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  • Education and ethically challenged role models

    Education and ethically challenged role models

    Let me start with a confession. In some of my previous contributions on education, I made some assumptions on the basis of my own experience as a child, a student, a teacher, and a parent and grandparent. Sadly, for me, I now realize that those assumptions may not be universally true. Indeed, it does appear that the cultural ethos of the moment has effectively invalidated those assumptions for many stakeholders in the educational enterprise. It is tragic!

    First, as a child, I was aware that my parents invested heavily both morally and financially in my education and left no ethically sound stone unturned for my success. My father was an activist parent in PTA meetings, serving as officers in several of them even after I had left those schools. With the little he had, he ensured that I had all school materials throughout the school year. He befriended the parents of my schoolmates to ensure that he knew what was going on. He was also in good relation with all my teachers and headmasters. At home, I had no other assignments during school days than to study. His watchful eyes followed my footsteps such that I had no place to hide for any juvenile mischief.

    Second, as a student, I just knew that the task that I needed to accomplish was to get a good education and that there must be no distraction. Therefore, I approached the task with all the energy that my little frame could muster during and after school hours. I knew that infractions such as cheating came with dire consequences; therefore, I avoided them like plague. In this, the community and its social and religious institutions deserve a lot of credit for reinforcing the message of hard work and moral norms that saw my generation through. It really takes a village.

    Third, I had teachers who dedicated their entire working life to the success of their students. They were well-prepared and well-motivated. Remarkably, many of my early education teachers had no formal teacher training. Yet they performed extremely well and instilled discipline and moral rectitude in their students. Sure, we thought that some of them were quite harsh. It was only later that we gave them the credit they deserved.

    Fourth, as a teacher, following the example of those who taught me, I knew well to take my job seriously. Having an excellent knowledge of the subject-matter, preparing good lesson notes, teaching with passion, and motivating children to learnare key to good learning outcomes. I did (and still do) all at the various levels that I taughtfrom elementary to university. Having satisfied myself of my input, I let the output take care of itself, believing that if my students did their part, they cannot fail any internal or external examination that was based on what I taught them. I have never been disappointed.

    Fifth, all loving parents and grandparents naturally want the best for their wards. Like our parents, we try to invest emotionally and materially in the future of our children both for selfish and altruistic reasons. After all, our destinies are linked with theirs. My assumption, born out of my own experience, is that to achieve their desire, parents seek to instill in their children the habit of hard work and discipline that they need to succeed in their studies and in their lives.

    In a previous piece on family involvement in education, I argued for the need to bet on our innocent children who we voluntarily bring into the world. I submitted that we bet on them when we create a future that is worthy of them and the country which they in turn can be proud to call theirs.

    I observed that we create that future by investing in their education from the cradle so that from the first time they open their eyes, they see a nation that cares and educates, just as they behold the love of an extended family of mother, father, siblings, uncles, aunties and grandparents who first welcome them with loving hands and cheerful faces.

    I reasoned that parents had to take effective ownership of family responsibility in the education of their children. And this has always been our tradition even in the pre-colonial days when our focus was on practical education for skills that were considered essential for a successful life—farming, trading, crafts, and family professions.

    The literature on parental involvement in education is convincing. There is copious evidence that when the family is actively involved in the education of their children, it has a positive influence on the achievement of the children not only in school but throughout life because it enables them not only to do well in examinations and earn good grades, but also to develop better social skills.

    Initiating and nurturing family involvement in the education of children is a double-lane approach by parents and schools because there is a lot at stake for both but certainly more for the parents. A school where accountability is taken seriously and where there are consequences for failure would leave no stone unturned in getting all hands on the deck for successful student outcomes.

    On the other hand, parents know that the future of their kids, and their own happiness and peace of mind are at stake. They therefore have a lot more reason to get involved. Careers are important, but as the elders remind us, the probability is very high that a child that is inadvertently left untrained and unskilled may end up destroying whatever legacy an illustrious career has succeeded in building. This is just as true of children that are spoilt on account of parental negligence.

    I still believe in all the foregoing and in the assumptions that have been the motivating force of my educational philosophy. The reader may then imagine my shock when it appears that my assumptions are not acceptable to many contemporary parents and teachers. Surely, they share the dream of successful children and students respectively. But they have a different approach to the realization of this dream.

