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  • Bob Fitts, Phil Thompson storm Nigeria for Eben

    Nigerian gospel music sensation, Eben is set to host a live concert featuring top gospel musicians including popular American musicians, Bob Fitts and Phil Thompson and a host of others.

    Tagged Joyful Noise 2019, the free concert is scheduled by 4pm to hold Sunday, September 15th at Loveworld Arena, Lekki, Lagos.

    Eben will be joined on stage by a strong line-up that includes Tim Godfrey, Nathaniel Bassey, Mercy Chinwo, SammieOkposo, Jahdiel, Joe Praize, Laolu Gbenjo, Seyi Isreal, Testimony Jaga and Outburst among others.

    Born Emmanuel Benjamin, the multiple award-winning singer has churned out hit gospel songs that has become a household favourite in Nigeria and beyond. Some of them include All The Way, God All By Yourself and Jesus At The Center among others. Eben’s single, Victory has crossed over 30 million views on videos streaming site, YouTube ranking it among the biggest gospel songs out of Nigeria.

    While assuring of an amazing time at the free to all concert, the versatile singer promised that the event is not about entertainment but would be a live-changing experience for all attendees.

    “The message we are set to make with Joyful Noise is to entrench a culture of praise. Several times in life, we mortals pray very hard yet the problems don’t go. At Joyful Noise, all we just want to do is praise and worship God under an atmosphere of anointing trusting Him to rain down miracles upon His people. What’s more, I will be joined by some anointed men and women God in the gospel music ministry from the United States and Nigeria. I look forward to having an amazing time with everyone,” he added.

  • Viva Africa!

    In the midst of the ongoing outcry over xenophobic attack of black foreigners in South Africa, it is only wise to stop and think for a moment where this is leading.

    If, like mine, your answer is that ‘this cup will pass’, then there is need to employ diplomacy in every step and eschew self righteousness because, in my humble opinion, we are all to blame – the government of Nigeria that has long sold the country’s birth right and put it’s citizens at the mercy of foreigners (home and abroad, whites, greens, blue yellow and fellow blacks), the government of South Africa which appears complicity as proven by a foot-dragging president and a sentiment-spilling Minister, a situation which has now made the Nigerian government to speak diplomacy with a frowned face. Then, of course are the ordinary Nigerians who push their aspirations to the point of self entitlement In foreign lands and the ‘hopeless’ South African miscreants  who, like their counterparts in Nigeria take advantage of the situation to vandalise and loot stores.

    If we value the lives of the remaining Nigerians in South Africa, we must understand that reprisals is not the solution. I do not want to go into the issue of ratio of Nigerians in South Africa and vice versa or which side will suffer more economic loss if we both go the burning and looting spree. Rather, let’s allow the governments of both countries, and possibly the African Union to handle this the best ways possible.

    Talking about the logs in our own eyes, we are so quick to blame xenophobic attacks when we swin constantly in bottled ethnic and religious discrepancies.

    That aside, we must understand that, even with the free evacuation plan for Nigerians in South Africa by Air Peace, more than 70 percent will still be unwilling to return. Return to what jobs? what security? What health services? If I may ask.

    Come to think of it, it is not the entire South African cities that are boiling. I hear many other Nigerians are going on with their daily activities without intimidations.

    There are Nigerians who have lived in that country all their life, who have investments there, who are married to South Africans and have grown up kids.

    If we understand that once upon a time, Nigerians chased Ghanaians away and, ironically, are finding a better haven in Accra, Kumasi etc today, we would understand how possessive and selfish we can be as Africans whenever our farms yield better.

    Should I want to join the protest, what do I boycott, who do I snub and how? I’ve been thinking. And as I plan to attend the Toronto International Film Festival next week, the only thing that comes to mind is an African entry ‘Knuckle City’ by acclaimed South African writer/director, Jahmil X.T Qubeka. But why should I do that to creativity, especially if there is no evidence that personally, the filmmaker is in support of the madness going on in his country.

    There are few African entries at TIFF this year. These include Nigeria’s ‘The Lost Okoroshi’ by Abba Makama (who may not be attending the festival because of Visa issue); ‘Knuckle City ‘ by Jahmil  and ‘Crazy World’ by Uganda’s gonzo action autuer, Isaac Nabwana.

    If I understand Jahmil’s kind of film funding, his latest might just be another co-production flick that could make it, not entirely a South African film.

    I like the fact that the Africa International Film Festival (AFRIFF) is not boycotting South African entries outrightly, even though it is joining the protest.

