Tag: INSTITUTION

  • Infrastructure: Ogun to power institution with solar

    Infrastructure: Ogun to power institution with solar

    In furtherance of its infrastructure development in Ogun, the state government has concluded plans to power the newly- established Ogun State Polytechnic, Ipokia, with solar energy. This will not only guarantee uninterrupted power supply, but also is a part of its rural development strategy.

    The solar power system, said the Commissioner for Works and Infrastructure, Mr. Olamilekan Adegbite, will be installed by an Independent Power Provider (IPP), under a Public-Private Partnership (PPP).

    In a statement issued by the Head of Media in the Works and Infrastructure Ministry, Mr. Ayokunle Ewuoso, the commissioner was reported to have said the institution’s neighbours would also benefit from the solar power system.

    Adegbite explained that the firm selected for the project was one of the 12 Independent Power Providers earlier screened and certified to provide electricity for the state.

    “Government has decided to allocate five hectares of land to tqhe IPP out of the 400 hectares allocated for the institution. The IPP needs a large expanse of land where it will install the solar panels. This is from where the solar energy will be transmitted to the institution and its environs. What we want to achieve in all of these is to provide uninterrupted power supply to the school and equally allow the immediate environment benefits, though it will not be free,” he explained, adding that barring any unforseen circumstances, the institution will be completed by next year.

  • Community,institution sign MoU on project

    The Akure community and the Federal College of Agriculture (FECA) Akure, the Ondo State capital, have signed a Memorandum of Understanding (MoU) on the location of a new civic centre for the community within the premises of the institution.

    The project tagged “Akure Civic and Outreach Centre”, is being funded by the Federal Government and would be handed over to the Akure community upon completion.

    According to a statement signed by the Secretary, Civic Centre Committee (CCC), Prince Ebenezer Adeniyan, the project was included in last year’s budget of the Federal Government and was facilitated by a lawmaker representing Akure South/Akure North Federal Constituency, Afe Olowookere.

    The modern Civic and Outreach Centre will be located on the western corridor of the premises of the expansive college which adjourns two major roads (the Akure-Owo highway and the Agbogbo-Okeijebu Road).

    The Deji of Akure, Oba Aladetoyinbo Aladelusi, had set up a committee to secure a befitting location for the project, with the committee later recommending that particular portion of the FECA land.

    The approval of the part of the land for the project was conveyed to the school authority and the Akure community by the Agricultural Research Council of Nigeria, (ARCN), which supervises the institution.

    Consequently, the community and the management of the school endorsed an MoU to signal the beginning of the construction of the centre.

    The Legal Adviser of the ARCN, Barrister Ibrahim Nduku, led the team of the college, while the Akure community was represented by the Chairman and Secretary of its Civic Centre Committee, Hon Patrick Ojo and Prince Ebenezer Adeniyan, respectively.

    Oba Aladetoyinbo thanked the Provost of the institution, Dr. Samson Odedina, for his co-operation and support for the project and his various achievements in the college.

  • ‘Traditional institution can curb insecurity’

    ‘Traditional institution can curb insecurity’

    Newly appointed Head of Civil Service in Gombe State Dr. Daniel Musa has made a case for traditional administrators, saying they can help curb insecurity if strengthened by constitutional provision.

    He said, “From what we’ve seen so far, it is important that the traditional institution should be given a responsibility, a non-political responsibility because they are for everybody and are not supposed to take sides in political matters.

    “In issues that pertain to security, I think the traditional institution should be given a constitutional responsibility. It is good that who is coming into our domain at any particular time is known; where he is coming from, what brought him to the town, who is he associating with, how long he would be staying, and so on and so forth, as was the case in days past when the institution was stronger.

    “These days, people come in and go out at will without even the ‘Mai Anguar’ (Ward Head) knowing, not to talk of the Emir. I think if we are able to do that, we will be able to curb some of these insurgent behaviours that we’ve been having: kidnappings and the Boko Haram insurgency that we’ve been suffering from. I believe if the traditional institution is strengthened by way of constitutional provisions, they will play a great role in curbing some of these vices that are bedeviling our society.”

