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  • You too can be pregnant

    Introduction: Being pregnant and the ability to bear children is a biological process which is both time dependent and requires actions on the part of the woman and the man. Yet, the blessing of having no child is a major problem in most societies affecting about 10-15 per cent of couples as well as childlessness resulting in major family unhappiness. Natural: Steps: 1. The woman needs a man for this step. Your children will reflect the mother and the father. The idea of this step, is to get the sperm of the man to meet the egg inside the woman through natural sexual exercise.

    1. Determine the time for ovulation. This is the time that the woman’s eggs are released in readiness for fertilisation and pregnancy. The rule is that, ovulation occurs 14 days before the woman’s menstruation (monthly period). In a 28-day cycle, this is 14 days before the woman’s menstrual period. Ovulation may occur, though, between 13-17 days before the menstrual bleeding. The woman’s egg will only survive for 24 hours after ovulation. Therefore, time is of the very essence. There are signs to tell a woman when ovulation has occurred. These signs include a rise of about 0.5Celcius in body temperature if ovulation has occurred. There may be a clear gel-like vaginal discharge. Sometimes, there could be abdominal pain called ovulation pain. To get these signs, the woman should have been monitoring her body temperature and putting the figures in her diary for about three months. This record will help predict the ovulation time.
    2. The released sperms from the man during sex are still active for three days after the sperm is released into the woman though they may become weakened as time goes on. The more the number of quality, motile sperms—in their millions—that are available for fertilisation, the better the chances of pregnancy occurring.
    3. If pregnancy does not happen, on first attempt, try again every time on these occasions that I have advised above (ovulation time) or you can try randomly if you have no time to monitor your ovulation. Most pregnancies occur on random basis anyway. Artificial Methods To Get Pregnant. There are various methods that can be used to achieve pregnancy these days away from the natural methods. Types: • Artificial Insemination • IVF (In-vitro-fertilisation) and its many variants are available options otherwise called “test tube” babies. How to Know You Are Pregnant To some women, knowing that they are pregnant is a matter of experience. That is to say, they have been through it before and can tell by the slightest sign, that they are pregnant. Yet to the “new-comers”, the experience and knowledge of being pregnant can sometimes be shocking and often end up in joyful disbelief. In spite of the said statement, to some experienced women, it may sometimes be difficult for them to know that they are pregnant especially if they are not expecting to be pregnant. In such occasion, the knowledge of pregnancy may at first be denied.

    In the first 12 weeks: In general: 1. The first sign of pregnancy in almost all women is a missing menstrual period. In some women, the monthly bleeding may continue even in the presence of pregnancy. In women who are not having regular periods or in women who are on the contraceptive pill or other medications, this sign/symptom of absence of period may not be reliable.

    1. Feeling different, being tired, feeling of nausea, vomiting are earliest signs and symptoms. Appetite may increase: You eat more than usual.
    2. The definitive confirmation of pregnancy is to: a) Have a pregnancy test. A positive test is a good indicator. Be mindful of false positive tests which may occur for many reasons. It takes a minute or two to carry out this test and most will pick up ongoing pregnancy of even two to four weeks old. b) Have an ultrasound scan as soon as possible via your doctor or in ante-natal Clinic. This is perhaps the ultimate evidence apart from the more complex investigations that could be carried out by doctors.

     

    Beyond 12 weeks:

    1. Woman’s weight increase as the baby gain weight and the woman eats more.
    2. The tummy’s (abdomen) increasing size becomes more obvious. In some women, this may not be so obvious. I have seen women who were nine-month pregnant without being aware of it. They thought their personal weight had merely increased even though the baby was kicking! Yet, there are reports of women who were in full term labour before they realised that they were pregnant!
    3. Swelling of legs and possibly hands can happen.
    4. Between 18 and 20 weeks and beyond, the woman can begin to feel the kicking of the baby inside her. It’s important that the expectant mother should register for antenatal care as soon as possible.

