Veteran actress, Toyin Adegbola, widely recognised as Toyin Tomato, has advised married women to endure infidelity and prioritise the stability of their marriages.
In a recent video, she stressed the importance of women staying in their marriages, even in the face of their husbands’ unfaithfulness.
She suggested that they should remain in their marital homes and consistently communicate with their husbands while focusing on their protection.
Toyin shared a personal story about a friend who gives her husband condoms whenever he returns to Nigeria, underscoring the necessity for women to protect themselves against infections.
“I have always told women that no matter how ‘m@d’ your husband is, never think of sending him out nor you packing out of your matrimonial home because it will end in a begging spree when your kids want to do something important in the future.
“That is when he will start saying ‘My wife must be there, my wife must be there’ and then you will also not see a single man that will want you. Wherever you are thinking of going, you are also going there to go and cheat on somebody else too.
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“Sit in your marital home and be begging him. Be protecting yourself too. I have a friend who whenever her husband is coming into Nigeria, will hand him a pack of c*ndoms. The man will now call me and be like ‘’Yeye, see what your friend gave to me ooo! Me I will not use it oo! It is who she wants to get in trouble she is looking for. Love smart!
“Men should see their wives as their firstborns as women have always seen husbands as their firstborns. No matter how a man thinks he is smart, he will still be foolish with women. It is what we want you to see that you will see. Between us and our children, it is what we want you to know that you will know”, she said.
