Tag: Pace

  • Setting the pace for the season (2)

    HELLO Reader, Compliments of the season to you in the mighty name of Jesus Christ! Without any doubt, I know that the Lord has done so much for you this year. Are you thankful to Him for all His benefits that you have enjoyed this year? Some of which are the gift of life, the benefit of forgiveness, protection, provisions, redemption, so on and so forth!

    Last week, I explained spiritual clean-up as doing away with those things that will destroy your joy, at this holy season of the birth of our Lord and Saviour, Jesus Christ. That is the major purpose of this month’s teaching: setting the pace for the season by doing away with those things that may cause hindrance from getting the joy and the spirit of the season into your family. In today’s edition, I shall be teaching on Physical Clean-Up!

    What do I mean by physical clean-up? It is cleaning up your wardrobe in hospitality, reaching out to the needy and also to clean out your home environment. Hospitality simply means a friendly, generous reception and entertainment of guests or strangers, especially in one’s own home. For you to set the pace for the season, you need to give room to hospitality in your home and that will eventually attract angelic visitation. The Word of God Says: Use hospitality one to another without grudging (1 Peter 4:9), Distributing to the necessity of saints; given to hospitality (Romans 12:13).

    It is a known fact that when the angels of God are sent to minister to the heirs of salvation, they are there to defend, provide and generally minister to you. So, when you are hospitable, you end up welcoming them into your home without knowing. The Word of God says: Be not forgetful to entertain strangers: for thereby some have entertained angels unawares (Hebrews 13:2). I don’t know what you have been trusting God for, but I know that as you take heed to the Word of God coming your way today, the God of the season shall visit you in the name of Jesus. Abraham and Sarah entertained angels, and the spirit of barrenness was terminated via that visitation. I see God visiting you too! Husband and wife, it is your duty to both give your home to hospitality, especially this Christmas season. Abraham and Sarah made the visitors feel welcomed, relaxed and refreshed. By their hospitality, they received their son, Isaac!

    We also have the story of the Shunammite woman in 2 Kings, who welcomed the prophet of God into her home and her barrenness was terminated. In that account, she told her husband: Let us make a little chamber, I pray thee, on the wall; and let us set for him there a bed, and a table, and a stool, and a candlestick: and it shall be, when he cometh to us, that he shall turn in thither. And it fell on a day, that he came thither, and he turned into the chamber, and lay there (2 Kings 4:10-11). There are many women today who don’t even want to see their husband’s relatives in their homes, not to mention a stranger. Their facial expressions can put off a stranger from their homes. The Word of God says: And he said to Gehazi his servant, Call this Shunammite. And when he had called her, she stood before him. And he said unto him, Say now unto her, Behold, thou hast been careful for us with all this care; what is to be done for thee? And when he had called her, she stood in the door. And he said, About this season, according to the time of life, thou shalt embrace a son. And the woman conceived, and bare a son at that season that Elisha had said unto her, according to the time of life (2 Kings 4:12-17).

    I often encourage women to always be hospitable, both at home and outside. One of the women in our church testified of how a visitor came to their house and did not have enough money to return to his station. He belonged to another branch of the church. She told him her husband was out of town and the money he left wasn’t enough for them. She, however, sold some food stuff and gave him the money. Before the man left, he made some prophetic utterances and said that God would surprise her. The following week, God began to visit their home with money, materials and foodstuff as never before! Their home, where there was not enough previously, suddenly, became a place of abundance! What a time of visitation!

    Hospitality brings honour and increase. Whatever level you may have attained in life, increase is still possible, and hospitality is the way! Those who give never surfer want in life. Also remember that your giving can yield returns, and it will come in a hundred-fold. Sometimes, hospitality may not be convenient, but as you sow in tears, God ensures that you reap in joy. The Word of God says: They that sow in tears shall reap in joy. He that goeth forth and weepeth, bearing precious seed, shall doubtless come again with rejoicing, bringing his sheaves with him (Psalm 126:5-6). Never give in to fear of being impoverished if you feed the needy, because givers never lack and you will always have more than enough to eat and give to others.

