Tag: kids

  • ‘Why I’m focused on children’

    ‘Why I’m focused on children’

    Abiola Akinyeye is a graduate of Mathematics and Statistics, a student member of the Chattered Institute of Bankers (CIBN), a holder of MBA in International Business Management and a banker by profession. Her passion for the piano as a young girl saw her becoming a pianist and an impresario. Akinyeye who is also the brain behind ‘Divine Octaves’ (a soul-inspiring entertainment outfit), spoke with Yetunde Oladeinde about her achievements, challenges as well as her pet projects: merger of Talents and kids got Talent.

    WHY and how did you go into projecting talents in children? The journey into projecting talents in children began as a result of my appreciation for the genuine creativity exhibited by kids. It is worth mentioning that most of the talents in children are latent, therefore there is need to help them showcase the hidden talent in them to the world. Children exhibit potentials for creativity and giving them this platform to express the hidden talents would go a long way to grow and groom the talents.

    Unlike in the past when a lot of emphasis was placed on white collar jobs, things are different now and young people are discovering themselves and making the megabucks too. Once there is an avenue for such discoveries it would ensure a future with a difference for them.

    What is the focus of your organisation?

    We are focused on the talent hunt show for children, musical shows and production for children.

    What makes yours different from others?

    Asides showcasing the talents, we still go the extra mile to help them improve and develop the talent in them. It is better to encourage children and young people to have something that they are passionate about. This way they would not be restless and would have confidence in themselves. Energies would be channelled positively and there would be less time to spend on vices.

    Tell us some of the projects you have carried out. What inspired you to do them?

    We have carried out nine successful projects, out of which five have been focused on children (Kids got Talent).

    We have produced kid’s stars from our shows. A lot of encouragement from parents and kids to see this show every year has been a great source of inspiration. Some of our winners have become brand ambassadors and even won awards. I look forward to the 10th anniversary where all these can be unveiled.

    What about your educational and professional background?

    I am a mathematician and I work in a bank.

    How would you describe working with children and in the bank sector?

    Working with children has been awesome. Apart from winning at the Kids Got Talent hunt, they have also performed at subsequent events and they are really doing well. One of them, Akorede Macaulay, last year performed at the first lady’s party and won. He has also won several awards after the show. The winner of the just concluded Kids got Talent is an eight-year-old singer and guitarist boy called Enosaze Omontuemen.

    What are some of the challenges experienced?

    Even though our world is evolving, some parent still believes that the four walls of the classroom is the only way out. We are using this avenue to let parents know that every child is talented and they should support the talent in these children.

    What are the other things that occupy your time?

    Majorly, my work.

    Who or what would you describe as your greatest influence in life?

    My mum has been a very great influence.

    Some of your antecedents and plans for the future?

    We will be having our Kids got Talent festival in 2014. It is going to be a unique opportunity and we will be celebrating 10 years of growing talents. The festival will also stage a colorful concert for past winners of the Kids got Talent show and there will be a number of other side attractions. Here we want people to see the difference and compare what it was like when they won and the difference and transformation that has taken place.

    The next event actually marks our tenth anniversary and we are starting something new which will include those who are not arts-inclined. Even if you are not talented in the arts, we are creating what we call, “Exploring your numeracy IQ”.

    If you had to advice children, what would you tell them?

    The best thing that can happen to anybody is to discover that which is innate. As children, they should always have it at the back of their mind that they have talents. They should therefore make it a point of duty to exhibit it and not let it die. It is also important to note that no matter how hidden your talent is, it is better to express yourself. From experience, I have come to realise that a lot of young people are discovered during auditioning. They discover some of these potentials and gradually it begins to come out.

  • Foundation donates to needy kids

    Tude Nnam Foundation, a non-governmental organisation (NGO), has given play items worth about N1.5 million to children with special needs at the Down-Syndrome Support Initiative Centre, in the FCT.

    Some of the items presented to the centre were sets of swindler and slider, among other children playing equipment. The group was received by members of staff of the centre, who were on expressed their appreciation to the NGO. Recall that the students are still on vacation.

    Presenting the items to the centre, founder of the NGO, Mr. Jude Nnam said the gesture was the foundation’s way of expressing love and support for parents of children living with Down-syndrome, even as he said it was also a way of letting the children know that despite their condition, they can live a normal life, as all hope is not lost.

    He said: “Due to lack of proper care and attention to the issues related to Down Syndrome in the society, many children with the condition have either died or been neglected by their parents.

    “The foundation is committed to educating and developing programmes for children with special needs as well as promoting community awareness on Down syndrome.

    “I am using this platform to strengthen the already established centres catering for children with special conditions.

    “We intend to open a music academy in the foundation where we can visit and play music and organise musical concert for children with Down Syndrome. They are musically inclined people as they love music a lot.

    “There is also need for constant workshop to educate people; especially parents and physicians who specialise in this area on the need to adequately carter for children living with the condition.

    “It has been my dream to do something positive for children living with Down syndrome condition. I am calling on the government to assist the foundation in its objective of ensuring proper care of the needs of children with Down syndrome.

  • Niger immunises 2m kids

    The Niger State Primary Healthcare Development Agency has immunised no fewer than two million children against polio during the just concluded round of Immunisation Plus Days exercise (IPDs).

