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  • UPDATED: Police arrest 67 suspected homosexuals in Delta

    UPDATED: Police arrest 67 suspected homosexuals in Delta

    The police command in Delta has arrested 67 persons suspected to be homosexuals in Ekpan Community in Uvwie Local Government Area (LGA) of the state.

    The state Commissioner of Police, Mr Wale Abass, said this when he addressed newsmen on Tuesday at the Ekpan Police Station.

    Represented, by the spokesperson for the command, DSP Bright Edafe, Abass said that the suspects were apprehended on Sunday by a crack team of police operatives attached to the Ekpan division.

    He said that the suspects were nabbed during a gay wedding which they tagged, “all white party” at a popular hotel off Refinery Road, Uvwie LGA.

    He vowed to prosecute the suspects in line with Nigeria’s anti-gay law which prohibited same-sex marriage in the country.

    “On Aug. 27 at about 9;00 p.m., the patrol team of the Ekpan Police Station, while on a patrol intercepted a male cross-dresser suspect who claimed to be an actor.

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    “Upon interrogation, he confessed that he is a member of a certain gay club and that he was on his way to join his fellow members for a gay marriage ceremony.

    “Acting on intelligence gathered, the Divisional Police Officer (DPO) Ekpan division, CSP Aliyu Shaba, raided the hotel where some suspected gay members were holding a gay marriage ceremony,” he said.

    Abass said that the suspects upon sighting the police took to their heels, saying however, that the operatives were able to apprehend 67 of them

    “Same sex marriage (Prohibition) Act, 2013 kicked against gay in Nigeria. It is a grievous office.

    “We cannot copy the culture of the Western world and we must follow the rules of our land. Anti-gay law has been passed in Nigeria, no resident of the land has the right to go against the laws of the land.

    “I can guarantee that they will be charged to court. We are not taking it lightly. It is a clear case, though, they are still presumed innocent until proven otherwise by the competent court,” he said.

    The CP urged parents to monitor their wards closely in order to know the type of people they associated with.

    He said that the arrest and subsequent arraigning the suspects in court would served as a warning to others who may want to indulge in the illicit act.

    He said that items recovered at the venue included: one codeine bottle, three cups of refined Canadian loud, five sachets of SK, one sachet of tramadol, four tablets of molly drug, one crusher and gay marriage ceremonial dresses.

    Speaking, one of the suspect, Daniel Pius said he was a fashion designer and not a gay.

    “I am not a gay, I am a fashion designer, I do makeup and other things that relate to female attires,” he said.

    (NAN)

  • Shocking confessions of adolescent homosexuals living with HIV

    TWENTY-SIX-YEAR-OLD Mike wears an innocent look. He is highly trusted by his parents who believe that he would never keep them in the dark about anything concerning his life. But contrary to the parents’ conviction, he is a homosexual; a practice he adopted from a tender age but has kept away from them.

    Besides being a homosexual, the young man is also living with the HIV virus; another matter he has kept away from his parents’ knowledge. Even on occasions when the parents voice out their concern for people living with HIV, Mike joins them to do so without them knowing that their son is also a victim.

    “I knew about my status in 2013 and started treatment the same year,” he said.

    “I was 21 years old when I discovered that I am HIV-positive. I was a little bit sober when I learnt about it, but at the same time, I was well informed about HIV before I did the test. Before then, I was a member of dedication peers educating and sensitising people about HIV. So, when I learnt about mine, it wasn’t much of a problem because I had good information about it. I just felt that life must go on.”

    Asked how his parents reacted to his HIV status, Mike responded: “My parents are not in any way aware of it. I haven’t told them because I feel they do not have good information about HIV. They still feel that the virus is a death sentence because it is incurable.”

    Telling our correspondent how he contracted the virus, Mike said: “I am convinced that I got the virus through sex and no other means. I am gay, but I do show feelings for females too. I grew up being a homosexual. When I was about 12 years old, I started admiring boys like me as if they were females. I started practising homosexuality while I was still in primary school.

    “In those days, we would only admire and touch each other. If there was no one at home, we would engage in some plays, saying your thing is bigger than mine. Gradually, it developed into full blown homosexuality.

