Pastor Daniel Olawande has recalled feeling disconnected from his wife.
In the podcast “Love Gist,” Olawande described losing attraction and intimacy, leading him to seek guidance from a mentor.
After the mentor intervened, his wife surprised him with a romantic evening at a hotel, complete with roses and a specially prepared meal.
This gesture, he said, reignited their passion and connection.
He said: “There was a time that I felt disconnected from my babe and I was just tired of her. I know you’ll be shocked to hear this but I was just tired, I was just fed up as in she wasn’t appealing to me anymore, she wasn’t attractive and I became overwhelmed, like she touches me, I’m touchy, like she was even the one asking for s3x at that time and I was not available. Any little thing, I was not excited anymore and I don’t know what was happening so I had to go to a mentor to talk to her about it.
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“I don’t know what is happening, I get angry easily, I get emotional, I mean I just become defensive, I’m not just attracted to her as it were and we’ve not, of course when I fast, we don’t have s3x but this one, there’s no fasting and I’ve not been able to even come close to my wife for a while.
“I was just disconnected from her and I was not really feeling it anymore but I went to her mentor and her mentor spoke to her, her mentor apologised on her behalf, her mentor said that she was going to talk to her so her mentor called her for a meeting.
“I don’t know what they discussed and then the next evening, we were going out and my wife requested that I allow her to drive and then she drove the car and drove me to a hotel and I got there, she said we’re going to see somebody and then we’re going, I was like who am I going to see and I entered the room, I saw roses on the floor, roses on the bed, I saw a table set before me, a lot of, you know, a lot of different kinds of dishes and I’m like what’s this, what’s happening she said I made all this for you and I’m like wow, I sat down, I started eating, I was eating this, eating this, before I finished it, I transferred money to her, something immediately, you know, and then all the love that died, the love came back that night”.