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  • I didn’t do BBL because I was scared of death – Tolanibaj

    I didn’t do BBL because I was scared of death – Tolanibaj

    Former BBNaija housemate, Tolani Shobajo, popularly known as Tolanibaj, has revealed the singular reason she decided against undergoing a Brazilian Butt Lift (BBL) surgery.

    According to her, she changed her mind for the fear of dying in the process.

    She disclosed this in a recent episode of the Bahd And Boujee Podcast co-hosted by her and actress, Moet Abebe.

    She said: “There was a time I wanted to do BBL but I was scared of dying. I said, ‘If my enemy should die right now is it going to be because I went under the knife? Does that make sense?’ I really tried to convince myself. I was like, ‘Okay, I would do bumbum but is it truly because of me or because I want to track more men?”

    Her co-host, Abebe inferred: “To be honest, I’m tired of seeing SpongeBobs, a lot of girls that look like ants with big bumbums and skinny legs.”

    Tolanibaj added: “Is it by force to do BBL? If you are going to do BBL, go to a good doctor and spend that money. Don’t be cheap about it.”

  • I lost my virginity at 24 – Tolanibaj

    I lost my virginity at 24 – Tolanibaj

    BBNaija reality star, Tolani Shobajo, popularly known as Tolanibaj, has revealed that she lost her virginity at the age of 24.

    According to her, she lost her virginity “very late” because she didn’t explore in her early 20s.

    She disclosed this in the latest episode of the Bahd And Boujee Podcast co-hosted by her and actress, Moet Abebe.

    Tolanibaj said: “I didn’t explore enough in my early 20s. In fact, I lost my virginity very late. I was like 24. And I lost it out of curiosity. I could have been 30 and still be a virgin. I kid you not.

    “I just wasn’t eager to see what people were talking about until I turned 24. I had sex and I was like, ‘So this is even it?’”

  • Why you should return to your exes, Tolanibaj explains

    Why you should return to your exes, Tolanibaj explains

    Reality TV star TolaniBaj has suggested that both men and women should consider reconciling with their exes, provided there is no history of abuse.

    Sharing her perspective on her social media platform, she emphasized her support for the idea of rekindling relationships with former partners.

    She stressed that as long as the ex-partner did not engage in any form of abuse, whether physical or emotional, it could be worth considering giving the relationship another chance.

    Read Also: Don’t fart around me, Tolanibaj warns future partner

    TolaniBaj further advised that if someone misses their ex, they should reach out via text message or email, even if they are blocked on other platforms.

    “I support taking exes back. As long as the person was not abusive in any form; home is where thy heart is. If you miss your EX, send a text message now & if you’re blocked, send an email.”

  • If I can’t fart beside my partner, there is problem – Anita Joseph counters Tolanibaj

    If I can’t fart beside my partner, there is problem – Anita Joseph counters Tolanibaj

    Popular Nollywood actress, Anita Joseph has weighed in on the controversial statement of former BBNaija and podcast host, Tolanibaj, over the unacceptance of a partner who farts around her. 

    The Nation reported that Tolanibaj disclosed in a tweet that she will not condone her partner farting around her in their relationship.

    She advised her potential partner to respect himself when it comes to releasing bad air when they are together.

    Read Also: Don’t fart around me, Tolanibaj warns future partner

    In reaction, Anita Joseph via a video posted on her Instagram page, noted that if her partner doesn’t fart around, it means that there is a problem.

    She wondered why she would have to excuse herself to fart simply because her man is around.

    “I don’t understand. If I can’t fart in front of my man, I’m sorry I no Dey do”, she captioned the video.

  • Don’t fart around me, Tolanibaj warns future partner

    Don’t fart around me, Tolanibaj warns future partner

    BBNaija reality star Tolani Shobajo popularly known as Tolanibaj has sent out a message to her future partner with a warning.

    According to the self-acclaimed DJ via her X account, she wouldn’t condone a partner who farts around her.

    Read Also: I’m convinced people are pretending to enjoy marriage – Tolanibaj

    Tbaj, as she is fondly called, said no matter how comfortable they are around each other, she frowns at such acts, while adding that he respects her. 

    “No matter how comfortable we are as partners, please do not fart around me. Please. Let’s have some respect,” she wrote.

  • I’m convinced people are pretending to enjoy marriage – Tolanibaj

    I’m convinced people are pretending to enjoy marriage – Tolanibaj

    BBNaija reality, Tolani Shobajo, popularly known as Tolanibaj, has claimed that many people pretend to enjoy their marriages, saying that in reality, it is the opposite.