    The chairman of the agency, Dr Aliyu Yabagi told journalists in Minna that the exercise was part of the IPDs for children below the age of five years.

    He said that the state and local governments contributed over N10 million towards the success of the exercise.

    He said the agency embarked on a massive campaign in mobilising all stakeholders in the communities, in order for parents to allow their children to be immunised.

    Yabagi praised traditional rulers and religious leaders for their roles in the sensitisation exercise on the importance of immunisation.

    He said that the agency was still faced with the issue of rejection of the immunisation by some parents in Chanchaga Local Government Area.

    He also commended donor agencies for their support towards polio awareness and the importance of immunisation, which he said assisted the agency to achieve the recorded success.

    “We are fully committed to kicking polio out of Niger. We are collaborating with neighbouring states to address the issue of isolated border communities by synchronising the exercise in those communities to ensure a 100 per cent coverage.

    “The approach will help to stem the cross border movement of the virus, as migrating parents and their children are easily identified and their wards immunised against the virus”.

    He enjoined parents to ensure optimal personal hygiene practice at all times, as well as good environmental standard, to curb the spread of the virus.(NAN)

     

  • Boko Haram in new video: we won’t free women, kids

    Boko Haram in new video: we won’t free women, kids

    Sect rejects amnesty again

    AFTER a long while, Boko Haram leader Abubakar Shekau made another video appearance yesterday.

    The group claimed responsibility for two recent attacks in the northeast where many people were killed.

    Besides, it hinted that women and children are among its hostages.

    In the video is Shekau, who has been declared a global terrorist by the United States, seated on a rug with a kalashnikov resting behind his right shoulder. The group also rejected, once again, the Federal Government’s plan to give its members amnesty.

    It had ealier dismissed the amnesty proposal, saying it should be the one to give Nigeria amnesty.

    “We are the ones that carried out the Bama attack,” Shekau said in Hausa, referring to the May 7 assault that killed 55 people, mostly soldiers and policemen. In the video, he also takes responsibility for the April 16 raid in the town near Lake Chad that sparked clashes with soldiers which killed nearly 200.

    The military has been accused of causing scores of deaths in the Baga violence by deliberately setting fires that razed thousands of homes. The allegation was denied by the Defence Headquarters, which also debunked assertion that many bodies were buried in mass graves.

    “It was you, the security agents, that went into town the following day and burnt homes and killed people at will,” Shekau said.

    The military insisted that only 37 people, including 30 suspected Islamists, died in the Baga violence.

    Some seven minutes into the 12-minute video message, the screen splits, showing Shekau on the left with a group of unidentified women and children on the right.

    The Islamist leader claimed this group is being held hostage in retaliation for the wives and children of Boko Haram members detained by the military.

    Boko Haram has never before boasted about the kidnapping of women and children.

    “As long as we do not see our women and children, we will never release these women and children,” Shekau said.

    The group set out a similar condition for the release of seven members of a French family who were kidnapped in February in Cameroon near the Nigerian border. The Moulin-Fournier family were released last month.

    Before claiming the French abductions, Boko Haram had not widely been associated with kidnappings. Their attacks, which have killed hundreds since 2009, have included suicide blasts as well as coordinated gun and bomb assaults on the security forces and other symbols of authority.

    The recent attacks in the Northeast have raised concern about the increasingly brazen tactics used by the insurgents, who have said they are fighting to create an Islamic state in mostly Muslim northern Nigeria.

    In Bama, they stormed the commercial centre in a convoy of seven vehicles, launching coordinated pre-dawn attacks on the military, police and several government buildings.

    It was not immediately clear last night how the committee appointed to seek dialogue with the sect will react to its latest rejection of peace overtimes.

  • U.S. Report: No fewer than 6,000 kids languish in prisons

    U.S. Report: No fewer than 6,000 kids languish in prisons

    The United States’ Department of State, in its just-released Country Reports on Human Rights Practices for 2012, indicted the Federal Government for poor handling of the prisons. It says there are prisoners with mental disabilities incarcerated with the general prison population and no less than 6,000 children in prisons across the country, among many other human rights abuses. Excerpts:

     

    Prison and detention center conditions remained harsh and life threatening. Prisoners, a majority of whom had not been tried, were subject to gross overcrowding, food shortages, inadequate medical treatment, and infrastructure deficiencies that led to wholly inadequate sanitary conditions. Reports indicated guards and prison officials threatened inmates with extortion or levied fees on them to pay for the maintenance of the prison and subjected them to physical abuse; in some cases female inmates faced the threat of rape. Female prisoners pregnant at the time of incarceration gave birth to and raised their babies in prison.

    Domestic and international human rights groups reported the existence of unofficial military prisons, including the Giwa military barracks in Maiduguri, Borno State. HRW and AI cataloged cases of illegal detention, inhumane and degrading treatment, beatings, torture, and extrajudicial killings in these prisons. AI estimated 200 to 500 people were detained at the Giwa barracks. Those interviewed for the reports claimed families and lawyers did not have access to suspects detained in these facilities, and authorities moved detainees frequently and without notice, making it difficult for families or lawyers to locate a detainee. The government claimed Giwa barracks was only used as a military barracks, and did not serve as a detention center. Boko Haram suspects were reportedly held in inhuman conditions at the Special-Anti-Robbery Squad (SARS) detention center, also known as the “abattoir,” in Abuja. On November 26, suspected Boko Haram militants attacked the SARS detention center, freeing an estimated 30 detainees, possibly including Boko Haram members.