     

  • Mauresmo announces she’s pregnant with first child on Twitter

    Mauresmo announces she’s pregnant with first child on Twitter

    Former Wimbledon and Australian Open tennis champion Amelie Mauresmo has announced that she is expecting her first child.

    “Baby will be here in August! Pregnant. So happy,” Mauresmo said in a message posted to her followers on Twitter.

    The 35-year-old, who revealed she was gay in 1999, is now coach of World No 3. Andy Murray and captain of the French Fed Cup team.

    The Scot is due to marry his long term girlfriend, Kim Sears, near his hometown of Dunblane, Scotland, on Saturday.

    However, with Mauresmo due to give birth in August, the impact on the competitive schedules of the pair remains unclear.

    Two-time grand slam winner Murray will be looking to secure his second U.S. Open title when that competition gets underway at the end of August.

    There have been reports suggesting former World No.4 Jonas Bjorkman could join Murray’s coaching team on a full-time basis after an initial trial period with the Swede in recent weeks.

    But such a move would likely be to compliment Murray and Mauresmo’s existing relationship.

  • Don’t limit fashion when you are PREGNANT

    Don’t limit fashion when you are PREGNANT

    ARE you pregnant for the first time or you are expecting another baby? You don’t have to be worried about looking trendy. With a little care and expertise, you can even look as gorgeous as you have always looked without pregnancy. Fashionista expectant mothers have changed the face of maternity wear. You don’t have to give up your style because of changes in certain part of your body.

    The good news is that you can actually be pregnant, even heavily pregnant and still wear normal dresses and look trendy. Gone are the days of pregnant women dressing in drab, flowing boubou that were often colourless. The drab-looking mandatory maternity wear of yesteryears has given way to sexy trousers, skirt suits, stylish gowns and casuals like jeans trousers and simple tops. Also, maternity wear has been revolutionized from the former oversized, dull, boring, long flowing and drippy wear to trendy, stylish and stretchy gowns, tops (camisoles, tank tops and so on) of any design and trousers like Capri’s jeans.

    Expectant mothers now go out in ranges of simple, but gorgeous wear. They use them at the office and at home, and some of them can still be used even after pregnancy.

    Unlike before you, an expectant mother does not have to change your wear during pregnancy. For ease and comfort, go for skirts and trouser suits. As a rule, go for trousers that have elastic bands in place of zips or buttons.

  • I always take some pregnancy control pills, would it affect my womb?

    Good morning ma. I’m Gold from Abia State. Ma, I’be been reading your articles in The Nation newspaper, it’s nice and encouraging. Ma, pls, I’m worried about something – I got pregnant for a guy that I loved so much. I took some drugs and flushed it out. After that, whenever I’m having sex with him, I always take some pregnancy control pills. Please ma, would it affect my womb? Please I need a reply. Thanks and God bless.

    Many women are not aware of the serious health implications of birth control pills. First, let’s understand how birth control pills work in your body. Typically, your body ovulates once a month, ripening a new egg that will then journey down a fallopian tube. Eventually it reaches the uterus, where it would implant, if fertilized. If not fertilized by a sperm, then the lining of the uterus that had built up in preparation for the fertilized egg is unnecessary. Both egg and uterine lining leave your body, cleansing your system and preparing for a new month.

    When you take birth control pills, you impose synthetic hormones on your natural cycle. Many birth control pills contain high levels of estrogen that effectively convince your pituitary gland that you are pregnant (this explains some of the side effects of the drugs) and that you don’t need to ovulate. Because your body thinks you are pregnant, the uterine lining thickens. Once you start the placebo pills, however, your estrogen level drops suddenly, and your body menstruates “normally.” This abnormal cycle is what millions of women experience every month, and yet few doctors discuss the consequences of taking these prescriptions for year after year.

    Many of these changes occur as your body’s response to synthetic estrogen. These changes include: larger breasts, weight gain or loss, reduced or increased acne, slight nausea, emotional sensitivity right before your period, mood swings throughout your cycle, irregular bleeding or spotting, breast tenderness and decreased libido. Sometimes birth control methods are very necessary for preventing unwanted pregnancies, but I urge you to learn more about other natural options that do not damage your health. Condoms (both male and female), the diaphragm and cervical cap are all reasonable options for birth control.