    The proviso, according to AFRIFF Founder, Chioma Ude, is to review all South African films submitted to the festival “with the intention of expressly removing any film and banning any filmmaker from the festival that has positively expressed xenophobic ideas or any kinds of bigotry.”

    Recall that in the midst of arguments over the inclusion of Roman Polanski’s film at Venice Film Festival last August, Festival director Alberto Barbera defended his decision, saying: “We have to distinguish between the art and the man” when judging the works of the filmmaker, who was convicted for the statutory rape of a 13-year-old in 1978.

    The issue of xenophobic attacks in SA is a sensitive one, and we must look at how individuals with a voice have approached it.

    I particularly like the voice of South African comedian and host of The Daily Show, Trevor Noah, who cited statistics in 2017 that of the 2.3 million immigrants living in the country, 1.6 million are Africans, and they claim less than 0.00001 percent of the country’s wealth.

    He said: “Yours is complete misplaced anger, prejudice and xenophobia built up out of inferiority complex created by decades of apartheid and oppression. I don’t see fellow African as a competitor but a fellow compatriot who is struggling to feed his family and have some comfort in this short life-time.”

    We must think beyond today. ‘Viva Africa’ is a phrase mostly used by South Africans.

  • Cars45 gives boost to Reality Tv Show

    CARS45 has announced the signing of an agreement to support the nation’s number one premium car television show, Cars and Stars. The partnership seeks to promote the appreciation and culture of car review shows in Nigeria and empower viewers with the knowledge of all things automotive.

    Cars and Stars, which is currently in its second season, provides viewers with an informative and entertaining experience via reviews focused on the new and used car industries, exciting celebrity interviews, as well as local and international auto industry news updates.

    Vice President, Consumer-to-Business services, Cars45, Mayokun Fadeyibi, described the partnership as a commitment from Car45 to continue to deepen value creation and reinforce its position as a market-maker within Nigeria’s automotive industry.

    “At Cars45, we believe in empowering consumers with the knowledge that enables them make informed-buying decision when making automotive purchases. Cars and Stars provides us with a pulpit to extend this value and give Nigeria’s automotive industry the well-needed boost in a fun, relaxed and entertaining way,” Fadeyibi said.

    Vice President, Consumer-to-Business Services, Cars45, Mayokun Fadeyibi, and Executive Producer, Cars and Stars, Taiwo Onalaja, signed the partnership agreement on behalf of their respective organisations.

    It will be recalled that only a few months ago, Cars45 powered the launch of #FaajiFriday by actor-comedian, EmmaOhMyGod, and recently released two mouth-watering television commercials, which have been aired on BigBrotherNaija reality show.

  • Our youths are damaging their auditory cells with earphones — Professor of Audiology Owolawi

    Wahab Dele Owolawi is a consultant and professor of Audiology at the King Saudi University, Saudi Arabia. He has been practising for 30 years in a line of medicine where there are only a few Nigerians. As a result of a dearth of professionals, he set up Decibel Hearing Consultants in Nigeria. In this interview with GBENGA ADERANTI, Owolawi talks about the hearing challenges many Nigerians are facing sometimes without even knowing it, why he remains in Saudi Arabia and how government can revive the health sector

    At what point did you decide to leave Nigeria for Saudi Arabia?

    I decided to go to Saudi Arabia in 1999, partly because of the appalling situation of things in the country, particularly with respect to medical practice and our area of specialization, which is Audiology. When I got an offer in Saudi Arabia, first and foremost, it was financially rewarding. Secondly, they have the tools one can utilise to do the job effectively. That prompted me to take an appointment with the Saudi government.

    You talked about appalling situation. What are you really talking about here?

    You would realise that we were under the military for quite some time. During that period, there were a lot of problems in the country. Lots of agitations and attention was not focused on medical practice. I was working with the Lagos University Teaching Hospital (LUTH) before I decided to go. We were in the state where we could not get the basic equipment for the diagnosis of problems and treatment of people who had hearing disorder. One could not do so much and one’s training abroad was being underutilised or not even utilised at all. That was the situation.

    We didn’t have the requisite equipment. We didn’t have what could be regarded as the standard audiological centre in the hospital, and all efforts to make them understand were not heeded in a way. So, I decided to take my leave.

    That also enriched my experience outside the country. It also enhanced my capability to be able to see what obtains elsewhere and to be able also to improve my skill working with other colleagues from other parts of the world.

    In Saudi Arabia, people from the US, UK and India, all of us were working together and that also added to my experience beyond the local environment of Nigeria.

    I want you to compare the situation you left behind during the military era with what obtains now. How positive has been the shift in terms of medical facilities? Why is it that people still go abroad for treatment, especially when they are being treated by Nigerian doctors abroad?