     

    Physical Conditions

     

    The prison system included 12 maximum-security prisons, 83 satellite prisons, 10 farm centers, two women’s prisons, eight zonal offices, and six directorates, all of which held prisoners and detainees. The Nigerian Prison Service released statistics at the end of March indicating the prisons held 50,920 inmates. Of that inmate population, slightly less than 2 percent were females and 1 percent juveniles.

    Overcrowding was a problem. Although national capacity stood at 47,284, an imbalance in the use of prisons resulted in underutilisation at some facilities—some newer prisons had no inmates—while others were at 600 percent of their designed capacity. The Owerri Federal Prison had a capacity of 548 prisoners but held more than 1,784. Ogwuashi-Uku prison in Delta State, with a capacity of 64 prisoners, housed 541, while Port Harcourt prison, with a capacity of 804 prisoners, held 2,955. Ijebi-Ode prison in Lagos, with a capacity of 49 prisoners, held 309.

    Most of the country’s 234 prisons, built 70 to 80 years earlier, lacked basic facilities. Lack of potable water, inadequate sewage facilities, and severe overcrowding resulted in dangerous and unsanitary conditions. Disease remained pervasive in cramped, poorly ventilated prison facilities, which had chronic shortages of medical supplies. Inadequate medical treatment caused many prisoners to die from treatable illnesses. Prison illnesses included HIV/AIDS, malaria, and tuberculosis. Inmates with these illnesses lived with the general prison population. Although authorities attempted to isolate persons with communicable diseases, facilities often lacked the space to do so. Prison authorities claimed the death rate in prisons was 89 out of 1,500 prisoners per year; no reliable independent statistics existed on the number of prison deaths.

    During a June 22 visit to prisons in Enugu State and Owerri, Imo State, an observer noted cells designed for 20 inmates held 80, authorities conducted no routine screening for tuberculosis, other infectious diseases, or pregnancy, and they had not established isolation wards, adequately equipped clinic facilities, or proper sewage disposal systems.

    Only those prisoners with money, or whose relatives brought food regularly, had sufficient food; prison officials routinely stole money provided for food for prisoners. Poor inmates often relied on handouts from others to survive. Prison officials, police, and other security force personnel often denied inmates food and medical treatment as punishment or to extort money.

    Prisoners with mental disabilities remained incarcerated with the general prison population. Individual prisons made efforts to provide mental health facilities, but most prisons did not provide mental health care.

    The Federal Government operated all the prisons but maintained few pretrial jail facilities. Of the total prison population, 72 percent were pretrial detainees.

    Authorities sometimes held female and male prisoners together, especially in rural areas, and prisons had no facilities to care for pregnant women or nursing mothers. Infants born to inmate mothers usually remained with the mother until weaned. Juvenile suspects were often held together with adult prisoners.

    Although the law precludes the imprisonment of children, minors, many of whom were born there, lived in the prisons. A report by the African Union on the rights and welfare of the Nigerian child found an estimated 6,000 children lived in prisons and detention centers. Despite a government order to identify and release such children and their mothers, authorities had not done so by year’s end. Authorities held political prisoners with the general prison population.

     

    Administration

     

    Prison authorities allowed visitors within a scheduled timeframe. However, few visitors came due to lack of family resources and travel distance. Prisoners could attend religious observances, although prisons often did not have equal facilities for Muslim and Christian worship. In some prisons outside clergy constructed chapels or mosques.

    The country does not have an ombudsman to serve on behalf of convicted prisoners and detainees in considering such matters as alternatives to incarceration for nonviolent offenders to alleviate overcrowding; the status and circumstances of confinement of juvenile offenders; or improving pretrial detention, bail, or recordkeeping procedures to ensure prisoners do not serve beyond the maximum sentence for the charged offence.

    Prisoner complaints centered on lack of access to court proceedings, as in many cases inmates lacked transportation to attend a court hearing. All prisons suffered from poor facilities and lack of resources.

     

    Monitoring

     

    The National Human Rights Commission (NHRC) monitored prisons throughout the year. The commission compiles an annual prison audit but the report for 2012 was not available by year’s end. The Federal Ministry of Justice was also known to monitor prisons under the Federal Government Prison Decongestion Program. However, there were no regular outside monitors of the prisons, and no statistics on the mistreatment of prisoners or availability of food or medical care.

    The government provided access to prisons for monitoring conditions, although few outside visits occurred. The local Red Cross made attempts to visit prisons but could not maintain a regular visit schedule. Authorities inconsistently maintained records for individual prisoners in paper form but without making them widely accessible.

