Tag: Womenfolk

  • Aisha to womenfolk: Vote Buhari as you did in 2015

    Wife of the president, Hajiya Aisha Muhammadu Buhari, yesterday launched the women and youth campaign for her husband in Kano.

    Speaking at the official launchof the 2019 general election campaign for women and youth at Sani Abacha Indoor Stadium, Kano, Aisha was optimistic that her husband would win re-election.

    She said she joined her husband in campaign in 2015 because of the laudable empowerment programmes the All Progressive, Congress planned for Nigerians.

    According to her, “These programmes are now being implemented by the FG through the office of the vice president. In 2015, my husband won election without giving a penny to Nigerians, therefore, I am optimistic that come February 16, he will again win re-election.”

    She urged women and youth across the country to vote for Buhari and other APC candidates at all levels.

    On his part, Kano State Governor, Dr Abdullahi Umar Ganduje, assured the president that Kano would deliver more votes for him come February 16.

    Ganduje said the APC-led government had executed laudable projects in the state and the electorate would no doubt re-elect the party in the subsequent elections.

     

  • Equipping womenfolk via TFD

    The Ikoyi Obalende Local Council Development Area (LCDA), Lagos State, in collaboration with African Radio Drama Association, has projected the identity of the womenfolk using dance drama as its theatre for development (TFD) focus, reports ADEGUNLE OLUGBAMILA.  

    To mark this year’s International Women’s Day (IWD), Ikoyi Obalende Local Council Development Area (LCDA) held a sensitisatision programme for women.

    With this year’s theme as Press for progress, the organisers decided the path of dance drama to project their message. The event, which was held at YMCA hall, Ikoyi, was in collaboration with the African Radio Drama Association (ARDA), a development communication organisation. It was meant to educate women in the council on the need put on a new garb and reassert themselves globally.

    Conceptualised by ARDA, the dance drama, titled: ‘Together we can’ echoed synergy among the womenfolk, while also encouraging them to take on more political responsibilities.

    Going down memory lane, ARDA’s executive director, Mrs Alison Data Phido, recounted how Nigeria’s first female permanent secretary, Mrs Francesca Emanuel, changed the inequality in the civil service which as at then, placed the male above their female counterparts in terms of salaries, allowances and promotions. Though Mrs Emmanuel corrected the discrepancy by fighting it out at the executive council meeting, Phido, nonetheless, lamented that the nation appeared to have relapsed into a male dominated society.

    “The Beijing Platform for Action called for 35 per cent minimum of national legislative seats to be reserved for women. In Nigeria we are nowhere close to this. We have even gone backwards rather than forward on this. In 2007, there were nine female senators, in 2011 they dropped to eight. We had 27 women in the house of Reps in 2007, 25 in 2011. Currently there are seven in Senate and 20 in the House of Representatives. That’s the result of complacency. You lose ground,” said Phido in her speech titled: ‘Women supporting women is good for society’.

    Despite the lacuna, Phido is optimistic that Nigerian women, if well determined and focused, could attain the Rwandan status, an African country which today boasts of having the highest representation of females in the Parliament.

    “No wonder it’s (Rwanda) one of the most progressive economies in the developing world. That’s a country that was only recently recovering from terrible war and genocidal.  This situation didn’t happen by chance. It took a lot of women’s voices and women’s votes. We should all align ourselves with this year’s call to action: Press for progress. Let’s not be complacent,” Philo further admonished.

    Similarly, she enjoined womenfolk to actively participate in forums where issues affecting them are discussed. He equally admonished women to lend a helping hand to fellow women going through domestic abuse and other financial and emotional trauma.

    Executive Chairman of the Ikoyi Obalende LCDA, Fuad Atanda-Lawal, regretted the high illiteracy rate among women as against men, advocating improved education for the girl child towards attaining gender equilibrium.

    He said: “On our part, the council shall remain committed to the empowerment of women and gender equality. We are also pledging more empowerment initiatives which we believe will strongly impact more on women.”

    Atanda-Lawal encouraged women not to let anyone hold them back from achieving their dreams as they always have a place in society. He added that it is the government’s duty to allow women thrive in the society.

    While addressing the women, he did not leave the men out. He advised men to befriend their girls and give them listening ears.

    She encouraged fellow women to stand side by side their husbands; adding that despite women’s traditional role in the kitchen they can as well hold key positions at work.

    Another speaker Matilda Olajumoke Otitoloju of Iyaniwura Children Care Foundation, who bemoaned a wave of rape especially among female teenagers, advised mothers to befriend their daughters and not shut them up when they speak. Despite their traditional role in the kitchen, Otitoloju said that should not pose any hindrance towards them attaining the peak of their careers.