    I wouldn’t say things have not improved. It has in a way. But looking at it from holistic perspective, we still have a very long way to go. Bcause if one visits some of our hospitals, one would still feel sad with regards to what obtains in terms of facilities. But I think to some extent, things have improved. I wouldn’t say significantly, but not yet to the standards that is required for a country like Nigeria. So we still have a long way to go.

    I can’t imagine people going to India for medical care. It baffles me to see that. I believe that with the rate at which we were during the colonial and post-colonial period before the military came, I think we were doing excellently well. For example, the University College Hospital (UCH), Ibadan was rated 5th in the whole of Commonwealth. And from the information we had, even some Saudi royals were attending UCH Ibadan for medical care. But today, the reverse is the case. People go to Dubai, India and so on. So we need to put our act together and focus on health care for our people. It is very essential.

    We have the experts, the professionals are there and I think if things are made available and we improve on medical education in the country, things will be much better than we have at the moment.

    If we once had a robust health sector, where did things go wrong?

    I think that is a question I can’t conveniently answer because that has to do with our political system. When there is no accountability, when people think whatever belongs to the government belongs to nobody; when people do not have the mindset of service above self, you have to serve without taking from whatever you are doing. When I talk of politicians, well we all know what is happening in terms of self-aggrandizement, corruption, and so on.

    Corruption kills a nation and I think to a certain extent that has been our Achill heel. We have to re-orientate ourselves. By reorienting ourselves, I think we can get there. Nigeria is a great country; there is no doubt about that. But what actually confers greatness on a nation is the ability to take care of its people. When our health system is up to standard, when we have a system that cares for all, I think things will be better. It started before or during the military period. You can’t question what they do. But today, we have democratic political system. At the same time, graft and corruption is killing if it has not already killed the nation.

    Let’s assume you are the current health minister; what are the reforms you would embark on?

    First and foremost, we need to restructure our educational system. Whether health sector or other sectors, we need to reform that. Because with sound education, I believe we will go a long way. We all know where we were in the past and we know what obtains these days with respect to our educational system. It is a holistic thing. It is something that requires total overhaul. It starts from kindergarten.

    We also have to be competitive. In Saudi Arabia where I am, we have people from different countries. There is competition. You are bound to put up your best. But here, we have a lot of professionals around, but we need to be competitive.

    The question on becoming the minister of health, forget about it.

    There are different areas of medicine you could have specialized in. Why audiology?

    Yes it is based on one, passion and compassion. Compassion in the sense that people who have hearing problems are hardly heard. What we call hidden disability. People don’t see it, so it does not evoke sympathy. It does not involve care as such, unlike the eyes. The eyes are very visible. People can see them, and that can elicit sympathy. But auditory problem, it is very difficult. And I also had a lot of information about some of the children who were easily knocked down by cars, particularly at Wesley School for the deaf when I was in the university. They were knocked down by cars because they could not hear when a car was coming, and that actually prompted me to say, ‘Why can’t we do something about these children who have hearing challenge?’ That motivated me to choose audiology.

    So what are you doing about it?

    Like you rightly said, there are very few in the country, and because we’re trying to do our little best, we need training institutions for audiology. In Nigeria, we don’t have a single institution that trains audiologists in the clinical field. South Africa has about five or six universities, they have less population in comparison to Nigeria, but Nigeria does not have any.

    We are trying to push that forward to some of the universities. One university, Obafemi Awolowo University, Ile Ife, has indicated interest, and we are trying to see that we have a training institution where we can train more hands so that people can take over from us. If we don’t put that in place today, we might regret it in the future. And if you look at our society, a lot of people are actually going about without realizing that they have hearing problem. Some people have wax blocking their ears but they don’t know. Some people go about with noise all over the place. They would go to pharmacy and purchase drug that could damage their auditory system. They don’t know where to go and those who know where to go sometimes go to quacks and they are misdiagnosed and a lot of problems arise from that.

    So, these are some of the things we’re trying to put in place so that Nigerians can also benefit like others in the developed world.

    Many would wonder why you chose to come back to Nigeria after spending 15 years in Saudi Arabia as a teacher and a consultant…

    I work in King Saud University in Saudi Arabia and on my own volition decided to come and establish a clinic because hearing healthcare seems not to be well known in Nigeria. There are so many people who are in search of solution to their hearing problems. As a result of that, I decided that it was worthwhile to come and establish a state-of-the-art audiological clinic. People go to the UK, US, Dubai, but I have decided to provide the facilities and expertise that is required so that Nigerians may stay here to have the best hearing aid.