    “We do go to hotels or friends’ houses to have fun. We prefer going to a friend’s house because privacy is more guaranteed there than in a hotel. When I am in need, I approach my sex partners and they assist with whatever they have.”

    Asked how he woos his same sex partners into a relationship, Mike said: “It is not about approaching the other person. It is by contact. When we see each other, the body chemistry tells us we are one.”

    Completely ruling out the thought of getting married, he said: “I don’t want to marry. I want to enjoy my life to the fullest.”

    While Mike is unruffled about his status, he is greatly disturbed by reports of foreign donors withdrawing their support for HIV treatment.

    He said: “People will go mad and mentally upset if donors withdraw. Do you know how much the drug costs? Apart from people dying, if foreign donors withdraw, many victims will start doing what they are not supposed to do just to survive.

    “Death is secondary in this matter, because I believe that if you are going to die, it will take a long while. Imagine somebody earning N15,000 a month and has to pay N10,000 a month for the drug. How would he cope? It will cause many more to sleep around, and it is not everybody who wants to sleep with you wants protected sex. Some people are ready to pay N100,000 to make love without any protection.

     

    Like Mike, like others

    Mike is not alone in the business of keeping his parents in the dark about his status. Another victim, Onoja, does.

    Onoja said: “I became aware of my HIV status in 2014 at the age of 18. My parents are not aware of my status because I don’t want them to start thinking about my problem. It is my problem and not theirs. From my estimation, I think I became positive through sexual intercourse.

    I became bi-sexual by force and not by choice, because I would need to get married one day and have children because of my mum and dad.

    “Even if I don’t get married, someone will get pregnant for me. If I am in another country where there is understanding, I will not be bi-sexual. I am gay. Nobody initiated me into it. It has been in me right from the time I started having feelings for the opposite sex; I also started having feelings for people of same sex too. So, I started practising homosexuality with my neighbours. Whenever we were doing drama as children, I would be the wife and another boy would be the husband. We would start touching from there.

    “I had my first homosexual relationship have had many other same sex partners thereafter. I was already into it while I was in secondary school, but we never went beyond touching each other. But when I left school, I started having intercourse and became HIV-positive.”

    Speaking on his challenge as an HIV victim, Onoja said: “The challenge I have is that I have to hide to take my medication in the house so that my parents would not know about it. I am also very much afraid about the issue of donors withdrawing. If that happens, what would happen to people like us? The government should see how they can work with the funders

    “I have colleagues who have died but I feel that they died because they wanted to. This is because they refused to go for treatment. Others were not taking their medications regularly and these are medications that you must take every day and at a particular time. If you stop taking them, the virus will get stronger and compound your health condition. Some of our colleagues still engage in unprotected sex. “

    It was another disturbing revelation when our correspondent spoke with Robinson who unequivocally declared that he was gay.

    He said: “I am a gay. I became a homosexual when I was in SS1. Nobody introduced me to it. I just found myself having sexual feelings for people of the same sex. But I didn’t practise it then. I started practising it in 2013.

    “It was from this that I got HIV virus, because nobody taught me about safe sex. Some of my sex partners may be having the virus too. But I stopped engaging in unprotected sex with my partners immediately I became aware of my status.”

    Like his peers, Robinson said his parents were also not aware of his nature as a gay and his HIV status.

    “I tested positive in 2015 but I started treatment a year later. I was 25 years old then. My parents are not aware of my status. I didn’t tell them because I don’t know how they would react to it. I was seeing horrible things the first day I took my anti-retroviral drug.”

    He said he would only get married for the purpose of pleasing his parents. “I would want to get married in future because of family pressure and belief system. Otherwise, I would not want to get married. I want to be a surrogate father. Marriage is not what I want.”

     

    Peculiar case

    For Gabriel, the story is a bit different as he is not a homosexual. But he told our correspondent that his status as a person living with HIV has changed his sexual orientation.

    He said: “I knew about my status in November 2015. I knew about it when I went with to a friend’s organisation on Ireti Street, Yaba, Lagos. I don’t want to tell my parents about it. Their reaction could be to throw me out of the house or disown me or try to know how I got the virus. That kind of reaction will affect me mentally and emotionally and that could hinder me from handling the challenge.