  • Iodine deficiency in pregnant women may harm babies’ IQ

    IODINE deficiency during pregnancy may have a negative effect on babies’ mental development, according to new research published in The Lancet.

    Iodine is ingested mainly through dairy products and seafood and is crucial for obtaining hormones secreted by the thyroid gland – which have a direct effect on fetal brain development.

    Negative effects of iodine on brain development have long been known, however, few studies analysed the effect of moderate or mild iodine deficiency during pregnancy on the mental development of the baby.

    A team of investigators from Surrey and Bristol universities, both in England, used data and samples from Bristol-based Avon Longitudinal Study of Parents and Children (ALSPAC), commonly called “Children of the 90s.”

    The ALSPAC is a long-term health research project in which over 14,000 mothers participated during pregnancy in 1991 and 1992 – the health and development of their offspring have been tracked closely ever since.

    The researchers calculated the iodine concentration in urine samples taken in the first trimester from 1,040 pregnant women.

    After reviewing guidelines from the World Health Organisation on recommended amounts of iodine during pregnancy, they categorised women who had an iodine-to-creatinine ratio of under 150 μg/g as being iodine deficient, and those with a ratio of 150 μg/g or more as iodine sufficient.

    More than two-thirds of the women (67%) were categorised at less than 150 μg/g. Cognitive development of the women’s babies was examined by measuring child IQ at age 8, and reading skills at age 9.

    After adjusting the findings for external factors such as parental education and breast-feeding, the researchers found that the offspring of women in the iodine deficient category were much more likely to have low scores of verbal IQ, reading comprehension, and reading accuracy.

    Additionally, the lower the mother’s concentration of iodine, the lower the average scores for reading ability and IQ were in the kids.

    Dr Sarah Bath, a co-author and registered dietician, says: “Pregnant women and those planning a pregnancy should ensure adequate iodine intake; good dietary sources are milk, dairy products and fish. Women who avoid these foods and are seeking alternative iodine sources can consult the iodine fact sheet that we have developed, which is available on the web-sites of the University of Surrey and the British Dietetic Association. Kelp supplements should be avoided as they may have excessive levels of iodine.”

    The current study also adjusted for the mothers’ intake of omega-3 fatty acids as a possible confounder on the effects on mental development – suggesting that these effects could have had more to do with iodine concentrations than previously thought.

    Alex Stagnaro-Green of George Washington University, Washington DC, USA, in a linked comment regarding the findings said:

    Absence of a public health policy in the face of clear documentation of moderate iodine deficiency and strong evidence of its deleterious effect on the neurodevelopment of children is ill advised. Nor should unmonitored and adventitious dietary iodine sources continue to be relied on. Until measures are taken to ensure that iodine needs can be met by usual dietary sources, pregnant and breastfeeding women should insist that the prenatal vitamins they are prescribed contain iodine.”

    A similar study also done this month and published in the Journal of Clinical Endocrinology & Metabolism (JCEM) suggested that mild iodine deficiency can harm the baby’s neurological development. Children who did not receive adequate amounts of iodine while in the womb had lower scores on literacy tests when they were nine years old.

  • ‘I am not too  small to be  pregnant’

    ‘I am not too small to be pregnant’

    Budding Yoruba actress, Bose Arowosegbe, has caught the fancy of many who are moved by her talent and her ability to interpret roles. On the other hand, the heavily endowed actress is not in short supply of admirers who are crazy about her boobs. The ravishing actress, whose passion for acting was encouraged by her friend, Lepa Shandy, says she is looking forward to producing more movies in the near future. In this interview with AHMED BOULOR, she opens up on her marriage, new movie and her sex life.

    HOW many movies have you featured in?

    I’ve lost count. I have lost count. I can’t begin to mention the number of films I have been part of. There are quite a lot of them. I’m popularly known as Anikisaya by most of my fans in the movie industry. I’m also a movie producer.

    How many movies have you produced?