    I have just got to know that the approach that many now favor, including parents and teachers, is the short-cut approach that has perilously impacted our development in all facets of our national life. It is the approach of cheating, also known as examination malpractice.

    Why is this appalling? Assume that,on their own, some students engage in examination malpractice.We would expect teachers and parents to rise up to the challenge, inflict serious punishment on the culprits to reform them and to serve as deterrent to others. But now, when parents and teachers are the culprits-in-chief, what is the hope?

    Parents and teachers are naturally seen as role models. Children look up to their parents and teachers as models or examples of decent character and moral values to be emulated. They are the closest to the child growing up. But instead of serving as positive models of character and moral values, many teachers and parents now not only just look aside in the face of immoral behavior on the part of their wards, they are alleged to actively encourage and sanction such behavior.

    In the matter of the unfortunate incidents of examination malpractice that bedevils our school system, principals and teachers are alleged to be in cahoots with parents who voluntarily pay the required fees for the purpose.Are these still role models?

    There is nothing mysterious regarding the consequence of examination malpractice for the future of the students, parents, and the nation. Many students with straight “A’s” in GCE are not able to move higher in the educational leader because they are unable to cope with the rigor of higher education. Those who make it also fraudulently through higher education end up back as teachers in the same school system that encouraged examination malpractice and the cycle continues. What you don’t have, you cannot give. And where knowledge is lacking, teachers and students resort to the easy way out. Meanwhile, the nation is the ultimate victim of these ethically challenged role models.

     

  • Ogun may penalise parents for pupils’ absenteeism

    The Ogun State Government has warned that it would penalise parents and guardians whose wards are not in school during school hours without reasonable excuse.

    A statement by the the Commissioner for Education, Science and Technology, Mrs Modupe Mujota, who gave the warning at a stakeholders meeting at her office in Abeokuta said henceforth, the government would monitor the movement of pupils and students in public schools across the state.

    “Government will penalise parents whose children are not in school when they are supposed to. We will send out officials to visit homes whenever a child is not in school to ascertain why,” she said

    She said the free education policy of the government was to ensure that every child has access to education, calling on parents/guardians to desist from sending their wards to hawk goods when they should be in the classroom.

    Mrs Mujota also spoke of plans to register and do background checks on teachers to guard against rape, assault and other vices on the pupils.

    To enable teachers teach the entrepreneurial subjects effectively, the commissioner said government would liaise with professionals/artisans to train teachers in the practical aspect of the subjects.

    Also speaking, the Permanent Secretary, Teaching Service Commission, Mrs Olabisi Akinnuga, called for a synergy between the ministry and its parastatals in the areas of training, and monitoring and evaluation of teachers to get the best for the learners.

    The Permanent Secretary, Ministry of Education, Mr. Kolawole Fagbohun on his part, called for proper streamlining of supervision of the education sector among other supervising agencies to avoid conflict of interest.

    The Director of Secondary and Higher Education, Mr. Johnson Odeyemi, observed with dismay the lop-sidedness in the distribution of teachers between the urban and rural areas, while the Ota Zonal Education Officer, Mr Samuel Olugbenga Olaotan pointed out that inconsistency is one of the problems plaguing the education sector in the country.

     

  • Sacrifice for your children’s education, parents told

    A school proprietor, Mrs Abosede Yusuf, has urged parents to make sacrifice for the education of their children.

    Education, she said, was the pivot on which nation-building rests.

    She spoke last Saturday during the third anniversary and end-of-year concert of her school, Echelon Nursery and Primary Schools in Idimu, Lagos.

    Mrs Yusuf, who said the school started as a coaching centre with five pupils in 2012, recalled: “I have always had the dream of establishing a school that will deliver quality education, but I had no clear idea of how to go about it. I started the coaching centre with five pupils; but today, it has transformed into a school and we have over 50 pupils. It is not by my power, but God’s might.’’

    She said she had been able to imbibe a culture of academic excellence in the children, while also making positive impacts on their parents.