    Dr. Musa spoke at Deba, headquarters of Yamaltu-Deba Local Government Area of the state, after he was turbaned as the Kaigama, Deba Emirate – the Chief Adviser to the Emirate

    Speaking at the occasion, the Emir of Deba, Retired Lt.-Col. Abubakar Waziri Mahdi said the bearer of the title ‘Kaigama’ would play an advisory role in the Emirate.

    He said Dr. Musa was chosen for the role because of his wealth of experience, intelligence and knowledge, urging him to bring these qualities to bear in assisting the Emirate with progressive ideas and advice.

    The royal father informed the newly installed chief that the responsibilities of the traditional council were 24 hours service and there are no weeks or days off.

    A close associate of the Head of Service, Habu Zarma Hinna, an Independent National Electoral Commission (INEC) Resident Electoral Commissioner who doubles as the Zarman of both Hinna and Yamaltu from Yamaltu Emirate, thanked the Emir of Deba for the honour bestowed on his friend.

    He said, “It is something of pride that people like the Kaigama and many other illustrious sons of the land are taking pride in accepting responsibilities within our communities to uphold our tradition and to assist in the smooth administration of our land. I want to say congratulations to the new Kaigama of Deba. He has been tested and found worthy that he can do even better than we deem fit in this capacity as the Kaigaman, Deba.

    “I know he will be a good councillor to the Emir and of good assistance to the entire people of Deba Emirate, Yamaltu Emirate and the state at large.”

    The new title bearer was thankful to God for the gift of life and the opportunity, as well as the people of Deba and all those that came to felicitate with me

    He appreciated the Emir of Deba, of whom he said: “I don’t know what to tell him. Actually he took me by surprise. He has given me a very big responsibility and I want to thank him for the confidence he had in me to have given me such responsibility.

    “It is a responsibility that entails you looking far and wide and see that whatever is good for the people of Deba, you work out how you can bring it so that they can benefit from it. And I promise that I will do my best to discharge the responsibility to the best of my ability and in the interest of the people of Deba and the state at large.

    “It is indeed surprising to me but I have accepted it because God has designed that it is going to be so and I thank God for everything,” he said.

    Born to the late Reverend Musa in 1958, the Kaigaman Deba who was also appointed the Head of Gombe State Civil Service a few months ago, has promised to use both offices in promoting the ideals and interests of both the emirate as well as the people of the state and the state at large.

    “As Kaigama, I am to advise His Royal Highness the Emir; and from time to time, he will be giving me assignments to carry out for him; and whatever assignment he gives, I’m expected to put in my best in the interest of the Emirate and state.

     

  • Institution trains artisans on foundation work

    The Nigerian Institution of Structural Engineers (NIStructE) has resolved to train young engineers and other artisans in foundation construction to curb building collapse.

    Its President, OreOluwa Fadayomi, said this while declaring open a three-day course on “Application of sub-soil investigation results to design of different foundation types and piled foundation integrity tests.”

    The course was organised by the institution in Lagos, last week.

    Fadayomi noted that the collapse of buildings in recent times has become very embarrassing to professionals, regretted that since some artisan and construction practitioners are not well grounded in what they do, it therefore becomes imperative that as qualified professionals, they should train the younger ones and share experiences they have garnered over the years.

    While urging participants at the training to share their knowledge with their colleagues, he said it is possible for other professionals to hide their mistakes, but for engineers, it is difficult as it will result into loss of lives and investments.

    Course Coordinator and Vice-President of the institution, Dr Kehinde Osifala, in his welcome address, said the need for continous development of technical manpower coupled with the need to reduce the spate of building collapses necessitated the course.

    The training, Osifala assured, would be a continuous exercise, and tailored to other aspects of engineering, with another one focused on addressing supervision in construction work.

