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  • The strength of women

    The strength of women

    “So amazing how this world was made, I wonder if God is a woman …” reads the first line of Shaggys 2003 hit single, ‘the strength of a woman’. That song remains an all time favourite of mine, and am certain of a lot of women too, if not all.

    However, God is a not a woman. But the ‘Father’ has imbued in women that inner strength and willpower that had enable us to achieve things that are sometimes beyond our imagination.

    Being a woman is not an easy task by any means. Not only because every month we have to deal with the grueling pain of our reproductive systems saying, “Hey, I’m alive and kicking!” Or having to carry another human being in us for nine months, not to mention the excruciating labour pains. But we also are constantly striving in the battle for acceptance.

    We see it on television, in magazines, and in society. The “ideal” look. How skinny we’re “supposed” to be, but how it’s disgusting if we get too skinny. And how we’re expected to have huge breasts and voluptuous rear-ends while achieving the toothpick look.

    Women are artists. We love to decorate, create, makeover, and rebuild a lot of things in life.

    A woman would date a man that is bad simply because she sees him as a project, as well as a lover. Our maternal instincts always get the better of us and we feel we can change the world and help everybody. Actually, we can and we do.

    A few days ago, I woke up with severe menstrual cramps, I tossed, turned, groaned and writhed in pains on my bed. Getting up almost every minute to visit the loo, trust me, it wasn’t funny.

    Soon, anger crept in as it became clear that I was going to miss work as a result of the damned cramp, but more because I had chores to carry out. Let me chip in here that I live with my uncle, a man in whose dictionary the word ‘excuse’ do not exist.

    So I crawled out of bed and dragged myself to the kitchen. I washed, cleaned, mopped and scrubbed, half bent the whole time like an old woman and sitting at intervals.

    Frankly, all I wanted to do at that time was lie on my bed, door shut behind me and pull all the stunts that only cramps give the ability to, but I dare not. I finished my chores and went ahead to prepare my uncles meal for when he gets back from work. Hmmmph! Tell me I’m not strong.

    This reminds me of an occurrence in my home some eight years ago. We all just returned from a trip, my family and I. I remember falling on the first couch in sight as we entered our home.

    We were all fatigued from the long journey, but apparently my dad didn’t put that into consideration as the first thing he did was to ask my mum to prepare food. Huh!? Really?

     

    He had to eat, I know. Actually, we all had to ’cause we were all hungry. But dad give mum a break. At least he should have let the woman take off her clothes. How inconsiderate. Funny thing was, my dear mother had swung into action by the time he finished his sentence. Now that’s a woman.

    We are warriors, strong and brave. Guardians, resourceful, and daring. We give and live our lives for the one’s we love. God fashioned us that way, and it takes great courage to do that.

    We adapt to and overcome almost every situation. While being fierce and strong, we also strive to maintain our soft looks. A womans strength nutures, and preserves.

    Our innate strength is creative, not destructive. It’s a life-giving force. No wonder Beyonce did that song ‘run the world’. A lot of men will openly dispute and criticize her, but deep inside, they agree to the message behind the lyrics of that song.

    We may not run the world in the literal sense of the word or phase, but we do play an indispensable role .

    The last verse of Shaggys song reads, “Tender lips that’s so so sweet

    Gentle words she softly speaks

    Such an angel when we need

    GOD bless the ground beneath her feet

    She can take you on a high

    Be your comfort when you cry

    But if you look into her eyes

    You’ll see the strength of a woman …”

    Need I say more? That’s a man pouring his heart out on the strength of a woman. If you’re a woman reading this, stand tall and proud. Walk with your head held high because you’re a force, a life-giving force.

     

     

     

     

     

  • Oyo women address plight at seminar

    THe Speaker, Oyo State House of Assembly, Alhaja Monsurat Sunmonu, has given women in the state the opportunity to speak on their challenges.

    The legislator organised an interactive forum for the women in all the 20 wards of both Oyo-East and Oyo-West local government areas.

    At the occasion held at the Durbar Stadium in Oyo town, women spoke one after the other on how they have been marginalised, neglected and persecuted in decision-making as well as in development.

    While eulogising Sunmonu for her concerted efforts in empowering and improving the status of women, they lamented some retrogressive forces said to be working against them.

    They told the Speaker: “We know your untiring commitment towards improving socio-economic status of women, but all these efforts are being thwarted and hijacked by those opposed to our well-being.