    Mrs Yusuf said: “I feel great and happy. I am grateful to God for making my vision come true. When I started the school, I realised that it was not easy. In fact, I almost gave up at some point.  I remember that when some parents came with their awards in 2012, they were not happy with the condition of the school. I, however, resolved to forge ahead. Today, the story is different. I have no doubt in my mind that we will grow bigger than this. I am glad that we are a step ahead.’’

    The Head Teacher, Miss Oluwatosin Audu, said she had learnt to relate to children better since she joined the school.

    A parent, who has two kids in the school, told The Nation that she has no regrets patronising the school.

    The event featured dance, drama and music presentations by pupils who were clad in uniform native dresses.

  • Students, parents laud Airtel’s support for education

    Outstanding students in this year’s Unified Tertiary Matriculations Examinations (UTME) who were honoured at the maiden edition of the Pass.ng Excellence Awards have lauded Airtel Nigeria, and the exams preparatory ande-testing platform, Pass.ng for contributing to the success in their education.

    The 10 elated students, Joshua Ani, Faith Bamidele, Segun Popoola, Benjamin Alegbeleye, Abiodun Wasiu, Prince Andrew, Abdulrazak Lawal, Ekpunobi Nzube, Jomiloju Ojewale and Blessed Omoghene were all presented with brand new laptops at the Pass.ng Excellence awards event.

    They noted that the Pass.ng app made available on Airtel network enabled them to prepare adequately for their examinations and it contributed to their outstanding performance in the 2015 UTME.

    Joshua Ani, who is studying Economics at the University of Lagos (UNILAG) said: “I thank Jehovah God for everything, and I say a sincere thank you to the team of scholars at Pass.ng. I appreciate all your efforts for exposing the secret of the great UTME. Keep on with the good work of excellence.”

    Now a 100 level Law student of University of Ilorin, Abdulrazak Lawal said: “I came across a link which I opened only to see the home page of Pass.ng. I took the JAMB tests every other day till I did my exam and came out in flying colours. I thank the people behind this idea. “

    Mrs. Elizabeth Alegbeleye, mother of the outstanding students, commended the network provider and Pass.ng for making the preparation and examination easier for students. She said: “Through the Pass.ng my son was able to prepare well because he could check the past questions just through his mobile phone. This is a very good service by the network and Pass.ng. We thank them for honouring the students as well.”

    The event which held at Moorhouse Hotel, in Ikoyi, Lagos was attended by families, friends and parents of some of the awardees, while the team from Airtel Nigeria included Vice President, Digital Services, Airtel Nigeria, Nitin Anand; Digital & PR Manager, Airtel Nigeria, Erhumu Bayagbon and Dan Obi of Business Day and Alex Daxton of Blue Management Group also graced the evening.

    Founder of Pass.ng, Samson Abioye noted that the platform said: “We are passionate about rewarding outstanding academic excellence across all major examinations. This year w, we are focused on the UTME because this is our flagship examination as well as one of the biggest examinations held annually.”

  • ‘Teens tell me what they don’t tell their parents’

    ‘Teens tell me what they don’t tell their parents’

    For Ngozi Eze Social work is a passion that runs in the family. In this interview with Yetunde Oladeinde, the entrepreneur , interior decorator and Event management consultant talks about life working with young people, their challenges and more.

    Why are you passionate about touching the lives of young people?

    It started with three individuals who came together with a vision. We all liked taking to young people and we found that there was a need and we have to reach out to them. We all have teenagers and you find that your kids cannot really talk to you and they are usually talking to some other persons and if you don’t find a way to reach them, they might talk to someone who may not give them good advice. So we basically came together to be able to reach these young people growing into adulthood.

    Why are you interested in charity?

    It is an organisation that has compassion on women and the youths. Just like what happened today at the Lagos Business School. We are helping them to create awareness about how they can start up. How they can thrive in a difficult society and a couple of ways to survive unemployment. So that was how we started the start up thing; developing entrepreneurial skills in young people. You can actually do something apart from working for somebody. First, you must know what you have a passion for, then we let them know that they must work for it to be successful. Also, for a woman, you must know how to carry yourself. How do you fit into a society that looks like it is all for men? How can you start from nowhere?