    The course focused on sub soil investigation and laboratory tests; interpretation of subsoil investigation; foundation types and areas/situations of applicability and pile loading and integrity tests among others, also involved site visit.

  • Stakeholders push for ICT expansion in tertiary institution

    Stakeholders in the tertiary education have identified Information and Communication Technology ICT as the only means of expanding access to tertiary institutions in Nigeria.

    This was the resolve  of participants who converged in Abuja for the 2015 Conference on Technology Assisted Learning jointly organised by the National Universities Commission (NUC), American University of Nigeria (AUN) and the Digital Promise Foundation.

    Speaking on transiting from obsolete teaching method to ICT, the Executive Secretary of National Universities Commission, Prof. Julius Okojie, urged stakeholders in the university system to key into the ongoing change in the country, by addressing key problems of access and quality of the sector.

    “We have about 2.4 million students in Nigerian universities and over 1.8 million students still seeking admission every year bearing in mind that we only have 500,000 spaces. Then the question arise on creating more access and knowing that we have 140 universities out of which 61 are private, and 39 are state-owned. We need more access”

    Based on the foregoing, Okojie suggested that the National Open University of Nigeria (NOUN) should be strengthened and encouraged more in the use of ICT for its teaching and learning exercise.

    “ICT of course will improve the quality of students produced by our universities and will also enhance teachers quality. What we need basically is how to ensure expansion of access into the tertiary institutions.”

    On the establishment of a common platform for sharing advance technology among universities in Nigeria, the Secretary General of Committee of Vice Chancellor, Prof Micheal Faborode, urged the Federal Government to rescue Nigeria Research Education Network (NgRen) which according to him, is in comatose due to insufficient fund to strengthen the network.

    “NgRen is a very good platform that is expected to connect all universities on the same platform to share research materials and exchange ideas on University system if not only now that is in a comatose state and needs funding to avoid its present dwindling state, NgRen will also allow universities to key into e- learning,” Faborode said.

    The Keynote speaker and the Former Executive Secretary of NUC, Prof. Peter Okebukola, who spoke on ‘ICT in the Nigeria Education Sector: its current state and future prospects’ said the current curriculum in Nigerian schools is not keeping pace with the current revolutions in advance technology.

    Okebukola identified weak capacity of school administrators and inertia to change from analogue to digital frame of mind, as hindrance to full adoption of ICT in Nigeria schools.

    He recommended capacity building for teachers and school administrators in ICT to enhance teaching, research and school management.

    “NUC should initiate and sustain capacity building in ICT for teaching, research and management for vice chancellors, and all universities teachers in specialised field,” Okebukola said.

     

  • Institution tackles corruption

    An anti-graft unit has been set up at Federal Polytechnic, Oko in Anambra State to tackle corruption in the institution.

    Dishonest conduct in its various forms is said to have become quite an issue at the federal institution located in Anambra North Local Government Area of the state.

    As a result, the institution in collaboration with Independent Corrupt practices and other Offences Commission (ICPC) has set up what they called Anti- Corruption and Transparency Unit (ACTU) to fight the monster.

    Oko Federal Polytechnic has survived many turbulent periods and stood the test of the time, growing from strength to strength.

    The institution is one of the fastest developing tertiary institutions in the country, drawing strength from the synergy and cooperation with various universities within and outside the country including Sharda University, Greater Noida, India.

    The flag-off of the anti-graft unit at the school attracted the institution’s management staff, an ICPC team, Federal Character Commission personnel and the Chairman, Aguata Traditional Rulers Council, Igwe Col. O. O Muoghalu of Isuofia.

    Before the inauguration, Rev. Victor Uzuakpunwa of the Chapel of Light Church had committed the school and its management in the hands of God.

    The nine-member (ACTU) led by Mrs. Nnenna Nwobi, who were taught the ICPC slogan by the leader of the graft agency Ezeh Nwafor “shun corruption, it is evil”

    Addressing the people, the Rector of the institution, Prof Godwin Onu, said that since the inception of the current administration of the school, the institution has been put on a turnaround plane with the introduction of digitization.