    “We need your support and assistance in order to cope with the biting economic situation in the country. We no longer want to be sidelined, discriminated or excluded in the scheme of things. It is our inalienable rights and must be given to us.”

    Responding, Hon. Sunmonu noted that women have continued to display great dynamism throughout the difficult period in the state. She said that they have displayed ingenuity and creativity in finding answers to any situation, individually at the household level, and collectively at the social level, thereby creating a conducive atmosphere for democracy and democratic governance to thrive.

    “They constitute a dynamic breeding ground within the framework of any perspective for change. The issue of women empowerment has become a matter of concern in the world, and particularly for the present administration in Oyo State. Considering their indispensable role in the society as mothers, custodians, and shapers of the society, the Ajimobi–led administration is of the conviction that empowering women is empowering the nation.”

    The Speaker assured the women that any activity that can improve their economic power would be encouraged, and that government would also encourage them to develop confidence in themselves, through exhibiting their potentials.

    Mrs. Sunmonu spoke further: “The woman exists for herself as well as for others. The seriously responsible duties she is called upon to perform in life require a cultivated head, as well as a sympathizing heart. Consequently, government would continue to provide an enabling environment for women, as well as intensify awareness campaigns among the rural dwellers for meaningful participation in the development process. This will go a long way in ensuring a bright and stable future.”

    The Speaker later donated 40 bags of rice to the women.

     

  • Women urged to be role models

    There are distinct ways in which can shape the society and make it better for everyone.

    They can use their unique positions to inculcate positive values in their children, and by so doing, help to shape a new, peaceful society in which people will love and respect one another.

    This advice was given by the Plateau State Commissioner of Women Affairs and Social Development, Mrs Olivia Dazyam while speaking at a women’s forum organised by her Ministry for women of the Plateau North senatorial zone.

    The forum entitled “Peace Summit for women on the Plateau” was organised as part of continued efforts to bring lasting peace to the troubled zone.

    Speaking further at the one-day summit, Mrs Dazyam, a lawyer, identified early marriage, teenage pregnancy, prostitution, school dropout and other social vices as being responsible for the increasing moral degradation in the society thereby increasing violence in the country and Plateau State in particular.

    She noted the neglect of parental care among women in the state create room for these ills urging the women to be more responsive to their obligations as mothers in the society.

    According to the commissioner, most parents seems to have failed to live up to their parental responsibilities of ensuring proper child up-bringing, which she stressed was needed to caution children and youths against ill-behaviors.

    Dazyam lamented the rate of HIV/AIDS in the State stressing Plateau has the 6th position in the national rating of the diseases with women being the most affected.

    She urged women to engage in meaningful economic ventures to enable them to be self reliance and take proper care of their families instead of resorting to negative behaviours.

    In a lecture, the guest lecturer at the event, and Human Right Activist Mr. Gad Shamaki in a paper presentation entitled “the role of Women in peace building” noted that women are most vulnerable in times of crises, hence the need for women to preach peace through their day to day activities both at home and at their places of work.

    He pointed out that most women have suffered violence in the hands of their biological children as a result of lack of home training to the children and such children do not hesitate to extend violence to outsiders.

    Participants at the summit pledged to remedy the situation and contribute their quota and ensure that lasting peace is achieved in the zone and the State at large.

     

  • ‘545 women die annually during child birth in Nigeria’

    ‘545 women die annually during child birth in Nigeria’

    At least 545 women die during child birth annually in Nigeria, a research carried out by the BBC Media Action has revealed.

    The National Coordinator of BBC Media Action, an NGO, Mr. Yusuf Gusau, made the disclosure on Tuesday in Gusau at a workshop organised for media practitioners and some selected NGOs and health providers on the use of contraceptives and importance of child spacing.

    He said the figure represented 10 per cent of global mortality rate with 545 mothers dying in every 100,000 live births while infant mortality had also risen to 110 in every 1,000 births in the country.

    He blamed the situation on inaccessibility and poor awareness of family planning products and methods as well as poor attitudes of the service providers.

    Yusuf said his organisation, which established another arm known as Expanded Social Marketing Project in Nigeria (ESMPIN), was already working towards creating more awareness in 15 selected states in the nation.

    He further explained that in Zamfara State, the body had selected three communities in each of the four local government areas of Bakura, Bukkuyum, Maru and Zurmi and would soon extend to more areas in the state.