    All this has to do with your mindset. So we work with youths and help them to transform their mindset. We help them to unlearn the things that they have been taught through the environment that they live in while growing up. We tell them that they can make it and that they can reach their goal as a woman.

    What was the initial reaction?

    I think we found it funny, especially with my half daughters. They said, ‘mummy, why are you taking my friends from me? Why are you so with my friends?’

    Now I have quite a lot of young people coming to talk to me when they have issues. Most times they see me as a big aunty not mummy and they talk to me about the things that happen in their lives.

    What are some of the projects carried out by your organisation?

    We have done seminars where we teach them self esteem, relationship management, fears from friends, their image, what people say about them, their careers and what to focus on.

    What are some of the things that you discovered along the line?

    We discovered that a lot them want to talk to someone but they do not know how to go about it and who to talk to. They are, therefore, happy that there is this aunty that they can go to. We also try to introduce an alumni magazine where they can talk to us without having to see us one on one.

    Interestingly, what you get to hear a lot is a friend of a friend but they are basically talking about themselves. It is therefore very important for somebody to always be there for them.

    Let’s talk about one or two cases that make you happy when you look back now

    We had this young girl who was going to be abused and she kept resisting it. We talked to her and told her what to do. So, she eventually faced the young man and he stopped initially, she did not know what to say to him.

    Right now, what we also do is to have scholarships for some of the young ones. We also pay for accommodation for some street kids. Ideally, we would love to have a halfway home where kids who are out of the home can have some vocational training and then they move on to better themselves.

    Are there challenges doing some of these things?

    Yes, there are challenges, especially finance; there is never enough. This is because there are so many people out there who actually need help.

    Corruption is one issue that the country is faced with, how can we let the young ones know that money isn’t everything?

    We have been working on their mindset. We are also trying to bring back the old values. For us, there is a lot of emphasis on education; bettering yourself. If you are not academically inclined, then you have some kind of life skills. You should learn, especially the girls, and we make them know that you have a head that is as good as the boys’. They have the same opportunities even though they have to work harder to prove themselves.

    Is there a way you have shown success stories to inspire others?

    Yes. But we have to do it with their permission, especially if they are under eighteen years. We need permission from their parents as well.

    Let’s talk about the other things that you do

    I do interior decor. I also handle events management and then I do customer care and hospitality training.

    How did you get into the area?

    I am one of those people who love to see the before and after of things, people and events. I am like a vision builder. If you come to me with your vision and I like it, I would actually help you build it. If I get into a place and everything was looking horrible, the first thing that comes to my mind is how I can transform the place and make it beautiful. So, that was how I got into interior decorating.

    How did you find the experience?

    It was really rewarding. The first job I did was in 1993. That was over 20 years ago. However, it has been by the side because I do other things. It can be interesting as well as challenging. I had a case at the beginning and the client wasn’t happy with my choice. They wanted something traditional and I was doing something contemporary but I have since learnt from that experience. Now, I ask a lot of questions and I am in tune with the client.

    Is there someone who inspires your drive for social work?

    My mother. She is the founder of Arrows of God Orphanage and I think we all basically have it in the family. No matter what we do, we just want to help others.

     If you had to advice the average Nigerian woman, what would you tell her?

    I would tell her first of all to discover their passion. They also need to realise, like they say, Rome wasn’t built in a day. Overtime, you would grow. Once you discover that this is what you want to do, just keep at it. While you are doing this, if you have a home, always strike a balance.

    What does style mean to you and what’s your beauty routine like?

    I wear what makes me comfortable. I do not go with the flow.

  • Lawyers want FG to strengthen family, Juvenile courts

    Lawyers want FG to strengthen family, Juvenile courts

    Some lawyers in the Federal Capital Territory on Monday appealed to the government to strengthen Family or juvenile Courts to take care of child’s right.

    They told the News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) that strengthening of the courts would help to preserve the Child Rights Act.

    An Abuja-based lawyer, Mrs. Chinelo Eruchalu, expressed concern over the maltreatment most children go through, particularly the house helps and children from less privileged homes.

    Eruchalu said that those who subject children to such miserable experiences seem to go undetected and without punishment, notwithstanding the establishment of the family courts.

    “The establishment of the family court is to protect the right of the child and to ensure that children get parental care, protection and maintenance.