    According to Onu, “we are digitalizing every process in the Polytechnic so as to eliminate bottlenecks experienced in the discharge of official business”.

    “In the course of doing this, we realized that if we must succeed we must tackle the issue of corruption headlong as it has become endemic in the system”.

    “Virtualy all aspects of public life have an element of corruption entrenched in it and that gave rise to the establishment of an anti-corruption and transparency unit in this polytechnic headed by a seasoned hand and backed by ICPC”.

    “Corruption is at the very core of the survival of the nation’s tertiary institutions. There is no doubt that our ivory towers are supposed to be repositories of knowledge that has the capacity to uplift knowledge and chastise vice and offers authority to virtue”.

    The Rector said there were quite plethora of unethical behaviours brazenly manifested in the polytechnic at inception which, according to him, included extortion of students by staff.

    Others were undeserved award of scores after examination, gratification, indecent dressing, godfather syndrome, political interference in management of institution and channeling greed towards public office among others.

    However, he said that ACTU has come to stay, adding that the institution would do everything within its power to support the activities of the office to fight corruption.

    For the ICPC helmsman Ezeh Nwafor, who represented the head Enugu zone, Udonsi U. Arua, commended the institution for being cult free unlike what happens in some other institutions.

    He said the coming of ACTU would equally bring to an end all other vices that exist in the institution, but warned that the members should not use it to intimidate or harass innocent persons.

     

  • Ndigbo and the waning traditional institution

    Ndigbo and the waning traditional institution

    Kingship in Igbo land is a sacred and highly revered institution. Its awe-inspiring mysteries, myths, glamour and royalty have been major preoccupation among historians and experts in mores of the land. It is essentially a unifying factor and custodian of the people’s norms, beliefs and cultural heritage. Being a highly respected institution, a king’s life, in principle and practice, is significantly free from any form of blame.

    Kingship is almost mystic in Igbo land. For instance, a king is seen a representative of the gods and is restricted by norms and traditions of the people from doing certain things, of which he must diligently observe.

    In the past, a king cannot be seen beyond his palace. This, however, had to be reviewed to allow the king the luxury of carrying out his wider responsibilities, which cannot satisfactorily be done within the confines of the palace.

    It is also a tradition in Igbo land that before a person aspires to become a king, his father must have been dead, for the simple reason that a king must not be subjected to the control of any person. He must be of impeccable character and free from all charges such as robbery, covetousness, indebtedness and drunkenness, among other crummy lifestyles.

    The king embodies all virtues and the people see him as a symbol of purity. This is outwardly confirmed by the fact that kings in Igbo land always wear white regalia.

    There are certain modes of behaviour which are characteristic of kings in Igbo land. For example, the king’s mouth cannot be seen while he is eating; neither does he eat in public places. He is regarded as a representative of the ancestors, who is above human errors and as such, is seen as an embodiment of truth and justice.

    Apart from being a secular ruler, the king is also imbued with spiritual powers and authority. He is the High Priest, and therefore at the head of all traditional religious functions in the community.

    The priestly duties of the king start in the early hours of the morning when the royal gong is sounded. He wakes and offers sacrifice to the gods on behalf of the people. After this, he retires to the palace to discharge his duties and receive homage from his subjects.

    In the yesteryear, the royal household is usually administrated by three servants known as Ngbaloto Eze meaning the naked servants .They are responsible for the king’s needs and must be naked while attending to him. They are usually very young boys who are considered virgins. Their heads are uniquely shaved in a traditional manner. One serves as the king’s interpreter while the other two are always in attendance during an audience; standing at both sides of the king bearing the royal sword.

    The wives and children of the king live apart from him. While he can see the children at all times, he can only see the wives only during the day. The king can marry as many wives as he desires, and cannot be asked to pay bride price for his would-be wife, though his in-laws are accorded great respect throughout the kingdom.