    The council’s Head of Department (Women Affairs and Poverty Alleviation (WAPA) Mrs Ottun Rashidat also described the partnership with ARDA as laudable.

    Having gone through ARDA’s proposal, Ottun said she realised that the organisation’s objectives tally with the council’s, hence the marriage.

    “This dance drama and other side attractions are an avenue to have interactive session with our women, and the feedback we get from them have been quite encouraging,” she said.

    Meanwhile, ARDA’s project manager Rebecca Ebenezer-Abiola, said the organisation has existed for 21 years focusing on developmental programmes such as climate change, maternal health, malaria, HIV, among others mostly using Theathre for development (TFD) as weapon of communication.

    Ebenezer-Abiola said having come this far, ARDA is now considering re-stategising to tackle its financial lacuna. “Our greatest challenge is finance!,” she said adding, “We have always depended on donor agencies but now we are  thinking more creatively to ensure our programmes are more sustainable. We are 21, but hope to be around in another 21 years.”

  • West African women lament plight of womenfolk

    WOMEN from various West African countries have decried the predicament of the female folks in the society. They called on governments in the sub region to rise to the occasion and curtail the menace, which, according to them, is assuming a worrisome dimension.

    The women made the call in Lagos during commemoration of the international day of 16 days activism for the elimination of violence against girl, boy and women in the society organised by the West African Women Association (WAWA).

    The participants were enraged when Mrs Sodeinde, a participant narrated how a commercial motorcycle association boss in Ketu area sexually abused a newly married bride. Before she could finish narrating the story, the president of WAWA, Dr Beatrice Ubeku, quickly made arrangement for the victim to get justice.

    They also lamented the despicable treatment given to women in Ghana. A participant from the country said: “When a woman puts to bed in Ghana, the question often asked by the people is if the woman gave birth to a human being or the other way round. This is an unfair and a callous way of describing the female gender.”

    Dr Violet Arene, the popular television presenter, frowned at the idea of using the girl-child as suicide bombers, saying: “I feel pained when I hear that our children are being used as suicide bombers. It is sheer wickedness and totally unacceptable. I want us to map out plans to stage a peaceful protest against all forms of violence against women. I also want to enjoin every woman out there that does not have formal education to endeavour to have it so that they can know their rights in the society and have a good understanding of how to get it.”

    Speaking, Dr Ubeku said: “Any form of violence is anachronistic. However, the worst form of violence against women is domestic violence. We are talking about the commemoration of United Nations 16 action programme.” While acknowledging that any form of violence against woman is evil and condemnable, all the violence that exists stem from the home front. About 21 percent of violence against women is domestic.

    “Do we have laws against these acts of dehumanisation? Yes, we do, but they are not much implemented. We are here today to x-ray the roles of the law, society and individuals in the perpetration of violence against women. WAWA has been at the forefront of fighting for women and children deprived of the means of livelihood, love and hope for tomorrow through our empowerment events. These efforts have been quite successful.”

  • Womenfolk and the fibroids challenge

    Womenfolk and the fibroids challenge

    For ages, fibroids tumour have posed a serious impediment to the wellbeing of African women, torturing many to no end and denying many the joy of beholding their fruit of the womb. To make matters worse, a lot of myths, fear and terror have been built around it, giving it a rather gargantuan image. Gboyega Alaka attempts an unraveling of the disease.

    Oghenetegha is 45 years old, married, with a 13-year-old lonely daughter. ‘Tegha (as she is called for short) had Onome in the very first year of her marriage with her husband, John, but has not been able to have another child since then. She revealed that she and her husband tried several times for another child without success, with a couple other successes ending in miscarriages. At a point, she sought doctors’ opinion and was soon told that she had fibroids growing inside her. That, she said, in a way explained why her stomach was growing and why she sometimes felt some movement in her stomach.

    The doctors advised for prompt surgery to clear out the unwanted occupant, but Tegha would not hear of it. Operation? Go under the knife and get herself killed? No! According to Tegha, she had heard enough news of women dying in an attempt to clear out the fibroid growing in their tummy, that she’d rather look for other alternatives. So, no, she thanked the doctors, and rebuffed all attempts by her husband to convince her. Instead, Tegha embraced other touted alternatives of local herbs, Indian herbs and concoctions, to no avail.

    Late last year, she met a doctor relative of hers who told her to come over to the Lagos State University Teaching Hospital in Ikeja. She later found out that the reason for the invitation was for her to see how women come in for the operation and come out thanking God for a successful process. The relative doctor, her cousin, explained to her that the mortality rate for such operations is now very low and that women rarely die anymore. August 2014 was therefore a month of joy for her, as she successfully had the unwanted occupant of her innards removed. Mercifully, her womb was also left intact, and as you read this report, Tegha is about six months pregnant.