    In order to achieve the set objective, the coordinator said, ESMPIN held a meeting with traditional rulers, religious and community leaders over the use of contraceptives in order to ensure that births were well spaced between children so as to achieve healthier live.

    “We are not in any way supporting abortion but we want to ensure that children are spaced for at least two years in between one birth and the next, so that infant mortality can be reduced to the barest minimum and mothers given enough time to recuperate after every child delivery,” Gusau said.

    The News Agency of Nigeria reports that the BBC Media Action is among other NGOs established to help reduce poverty, provide access to media to the rural poor, create awareness, share opinions and shape peoples’ lives so as to develop communities and earn better life.

     

  • OUR Women… Now, You WIN

    OUR Women… Now, You WIN

    THIS week’s piece is a combination of news dissemination and informed analysis, structured to specifically connect with a special target audience – our young women for their information, awareness and call to action. To be more precise, we are talking to WOMEN (female) YOUTH with innovative ideas and entrepreneurial drive, ready to bring about progressive change for a better Nigeria, based on productivity, industry and employment generation, through their readiness to take advantage of a rare but once-in-a-lifetime opportunity offered by the Federal Government’s youth empowerment and employment generation program, known as YouWIN designed for women.

    SO, THE NEWS: the President, leading the Federal Government team, has just launched the second edition of the YouWIN (Youth Enterprise with Innovation in Nigeria) program for women.

    The first time we wrote an article on YouWIN was October 9, 2011. It was shortly after the Federal Government launched the YouWIN program for the first time. We did, in that writ-up, identify with the plusses of the program, driving home the benefits inherent for our youths and the nation. The attraction remains the strategic focus for which the program was designed: to enable aggressive growth in employment, by engaging and supporting the youths. It involves the Federal Government’s massive financial investment in form of grant, training and mentoring of participants. Specifically, however, the second edition of YouWIN is designed and focused for WOMEN.

    Essentially, YouWIN is an expression of the Federal Government’s determination to create employment for our youths, drawing on their creativity, industry, determination to excel, through constructive engagement. On the government’s part, it has committed to providing grants up to N10, 000, 000 per person for investment

    Specific Objectives of the Program include to:

    • Attract ideas and innovations from young entrepreneurial aspirants from Universities, Polytechnics, Technical colleges, and other post-Secondary institutions in Nigeria;

    • Provide a onetime Equity grant for 1,200 selected aspiring entrepreneurs to start or expand their business concepts and mitigate start up risks;

    • Generate 80,000 to 110,000 new jobs for currently unemployed Nigerian youth over the three years during which the three cycles will be implemented;

    • Provide business training for up to 6,000 aspiring youth entrepreneurs spread across all geo-political zones in Nigeria;

    • Encourage expansion, specialization and spin-offs of existing businesses in Nigeria; and,

    • Enable young entrepreneurs to access a wide business professional network and improve their visibility.

    PLEASE NOTE!!!

    • YouWiN is an equity contribution to your business. It is therefore NOT A LOAN but a grant.

    • Award recipients will be paid according to the needs of the business and specific mile-stones stated in the business plan.

    • Award recipients must be registered with CAC before disbursement of funds even though they do not need to be registered to apply. YouWIN will support the registration process.

    • Award recipients will operate accounts using their registered companies with any of the participating commercial banks prior to disbursement.

    • Award recipients must sign a grant agreement with the managers of YouWiN before disbursement of funds.

    Apply Now!

    Competition Timeline

    • Mon. Sep 3, 2012 Launch of 2012/2013 Edition of the YouWiN! Business Plan Competition tagged “YouWiN! Women”.

    • Mon. Sep 3, 2012 First stage business concept submission starts after launch by President Goodluck Jonathan.

    • Sun. Oct 14, 2012 First stage business concept submission closes. No entries accepted after this date.

    • Mon. Oct 15, 2012 Marking of first stage submission by an International Business School.

    • Fri. Nov 30, 2012Notification of successful first stage candidates and invitation for training in each state of the nation.

    • Mon. Dec 10, 2012Training of the 1st set of second stage candidate starts. Trainings will be held in sets on 10 – 21 December 2012 and 2 – 11 January 2013.

    • Mon. Dec 10, 2012 Submission of second stage business plan starts on 10 December 2012 and ends 8 February 2013. Please note that only entries from candidates who attended the training and had their biometrics information collected are eligible and will be reviewed.