    I felt that the best thing I can give back is to come back and offer services so that everyone can afford it no matter what, and give the best of service that is available in any part of the world. That is why we are here.

    How was life in Saudi Arabia?

    The statement that whether east, west, north or south, home is the best applies here. At the end of the day, you just have to come back home. Initially, because Nigeria is western oriented and Saudi Arabia is purely Middle East and Islamic oriented, even though I am a Muslim, there was an initial culture shock, a lot of restrictions which to some extent infused some sort of discipline into one’s life. I didn’t really find it obnoxious because those restrictions are put in place so that there will be order in the society. The only thing one misses is one’s friends. Sometimes you socialise here in Lagos. You go to parties. Where I am, we don’t commonly see Nigerian foods. We are always eating rice. These are the things.

    Averagely, it is a sane society. It is well developed. Where I am, particularly Riyad, I can call it 21st Century city. And what impresses me the most is the care they give to their citizens. They give 100 per cent care to their citizens. Health care is free. They pay their students for being in the university. They pay them on a monthly basis. Absolutely, there is safety. There is a bit of sanity. You can drive your car at any time of the day or night without being molested or challenged by anyone.

    The only down side is that most people speak Arabic. And for those of us who don’t speak Arabic, sometimes, we have little challenges. I ought to have returned home fully. I was expected to have returned five years ago but they kept renewing my contract. They are not prepared yet to release me because of the services I’m rendering to their citizens. I lecture in the university. I also consult in their hospitals.

    Do you think this policy of retiring medical doctors at certain age is healthy?

    Actually, officially, they are supposed to retire their doctors at 60. But they have a proviso that you can still stay beyond 60 because of the experience and particularly because they don’t have a citizen of Saudi who is a specialist in the field. You may still stay till 70. I’ve been practising in Saudi for 15 years now.

    Most Nigerian doctors excel when they go abroad. What could be responsible for that?

    The facility and the conducive environment. Over there, they provide you with necessary facilities to do your work effectively. If we have something similar, we will do better. Our professionals are good. We have good doctors, but when the facilities are not there, what would they do? So it is difficult. We need to improve on our trainings. I remember in those days some medical students were sent abroad to have one year or two years exposure, and when they returned, they would deploy the experiences they had acquired to the services they were rendering here.

    Such programmes should continue because we are not an Island. A lot of development has occurred over the years, particularly in the western world.

    We need to be conversant with this development. We need to acquire the skills that are required so that we can bring the skill and experience back home to impact positively on the people of the country. Saudi Arabia tends to send her own citizens outside to US, Canada and UK to acquire experience and higher degrees, and when they come back they do very well.

    I think if we can put some of these things in place for some of our doctors, even if it is just for one year outside the country, and come back and provide them with the necessary tools to work with, things will be better

    How often do you think Nigerians should visit audiologists?

    It is very important that every Nigerian should be aware of their hearing status. Why? There’s noise all over the place, particularly in Lagos. People walk into the pharmacy and buy any medication, antibiotics which are dangerous. We have drugs that we call autotoxin drugs. They are not friendly to the auditory system. Some damage the vestibular system that gives us opportunity to have a balance. And all these things, people don’t know that they have to check. There are drugs that actually destroy the cochlear, the inner ear. There are some that destroy the vestibular system.

    And people who are also undergoing cancer treatment, they give them a particular type of drugs that destroy the auditory system. Yes, life is paramount. The first thing that the physician thinks about is survival. But the secondary effect of some of these medications is auditory compromise. It compromises the auditory system. So we need to see such people. We need to monitor them and if necessary, we need to dialogue with the physicians if there are alternatives that are less destructive to the auditory system.

    In short, every Nigerian has that opportunity, at least once a year. It’s an annual thing. In the western world, when a child is born, before the child is discharged from the hospital, the child will undergo hearing screening programme. We call it neonatal hearing screening programme. In some countries, it is blanket. Every child must have it. For example, in Germany, it is very general. In some other countries, they select some children who have suffered from measles, low birth weight (less than 1500g), birth asphyxia (they didn’t cry spontaneously after birth); children who were kept in intensive care unit for 29 days and above; babies who have crimo-facial abnormalities: you see their ears are deformed, the head is deformed; children that were born with prolonged labour that the mother suffered for so long that their mother suffered from rubella (German measles). They need examination. It is very crucial.

    We always talk about deaf-mute. But we do not realize that if a child is detected on time between the time of birth and six months and we are able to figure it out and we fit them with what is called hearing aid, the child will acquire speech exactly like a normal hearing child. But when the child is left for one or two years, it takes a very long time for us to be able to do therapy and make the child come back to normal.