     

    Improvements

     

    The government did not make widespread improvements to prisons during the year, but individual prison administrations attempted to collect donations from religious organizations, NGOs, and the National Youth Service Corps to benefit inmates. For example, on April 27, Junior Chamber International Nigeria renovated and donated a five-room housing unit to the Akwa Ibom prison. On May 13, the youth service corps donated a psychology clinic for the rehabilitation and counseling of inmates at the Onitsha prison.

     

    Arbitrary arrest

    or detention

     

    The constitution and law prohibit arbitrary arrest and detention; however, police and security forces continued to employ these practices. The JTF arbitrarily arrested hundreds of persons during sweeps for militants, and security force personnel made arbitrary arrests during the national elections.

    The NPF reports to the inspector general of police, who is appointed by the president and responsible for law enforcement operations. An assistant inspector general commanded each NPF state unit. The constitution prohibits state and local governments from organizing their own police forces; however, state governors may direct federal police for local emergency actions. The SSS remains responsible for internal security and reports to the president through the national security advisor. Due to the police’s inability to control societal violence, the government continued to turn to the army in many cases. For example, throughout the year President Jonathan ordered the deployment of military, JTF, or Special Task Force units to Bauchi, Borno, Kano, Kaduna, Plateau, and Yobe states on a continuous basis in response to Boko Haram attacks and after local police could not contain outbreaks of ethnoreligious violence in Jos and Kaduna.

    The NPF, SSS, and military reported to civilian authorities; however, these security services periodically acted outside of civilian control. The government lacked effective mechanisms to investigate and punish abuse and corruption. The NPF remained susceptible to corruption, committed human rights abuses, and generally operated with impunity in the apprehension, illegal detention, and sometimes execution of criminal suspects. The SSS also committed human rights abuses, particularly in restricting freedom of speech and press. In some cases private citizens or the government brought charges against perpetrators of human rights abuses in these units. However, most cases lingered in court or went unresolved after an initial investigation.

    According to AI’s 2009 report, only a fraction of the NPF annual budget reached state and local police stations, and the lack of funding contributed to many police failures. In May and July the new inspector general of police, Mohammed Abubakar, publicly attributed poor performance and corruption among police to a lack of government support for the personnel, inadequate funding, poor work environment, lack of incentives, and low morale. On August 7, widows of slain police officers protested outside police headquarters in Abuja over the nonpayment of benefits (see section 4).

    Police routinely detained suspects without informing them of the charges or allowing access to counsel and family members. Provision of bail often remained arbitrary or subject to extrajudicial influence. Judges often set conditions of bail too stringent to be met. In many areas with no functioning bail system, suspects remained incarcerated indefinitely in investigative detention within the prison system. Authorities kept detainees incommunicado for long periods. Numerous detainees alleged police demanded bribes to take them to court to have their cases heard. If family members wanted to attend a trial, police often demanded additional payment.

    Police held persons who happened to be in the vicinity of a crime for interrogation for periods ranging from a few hours to several months. After their release authorities frequently asked them to return for further questioning.

    Security force personnel arbitrarily arrested numerous persons during the year. Human rights groups accused the government and security forces of arbitrarily arresting male inhabitants of Maiduguri or family members of suspected militants following Boko Haram attacks. The number of such cases remained unknown, but AI and HRW catalogued examples of such cases throughout the year.

  • Women, kids among 19 killed in Kaduna attack

    Women, kids among 19 killed in Kaduna attack

    Palace vandalised

    Gunmen kill three policemen in Kano

     

    A  TWO-DAY raid by unknown gunmen on four communities in Kaura Local Government Area, Southern Kaduna, has left 20 people dead, villagers claimed yesterday. The police said 19 died.

    The gunmen, believed to be nomadic herdsmen, allegedly invaded the villages on Saturday night and continued their raid on Zilang, Taliki, Zangkan and Mafang hilltop communities – home to many villagers – till early Sunday.

    All four communities are located on the boundary between Kaduna and Plateau states.

    Council chairman Kumai L.J Badun attributed the killings to gunmen suspected to be Fulani herdsmen, who apparently launched reprisal attack over the poisoning of two cows in Mafang community.

    The council boss told reporters that the attack began from Atakar chiefdom. He said: “There was a young man, Aboi Stephen (21), in Mafan who had been complaining that cows have been grazing into his dry season farm.

    “I was told that the cattle destroyed a good portion of the farm and that there was no end in sight to the destruction.

    “Only the Fulanis own cattle there. About two weeks ago, two cows were found dead, apparently of poison. The owner of the cows was said to have publicly warned Aboi of the grave consequences of his actions. I don’t know if it was Aboi that poisoned the cows or not or even if they had died of poisoning.

    “Then, one day, Aboi was found missing. A search by the villagers found his corpse. He had deep machete cuts all over his body and his throat was slit open.

    “Upon that discovery, women and children mobilised to the palace of the chief of Atakar, Chief Tobias Nkom-Wada, and accused him of inviting the Fulani into Atakar land in the first place. They vandalised the palace. And the chief is now living in his personal house in Tachire here.

    “On seeing what the women and children did, the Fulani started moving out en masse to their kinsmen in Kanawuri areas of Plateau State, which also has some number of Atakar speaking villages.

    “On their way, they shot a young man that same day in Kanawuri area and that pitched them against the Atakar people in Plateau State and they fought for days.