    • Fri. Feb 8, 2013 Submission of second stage business plan entries closes. All qualifying candidates must submit their business plans by this date.

    • Mon. Feb 11, 2013 Business plan marking commences with an international business school providing quality assurance.

    To apply, please go www.youwin.org.ng

    To us at MC&A Digest, the exciting thing about this women-directed program is the challenge it brings to our teeming population of educated, creative, focused, entrepreneurial and industrial women. To us, it is great thinking on the part of government for the ingenuity in encouraging the women towards putting their entrepreneurial spirit to work. This program puts a grant (not a loan) of up to N10m at the disposal of at least 1,200 women with demonstrable skills, abilities and creativity to start and run their own businesses and conveniently create employment for many others.

    The roll-call of female-driven businesses comes to mind at this time, across various industries. For instance, we can readily recall the Lady Cobbler (an excellent and ingenious demonstration of artistry, creativity and purposeful engagement). That enterprise has expanded exponentially, giving employment and apprenticeship to a sizeable number of men and women. We also remember the size and scope of businesses in the food vending business such as Tasty Fried Chicken brand. That brand has excelled under the watch of a woman, who has demonstrated plenty of commitment to industry, providing jobs to many across the country.

    Aside from service businesses, we know of women that are excelling in architecture and building industry, landscaping, interior decoration, auto maintenance, manufacturing, beauty products and accessories sales and distribution. With the generous provision of grants by the Federal Government, all our women need to bring to bear is intelligence, creativity, intelligence and entrepreneurship. We should have that in abundance among our women. It is also important to underscore the fact that the primary beneficiary of this program is the individual woman who stands to improve on the basic success measure of personal wealth and income, investment drive and enhanced living standard.

    Our women youth with initiative should hurry to take advantage of this rare opportunity offered by YouWIN for women program to empower themselves. That is the focus of this program. The Federal Government’s determination to empower the nation’s youth (especially the women by this unique program), should be seen as a challenge our women youth should hurry to take advantage of. It is a clarion call for the women.

    Given that the scope of commitment and support for both editions is the same, underscores the efforts towards achieving a penetrable reach-level with this program. The world is changing on all fronts, with regard to nation-building. In a recent interview on the CNN news channel, the President of Chile did capture the changes in the global pillars of development. According to him, the traditional growth pillars, according to world standard, are democracy, growing economy and literacy level. Going by the new world economic order, however, all of that has changed. Today, the new and operating pillars of development are: TECHNOLOGY, INNOVATION, ENTREPRENEURSHIP and EQUALITY. It is also instructive to note that digital and knowledge-based economy is the new development frontier. In realization of this paradigm shift, Nations are structuring their development plans and pattern around the new insight, paying particular attention to the details of change.

    On a broader scale, YouWIN initiative strikes a connect with the ENTREPRENEURSHIP ingredient for growth and nation-building. As we noted in our first article on this program, this initiative by the Federal Government is a call to duty for the youths in this country. They should take advantage of the ample opportunities offered through this program, to actualize that productive personal ambition to work for a prosperous and better Nigeria.

    YouWIN for WOMEN presents our women-youths the opportunity to join hands in building a Nigeria of our dream. Our women are highly creative, patient, innovative and industrious. These are rare qualities we must take advantage of at this time. Between October 2011 and now, the first edition of the YouWIN program has thrown up 1,200 award winners scattered across Nigeria, actualizing the projection of the Federal Government.

    Women, the opportunities have been provided in large measure. If we do not optimize the opportunity inherent, we are to blame. The grants are ready, the entry is open and the process is on. Log on today and start the process of growing into a successful entrepreneur. Empower yourself, grow your wealth, become an employer of labor. Take advantage of YouWIN for women.

    This time, YouWIN is all about you our women!

  • Saudi clears women above 45 for Hajj

    Nigerian women above 45 years have been cleared to travel alone for pilgrimage. Those below 45 are still required to travel with a companion.

    No fewer than 1,000 Nigerian women have been deported from Saudi Arabia for travelling without Guarantor in their entry visas to the holy land for the Hajj.

    But the Consul of Saudi Arabia in Kano yesterday said in a statement that “female pilgrims who are above 45 years of age can perform the annual Hajj without guarantor, while those below the 45 years should have their guarantors indicated in their passports in the name of respective pilgrims welfare boards managements.”