    We have had numerous situations where a young person is wearing an earplug while crossing the road and a vehicle is honking only for an accident to occur. Is there any form of enlightenment for these situations?

    On the wearing of earplugs, most of our youths are not aware of the damage that is being caused. Some of them are listening to music, the volume is high and they do not realise the volume is high. All they think about is ‘I am enjoying myself’. But with the enjoyment comes something else. And that something is the damage to the auditory cells. It is better if the earplugs are not worn.

    So it’s a trend that we need to educate people on. People need enlightenment and this is the only thing that can liberate this behavior, which is detrimental to them and to the society generally. So we would continue to talk about it, continue to propagate the gospel of safe hearing.

    One of the best things they could do is to put it on their speakers. If you want to listen to music, put it on speaker and listen to it. But popping out the earphones all the time causes not only fatigue to the ears it causes a mild hearing loss at that point in time. If somebody who is talking to you does not raise his voice higher you might be missing a lot of things.

  • Kings and queens of endorsement

    Celebrity endorsement is the mother of all side hustles. In recent times, it has guaranteed a steady stream of hefty income for our biggest celebs with some of them earning as seven or eight digit sign-on fees.

    Once an individual reaches a celebrity status, be it in music, sports, acting or comedy, he is at the point of hitting it big.  Brands, intent on connect in with their existing customers and attract new ones, are always quick to get celebrities aboard to help them promote their products.

    Several successful companies are happy to invest in a famous face because it guarantees an exponential jump in sales in the long run. Companies around the world also use celebrities endorsement to communicate their brand ideals to particular sets of customers and win market share.

    When selecting a celebrity endorser, a company might consider the credibility, physical appearance, intellectual weight, lifestyle and fan base.

    This week, we serve you celebrities who have landed the most lucrative endorsement deals in the business, including the corporate concerns, home appliances, cosmetic, equipment, clothing, food industries and lots more.

    Funke Akindele aka Jenifa

    Funke Akindele, popularly known as jenifa, is known for her success with sponsored ads and recently is believed to have made more money from brand partnerships than from her acting career. Apart from her major deal with a real estate brand, she is also a brand ambassador of a popular product. Idowu Philips

    Idowu Philips, widely known as Iya Rainbow, is a Nigerian veteran actress who has monopolised the twin roles of mother and grandmother for years in some of biggest movies.

    Ngozi Nwosu

    Veteran Nigerian actress and producer Nwosu has many movies to her credit and is one of Nollywood’s most famous faces.

    Helen Paul

    Helen Paul, aka Alhaja Donjazzy, who recently bagged a Ph.D in Theatre Arts from the prestigious University of Lagos is a comedian, singer and actress.

    Saka

    Afeez Oyetoro is a Nigerian comic actor and lecturer,  popularly known as Saka. Saka’s first big endorsement deal was with a telecom firm. He has since notched other deals.

    Odunlade Adekola

    Odunlade Adekola is a Nigerian actor, singer, film-maker, producer and movie director. He is arguably the most celebrated Yoruba movie actor in the industry at the moment. There is hardly a day that a movie featuring him doesn’t appear on our screen. He has quite a few endorsement deals.

    Olamide

    Nigerian hip hop recording artist, song writer and producer, ecords mostly in Yoruba, his native tongue. Olamide Adedeji known by his stage name Olamide but popularly called Olamide Baddo or BaddoSneh is one of the biggest Yoruba hippop artistes of his generation.

    Phyno

    When it comes to endorsements, Nigerian artist, producer and song writer, actor and the most popular igbo rapper, Phyno, is a master. He has a few good endorsements in the bag.

    Dbanj

    Popular Nigerian musician-Dbanj has everything in his favour: good looks, gorgeous body, a winsome smile and several musical hits. No wonder endorsements have not stopped rolling in, even if he has not been very active in the music scene in recent times. Dbanj is still shinning.

    Omawunmi

    Omawumi Megbele, known by her stage name Omawumi, is a Nigerian singer and songwriter who gained attention as the 2007 runner-up on West African Idols, a reality TV show part of the Idols franchise but has become a force to be reckoned with in the music industry with

    Genevieve Nnaji

    One of Nollywood’s veteran and most recognisable actresses, Genevieve  Nnaji, is a Nigerian actor, producer and director. Nnaji has starred in quite a few blockbusters. The extremely photogenic actress is every brand’s dream.