    “The fighting led to the burning of some structures in Atakar, as you read in the papers. The displaced residents had to relocate to this council, where we opened the first refugee camp for them at Mifi. But we have closed it and merged it with the other camps because it was too vulnerable too.

    “When the army moved in last week, the Fulanis left Kanawuri in Plateau, staged a comeback to this place with their arms last Saturday. By 3pm, they attacked Mafan, Zalang, Taliki and Zangkan villages up the hills while able bodied men were either in the farms or in the market.

    “They went on, unchallenged from 3pm on Saturday till Sunday morning. When the army arrived at the scene on Sunday morning, the officer in charge told me that they counted 19 bodies. All the houses in the villages have been burnt.

    “They made no arrest, because the attackers left before arrival of the security men. Right now, soldiers have escorted some men back to the villages to bury their dead.

    “We have no fewer than 5000 refugees now. And that is a huge challenge for us, despite the fact that Governor Muktar Ramalan Yero has done so much and he is still doing more to help.

    “This kind of attack took me by surprise because, even during the post-election violence, the Fulani here were living in peace with the people. They left on their own and later returned on their own.”

    A refugee at Fadan Attakar, Luka Bitiong, said the attacks began on Saturday afternoon and lasted till Sunday night, adding that many residents were terrified by the sound of guns shots used by the invaders.

    Bitiong said: “When they came, we ran up to the hills in Attakar. Many of our people were killed. We left the hills to seek refuge in Attakar because we were scared of going back. Some of those who went back to our village to look at the level of destruction could not return as they were killed by the gunmen.”

    Another refugee from Mafang, lso Matthew Bulus, claimed the gunmen were dressed in black and armed with sophisticated guns.

    He said that over 80 households in Mafang village had been displaced as their homes were set ablaze by the invaders.

    “When the military men came, there was nothing much they could do because they don’t know the terrain of our communities. They asked some of our youths to follow them and guide them but our boys were scared of accompanying them since they (the boys) have no arms.

    “But the soldiers eventually went into the hills in search of the invaders. We don’t know whether they were able to make any arrest or not.”

    The District Head of Mafang, Mr. Yusuf Bilong, who ran away from his community, described the attack as “deadly”, saying: “I’ve never heard the sound of such guns. The attack was launched on Saturday at about 3:00pm. The attackers shot randomly killing mostly children and women.”

    Kaduna State Commissioner of Police, Mr Adefemi Adenaike confirmed the death of 19 people in the attack.

    The police chief said: “The incident happened on top of the hills, not on the ground. We did not notice it on time due to the nature of the hills. It was, until people started running down from the hills that we noticed. But our men are on ground to restore law and order.

    “The security report I have is that only 19 people were killed by unknown gunmen. The place is now calm and peaceful.We are working round the clock to fish out the attackers. For now, we don’t know who are behind it but I assure you we will get them.”

    Yero has directed security agencies to bring the perpetrators to justice.

    In a statement by his media aide, Ahmed Maiyaki, the governor directed the State Emergency Management Agency (SEMA) to immediately provide succour to all those displaced.

    The attack came barely 24 hours after Southern Kaduna Peoples Union (SOKAPU) reported the influx of herdsmen from other states to communities in Southern Kaduna to the governor.

    The union urged the governor to stop the trend to avoid fresh hostilities in their domain.

    SOKAPU alleged that the invaders were fleeing the manhunt launched by security operatives in some states under the Boko Haram siege.

    Union President Mr Ephraim Goje, who reacted to the influx of the herdsmen, said residents would hold the government responsible if the governor failed to act.

    Goje said: “The governor should send them back to where they are coming from. They cannot create trouble somewhere and run to Southern Kaduna for refuge.”

    Three policemen were yesterday killed by suspected terrorists in Kano. They were ambushed while patrolling the streets of the state capital.

    The incident occurred at about 8.30pm around Yankaba Quarters.

    Residents alleged that the suspected terrorists killed the security operatives and took away their AK 47 riffles.

    Immediately after the incident, men of the Joint Task Force (JTF) cordoned off the area.

    Panic gripped residents, who stayed off the streets.

    Police spokesman Majida Magaji, an Assistant Superintendent of Police (ASP), could not be reached last night for confirmation and comments.

     

  • Funfair for kids @ Easter

    Kids wears of all kinds of designs and brands were on display. Quality was the watchword.

    It was the Open shop Easter sale and fun day, organised by Kids’ Kloset.

    Children were able to choose from various clothes, shoes and toys. They also had all kinds of toys and fun gadgets to while away time with as their parents were busy doing the shopping. Only a few children were willing to go through the shopping exercise with their parents as the atmosphere was very a inviting one for them.

    Kids were presented gifts items, face painting and pop corn as they arrived.

    Some children spoke to The Nation Shopping of their experiences. Asope Badejo said ‘Kids’ Kloset’ is a shop that deals with various kids clothes, and she advised her friends to come with their parents to get theirs. “This is where we have clothes and shoes for kids of any age and delicious sumptuous sweets. We are also given painting and gifts items which contain more surprise bags than those given in our schools and parties.

    Sofiat Olabintan said: “It is a beautiful place where kids can have nice and beautiful clothes and shoes to match.