    “I do have sexual urge and everybody has to handle it his own way. I am now asexual. I have sex with myself and I am satisfied. I know I can use condom but I won’t. I do have fears about my status. Who wouldn’t? I lost a victim colleague and it was very painful to me. When the fear of death strikes you, you would imagine that you could be next.”

    Gabriel also dismissed the idea of getting married, saying: “Marriage is not on my mind. I just want to be successful. I don’t want to see myself getting married even in the future because I don’t want to put a burden on another person. I just want to be on my own. Ninety per cent of me is saying no to marriage.”

     

    Violated by reckless landlord

    It was a completely different story with Adesola, a lady living with the HIV virus. She has gone through humiliation, violation and rejection after she tested positive to HIV.

    Reliving her ordeal, Adesola said: “I knew about my status in 2013. It began when I started falling sick in 2011. It started with a cut, then big boils and serious coughing. I started taking codeine to take care of it to no avail. The challenge resulted in sleepless nights.

    “At a point, my body started itching and it was always as if a screw driver was going through my skin. Pus and blood always came out of the itchy spots.

    “I was 19 years old when I discovered my status. The hospital told my mother about it after I was admitted but I didn’t even know. It was a friend that sent a text message to me that I am HIV-positive. The hospital didn’t get my consent before telling anybody about my status. Outsiders knew about my status before I did.”

    With her status already a public issue, Adesola said she faced serious stigmatisation even among his sibblings. “My mother wasn’t hostile to me but my siblings were. My younger sister who was initially on my side later turned against me. I got stigmatised everywhere around me. I faced hell and slept in the passage for two years in my grandfather’s house, all because I am HIV-positive.”

    Added to the pains of being stigmatised, Adesola tearfully recalls how a neighbour she sought shelter in his room violated her.

    She said: “When I was discharged from the hospital and had to sleep in the passage, there was a heavy rain on one of the nights and I could not cope with the weather condition. I had to go and beg our neighbour to allow me sleep in his room. But he took advantage of that and violated me. I got pregnant and had a four-year-old girl as a result of that. The man didn’t know my status. I didn’t get married to him and I don’t even know where he has been in the past four years.

    “The manner I had my baby was not a good thing, but my girl is making me feel on top of the world.  The way I got the pregnancy was not a good way at alI; I was violated.

    “I will educate my child about my status. I will let her know I was positive when I got her pregnancy. I will make her understand that being positive is not the end of the world. I will make her understand that HIV is even better than malaria.”

    In spite of the unpleasant experience, she said: “I want to get married. I really wish to get married.”

    She also expressed concern about dwindling support from foreign donors. “It gives me fears. In my own facility, we don’t pay to get treatment. But in some facilities, they have been paying for the past two years. Some pay between N5,000 and N6,000, and these are people who cannot afford a square meal  a day for themselves.

    “The implication is simply massive death. Those without strong immune system will consequently drop to the second line. I can say that 60 per cent of people living with HIV do not have good jobs.”

  • Rising gay culture and the threat of  HIV spread

    Rising gay culture and the threat of HIV spread

    Gboyega Alaka takes a look at the  arrest of 40 homosexuals in Lagos; the report that they all tested positive for HIV and the danger it portends for society.

    FOR many Nigerians, homosexuality still seems like some foreign pastime, biblical rhetoric or a myth. Well, you may not really blame them. They just have never met anyone who openly declared himself gay nor caught anyone in the act. The socio-cultural idiosyncrasies and religions that frown at the act and see it as an imported aberration and a perversion have also ensured that those who are inclined to the habit never come out ‘to show their faces.’

    The situation got more precarious for them a few years back, when the Senate, then led by David Mark, outlawed the act, and stipulated 14 years  imprisonment for offenders.

    Forty-eight-year-old Samson Adejumo, who lives around an hotel off Owode-Onirin Bus Stop along Ikorodu Highway, where 40 gay men were arrested late July, while responding to questions from The Nation, said he had never encountered a gay person all his life. “Yes, I’ve always heard that they exist, but I have never met anyone who is gay or who confesses to being one. Yes, I’ve met a few people who behave in a sheepish, queer way, but they end up getting married and having children, and often deny or even fight those who label them gay. So it was a surprise to me when I saw those boys and men rounded up by the police as gay that Sunday afternoon.”