    If Tegha has a beautiful story to tell at the end of the day, maybe not quite so for Munirat yet. Mercifully, she has two issues already, a boy and a girl, who are now both in the university. But that’s the much she can recall in terms of marital bliss. For 17 years, she hasn’t had sex – not with her husband, though not divorced; and not with any other man at that. Munirat’s husband, Adewale, travelled to Europe in search of a better life right after they had their second child in 1998. At the time, it was good news to the family and hopes were high for a soon better life. But after two years rolled into ten and now approaching two decades, without any chance of Munirat joining her husband in Europe, all the hope eventually petered out. Adewale hasn’t been able to get a work/residency permit or citizenship, and so can neither step out of the UK nor travel home to see his family. Any attempt would mean forfeiting all he has achieved in that country; as he would not be able to get past the immigration guys again.

    About a decade after her husband left, Munirat began developing a protruding abdomen and having some growing sensation in her tummy. Eventually doctors diagnosed that she had fibroid. They recommended some drugs, to no avail. In her desperation, she also tried herbs and other local stuffs; but without any remarkable success.

    As you read this, the fibroid has so grown to a stage where she sometimes bleeds really badly and is sometimes forced to branch in any nearby house to clean-up and re-pad. She recalled a certain occasion when she had to branch into her in-laws house around Iyana-Ipaja after the bleeding became unbearable and uncontrollable. “I just noticed that passers-by were taking a second look at me in a curious manner. Apparently, they thought I was menstruating and was one of those careless women who couldn’t keep a tab on their time. But I still didn’t understand until a certain lady moved close to me and whispered in my ears that I had blood stains all over my backside!”  You can imagine how embarrassed I was. That is my fibroid story. And could you believe this is all because of my husband? Doctors told me it has been able to grow so uncontrollably because I haven’t been having sex, and that regular sex could have suppressed it.

    “To make matters worse, my husband, for whom I am carrying this cross has gone to take another wife and is in fact, raising another family in the UK now. He apparently got tired of trying to get me a passage over, and being a man, he eventually succumbed to the emotional urge to get himself a woman. In truth, I may not be able to totally blame him, but nevertheless, it is painful.”

    Asked why she hasn’t gone for a surgery to evacuate the unwanted tumour, Muninat screamed “No! You don’t want me to witness my children’s wedding and nurse my grandchildren? My best friend died while trying to remove her fibroid through an operation. You want me to suffer the same fate?”

    Munirat would therefore rather bear the pain and ignominy, than take any ‘life-threatening risk.’

    As for Patience, 55, who lost her husband about four years ago, the greatest gift her late husband bequeathed on her was paying for her fibroid surgery. She was married to her husband for about 25 years without a child; looking back, she regretted that she didn’t undertake the operation earlier, to take out the tumour, as her husband took ill and died months after he had assisted her in evacuating the tumour. Had she been able to summon courage early enough, she imagined that she could have had more time with her husband and maybe carried a pregnancy successfully to have a child. So for now, she remains childless and not sure of her chances anymore. But she looks onto God with hope.

    Scary statistics

    Until recently, the mortality rate for fibroids operation in Nigeria was scary. More of the time, the stories were always of fatality: of patients bleeding to death, not coming back to life after the operation; or in the more benign yet grave alternative, the woman’s womb had to be taken out. Whatever the outcome, it was more like a cul-de-sac option.

    But should treating come with so much terror and horror?

    Online journal, Web MD in a piece titled: Fibroid Tumors: What Every Woman Must Know states that; “There probably isn’t a woman alive who doesn’t feel a wave of terror, when her doctor mentions the word tumour. But when it’s a fibroid tumour, experts say there is little to fear. There is virtually no threat of malignancy – and there are a number of excellent treatment options…”

    The above statement is credited to Steve Goldstein, MD, professor of obstetrics and gynaecology of the New York University (NYU) Medical Centre, who is by all means an authority in the field; but from the stories of the African (Nigerian) women told above and the grave fears exhibited, it might appear that his statement is based solely on the American society and its excellent medical facility and personnel.

    That piece also describes fibroid tumours as being “composed of renegade muscle cells that come together to form a fibrous “knot” of “mass” within the uterus.”

    It also categorised fibroids, based on their locations; hence the Submucosal fibroids, located just under the uterine lining; Intramural fibroids, which lies between the muscles of the uterine wall; and the Subserol fibroids, which extends from the uterine wall into the pelvic cavity.

    It also explains that “fibroids most commonly occur between ages 30 and 40, with black women at greatest risk.” And that, “at least one genetic link has been identified, indicating that fibroids may also run in families (be hereditary).