    I’ve produced two movies, Karenibarin and Anikisayain. The third movie, entitled Ika Abuku will be released soon. My debut movie was produced in 2009, while the second was in 2011.

    There was a story that you failed to pay back the person that loaned you money to produce your first movie, is it true?

    That’s not true. It is true that I was sponsored by a guy to produce the film, but I’ve paid the loan.

    When did you discover your acting talent?

    I’ve always had a passion for acting. And my dream eventually came to reality when Lepa Shandy featured me in her film. I was, and I am still a ticketing and reservation officer.

    How many years did you work with Lepa Shandy before you became independent?

    I worked with Lepa Shandy for years. She featured me in her films and also encouraged my acting career.

    Tell us about your new movie?

    The movie, Ika Abuku, is a story of a woman dating her friend’s son. It’s a story of love, passion, romance and arrogance. Watch out for the film. It was shot at Odongunyan, Ikorodu, Lagos State. The movie is marketed by Toymax.

    Who are the major faces in the movie?

    We had actors like Fathia Balogun, Lola Idije, Kamilu Kampo, Faliwerepe, Biodun Okeowo, Kunle Adegbite, Sikirat Sindodo, Aina Gold, Baba Balogun, Ope Olusanya and my humble self.

    When will it hit the market?

    The movie will be released in two months time. We all have to keep our fingers crossed.

    What are the challenges you encountered when started your acting career?

    I didn’t really face any challenge because I didn’t lobby for jobs from male producers.

    Who are your female friends in the industry?

    They are Biodun Okeowo, Sikirat Sindodo, Biola Adebayo, Ope Olusanya and Bisola Badmus to mention a few.

    Did your parents support your acting career?

    As girl born and bred at Ojodu Berger area of Lagos, my parents didn’t support it initially because they believe actresses don’t have stable marriages. But for the fact that I have a passion for it, I had to convince them that I am really talented. Now, they are happy with me because I have not disappointed them.

    Are you married?

    I’m married now. I had my engagement in a secret ceremony recently.

    Who is the lucky man who won your heart?

    I don’t want to say anything about him on the pages of newspapers.

    Why are you not wearing an engagement ring?

    We are done with family introduction and very soon, we will invite people for our wedding this year.

    How then have you been coping with advances from men?

    I always tell them that I’m engaged.

    How true is the rumour that you are pregnant?

    I’m not too small to get pregnant. Moreover, I’m engaged to my hubby.

    Is your hubby staying with you now?

    He is always on one business trip or the other abroad. Most of the time, we speak on phone.

    Why do Nigerian actresses prefer to marry men that are not based in Nigeria?

    I’ve known him before he started travelling abroad.

    When did you meet him?

    I met him about 15 years ago.

    How do you cope when your husband is away on a business trip abroad for months?

    We are always talking on phone..

    What’s your definition of s-e-x?

    Sex is an emotional feeling between two lovers.

    Where do you see your career in years to come?

    I see myself on top of my career.

     

  • 46-yr-old mechanic kills pregnant lover, two-yr-old son

    It was a sad story of two love birds: Barely two months after an auto-mechanic, Adekunle Jegede, and his lover, Hadiza, started an affair on a pleasant note, their romance turned tragic a few days ago. Jegede was said to have killed his lover and her son while she was on a visit to his residence in Akingbade area of Ibadan, Oyo State capital.

    The father of five used to ply his trade in Ilesha, Osun State, before relocating to Ibadan when he encountered a reversal of fortune. He is said to live alone but visits his family in Ilesha periodically. He was said to have met Hadiza late last year and promised to marry her.

    The deceased was still nursing a two-year-old boy called Jonathan, who she had from a botched marriage to an unidentified man when she was living in Lagos before relocating to Ibadan when the father of her son denied paternity of the child.

    The story allegedly changed when Hadiza told Jegede she had taken in and that he was responsible for the three- month pregnancy. The development had infuriated Jegede so much so that he allegedly denied responsibility for the pregnancy.