    Indeed, the image of the male homosexuals, who were paraded during the hearing of their case early August, was a reality check to many, who like Adejumo, still live in denial.

    Newspapers and online medium had widely reported that scores of homosexuals – both adults and minors, were ‘caught in the act’ and arrested by men of the Nigeria police at a popular hotel along Ikorodu Highway in Lagos.

    A gentleman, who works as an auto mechanic around the hotel, who witnessed the arrest, said he couldn’t believe there are such huge population of gay people in the society.

    According to the man, who’d not reveal his name nor allow his picture taken, he has always heard that there are men sleeping with men, and women sleeping with women, but has never really seen such. However, he said their arrest on the day and their mannerism indeed shows that they are a peculiar set of people.

    “Some of them, though men, were behaving like women. I learn they were arrested for sleeping with each other in the hotel. How can men be sleeping with men? The bible condemns it. And I think even our law is against it. How on earth did they become so large in number? Some say they were holding a meeting…. Meeting of what?”

    Hotel or haven of homosexuality

    When this reporter went on an investigative spree mid-week to the said hotel to see if indeed it is a haven for homosexual activities, he was literally disappointed. Vintage Hotel, with no visible sign post, is located by the weigh bridge off Owode Onirin bus-stop. It is tucked in between a scrap iron market, auto mechanic yards and Toyin Close, a rather quiet residential area. The motive for the visit was to conduct a clandestine investigation into the gay activities in the hotel and see if holding their ‘meeting’ at the hotel meant more of these people live in the area or around. If so, just how do their activities affect the area? Are there fears of any negative impact of such activities on the residents, especially the young ones?

    But a petit gentleman, who welcomed this reporter to the hotel and admitted to being a staff in the hotel, said he was not on duty the day the arrest was made. He admitted that indeed there was an arrest but denied knowing any other thing about the incident. On the pretext that he was out to see the rooms and get their prices for an upcoming event, this reporter was able to get the gentleman to take him round the facility. While reeling out the prices of the rooms, he quickly chipped in rather casually, “No be this hotel them arrest some gay people the other day?”

    “Yes o”, he replied, “But me I no dey duty that day.”

    But were they having a party or how come they were in such a large number? Were they caught having sex or how could the police have known what they were doing from their station?

    To this, the gentleman said, “Oga na information now. You no know say police dey work with information?”

    He however insisted that the people were not having sex and were not regulars at the hotel. From what he heard when he resumed work the following day, the men were only there for a meeting and were not doing anything obscene, when the police busted them.

    He also showed him a rather large hall at the back of the one-storey lodging section, where he said weddings and other events take place.

    “Would that be the hall where the homosexuals were holding their meeting (or party)?” This reporter again chipped in.

    But obviously getting impatient with the line of questioning, he simply chose not to respond to this one.

    From his body language, it was clear that he and the other couple of staff on ground had been warned about divulging information, as he seemed guarded in his response, despite his enthusiasm to seal business.

    “If you want to know the price of the hall, you can wait a while; our madam will soon come” were his parting words, as he left this reporter to his can of Origin Zero drink and returned to chatting with his colleagues.

    I’m not aware of gay activities at the hotel

    An elderly man working in the mechanic yard adjacent the hotel, who preferred anonymity, however said he has never seen any sign that  homosexual activities take place in the hotel.

    “To tell you the truth, nothing really happens at that hotel, save for couples who trickle in there to have nice time. Outside that, it’s always quiet, except for weekends, when people come to use the hall for weddings or other social functions,” he said.

    He was not around when the arrest was made, since it was on a Sunday. He only resumed the next day, Monday, to be regaled with stories of how hordes of men suspected to be homosexuals were arrested at the hotel.

    But do the homosexuals live around and do they flaunt their trade around for clients?

    To this, he said no. He has never seen any gay prostitute around the area in all his years of working there.