    They are also secluded from the public and are restricted to their royal quarters, but friends and relations can pay visits to them. Male visitors can only see them during the day with the permission of the king and guided by one of the palace guards.

    The process of being a king in Igbo land is extensive as it is expensive. In most communities, the kingship stool is rotational among royal families who take turns to produce the kings. But the age-long practice has often led to prolonged litigations that had torn most communities apart.

    In the past, potential contenders to any throne were brought before the Chief Priest who consults the gods to know the best person to be crowned king and the outcome is accepted by all without complaint for fear of the anger of the gods.

    In keeping with the tradition of secrecy that surrounds the affairs of the king, his illness and eventual death is kept secret from the public for a long time to allow the performance of all traditional rituals that precedes his burial to be performed.

    The news of the king’s death is broken to his subjects in a metaphor-laden linguistic expression such as igwe ejiri or igwe ejiele, meaning the steel or iron is broken.

    The Igwe’s second in command, the Onowu or traditional Prime Minister immediately assumes the office of the late king as a regent until a new king is appointed.

    But with the advent of civilisation, the concept of kingship in Igbo land has changed. In our day, it is no longer the revered institution it used to be. Gone are the solemnity, sacredness and royalty of the throne. The process of selecting a king now is manipulated by politicians who can also depose any king at will.

    There are also more reported cases of kingship tussle resulting from faulty selection processes than it used to be when the procedure was guided by established norms and traditions.

    Kings have also abandoned their hallowed palaces to hobnob with politicians thereby desecrating the traditional institution. With more political roles trusted to kings, the original role of providing leadership at the community level has been abandoned, resulting in increased impunity among the people.

    For instance, in Imo State, traditional rulers are no more restricted to their palaces from where they administer their kingdoms but are now given a new role that warrants them to participate in the day-to-day running of the government.

    Their new role, encapsulated under the newly created Traditional Parliament of Imo State has given the monarchs the opportunity to collaborate with the government and the people in the process of development and improving the well-being of their subjects.

    Commenting on the ‘dying’ traditional institution in Igbo land, Chief Ibeku Uzoaru, lamented that the once-revered institution has been hijacked and desecrated by politicians and money bags, stressing that except something urgent is done, Ndigbo will continue to grapple with kingship tussle.

    The octogenarian said: “What you hear in Igbo land today is that Igbo enweghi eze, meaning Igbo does not have a king. This belief results from the republican nature of Igbo land where every male adult that has attained the age of 18 has the right to contribute or air his view at a community gathering at the village square.

    “It was not so at the beginning but when people with questionable characters found their ways to the traditional throne using their wealth, the traditions of our people were destroyed.

    “Today once a man makes enough money, he returns home to buy the traditional throne of his people, even though he was an ex-convict, who has questionable means of livelihood. This has cost the confidence of the people on the traditional institution. It was a taboo to see kings indicted in serious crimes such as robbery and kidnapping. In the past, kings were men of impeccable characters.”

    Chief Uzoaru further criticised the polarisation of the institution. “It is now common in Igbo land to have a king in every village of few persons and this has weakened the once-powerful institution. The present-day kings are no less errand boys to politicians who assemble them to add colour to every little political gathering,” he said.

    For Nze Njoku Anthony, the collapse of the traditional institution in Igbo land is responsible for the high rate of criminal activities in several communities.

    “In the past, we never heard about crimes such as robbery, kidnapping, rape or any other heinous crime because they were regarded as sacrilege with serious consequences. But today, we are no longer guided by our traditions.

    “What you have as kings today are mere ceremonial heads who do not even know the traditions of the people. This is so because there are interferences in the manner the kings are selected.

    “For instance, if a community elects a king in line with their tradition, the government could have preference for another person who will be officially recognised as king and present Staff of Office to him,” he said.

  • Institution for child-training (5)

    Dear Reader, this week, as we round off this teaching, I’ll like to quickly share with you on The Power Of Prayer in the process of child-training and Tips for effective child-training.