    The latest development has given hope to the deported female pilgrims who are qualified to travel back to Saudi Arabia for the holy pilgrimage.

    According to an official letter from the Saudi Consular office in Kano, deported female pilgrims below the age of 45 must have Muharram (Individual Guide) registered on their passports while it is not necessary for those above 45.

    The Saudi authority warned that it will strictly apply the guidelines, saying officials handling pilgrims should strictly comply to avoid any possible embarrassment.

    Executive Secretary of Kano State Pilgrims Welfare Board Alhaji Laminu Rabi’u, said the Board has made necessary arrangement to transport back the deported pilgrims.

  • Still on Nigeria@52: Where is the love? The rights of Women at work; Police palaver

    Still on Nigeria@52: Where is the love? The rights of Women at work; Police palaver

    Nigeria or at least the electorate is still searching for a truly great selfless Nigerian with the love of Nigeria and the love of Nigerians as the cornerstone of his or her presidential policy thrust. As we ‘celebrate’ 52 years let us ‘cerebrate’ on the huge lack of achievement during that time compared with God-given resources, mineral, manpower and mental. If Ghana had a 100th of what we had, imagine where Ghana and Ghanaians would be now. We are also constantly reminded to look at Indonesia where imaginative leadership motivated by a deep love of Indonesia and Indonesians resulted in that Asian tiger riding on palm oil plantations originating from Nigeria. So we may be one year older, but are we one year better or one year wiser?

    The idea that the federal budget is for stealing needs a change. An anniversary is a good time to swear renewed allegiance and oaths to the country and citizenry. Of course they have been sworn but did they mean anything beyond photo-op for the paparazzi and yawning time for local channel viewers?

    I join millions of fellow Nigerians to apologise to our female police, rank and file, for the law that forbade them to marry or have children for three years after joining up and needing more than automatic permission to marry. Perhaps such a law exists throughout many uniformed and civil service institutions and even some banks et cetera may have such secret policies. I hate to think how many of them were forced to compromise themselves with immoral senior officers in order to get that ‘Permission To Marry’ stamp. In Nigeria nothing is as it seems and exploitation of employees is seen to be a right for the ‘authority figures’. They see nothing wrong with such bestial behaviour as ‘that was what so-and-so did in the ‘glorious past’, so why should they be any better?’ Nigerians will exploit every loophole and this is why we need much more good high level monitored policing from a better equipped, better focused police service than is available at present. Our police service must join the 21st century police services in many areas including human rights and employees’ rights. Giving birth is a national service –hence maternity leave. Some of the police stations are unworthy of the name with no facilities or amenities for the police- male and especially, female.

    The old standard Nigeria Police station should be re-designed with a leaf taken from South African Police stations, though the South African Police let Africa down by creating Soweto Two by shooting 44 miners and then accusing the miners of murder under an old obnoxious apartheid law. Police equipment referred to above includes every police station utilising locally available IT know-how with computerising of the police station and digital cameras to record crime scene and detained suspects for criminal face recognition records and fingerprints to avoid the Ibori incident, intelligence and weapons.

    Every policeman should have a pre-paid cell phone. This ‘no marry’ is blatantly discriminatory as it did not forbid men from doing the same. In these days of men developing cold feet over marriage for financial and other reasons, such a law complicates an already difficult situation further. Let us remember that reproducing is a national responsibility which keeps the population steady or growing. This obnoxious rule should have been thrown out years ago by the Police Service Commission and must be thrown out by the NASS if it has not already done so. It is as bad as the old Maternity Leave Law which gave ‘Six weeks before and six weeks after delivery’ under which most Nigerian mothers in employment would lose days and weeks if she gave birth earlier than was predicted by her Last Menstrual Period (LMP) or did not start leave early enough. Most women have always desired to work longer to around 36 weeks so as to get about 8-10 weeks with the baby post-delivery before having to send them to creche or give them up to a nanny at home. It was an avenue for extortion from the helpless women by unscrupulous doctors who had to sign the maternity leave forms especially for civil servants. I personally fought for years, and successfully, to get the Maternity Leave Law to be a consolidated to read ‘12 weeks maternity leave, regardless of the date of delivery’. Unfortunately some retrogressive elements in the federal and state governments are still living in the past and insisting on cancelling any leave not used fully if the delivery comes before six weeks into the maternity leave. By using the ’12 weeks consolidated Maternity Leave’ we were able to eliminate frustration of the mothers, a mountain of paperwork as the date the mother wanted was when the leave started and fraud from medical personnel colluding for money to alter maternity dates. The women in NASS and state assemblies should fight to ensure that the ’A Pregnant Woman is Entitled To 12 weeks Consolidated Maternity Leave’ is what is being practiced in their areas. Enough of cheating women. Women must demand their rights to pregnancy and full three months maternity leave. For Police or the public, ‘Pregnancy is a National Service’ lasting much longer than nine months and still too many fellow Nigerian women die trying to complete this service. What will Nigeria@53 bring? Is there any ‘Love for Nigeria’ out there?