    A well-dressed middle-aged man, who gave his name as Matthew and said he lives nearby, said it is a good thing the men were rounded up. “I would not want a case where people of such despicable habit would gain ground in this area, to the extent that they’ll now begin to influence our children.”

    But another man, also a worker in the auto yard, cut in, “If you’re talking about those gay people that were arrested here the other day, I also cannot remember seeing them around, but I know that they exist. If you go to Yaba, around Sabo area, where we have the new cinema, there are a lot of them there, who hang around the area to look for partners. Another place where you’d see them in good numbers is in the north. I lived in the north for a while, and I knew people who were gay and never pretended about it. Initially, I was shocked, especially because their religion, Islam, frowns at it, but it is their own way of life and people let them be, even though they find them repulsive.”

    He however said what he finds really scary is the fact that these people serve as a major transmission route for the dreaded HIV/AIDS disease. “I learnt that it is through this unholy act that AIDS started and has continued to spread. Surely, if they can stop this homosexual thing, maybe AIDS will go away.”

    He also lamented the quick release of the men, fearing that they are like walking time bombs, reasoning that “if indeed these men came from different parts of the state to hold their party or meeting at the hotel, then it means their respective localities are endangered.”

    Fear of HIV spread

    Indeed gay and bi-sexual men are said to be more severely affected by HIV than any other group in the United States. According to a Fast facts on HIV Among Gay and Bisexual Men, published by that country’s Centres for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), HIV diagnoses decreased in the United States by 19% overall between 2005 and 2014, but increased 6% among all gay and bisexual men, driven by increases among African American and Hispanic/Latino gay and bisexual men.

    It states further that “Gay, bisexual, and other men who have sex with men made up an estimated 2% of the population but 55% of people living with HIV in the United States in 2013.” It also states that 1 in 6 gay and bisexual men will be diagnosed with HIV in their lifetime, including 1 in 2 black African American gay and bisexual men, 1 in 4 Hispanic/Latino gay and bisexual men and 1 in 11 white gay and bisexual men.

    A more scary scenario would however be the 2014 numbers, which states that gay and bisexual men accounted for 83% (29,418) of the estimated new HIV diagnoses among all males aged 13 and older and 67% of  the total estimated new diagnoses in the United States.

    Explaining how HIV spread in another article, the CDC wrote: “Anal sex is the highest-risk sexual behaviour,” followed by vaginal sex, having multiple sex partners or other STDs that can increase the chances of infection and “sharing needles, syringes, rinse water, or other equipment (works) used to make injectable drugs with someone who has HIV.”

    That article lists oral sex as the least means of contracting the virus.

    Danger looms

    A popular national daily recently reported that all 40 arrested homosexuals, when put through HIV screening, tested positive to the highly dreaded virus. This is 100% growth/spread rate and a far scary scenario. Aside confirming the fact that homosexuality is a major means by which the disease spreads, it suggests that every time homosexuals copulate with new partners, chances of them transmitting the disease to a new index case is one hundred percent. And the situation is worsened if such carrier individual is bisexual and goes home to copulate with his spouse or girlfriends.

    The fact that the suspects have all been released on bail even spells greater danger for the society. That report also suggests that the suspects might have been quickly released from the prison due to fears of them copulating with other inmates in the prison and spreading the virus.

    One of the warders was said to have confessed that it would have been a disaster had the suspected homosexuals been remanded in the prison. ‘You can imagine the disaster if these suspected homosexuals were transferred to this prison.” He reportedly said.

    Already, there has been news that one of the suspects already slept with an inmate during their brief incarceration in the facility, meaning that another dangerous seed may have been sewn.

     

  • Updated: 2 blind men bag 6 years for sexually abusing 2 boys

    A Minna Magistrates’ Court on Thursday sentenced two blind homosexuals to a total of six years imprisonment without an option of fine for sexually abusing two boys.

    The Magistrate, Hajiya Hauwa Yusuf, handed down the verdict after the duo of Idris Usman popularly called Bagobiri and Abubakar Sadiq pleaded guilty to the charge.

    She sentenced each of them to three years in jail.

    Earlier, Police Prosecutor Abdullahi Mayaki told the court that the accused committed the offence sometime in December 2016.