    Prayer is a spiritual weapon that can be used to bring about discipline in the lives of your children. Prayer power makes child-training easy, because it moulds them spiritually. As a Christian parent, who desires disciplined children, you must spend time to pray with and for your children, daily.

    Mother Wesley, the mother of John and Charles Wesley, was a woman of prayer. She spent time praying for her children. No wonder, her children were foremost among the people who changed and affected their world positively, with impacts that are still being felt today.  You can also do the same. Your children need your prayers.  Do not faint in praying for them, because prayer changes things.

    If you put these two tools to work, disciplining your children will become the easiest thing to do.  I’d like to say here that there is no way you can discipline your children, if you are not disciplined yourself. It is my prayer that God will grant you grace to take responsibilities toward your children.  You will not fail in Jesus’ precious name.

    Let’s briefly outline some various tips for effective child-training:

    •Begin at birth by saying bedtime prayers with your children. You will be amazed how   quickly they pick them up and begin to say prayers with you! Help them to know Jesus as      early as possible.

    •Read to your children Bible stories from children’s Bible for their age group. Family time together and sharing the Bible can be a wonderful experience.

    •Be very patient with your children.

    •Always build confidence in your child by whatever you do.

    •Listen to them; don’t just hear what they are saying, give them your attention and direct eye contact when they speak to you. Your children will let you know what challenges they have, and what you may need to bring to the Lord in intercessory prayer for them. This is such an important way to show them how much you value them, and you will also teach them to pray for others.

    •Watch over your children diligently! Know where they are, who they associate with, what they are watching on T.V., the kind of music they are listening to. Get involved and stay involved. Train them with good Christian moral values.

    •Give your children responsibility early in life. Children love to “help” at a very early age. At first, they may not do things quite the way you would, but they grow up to be self-reliant and dependable.

    •Teach them to respect proper authority.

    •Keep control over the home! Your children must know who is in control.

    •Nothing delights a child more than praise from his parents. Let them know just how much you appreciate them, whenever they do wonderful things.

    •Spend time with your children. Get down to their level and see things from their perspective. Seek to have as much family time as you can; crack jokes and laugh with them because proper humour is good for the soul.

    •Study your children to know who they really are, what they love, etc. Bring out the good whenever possible and try to re-shape any tendency towards bad behaviour. Every child is a masterpiece from God.  Allow them to be individuals.

    •Keep your marriage together! Children need parents who love each other! If you grew up in a home where your parents did not get along, whether divorced or not, you have probably realized later in life the devastating results in your own personal life. However, you can overcome this.

    •Do not leave your children behind when going to Church or Christian gatherings, at whatever age or stage. The Church is also a good institution for learning.

    Do you need God’s grace in your life? Then surrender your life to Christ. This is by confessing your sins and accepting Jesus as your Saviour and Lord. If you are set for it, please say this prayer: Dear Lord Jesus, I come to You today. I am a sinner. I believe You died and rose on the third day. Forgive me of my sins.  Cleanse me with Your Precious Blood. I accept You as my Lord and Saviour.  Now, I know I am a child of God.

     

    Congratulations! You are now born again! Till I come your way next time, please call or write, and share your testimonies with me through: Email: contact@faithoyedepo.org, counselling@faithoyedepo.org and Tel. No: 07026385437, 08141320204.

    For more insight, these books authored by me are available at the Dominion Bookstores in all the Living Faith Churches and other leading Christian bookstores: Building a Successful Family, Understanding Motherhood, Raising Godly Children, and Success in Marriage (Co-Authored with Dr. David Oyedepo).

  • Institution for child-training (4)

    Institution for child-training (4)

    Dear Reader, this week, we will examine one of the essential parts of child training  Discipline! Discipline means training a child to be obedient and self-controlled. It is important for you to understand that for child-training to be effective and efficient, discipline must be involved.  Until discipline is added to training, it remains only a teaching.