    I want to use this opportunity to also encourage the singles to be hospitable. Singles who are hospitable will certainly welcome their life partners unaware. Are you believing God for a life partner? How hospitable are you? May God grant you understanding! The joy of having a life partner can be yours if you will add a touch of friendliness and hospitality to your life. Rebecca is a perfect example of hospitality. When Abraham’s servant came to Mesopotamia to take a wife for Isaac, he prayed to God, saying: And let it come to pass, that the damsel to whom I shall say, Let down thy pitcher, I pray thee, that I may drink; and she shall say, Drink, and I will give thy camels drink also: let the same be she that thou hast appointed for thy servant Isaac (Genesis 24:14). Abraham’s servant knew that Isaac belonged to a family that is addicted to hospitality; so, he prayed for a kind and hospitable wife for Isaac. He knew that any woman who would offer water to a stranger and his camels would be a hospitable person.

    The criteria for his choice were not possessions, height, beauty or education; instead, they were a warm and loving heart. If you are married, it may be your hospitality response to your spouse that drew the two of you together. No one will like to marry an unapproachable, unloving or unfriendly person. So, to continue to enjoy this honour and acceptance, you must continue to be hospitable.

    However, without the grace of God available to you, you cannot be hospitable, and to access that grace, you need to be born again. That means to accept Jesus as your Lord and Saviour. If you want to do so, say this prayer of faith: “Dear Lord Jesus Christ, I come to You today. I am a sinner. Forgive me of my sins and cleanse me with Your Blood. Deliver me from sin and Satan to serve the living God. I accept You as my Lord and Saviour. Make me a child of God today. Thank You for accepting me into Your Kingdom.”

    If you prayed this simple prayer, you are now a child of God. He loves you and will never leave you. Read your Bible daily, obey God’s Word and seek Christian fellowship (John 14:21).

     

    Congratulations! You are now born again! All-round rest and peace are guaranteed you, in Jesus’ Name. Call or write, and share your testimonies with me through contact@faithoyedepo.org; OR 07026385437 and 08141320204.

     

    For more insight, these books authored by me are available at the Dominion Bookstores in all Living Faith Churches and other leading Christian bookstores: Marriage Covenant, Making Marriage Work, Building A Successful Home and Success in Marriage (Co-Authored).

  • Setting the pace for the season

    HELLO Reader,Thank God it is December, the month of Christmas! I am sure you have every reason to be thankful unto God for His goodness, mercy, protection, healing, provisions and all that He has done for you this year. You may say, “I don’t have any reason to be thankful to God,” but I know that there is no truth in that. This is because the fact that you are still breathing, is a proof that you owe God thanks!

    In this glorious month, I shall be teaching on, Setting The Pace for the Season! I want you to know that there is a need to set the pace for the season, in order to enjoy the blessings therein. You must also understand that this is a season for sober reflection and thanksgiving to God. That is why I shall be focusing on Spiritual Cleansing As You Set the Pace For The Season.

    Give yourself to fasting

    I would like to define fasting as deliberately doing away with physical food so as to pay more attention to spiritual things. Fasting, therefore, is a spiritual device that keeps you in tune with God. As you set the pace for the season, you can set time aside to fast and give yourself to prayer. The Word of God says: Is not this the fast that I have chosen? to loose the bands of wickedness, to undo the heavy burdens, and to let the oppressed go free, and that ye break every yoke? Is not this the fast that I have chosen? to loose the bands of wickedness, to undo the heavy burdens, and to let the oppressed go free, and that ye break every yoke? (Isaiah 58:6-8). From this scripture, you can see that there are a lot of benefits imbedded in fasting. I don’t know the kind of yoke that is ravaging your life. But I know one thing, as you engage in a fast, you shall have liberty in the name of Jesus!

    Let go of Bitterness

    The spirit of bitterness is what is plaguing so many families today. But as you engage in spiritual clean-up to set the pace for the season, the spirit of bitterness will give way for the blessings, and the spirit of the season will find its way into your family. The Word of God says: If I regard iniquity in my heart, the Lord will not hear me (Psalm 66:18). If you want to experience the blessings that God has reserved for this season, you have to do away with every form of iniquity in your life and that of your family life. The Word of God says: Thou crownest the year with thy goodness; and thy paths drop fatness (Psalm 65:11). If you want God to crown the year for you with His goodness and for His paths to drop fatness for you, there are certain things you must do away with.

    Bitterness starts from a very little thing, then grows to become a big mountain. Perhaps, your spouse or a family member has done something to hurt you, and you refuse to forgive him or her. Whenever you remember that incidence, it brings you pain. Watch it! That is a root of bitterness springing up gradually. If it is not dealt with immediately, it will ultimately trouble you. The Word of God says: Looking diligently lest any man fail of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up trouble you, and thereby many be defiled (Hebrews 12:15). The term “springing up” connotes a thing that starts small, and then suddenly shoots up. Once bitterness gains access into your heart and it is not handled immediately, very soon, it will magnify itself and dominate you. That shall not be your portion in Jesus’ name!