    For some women fibroids cause no symptoms, but when they do, doctors say problems often ‘involve heavy menstrual periods and prolonged bleeding;’ and sometimes ‘abdominal pain or swelling and increased urination.’

    Dr A. A.Adewunmi, Senior lecturer/Hon. Consultant, Obstetrician and Gynaecologist at the Lagos State University Teaching Hospital, Ikeja, Lagos corroborates the part about women of black race. He said: “Not all women are susceptible to fibroid, but majority of the women are susceptible to fibroid- particularly women of the black race. For instance, it is more prominent in black women than white women; and when we talk of prominence, we’re talking about between 7 to 8 out of every 10 women.”

    He also explained that a lot of women have fibroids and hardly know until it has become troublesome or began to show symptoms of science. He also corroborates the part about the tumour not being malignant, putting the probability of it being malignant at 1 to100,000.

    Dr Adewunmi however said the cause of fibroids, like cancer is not known, and that also accounts for the reason why it has no known cure yet – except hysterectomy, which is the removal of the womb.

    He said fibroids tumour is occasioned more by lack of use of the uterus. “The womb is supposed to be carrying a baby, and if the womb or uterus is not carrying a baby for a long period of time, something else will grow there because – as he put it: “nature abhors vacuum.”

    He explained that this is unfortunately more like an indictment of the good girls who choose to live the chaste life. “That’s why it is usually said that ‘bad girls have babies, while the good girls have fibroids’ – the good girls are keeping their body because they’re not yet married, so that place is left empty…” And by the time they get married maybe around 30 or 35, they may discover that they already have fibroids.

    7 out of 10 women would rather try alternative medicine first

    As a quick survey, this reporter spoke to ten women randomly within Lagos metropolis on whether they would immediately consent to undergoing surgery to take out troublesome fibroid tumours. Most of them amazingly said they would rather go for local herbs, sounding rather confident that there are herbs that can take care of it, hence they cannot go and take any life-threatening risk in the name of surgery. In all, seven out of the ten women spoken to denounced the surgical process. One even swore that she knows a trado-medical practitioner who does it without stress.

    ‘We’ll make her deliver deliver the fibroids like a baby’- Herb dealer

    Alhaja Shakirat Okegbenro, a senior dealer in herbs and other local therapy stuff in Ikotun market, Lagos, says traditional medicine is capable of taking care of fibroid tumours. Contrary to persistent debunking by orthodox medical practitioners’, she said they would put the patient on local herbs medication, known in Yoruba as ‘agbo’, and after sometime, “she would deliver the fibroids as if she is delivering a baby.”

    She dismissed in strong terms the claim that the only definitive treatment for fibroids is surgery. There are herbs that we administer in addition to other stuffs that we burn and ask them to take with hot drink.

    Asked how long a patient would use the local herbs before she is eventually delivered of the fibroid tumour, Alhaja Okegbenro said, “that varies depending on the individual’s body system and resistance or adaptability to the herbs. But surely, she would be delivered of it.

    She however would not reveal the type of herbs they use, whether in part or whole, arguing that “that is our own trade secret.”

    Interestingly, traditional herb dealers seem to agree with orthodox medicine that fibroids are present in most, if not all women. She said any woman, who does not have fibroids may not be able to have a child of her own.

    It’s all lies

    But Dr. Adewunmi vehemently debunks this claim, saying most of the time they are causing more harm than good.

    “That’s where we get most of our terrible cases. They would claim anything.” He explained that as a result of the things they give the women to insert in their vagina and the corrosive effects and scar it leaves behind; most marriages have had to break up because the couple can no longer enjoy the pleasure of sex, because penetration has become near impossible. “I operate fibroids on a weekly basis here and if I tell you what I see….  A lot of cases are so hopeless, because the women have gone round and round. Some have even lost their marriages because they can no longer have sex; hence the pleasure of marriage is no longer there. I mean, when you insert a corrosive into her vagina that would burn it off, chances are that the penis may not even be able to go into the woman up to half way, and so the man abandons the woman. I have seen several cases like that, not ten, not twenty!”

    Thanks to the activities of these so-called ‘medical practitioners,’ he said it is hard to really assess the mortality rate of fibroid operation in this present day, because the women would have patronised them and made a very terrible case of a bad situation.

    Almost in a fit of anger, Dr. Adewunmi said, “Somebody cannot have a tumour and then you turn around and say she should just rub something and it would disappear. Most times, what they see and claim to be fibroids coming out of the women’s private part are clotted blood. I’ve been practising medicine for over thirty years, so I should be able to tell you certain things categorically!”