    God’s Word says: He openeth also their ear to discipline, and commandeth that they return from iniquity (Job 36:10). Two things are mentioned in this scripture, the opening of the ear to discipline and returning from iniquity.  If you do not want iniquity to reign in the lives of your children, first, you must open their ears to discipline.

    The place of discipline, therefore, becomes of utmost importance in making child-training effective. Lack of training makes a child susceptible to destruction.  Look at the story of Eli and his children, for example. God’s Word says: For I have told him that I will judge his house for ever for the iniquity which he knoweth; because his sons made themselves vile, and he restrained them not (1 Samuel 3:13).  Because Eli, the priest, neglected child-training, his two sons were destroyed and he too was eventually destroyed. That shall not be your portion in Jesus’ name.

    Without hesitation, the most effective tool for effective discipline in your children, so that their training can be of benefit to you is The Word of God (The Rod). The Word or Rod is a tool for discipline.  The word “rod” in scripture can be interpreted in two ways, namely the spiritual rod and the physical rod.

    The Spiritual Rod:

    God’s Word says: And there shall come forth a rod out of the stem of Jesse, and a Branch shall grow out of his roots (Isaiah 11:1).The rod here is talking about Jesus. Revelation 19:13 says: And he was clothed with a vesture dipped in blood: and his name is called The Word of God. Still talking about Jesus, the Bible calls Him the Word of God.

    The rod primarily means the Word of God.  When I said the rod is a tool for discipline, I simply meant using the Word of God to discipline your children. It is important for you as a parent, to understand that the strongest rod to use in child-training is the Word of God.  It is much more powerful than any physical cane.

    Now, the question is: How do I use the Word as a rod to correct my children? For instance, if your child misbehaves and you want to discipline him or her, you will need to first of all locate a scripture or two that will show that the deeds of the child are wrong. Thereafter, you can call the child, sit down with him, and show him from the Word why his deeds are wrong.

    With the help of the Holy Ghost, let the child see the need to change his character and his action. Make him/her realize that God is not pleased with such behaviour.  This Word expounded unto him is Life; so, after you have done this, leave the child alone to think and act on the Word.

    God’s Word says: For the word of God is quick, and powerful, and sharper than any twoedged sword, piercing even to the dividing asunder of soul and spirit, and of the joints and marrow, and is a discerner of the thoughts and intents of the heart (Hebrew 12:4).

    Only the spiritual rod has the power to penetrate the soul and the spirit of a child and effect positive changes in him/her. From today, as you begin to use the spiritual rod in disciplining your children, positive changes shall materialize in Jesus’ name.

    The Physical Rod:

    God’s Word says: Withhold not correction from the child: for if thou beatest him with the rod, he shall not die. Thou shalt beat him with the rod, and shalt deliver his soul from hell (Proverbs 23:13-14). The physical rod is the physical cane. Once in a while, it may be necessary for you to use cane to discipline your children.

    However, when using the cane to discipline, ensure that you do not overdo it. Do not bruise your children in the process of beating them. This instruction is necessary because some parents beat out of anger. By so doing, you have only satisfied yourself but have not properly trained a child.

    When the physical rod is to be used, it should be used with care. Do not give room to careless beating. Note that the physical rod should be used occasionally, so that it does not become a way of life. In other words, the spiritual surpasses the physical rod.

    To have access to the spiritual rod, you must be born again. To be born again entails confessing your sins and accepting Jesus as your Saviour and Lord. If you are ready for this new birth experience, please say this prayer: Dear Lord Jesus, I come to You today. I am a sinner. I believe You died and rose on the third day. Forgive me of my sins.  Cleanse me with Your Precious Blood. I accept You as my Lord and Saviour.  Now, I know I am a child of God.

    Congratulations! You are now born again! Till I come your way next time, please call or write, and share your testimonies with me through: Email: contact@faithoyedepo.org, counselling@faithoyedepo.org and Tel. No: 07026385437, 08141320204.

