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  • Mary Njoku opens up on struggle with uncertainty, self-doubt

    Mary Njoku opens up on struggle with uncertainty, self-doubt

    Actress Mary Remmy Njoku has opened up about her struggles with uncertainty and self-doubt in an Instagram post.

    She shared that she was feeling stuck at a crossroads in her life, unsure of what direction to take.

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    According to her, what’s unsettling her is the realisation that people she thought she knew may not be what they seem, leaving her shaken.

    Mary, known for her strength and decisiveness,
    wrote: “I am at a point in my life where I genuinely don’t know what to do. It feels like I’m standing at a crossroads, uncertain and stuck. The people you think you know, you come to realize, maybe you don’t know them at all. And that shakes you. I usually have answers. I’m used to clarity, to direction. But this time, I don’t have any answers. I honestly don’t know what to do. Head is full. Can’t sleep”.

  • Mary Njoku cautions against pressure disguised as encouragement

    Mary Njoku cautions against pressure disguised as encouragement

    Actress Mary Njoku has advised people to be more thoughtful in how they offer encouragement, warning that well-meaning words can sometimes cause unintended harm.

    In a recent Instagram post, Njoku noted that telling someone they can achieve something they personally believe is beyond their ability may feel more like pressure than support.

    According to her, such remarks can lead to feelings of guilt, failure, or even depression.

    She stressed the importance of respecting an individual’s self-assessment, stating that belief in oneself often fuels success, while a lack of it should be accepted without criticism.

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    Njoku concluded by saying that, at times, the best form of support is simply being present and listening, rather than offering unsolicited advice.

    Njoku wrote, “Sometimes telling someone they can do what they deeply believe they can’t isn’t encouragement, it is pressure. It can feel like guilt, like failure. It can even feel like depression. So my dear, if you say you can, then you can. If you say you can’t, then you can’t, and that’s okay. Sometimes, the best advice is no advice at all.”

  • Why JAMB should be scrapped, by Actress Mary Njoku

    Why JAMB should be scrapped, by Actress Mary Njoku

    Actress Mary Njoku has questioned the importance of the Joint Admissions and Matriculation Board (JAMB) exams for university admissions in Nigeria.

    In a recent Instagram post, she questioned the relevance of JAMB exams, recalling her failing the exams multiple times before finding success in Nollywood.

    According to Njoku, the Senior School Certificate Examination (SSCE) should be sufficient for university admissions and JAMB exams may be an unnecessary hurdle for students.

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    She wrote: “Why is it necessary to take the JAMB exams to gain admission into universities? Isn’t the SSCE sufficient? I don’t understand the need for JAMB+ post-JAMB when the SSCE already shows we’ve completed Secondary School.

    “Speaking from experience, JAMB almost ‘jammed’ my life. Literally.
    After sitting for it multiple times without admission, I thank God for NOLLYWOOD. That detour gave me purpose, but honestly, if you ask me (I know nobody is asking), I truly believe JAMB should be scrapped.

    “Why should students who already passed the Senior School Certificate Examination (SSCE) be forced to jump through yet another hoop? If universities want to be selective, they can ask for more credits, like A’s and B’s in key subjects. That’s fair. But JAMB? It discourages thousands of bright, capable young people every single year. My thoughts”.

  • Focus on skills, not just BBL – Mary Njoku advises women

    Focus on skills, not just BBL – Mary Njoku advises women

    Actress Mary Njoku has urged women to prioritize developing their skills and knowledge over undergoing cosmetic procedures like Brazilian Butt Lift (BBL) surgery.

    In a post on her Instagram page on Friday, Njoku noted that beauty is no longer exclusive, as anyone with financial resources can enhance their appearance.

    She stressed that intellectual growth and personal development are the true ways to stand out, cautioning that while physical enhancements may be appealing, they should not come at the expense of mental and emotional growth.

    The actress encouraged women to invest in self-improvement and skill-building, emphasizing the importance of long-term personal development.

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    She wrote: “But here’s the thing: Beauty isn’t rare anymore. It’s not a big deal to be beautiful. Anyone with money can alter their look. What will truly make you stand out is your mind. Develop your brain. Invest in your skills. Build your knowledge. While you can buy a new body, you can’t buy a new brain. BBL is basically buy one, get one free.

    “You can’t alter your brain, but you can develop it. So while you’re busy getting a nose job and buying new boobs, make sure you set aside some budget for your personal growth. Because a BBL without a brain? That’s a disaster waiting to happen. SUBSTANCE over SURFACE.”

  • Mary Njoku questions relevance of Nollywood guilds, associations

    Mary Njoku questions relevance of Nollywood guilds, associations

    Actress Mary Njoku has raised concerns about the benefits of joining Nollywood guilds and associations, questioning their impact on members.

    In a post on her Instagram story, Njoku revealed that she struggled to provide a clear answer when an up-and-coming filmmaker asked about the advantages of guild membership.

    She urged the Actors Guild of Nigeria (AGN) and other Nollywood associations to clarify and present evidence of the tangible benefits they offer to their members.

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    She wrote: “A budding filmmaker asked me ‘what are the benefits of being part of Nollywood guilds and associations?’ and I am struggling to give a clear answer. Can someone help outline the benefits with supporting evidence?”

    According to the National Film and Video Censors Board (NFVCB), there are 22 approved Nollywood guilds and associations, including the AGN and Theatre Arts and Motion Picture Practitioners Association of Nigeria (TAMPAN). 