    “The inability of most families to guarantee the protection and maintenance of the child has led to the countless challenges the country faces today.

    “When the family court becomes effective through proper usage, any breach of the fundamental rights of the child will be challenged in the family court,’’ Eruchalu said.

    She, therefore, called on the authorities to be more proactive in this direction and “to do all that is necessary to ensure that the family court is functional’’.

    She also regretted the inability of some states to domesticate the law even though it was passed in 2003 by the National Assembly.

    Eruchalu reasoned that since children were the future of the society and in fact the most vulnerable of the society, they deserve special protection.

    She expressed the hope that the family court would fill this noticeable gap in the justice administration.

    Ms Christie Nwaka, another family lawyer, believed that the growth of the family courts had not been as encouraging as one would ordinarily expect.

    “The Child’s right Act guarantees free compulsory universal primary education of the child that is from zero-year to age 18 as the case may be.

    “More importantly it seeks to discourage or abolish child marriage, an issue that has become divisive and impedes the domestication of the Act in some states.

    “Children are said to be the future leaders of tomorrow, so the kind of children we have today determines the quality of the leaders we shall have tomorrow,’’ Nwaka said.

    Nwaka called on the government at all levels to redouble their efforts toward the speedy establishment of the family court.

    “It is not enough to designate some courts as family courts, but they have to be made functional and effective through sensitisation of the populace,’’ Nwaka opined.

    The other family lawyers agreed that it was not right for a child to stand trial in conventional court where adults were tried because it prematurely exposes the child.

    “In a family court, the child is delicately handled, and much patience is brought to bear in the proceedings.

    “The fear of sanction is the beginning of wisdom, so the rights of a child can only be protected when punishment is imposed for any breach of such right,’’ they said.

  • FSTC Principal appeals to parents on accommodation

    The Principal, Federal Science and Technical College (FSTC), Yaba, Rev Chris Ugorji, has appealed to parents of newly-admitted pupils to bear with the school’s inability to accommodate all the JSS 1 pupils it has admitted due to space constraints.

    Ugorji spoke during an interactive session the management of the college had with members of the Parents/Teachers’ Association (PTA), School-Based Management Committee (SBMC), teachers, and journalists on Monday.

    He spoke ahead of the release of the final list of pupils to be admitted into the boarding house.

    Vice Principal, Students’ Affairs, Mrs Ann Ajisafe had informed the gathering that out of 350 pupils interviewed in the second batch, there were bed spaces for less than 100 pupils.

    Rev Ugorji, who could not give the exact number of JSS1 pupils admitted so far because the process is still ongoing, said the college is the one with largest student population (about 4,000) among the 104 Federal Unity Colleges.

    “We said admission would be very strict.  But I don’t have control over admission.  Admission is based on three criteria: merit, state quota and exigency – the big masquerade.  Many go to the minster, Oba, SBMC chairman, divisional police officers, heads of departments and others to use their good offices to get them admission into the college.  Everybody has a geographical, economic child.  In as much as we want admission to be strict, there are some forces that make them difficult,” he said.

    With the school’s inadequate hostel accommodation, Ugorji said the school cannot accommodate all its new pupils.

    Last session, he said the problem forced the school to convert some classrooms into hostels.  But he said such could not be done again as the classrooms were also inadequate.

    The principal said the completion of the 1,200-capacity female girls’ hostel being constructed by the PTA would address the institution’s accommodation problems.

    However the project, which has reached roofing stage, has been stalled because of internal dispute within the association over accountability of the project.

    A representative of the PTA, Mr Modasiru Sanusi, said the PTA would present accounts of the project to parents very soon.

    He however noted that some disgruntled elements within the association were the ones indicting others not to contribute additional funds to complete the project.

  • Parents reward teachers at Dansol

    Teaching and non-teaching members of staff of Dansol High School have been honoured by parents.

    The staff appreciation programme was part of ongoing activities to celebrate the school’s 20th anniversary.

    From the security, kitchen, sickbay to the classroom, every worker got a gift at the event courtesy of the Parents/Teachers Association (PTA).

    There were additional gifts for six teachers who had been outstanding in the delivery of their duties.