    Wizkid

    Ayodeji Ibrahim Balogun (born 16 July 1990), known professionally as Wizkid (sometimes stylised as WizKid), is one of Nigeria’s biggest hippop stars.

    Davido

    The Omo Baba Olow crooner, David Adedeji Adeleke better known by his stage name Davido, is a Nigerian singer, songwriter, record producer and entrepreneur.

    Burna Boy

    Nigerian international Afro-fusion singer and songwriter Damini Ogulu, popularly known as Burna Boy. Burna has been in the news recently for his very successful album, African Giant.

    Tiwa Savage

    Tiwatope Savage, Nigerian singer, songwriter, and actress, known professionally as Tiwa Savage, is a hardworking and highly talented music super star.

  • Simple ways to make a long-distance relationship work

    Being apart is definitely trying at times, even for couples with a relatively strong foundation. How do you get through it?

    When you’re in a long-distance relationship, being apart sucks for a number of reasons, not least of which is that you’re missing out on that all-important physical connection: holding hands, cuddling on the couch, kissing and, of course, having sex.

    “It’s normal to crave intimacy when you are apart, but sometimes maintaining intimacy and keeping things spicy is not as easy as it seems,”

    No one’s ever said that long-distance relationships are easy, but the distance doesn’t have to ruin your relationship either. With the right commitment and communication, long-distance relationships can actually be more stable than geographically close relationships.  Simple adjustments to your attitude and lifestyle can help you keep your loved one in your life.

    Many people believe that long-distance relationships are never going to work out. Your family may discourage it, and some of your best friends may advise you not to take it too seriously, in case you get your heart broken.

    Nobody says it is going to be easy-the extra distance makes many things unachievable. Things could get complicated, and you could get sad and lonely at times.

    Talk about mundane, little things: Don’t feel as though every conversation needs to be a thoughtful discussion about your relationship, hopes, or dreams. Instead, focus on the little things that couples who live together would, such as grocery shopping, doing chores around the house, or redecorating.[6] This gives the feeling of creating a home together, something you both can look forward to.

    Talking about the boring or mundane parts of your day can also foster connection and interdependence, the foundation of relationships.[7]

    Create trust: Trust in a relationship is vital, regardless of distance. Try your best to be faithful and avoid temptation. If you do make a mistake, it’s especially important to be honest and tell your partner the truth in cases where lying would benefit you. For example, if you put yourself in a position of temptation (like going to a bar), lying about your whereabouts would benefit you personally, but would benefit your relationship if you were honest.

    Frequent use of email and online resources can help cultivate trust in romantic relationships.[

    Tip 1: Be ready to work twice as hard as you did before:

    During college, my now-husband (then-boyfriend) went to school year round in Utah while I stayed behind and finished up high school and then attended a local college. Even though we were young, we knew our relationship was the one worth fighting for so we were determined to get through those years. We have now been together a total of 12 years and have been married for the last five. One thing we’ve learned? You need to work toward having a very strong, solid base to your relationship when you’re long distance.

    Be open, honest, and trusting. Take the time to figure out how and when is best to communicate with each other. Work at making each other feel special, even without seeing each other. All the things you work on during a normal relationship will need extra effort for in a long distance relationship

    Tip 2: Establish some ground rules about when you’ll see each other: My husband and I did long distance for five and a half years in total, with me working and going to school in Toronto and him in school in Florida. We had a rule to never go more than six weeks without seeing one another in person and we pretty much stuck to that. Be committed to each other.

    Be open and honest by volunteering private information. You should both be morally committed to each other, continuing the relationship because of personal values, not because of social pressures. Personal values include beliefs like staying faithful is part of my identity. Social pressures involve the perception of society’s approval or disapproval. For example, my mum would be devastated if I cheated on my girlfriend and she broke up with me.

    Watch out for behaviour where your partner tries to manipulate you into doing something that only benefits your partner, like lying about an emergency to get you to answer your phone during an important business meeting. If dishonesty and manipulation become a part of your communication, then you must revisit why your relationship lacks trust.

    Tip 3: Call and text each other throughout the day: My wife and I have had to do the long distance thing twice in our relationship. When we first met she lived about an hour away in San Jose and I lived in San Francisco.

    After we got married I was working in San Francisco and she was in Los Angeles and we only got a few days a month to see each other. We learned that you have to call and text each other during the day and share what’s going on. In other words, don’t wait to do it all in a phone call at the end of the day when you are tired. Make your partner part of your daily life.

    Matty Staudt

    Get comfortable talking about your feelings, needs and desires and listening to your partner’s, too.