    Stephanie Ndu said she wants other kids who couldn’t make this edition, to look forward to the next one. “Clothes here are amazing, I love them.”

    Parents also spoke of the good quality attached to the products on display.

    Aside good quality, Mrs. Edem Babalola, talked of affordability of products. “products here are quite affordable. The organisers are not capitalising on the fact that the festive season is here, they are very liberal with prices.

    Mrs. Bankole Oniru also attested to good and quality products. As a parent, if you want your kids to stand out, this is the right place to be.”

  • Obi’s wife cheers up kids

    Obi’s wife cheers up kids

    Memories of the Yuletide will linger in the minds of children in Anambra State because the wife of the state governor, Mrs Margaret Peter Obi had a date with them.

    They were not disappointed even though security agents spoilt the fun for many of them.

    Over 4,000 gathered for the celebration even though only 2,000 were budgeted for. They besieged Women Development Centre, Awka venue of the party.

    Mrs Obi encouraged them to be of good behaviour, announcing that the state government has banned special centres for external examinations as they are ruining education.

    “We thank our governor, His Excellency, Mr Peter Obi for giving back the schools to the churches so that children can understand their family background, morals, Igbo language, and values that make them Igbo children,” she said.

    The governor’s wife said the event was staged to provide care, support and appreciate children. She pledged to sustain her educational scholarship programmes for children especially the talented ones, and encourage them in sports.

    “We have 30 disadvantaged and vulnerable children, 30 widows in each of the 179 communities in the state which we are assisting in making life more meaningful,” she said.

    The state Commissioner for Women Affairs and Social Development, Lady Henrietta Agbata said the occasion was to thank God with children, including the less privileged ones, for all that He has been doing.

    She averred that the objective is to make children part of government, adding that the programme started since the inception of Governor Obi’s administration. She thanked staff in her ministry for the excellent organisation of the event but blamed the little hitches on human error and ssome overzealousness when not necessary.

    Chairman, House Committee on Women Affairs , Anambra State House of Assembly, Hon Rebecca Udoji-Paragon described the Christmas party as an avenue for children to know themselves better and for those in the rural areas to mix up with their counterparts in the city.

    On his part, the Director of Child Development in the Ministry, Mr. Emeka Ejide said the programme was an avenue to interact with children and know challenges which will form part of the policy statement for child development in the state. He informed that every child that came for the function was provided with transport  as three children were invited from  each of the 189 communities in the state.

    Ejide encouraged parents to take adequate care of their children at all times and avoid child trafficking among other unwholesome practices.

    Permanent Secretary of the Ministry , Mrs Gloria Nkiru Okeke said the celebration was wonderful, well planned and executed, adding that Obi’s wife was happy the way things turned out.

    Amaka Onwuzuligbo, a parent, said: “I have never seen this kind of crowd since my stay in Anambra; I am impressed by the way they managed the huge turnout of children.”

    Stella Oti, a journalist, was disappointed by the overzealousness of security agents.

    Another parent, Mrs Ngozi Chidiume, said she had no complaints about the event as the organizsers did their best in hosting the children against what was anticipated.

    Elochukwu Belu , a JSS 2 student of Igwebuike Grammar school Awka  and Emmanuella Nweke of Our Lady’s Comprehensive Secondary School Nkpor Agu  admitted that the advice and tasks Obi’s wife gave them were apt and that they will adhere to them, noting that seeing a governor’s wife eating and dining with her was not a small feat.

    Emeka Michael told Mrs Obi: “You are the mother of all children.”

    Governor Peter Obi could not make the event but had described it as happy occasion and challenged Christians to reflect on the mystery of our salvation, which started with the birth of Christ who paved the  way for us to attain eternity.

    Obi said: ’’This period of Yuletide calls for celebration, but, more importantly, it offers us the opportunity to live the ideals of charity, love, peace and harmonious co-existence, which Christ preached’’.

    “Let us all reach out and touch somebody else in a positive way. Let us give a hand to the less fortunate, that they may rise and walk with us.

    “Yet, even as we celebrate, we must bear in mind the challenges that face our dear State in the coming year and prepare adequately to confront and master them.

    “I wish Ndi Anambra, all those who live in our State, as well as all Nigerians a Merry Christmas and a prosperous New Year’’.

    Governor Peter Obi, Newsextra gathered, was rated by the UNICEF and other development partners as a child-friendly governor and he has demonstrated that by virtually visiting primary and secondary schools, hearing first-hand from them their problems.

    Obi has continued to advocate love and care for children to enable them grow happily in the society. He insisted that moral re-orientation and quality education are the tools to bequeath our children for a better future and avoid anarchy.

     

  • Our kids and the internet

    Our kids and the internet

    SIR: We live in a world that is a global village- thanks to information technology and its user friendly facilities that offer its users links with the world and people in all nooks and crannies literally at our finger tips. Daily we try to keep up with the innovations and counter innovations thrown at us promising to keep us connected in “real time.” Thus, we find that we hardly get to analyze these technologies and the implications its use could and would have on our lives.