    In the junior school, Mr Gbadamosi Olakunle, Owolabi Samuel and Oriola Chukwudi came first – third; in the senior school category, the honours went to Mr Paul Ogunnubi, Mr Joseph Daramola, and Bukola Oyedotun.

    They were selected based on recommendations by their departmental heads, the founder of the school, Mrs Adun Akinyemiju, and an appraisal of their performance.

    They were rewarded with washing machines, LED TV sets, and food processors.

    In her speech, the PTA Chairman, Mrs Bukola Ajoku, thanked the teachers and other workers for their investment in the children under their care.

    “Teaching is more, much more than the four walls of a classroom; much more than Mathematics or English.  Teaching is touching lives and changing destinies; not just for the students but for the parents and indirectly, the world.  The job of a teacher is the little things that they do and the way they touch lives.

    “So for everything you’ve done, and for all your impact that cannot be measured in any form of monetary value, we use this medium to appreciate you – for the prayers, support and the little bit of yourself you give out every day.  We say thank you,” she said.

    In her remarks, Mrs Akinyemiju, praised workers of the school for maintaining cordial relationships with parents, which she said were crucial to producing total children.

    “The relationship between many schools and the home is like tug of war.  But here, it is different.  There is cooperation between parents and teachers,” she said.

    She urged the teachers to sow good seeds by teaching the pupils well.  The programme also featured songs by the pupils, raffle draw for all participants, and a praise session.

     

  • ‘Parents should not choose careers’

    Former Special Adviser on Education to the former Governor of Lagos State, Babatunde Fashola, Dr. Fatai Olukoga has urged parents to allow their wards to pursue their choice disciplines in schools.

    He said it would lead to better development of the society and maximum output from them.

    Olukoga spoke to reporters at the presentation of his memoir titled, Olukoga: The Quintessential Administrator, at LTV Agindingbi, Lagos.

    He said: ”Parents should encourage their wards to do whatever comes from their minds. They should not be forced to adopt courses or disciplines that are not of interest to them.

    ‘You as a parent must not insist that your child must be a lawyer, when he has another choice in mind or better at something else.”

    Olukoga also made a case for private sector funding of research.

    He urged corporate organisaitons to endow grants for researchers as it is longer feasible for government alone to give grants to researchers.

    Olukoga, however, praised  Lagos State government for its commitment to enhancing research and education in the state.

    He said the last administration committed over N1 billion to sponsoring research – with no fewer than 10 researchers benefitting from the project.

    Olukoga urged the Federal Government to curtail the incessant strikes that have become recurring decimal in higher institutions.

    He said if President Muhammadu Buhari could nip this in the bud, the education sector would reinvent itself again.

    “The seasonal strikes that usually occur in our universities are undermining the education sector. The Federal Government needs to be responsive. There is need to meet up with the yearning of the lecturers and the students.

    “Once that is done and we have good relationship and dialogue, the problems will be resolved. By the same token, there is need for stakeholders to work with passion, patience and perseverance to stabilise education,” he said.

  • Parents encourage exam malpractice’

    A school proprietor, Mrs. Tosan Williams, has said many parents encourage their wards to commit examination malpractices in private schools.

    The proprietor of Macqueen’s Nursery, Primary and High School in Alegbo-Effurun, Uvwie Local Government Area of Delta State, spoke on Monday at the opening of the school’s 30th anniversary.

    She said most parents searched for schools where their children and wards could easily pass their examinations, irrespective of their preparedness for such examinations.

    Mrs Williams said: “These parents don’t care about the educational capabilities of their children, especially the grades they make and in most cases, boycott schools with strict measures and rules to ensure that they bag the required credits.”

    The proprietor said funding had become a major problem in private schools. Where loans were available. She added that stringent conditions given by financial institutions made it almost impossible for them to obtain the loans.

    Her school, which was founded in 1985, has produced over 50 doctors, engineers and other professionals, including a professor currently in Scotland.

    Also, the principal, Prince Lanre Ikediashi, said the school underscores high moral and Christian values as well as entrepreneurial training.

    “Macqueen’s Nursery, Primary and High School is 30! It has been 30 years of unparalleled success in training fully-bred school leavers who are among the best in every aspect of life and in major cities of the world,” he said.