    Be open with your partner. The key to intimacy in LDRs is open communication. Discuss the best ways to maintain intimacy with your partner. Don’t be shy to experiment with intimate activities that you both are comfortable doing. Communicate your sexual desires and be open to your partner’s desires, too. – Craig

    Don’t do anything irrational just because you’re angry or upset about something they’ve said or done. Communication is key, if you have a problem then talk it out, it will build better trust and a stronger bond. You can’t maintain a relationship if you are terrified that they will do something to you because you did something out of anger.

    Tip 4: Don’t forget to schedule regular Skype dates:

    It’s really essential that you and your partner have a schedule for when you’ll talk. We’re fortunate that we have so many different modes of contact these days, but texting is not enough to keep a long-distance relationship going. To maintain a strong relationship, you need to talk on the phone, but preferably something like Skype, as often as you can!

    It’s important to schedule those times so you and your partner know that this is the designated time to connect. Also, it’s important to continue living your own life when your significant other is away. Continue to interact with friends, remain social and carry on as you normally would. If you

  • SS1Cash disses Hushpuppi in ‘Dubai Lamba’

    US-based Nigerian pop singer, Stanley Isiguzo, popularly known as SS1Cash, has released a dismissive track titled, “Dubai Lamba,” to condemn celebrities who flaunt their wealth on the internet.

    In the high-tempo song, SS1Cash criticised social media personality, Hush Puppi and other celebs who show off their wealth but don’t support the youth as fake.

    “The song is a diss to every influential personality who does not channel their wealth to help and motivate the youth to do right. Hush Puppi is a broke guy with no Miney,” the talented singer said.

    A Ghanaian fan, Shatta Bundle, also posted a video-skit dancing to ‘Dubai Lamba’ while screaming Hush Puppi.

    SS1Cashi, who started music professionally in 2008, also sing praises to artistes like Davido, Obi Cubana, Mompher, E-Money, Jowizaza for being real.

    He, however, shared his music journey to the limelight: “The journey has not been easy but I thank God. Music has been an in-born gift. I featured in Charly Boy project titled, ‘New Nigerian’ in 2008, I was the one who took the Yoruba verse in his song. But I dropped my officially single titled, Omoalaje in 2011. Today, I thank God.

    ‘Dubai Lamba’ is a follow up to his hits single ‘OYA’ where he featured Slimcase.

  • Child model, Mildred Odige, signs ambassadorial deal

    FIVE years old child model, Mildred Odige, has signed an ambassadorial deal with Tender Heart Foundation.

    The deal, which was signed on Tuesday, will see Mildred represent the foundation which is working to empower indulgent women, orphans, among others in need.

    Tender Heart Foundation is a grassroot organisation working together to empower and support indulgent women, widows, orphans and children with educational support and continual provision of live saving services.

    The foundation was established to actively contribute to the realisation of the rights of all children to quality education and economic development and sustainable growth amongst indigent women. @tenderheartsfoundation

  • Malaria: The Environment

    Malaria is a disease that is transmitted by mosquitoes. Without mosquitoes, humans would not have malaria except if another biting insect takes over the vector role of mosquitoes.

    Mosquitoes have an interesting life cycle which involves laying their eggs on water and the early stages of mosquito life, the larva and pupa, are aquatic.

    The eggs hatch and become larvae in the water within 2 days.  In about a week or two, the larvae become pupae, form which adult flies emerge in about four days.  Therefore any small collection of water lying around for a few weeks may be good breeding ground for mosquitoes.

    Some natural environments are good habitats for mosquitoes.  If you live near a pond, lake, swamp, or marsh, you can be sure that you need to keep your home sealed from mosquitoes.  Some kinds of trees have tree holes in their trunk that can hold a small pool of water for long and produce a constant supply to mosquitoes especially during the rainy season.  On the other hand, the eucalyptus tree has an aroma that repels mosquitoes and other insects.

    In farmlands, stagnated irrigation water may breed mosquitoes.

    Within the city, there are many conducive mosquito habitats. Some of these mosquito habitats are within infrastructures that humans build such as in potholes in the sides of roads where cars do not pass, or in holes and gaps on foot paths, or in street gutters.  Around human habitats, mosquitoes may breed in stagnant water in roof gutters, in open water tanks, and in waste products of human activities such as old tires, tin cans, plastic containers, etc. Plastic pollution is particularly interesting to watch as this may stagnate water for long in waste dumps and clogged drainage systems.

    To control the breeding of mosquitoes around your habitat, you need to get rid of conducive mosquito habitats.  Keep your environment neat and tidy.  This includes not having water-holding litter or trash; filling gaps and cracks that can hold water  in cement works, on fences,  or on the ground, etc;  and keeping old tires sheltered  from rain water.  Trash bins should be covered to avoid rain water from entering and settling at the bottom.  Open containers left exposed to rain should be perforated at the bottom so that they do not hold water.