    Hadiza then sought the intervention of one of Jegede’s siblings to plead with his brother not to deny the pregnancy. Jegede had reportedly given a condition that he would only accept responsibility for the pregnancy if doctors could confirm that he was truly responsible for it.

    Jegede, who had promised to take the deceased as his second wife, had allegedly invited her to his residence on Tuesday January 29, 2013 for a ‘crucial discussion’.

    The deceased had planned to spend the night in her lover’s house so they could both see the doctor for the test the next day Wednesday, January 30, 2013.

    Not long after the deceased went to bed, Jegede reportedly woke her from sleep asking that she accompanied him to see a friend in the neighbourhood.

    They had not walked a distance when Jegede seized the woman with her baby strapped to her back and smashed her on the ground, killing her instantly while her son cried ceaselessly.

    Apparently not ready to leave traces, Jegede allegedly killed the boy too and returned home after accomplishing his evil mission. However, concerned neighbours who had seen Hadiza the previous night asked for her whereabouts from Jegede but his response was not convincing, hence, they invited the police.

    But what could have led 46-year-old Jegede to kill his fiancée and her two-year-old son? He told the police shortly after he was arrested following a man hunt. He said: “I met her last December and she was nursing a child. She was rejected by the man who impregnated her. She started coming for weekends in my house and a few weeks later, she informed me of her pregnancy. I asked why she would say that when we ‘met’ only a few times.

    “Some days after, she came with one of my siblings about the issue and that one pleaded with me to accept it. I told them that I would only accept subject to a doctor’s confirmation that the pregnancy belonged to me. So a day before the day we were to meet the medical doctor, I asked her to come and sleep in my house so that we could go for the test the next day.

    “I hatched the plan to get rid of her shortly before midnight at the frontage of my residence. I woke her up and asked her to accompany me to a place. She strapped her baby and came with me. As we were walking along, I slowed down for her until she was a step ahead of me. When we got to a spot near a bush, I pushed her down and while she was struggling with me, I strangled her,” he said.

    He gave gory details of how he killed the innocent baby, saying: “The baby kept crying and I thought he could draw people’s attention to the scene thereby exposing me. I reached for the cloth his mother used to wrap him (Jonathan), freed him and smashed his head on the ground.”

    A neighbour had reportedly told the minions of law that there was a heated argument between Jegede and the deceased, adding that some neighbours had brokered truce between them not knowing that he was nursing any evil plan.

    The foul odour from the decomposing bodies was said to have attracted neighbours to an uncompleted building where they were kept.

    The suspect was said to have denied knowing the whereabouts of his lover until he was taken to the State Criminal Investigations Department (SCID) where he allegedly later confessed to the crime. He had initially lied to the police accusing his physically challenged boss of being responsible for his lover’s death. His tissue of lies could not, however, prevail following a thorough investigation by Inspector Dauda Animashaun and Corporal Tunde Ajibade. The two police officers handling the case exposed Jegede’s complicity in the killing of Hadiza and her son.

    A top police officer in the Oyo State Police Command, who initially confirmed Jegede’s arrest, claimed that investigations were ongoing. He added that the suspect would be arraigned in court once investigation was completed.

    Meanwhile, the suspect was arraigned on Thursday at the Iyaganku Magistrate’s Court, Ibadan on a two-count charge of murder and mutilation. Magistrate Fatimoh Badrudeen ordered that the suspect be remanded in Agodi Prisons, while the case has been adjourned till March 19, 2013.

    Commenting on the incident, a neighbour, who asked not to be named, blamed the deceased for not finding out much about the suspect before agreeing to a relationship with him.

    “The late woman is to be blamed for not being vigilant enough. She barely knew the suspect before going into a relationship with him shortly after she was thrown out of her pervious marriage. Besides, she was still nursing a baby when she started dating him and did not bother to ask him probing questions concerning his marital life.

    “The saddest part of it all is the fact that none of her family members knew the suspect and that must have been the reason why no one asked her except vigilant neighbours whose curiousity led to the arrest of her lover. The incident is, indeed, a food for thought for ladies to watch out for the kind of men they go out with.”