    Another thing about bitterness is that it actually troubles and embitters individuals. In other words, you lose your rest to bitterness. If you are bitter against your spouse, for instance, when he or she is in the sitting room, you will want to be in the bedroom. As a result, there will be no rest within you.

    Also, bitterness makes you to fall short of the grace of God. That means, when you harbour bitterness, you are actually frustrating the grace of God on your life; and what are you without His grace? The Word of God says: But by the grace of God I am what I am: and his grace (1 Corinthians 15:10). Thus, you need God’s grace to succeed in your family, so, watch that spirit of bitterness!

    Let go of Unforgiveness

    Unforgiveness is one major crack in the wall of many families today. It causes families, husband and wife to hold on to issues, offences, misunderstanding and various hurts of the past, and before long, it tears the family apart. Bitterness is a root that grows into the tree of unforgiveness. Wherever you see unforgiveness, know that bitterness is at its root. Unforgiveness is wickedness! An unforgiving wife, husband or child is a wicked person.

    Don’t be identified with the wicked. The incident in Matthew 18:23-35 is a good example. A man, who owed 10,000 talents, begged his creditor to be patient with him till he was able to pay back the money owed, and his creditor forgave him the debt. But this same man saw a fellow servant, who owed him only 100 pence, and refused to forgive him. Instead, he threw the man in prison. As a result of his unforgiveness, he was classified as being wicked and his Lord was angry with him. Similarly, our unforgiveness invite God’s anger. Therefore, you must let go of unforgiveness, so God won’t be angry with you. In that account, the unforgiving servant was also delivered to the tormentors. That means unforgiveness and bitterness brings torment. Afflictions such as poverty, barrenness, sickness and the like in the family are from the tormentors, as a result of unforgiveness. Unforgiveness opens the door to the tormentors of life. That servant never enjoyed his master’s forgiveness. The same way, embittered people never enjoy forgiveness from God, because what you sow, you will reap (Genesis 8:22). Learn to instantly forgive each other. In fact, you can go a step further by learning to forgive even before offences are committed. Receive grace to do so in Jesus’ name!

    Let go of Anger

    Another thing that will hinder God’s blessing from reaching your family this Christmas season is anger. We all get angry at one time or the other, but the Word of God says: Be ye angry, and sin not: let not the sun go down upon your wrath: Neither give place to the devil (Ephesians 4:26-27). By holding on to anger, you open the door to sin. If you are upset about the way your spouse or any of your family members does certain things at certain times, rather than exploding and speaking cruel words which can cause irreparable damage, control your emotions. You can also take a walk or go to the prayer closet, until your anger simmers down. Always remember that anger is like a kettle of boiling water; as long as the fire is on, the water boils hotter. To cool the water, you would need to turn off the source of fire, place the kettle on a cool surface and give it time to cool down. Within a few hours, that formerly boiling water can be drunk straight from a glass. Anger is just like that. Therefore, watch it!

    In addition, you need to be born again in order to receive the grace of God to do away with those things that can rob you of the joy of the season. You can say this prayer, if you want to be born again: “Dear Lord Jesus Christ, I come to You today. I am a sinner. Forgive me of my sins and cleanse me with Your Blood. Deliver me from sin and Satan to serve the living God. I accept You as my Lord and Saviour. Make me a child of God today. Thank You for accepting me into Your Kingdom.”

    If you prayed this simple prayer, you are now a child of God. He loves you and will never leave you. Read your Bible daily, obey God’s Word and seek Christian fellowship (John 14:21).

    Congratulations! You are now born again! All-round rest and peace are guaranteed you, in Jesus’ Name. Call or write, and share your testimonies with me through contact@faithoyedepo.org; or 07026385437 and 08141320204.

    For more insight, these books authored by me are available at the Dominion Bookstores in all Living Faith Churches and other leading Christian bookstores: Marriage Covenant, Making Marriage Work, Building A Successful Home and Success in Marriage (Co-Authored).

  • Pace, strength but no stars

    Pace, strength but no stars

    Equatorial Guinea has shown that Africa has what it takes to host big soccer competitions at short notice, with the remarkable manner the matches of the 2015 Africa Cup of Nations have been played without hitches.

