsored the bill in the senate. Although signed by the green chamber, the bill has suffered delay in the House of Reps where it has been stalled by allegations of money exchanging hands and assumption of threat to the educational attainment of northern youths.
    For the amendment to become law; 24 state houses of assembly must also approve the bill and the President must assent to it.

    In recent times, names which come to the fore as those who have ran a vibrant campaign on the strength of the conviction of how youths can influence governance include the inimitable Gbolahan Rhodes-Vivour who contested for the chairmanship position of Ikeja local government under the KOWA party as well as Dayo Israel who vied for the same post in Lagos Mainland, during the last local council elections held in July.

    A slew of campaigners without political structure

    Before Miss Cynthia Muge and Paul Nwirigi of Kenya turned into an inspiration for Nigerian youths seeking public office, there had been Justin Trudeau, the Prime Minister of Canada and Emmanuel Macron, the 39 year old president of France whose win as a young, independent candidate threw the Nigerian youth community into a joyous mood. These victories invigorated the #NotTooYoungToRun campaigners and the effort seems set sailed even as the green chamber has endorsed it. However, it appears Nigerians youths may have lots of obstacles to deal with. Many of the young people who have indicated interest in electoral offices lack political structure, money and grass roots loyalty.

    Emphasizing onthe importance of grass root connections to political aspirations, Fisayo Soyombo, a public analyst and investigative journalist wrote in a recent op-ed that the Kenya duo won because they had integrated themselves into their communities and also have a deep connection to the grassroots.NotTooYoungToRun
    “Here in Nigeria, politically conscious youth cannot lay claim to a physical connection to the grassroots. The leading lights are all Twitter superstars and “social-media influencers”. Unfortunately, Twitter superstardom won’t deliver votes.
    “Kenya proved that already with the defeat of its Twitter god, Boniface Mwangi, at the polls. Mwangi, a popular activist, currently has 738,000 followers on Twitter but he had only secured 11,714 votes as of the time he conceded defeat, while a candidate had double his votes and another had almost quadruple”, Soyombo further intoned.

    Also, Chude Jideonwo, a media entrepreneur in a recent essay written as part of the Office of the Citizen series alluded to the question of grassroots connection when he said;
    “How many young people, who are highly educated, deeply competent and globally aware, are members of political parties, are strategists taken seriously within these political parties, and are eligible to be part of crucial decision making in these political parties?” The response to his question hovers judging by current happenstances in Nigeria’s political scene.

    In a chat with The Nation, Oluwaloseyi Babaeko, who recently declared his ambition to represent Kabba/Bunu constituency in the Kogi State House of Assembly in the forthcoming elections under the Unity Party of Nigeria (UPN) umbrella, believes that ideological positions and consistent commitment to the welfare of the people can fill in the gap for a lack of political structure.

    “We are mobilizing people using the political structure and the social media which is quite impressive because thousands of people have registered with us at the party secretariat in Kabba. The political process in Nigeria cost money no doubt but we are putting in efforts in place to conscientise the electorates and raise their awareness on the dangers of selling their future for peanuts”, added the aspirant who recently completed a Master’s in Conflict, Development and Security at the School of Politics and International Studies at the University of Leeds, UK.

    While the likes of Babaeko and other young aspirants may have to battle with the deep money politics that has characterized Nigeria’s political space, other analysts like Babatope Falade-Onikoyi, a knowledge economy advocate believes leadership should be about vision and not age.
    “The issue with older generation has never been their biology. It has been about ideas. Do we have ideas and frameworks that will change Nigeria? Leadership is not about age. It is about vision. What vision do we have other than disgust with the other generation?” Onikoyi queried.

    Reporting done as part of BudgIT media fellowship.

  • Behind the mad rush of young Nigerian men for older foreign women

    Behind the mad rush of young Nigerian men for older foreign women

    HAS Nigeria become the target of old European, American and Asian women in need of toy boys? The question is provoked by the increasing number of online pictures of young Nigerian men being joined in matrimony with older foreign women, some with an age difference as wide as 50 years. If there were doubts that physical attraction could play a role in the choice of a lover, one would need to hear Angela Nwachukwu, a 72- year-old British grandmother speak of her beau, a 27-year-old Nigerian simply identified as CJ. “He was so handsome, with big, brown eyes and a body to match,” she said. Six months after her marriage broke down and she became lonely and isolated, Angela found a friend’s request from Nwachukwu on Facebook, which she accepted. Their conversation progressed rapidly until it culminated in exchange of marital vows.

    In spite of their age difference of 50 years and the long distance between them, it was learnt that CJ popped the ‘will you marry me’ question to the British grandmother via Skype. The couple later wedded in Nigeria and had only seen each other twice because Mr. Nwachukwu was denied a tourist visa by the UK immigration authorities on grounds of insufficient financial backing. Mrs Nwachukwu said she had spent more than £20,000 on the wedding and flights as well as litigation to enforce her husband’s right to visit her in the UK. Trending on the social media these days are pictures of Nigerian toy boys proudly displaying their martial accomplishments with European and American ladies.