     

     

  • Sharia Law: Endless violence against women

    Sharia Law: Endless violence against women

    It shook the world. International organisations were involved. Ambassadors of various countries discussed safety measures, Oprah Winfrey mobilised more than 1.2 million people to protest and Human Right Watch was under severe pressure to act.

    It was an exclusive story published by Daily Mirror on August 24, 2002 about the case of Amina Lawal, a 30-year-old woman from Kastina in Northern Nigeria who was sentenced to death by stoning on August 19 of the same year, by an Islamic court for adultery and conceiving a child out of wedlock. She was to be taken, buried to the neck in the earth and left to perish beneath a hail of rocks.

    The story was that of oppression by one gender upon another. Even though Ms Lawal’s case was overturned, the issue of stoning to death still exist in countries like Indonesia, Afghanistan, Iraq, Iran, Saudi Arabia, Sudan and Somalia.

    Professor Hauwa Ibrahim, the pro bono lawyer who handled Ms Lawal’s case ten years ago, confirmed that this form of violence and injustice never existed until 2000 when religious cleric feared for the effects of globalisation on their women. She said: “Globalisation through Nollywood, Hollywood and Bollywood was exposing women to nudity, so the Sharia Law was introduced to protect women which ended up destroying them and introducing a huge form of violence.”

    Furthermore, there are misconceptions surrounding the fact that stoning to death is supported by the Holy Book of Qur’an. This is untrue. The only part of the Qur’an that describes punishment for adultery or fornication is Qur’an 24:2 which states that: “The [unmarried] woman or [unmarried] man found guilty of sexual intercourse- lash each one of them with a hundred lashes, and do not be taken by pity for them in the religion of Allah and the Last Day. And let a group of the believers witness their punishment.”

    While the law provides that women are stoned to death, the father of Ms Lawal’s daughter was not prosecuted for lack of evidence. He was deemed innocent by the court without any DNA tests. However, the punishment for men in the Sharia Law is based on three proofs. One is confession, the second is pregnancy and the third is that four witnesses must see the sexual act before a man can be convicted. How possible is that?

    Professor Ibrahim confirmed that the law is in the book but the judges in Nigeria no longer pass judgement of stoning. One obvious reason is the international interest which Ms Lawal’s case attracted and the other is the notion that corruption has crept into the system. Judges in Northern Nigeria whose children get pregnant fly them abroad to avoid conviction and open disgrace. The Professor of Harvard University also said she is working with Nigerian lawyers and other countries especially in Pakistan, Palestine and Iraq to see that the law is abrogated.

    Ms Lawal who lived in a tiny room made with mud and a thatched roof in 2002 was arrested in her home. She could neither read nor write. She didn’t understand the law. Her first marriage was at the age of 14. She had five children after which she became divorced. Two years later, she had a daughter for another man who had promised to marry her but denied her in court.

    Her case is a typical example of religious violence existing in developing countries. Women worldwide face different forms of injustice. They are vulnerable to abuse, domestic violence and rape. In Northern Nigeria where Ms Lawal comes from, when a boy is born, friends and relatives exclaim congratulations! A son means insurance. He will inherit his father’s property; get a good job to help support the family. When a girl is born, the reaction is different. Some women weep when they find out their baby is a girl. Her place is in a man’s house and when she is between ages 12- 14 she is given out in marriage.

    Some of these women end up being used as machines to produce children. Professor Ibrahim recollected a case she handled in January. It was a case of a well known man [name withheld] in Nigeria who married his first wife and for several years she couldn’t produce children. “So, he had to marry a second wife. The second wife was more productive. In six years of marriage they had five male children. When he knew he had what he wanted, he started maltreating her and he decided to divorce her. We couldn’t get the settlement out of court but now the case is before a magistrate court.”