    For more insight, these books authored by me are available at the Dominion Bookstores in all the Living Faith Churches and other leading Christian bookstores: Building a Successful Family, Understanding Motherhood, Raising Godly Children, and Success in Marriage (Co-Authored with Dr. David Oyedepo).

  • Institution for child-training (3)

    Institution for child-training (3)

    Dear Reader, in the previous teachings, we have seen the home as the first institution for child-training and the tool of example.  This week, God has something for us again as we go ahead to see God’s command to teach.

    From the beginning, God instructed parents to teach their children. Speaking to the ancient Israelites, God said: And these words, which I command thee this day, shall be in thine heart: And thou shalt teach them diligently unto thy children, and shalt talk of them when thou sittest in thine house, and when thou walkest by the way, and when thou liest down, and when thou risest up  (Deuteronomy 6:6-7).

    This kind of teaching requires much more than a once-a-week session at church services. It must be a regular practice, all week long, so that it becomes a way of life (Proverbs 22:6).

    Abraham, called the friend of God in James 2:23, was given high praise by God for teaching his children and household God’s way of life. In Genesis 18:19 God said of Abraham: For I have known him, in order that he may command his children and his household after him, that they keep the way of the Lord, to do righteousness and justice, that the Lord may bring to Abraham what He has spoken to him.

    King Solomon understood that when we reach maturity, we reflect the training we have received as children (Proverbs 22:6). History clearly shows that when Israel neglected teaching and obeying God’s commands as they were told to do in Deuteronomy 6, they suffered tragic results.

    Apostle Paul wrote: And you, fathers, do not provoke your children to wrath, but bring them up in the training and admonition of the Lord (Ephesians 6:4). This statement is simply a continuation of the same principle God gave the Israelite in the Old Testament.

    I read a scripture sometimes back that changed my perspective of child-training: A wise son maketh a glad father: but a foolish son is the heaviness of his mother (Proverbs10:1). In other words, the son that is wise is the father’s, while the one that is foolish is the mother’s! That’s why I told myself that I must be ready to accept responsibility, so that my children will not end up as fools.

    In case you are a woman reading this article, you must rise up to the task and accept the responsibility of raising wise children. However, if you had your children before getting born again and they are thorns in your flesh, I want you to believe God for a miracle, for with God all things are possible (Matthew 19:26).

    Today, we need to likewise teach our children God’s commands. These commands, when applied, provide a moral compass to guide their conduct for the rest of their lives.

    How, then, can you effectively teach? Biblical passages on parenting show that God wants you to use love, patience, dignity and respect in working with your children, just as He does with you. Love is the foundational principle for all Christian relationships (Matthew 22:37-40; John 13:34-35). Paul said obeying the Ten Commandments expresses love toward God and your neighbours (Romans 13:9-10).

    Just as God instructs because He loves you, you must likewise instruct your children, if you love them (Hebrews 12:7). Loving your children does include discipline. Establishing fair rules and consequences for breaking those rules has been described as setting up boundaries. The purpose for boundaries is that children learn appropriate behaviour and feel secure.

    Your attitude toward your children is, perhaps, the single most important consideration in proper child rearing. Your words and actions show your children whether you love them or not.

    To effectively obey the commandment on child-training, you need to identify with Chris, by being born again. To be born again means confessing your sins and accepting Jesus as your Saviour and Lord. If you are set for this, please say this prayer: Dear Lord Jesus, I come to You today. I am a sinner. I believe You died and rose on the third day. Forgive me of my sins.  Cleanse me with Your Precious Blood. I accept You as my Lord and Saviour.  Now, I know I am a child of God.

    Congratulations! You are now born again! Till I come your way next time, please call or write, and share your testimonies with me through: Email: contact@faithoyedepo.org, counselling@faithoyedepo.org and Tel. No: 07026385437, 08141320204.

    For more insight, these books authored by me are available at the Dominion Bookstores in all the Living Faith Churches and other leading Christian bookstores: Building a Successful Family, Understanding Motherhood, Raising Godly Children, and Success in Marriage (Co-Authored with Dr. David Oyedepo).