    Nigerians being lovers of modern gadgets and the latest fads have caught on to this trend thanks to the introduction of the mobile phone technology and ICT in the late 1990s. Being constantly on the move trying to eke a living its becoming the new normal to find parents handing their kids and teens mobile phones, iPods, I pads, laptops and other communication gadgets to stay connected with them or even as a tool for spending “quality time” with their kids.

    As you hand over that communication gadget to your child, please pause and think through the implication this gift of love could have on your child’s growth and development. No doubt, the internet is a great place to hang out. It’s not only fun, but it lets you keep in touch with friends and family and provides an enormous amount of information. Cyberspace is like a big city. There are libraries, universities, museums, places to have fun and plenty of opportunities to meet wonderful people from all walks of life. But like any community there are also some people and areas that you ought to avoid and others that you should approach with caution. By knowing the dangers and how to avoid them, you can take advantage of all the positive aspects of the internet, while avoiding most of its pitfalls.

    The recent gruesome murder of Miss Cynthia Osukogu reveals that even adults are vulnerable to the dangers posed by criminals on the social web. It is a wakeup call for all parents, men and women of goodwill, government information dissemination agencies, schools, NGOs and other stakeholders to rise up to the challenge of educating our kids and teens on safe internet use. The government regulatory agencies such as the National Communications Commission (NCC) need to wake up to its role of regulation and putting in place systems of checks and balances to protect internet users. Countries such as China recognized from the outset the dangers of unrestricted, unregulated internet use and thus put in place measures to protect and monitor it users.

    There is no doubt that the social web has come to stay, so all stakeholders adults and children alike need to get educated on surfing the net suavely and safely too. Apart from safety education, monitoring internet use both in content and time spent on these technologies is also a way to go. Isolating our kids from these technologies is certainly not the solution, for these technologies are the new normal of our lifetimes.

     

    • Angela Odah,

    Centre for Gender Education Abuja.

     

  • ‘Three of my kids are not mine’

    ‘Three of my kids are not mine’

    In the home of the Akinwoles (not real name), life was blissful. The couple were the quintessential inseparable duo. The children, well behaved. But that was until a fortnight ago when a fight broke out.

    The wife, Jovita, who for the 11 years of their idyllic matrimony fondly called her husband ‘Mine’, used despicable adjectives to describe him. The husband, Yemi, who was seething with anger, threatened to beat her up. He wanted her to take the four children he tagged ‘bastards’ out of his life for good.

    The situation was practically out of control at the time this reporter met the husband, who was willing to blow the lid off the cover of his wife . It took the persuasion of a few of their male neighbours to calm him.

    A victim, his story

    Akinwole: “Before now, I had always been concerned each time, particularly, two of my children would be sick and we had to take them to the hospital. My wife would naturally act the good, caring mother and tell me not to worry that she would handle it. At first, it did not bother me. But as time went on, I would discuss with her that the children might think that I do not care about them and they would take to you more than me. But trust my wife to readily assure me that she had explained to the children and that she was just doing her natural duty as a wife and mother. Ours was what you would call a good family, no doubt. Again, I was always protective of the peace and love in our home. The children knew I loved their mom. They could see our unity. And I always reminded them that it required sacrifice on each of our parts. I work hard to fend for my family and she knows I never joke with that.

    “But, I believe it is God that does not want my efforts to go in vain who made the very sickly one among the children very sick at a time my wife was not around and I had to handle the situation. It was not long after I got home from the office on this particular day that the child slumped and would have died when the other children shouted ‘daddy, daddy, Toke has fainted!’ I dropped what I was doing and ran to her, picked up my car keys and rushed her to the hospital. I got to our private hospital, and the family doctor said that the child was anaemic. So, I asked what was to be done and he said we had to give him blood. Fortunately, for me, the mother was not around. I know that if she was, she would have pressured me to just go for the blood bank. And I actually tried to call her but communication network was awful as usual. So, I called our eldest child to keep trying the mother until he got her. Obviously, he too tried fruitlessly. Back to the doctor, I asked if I could donate blood to set the child on a resuscitation course. The doctor gave his consent. Few minutes later, he called me into his office and told me that he could not give the child my blood because we don’t match. I laughed at the doctor and said that was not possible. He said well it’s his job and he wouldn’t trifle with such an expensive incident when it had to do with life. So, as a man, I begged him to do what he could. We then resorted to a blood bank and I paid all that was necessary. All the while, I kept calling our home. My wife was not back. So, I told the other children to lock up the house and meet me at the hospital. I told them our need and they all volunteered to give blood to their sibling.

    “The children are 10, eight, six and four. It is the six-year-old that was sick. So, samples of the ten, eight and four year old were taken purposely for paternity test but we didn’t want them to be suspicious. So, we made them think it was for donation to their sick sibling. When my wife got home and we told her how the child was sick and taken to hospital and was placed on admission, instead of thanking me, she got so mad you would think it was a crime for me to take care of a child I presumed was my own. You know what, I kept calm. I watched her fidget and nag for days. After one week, the doctor invited me to his office and informed me that only the first child has my blood. I was furious. But he told me to calm down that he would like to talk to my wife first.