    In some countries, deliberate attempts are made to reduce the female population. United Nations Children’s Fund (UNICEF) estimates that around 5,000 Indian women are killed in dowry-related incidents each year. The gender ratio across India has dropped to an unnatural low of 929 females to 1,000 males due to infanticides and sex related abortions. Also, the Chinese government claims that sex-selective abortion is one major explanation for the staggering number of Chinese girls who have simply vanished from the population in the last 20 years.

    UNICEF in a press statement on violation of women rights in developing countries said “A combination of extreme poverty and deep biases against women create a remorseless cycle of discrimination that keeps girls in developing countries from living up to their full potential. It also leaves them vulnerable to severe physical and emotional abuse.”

    Injustice against women is a devastating reality. UNICEF continued: “It results in millions of individual tragedies, which add up to lost potential for countries. Studies show there is a direct link between a country’s attitude towards women and its progress socially and economically. The status of women is central to the health of a society.”

    Professor Ibrahim recollected that Ms Lawal’s case officially ended in 2003. By 2004, she was remarried and again faced maltreatment from her husband. He beat her up and when she was six months pregnant, he divorced her.

    Ms Lawal, alone again with a child kicking inside of her struggled through life until she had the baby who she named Miriam. In 2010, she remarried again but this time Mrs Ibrahim says; “I can’t tell if she is happily married or not.”

    While the Human Right Watch and Amnesty International claim they have grip of violence against women around the world, Senior Researcher on gender in Open University Oxford, Dr. Tina Wallace said nobody has the true data of how much domestic violence, religious violence or discrimination women endure. She said: “I don’t think anybody has that kind of data. Who are these women going to tell? Who knows what goes on behind closed doors? I don’t think there is a significant difference between religious and domestic violence against women because a lot of domestic violence are based on religious understanding of men being superior to women and women owing men allegiance. You can’t separate religion from domestic violence.”

    Dr Wallace, whose research is mainly on women in Africa, added that: “These are really difficult issues that go to the heart of marriages, their culture and the way they have been brought up. Even here in the UK, it is a very difficult subject to tackle; we have loads of homes with domestic violence a lot of which is not known.”

    However, Sarah Haynes, grassroots campaigns officer, Women for Women International; said they work extensively with women to address violence when it is reported. She said: “We are helping women deal with the trauma in African continent especially in Congo, Rwanda, South Sudan and Nigeria where gender crisis is ongoing. These women are sponsored for one year to equip them with the skills to contribute to the society without bearing hangovers from their past hurt.”

    Head of Centre for Gender and Violence Research Bristol University, Professor Marianne Hester says gender injustice has increased in various dimensions. She said this increase has a link to decreasing services in the most countries.

    In her view, the injustice melted on women especially in developing countries would tremendously reduce “if men begin to address their violent behaviour and also there should be a measure to call for equalising of gender.”

    Researcher and director of Tilda Goldberg Centre for Social Work and Social Care, University of Bedfordshire, Dr Sarah Galvani said: “It is totally unacceptable to abuse women in any way because it perpetuates the subjugation of women and convey messages to young and old that women are not men’s equals and deserve to be treated as lesser beings.”

    To reduce or eradicate this form of injustice, she said: “a start would be to introduce and enforce laws that suitably punish those that abuse women. More so, services and support for women in need of protection should be intensified.”

    Mrs Oby Okonkwo, Nigerian gender activist and a lawyer for about 30 years said progress has been made through organisations like International Federation of Women Lawyer (FIDA) and Women’s Rights Advancement and Protection Alternative (WRAPA) in Northern areas to educate them of their rights as women.

    She however lamented that most “women are scared of speaking out as a result of the stigma they could face after bringing their problem to public eye.”

    As for Ms Lawal, who represents the voiceless, poor, powerless uneducated woman, 10 years on, she is still struggling to endure life.

    Professor Ibrahim who also escaped marriage at the age of 12 but ‘accidentally’ became educated said “Education is the tool that can help break the pattern of gender injustice and bring lasting change for women in developing countries.”

    UNICEF 2011 report says, nine million girls than boys miss out of school every year.

    Chinonye is currently studying for an MA in International Journalism at Cardiff University, U.K