    Mayaki said the accused had enticed two boys of ages 10 and 12 with N50 and N100 respectively before assaulting them sexually.

    The offence, he said, contravened Section 19 of the Niger State Child Rights Law (Sexual Abuse and Exploitation).

    Mayaki said under the law the accused should have been sentenced to 14 years imprisonment but noted that the sentence was reduced to six years because the accused persons had pleaded guilty and asked for leniency.

    The Director General of the State Child Rights Agency, Hajiya Mairam Kolo, who was in court, applauded the judgment.

    She commended the magistrate for ensuring that justice was done which, she said, would serve as a deterrent to others.  (NAN)

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  • ‘How the church can help homosexuals, lesbians’

    Same-sex practitioners and promoters need love, not outright condemnation, chairman of the Christian Association of Nigeria (CAN), South West region, Archbishop Magnus Atilade, has stated.

    He challenged the church to treat homosexuals and lesbians as helpless sinners who need redemption.

    Atilade said the church should set up effective counselling mechanisms that will rescue same-sex practitioners, instead of the current trend of condemning them.

    According to him: “We should not condemn same sex advocates and practitioners.

    “We should show them love and understanding. The last thing the need is condemnation.

    “We should see rescuing them as part of our mission as a church. Some of them can’t help themselves.

    “The church should offer counselling and rehabilitation plans just as we do for drug addicts and prostitutes.”

    Atilade, a medical practitioner, said he encountered many homosexuals and lesbians while practising in the United States of America (USA).

    Giving insights into how they behave, he said: “By coordination, orientation and acclamation, some of them are conditioned to think like that.

    “They have psychological problems and cannot help themselves. We should expect what they do as a wrong choice but we shouldn’t condemn them,” he explained.

    He said the church should set up special rehabilitation units for same-sex victims so that they can be redeemed.

  • Museveni on homosexuals

    Both President Goodluck Jonathan and President Yoweri Museveni of Uganda are generally classed as homophobic. But while the former has tended to avoid being pinned down openly on the issue, which both countries’ parliaments have passed laws on, the latter has been eager to place himself dialectically on record. And, boy, was he articulate on CNN last week! It does not matter which side of the divide you are, as far as polemics go, Mr Museveni put his arguments together cogently, logically and fearlessly. I admire such people, who whether they are wrong or right always have the courage of their convictions. We already know where he stands, but could the much less intrepid and less eloquent Dr Jonathan please put himself on record verbally in the noisome controversy?

  • Homosexuals: What Pope Francis didn’t say

    The world is going gay! Each new day another country endorses same sex marriage. Each new day, world leaders, Christian leaders and even our iconic Archbishop Desmond Tutu have continued to make room for and extend the conjugal rights of same sex people. While the moral majority is nigh being at the receiving end now, it faces an imminent danger of a harmful role reversal. Still nonplussed and trying hard to come to terms with what is obviously a gay revolution, the Catholic Pontiff, Pope Francis weighs in in favour of gays and dampens the spirit of heterosexuals who are now derisively called ‘homophobes’.

    In a chat with journalists after a tour of Brazil recently, the pope declared that even though homosexual acts are sin, people with homosexual orientation must not be ‘judged’ or ‘marginalised’. “If a person is gay and seeks God and has goodwill, who am I to judge him,” the pope said. “The Catechism of the Catholic Church explains this very well. It says they should not be marginalized because of this (orientation) but that they must be integrated into society,” he said. In other words, homosexual act may be sinful, homosexual orientation is not by itself wrong or sinful? But is it possible to have homosexual orientation without committing homosexual acts?

    Surely, hardly any man can claim to be more Catholic or even Christian than the pope but the point that must be made here is that this remark from the pope represents the single most important endorsement to be enjoyed by people with gay tendencies across the world. Has the dam finally broken, has the last vestiges of resistance to what is clearly an aberrant human behavior been lost? Man and man (or woman and woman) living together and cohabiting is abhorrent to humanity and sinful in the sight of our Christian God. It is not about marginalizing or judging, it is about repudiating our creator and the grave danger this act portends for humanity now, in the future and in the hereafter.