  • Mary Njoku, others react to 2baba, Annie Idibia’s marital crisis

    Mary Njoku, others react to 2baba, Annie Idibia’s marital crisis

    Actress and producer Mary Njoku and netizens have criticized 2baba’s decision to divorce his wife, Annie Idibia.

    Njoku expressed her concerns on Instagram, stating that 2baba’s actions would humiliate Annie, who has already made tough choices for the family.

    Njoku’s reaction is not isolated, as many fans and friends of Annie have questioned 2baba’s decision.

    She wrote: “Bro, Annie has a family o, your sisters-in-law are many, and we’ve stayed quiet out of respect for her tough choices.

    “But since you’ve decided to humiliate her at her lowest, no wahala. It’s your choice, just make sure she’s healthy and ok.

    “Because when the time comes, we’ll have plenty of questions for you.”

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    Netizens reactions: One Bayo Otedola on X wrote: “We all know 2face to be a very quiet and private person about his marriage and for him to come online to make such statement about his marriage means he’s seen enough. I wish the guy all the love and support he needs at this time. All the best 2baba”

    Oku_yungx wrote: “It is really difficult to see a grown man speak up honestly. 2face needs all the support he can get this period.  He looks worn out just like Pep Guardiola.  Gentlemen, stay praying for 2baba and his family.”

    The Amazon wrote: “This whole 2baba and Annie saga is just a description of how men always put themselves first! Men are very selfish with their life choices, they use their head not heart to act, unlike women, always emotional about everything and put men first before themselves”.

    Big Love wrote: “The way 2face embarrasses Annie is just too much! Disgracing the woman who stood by him when he had nothing, giving him her life. Even if the whole world is against her, 2baba should know better. He’s always finding a way to disgrace her when people are against her. Her first love is you, 2baba. She sees you as her best friend and husband! She doesn’t have anyone else but you. You’re the one she trusts and leans on. It’s heartbreaking for Annie. I hope all of you won’t kill her because of your madness and hate for this innocent girl. She’s been nothing but loyal and deserves better than all this negativity”.

    The legendary singer announced his plans to divorce Annie on Sunday, which sparked widespread criticism.

  • Mary Njoku reels out plans for ROK Studios for the year

    Mary Njoku reels out plans for ROK Studios for the year

    ROK Studios has made it known that it would continue in its goal to discover more fresh talents and create stars that might not otherwise have had the chance.

    While announcing the plans of the brand for 2025, the Chief Executive Officer of ROK Studios, Mary Njoku, expressed gratitude to Nigerians for the steadfast support to the ROK brand as well as producers and production crew for helping in making stars.

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    She said: “Now, we are gearing up for auditions in four states: Lagos, Enugu, Abuja, and Uyo. Sadly, we won’t be holding auditions in Edo this time around. I would have loved to include it, but we need to ensure security conditions are suitable before we proceed. Hopefully, in the near future, we can make that happen. The auditions will start next week, and from there, we will be selecting the stars of this year and beyond. The talents chosen will feature in most of our productions this year and next.”

  • Mary Njoku questions Botox trend among young women

    Mary Njoku questions Botox trend among young women

    Actress and filmmaker, Mary Njoku, has raised concerns about the increasing trend of young women opting for Botox injections.

    On her Instagram page, Njoku questioned why 21-year-olds are undergoing a cosmetic procedure typically used by women in their 40s and 50s to reduce wrinkles. 

    She wondered about wrinkles women in their early 20s could possibly need to hide.

    The actress urged young women to embrace their youth and natural beauty, reminding them that many people would give anything to relive their 20s and cherish the youthful glow that comes with it.

    Njoku also addressed parents, encouraging them to instill in their daughters a love for their natural selves.

    She stressed the importance of building self-esteem and promoting positive body image from a young age.

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    She wrote: “Botox at 21? Really, why?

    “Is having a lifeless face now the new trend?

    Older people, those in their 40s and 50s use it to reduce wrinkles.

    “But at 20s, what wrinkles could you possibly be trying to hide? Embrace your youth while you still can.

    “If only they understood how much people would give to be in their 20s again. They’d cherish their youthful beauty even more. Let’s teach our daughters to embrace and celebrate their natural selves. Self-esteem is everything.”

  • Mary Njoku speaks on challenges of parenting

    Mary Njoku speaks on challenges of parenting

    Actress and filmmaker, Mary Njoku, has revealed the challenges that come with parenting.

    The mother of three emphasised the unconditional love required for parenting.

    Sharing her thoughts on Instagram, she wrote: “One minute it feels like I’m nailing this parenting, and the next, I’m wondering, “How did we get here?”. Parenting is a real jungle!

    “Expect the unexpected. Hmmm. The love a mother has for a child has to be agape o! Cos dem dey test me o!”

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    Mary’s post highlighted the ups and downs of parenting and the need for patience, understanding, and unwavering love

  • Separate social media from real life – Mary Njoku

    Separate social media from real life – Mary Njoku

    Actress Mary Njoku has advised social media users, lamenting the shift from confrontational conversations to keyboard warfare.

    On Instagram, Mary expressed nostalgia for the days when people addressed issues in person.

    She criticised the current trend of seeking sympathy and fleeting fame online rather than tackling problems in the real world.

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    “I miss the days when if someone messed up, you’d confront them in person and have a team conversation. Now, we’ve become keyboard warriors, seeking public sympathy and temporary fame on SM instead of facing issues head-on.

    “That’s why nothing changes! That ‘Lecturer’ might still not be fired!
    Real life is REAL and no one truly cares about your struggles. While on SM, start solving your problems in the real world.

    “Wake up. Wake up! Social media isn’t REAL. Stop living in it. REAL is REAL,” she wrote.