    The few hitches so far have resulted from the pressure on the pitches in two centres, no thanks to the hurried manner in which the facilities were completed. Consequently, two matches will be played today and tomorrow. Indeed, today at Bata, hosts Equatorial Guinea will seek to grab a quarter-finals ticket by beating Tunisia. The game had been slated for Ebebiyin but was moved to Bata. And Sunday’s quarter-finals between group c winners and Group D runners-up would be played in Malabo instead of Mongomo.

    Interestingly, the Confederation of Africa Football (CAF), in a statement on Tuesday, said: “The two matches (in Ebebiyin and Mongono) have been adversely affected by the combination of wear and tear from six games played or to be played in each of them and the unstable weather conditions seen lately.”

    Good talk CAF.  This is a departure from the buck-passing of the past. CAF knows that the hosts saved it the embarrassment of postponing the event, had they opted out of hosting it like Nigeria and two other countries did.  Until the competition began, some Europe-based African players launched subtle protest about the possibilities of hosting the event in Malabo and its cities because of the fear of the dreaded Ebola disease. Most of them asked CAF to postpone the competition. Others demanded another country should host the event at a later date.

    But CAF stuck to its guns. The event has turned out to be a thriller and easily the most competitive Africa Cup of Nations, with the closeness in the qualification race. A couple of games will be decided by the toss of the coin, one of the technicalities used to determine eventual winners of competitions when all the known indices fail to produce a winner.

    The results have been very close, even as pundits have marvelled at the pace of the matches. These purists point at the fighting spirit of the players, their passion as well as their determination and dedication. Countries with big ego players have been taught the lessons of their lives as they have been made to dig deep to secure draw results in games where they were tipped as favourites.

    The classic between Cote d’ Ivoire and Cameroon must have told the Ivoirens that they need to rebuild their team if they hope to make any impact in the game. Players, such as African Footballer of the Year Yaya Toure, can no longer produce the form that we see him exhibit with Manchester City while playing for his country. No disrespect to Yaya, who tries to give his best during matches for Ivory Coast. But there is a limit to what a tired body can give.

    The Cameroonians may be out of the competition but they have a new team that can reproduce the golden era of the country’ football, if the new boys are kept together and exposed to quality matches. What this trend shows is that there are a lot of players in the continent. The problem with local coaches across Africa is the difficulty in picking these rookies at the grassroots in preference for the established stars. Our local coaches have refused to update their knowledge to complement the players’ skills, especially those of them who are in Europe.

    Little wonder we are talking of Equatorial Guinea, Congo Dr and Congo Brazzaville Little wonder we are talking of Equatorial Guinea, Congo Dr and Congo Brazzaville qualifying for the quarter-finals. What this also shows is that the game is growing in Africa, more so when some established countries, such as Senegal, are at the African soccer showpiece without some of their celebrated stars, most of whom were dropped because of their attitude, loss of form or being bad influence on the budding youths in their squads.

    Besides, most of the countries that qualified for the quarter-finals were coached by foreigners – a fact that lends credence to the claims that African coaches need to undergo refresher courses to learn the tricks of the game. It also shows that African players have grown in their trade, making it absolutely impossible for our domestic coaches to impact the kind of knowledge that they are exposed to in their European clubs.

    The dearth of players at the grassroots is also traced to the fact that African coaches don’t take the time to teach the young boys and girls the basics of the game. The result is that most of the new lads that we have seen in Equatorial Guinea have pace, strength and the will to give their best but no skill to excite the fans. This lack of skills – except for a few of the players – has accounted for the low score results of matches.

    I’m not surprised by the glut of foreign coaches among the African countries. The trend is in sync with global best practices where if you don’t have the men to do the job, then seek quality tacticians until such a time when your nationals can compete favourably with these better exposed foreigners.

    It must be noted that most of the countries with foreign coaches have had them take charge for the first time in this competition. What it means is that these countries could get better, especially those countries that have qualified for the quarter-finals, making the race for the five tickets allocated to Africa for the 2018 World Cup in Russia one to follow with keen interest.

    It is difficult to state categorically the best African team in this tournament. But countries like Algeria and Cote d’ Ivoire have built on the gains of their participation at the 2014 World Cup in Brazil. They either changed the coaches or dropped bad influence players or both to rejuvenate the sides that we are watching. They may be slow to find their rhythm during the three games they have played. But you could see a bright future. The Ivoirens would be happier for it watching their coach change Yaya Toure in the closing stages of the game against Cameroon, yet the Ivoriens still won. Such an action would have been tagged a taboo in the past.