    Homosexuals will always remain people who have deviated from the natural course of God, they need help – psychological and spiritual help. For this reason, I reproduce below, an article by William Consiglio, titled: “Understanding Homosexuality” published on page1081 of the Parents Resource Bible. I have taken the liberty to modify the title thus:

    Help for homosexuals

    God’s word is truthful, and we can rely on it. It reveals God’s standards about life and human sexuality. In Romans 1: 24-27 we can see four moral and spiritual truths about homosexuality.

    Homosexuality is a behavior. The Bible never calls homosexuality an identity or an alternative sexuality created by God. The Word says: “Women… indulged in sex… with each other. And the men… doing the shameful things with other men…” (v.26-27).

    Homosexuality is a sinful behavior. Sinful means that such a behavior is displeasing to God. The Word says: “God let them go ahead in every sort of sex sin” (v. 24).

    Homosexuality is a substitute for God’s natural plan. God’s Word says that “ even their women turned against God’s natural plan” (v. 26). God created all people to be heterosexuals. Homosexuality is a spiritual and emotional disorientation, deviation and disorder in his plan.

    As with all sin, the root of homosexual behavior is caused and maintained by those who refuse to honour God. “They knew about him all right but they wouldn’t admit it or worship him or even thank him for all his daily care” (v.21). All sin is a turning away from God. All healing comes from a return to God. Spiritually and morally, homosexuality is a sinful behavior that distorts God’s natural plan for human sexuality.

    Homosexuality is not the unforgivable sin. It is important to understand that homosexual behavior has emotional and psychological roots. While homosexuality is sin, it is not the unforgivable sin. God knows that all of us are sinners, prone to emotional wounding and disordered behavior

    John 8: 1-11 contains the story of an adulterous woman who was brought before Jesus. If this had been a homosexual person, what would Jesus have done? Jesus loved the woman just as he loves all sinners, including homosexuals. He forgave her and commanded her to stop sinning. He said, “Neither do I (condemn you). Go and sin no more” (John 8:11) God loves homosexual people and call them to repent and be healed. He seeks their conversion and not their shame and ruin.

    There is healing for those overcoming homosexuality. How can those struggling with homosexuality “sin no more”? How can they change their feelings, behavior and life-style? There are six elements to an effective healing program for Christians who are overcoming homosexuality:

    •The overcommer needs personal relationship with God the Father through Jesus Christ. He or she needs to become a child of God. Only Jesus can give the overcomer this relationship to God because as he says, “no one can get to the father except by means of me” (John 14:6). “To all who received him (Jesus), he gave the right to become children of God” (John 1:12).

    • The overcomer needs a personal life that includes regular study and meditation on God’s word and a vital life of prayer.

    • The overcomer needs to be actively involved in a good Bible teaching/preaching church that offers fellowship and nurture in Christian holiness.

    • The overcomer needs a good Christian friend or married couple with whom to share burdens and be held accountable…

    • The overcomer needs to be committed to professional Christian counseling to learn about the roots of homosexuality, gain personal insight, and work through emotional healing.

    • Finally, the overcomer needs to be involved in a group support ministry with other overcomers. It provides HOPE – a place of Honesty, Openness, Prayer, and Encouragemnet. God loves the overcomer, so there is plenty of hope for those trying to overcome.

    LAST MUG: Fani-Kayode goes off the hook

    It is shocking that so much hatred and bigotry had remained percolated in some people all these year and that those demons were all this while looking for an opportunity to break free. One of such is as manifested in Femi Fani-Kayode’s interminable diatribe: “The bitter truth about the Igbo in Nigeria.” Surely it could not be this small matter of ‘deportation’ of 14 Igbo people to Onitsha that brought about this unhinging. Femi has created an ethnic mud-fight where none really existed and he is reveling in it all by his self.

    But one is pushed to interject his fun when he went so low as to release a shortlist (or is that his long list?) of all the (Igbo) women he enjoyed ‘intimate’ relationship with in his wild-oat sowing years. Gush, did Femi have to name names of women who are now married and running families? We thought this was the antics of excitable high school boys newly exploiting their libidinal prowess. To think that this is a one-minister in this country! I think opinion molders will do well to show a little more restraint when they put pen to paper.