    If you have a swimming pool, keep it chlorinated.  This limits the growth of microbial life that mosquito larva need to live on. If you have an ornamental pond, use a pump to stir the water frequently. If you have an unused fountain or any other body of water, you can make the water uncomfortable or toxic for mosquito larvae and pupae.  You may try any of the known means:  a few drops of dish soap or shampoo per gallon of stagnant water; one tablespoon bleach per gallon of stagnant water; up to 15% vinegar for a small body of water, etc.

    If you must live around a large body of stagnant fresh water, you may need to create your own environmental balance or ecosystem.  You need to have predators that feed on mosquitoes, their eggs, larvae, or pupae. Such include pond fish, insects and birds that eat mosquitoes. The  mosquito fish or gambezi (Gambusia affinis)  eats mosquito larvae but may be harmed by sprays and chemicals therefore the two solutions are not compatible.  If you breed fish that feed on mosquitoes, avoid spraying and adding chemicals to the water. Many larvae eating fish feed at the water surface, however catfish that is a bottom feeding fish may also eat the larvae. Ducks and geese may filter the water for larvae and pupae and can help control mosquito populations.  They also eat mosquito fish, therefore both solutions are not compatible. If you breed fish, you may have to leave out ducks and geese. Some frogs eat mosquito larvae.  Amongst insects, dragon flies are well known to eat mosquitoes and are nicknamed mosquito hawks. Many birds will also feed on mosquitoes around ponds, therefore make the environment peaceful and inviting for them.

    Selected bacteria can be used to kill mosquito larvae.  Some manufactured products containing Bacillus thuringiensis israelensis are available for selectively killing mosquito larvae and not other water life such as fish and frogs.

    Spraying the water with insecticides such as cypermethrin kills not only mosquitoes, but also other insects which may affect the availability of food for frogs and other animals.  Garlic juice is also known to repel mosquitoes and may be sprayed in an enclosed environment.

    Climate change can affect the life cycle of mosquitoes and the transmission of malaria and such changes need constant study.   However, it is known that some mosquito species are adaptable; the eggs, larvae, or pupae may lay dormant through unfavorable conditions and rejuvenate when conditions are conducive for them.

    Overall, making the environment non conducive for mosquito breeding is very important for limiting the transmission of malaria parasites.

    Dr. Theresa Adebola John is a lecturer at Lagos State University College of Medicine (LASUCOM) and an affiliated researcher at the College of Medicine, University of Tennessee, Memphis.  For any comments or questions on this column, please email bolajohnwritings@yahoo.com or call 08160944635

  • Son burns down dad’s house

    A middle-aged man, Mr. Okon Samson Udofia, has appealed to the Akwa Ibom State Government and individuals to help him.

    He alleged that his son has burnt down his house.

    Udofia, an oil palm tree tapper and an indigene of Ikot Nya village in Nsit Ibom Local Government, said he is homeless and in need of a roof over his head.

    Narrating his ordeal to The Nation, Udofia said his 20-year-old son, who is suspected to be mentally-deranged, torched his house at about 9pm on Wednesday when he was asleep.

    He said his son was a threat to him and the community, adding that he had appealed to the police to save the situation, but to no avail.

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    ‘’My son, Iniobong, is mentally unwell and I have been crying and asking the police to apprehend him and take him to a psychiatric hospital, but they (police) keep telling me it is not their responsibility to arrest mentally-deranged people.

    ‘’My son has been very violent to the extent of threatening to kill me and other villagers. Last night he set ablaze my house while I was sleeping at about 9pm.

    ‘’The fire burnt the house and my belongings worth over N500,000. It is by the grace of God that I managed to escape. This is not the first time he has committed this kind of atrocity,” Udofia said.

    He said his predicament was a warning to other Ikot Nya residents, as his son, if not arrested and taken to a psychiatric hospital, might kill somebody very soon.

    ‘’I am taking this opportunity to call on the police and the government to arrest Iniobong and take him to a psychiatric hospital, otherwise he will wreak more havoc.”

    One of the villagers, Udeme Uyoatta, told our correspondent that the community was no longer safe, as Iniobong was on the rampage.

    He said the community had appealed to the Divisional Police Officer (DPO) to arrest Iniobong, but he kept saying it was not the responsibility of the police to arrest mentally-deranged people.

    Attempts through calls and SMS to reach the DPO proved abortive at press time.