    On paper, Algeria looks like the odds-on-favourite to replace Nigeria as the next Africa Cup of Nations winners. Both they have to beat Cote d’ Ivoire, easily the game of the four quarter-final matches. If the Algerians win the trophy, their template will serve as the model for confused countries like Nigeria to copy. The Algerians have rebuilt their team from a fallen dynasty of spent stars which they held on to. It dawned on the Algerians that something radical had to be done with their senior national team when they were beaten by hitherto rookie football nations in Africa.

    But is anyone missing the “big-for-nothing” Super Eagles in Malabo? Who will miss players who specialise in protesting against everything without thinking of the odium such acts pour this country? Who will miss players who cause their nationals heartaches enroute winning matches? Who will miss the Eagles whose coaches are all-knowing and impervious to change? Who will miss the team where coaches sell wrist watches to players at exorbitant rates? Who will miss players who love to mix the serious business of playing soccer with attending discos?

    In Malabo, we have not heard of cases where football federation chiefs and the players or coaches are quarrelling? We have not been told of instances where players are talking on telephone with their country’s presidents before and after games? We have not read stories where players and coaches bar their countries’reporters from reporting their activities the way ours do?

    No stories of players jumping the hotel’s fence to boogie at night clubs. No football federation chief is keeping vigil to prevent players from sneaking into other rooms to visit girlfriends like our Eagles did at the Tunisia 2004 Africa Cup of Nations. There are no threats of players and coaches seeking audience with the FA chiefs, sports ministers and highly placed government officials to know how much they would be paid for matches not yet played. No scenes where coaches blatantly wear sports apparels in conflict with the country’s attires at training sessions and pre-match and post-match conferences. Not at all. Oh! How we miss our dear Super Eagles.

    Everything emanating from Malabo and the smaller cities where the matches are being played bothers on football. Government officials are not flying into Malabo in droves to support their national teams.

    Have we learnt a lesson from missing out on the Africa Cup of Nations? No. We have spent the last three months toying with the simple task of sacking the team’s coaches. A lull exists that may continue until a clearer picture emerges on the political scene. By October when the 2018 World Cup qualifiers begin, we will still be rebuilding when the last eight nations at the quarter-finals stage at this year’s edition of AFCON would have found their range, scoring goals with aplomb.

    These quarter-finalists will spend the next six months correcting the flaws they have noticed through international friendly games while Nigeria will be struggling with who should coach the Eagles or not.

    If Nigeria is to participate in the crucial soccer competitions for 2018, beginning with the Africa Cup of Nations, then the government must allow the NFF pick a coach it can control. This is the key to success as a ship cannot have two captains.

  • Okpokwu to use pace, strength against Sharks

    Okpokwu to use pace, strength against Sharks

    Dolphins new boy, Ebube Okpokwu says he will score against Sharks on Saturday if called on to play.

    Okpokwu joined Dolphins from El Kanemi Warriors and has only had a cameo on match day one against Crown so far this season. However, he says he will take his time and not be in a hurry to play but will deliver goals if called on to play against Sharks.

    “I understand that the club already has strikers they have depended on in the past, so I need to take my time, impress the coaches before I get a regular run in. So, I am not in a hurry. By the time I played against Crown it was late in the game so there was little I could do, but if I get the chance against Sharks I am sure I will score,” Okpokwu said.

    “I have qualities like strength, pace, goal scoring instincts and hold up play that will help my team achieve their targets for the season,” he said.

    Okpokwu, being new in Port Harcourt has never played in a derby game but says he is excited at the prospect.

    “Remember, Abia Warriors beat Enyimba last week in the derby? I think we will do the same in this one against Sharks,” he said.

  • The Pace of a Snail captures Nigeria’s democracy

    THE recent performance by Reflector Theatre Troupe based in Yenagoa to commiserate the 14th Anniversary of democracy in Nigeria with a play titled The Pace of a Snail aptly captures the event and mood of the citizens in this period of democratic experience.

    Aimed at reviving the culture of stage performance to stimulate talented actors to engage in the business of play production on stage, the play was written by Victor Oroyi. The Pace of a Snail explores a character of a woman who traverses the creeks of Niger Delta, started her primary education through a political campaign strategy of late Chief Obafemi Awolowo who built schools for rural dwellers but today, politicians do not only betray the tenets of democratic values in Nigeria, the electorate are impoverished in the midst of abundant wealth while they build high walls.

    Promise Abiri, a director and music teacher brought his wealth of directorial experience to give artistic interpretation to the play using the theatre theory of minimalism to tell the story employing the various aesthetics values of African drama of songs, dance, dirge and simple costume to dramatize the piece to the delight of his audience.