    “So, I started watching. My wife suspected that I began to keep more to myself. I managed my emotions until another day that the doctor invited me to his office again. This time, I met my wife in his office. I noticed her swollen eyes that she must have been crying. So, I just dropped the bombshell and said ‘so, I am not the father of three of your children!’ Initially, she fell on her knees, begging me, but because we were in an hospital premises, I stormed out and went home, waiting for her. When she got home, again, she went on her knees and told me that it was because she was not having conjugal satisfaction from me that made her to look out. I shouted that is infidelity. She told the doctor who their real father or fathers are. I don’t want to give a damn about that. She should take them to him or them. Perhaps, I would miss those innocent children.”

    After reliving his experience, he jumped up trying to beat the wife but some men stopped him from going to his wife, who was still raining abuses on him while picking some of her personal effects.

    A wife’s bold face

    When approached, the angry woman yelled at this reporter to leave her alone.

    In law, paternity is defined as the legal acknowledgment of the parental relationship between a man and a child and it is usually based on several factors. The law gives backing to paternity DNA testing to enable families find out who the actual biological father of a child is and then empowers them to build a family life based on truth and trust, instead of doubt.

    The Dana angle

    Was Moses George the father of Hannah? That is a puzzle his family is battling to unravel. George was killed in the June 3 Dana plane crash in Lagos.

    The DNA test result of the retired Fire Service official and Hannah, his daughter, according to Consultant Forensic Pathologist and Chief Examiner, Lagos State University Teaching Hospital (LASUTH), Prof John Obafunwa, did not match. This suggests he was not her father.

    But the family is querying the result. It has resubmitted fresh samples for a retest.

    A cousin to the late George, Chief Moses Olajide, said he began to panic when he discovered that his uncle’s name was not among those whose DNA results arrived from the UK.

    He said: “A day after the incident, my cousin (Hannah) and l came here (LASUTH) to identify the body of my uncle. We saw it in the mortuary. The body was intact. His identity card was hung on him. The name was number 22 among the names of identifiable bodies released by the hospital.

    “I understand there were 16 bodies that were burnt beyond forensic analysis or some families could not show up with reference samples. But our case does not fall into any of these categories. So, where is his body?”

    Another family member said: “Prof. said the DNA results did not correspond with that of the man (deceased). Really, I don’t understand what is happening. What could that mean?”

    DNA paternity

    tests don’t lie

    A paternity DNA test is one of the most accurate ways to determine who the biological father of a child is. All that is required is a simple swab from the inside of the cheek. And the results have been 99.9999 per cent accurate.

    CEO, DNA Centre, Lagos, Mr. Abiodun Salami, narrated the story of a man who presumed he was the father of his four children.

    He said: “This man came to us for testing. And none of the four children were his. He was so devastated. Now, he was able to know this because his wife died. And few months after the burial ceremonies, another man showed up with evidence that the four children were his. The other man who came to lay claim was hell bent on having his children to himself because he didn’t want to lose out completely. Now, all these children are adults, with the last child in the Senior Secondary School. It became such a knotty issue. But the children helped us to resolve it when the eldest said, ‘okay, you may not be our actual biological father. It is you we know who raised and sent us to school till we have become who we are today. So, you remain our father, not the new man whom we have never seen till this time. “

    Salami said there was the case of a woman who ‘shopped’ for a ‘father’ for her son out of the five men she had copulated sex with.

    He said: “At the end, she gave the child to the richest, the one with the highest prospects, among the men. However, at about age seven, the child was very ill and required blood transfusion. The father was called to donate blood for his child. He did. The blood was tested. And it was found that their blood did not match. The father gave another pint of blood and the result was negative. So, the woman was called and queried. It was at the point of seeing that her child was dying that she confessed to having slept with about five men in her desperation to have children. Now, this same woman, on seeing that she got pregnant and wanted the rich man, met with her pastor at that time to dissolve her marriage to her actual husband so she could get married to the rich man . The pastors and other family members pleaded with her but she refused to accept their pleas. So, her request was granted. The husband she left later married another woman and has children with that one. By the time they pressed her to bring the other men, it was the nonentity, whom she did not want to consider at the start, a man that could not even fend for himself that fathered the baby. She almost ran mad. And this happened in Lagos State here, not any other place. So, it is a very dicey situation and couples should not fool themselves into taking things for granted.

    “We also saw the case of another couple that had been married for four years. Then one day, the lady met an old school boyfriend. They rekindled their friendship and before you know it, they started meeting secretly somewhere. In about three months of outing with the boyfriend, she became pregnant. Apparently, the boyfriend was pestering her that he would take his baby and cannot allow her to give it to her husband. This lady then went to meet with her pastor and confessed to him and asked for his help. So, the pastor encouraged her to go and confess to her husband. But instead of going to confess to her husband, she put up a big fight and scattered the home she had built over the years. She told the husband that none of the four other children, apart from the new pregnancy, belonged to him. Among the children was a set of twins which the father was strongly bonded with and he even believed that they take after him in everything. But after the test, he was nowhere near being their father. So, while the issue became messy, the man’s family said she should call the real fathers of the children to come and take their children. This woman brought two other men and their DNA did not match that of any of the children. The husband at home quickly filed for divorce and ran away from her with her children. The woman was then left to her problems to go in search of the fathers of her children.”