    She said she is convinced that some married couples are pretending to enjoy their unions.

    Tolani stated this on her Snapchat page in response to a trending tweet asking people ‘what they are convinced people are pretending to enjoy’.

    The tweet read: “What are you convinced people are pretending to enjoy?” To which the reality star replied, “Marriage.”

    Read Also: Actor Michael Uba speaks on Tolanibaj’s failed relationships

    Recall that Tolanibaj recently sparked controversy after saying that what is now left in the dating pool is “remnants,” stressing that all the “good men” are taken.

    She said she has dated seven men and thought every one of them was her future husband but they always left her.

  • Actor Michael Uba speaks on Tolanibaj’s failed relationships

    Actor Michael Uba speaks on Tolanibaj’s failed relationships

    Actor Michael Uba has offered reasons why why all seven men reality star Tolanibaj dated dumped her eventually.

    Tolanibaj, in the recent episode of the Bahd And Boujee Podcast co-hosted by her and actress Moet Abebe, revealed how she has dated seven men and thought every one of them was her future husband but they always left her.

    She further noted that all the good men are taking since what is left in the dating pool are remnants.

    Reacting to this, Michael Uba advised the reality star to sit and ask herself if all seven men are the problem.

    Read Also: None out of seven men I dated married me – Tolanibaj laments

    In his words: “You’ve been with 7 men and dey are all d problem? Sit and ask urself questions. Sometimes having bad experiences in relationships doesn’t necessarily mean u are a bad person, sometimes u have a poor choice in picking partners, sometimes u don’t know how to date, sometimes u just don’t know wat it takes to keep a relationship, and finally sometimes the only tin u bring to d table is ur coughs….if u know u know.”

  • None out of seven men I dated married me – Tolanibaj laments

    None out of seven men I dated married me – Tolanibaj laments

    Reality star and disc jockey, Tolanibaj has bemoaned the rate at which none out of the seven men she had dated ended up marrying her.

    She said she has dated seven and thought every one of them was her future husband but they always left her.

    Speaking in the latest episode of the Bahd and Boujee Podcast co-hosted by her and actress Moet Abebe, she said she has concluded that what is now left in the dating pool is “remnants”, stressing that all the good men are taken.

    Read Also: Disrespectful to ask a woman about body count – Tolanibaj

    She said: “I feel like in the dating pool, we are left with remnants. The good ones are married. We hopped on the train too late. I have dated like seven guys and I thought they were the one.”

    The guest on the podcast, actor Daniel Etim-Effiong, inferred: “Tbaj, the problem cannot be all these seven guys. Maybe, the problem is you.”

  • Disrespectful to ask a woman about body count – Tolanibaj

    Disrespectful to ask a woman about body count – Tolanibaj

    Reality star and disc jockey Tolanibaj has stated that asking a woman about her body count is disrespectful .

    She argued it was unnecessary for intending couples to ask women about their s3xual histories.

    She said although she has a low body count, she doesn’t think asking a woman about her body count is right.

    The reality star spoke in the latest Bahd And Boujee Podcast episode hosted by her and actress Moet Abebe.

    Read Also: Women not meant to compete with men – Tolanibaj

    Tolanibaj said: “If a partner asks me about my exes, relationship history, I’m okay. But something I won’t answer is body count. I feel like, ‘What’s really your business?’

    “My body count is not high but I still feel like it’s disrespectful to ask a woman about her body count. It’s not because I’m ashamed to say the amount, it’s just like, ‘Who do you think you’re to be asking me that kind of question?’”

  • Women not meant to compete with men – Tolanibaj

    Women not meant to compete with men – Tolanibaj

    Former Big Brother Naija housemate, Tolani Shobajo aka Tolanibaj, has insisted competing with men as women is pointless and unnecessary.

    Tolani stated that she did not agree with the principles of feminism since she believed that women should not compete with men.

    She revealed this in an interview with nightlife king Yhemo Lee on a recent episode ‘Bahd and Boujee’ podcast, co-anchored with Moet Abebe.

    Read Also:Burna Boy buys Birkin bag for females – Tolanibaj

    According to Tolanibaj, who thinks that men and women are not equal, the woman’s purpose is to complement the male rather than compete with him.

    “I feel like women are not supposed to compete with men, they are just supposed to complement them. That’s why I can’t say I am a feminist because I don’t see how if a man is doing gra gra, as a woman I should be doing gra gra too,” she said.