    In May this year, the story of a young Nigerian man estimated to have got married in his 20s made the rounds as she celebrated his sixth wedding anniversary with a much older European woman. Although the age of the woman in question was not stated, the photos estimate of the woman’s age could not be less than 60, based on her physical appearance. The groom, identified simply as Jonny, took to his social media page on May 24 to wish himself and his much older wife, identified as Brenda Skala, a happy sixth wedding anniversary.

    •A couple

    “My special day with a special number #6thanniversary,” Jonny wrote on Instragram, with Brenda also responding, “My dream come true love!” Better than slay mamas If you have doubts that older European or American ladies could be better than ‘slay mamas’, ask Muiz Adebiyi, a Nigerian man married to Susan Smith, an older American lady. When Adebiyi celebrated the second marriage anniversary of his union with Ms Smith, not a few Nigerians tongue-lashed him, prompting him to respond to the critics via an interview with a national newspaper and describing them as “haters”. While he would not disclose the age difference between him and his wife, he said he was attracted to her because of her calm nature, which made her a better choice than many ‘slay mamas’.

    “We had known each other for two years before we decided to get married three years after,” Adebiyi, a footballer and car dealer gleefully announced. “There were issues, but our family members later understood that age is just a number and that love does not have limit. We are quite in love and happy with ourselves. I never convinced anyone. I got happiness from what I did.” Describing her as the best woman after his mother, Adebiyi refused to answer questions posed to him on the likelihood of the union producing children.

    Cole and Michael

    This year alone, there have been more than 10 leaked photographs of younger Nigerian men who got married to older foreign women at the Ikoyi Registry in Lagos. A trader at the registry, who pleaded anonymity, said the trend has become rampant in recent times, and some of the marriages, though lacked parental consents, had the consents of family members and friends who often show up in colourful aso ebi (ceremonial uniform). With the way the trend is turning out, can it be safely assumed that inter-racial marital relationships between younger men and older women is usually a sweet sail without consequence? Not quite! Jane Cole, 58, met Michael, a 28-year-old Nigerian bartender in Gambia while she was on holiday in the tiny West Africa country.

    It was said that Michael’s charming and attentive nature drew her in immediately. As the relationship blossomed within a short while, Michael made it clear that he wanted something more than just a onenight stand while she was on holiday in the country. Completely sucked in, Jane agreed and he subsequently moved with her to the UK. It was not long after the couple arrived the UK that Jane began to question Michael’s loyalty, especially when he began to disappear for long periods. Her suspicion led her to trace a number that appeared frequently on his phone bill until she reached a woman with whom Michael had maintained a relationship with for six years. “When I confronted Michael, he just admitted it and laughed. I was devastated.

    My self-confidence sank to an all-time low. He had drained me of everything, both financially and emotionally.” The union crumbled with one of the parties feeling used and dumped. Commenting on the trend, a professor of Sociology at the Obafemi Awolowo University, Ile-Ife, Mabayoje Aluko, told The Nation that the few cases that have trended online are not sufficient to make generalisations that the trend is popular. He said: “If you compare this with the ‘baby mama’ phenomenon, you will discover that one is more widespread. We would hardly count 10 cases, so it is difficult to make generalisations that this kind of marriages are an emerging trend.

    “Also, we can’t just jump into conclusion to say it is love or it is not love. If we look at what is happening in Nigeria, especially the problem with the political economy, it is letting unusual behaviour to manifest, so much so that what one would not do ordinarily, people are doing it. Youths are not gainfully employed and people have this impression that unless you relocate elsewhere, you won’t make it. So it is like it could be a desperation factor adopted to survive harsh times,” he said. “Again if you look at it, you’ll notice that in Yoruba culture, for a 30-year-old boy to ask a 50-year-old woman out is unimaginable.

    An unnamed couple at the Ikoyi registry, Lagos

    These are some of the issues that we can use to generalise, but it has to do with some issues in the political economy and lack of opportunities on the part of the youth who are desperate to make it.” Femi Olutade, a youth counsellor who shared his thought on the issue, said marriage as an institution is built on the atmosphere created by the principal players, adding that a home cannot be built with money alone but with values and beliefs. Relating to whether age plays an important factor in a marriage relationship, he said: “It is not a matter of age. The real question here is what kind of result will these guys be producing which are the children whether biological or adopted? And even if the aim of the marriage is not to produce children, it will produce something in the lives of the players, because the result of marriage is not only seen in the children, it is also seen in the players, which are the parents.

    The reason is there’s no phase you go through in life that doesn’t leave a trace in your life.” He believes that the implication of the trend on the society depends on the motive of the youth who engage in such acts. “If the marriage is with clear, noble cause, it will surely have a good result. But if those guys are doing it for ulterior motives, the result will be devastating for the society. “Now, what I am saying it is right to marry someone old enough to be your grandmother? No. My point is this: marriage is an institution, a project. The man who receives the blueprint from God should through the help of God get the right resource for the job. This resource I’m talking about is not an individual; it is an unction created by God, and God can place that unction on any individual.”